“I Thwarted This Attempt”: Woman Calls Shelter To Stop Ex-Friend From Adopting Kitten
No matter how many times animal experts say that getting a pet is a huge responsibility, some people just don’t get the message.
So when one Reddit user learned that their former friend could not comprehend how to treat a cat, they took it upon themselves to prevent the woman from getting another kitten.
In their recent post on the subreddit ‘Petty Revenge,’ the unsung hero explained how they informed the rescue that the woman contacted about her past, helping the organization to understand the kind of owner she would be, and reminding us that we can care for animals in a multitude of ways even if we don’t adopt them ourselves.
This person knew the kind of cat owner their former friend was
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So when she wanted a new kitten, they made sure she couldn’t get it
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As we can see, not everyone can have pets
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If you live on your own property, have secure employment, have no other animals, and expect to stay home more often than not, congratulations, you’re on the path to becoming an ideal cat owner.
Another indicator of your preparedness is your bank account. A feline can cost about $700 annually, and it could be more in the first year. Between spay/neuter surgery, microchip, relevant vaccinations, and all the necessary gear and supplies for the home, the sum can be prohibitive for many hopeful adopters.
Despite her unsuccessful previous attempt, it sounds like the woman from the Reddit post perceives cats as low-maintenance and easy to care for. While they aren’t as demanding as, for example, dogs, they still need daily interaction, vigorous exercise, and a proactive approach to all of their needs (from litter scooping to meal planning).
Plus, many cats nowadays are living well into their second decade, and if you are unable to provide care and nurturing for them for their entire life, you’re just not ready for a cat. The important thing to remember is that someday you might be.
To make sure potential pet owners are ready, many organizations have developed an application process
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Organizations do their best to connect people and pets with those that fit them.
The Humane Society, for instance, has its own application process, and if they feel an applicant isn’t ready, they offer education.
“We work with people as they come in because we know the animals here and the kind of home they would benefit from,” said Amber Ly, shelter manager at the Broome County Humane Society.
“It’s crucial that people are prepped for an animal,” Ly added. “For first-time pet owners, we push education on having an animal. There is a lot that is involved, a lot of research, making sure what health concerns are out there and being prepared financially because things happen all the time.”
“We have an application process for dogs and cats with several questions, like do you own your home or rent, and if you rent, we will check with your landlord to make sure it is OK.”
“We also ask for several references and questions about lifestyle to make sure the animal is a good match for the home.”
You can’t automatically assume that a cat will thrive in your home. But if you put the time and effort into giving the animal all the help you can, it probably will.
Hopefully, the woman from the Reddit post will eventually realize this.
The author of the post joined the discussion in its comments to share more information on her former friend
And people applauded their actions, sharing their similar stories as well
People don’t get that you are quite literally breaking the toe bones, and taking those bones out. A Veterinarian once told me that is the cruelest coolest thing somebody can do to an animal, esp a pet that you’re supposed to love unconditionally & protect them from harm.
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My kitties and their murder mittens thank the OP. Declawing a cat is cruel. It should be illegal everywhere and any vet who practises it should have their licence revoked.
I don’t understand why it’s legal to amputate and disable a cat. Why is the rationale of the medical professional for doing it? I KNOW vets don’t think furniture is more important than the animal being able to be intact n order to protect himself, so why do they do it? (Aside from money, I mean. I can’t imagine a vet saying “I know it’s horrifying, but I need the money.” Those folks became vets because of their love for animals!) I totally don’t understand how we’re allowed to do this in the US. Can anyone enlighten me, please?
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40 years ago, I did not understand how cruel declawing was. After my first cat, Bob, I came to understand. I find it hard to believe vets are still willing to do it. I apologize for my early ignorance. Poster was totally in the right for blocking that woman from torturing another cat
There was a different mentality in the vet industry back then. The vet's office I worked for stopped declawing around three years after I started working there. The vet hasn't declawed a cat in 15 years, and when she did do them, we kept them for 3 days on a fentanyl patch to minimize pain. I am proud to say that I told her flat out that I was going to stop making appointments for declaws. She looked at me mildly surprised and said, "Okay". If anyone asked after that, I would tell them we don't do it, don't recommend it, and don't know what other hospitals do it. I'm not making that shít easy for them.
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My two were declawed before I adopted them. I noticed immediately how deformed their paws are now and how they walk differently and it makes me sad for them.
If you cannot accept the fact that cats comes with claws, then a cat is not the right pet for you. Get a tortoise instead if you care more for you furniture that the wellbeing of living animal, and don't know enough about bounderies to forsee when you'll get scratched.
Hahaha. Tortoises are just as scratchy and destructive as cats. My parents have a pet tortoise who would rip chunks out of the pillowcase and sit in the cotton that spills from it. She’s too cute to stay mad at tho
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I volunteer with a rescue, and we very much appreciate when someone provides us details like that. Most folks will lie about it on their applications. And when we find out and deny the applicant, we share the information with our contacts at other area rescues.
My mom had a cat when I first met her, a sweetie named Cody. When she moved in, she gave Cody to her sister because my pop didn't want a cat. Fast forward about four years, we find out her sister declawed Cody. Mom took him back immediately and was furious.
I had 18 years of mangled furniture and didn't even blink an eye. Three cats with claws and very cheap or used (preferably from family) couches with covers did the trick just fine.
I had some very cute chairs that are now shredded. Still love the chairs. Still love the cat.
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That's not petty revenge, that's doing a good deed. De-clawing cats is cruel and so is re-homing them because you're "too important" to spend time with them.
I agree with you, but I'm betting (hoping) that cat is better off in her new home, away from this witch.
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Every vet I have ever been to offers free claw trimming both with and between appointments. I wouldn't use a vet that offered declawing surgery. Good on you. I suggest forwarding your email to every other shelter in the area. Protect the kittens!
and if you have them from a kitten, manicures are easy. when I got mine, I would deliberately play with his toebeans when he was sleepy, press them to extend his claws, fiddle with his claws etc. to this day, it's really easy to just get claw clippers and take the sharp tips off when he's chilled out and co-operative. he's never found it stressful. the only time he doesn't just accept it is if he's restless and fidgety, then we just stop until he's in a more laid back mood.
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It’s not just painful and deforming - it’s dangerous. A cat often uses their claws to help with balance or to grab ahold of something if they fall. We have six cats and I never even considered de-clawing any of them. Yeah, the furniture is a bit clawed up, and yes, we’ve been at the wrong end of the beanie meanies on occasion. But it’s so worth it.
It's "Kylie" who needs to be declawed. Better yet - neutered.
it IS illegal in the UK. in most civilised countries it's illegal. America is behind on a lot of animal welfare laws. look how common ear cropping still is in dogs too.
Load More Replies... Well we now have a fox as well as 2 cats, it's clearly injured but animal rescue won't touch it as it's not "injured enough". So we've decided to rehab it ourselves as it's living in our garden. He had leftover beef ribs last night (not the bones, just the meat), half a fish finger ciabatta for lunch (I gave up halfway through) and some steak leftover from Saturday for dinner. He's got water and dry cat food outside but is currently sleeping on the hedge as it's getting down to 1°C. I'll probably build him an insulated hutch although whether he'll use it is a different matter. I say he, my wife thinks it's female, so maybe they? Oh and the cats are getting used to it, initially assumed it was a threat but now are starting to ignore it, as it does them.
Terrible people. Declawing cats is cruel and should be illegal, why isn't it? RE: letting go of your friends after promotion: That's actually pretty common in the military. I have had friends promoted above me, until I got promoted too, then they got promoted again. We handled it, for the most part, like normal human beings, without drama but wise to the etiquette at work. Off work we laughed about it.
The only time a cat should be declawed is if there is a significant injury to that area that cannot be fixed. And even then it should only be the affected area. The rest of the toe beans should be left alone!
I adopted a cat from the shelter and didn't know he was declawed until he finally sat in my lap 2 days later. I was so surprised it was never disclosed. Thankfully I never planned to put him outside! He definitely walked funny sometimes. He was the best boy and would pet my face with his soft beans.
All my cats have been declawed (parents decision, I was a child (got my first when I was 5!) before I’m downvoted in oblivion) and they’ve had no problems because our vet did it with a laser and seared the nail bed. Your cat must have had the old fashioned kind that’s far more cruel.
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Eat thing she could ever do, and stop that monster from having more cats.
It would be nice if she was kept from breeding as well
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Pet supply shops have these things called 'kitty caps'. They're little silicone covers that you glue over a cat's claws - the glue is like nail glue. This allows the cat to have their claws, but not do any damage to the house. I've used these on 3 of my cats, and they all learned not to scratch anything except the scratch post.
I looked into claw caps. in the end I decided, if a cat would let me put them on, they would be more likely to tolerate a claw trim with claw clippers. and that seemed like it would be easier. our boy is very good about his regular manicures. we've handled his toebeans and nails since he was a tiny kitten, and he thinks nothing of when we get the clippers and just nip off the sharp tip where it extends beyond the claw sheath.
Load More Replies... Why did she take credit for the condo, indicating that she worked hard to be able to get it? “Worked hard for my degree and home ownership” If you take away the obvious delusion on her part she should be able to see how if Mommy & Daddy are purchasing a condo for you most definitely doesn’t equate to you using your big girl money to buy a home.
I can't believe that's still legal/there are vets around that still do it (same with ear docking). I haven't seen it done since the 90's.
And a Helicopter Karen Mum. The very worst kind there is.
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I've had cats since I was 11 years old and I'd always just accepted that they all come with claws because that's just one more special attribute that makes a cat a cat. Needless to say, I was horrified a couple years later when I'd learned that some people declaw cats -- and more so when I learned what is done to their poor paws. And, that it's possible for a cat who has recently been declawed associating the pain they feel in their paws with using the litterbox, thus never going potty in a litterbox again.
You should try the door thing, it's not a big deal, she isn't smart anyways, she won't remember you did it.
At the animal shelter I volunteer at, there's a cat side and dog side. I volunteer on the cat side, and have for 10 years. I get MANY people that are angry....literally ANGRY....that our application and adoption processes are so lengthy and thorough. They don't like the fact that we reject some people simply based on the answers to the questions on the application. What many fail to realize is what situations many of these cats have come from and the cost and love involved in getting them healthy again and able to be adopted out.
I sit here wondering what the difference is between declawing a cat to save the looks of the furniture and pulling out all your dogs teeth so it cannot bite?
I struck up a friendly conversation with a lady at my YMCA. We had talked a few times and I thought I was making a friend. Till she told me she declawed her cats. Yes, plural. She was quite older so I thought maybe she just didn't realize. So I explained it to her. The b***h knew! Cut her off mid sentence and said I'm not interested in talking to anyone who should knowingly abuse an animal. She leaves when I show up. Good
A girl I know would get a cat and then sent it to her parents whenever the cat became an inconvenience to her life. She did this twice to two cats. I didn't think further when I first heard of that. This was before I got a cat myself. After getting my cat, I could not imagine ever parting with him, even as he destroys my couch and I rarely travel anymore. Needless to say, I'm no longer friends with her. People who re-home or abandon pets because they no longer fits their lifestyles are not people I want in my life. If the boyfriend truly loves cat, he should know what she's done.
I actually did have my cat declawed. Well her "thumb" had a lump that turned out to be cancer so sadly her entire thumb had to go. The rest of her fluffy murder mittens were fully clawed.
declawing cats is illegal in the UK (and other civilised countries) our cat has absolutely ruined our very old but well loved leather chesterfield sofa. and guess what. yeah, it looks scruffy, but it's still the comfiest sofa ever, and even if it were legal I wouldn't dream of putting my cat, who I love very dearly, through such horrible pain and suffering and long term issues just for furniture. his happiness and wellbeing matters more than any material object in the building.
I used to volunteer at a shelter. That info will be shared with every shelter around. Unfortunately she'll be able to get one at a pet store or privately.
Anybody watch that movie Bolt, where the cat is left without claws outside after the owners decide they don't want her?
And I'm sure Kylie had no knowledge of this and simply went to another shelter or found one online with no attempt to at least tell her what a horrible person she is for doing all this, so no lesson was learned.
As I frequently tell people, if I wanted expensive and perfect furniture then I would not have my two ladies. I.bought a sofa that is made from a really tough fabric that also doesn't show the scratches. I'm so glad that de-clawing cats is illegal where I live, it's a barbaric procedure and any vet who carries out the surgery isn't one I would trust to take good care of my ladies. All cats deserve so much better than that.
I'll confess, I have declawed a couple of my cats, years ago. I honestly had no idea it involved taking off a whole toe joint! Of course I haven't done that since. I have a cat now with 2 deformed front feet. There's only 3 toes, and one toe (same on each foot) has a double nail that he can't retract. The adoption agency said I could have those claws removed if I wanted. I took a good look at Rowney's feet and saw that if the double nail was removed, there would be hardly any paw left for him to walk on! So Rowney got to keep his weird toes and they don't cause any trouble at all.
Just like a registry for sex offenders, there needs to be a registry in each country for known animal abusers. That is all.
(2/2) ...4. Sometimes the joints get shattered/mangled and bone fragments/shards remain. 5. Because I feel so strongly against declawing cats, I am now imagining that you are the type of person who would get a bird and amputate its wings so that it won't fly away. 6. A thousand times no -- a cat would definitely NOT want to get adopted by you; s/he would rather take its chances of finding a better home or even dying.
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People don’t get that you are quite literally breaking the toe bones, and taking those bones out. A Veterinarian once told me that is the cruelest coolest thing somebody can do to an animal, esp a pet that you’re supposed to love unconditionally & protect them from harm.
Load More Replies... My kitties and their murder mittens thank the OP. Declawing a cat is cruel. It should be illegal everywhere and any vet who practises it should have their licence revoked.
I don’t understand why it’s legal to amputate and disable a cat. Why is the rationale of the medical professional for doing it? I KNOW vets don’t think furniture is more important than the animal being able to be intact n order to protect himself, so why do they do it? (Aside from money, I mean. I can’t imagine a vet saying “I know it’s horrifying, but I need the money.” Those folks became vets because of their love for animals!) I totally don’t understand how we’re allowed to do this in the US. Can anyone enlighten me, please?
Load More Replies... 40 years ago, I did not understand how cruel declawing was. After my first cat, Bob, I came to understand. I find it hard to believe vets are still willing to do it. I apologize for my early ignorance. Poster was totally in the right for blocking that woman from torturing another cat
There was a different mentality in the vet industry back then. The vet's office I worked for stopped declawing around three years after I started working there. The vet hasn't declawed a cat in 15 years, and when she did do them, we kept them for 3 days on a fentanyl patch to minimize pain. I am proud to say that I told her flat out that I was going to stop making appointments for declaws. She looked at me mildly surprised and said, "Okay". If anyone asked after that, I would tell them we don't do it, don't recommend it, and don't know what other hospitals do it. I'm not making that shít easy for them.
Load More Replies... My two were declawed before I adopted them. I noticed immediately how deformed their paws are now and how they walk differently and it makes me sad for them.
If you cannot accept the fact that cats comes with claws, then a cat is not the right pet for you. Get a tortoise instead if you care more for you furniture that the wellbeing of living animal, and don't know enough about bounderies to forsee when you'll get scratched.
Hahaha. Tortoises are just as scratchy and destructive as cats. My parents have a pet tortoise who would rip chunks out of the pillowcase and sit in the cotton that spills from it. She’s too cute to stay mad at tho
Load More Replies... I volunteer with a rescue, and we very much appreciate when someone provides us details like that. Most folks will lie about it on their applications. And when we find out and deny the applicant, we share the information with our contacts at other area rescues.
My mom had a cat when I first met her, a sweetie named Cody. When she moved in, she gave Cody to her sister because my pop didn't want a cat. Fast forward about four years, we find out her sister declawed Cody. Mom took him back immediately and was furious.
I had 18 years of mangled furniture and didn't even blink an eye. Three cats with claws and very cheap or used (preferably from family) couches with covers did the trick just fine.
I had some very cute chairs that are now shredded. Still love the chairs. Still love the cat.
Load More Replies... That's not petty revenge, that's doing a good deed. De-clawing cats is cruel and so is re-homing them because you're "too important" to spend time with them.
I agree with you, but I'm betting (hoping) that cat is better off in her new home, away from this witch.
Load More Replies... Every vet I have ever been to offers free claw trimming both with and between appointments. I wouldn't use a vet that offered declawing surgery. Good on you. I suggest forwarding your email to every other shelter in the area. Protect the kittens!
and if you have them from a kitten, manicures are easy. when I got mine, I would deliberately play with his toebeans when he was sleepy, press them to extend his claws, fiddle with his claws etc. to this day, it's really easy to just get claw clippers and take the sharp tips off when he's chilled out and co-operative. he's never found it stressful. the only time he doesn't just accept it is if he's restless and fidgety, then we just stop until he's in a more laid back mood.
Load More Replies... It’s not just painful and deforming - it’s dangerous. A cat often uses their claws to help with balance or to grab ahold of something if they fall. We have six cats and I never even considered de-clawing any of them. Yeah, the furniture is a bit clawed up, and yes, we’ve been at the wrong end of the beanie meanies on occasion. But it’s so worth it.
It's "Kylie" who needs to be declawed. Better yet - neutered.
it IS illegal in the UK. in most civilised countries it's illegal. America is behind on a lot of animal welfare laws. look how common ear cropping still is in dogs too.
Load More Replies... Well we now have a fox as well as 2 cats, it's clearly injured but animal rescue won't touch it as it's not "injured enough". So we've decided to rehab it ourselves as it's living in our garden. He had leftover beef ribs last night (not the bones, just the meat), half a fish finger ciabatta for lunch (I gave up halfway through) and some steak leftover from Saturday for dinner. He's got water and dry cat food outside but is currently sleeping on the hedge as it's getting down to 1°C. I'll probably build him an insulated hutch although whether he'll use it is a different matter. I say he, my wife thinks it's female, so maybe they? Oh and the cats are getting used to it, initially assumed it was a threat but now are starting to ignore it, as it does them.
Terrible people. Declawing cats is cruel and should be illegal, why isn't it? RE: letting go of your friends after promotion: That's actually pretty common in the military. I have had friends promoted above me, until I got promoted too, then they got promoted again. We handled it, for the most part, like normal human beings, without drama but wise to the etiquette at work. Off work we laughed about it.
The only time a cat should be declawed is if there is a significant injury to that area that cannot be fixed. And even then it should only be the affected area. The rest of the toe beans should be left alone!
I adopted a cat from the shelter and didn't know he was declawed until he finally sat in my lap 2 days later. I was so surprised it was never disclosed. Thankfully I never planned to put him outside! He definitely walked funny sometimes. He was the best boy and would pet my face with his soft beans.
All my cats have been declawed (parents decision, I was a child (got my first when I was 5!) before I’m downvoted in oblivion) and they’ve had no problems because our vet did it with a laser and seared the nail bed. Your cat must have had the old fashioned kind that’s far more cruel.
Load More Replies... Eat thing she could ever do, and stop that monster from having more cats.
It would be nice if she was kept from breeding as well
Load More Replies... Pet supply shops have these things called 'kitty caps'. They're little silicone covers that you glue over a cat's claws - the glue is like nail glue. This allows the cat to have their claws, but not do any damage to the house. I've used these on 3 of my cats, and they all learned not to scratch anything except the scratch post.
I looked into claw caps. in the end I decided, if a cat would let me put them on, they would be more likely to tolerate a claw trim with claw clippers. and that seemed like it would be easier. our boy is very good about his regular manicures. we've handled his toebeans and nails since he was a tiny kitten, and he thinks nothing of when we get the clippers and just nip off the sharp tip where it extends beyond the claw sheath.
Load More Replies... Why did she take credit for the condo, indicating that she worked hard to be able to get it? “Worked hard for my degree and home ownership” If you take away the obvious delusion on her part she should be able to see how if Mommy & Daddy are purchasing a condo for you most definitely doesn’t equate to you using your big girl money to buy a home.
I can't believe that's still legal/there are vets around that still do it (same with ear docking). I haven't seen it done since the 90's.
And a Helicopter Karen Mum. The very worst kind there is.
Load More Replies... I've had cats since I was 11 years old and I'd always just accepted that they all come with claws because that's just one more special attribute that makes a cat a cat. Needless to say, I was horrified a couple years later when I'd learned that some people declaw cats -- and more so when I learned what is done to their poor paws. And, that it's possible for a cat who has recently been declawed associating the pain they feel in their paws with using the litterbox, thus never going potty in a litterbox again.
You should try the door thing, it's not a big deal, she isn't smart anyways, she won't remember you did it.
At the animal shelter I volunteer at, there's a cat side and dog side. I volunteer on the cat side, and have for 10 years. I get MANY people that are angry....literally ANGRY....that our application and adoption processes are so lengthy and thorough. They don't like the fact that we reject some people simply based on the answers to the questions on the application. What many fail to realize is what situations many of these cats have come from and the cost and love involved in getting them healthy again and able to be adopted out.
I sit here wondering what the difference is between declawing a cat to save the looks of the furniture and pulling out all your dogs teeth so it cannot bite?
I struck up a friendly conversation with a lady at my YMCA. We had talked a few times and I thought I was making a friend. Till she told me she declawed her cats. Yes, plural. She was quite older so I thought maybe she just didn't realize. So I explained it to her. The b***h knew! Cut her off mid sentence and said I'm not interested in talking to anyone who should knowingly abuse an animal. She leaves when I show up. Good
A girl I know would get a cat and then sent it to her parents whenever the cat became an inconvenience to her life. She did this twice to two cats. I didn't think further when I first heard of that. This was before I got a cat myself. After getting my cat, I could not imagine ever parting with him, even as he destroys my couch and I rarely travel anymore. Needless to say, I'm no longer friends with her. People who re-home or abandon pets because they no longer fits their lifestyles are not people I want in my life. If the boyfriend truly loves cat, he should know what she's done.
I actually did have my cat declawed. Well her "thumb" had a lump that turned out to be cancer so sadly her entire thumb had to go. The rest of her fluffy murder mittens were fully clawed.
declawing cats is illegal in the UK (and other civilised countries) our cat has absolutely ruined our very old but well loved leather chesterfield sofa. and guess what. yeah, it looks scruffy, but it's still the comfiest sofa ever, and even if it were legal I wouldn't dream of putting my cat, who I love very dearly, through such horrible pain and suffering and long term issues just for furniture. his happiness and wellbeing matters more than any material object in the building.
I used to volunteer at a shelter. That info will be shared with every shelter around. Unfortunately she'll be able to get one at a pet store or privately.
Anybody watch that movie Bolt, where the cat is left without claws outside after the owners decide they don't want her?
And I'm sure Kylie had no knowledge of this and simply went to another shelter or found one online with no attempt to at least tell her what a horrible person she is for doing all this, so no lesson was learned.
As I frequently tell people, if I wanted expensive and perfect furniture then I would not have my two ladies. I.bought a sofa that is made from a really tough fabric that also doesn't show the scratches. I'm so glad that de-clawing cats is illegal where I live, it's a barbaric procedure and any vet who carries out the surgery isn't one I would trust to take good care of my ladies. All cats deserve so much better than that.
I'll confess, I have declawed a couple of my cats, years ago. I honestly had no idea it involved taking off a whole toe joint! Of course I haven't done that since. I have a cat now with 2 deformed front feet. There's only 3 toes, and one toe (same on each foot) has a double nail that he can't retract. The adoption agency said I could have those claws removed if I wanted. I took a good look at Rowney's feet and saw that if the double nail was removed, there would be hardly any paw left for him to walk on! So Rowney got to keep his weird toes and they don't cause any trouble at all.
Just like a registry for sex offenders, there needs to be a registry in each country for known animal abusers. That is all.
(2/2) ...4. Sometimes the joints get shattered/mangled and bone fragments/shards remain. 5. Because I feel so strongly against declawing cats, I am now imagining that you are the type of person who would get a bird and amputate its wings so that it won't fly away. 6. A thousand times no -- a cat would definitely NOT want to get adopted by you; s/he would rather take its chances of finding a better home or even dying.
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