Knowing what you genuinely want out of life is a great thing. And you shouldn’t let someone shame you just because your perspective sounds a tad old-fashioned. Just because an idea is older or newer doesn’t say much about its quality. Just like some social attitudes, tech, and services have progressed in the right direction in modern times, others have—unfortunately—regressed.
To show you exactly what we mean, our team has collected various people's most old-timey—what they call baby boomer—opinions about life, from all over the internet. Scroll down to take a look. Do you agree that if you order a burger, it should come with fries? Do you avoid scrolling on your phone when at the cinema? Are you properly punctual? If so, you’re in good company.

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OK, I am going controversial on this one-
Biological males should not compete against biological females in sports, I don't care how people identify.
I may get hate for this, but I agree. I feel that there should be leagues specific to each of the options. I feel that is the only way for it to be fair around the board.
I agree with you, Lost Panda, and your idea is good. But this should only be true for those sports, where the body physics are important. We could start mixing things up in areas, where strength, endurance or body shape doesn't influence the outcome.
Load More Replies...I really don't see the issue. But just work with the trans-community towards a solution instead of screaming decrees and edits from the ivory tower if you really insist this is a problem .
"work with the trans community towards a solution" deserves more than the 1 upvote I can give.
Load More Replies...I agree. I'm 100 percent completely trans-friendly, but the differences in frames, bone density, speed, and strength make it more dangerous in contact sports as they age.
I do not know how anyone COULD disagree with this! I am all for whatever you want to do with your body, identity, etc.....but when someone performs in competition opposite their born-biological s*x, it's a whole new level of sick and CRIMINAL behavior. Shame on you.
CRIMINAL? So those girls throughout the past 20 or so years who fought to play on boys' sports teams in their schools were committing crimes? Those girls were playing football, basketball, and even wrestling against and with BOYS who were bigger than them, and nobody batted an eyelash. But one trans person wants to compete, and it's a crime. Tell us you're a TERF without actually telling us you're a TERF.
Load More Replies...I agree. But how this became a massive election issue still boggles my mind. It's essentially insignificant to our lives.
Hear me out: Trans Males vs Trans Males, whilst Trans Females vs Trans Females etc you know?
It's called segregation, and has worked very well throughout history.
Load More Replies...I'm not against Trans people by any means but I do agree with this one. It's not fair at all.
It also illustrates the height of narrcism and hypocracy around this fabricated movement.
Load More Replies...Some sports (NOTA BENE: *SOME* sports) need to move past the whole gender thing and start dealing with weight classes. You weigh X amount and lift in the range of Y? You're in Division K. You weight A and Lift range B? You're in Division L. Etc. You weigh X and run in time range Y? You're in Division P. You weight A and run in time range B? You're in Division Q. Anything with targets such as archery or shooting doesn't need to be gendered at all. You can hit the mark or you can't, period.
I saw a video where DeGrasse Tyson argued this very point, especially for sports that had weight classes to begin with.
Load More Replies...The trans women haven't won every competition they took part in. So, seems like they don't have an advantage. This is just been peddled by terfs to make people dislike trans people. And no, you can't just declare yourself a woman and then take part in female competitions. The process takes way, way longer and more than that.
Fallon Fox, MMA....went from being a nobody at the bottom of the heap, to literally BREAKING A FEMALE OPPONENTS SKULL. Lia Thomas went from being ranked 554th in the 200m freestyle as a male, to being ranked somewhere between 5th and 1st depending on the event. If you actually bothered to do any research, you'd see that on average, men ranked somewhere between 200th and 600th in mens division(depending on the event) will still beat out the number one female RECORD, not current athlete, RECORD. Um....yeah, self identify was a thing, and there are numerous video's on youtube in which a man, attempting to highlight the absurdity, self identified as female and proceeded to set a new record. There's a reason that men and women don't compete in the same division, and it has nothing to do with discrimination, hatred or whatever dismissive nonsense word gets thrown around to silence sanity.
Load More Replies...This is not a boomer opinion. It was a delusion spread from the cult that would defend things like Charlese thereon's 4 and 3 yo trans kids. People who wanted to rationalise that s**t right here in BP and would call anyone a transphobe for calling that bs out. The word they use that they think excomunicates ppl... Well it does not work on all :D some of us have brains and realise it is not different than how a rabbi or imam mutilated genitals for some cult belief and robs the kids who could make such choises as adults.
Pedantic point: a rabbi doesn't perform circumcisions. That is done by a mohel (pr. MOYal). Not sure about Islam.
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No one wants to hear:
Your music
Your phone conversations
Whatever video you're watching
The game you're playing on your phone
Etc.
yes, transistor radios in the sixties and seventies, boom boxes in the eighties, this has always been a thing
Load More Replies...I actually find this more of an issue with older people doing it. I was in a shared ward in hospital recently and an older woman insisted on putting all her conversations on speakerphone. And yelling into the phone in response. I was very tempted to give her another reason to be in hospital except that’d mean she’d just annoy me for longer.
My mum (60s) does this! Apparently she can't hear properly, but I don't get it. I can't tell her anything private over the phone.
Load More Replies...Some of the worst phone/music offenders are Boomers. They grew up blaring their car radios and boom boxes. They also grew up with phones that required speaking loudly. And a lot of them fried their eardrums from all of this. I'm a Boomer. I know my peers.
Shut the hell up in the movie theater.
How dare you! With the cost of tickets being what they are, I’m going to finish d**n phone call.
Load More Replies...Baby boomers are Americans who were born between 1946 and 1964. These days, they’re often known for having old-fashioned beliefs about society, work, and life, and are often colloquially referred to as boomers, sometimes in a semi-mocking or ironic way. While many internet users might be critical of boomers, others clearly think that they got at least a few things right.
After the baby boomers came Generation X (Americans born from 1965 to 1980), followed by Generation Y aka millennials (born between 1981 and 1996), and Generation Z aka Zoomers (born from 1997 to 2012). The latest generation—Generation Alpha or Gen A—comprises young people born in the early 2010s to mid-2020s.
I dont want an app for every single thing. I don't want to give out my email address, I don't want to give out my phone number. Just let me purchase the thing and I'll be on my way.
Do these sites have any idea how MANY sales they lose because people don't WANT to enter email/sign up/dl the app?
The effect wanes over time, with about 1/3rd of people removing the app after one month, and over 2/3rd removing it after three months. The estimated attrition rate for loyalty app consumers is about 40% per month on average. The percentage of loss of sales from app-related reasons is negligible, literally does not register in any statistics in any meaningful way, while the positive impact of loyalty apps is estimated in +72% in purchase frequency and 15-20% higher average spending, that wildly surpass the cost of the discounts provided.
Load More Replies...I just give them the google number I never check and made up an email account I never check for the same reason.
Purchasing a thing should result in owning that thing.
Then... don't? There are alternatives, many of them completely free. If you don't think something is worth the price you pay for it then don't buy it.
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Public libraries are amazing resources and woefully under-utilized.
There is a reason books are still around and doing well. Nothing beats the tactile sensation of a book hitting your nose when falling asleep.
Yes, and... Books still have their many benefits (including face-smacking lol), AND public libraries offer so much more than books!
Load More Replies...According to Investopedia, baby boomers remain economically and politically influential in the United States, both due to their large numbers as well as relative prosperity.
Due to increasing life expectancy, it’s likely that baby boomers will spend more time in retirement than their parents. It’s also likely that if boomers are in good health and the job market is accommodating, they’ll be able to remain in the workforce for longer. This may be a blessing in disguise, allowing them to save more money for retirement, especially as traditional work pensions decline.
I’m not scanning a QR code to get the menu when I’m in a restaurant. I want a hardcopy menu, please.
I understood this during COVID. But the fact it continues in some restaurants is irritating as hell.
Providing it electronically is not only more sanitary but they can update the prices whenever they want
Load More Replies...Didn't I write "Nope, no menu I walk" to a list remarkably similar to this just a few days ago? 🤔
So....despite the fact that d**n near everyone has all but had their phones surgically attached to their grubby little hands, somehow....they still demand that additional resources, detrimental to the dwindling stability of the planet, be consumed, so that they can have the same information relayed in the form factor that they PREFER? Despite the fact that that physical menu has been touched by who knows how many strangers, most of which have some non-zero quantity of $HIT on their hands, along with other germs, viruses and other disgusting asides? Yeah, i don't care if the pandemic is over, living through that situation highlighted just how thoughtless and gross the average human being is.
For god’s sake if you’re shopping, don’t block the entire aisle and pretend you don’t see people waiting to get through.
Or block the entire shelf and take a hundred years physically examining every item before deciding which one to buy.
The people that block the aisle, that put their carts up against shelves, the never ending parade of mouth breathers who get 3 inches in, or out of a doorway before stopping in confusion and seemingly reassessing their entire lives, and than acting offended when you ask them to GTFO the way. The roving groups of teenagers that walk shoulder to shoulder and expect the world to give them the right of way, the people who stand in little groups obstructing the crosswalk, the flocks of moms with strollers who also walk shoulder to shoulder, or just randomly stop and obstruct entracnces, exists, sidewalks, other peoples cars, driveways....all of them should be carted off to a secluded island where they can enjoy getting in one another's way.
I want to be a hall monitor in the world. So many people stand directly in front of doors or in the middle of a sidewalk to have a conversation. Move to the sides people!
My only exception to this, is when I was shopping with a child in the trolley-seat. If I kept to one side of the aisle, all sorts of random things would end up in my trolley, only to be discovered at the checkout. If I went down the middle, child couldn't read the shelves. That said, I would always move to one side to let other people past.
Perfectly true. What's the world coming to, when I was a pup old people had better manners...
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The generational s**t is stupid-- especially boomer hate. It's all so tiresome.
I agree 100% it’s got out of control! Baby boomers are not to blame for everything!
Not everything....but ya know, can't pretend they didn't have a negative impact on...oh lets see, the housing market, the pointless d**g war, healthcare, mental health care (never forget, Reagan started his campaign to close state run mental health hospitals when he was governor, and part of his campaign rhetoric was his commitment to see that dream through on a national level. He did it, and yay , right?) Outsourcing of manufacturing began in the late 60's, knowledge services in the 1970's. Um...lets see, the environment! Carter put solar panels on the white house in the 70's, Ronald took them down as soon as he was elected, climate science was buried with the blessing of the government in pursuit of the almighty dollar....and then of course there's the fact that senior citizens, exert undue influence when it comes to elections! Yes, that's also a failure of the younger generations, but it still leaves the elderly baring more responsibility for electing fox news rejects to office.
Load More Replies...I can't wait to see the penny drop for those younger people who are blaming house prices, global warming, plastic pollution, etc. on older generations when the generations to come turn around and point just as loudly at them. I'm 54, and I grew up with few toys, which lasted for years and were handed down from child to child. Clothes did the same. Household chemicals were few. Compared to today we owned almost nothing. Our household waste was mostly composted, and anything that had any use at all in it was sold to the rag-and-bone man. None of our food came wrapped in plastic or had any air miles. Overseas holidays were a pipe-dream for most. And yet apparently *we're* the ones to blame!
If you want to place blame somewhere, try the government where all of the issues stem from.
Thank you Judge Nova Rook. What is your background to qualify you to render that verdict?
Load More Replies...Yes, they do think that. Pick another word. Grumpy Old Git is my preferred name.
Load More Replies...Now, none of this is to suggest that the older generations are all somehow ‘better’ than the newer ones or that everyone who’s old(er) is somehow out of touch. A tale as old as time is the fact that each and every generation believes that it’s superior to the ones that preceded it as well as the ones that came after it. They believe that their attitudes, values, and work ethic are ‘just right’ whereas others are out of touch or irreverent.
This is unlikely to change no matter how many millennia go by, and each generation will have its fair share of pros and cons. It takes a lot of honesty and introspection to recognize that all of us, no matter who we are, have similar biases toward other generations. We (quietly) think we’re the best, most special, and 'correct,' whether we’re boomers, Gen X, millennials, zoomers, or Gen A.
What are your most baby boomerish perspectives and opinions about life, technology, and services, dear Pandas? On the flip side, what modern attitudes do you subscribe to? We’d love to hear your thoughts, so feel free to share them below.
Phone goes off and stays in your pocket when in the theater.
I refuse to go to the theater anymore. It's just not worth having to endure the quality of modern strangers. We had gone to see the third hobbit movie....in 2014, and even then people were on their phones through most of it and we got fed up. But my mother wanted to see Oppenheimer in the theater so my wife and i took her...as soon as the lights went out, the guy directly in front of us had his phone out trying to record the movie, and a gaggle of teenagers on our left all had phones out, full brightness, watching f*****g tiktok with the sound UP while mommy and daddy sat utterly oblivious by their side. I got...loud, the idiots got angry and indignant, and while the theater did eventually kick them all out....that's a situation that shouldn't exist in the first place let alone get to the point it was at. Humanity is no longer civilized enough for Theaters.
Years ago I read about a concert at Carnegie Hall, someone's phone went off and the person answered, but didn't get up to go take the call. Shrugged off the people who tried to shush him. Security took him out to the street. He filed suit against CH. Other people in the audience found out and counter-sued him, took him to the cleaners in a settlement.
I've seen more younger people do this than older people in theaters.
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Social media is a cancer to society.
And yet it's a list about "boomer" stuff and elsewhere "am I the arsëhole?" reposts, so maybe this is more anti-social media? ;)
Load More Replies...I am still on Facebook but I don't know how much longer since they're are so many ads and fake profiles/bots and it seems to be getting worse.
That's an understatement - but yes, it WILL be our ultimate demise, one way or another...just say no. Bring back Nancy Reagan's famous slogan, but apply it to SM.
I don't agree with this. It's just how some people use it. I guess we used to be able to live our lives in blissful ignorance of exactly how many arsëholes there are in the world.
Your super bright blue headlights and unshrouded home "security lights" are blinding other people with disabling glare. They cause vehicle collisions, and pedestrians being run over.
In the past the police would stop you if your light wasn't adjusted properly and blinded other people (by being directed up, and not down unto the street). I can understand that they don't have the staff to do this anymore, but if everyone with blinding lights would just be stopped, let alone had to pay a fee, they'd be gone in a month.
I hate LED headlights. They are far to harsh, too bright and they trigger my migraines. I try to avoid going out at night if I can.
If a car is going to have bright LEDs then it should be mandated that they are the matrix ones that can blank out parts to not blind oncoming traffic. However they are usually on expensive cars or it is an expensive option
Matrix one aren't legal in the US due to outdated vehicle lighting regulations.
Load More Replies...Especially if they are on custom trucks and SUVs where they are higher and almost eye level in your rear view mirror! But I suppose that more of a problem here in the US and less so to the rest of the world.
Bright security lights also add to light pollution. We (and animals and insects) need darkness at night.
I have an astigmatism so blue lights hurt my eyes. I absolutely HATE blue LED lights on cars, they should be illegal.
Around Austin, Texas I am seeing expensive cars with no rear lights at night, maybe a headlight out, too. I also see many expensive cars by the side of the road with tags on them. Apparently the bozos who buy these cars don't have the time or the smarts to do the routine maintenance. Just abandon it, buy a new one.
Any light that is blinding you like this is not legal in most of the world. It's nearly all incorrectly-fitted or poorly-maintained aftermarket ones, either using over-bright replacement headlights without the required self-levelling systems or just replacing bulbs with ones that are not specified for the given vehicle and lens.
The tipping thing isn’t an exclusively boomer rant, but our society as a whole is starting to take notice. I’ve started carrying cash again, and when I order take out, I pay in cash. If something costs $18, and I give you a $20, I expect $2 in change. You haven’t done anything to warrant a tip. You simply did your job. A firefighter doesn’t get tipped for putting out a house fire, a bus driver doesn’t get tips for driving her regular route to pick up and drop off passengers.
I'm living in a society in Europe, where tipping is not mandatory (we have living wages for service workers) but tips are still appreciated. I usually tip in cash even when the card payment has a tip - option (which is getting more and more common lately).
I tip in cash as well, I like to know that the $ goes into the hands that did the job. Dunno if they get to keep it, though.
Load More Replies...Tipping has gotten way out of line. If the SERVICE is good, I will tip. If it is not, I won't tip. It seems to be expected no matter how you are treated as a customer.
Agree but it is not the waiter/waitress that we should be targeting, it is owners not paying a living wage.
If you don't make a donation to the fire department after they come save your life/property then there is a special place in hell for you.
Oh, people understand it. They're judging it on whether or not it's fair, based on the service they received and the waiters/waitresses doing what should be their jobs (eg sauces, dessert etc). And whether or not that's fair to take out onto the workers I won't debate because I am in a country that pays its hospitality workers fairly so I'll be likely considered 'irrelevant' to this conversation. But I can assure you that people overseas also understand that US waitstaff are paid a pittance compared to workers in other countries.
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Using ADHD/autism/OCD, etc. as an excuse for your poor behavior is unacceptable. Yes, those things can be the reason why you have certain behaviors, but stop blaming everything on it. Example: “oh I’m sorry I’m always late, it’s just my ADHD makes it so difficult.”.
And so many people self-diagnose thanks to Dr. Google. Autism may explain behavioral patterns, it doesn't excuse them.
I will never stop pointing out the girl Who went in for a job interview and had the gall to ask what allowances they made for people with "time blindness" explaining that she, an adult woman, knowingly has trouble keeping track of time....and despite being aware of the shortcoming, and taking steps to account for and overcome the shortcoming....she instead expects everyone else to make allowances FOR HER. So of course, when she was reprimanded by the potential employer, and failed to obtain the job....she went online to play the victim, blubbering about discrimination. You can't attribute every single character flaw to a disability, sometimes you just suck and YOU need to work on it.
I'll add that even if your diagnosis is to blame, you are still responsible for your behavior. It's harder for you, maybe, but it's still on you.
My daughter has post-it notes all over the house and alerts on her phone to remind her of things that she has problems keeping up with. We sit down together and do this.
I'm gonna get downvoted but, while these diseases have been around since boomer times, people weren't properly diagnosed. Now that they're being recognized, it's still ignorant to use them as an excuse. I don't have OCD, I prefer things neat and tidy. That's the difference.
First they are NOT "diseases". They are brain neurology differences. And they haven't been around since "boomer times". There have been autistics since the dawn of man. It's only now that we live in such unforgiving, tightly structured environments that it has become a major problem for autistic people to meet neurotypical people's expectations. If we were all still farmers, or hunter gatherers, the autistics would do very well in that sort of society.
Load More Replies...autism and ADHD make many societal expectations difficult and sometime impossible...patience is also a virtue...most people who are late are not late b/c they do not give a poop about you or your time...they have other s**t...and, you don't want their s**t
My favorite is "time blindness." It never seems to mean you show up early sometimes.
I'm not giving you my email address. Just let me buy the service/product and be on my way. I have no interest in getting your spam.
AND ... you pull over for a funeral. Show some respect, goddammit.
I was taught to always remove your hat too, even if you are in the car.
and turn your headlights on until they are past you
Load More Replies...Years ago, I was buying a portable air conditioner at Sears. The cashier wanted my name number address and email. I did pan looked at him and simply said no thanks, I’m not looking for a relationship right now.
I might give up A email address. It might not be MY email address though
I give my email address to get through the ordering process, after I recieve my order, I immediately block the emails.
When we were on our way to my Grandad’s funeral we (the funeral cortège) passed a Catholic Primary School. The children were out in the school yard for their break time, the whole school stopped running around, they stood in silence and all crossed themselves. It was very respectful but rather like something out of a horror film, a hundred or so children crossing themselves is very creepy!
If there is an accident or disaster do something useful instead of standing there recording it on your phone, or at least get the hell out of the way.
Most people freeze in a crisis. The current US Red Cross CPR training specifically includes methods to break members of the crowd out of shock and back to their functional senses. I don't freeze, I throw up later, after the crisis is passed. It's like running through statues.
yes police may need to see what happened and see who's at fault
Failing to offer whatever assistance you are able to can be a crime in some European countries. People have been jailed in France for walking away from an accident where someone later died as a result, for example.
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"Why the hell did they change the user interface AGAIN?".
This drives me insane. Along with the constant "let's make sure it's you" and send a text to your phone cr-p every time you log into a website. What's the point of even having passwords then? And what if my phone's broken/lost or out of service?
The email provider I'm using does that - by now I need a password, an "I'm not a robot" and THEN need to open the app on my phone. It's clear they just want to drive me to only use the app. All they will achieve is that I change providers after 25 years.
Load More Replies...We "improved" our software by adding features you don't need or want, and getting rid of things you used all the time! Your welcome!!
Although, barely related, kudos to the websites/ apps that do a total graphical revamp, but still retain some variety of 'go to classic view' option. That, my friend, is my jam.
Load More Replies...Microsoft is really a terror for changing the UI for no good reason at all.
I only have a landline phone, there are things I just can't access at all.
My favorite TV listings program, Zap2It, just disappeared forever. Rats!
Please put your shopping cart in the cart corral, not next to my car.
Go to Aldi. They have a system to make sure, you return your cart.
So does Tesco. You have to put a coin into the trolley to use it. You get it back when you return the trolley.
Load More Replies...And if someone is done with their cart, offer to take it when you go in, most EVERY store has sani-wipes to k**l critters om hands and cart push bar.
DON'T leave the cart in the middle of the handicapped space, even if you are yourself disabled, and parked in the next spot.
You can’t call it a convenience fee to buy tickets online for a high school athletic game when you make it mandatory to buy tickets online.
That's the OP's point; they're saying it not for your convenience, so you can't call it a "convenience" fee.
Load More Replies...Whenever they try to charge me a convenience fee, I look for other ways to pay. It is less convenient for both of us to write a check, wait for in the mail, then process it, but I am willing to inconvenience both of us. If there's no way around that fee, I'll take my business elsewhere.
It took me two years to get that movie ticket thing to quit flooding me with emails after I bought one ticket. Reported to the Government that they had a fake Uninstall, and cced them. The emails stopped.
Can we keep cashiers on hand in stores for certain situations? Like those that need assistance because of disabilities or otherwise, those with 8 million items their cart and don't want to hear "please place your items in the bagging area" or "please wait for assistance" even though I didn't do anything, or just straight up those who don't want to use self checkout?
Also, if I'm using self checkout, you should give me a 10% discount since I'm saving YOU money on overhead, and now I'm an employee of your store.
The only acceptable form of self checkout for me is if you get your own scanner and move through the shop, scanning every product as you put it into your cart. Then at the exit, you pay for what you have scanned (and cashiers take random samples to verify if you have scanned everything). No taking everything out and back in. That saves me sooo much time and effort!
We had this at our grocery for a while, but I think it was just for testing, must have been to much fraud as it went away.
Load More Replies...I always use the manned checkouts. It keeps someone with a job and an income. I've yet to see anybody use a self service checkout without having to call the assistant a dozen times. I once got so fed up with the constant error messages I got using a self service checkout that I gave up and abandoned my shopping.
Some people won't never understand how those self services devices. And for some people (like me) greeting and thanking a cashier is the ONLY conversation I have, because there is NO ONE to talk to.
Although I haven't been inside one in years, I have read that Walmart now makes you pay for their deluxe Walmart account with a monthly fee to use the self checkout. This is so absurd to me. You're paying them to do something they pay others to do. But I suppose not completely surprising.
Fact checked: https://www.reuters.com/fact-check/walmart-is-not-charging-customers-98-use-self-checkout-lanes-2024-03-28/
Load More Replies...So because YOU, of your own volition have gone into a store, picked up items that YOU want to purchase, that YOU want to take home, and YOU want to use....the store should give you a discount? You're not doing them a favor. Instead of removing things from your basket and placing them on a belt, waiting for them to be scanned, and then packing them up yourself, you're instead dragging them across that scanner yourself. Self checkout is significantly faster, it makes it much easier to pack the things you were already going to have to pack anyway. Self checkout replacement has been brewing for THIRTY YEARS. Our local stores have FINALLY replaced all but ONE single belt with three times the number of self checkout. Self check out never has line, never has a wait time, one lone employee standing by if there is a need for assistance, while 30 people stand in a line that snakes halfway through the store, waiting upwards of 45 minutes because they're too precious to perform such a menial task
Down with self- checkout. If a store wants to sell to me, they better have a cashier ready to scan the items! My grocery store has self- checkout lanes, but I never use them.
Load More Replies...If possible, I always use the checkout with a cashier. Keeps someone employed, I enjoy the wee chat, and I had too many "please wait for assistant" for no reason to bother with self-checkouts. What I'd really like to see again is shops having one manned checkout open for people with up to 3 items. If you're in a hurry and just need one or two things, that really helps. And people with full carts usually aren't in a hurry.
Most stores around here have a manned checkout for 10 items or fewer. I refuse to use self-serve.
Load More Replies...I absolutely refuse to use self-checkout unless it's the grocery store next to my house and i have one or two things and the line is super long. I hate them so much and they take away jobs from people.
I hate having to make an account and download an app for every little thing.
I don't. One home store wanted me to open an account in order to get the military discount they offer. I now always shop at one of the two others right across the highway.
Give me an actual menu with prices on it. I don't want to scan anything with my phone, nor do I want to guess how much my meal was.
Been wanting to try a milkshake place for ages now, and nowhere on their online menu or signage does it show prices. Even messaged them on their active instagram to ask with no response. I'm not going in blind and spending a fortune on a milkshake because they refuse to name a price.
I’m sick of smelling w**d everywhere I go.
It's not everywhere I go, but when I smell it, I just smile and think "Those were the days..."
When I smell it, I just grimace and think "Please don't let me puke!" The smell makes me horribly nauseous.
Load More Replies...How about not getting so close to drinkers then? Weed stinks over a wide area, nothing worse than having to sweat your bollocks off in the summer cause you don’t want your flat to stink of your neighbours weed.
Load More Replies...I sick of smelling people's vapes - that stuff is way more pervasive than cigarettes or weed, and people do it EVERYWHERE; supermarkets, buses, restaurants. A lot of vapers don't seem to care where they do it.
I can track that smell like a bloodhound. And have made quite a few friends that way.
I prefere it to cigaretts and the stench of booze. Some of these bars are so nasty I can smell them from the street.
In subs I am in about TV shows that are over 20 years old newer viewers get offended by every little thing and want everything to be realistic. They just flat-out refuse to see that things were like that on TV back then. We thought it was ok and so did the writers. A lot has changed in a short amount of time. Even if you back 10 years people didn't complain like this about everything. TV shows have improved and are catered to today's audience. If you can't handle how TV was back then, don't watch it. Watch shows that were created recently. I am a lefty but don't like the super woke, super PC cancel culture stuff. It just makes all of us look bad.
There is no reason to look back on old materials with current eyes. You learn from it and ensure it doesn't happen again. Removing it opens up new doors for repeated behavior. This goes for everything not just media.
actually, tv was more open about many topics in the 70s...people had abortions on shows in the 70s (maude, erika on all my children), they showed teen r**e on tv in a linda blair movie, kids did d***s...a lot of d***s and a variety of d***s...teens got pregnant...teens got STDs....not just minority teens in ghettos, which is the only time it's shown now...it's been decades since anyone on tv has had an abortion, or kids did d***s as much as IRL, etc.
"It is wrong now so it was wrong then" - repeat till everyone else goes away. Just, never ask what our grandchildren will think of us in thirty / fifty years , and whether they just might be right ... Do morals have the right to change with time? Laws certainly do ...
I think there is a middle ground to be had here. Sure, these things are a product of their time, but that doesn't mean they can't be discussed with today's values in mind. Especially the ones that are still on pedestals. Better to discuss those things than to ignore them.
We have a channel that is just old shows. Danny Thomas, My 3 sons, Donna Reed, . . .
Not quite sure what OP wants. Are people NOT to say "this behaviour is bad"? AFAIK, nobody asked for any old show to be never shown again, or to be changed? And if some superwoke person gets offended - so what? Are they sitting on your couch so you have to hear their opinion? Just because "we were okay" with something, does that mean it mustn't be criticised? F**k, we were okay with quite s****y stuff. "Lolita", anyone? Nah, young folks, speak out if something is s**t. I don't need everyone to shut up and never criticise "my" old series for me to still enjoy them.
As my other boomer opinion, being overweight or obese doesn't need to be glorified, and should be treated as a serious health issue. Right now media and culture absolutely gloss over the negative aspects of being fat, and not in a nuanced way.
Not saying that fat people need to be insulted or made fun of or discriminated against or whatever, and of course we don't need to put a moral or character judgment on weight. There's a way to acknowledge the complex causes of obesity and treat fat people with respect while keeping in mind that being fat puts you at risk for premature death through all sorts of fun diseases and is objectively bad for your health.
This. It is okay to be large, but at the same time it seriously impacts your health. There is no reason to insult these people, but there is no reason to glorify it either. The same goes for super skinny as well (I am underweight myself). It does not need to be glorified nor mocked.
Many factors can cause someone to be overweight/obese including genetics, medication, illness and not always because they are stupid, greedy or lazy. It is something that should be treated on a case by case basis. Don't judge until you know the facts.
I'm not judging, it's just that some people seem to glorify being morbidly obese.
Load More Replies...People, including OP here, has lost the message on the "body positivity" movement. It was NEVER about saying that it's healthy to be fat. Some did say that you can be bigger and be technically healthy, yes. However, the overall message was about loving yourself at any size. You are worthy of love and worthy as a person at any size. You are beautiful at any size. NOT that being obese was being glorified or that anyone who is shouldn't strive for health. People grossly misinterpreted the message.
Again, this is a result of the food choices were are given like fast food and processed food. Made to make life easier, but at the expense of our health. Point the finger where it belongs.
I dunno. I'm doing a pretty good job putting on weight even though I eat healthy foods. It's gotta be the sedentary lifestyle I've taken up. And age. And the quantity of healthy food I eat. I never eat out. Processed food intake is minimal.
Load More Replies...As someone that used to be very overweight, I know exactly how difficult and expensive it is to lose weight and keep it off. The original "Body positivety" people got it right, don't be a jerk to fat people just because they're fat. Because going from fat to not fat is really friggen challenging. Unfortunately, the movement has largely been highjacked by the "Healthy at any size" group, who are a bunch of wackadoos.
As a fat person I'm really tired of this. Again, I am FAT, and I am also HEALTHY. I have no blood pressure, cholesterol, diabetes, or whatever else everyone seems so ''concerned'' about for fat people. And yes, all confirmed by a real live Dr.
Did you mean low blood pressure? Cause if you had no blood pressure you wouldn't be alive lol.
Load More Replies...Why does it seem women are stigmatized more than men for being 'overweight'? I don't think I've ever heard of a body positivity man.
Because women have always been analysed for their looks more than men. Nobody gives a rat's pointy a*s about what a man is wearing versus a woman. One of the Aussie day TV hosts (Karl Stevanovic I believe) wore the same suit for numerous days in a row (100? I think? Could be wrong); nobody commented or gave a s**t. If a female colleague did that, hell would boil over.
Load More Replies...How about not calling us fat! I’m sick of the stigma I’ve lived with for almost 70 years. It’s not like I haven’t lost weight at times, bit it seems impossible to keep off.
There's a lot of stress in any shyte feeling entitled to comment on a person's weight, but apparently that stress is not unhealthy. At least nobody tells people just to shut up unless they are someone's doctor or best friend.
Load More Replies...How about we just stop babbling about it and leave it to something between a person and their doctor? The "positivity" movement mainly was a reaction to every f**k thinking they can make fun of it or give "well meaning" advice. It's astonishing how many saints walk this Earth whose heart goes out to no one, but who oh-so-deeply care aobut overweight people. We see through that s**t, and in response a lot of people say - and rightfully so - that it's not the end of the world. You want to make people healthier? Talk to your boss who glorifies overworking, to your best friend who can't slow down to the speed limit, or to that guy harassing a woman in a bar. How about smokers, be it cigs or vapes? But in those cases people are strangely quiet. Ask yourself why.
I neither make fun nor give advice. I care about the people I care about.
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Do not leave the house in pajamas and slippers. At least put on sweat pants.
Ridiculous - as long as you cover yourself (no one wants to see my hairy salt and pepper moobs) and you don’t smell what difference does it make to anyone else.
If you haven't already, look at "People of Walmart". I rest my case.
Load More Replies...ok, rude i disagree strongly im in 9th grade at 16 yes i will wear my pajamas o school
I was literally unable to wear any type of shoe except slippers and for over 5 years. I have CIPN (chemotherapy induced peripheral neuropathy) & my feet are uber sensitive. To the point where I need to wear socks 24/7 because anything touching them is extremely painful. I have 1 pair of sneakers now i can use, but not for extended times.
I dgaf what people think of me in a grocery store, if I need to make a quick run to the store, I'm going in whatever I am wearing at that moment as long is it covers everything that needs to be covered.
Those who wear pajamas in public have lost their grip on their life.
The people who seem somehow affected by the type of pants someone is wearing in public are the ones who need to get a grip.
Load More Replies...Do not leave your house in sweats either! Have some self respect and put on some actual clothes!
Sometimes you just have to suck it up and do a job you don’t like.
When people agree to "suck it up" and do $hitty jobs with $hitty pay, then the corpos will have no reason to offer good jobs for good pay because there'll be always someone willing to "suck it up" and do the $hitty one. Bad advice.
I think it depends on what you consider a job, why you don't like it and what you consider suck it up. Job can be your profession as a whole, but it can be also a specific task in your line of work. It can also be unpaid work that you don't perform on your workplace but at home. And maybe you don't like it because it's toxic and exploitative (and in those cases, yes, suck it up is a bad advice), but there are other reason that you don't like to do something, but as it's your job that you accepted, you are doing it anyway, like you hate a program used on your line of work, but it's the only one that does a specific task, so you have to use it anyway. In this case yes, even if you don't like it, you suck it up. And don't make start on all the household jobs that you have to do regardless of your dislike because it's necessary. This is a stance that can have a broader meaning, and as they say sometimes, yes, in some cases they are absolutely right (EDIT: typo)
Load More Replies...I'd say that this holds true on a local level, but not so much on a national level. The last 50 years have proven beyond any doubt that national politics on a global scale is out of control and the voter has very little say in what goes on. I think the job that many people are avoiding is to *do* something other than bítch and moan about it. We all look back at suffragists, civil rights activists, etc. as heroes, but where are the heroes now? Where is the civil disobedience? The strikes? The protests? People used to be prepared to lose it all for the cause, now they're not willing to lose an afternoon.
Load More Replies...I teach high school. So many bratty, entitled kids. Sometimes you just have to do the task at hand, whether you are personally interested or not. Where would we be if everyone just did as they pleased.
You can do a job you don't like and still complain about it. You should complain about the things you don't like about it, because not complaining about it gives people the impression that it's okay.
Not all of your behaviors are attributable to your mental health and thus exempted from critique.
I LOVE that we're living in an age in which therapy is being destigmatized, but the folks walking around who self-diagnose, who make their entire being about that self-diagnosis, and who explain away any undesirable behavior as being a symptom of mental illness are threatening to bring the whole thing down. We need therapy and psychology to be taken seriously, but some people are acting like caricatures in an episode of *White Lotus*.
I have a lot of empathy for people who are struggling with mental health challenges, but I also get students emailing at the end of the semester with a diagnosis from TikTok wanting special treatment or to just pass a college class. I wish they realized the harm they were doing to the credibility of everyone else.
It's not surprising, though. For ages the pendulum was on the "mental health is a shame" side, wide, wide out. Now it's swinging back. It's only natural that it's being overdone in the other direction before we find a good balance. This goes for a lot of social change, btw.
This! I have a lot of mental health issues. It can sometimes be hard to control behaviors but you suck it up and act like a decent human being.
Also, it's not a combo unless it COMES WITH A DRINK. Enough of this $13 "combo" plus another $3 for a basic-a*s soft drink.
And we shouldn't be drinking that c**p anyway. It's one thing to have a fast food burger, not great but not too damaging, but to then wash it down with sugar water is ridiculous! Let's all destroy our blood glucose, and send our calorie count through the roof, when a glass of water would wash down the food just as well, without destroying your body.
FWIW I absolutely agree. But perhaps specify a soft drink so some folks don't assume that it includes a $12 microbrew.
There is nothing wrong with a microbrew. Unless it's a hazy.
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Get whatever piercings or tattoos you want, but don't act shocked when you get taken less seriously in professional arenas because of your septum ring, visible tattoos, or gauges. It shouldn't be like that but acting like it isn't is impractical and imo willfully stupid.
How you look doesn't mean you don't know your job. Wearing a suit doesn't mean you're competent.
Maybe, but people do think like that. I have no problem with tattoos, but nose rings are a major ick.
Load More Replies...The company I work for does the interviewing process by phone. You are asked the same questions over the phone as you would be in person. This way you are not excluded for how you look.
I don’t like the fact that folks are judged on their aesthetic choices, tattoos, piercings, hair colours or shaved heads etc but I accept that society has its foibles and my tattoos are all well within the coverage of a dress shirt, why would I make my own life difficult?
Tattoos to me are like expressing your passions. The piercing I don't get. I may sound ignorant, but nose piercing. What happens when you have a cold? NGL I stuff tissue up there and sneeze 🤧. And what is the appeal?
it reminds me of the rings they put in a bulls nose.
Load More Replies...I have 13 visual piercings (including gauges) and 5 tattoos that are visible, 10 if I am wearing a tank top. I have an amazing office job and make pretty good money. One of my managers and I compare tattoo ideas all the time. Even the owner of the company has complemented my tattoos. Majority of of in the office have multiple tattoos and piercings. I even had purple hair than pink hair for a bit, currently brown with pink underneath. Not all professional jobs are strict when it comes to that stuff.
I'll tell ya what, a nice suit or pressed white shirt and tie with a neck tattoo showing is the ultimate HOT...
Thank you. Hearing about a meaning behind a tattoo is just as boring as listening to someone's dream. It is a good way to spot the uninteresting people.
i actually love hearing the stories behind someone’s tattoos.
Load More Replies... Home apliances, cars and other standalone devices should work standalone, without a phone or a cloud service.
You should NOT be required to register an account to use functions of the device that should work offline (for example dash cameras like the 7omai)
Having extra features is nice. Tying basic features to a cloud, an app or internet access or anything else that makes no sense should be illegal. To me a microvawe or air fryer being controlled via a phone app is not a feature, but a liability.
The printer-scanner needing an opened up ink cartridge to scan is just stupid and wasteful.
And while it's convinient to purchase train tickets on the phone, I still strictly purchase paper based monthly passes. And I carry a separate credit card from my phone. I don't want to end up with a dead or stolen phone with no way to call help, no pass to get home and no money to buy a ticket. It's just not happening.
If I buy a computer, I should be able to decide what software I put on it.
The manufacturer should NOT have the abbility to brick products at will. Doesn't matter wether they do it or not.
Anything that can be bricked via a software update, should have a secondary read only storage to re-flash the original software to the actually used storage (imagine BIOS for example).
If in the future I look up at the night sky expecting stars and only see ads, I'm getting [demonetised]
Software licenses sold under a "for life" license, should be illegal to convert into a time-period license. I understand that sometimes the company can't sustain for-life licenses. However then they should compensate the person for the loss. And they should at least partially refund the original purchasing price with a reasonable amount.
I think we really crossed a threshold when car manufacturers started charging a subscription fee for heated seats that were already installed.
Right? I don't want to pay for them, take em out and knock them off the price.
Load More Replies...A Camera app I used to use a lot was bought by another company which promptly put all the functions behind a subscription even though I had already paid for them. After a huge uproar, the functions were restored. However the app needs a good data connection to start. If not, it just sits at the loading screen.
Once upon a time these cameras used to be accessible through a standardised (Onvif) interface. Now it's mostly cheap stuff designed to upsell some pathetic cloud "solution" (recording only thirty seconds per event is pathetic).
Load More Replies...The trouble with para #7 is, how would you tell? Until they just do it.
Service charges for using a credit or debit card at a restaurant. I am not paying you to take my money. It has always been a cost of doing business. What's next charging the customer for part of the light bill?
The cost of the light bill is reflected in the prices, so... yeah.
I quit going to a little family-owned market I had patronized for years just because of the credit card service charge at the check-out. It sounds crazy, but I would rather they upped the price of an item than charge me an extra fee while paying. Crazy, I know, but it doesn't seem to be as bad.
But business charge customers for all the bills actually. That's why they charge, to pay their bills
The point is, it should already be a part of the "burden", an element figured into the cost of doing business.
Load More Replies...And, wear and tear on the carpet... you looked out of the window and that's extra ... and a charge for adding up all the charges...
The credit card company charges the business a processing fee on every transaction....a transaction that YOU, the customer have opted to engage in. Why should i, as a business, eat the cost of something that YOU the customer has opted into? If you don't like it, you can pay cash. It's like ordering something online and then complaining that you have to also cover shipping costs.
It's illegal in most of the world for a business to do this. I obviously prefer my guests to pay by bank transfer, cash or a phone cash-app, but paypal, which makes a small transaction charge, and credit cards, which charge more, are still perfectly acceptable. In a sense I've set my pricing to take all of my outgoings into account, so it's a bonus if I can avoid some of them with cash payments.
DVDs are better than streaming. No ads and you're guaranteed to own it forever, even if Netflix removes the movie/show.
No ads - except the half dozen that you can't skip at the start, including that one about how piracy is theft (said to somebody who bought the d**n disc).
Sometimes it's cheaper to buy a season of a show on DVD than subscribing to the premium channel.
Nothing beats pirating. I stream the videos I want on sites like primewire.tf or something off yarrlist.com. If I want to keep something permenantly, takes 5mins to download PrivateInternetAccess VPN for $10 a month and Utorrent and learn how to use them. I have a 4TB harddrive filled with movies, TV shows, books, music...didn't pay for any of it and it's portable in my hand, owned forever. No more moving a giant media collection from one house to the next. Too expensive and cumbersome to keep up with that.
If it's a movie that I know I will watch numerous times, I might buy it. But a movie i wouldn't watch as often, I wouldn't. They take up to much space and can get scratched or broken and not work anymore.
Also streaming shows and movies I can watch old favorites that are not available on DVD and I don't have to worry about them getting lost/scratched/broken or someone borrowing it and not returning it to me or someone else losing/scratching/breaking it
You don't own it forever. You own it for as long as the medium is intact (which is about 15 years for a DVD if I remember correctly) and you have a working DVD player. Or do you tell me that you didn't replace your VHS tapes with DVDs at some point?
Rip them to a thumb drive. A 64gb thumb drive will hold from 5-20 dvd movies, depending on the format. Most smart TVs have a USB port on the set that you can plug said thumb drive into.
Load More Replies... Sports betting is going to result in a massive scandal that decimates the credibility of professional and college sports. It's happened before, and it will happen again.
Sports associations for decades avoided affiliation with gambling, but now they are advertising it. I guarantee it will bite them in the a*s in the next few years.
Gambling apps and bookmakers are a theft from those who failed probability theory. Your chance of winning the lottery is not significantly improved by buying a ticket ... but the probability of you losing money definitely is.
So the only problem with sports gambling is...they are going to rig it and cause a scandal?? I believe gambling preys on the populace and has no redeeming qualities whatsoever (even entertainment). It's a legal way to separate people from their hard earned money and drag them into debt if they become addicted, ruining families and causing untold pain and suffering. But that's just my opinion.
I'm expecting there to be a scandal involving the officials any day now. I has happened in the NBA already it is just a matter of time before it happens again in one of the major sports.
Oldies radio that plays 50s and 60s songs is good.
I hated Disco in the 70s too. And Soul. Retrospectively it's nearly all good though. Better than most modern stuff, for sure. (Grumpy Old Git mode on).
Load More Replies...yess omg im 16 but love that music pop these days are horribble i mean the voices are pretty and stuff but i love duran duran and bon jovi and queen give me that not ariana grande or katy perry
I'm an oldie so I usually listen to oldies stations on road trips. I know it's blasphemy but I've realized to my dismay that some of those hits really sucked. Maybe not a lot but still..........
Stop talking on your cell phone when you’re in places of business. Grocery store aisles, sitting by yourself in a restaurant, in a public restroom, in a waiting room. People on cell phones tend not to understand or care that they are speaking way above an appropriate volume for the environment they are in. This goes double for inconsiderate asshats who do this with their speaker on so you have to hear the tinny warblings of some person who is probably annoying some other public space somewhere.
We all gotta be in this shared space. Have some consideration for other people.
I totally agree with you. Have some respect for the people around you.
I actually have two.
Social media is messing kids up. They no longer know how to have conversations, interpersonal relationships, they are impatient and have lost the ability to think critically and form their own opinions.
My second one is we have lost the ability to have civil discourse. If we have different opinions we can’t sit and talk about it. Instead we call names, threaten people, doxx, etc. because we have gotten so thin skinned we can’t handle any other opinion other than our own.
Sure, if the other opinion is about whether Star Trek or Star Wars is better. When it comes to issues that involve people being harmed? That's not 'thin-skinned', that's being decent. And why would someone discourage us from loudly speaking out for those who are harmed, I wonder? Who could have an interest in us not standing up for people killed in a genocide, or by antivaxx parents, etc.????
When we successfully polarize society we weaken our society. When it's a us vs them scenario nobody but outside forces win. This is a true statement whether you are on the left or the right. Only thru civil and productive discourse has humanity achieved greatness. I hate the termination of life in the womb, but respect a woman's choice. That is a small example of compromise society needs. Another one is if my neighbor Sally doesn't like guns, she doesn't force me to sell mine and bars me from buying any, then she proceeds to terminate her 3rd trimester pregnancy and I don't try to stop her, neither of us do these things with government funds. Civility, discourse and compromise, not really hard...
Load More Replies...Trump intentionally withheld Hurricane Maria aid for over a year, killing 3000 people. Then people voted for him in two elections. My politeness has limits. As recently as 30 years ago I could argue with them about tax policies; how do I argue about their willfully wanting me to die?
I want a hard copy menu and not one I have to scan a QR code for… f**k that. Also - physical media is still best!
In a similar vein but a hill I’m even more on:
Curry comes with rice. Rice is not extra. Curry without rice is weird thick soup.
Only since like 2019 have places started charging +2 or more for a scoop of f*****g rice with your now $15 curry. So ridiculous.
Despite my name, my mother is Chinese, and meals are “rice with some additional stuff.” I’m constantly ordering extra rice. OTOH, most restaurant entrees Last me several days.
Despite my name, my mom was Japanese. Rice is the main. Everything else is flavoring.
Load More Replies...It's like businesses have copied the video game industry. Everything is now an add-on
I want my DVDs.
And I want a CD player back in my car. I hate being told, "Just stream it" I have a ton of CD's, and I want to listen to THEM, not my Bluetooth. So tired of this c**p. And everything does not have to be on a touch screen, bring back knobs and buttons in my car. They were much easier to access.
You can still have them. And I always buy DVDs of those films i really like, even if I have seen them online or in the cinema before. But some films are only worth a single watching (and sometimes regretfully not even that).
Buying a DVD is still cheaper than going to the cinema, so even if you only watched the movie one time you still saved money
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Main course and a small side salad should be included, I don't want a huge $15 salad to go with my main, I just want a little amount of greens. I'd be fine with an average portion of an entree, not the larger portion we are getting nowadays.
Another one who just wants things charged together. Try eating in Italy. I much prefer their way of doing things. You can order from various sections of a menu, antipasti, pasta, pesci, primi piatti, secundi, contorni, on their own or together as you prefer it. Nothing 'comes with' a side dish unless you specifically ask for it. Conversely you are free to eat a salad with your fish, chips (fries) with your pizza or pasta with your steak. Perfect.
Yup! I wish more places were like Tapas restaurants.
Load More Replies... I'm over going out to eat and having to use a QR code to order a $16+ a plate, grabbing your own water, napkins and forks and then being expected to bus your own table.
I'm staying home in 2024😤.
Many restaurants are doing the QR code menu. I've actually never seen a fast food joint that you needed to use a QR code for anything. The entire menu is on the wall at the cash register stations. Right in front of you.
Load More Replies...I shouldn't need a degree in Star Trek level computer engineering to change the d**n radio station in the car. I like back up cameras though.
Touchscreens for HVAC and other basic controls on a car is downright dangerous. I refuse to change my 2018 BMW for this reason - the dealer has finally got the massage I don’t want a new car! “Just use voice control” aye that won’t work with a thick Glaswegian accent in the back end of nowhere without data signal (for off site processing) and I’m no driving and looking were I have to press just to turn off the heated steering wheel!
Was the massage free? Or did you have to send a message about that?
Load More Replies...Not working sounds great, but isn't viable in a society. We are lucky that we aren't out there murdering each other for food. Yeah, most jobs are a pain, but suck it up buttercup.
Why not both? Yes, the work that needs to be done to keep society running should be shared by as many people as possible (while not blaming those who for some reason temporarily or continually can't do it). But work should also be not something akin to t*****e. From my expriences, working in factories, trade workshops, and offices can be 'nice' and not a punishment. Fair wages don't need to be mentioned.
There's enough for every one on the planet since at leat the 1990's. Famine is a political choice not a necessity.
where do you think that food comes from? The farmers get paid to grow it. No money, no food.
Load More Replies...Imagine if everyone (who is able to) had to do their share of the essential jobs in our society, and anything else was optional. We focus so much on blaming society's ills on people who do no work (despite the obvious fact the unemployment numbers tell you there are plenty of people who want work who can't get it) but don't lay blame in the same way on those who take big salaries doing jobs that actively make society worse for everyone (advertisers, influencers, landlords, stock brokers, ...) and shirk their share of necessary work.
Concerts should be held at a reasonable hour. 8-10pm is too late to start. Make it 4-5pm.
Just depends on the day of the week. Start them at 6pm on Sunday - Thursday, the can start later on the weekends. And 4-5pm on a weekday is too early for the working class.
What about the bands with cool light shows? I would like to actually see it and you can't do that at 4 pm unless you live near the arctic/antarctic
We went to Heart a couple weeks ago. Heart... You know the 70's band, where everyone is at least 65 and the audience averaged about that. We walk in at 6 for the pre show stuff and are informed that cream will be opening at 7:30, 1/2 hr late and Heart will not start till 9. WTF, I generally am in bed by 10 on weeknights anymore (work at 5:30-6) and I think most of my peers are the same. Show was meh, Can't help but think that if they started earlier, the crowd would have been much more into it...
Whenever I get concert tickets I have to request off the next day to sleep. My job has me up at the buttcrack of dawn, but I still want entertainment.
* Ice water comes with sitting down
* On a related note, I still expect tortilla chips and salsa at my Mexican restaurant.
* People have no manners anymore (regardless of age)
and ... oh yes..... "Get off my lawn!" (ok not really) LOL.
I NEED a pint of water (no ice) with every meal. I get thirsty. Eve if I am ordering a glass of soda, or a coffee, I still want water.
Then ask for it. Most people don't drink water with their meal so it goes to waste.
Load More Replies...Speaking of no manners, lmao. And the reason no one gives water without asking for it anymore is because not everyone wants it and it goes to waste.
I _hate_ the US habit of plonking a glass of water on my table when I sit down. So nerr. If I want water, which would be rare when there's beer or wine o offer, then I'll ask you for it, tyvm.
It's not coming out by the gallon, just move it aside.
Load More Replies...PLEASE no ice! Have you ever looked at a commercial ice machine? Do you know how hard they are to clean? Do you know all the mold and crud that builds up in the tubes? You really want that to contaminate the water you're drinking? No thank you. Keep your toxic ice well away from my food and drink please.
Plus it's a fargin POTATOE!!! cheap pile them on already.
Perhaps they're whinging about how fast food outlets are often less than generous with the chips? At all the McDonald's (yes, I'll call you out) I've been to in the last decade or so, if the chips were hot you would be lucky to get a container two thirds full. When you get an overflowing container of chips, it's the stodgy old ones that should have been thrown out they they're trying to pass off on you and since they changed the grease sometime like 2005 or so, cold McDo chips are an utterly miserable experience. Do note well that for less than twice the price of an underfilled large portion, you can go into the supermarket and get 1.6kg of McCain chips which cook up nicely in an air fryer in about 10-12 minutes. Guess why I rarely eat out these days... my chips are hot and plentiful.
Load More Replies...Listening to elders is fundamentally a good idea. They have more experiences than you and you can learn a lot from them. There is a reason why people might not like their parents for periods of time but eventually realize that they were the ones in the wrong.
Tell this our N**i grandparents. There are many bad ideas, and many of them a still around because they are taught from generation to generation. And not only the big bad ideas like racism or antisemitism. Spanking kids for example, or this advice: "Listening to elders is fundamentally a good idea." Yes, you can listen to them, but ultimately don't always follow their advice.
The OP isn't saying listen to everything your elders say and repeat it. They are saying listening to elders is FUNDAMENTALLY A GOOD IDEA. No where in the post does it say to always follow their advice.
Load More Replies...Again, learn from the past. There are ones that you might not want to interact with, but you can learn how not to be.
As an 'elder' aka middle age: yes, we have "more experiences". We also think in terms of outdated technology and were brought up with quite s****y social rules. So make sure that our experience is actually worth listening to. I had people 20 years my junior giving me good advice in how to handle some personal issue.
Listening. Just this.. people are so closeted in their minds, that no one ever listen anymore
The kind of wisdom that always seems to skip a generation? :)
Load More Replies... I may get hate for this but I changed my mind about zoos. I think it’s still an improvement over living in the wild, cause the humans give you free food and medical treatment, and the animals don’t get eaten alive nor die a horrible death. But not all zoos. My local zoo is awful, because they have a bear living all alone in a tiny enclosure.
But as long as the animals have enough space and a social life I don’t mind zoos.
And this coming from a vegan.
I’d love for zoos to evolve and for pedagogic farms and animal sanctuaries to prosper and flourish. It’s great for kids and it helps sensibilize the geneneral public to animal rights and conservation. Nothing beats animal sanctuaries.
Edit: Check out your local farm sanctuaries near you if you want to have an amazing day and interact with farm animals who live freely in a sanctuary 😊.
You've basically made the argument that prison life for humans is better than being free.
Freedom doesn't look as tempting when you have to live with predators around and starving is possible all the time. (And yes, some people who are in danger of starving will also go to prison to get fed.)
Load More Replies...Most countries have regulations for keeping animals in enclosures. And while it would be great if we could see all the animals happily in their environment, the truth is that most people don't give a s**t about said environment and therefore zoos need to help species not to get extinct. You don't want zoos? Cool, solve habitat destruction and poaching. Then we can talk again.
Zoos and wildlife parks are not the rows of cages they used to be. At least, the good ones aren't. They recreate natural habitats and in many cases save species from extinction.
um...no...zoo animals are often depressed and overweight...and, it is t*****e for primates...and for migratory and herding animals....
If someone texts you, try to reply immediately.
Npe, I don't owe anyone my time or attention. I'll answer at my convenience.
Oh hell no. If it's an unexpected text, I'll get around to it when I get around to it. If it's a work text, I'll read it during the hours I'm paid to do work activities. And, no, I don't expect my (very few) texts to be replied to immediately.
no...i am with the old answering machine etiquette, which held that the answering machine ws like having a butler...your butler would give you messages and tell you who was at the door, and then you were free to answer th message or the door as you see fit..people do not have an immediate right to your time or your actions...boundaries.
I get why they do it but supermarkets moving stuff around. The local Tesco have just done it and now I can’t find a lot of things.
Probably some "marketing survey" said that people would buy more stuff if they move this and this and this and... argh! I have to spend a few days walking around the place rebuilding my mental map of where everything is ... and lamenting the stuff that always seems to vanish when they do this. The last time my local supermarket moved everything around they dropped Heinz, like completely. It's all Amora or own brand ketchup which isn't at all the same thing. I get that the supermarket is militant about price gouging (they very publicly booted PepsiCo a few years back) but if they're going to stand on that hill how about they play fair and kick out Nestlé, eh? (side note: can't believe I have to go to flamin' Lidl for my ketchup - what has the world come to?)
Load More Replies...Every generation has its lot of j*rks. Every period has its lot of things to get infuriated with. Age has little to do with it.
So many unintentional boomer comments in the comment sections I now have a massive headache.
Stop trying to scam elders out of their income. So many scams out there targeted at the elderly...
Transphobia: why the hell was that post part of this thread Jonas Grinevičius? I said this in the thread, but if people want sports to be fair, gender separation is b******t. If you want fairness, break the competition down into height and weight class. Every transphobe cries "FAIRNESS" when talking about sports, but that is a lie. You all still want to see the giant kid tackle the short kid, and you love watching the tall kid slap the basket ball out of the air when the short kid takes a shot. You want s**t to be fair? Sort it out in terms of height and weight and to hell with the gender. When I was a kid we did it in hockey and the two chicks who played on my team were the best defensemen we ever had, and the (now transmale) butch girl was an unstoppable goalie. So just stop claiming you care about fairness
I get why they do it but supermarkets moving stuff around. The local Tesco have just done it and now I can’t find a lot of things.
Probably some "marketing survey" said that people would buy more stuff if they move this and this and this and... argh! I have to spend a few days walking around the place rebuilding my mental map of where everything is ... and lamenting the stuff that always seems to vanish when they do this. The last time my local supermarket moved everything around they dropped Heinz, like completely. It's all Amora or own brand ketchup which isn't at all the same thing. I get that the supermarket is militant about price gouging (they very publicly booted PepsiCo a few years back) but if they're going to stand on that hill how about they play fair and kick out Nestlé, eh? (side note: can't believe I have to go to flamin' Lidl for my ketchup - what has the world come to?)
Load More Replies...Every generation has its lot of j*rks. Every period has its lot of things to get infuriated with. Age has little to do with it.
So many unintentional boomer comments in the comment sections I now have a massive headache.
Stop trying to scam elders out of their income. So many scams out there targeted at the elderly...
Transphobia: why the hell was that post part of this thread Jonas Grinevičius? I said this in the thread, but if people want sports to be fair, gender separation is b******t. If you want fairness, break the competition down into height and weight class. Every transphobe cries "FAIRNESS" when talking about sports, but that is a lie. You all still want to see the giant kid tackle the short kid, and you love watching the tall kid slap the basket ball out of the air when the short kid takes a shot. You want s**t to be fair? Sort it out in terms of height and weight and to hell with the gender. When I was a kid we did it in hockey and the two chicks who played on my team were the best defensemen we ever had, and the (now transmale) butch girl was an unstoppable goalie. So just stop claiming you care about fairness
