“The Incels Strike Again”: 59 Times Misogynists Tried To Explain Women But Ended Up Embarrassing Themselves (New Pics)

Misogyny isn’t just some big, scary word—it’s the invisible rulebook that still tells women they’re worth less simply for being women. It’s not only the occasional rude comment or weird vibe at work; it sneaks into laws, workplaces, and even casual family dinners. Seeing it as a whole system instead of random bad moments helps make sense of why half the world often has to play by different rules.

One of the most visible ways this prejudice manifests is through the policing of women’s bodies and their reproductive rights. For centuries, society has treated women’s anatomy as public property or a mystery to be managed by everyone except the women themselves. From restrictive dress codes that blame girls for "distracting" peers to legislation that dictates medical choices, these just feel like unnecessary layers of interference in a woman’s personal life. It’s a gentle reminder that we still have a way to go in letting women simply be the experts of their own experiences. At the end of the day, trusting women to know what’s best for themselves shouldn't be a radical idea; it’s just common sense.

In the professional world, misogyny often hides behind the persistent wage gap and subtle glass ceilings. Even as recently as 2025, the global uncontrolled gender pay gap stood at 0.83, meaning women took home just 83 cents for every dollar earned by men. It’s a frustrating reality, especially when women with the exact same qualifications find their career paths blocked by outdated stereotypes. Often, we’re labeled as "too emotional" for the big decisions, yet if we show true grit and leadership, we’re suddenly seen as "abrasive" or "difficult." This "no-win" double standard makes it feel like the goalposts are always moving just as we’re about to score. Real change isn't just about women working harder; it’s about the world finally valuing our contributions with the same weight as anyone else's.

Socially, the "mental load" and the unequal distribution of domestic labor represent a more subtle, yet pervasive, form of misogyny. Many women find themselves managing the household schedule, holiday planning, and the family’s emotional well-being on top of their full-time careers. In fact, data from 38 countries during the pandemic confirmed that women consistently carry the lion’s share of unpaid workloads.

They also tend to take on a greater intensity of care-related tasks, with research showing that parents often receive more help from daughters than sons. When this labor is treated as a "natural" default rather than actual work, it reinforces the unfair idea that a woman’s time is less valuable than a man’s. Challenging these traditional domestic roles is essential for true equality, giving women the mental space to pursue their own interests and rest without an ounce of guilt.

The digital age has opened up a new and troubling front for misogyny online. Social media, which was meant to connect us, can quickly become a minefield, especially in corners of the internet where toxic ideas about women and male entitlement are normalized. Women who speak up publicly often face an onslaught of threats, personal attacks, and even having their private information shared to intimidate or silence them.

The psychological toll of this constant hostility is real—stress, anxiety, and fear can build up over time, making it harder to participate in online spaces or share opinions without worrying about safety. Beyond just feeling unsafe, this kind of environment can chip away at confidence and mental health, creating a chilling effect where women may think twice before joining discussions, debating ideas, or even posting about their lives. It’s a stark reminder that while the internet has given us incredible opportunities to connect, it has also amplified old patterns of discrimination in ways that can feel relentless and deeply personal.

Internalized misogyny is one of the sneakiest forms of sexism because it happens when women unconsciously adopt the very biases that are used against them. You see it in things like the “not like other girls” mindset, where someone distances herself from other women in an effort to gain approval from men. It can also show up as harsh judgment of other women’s looks, career choices, or parenting styles, creating a culture of quiet competition and subtle cruelty.

When women start seeing each other primarily as rivals for male attention or validation, it chips away at the strength of sisterhood. Breaking free from this takes honest self-reflection and a conscious effort to question the “rules” of patriarchy that train women to be their own and each other’s harshest critics.

Language plays a huge role in keeping misogyny alive, often in ways we barely notice. Words like “bossy,” “feisty,” or “hysterical” are almost always aimed at women who are confident, outspoken, or emotional—qualities that would likely earn men praise as “leadership” or “passion.” For example, think about a workplace meeting where a man speaks firmly and is called a “strong leader,” while a woman saying the same thing is labeled “too aggressive.”

Even calling certain topics “women’s issues” reinforces the idea that male experiences are the default, and anything else is somehow a side note. By paying attention to the words we use every day, we can push back against these subtle signals that suggest women are less capable, less rational, or less important than men.

Ultimately, the fight against misogyny is about building a world where empathy and equality are the baseline for all human interactions. It requires men to be active allies who listen more than they explain and who challenge other men when they hear "confidently incorrect" or harmful statements. It also requires a commitment to education and honest conversations that bridge the gap between different lived experiences. While the examples found on subreddits like "Not How Girls Work" can be infuriating, they serve as vital reminders that we still have a long way to go.

Which of these posts made you stop, either laugh at the sheer absurdity or wonder how people can be this clueless? Some of them are so ridiculous, it’s hard to believe they’re real. Others make you pause and think, ‘Wow, did they really just say that?’ Share it with someone who could use a lesson in common sense or just a reality check.