A rare workaholic aside, there's more to people than just their job. I know, it sounds like a non-controversial and non-provocative thing to say, but often the most difficult parts of life are not the "in-your-face" type of challenges, but those that seep into your everyday routine and become rituals and habits. Like earning your bread and butter.
At a time when the term work-life balance has become a bookselling catchphrase, many are realizing they don't have one. Even more, people don't see a way to achieve it. They're stuck feeling that the system they're a part of has been designed to maintain itself at the expense of its "screws" — human capital — and have nowhere to turn to express their anger and frustration but the internet.
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Sometimes I Wonder How We Aren't In A Near Constant State Of Revolt
I read too many of these stories and I feel for the people concerned so very much. I hope that the Americans will one day get over their fear of 'socialism!' and recreate their healthcare system in a decent one that does not bancrupt you in case of a very unfortunate illness.
We have. The majority of Americans want universal health care. It's our politicians who don't want it, largely because they receive millions in campaign donations from the medical and pharmaceutical industries. My country will never progress until the money is removed from politics.
Load More Replies...I live in Japan. I pay about $500 a month for "social insurance" a combination of health insurance, dental, worker's compensation, social security, etc. For health insurance, I can go to any doctor or clinic, and most times see a doctor in half an hour or so. Longest I waited: 2 hrs (flu season). Insurance pays 2/3 (no deductible), and pays medical, dental, medicine, etc. There are caps on how much you have to pay on a procedure, per month and per year to prevent medical debt. I've always had EXCELLENT care. Affordable, reliable healthcare needs to be a priority in America.
$500 a month sounds like a lot of money to me. Not at all affordable for many people.
Load More Replies...I'm so sorry. Right now there is one single person standing in the way of proper health care and it's Joe Manchin. The midterm elections will be critical in determining whether we allow the lunatic fringe to take over the country and turn it into a dictatorial theocracy, or we can return to some semblance of normalcy. Tell your friends.
How any American can think they live in the "greatest country on Earth" is beyond me. USA is f****d up.
Because they have been brainwashed since babies
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Some people really think 9-5 is just 9-5. It's more like 7am to 7pm and then you ALSO have to shower/exercise/cook for tomorrow/socialise/do your hobbies if you have any and if you have kids it NEVER ENDS
And when all the jobs that pay slightly above minimum wage want you to be there for 10.5 hours a day. Throw in a commute and you have no life.
Load More Replies...Europe has us beat in the work / life category and Scandinavia even more !! I've been there ,seen that so I Know it works !!
Public transport is great if you don't mind adding 2 hours of commute time to your day (each way). And that's in a city with a good PT infrastructure (Boston, New York, etc). That one thing alone turns the whole "We all have the same 24 hours" argument into complete and utter bullshit.
I work Mon thru Friday 8:30 to 5pm however I get up at 6am cause I have to commute on the bus for a hour there and back so I might be home by 7pm the earliestso technically that's 11hrs I work a day ,I never have any time for myself ,I have to try and fit all my errands and chores into those 2 days trying to spend time with loved ones etc.....its crazy
Satan Laughs is clearly a sad little person who loves licking thise boots. They are also very boring.
Not everyone has a second-degree black belt like me. Not everyone has childhood brain cancer like I do. Not everyone has had chemotherapy for 15 months like I did in 2017 and 2018. Not everyone has to have MRIs at least every year like me. And not everyone has to take lamictal nor lamotrigine every 12 hours for epilepsy, which I have experienced the consequences of not doing more than once.
As you can see from the posts, the pressure of an increasingly demanding work culture can be a huge burden on our mental health.
And while a healthy work-life balance means different things to different people, it's usually not so much about splitting your time 50/50 between career and leisure but rather making sure you feel fulfilled and content in both areas. A healthy balance might look like this:
- meeting your deadlines at work while still having time for friends and hobbies;
- having enough time to sleep properly and eat well;
- not worrying about work when you're at home.
"I used to use alcohol, junk food, television, video games – whatever I could to avoid facing the fact that I was an unhappy employee who felt caught in a rat race," career and business coach Ben Fitzgerald told Bored Panda.
"I thought a lot about work-life balance back then. In reality, I had tons of time to myself and the real reason I felt worn out was that I was faking enthusiasm for the work I was doing. The performance of it all was exhausting."
"If you feel like you need more work-life balance and you're not putting in 10+ hours a day, it might be a sign you need to take responsibility for defining what you enjoy, what you don't enjoy, and then make significant changes to how you spend your time," Fitzgerald explained.
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I am suffering from burn-out and depression right now and convey to my daughter to choose her profession wisely. It will make one third of your life for 40+ years.
I hope that things get better for you. I really do. I have a severe mental illness and I cannot imagine putting up with people when it acts up. All the best to you and your family.
Load More Replies...That's why I, at 45, quit my job, bought a tiny house in a forest and will retire per 31 December.
My paternal grandfather died 7 months after retiring in early 70's. My dad vowed then that he would retire early and enjoy grand children while he could still enjoy it. He retired at 56 and 30 yrs later is still going strong and annoying the hell out of my mum. ;o)
I still remember an ad for something coming out way back in 2000 saying that exact thing. It was the year I graduated high school. I remember thinking if only even back then.
Load More Replies...A friend of my husband retired at 62. 6months later he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He was gone less than a year later.
But that's the American way. It's literally the meaning of what it is to be a true American. (obvious sarcasm)
The American Dream Is To Move Out
How are American teachers paid so little? I don't understand. I am a teacher in the UK, and OK, I'm not raking it in, but I have my own home and I certainly don't need a 2nd job.
To do that as a teacher in America you need a spouse/partner with a better job than you have.
Load More Replies..."It is called a dream, because you gotta be asleep to believe it!" (George Carlin)
Exactly. There's a reason why they don't call it the American reality. You're living right in it.
Load More Replies...I am a teacher, I'm paid $40,000 and I have a master's degree (and the college debt greater than my yearly salary to go with my degree). Good luck getting a good public education for your kids in the US-- by the time teachers have learned enough to do a good job teaching, they're burnt out from side hustling or quit the profession altogether.
A ten year experienced teacher in Alberta can earn up to 90k per year
Load More Replies...American anti-intelectualism is worse than it was in some former communist eastern European countries
You know why they call it the American dream? Because you have to be asleep to believe it. (George Carlin)
No s**t !! Because A TYRANNICAL GOVERNMENT HATES AN EDUCATED PROLITERIAT
Teaching is such a hard job and so poorly compensated in the us. IMO teachers should be paid the same amount as senators
I lived 18 years in Texas. Americans have completely screwed up their educational priorities. Example: in Texas parents have to buy school supplies themselves. Dallas put in a $70 MILLION high school football stadium that was built so poorly they couldn't use it without some repair!
I saw my daughter's second grade teacher moonlighting at Costco. We were happy to see her until I realized why.
Don’t Let Them Fool You- We Swim In An Ocean Of Abundance
You're not going to be able to build a big penis rocket to get to space with that attitude buddy
Nah, that requires your daddy to own a diamond mine or two.
Load More Replies...Hoard old newspapers, and you have a mental illness. Hoard money, and somehow you're a hardworking hero who pulled himself up by his bootstraps.
60? In Europe it's 40 hours a week. How vile! 60 hours is 12 hours a day, that's too much!
Different here in the US. It's 40 hrs but they employers try to keep people below 30hrs a week so they don't have to pay them. That's why theres hectic inconsistent work scheduling. The minimum wage in my state is only $15.00 per hour. If nothing bad comes up that's $450 a week, $1,800 a month, $21,600 a year. AKA keeping your head above water.
Load More Replies...If you ever buy anything you don't absolutely need or put a few dollars into savings you are guilty of that too...albeit to a much lesser extent.
According to some people, employees who aren’t actively working 9-5 Monday-Friday aren’t working enough and don’t deserve higher pay rates.
Sarra R, the $15.00 an hour wage workers still don't get health insurance or benefits or paid vacation days, like they should. Some are unqualified for state medical assistance programs. That's why I say hence "if nothing comes up" . The more you make the more you pay when you don't have insurance benefits from your job.
If you have to work more than 40 hours/week to make a good living your countries minimum wage is to low or you're not from an industrialized country.
There are plenty of people who glorify the grind; it can be tempting and even easy to normalize long hours at the office or being under a toxic boss, facing an extreme amount of stress, especially if you've been doing it for a long time or all your colleagues are in the same boat. Our assumptions and habits around work can become deep-rooted unless we take a step back once in a while.
Plus, it can be hard to make changes: if you're on a zero-hours contract you might not feel comfortable speaking up, for example, or you might need to put in extra hours to earn enough money to pay your bills. But for those who can do something about their predicament, recent research suggests regularly checking your work-life balance.
Pause and ask yourself questions like: what's currently causing me stress or unhappiness? How is that affecting my work and personal life? What am I prioritizing? What am I losing out on? Be honest with yourself. We often don't take the time to reflect on work until something major happens to us, like the birth of a child or the loss of someone close to us. But just pausing and thinking about your priorities and values can help you discover whether the way you’re living and working fits you.
Welcome To Our Lovely Society
Yep. Everything, even the fun things, feel like a chore. And Covid stress has amplified this so much.
That's why I work 4 days a week, have done it ever since I graduated and not going to change ever. Yes I have less money, i live small, buy my groceries cheap but I have time to do some self reflection, hobbies and cleaning my house. Which makes me way more productive and I boss sees it. In our company the 5days mentality is changing, one stubborn employee at the time.
Oh, I feel this so much. And then I force myself to do my hobbies and wonder what I thought was so laborious about them. And then I have to clean up the oil paint....
Every single day for the last 20 years or so... but now I'm medicated for it so it's supposed to go away, right? Right?.... guys?
I work 75-80 hours a week (2jobs) to pay my bills and then IF I have a day off my friends/family don't know why I can't/don't wanna hang out. I have to add I'm NOT living above my means. I live in low income housing and my car is over 10 yrs old.
Oh yeah. Big time. I just want 3 days off in a row. Is that such a criminal request to ask! Ahh! Justice! 😣☹️
Work Takes 11 Hours Of My Time, Not Just 8
that's a twisted statement. We shouldn't need Covid in order to do that
Load More Replies...I've had a serious disagreement with a former boss. She said that if the start time was 9am, I was expected to enter the building no later than 8:30 so I'd have time to "grab a coffee and greet the colleagues before start working at 9am sharp". Nah, I'll bring my own coffee and won't speak to anyone and get here at 8:59, thankyouverymuch
If you’re paid for ‘commute time’, then your coworker can move farther out from the job site & be paid more than you for doing less actual work than you.
Bingo. It's a time versus money equation. Usually people who pay more for housing expenses enjoy the luxury of living closer to work. Others save money by living further away.
Load More Replies...As a software developer just now, because of quarantine, after almost 25 years of commute, I was allowed to work from home. It's complete nonsense that we have to work in stupid, horrible open offices and lose 2 or more hours a day in public transport (which is a small version of hell) when I can easily work from home. Also, people like me don't need to make buses even more crowded, CEO would not pay for offices, electricity, internet or anything, if we worked from home. I could not be mobbed by several coworkers and I would sleep more and be with my cats instead of leaving them alone for 10+ hours every day. And they still say we "should be back to office when this is over". Why????? The fact I am working 2 years from home proves it's totally possible.
As you said employer pays electricity, internet, and other stuff when you were in the office. Now you pay for being able to make more money for your boss... how is it fair??
Load More Replies...This is a moment of being careful what you wish for. Being on the company's dollar means your allowing them to have some control over commute. Have to leave early due to heavy snowfall or expecting construction? "I do understand and sympathize this is out of your control. However, it's your responsibility to make sure the roads are cleared before it's your time to leave. This is costing our company extra money for the extra time you need for your commute. I need to come to the HR office when you get here so we can discuss this further. Sincerely Becky, HR Director."
My first job was a 8/8/8 hours default job. On paper I had to work 8 hours, and if I sleep 8 hours, there will 8 for free time left. In reality 8 hours (at least in Germany) is a minimum of 8,5 hours or often 9 hours, because of regulated breaks by law, which are deducted from your loan even if you do not take them. Additionnaly there were often longer workdays, so I missed my train a lot and had to wait up to one hour for the next one - if on time. My commute was 2 hours and so it often became 2,5-3 hours. When I finally arrived home, I was just able to read mails (pre-smartphone era), eat a bit and felt early to sleep, because the job was very stressful. Long story short: 8/8/8 (work, sleep, free time) never existed and was 12/4/8 from the beginning and often became 13/3/8 or even 14/3/7 sometimes. Those bastards lied to me!
I would like the 45 min recovery time after I get home compensated for too.
When I used public transit to get to work, that was more "me" time. I read books or magazines - got a LOT of reading done.
Load More Replies...Commute time can be the only time you have alone to think, listen to music, read a book, sing. I drove, so really enjoyed the hour each way to myself....not reading of course, but you can listen to an e book.
Yes, your time on the bus or train can be personal time!
Load More Replies...Nobody Ever Wanted To Work
At the very least, nobody wants to work for such miserly wages that they have to work 3 jobs just so they are not living on the streets.
The only employers that say this are the ones who pay crap. The ones who pay good have zero issues staffing.
People are willing to work - they just don't want to earn rock-bottom wages. All we want is to be paid enough to live on, to keep up with all the bills and be able to salt away some for retirement or "a rainy day," afford healthful food instead of subsisting on beans and ramen. And have reasonable benefits such as health coverage - that will actually cover our expenses when we are hurt or get sick.
Load More Replies...This! If I could financially afford it, I would never ever work a day in my life again. I do want to contribute to society, but then that will be on my terms and because I genuinely like to do it, and not doing it just for paying the bills.
Legitimately curious . . . Where would you get the money to live if you didn't work? Who would be paying for your home, utilities, and food?
Load More Replies...I've enrolled at a job resource centre. The lady asked what kinds of skills I have. One of them is creativity and innovation. She was at a loss what kinds of jobs I could do with a high school diploma and 10+ years of working in a office setting that could involve creativity. I was recommended retail and merchandising. An option that entails going back to working part time at minimum wage, and a very low chance of gaining health insurance and vacation days.
The only people who don't have to work are the owners of the real wealth producing apparatus.(approx 10%) For the rest of us 90% our place is as Wage Slaves and that is determined independently of our free will and consciousness from the moment of our birth. Our secondary purpose is to make another replacement wage slave. Seems that in America the cost of repair factory for the slaves isn't inclusive. This needs urgent attention.
I'm sorry, but who in the hell is supposed to provide you your "necessities" then? You are not entitled to have anything provided for you. That's not how it works.
Acknowledge your feelings. Now that you're more aware of your current situation, how does it make you feel? Are you fulfilled and happy, or sad, angry, and resentful? Being aware of your feelings can help you decide which changes you want to make.
Reprioritize. Think about what you need to change. For example, you might want to ask yourself if working long hours is worth losing out on family time, or whether working weekends is worth sacrificing your hobbies.
Consider the alternatives. Is there anything at work you can change to meet your (new) wishes and goals?
Finally, make changes. Whether it's asking for flexible hours, being allowed to use all of your annual leave, or disconnecting from your corporate email at the weekend, chase what's important to you.
Ben Fitzgerald said there's a lot to gain from realigning your work to your personal and professional development goals. This introduces challenges, activates your curiosity, and shifts the focus to one of personal responsibility - instead of working in service of someone else's vision you're working in service of your own. Just a simple tweak in mindset can work wonders.
"Devoting your time and attention in service of someone else without any expectation of reciprocation is a great way to feel more purposeful and fulfilled," Fitzgerald explained. "Try adopting this mentality with your manager in mind and see what happens."
There's a huge difference between living to work and working so that we can live.
School Prepares You To Be A Good Wage Slave
To all those pro-homework people below, let me mention two things. 1. I have an education degree, and no, homework is BS passing of responsibility from incompetent teachers to parents. 2. Finland has the best educational outcomes AND no homework, so there.
Greetings from Finland. Of course we have homework at every level of school. Who came up with this utter bull$hit?!?
Load More Replies...It also depends on what kind of homework the receive. More often than not, unfortunately, homework is a long series of repetetive, dull problems that can be solved by one same pattern. It's tiring, incredibly time-consuming, and absolutely not educational.
From my past 13 years of school, I’ve noticed that homework gradually makes me less interested in almost any topic. It was when we started geometry proofs in my sophomore year that I decided I wouldn’t take a math class during my senior year, since only three math credits were required for graduation. Maybe the only thing I stayed interested in was Spanish, though I moved on to Korean after I graduated. I’d say I’ve learned more valuable material from my 10 years of Taekwondo training than my 13 years of school.
Load More Replies...I've been a teacher for almost 30 years. Class time simply isn't enough time to teach kids all they need to learn. Yes, I give homework. However, I don't believe in giving homework just to give homework or just to put a grade in a gradebook. If the homework doesn't have a purpose and goal, I don't give it, and I always try to keep homework reasonable. That said, I DO believe that the "sit down, shut up, and do what you're told" model of education only prepares students to be cogs in the machine. At my school (in Japan) I'm allowed HUGE freedom to teach. I seach UN Sustainable Development Goals. My lessons are learner-centered, learning focused. My students interact with each other, make presentations, do debates, and learn about important topics, and I learn a LOT from them. My students teach me!
Teachers in the US are taught the same thing as the kids. In school to become a teacher and the whole time I was teaching, the non-stop mantra was: a GOOD teacher works non-stop, stays late, and takes work home every night. Anybody who clocks out at the end of school and doesn't take work home is a crap teacher who doesn't care about their job. And this wasn't even subtle. It was said outright by admin and fellow teachers alike.
To all the illiterate activists that swear by the great Finnish educational system that they read about on Buzzfeed: I am a middleschool teacher, so let me tell you a few things: 1. Finland is not the greatest educational system, it is just the most popularized by the media. If we go by olympiad results, Asian countries are the bes in the world. If we go by raw difficulty of syllabus, Eastern Europe has the highest results. Finland simply has a liberal system that appeals to the masses that get their information from Buzzfeed. It certainly has its advantages, like a very personalized curriculum, but it's not any kind of breakthrough. 2. Finnish students have homework. Cancel Buzzfeed and learn to do real research. 3. Homework has nothing to do with the competence of the teacher. It is only here that you finally show your level of utter illiteracy. Classes are for showing and demonstrating. Honework is for putting into practice. You would know that if you had done your homework.
Homework should be illegal. We're making kids work more than 8 hours per day. It's child abuse.
I would always finish my homework at school right after it was given as I can still ask my teacher questions about it. I didn't want homework to get in the way of my play time.
Homework is a product of lazy teachers. My 2 kids had hours of homework starting in middle school. I never had hours of HW when I was in HS. Our teachers taught us everything in class and sent us home with maybe 30 minutes of work in each class. History English math science usually. My daughter was an AP student and was up till 10:30 at night . Kids go to school tired and not ready to learn. Today she is an Architect and successful, but a ton of HW in HS didn’t help
Same Here My Brother
Is There More To Life Than Work?
I feel you. My only 4 week vacation was in 2009. My last 1 week vacation was in 2018. It sucks.
That's sad... I'm so happy to live in a country where employers are obliged to give a minimum of four weeks vacation, and often more. In many workplaces you can have three weeks in a row off during summer. Employers even encourage you to take all of your vacation days. It's very beneficial for your physical and mental health to have the opportunity to take breaks. Healthy and properly rested employees are happy employees, and that will often make them even more loyal and productive.
have a kid then and you'll be in a 24/7 job without break and with a boss that's way more unreasonable and demanding... just kidding, you don't own a company anything, go have your time out whenever you want, there will be other jobs, your health is more important. just don't waste your money on things that don't matter that will give you a 2 min moment of joy
I am taking my first vacation ever in FEB. I have worked since 16 and even when I didn't I was looking for work and doing odd jobs. I literally worked my 20's away and for what?
I hope you'll have wonderful time and lots of fun during your vacation, Ryan!
Load More Replies..."Work and Play" lecture by Alan Watts. Worth a listen. You can probably find it on youtube.
I just can sense the baby boomers and some gen Xers coming in with that "back in my day" lecture BS to just basically called new millennials lazy. Knowing good and well the hoops they had to jump through to put food on the table was less than half of the obstacles the new working generation (gen Y) has to go through now.
In New Zealand...3 or 4 weeks compulsory holidays per year. Minimum wage $23 an hour. 37 1/2 hour working week, unless otherwise stated.
Yeah same here I'll probably drop dead at my desk wasn't even able to buy my first house until I was 52..
Load More Replies...working since 13, do not know breaks, and I am 45 and suicidal. This planet is a prison, what did I do to deserve this punishment.
I know life is hard but you are so strong and I respect you so much for working so hard for so many years. Taking breaks sometimes sounds scary but please do take one when you feel like you can't take it any longer. The world would be a worse place without you. Sending you much love
Load More Replies...She Has A Very Valid Point
and caused by climate change which is caused by capitalist industries barfing out pollutants. https://www.epa.gov/ghgemissions/sources-greenhouse-gas-emissions
Global warming doesn't cause tornados. Might actually make them rarer. Between 1950 and 1990s, stormchasing led to the number of identified tornadoes doubling. But when tornadoes of any given strength are compared, the number of tornadoes has been steady or declined. Yes, May 2019 shattered the record for the number of EF-1 or higher tornadoes, but May 2021 was the first May on record to have zero EF-3 or higher tornadoes. (May is usually the peak.)
Load More Replies...The disaster is natural but we humans have invented ways to predict it. There was no reason to keep them there.
I'm pretty sure those same employees and families are about to own that ceo. And I'll be happy when it happens. This bs needs to stop.
Because people wanted to gift candles during the annual capitalist buying frenzy.
Also a boss who told them if they went home he would write them up. Horrible. My family lives there. The sweet town will never be the same. Thank you for those who have stepped up to help.
It was about 9pm. not 3am. the 03:00 timestamps referred at the news are UTC timestamps. The news about dismissing of the tornado warnings sounds quite grave but working at 9pm in the evening shift is globally pretty normal in all financial systems.
And People Wonder Why This Sub Exists
For all of its faults, I am glad we don't really have this culture in the UK
That boss would be an asshole without capitalism, but people blame systems instead of people's own poor actions
Load More Replies...What B.S. No trauma Center Hospital would allow a computer in the ICU. Go back to sleep.
This is no longer true capitalism. We are living in more of a Corporatocracy. Many, if not most, of our politicians are beholden to the corporations that support them. You might as well say the corporations own them. They threaten to withhold donations unless they get what they want. The best example is the 2017 Corporate welfare bill, aka the tax bill. Certain member of Congress want the companies to be treated like persons and tell us it is our responsibility to support them by buying their products even if we don’t need them. In true Capitalism demand drives supply. If enough people want something the companies make enough to meet the demand. We have pretty much the opposite going on nowadays. Corporatocracy (/ˌkɔːrpərəˈtɒkrəsi/, from corporate and Greek: -κρατία, romanized: -kratía, lit. 'domination by'; short form corpocracy[1]) is a term used to refer to an economic, political and judicial system controlled by corporations or corporate interests.[2]
Just sue them if they fire you. Then you can retire from the settlement.
Capitalism isn't a death cult. That woman's boss is the root of evil here. Anyone with a shred of decency would never ask someone to work out of a hospital bed. The company needs to suck it up and fill the gap the employee left by having that person's manager pick up the slack. Treat others the way you'd want to be treated. That's my management mantra and has been since I started managing people over 20 years ago.
OK, if true, this really sucks. There ARE laws against this, but some people do feel obliged to please a boss in spite of such laws. But it's strange to call Capitalism a death cult when socialists have murdered hundreds of millions, from Hitler (25 M) to Stalin (35 M) to Mao (50 M).
There Is Nothing Good About Huddle Culture
Hustle culture is a scam, the constant stream of posts on LinkedIn about how good it is to hustle all hours is nauseating. I prefer to switch my brain off in the evenings and spend time with my family.
No, one must continuously produce and consume!
Load More Replies...As a Gen X I wholeheartedly support the "kids these days" rejecting the hustle.
I had a great paying job. $35/hr, unlimited hours, but no overtime while working as a traveling IT guy. Usually 80-90 hrs per week. The company ignored every rule of road safety and company driving, every safety policy. I just drove and no one knew where I was at any given time, but as long as people kept saying nice things, my boss was happy to take all the credit. After 3 years my health was so bad I had to quit for over a year to get healthy again. In the end, I spent the money renting a nicer apartment I never saw, paid people to clean it for me, and ordered in every meal cause I was too tired to live. Ended up with just some furniture to show for it. Quit IT forever cause it shattered my dreams.
Wish everyone could learn this early in their lives.. at least those with midlife crises
Do you really think Gen X liked how things were? The 80's were ruled by Reaganomics. Unions disappeared and jobs went overseas. The 90's were full of the same. Back then, bosses and employers ruled. If you didn't like it, you were fired and no one cared about your feelings, health, well-being, personal life, family, death, etc. You were a body to abuse and use in exchange for paltry wages.
If you want me to work extra hours or above and beyond what is typically expected of a standard work contract, you better pay me above and beyond for that. Loyalty means nothing anymore to the owners, so it should be nothing to me unless you're reimbursing me for it.
Am I willing to work in a position that I love and am paid for? Definitely. Am I willing to work in an position that I’m not too interested in but being paid for? More likely than not. Am I willing to work in a position that I like but am not paid for? Maybe. Am I willing to work in a position that I hate without being paid? A hard no.
I Hate The Grind Mentallity
Says she who writes this on a phone produced by people making $1/hour in a communist country famous for its death camps, while wearing one of her 20+ 200$ brand t-shirts produced in Bangladeshi sweatshops by children as young as 5.
I worked since I was 16 and I’m 24 now working as an underpaid teacher and I’m just exhausted
Well, on the other hand, I will not trust someone who has the sign of a criminal regime next to her nickname.
Bragging about working 80 work weeks for someone else is pretty stupid. But this woman is actually showing off the hammer and sickle that straight-up murdered 150 million people. Right... but she's a Democratic socialist, I suppose. (Hint: there's no such thing, because if you depend on government for economic control, you can't voice an opinion against that government or any of its policies. There's a reason why socialists ALWAYS end up slaughtering their citizens.)
Exactly, corporations only care about the bottom line....profits before people. We are slaves not free people no matter what bs they try to feed us!!!
You're right and the saddest part about it is people are blind to it and will defend being exploited.
Load More Replies...I can't do it. I don't understand how gamers call it a "grind" and manage to be motivated to play for many hours on end. It just gives the feeling of gruelling work.
The Protestant Work Ethic Is Stupid
Reminds me of this quote: "Man has always assumed that he is more intelligent than dolphins because he has achieved so much--the wheel, New York, wars and so on -- while all the dolphins had ever done was muck about in the water having a good time. But, conversely, the dolphins had always believed that they were far more intelligent than man -- for precisely the same reasons." Douglas Adams, So Long, and Thanks for All the Fish.
That's why they're always happy. Even when attacking sharks.
Load More Replies..."Protestant work ethic is stupid" - illiterate prostitute on Onlyfans.
Not A Controversial Take
I wonder if people realize that capitalism exists outside US as well and yet people there are not one blown tire away from homlessness. Places like, I don't know...Canada for instance....
But other places have at least some socialist structures in place (the 'social safety net') unlike the USA, which is pure capitalism.
Load More Replies...bhubhubhubhu american dream blah blah bald eagles and stars and stripes blah blah trickle-down economics blah blah land of opportunity blah blah. Right. https://www.census.gov/library/publications/2021/demo/p60-273.html#:~:text=The%20official%20poverty%20rate%20in,from%2010.5%20percent%20in%202019.
I’m on top of the world right now because I have money left over after Christmas! I’m 42 and it’s only happened a handful of times in my life :)
Been there. I was never more than 90 days from being homeless. 4 years ago, I took care of the problem with my budget; My bank account is fat and I am thin because I don't have a wife to cook for me anymore.
I always wondered why there are no economical fugitives from the US in EU, but than I heard about the increasing number of Muricans that come here to study for free.
I'm going through this right now. I fell and broke my back and my wrist in October. If it wasn't for my mom paying my car payment and my boyfriend paying for everything else, I'd be homeless. Luckily, since I don't have health insurance, the hospital has a financial aid program that I qualified for. I had just started working at our local Junior high School the week before so I didn't have anything yet.
Covering up comment using statistics to misunderstand how government numbers do not match day to day reality, especially with double digit inflation.
Do What You Love
Sadly, this is often true. You end up competing economically with other people who work for love, not for money. Don't tell yourself, "Oh, I love animals; I'll work at an animal hospital!" Everybody loves animals. Find what you're good at. Find what kind of day-to-day interactions with other humans energize you. Find a job doing that. Does cleaning up dog s**t and euthenizing sick, unwanted animals really make you feel empowered? Find a job with good people surrounding you. Quit bad jobs quickly. Stay near parents and family while you are young, if that's what it takes for you to have the security to switch jobs several times. Get the HELL out of the huge, coastal cities; an exciting night-life will do nothing towards helping you find a real life.
True. Sad but true... I'm a social worker.... Master's degree required.... 36 credits of continuous education every 3 years license 3 yrs...$400 to renew so we can walk into dangerous home and drag out serious mentally ill person and give meds.... for 37k per year. Yea....
Btw that is not what I do now.... but that IS a typical start
Load More Replies...Yup. This. Freelanced for a few years which did help support some travels and Livin abroad, but working for pittance for people who just couldn't be arsed and then nitpicked everything about what I did. Been three years and I haven't recovered from the burnout yet (For the record, it isn't fun Livin abroad or travelling when you're flat broke and need to take every job to make rent)
Ooooo- ouch. I wish someone had laid this on me in 1968. Now I feel stoopid.
I hear working at the Archie Comic studio is great. I hope it is. Still my dream job that will never be fulfilled. Idk if I'm ready to find out.
Never Ending Rat Race
You’re not taking away their motivation to work, you’re encouraging them to be motivated to rest.
That Sunday Feeling
I work at a hospital at night. I work five 8 hour shifts a week. I usually work the whole weekend and have 48hours off during the week. I specify the hours because with the way my schedule is I'm at work at least 6 days a week. I start at the end of a day and end at the beginning of the day. It's really s**t when my two "days" off aren't consecutive. Then I'm at work every day of the week for at least a few hours.
Then there's the erratic, ever-changing working hours and days... 2 days a week start at 5am and get out at "1pm" - meaning whatever time you're done. 3 days a week start at 9am, or sometimes 1pm... Get out anywhere from 6pm to midnight, go home and immediately pass out to do it all again... Days off? A random Tuesday, sometimes Monday, maybe Thursday... If you're fantastically lucky you could get a friday, Saturday or Sunday but don't expect to ever have 2 consecutive days off... Very often one of those days you'll get called in to cover someone who didn't show up. The remaining day off? Being exhausted, attempting to clean, buy groceries, do enough laundry to last a few days, maybe watch one episode of a show before falling asleep... Oh, and no overtime. You work for the same money whether you do 32 hours or 80. The best part is, you STILL can't afford rent and live your parents basement...with your college degree on the wall and hopes and dreams in a box buried somewhere in a closet
Life Is Meaningless - But In A Good Way
But on the other hand, let's realize indigenous people, those living closer to nature, have a harsh existence. No food hunted or gathered means starvation, a broken bone, pneumonia or a snake bite may result in death, half your children won't reach maturity, and a life expectancy of maybe 40 years. Just watch any nature documentary to realize the ruthlessness of actually living close to nature.
Actually the extreme hardships of indigenous life are often a myth. Yes, nature can take its toll, medical care is a problem, and starvation is not out of the picture. But ethnological surveys from the 80s actually found out that lots of the "undeveloped" (I do not like that word) tribesmen had a workload of about four to five hours a day, while the rest was taken with recreation, games or culture. Even hunting was more of a sport than a serious source of food. The REAL hardships usually began after western culture took over, maginalizing them.
Load More Replies...Get Bent, Brian
I worked in a high pressure call centre for a few months (too much pressure) and 'Brian' asked me at full volume in the middle of the call centre why it took me 12 minutes to go to the toilet. I matched his confidence and volume and announced that 'I was having a big s**t'. Served him right. He was a muppet.
I got fired from a cashier job I took to make Christmas money over me having gurd. I'm sorry my tummy gets upset sometimes you asswipes. 🤬
Load More Replies...Companies are committed to YOU working towards THEIR greener future. $$$
The company I work at is going to allow people to work remotely at least a few days a week. My job is one that can't be done from home, so I've been back at the office since the end of June.
YES! And ask your company why they thought downtown New York or San Francisco or San Jose was so desirable; why do workers have to live in homes that literally cost ten times more than homes in San Antonio or Philadelphia or Indianapolis or Rochester or Kingsport, just so they could drive an hour into work at some impressive-looking office building? Seriously, folks: Coastal cities are for shipping. If Import-Export of massive, huge items isn't central to your business plan, why set up your company there? Hell, even Detroit and Pittsburgh are inland! Why does a software company have to be in a port city?
But Your Passion Is Working Until You Die Right?
this is the kind of 'lol' written by someone who was dying inside I am so sorry for you
Load More Replies...Actually, you are jealous of people who inherited money, not rich people in general. People who earned their riches generally work a lot for many years. Some times they turn to hobbies later in life like the idiotic billionaires’ space race but mostly they just work. I’m very jealous of people with a large trust fund.
Most of the rich people I know work way more than 40 hours and don't see their families much. I think they take nice vacations though?
Load More Replies...Maybe OP means inheritance-rich? The people in my company earning $350,000 and over work practically 24/7.
Not sure I agree with this post. Not all rich people are famous (and those are the ones this post is probably based on) and of the successful people I know, most of them are complete workaholics and would rather work than do anything else, ever. They most likely work upwards of 80h per week, because money fuels them and work = money. The difference is that the business they work for is theirs. They tend not to work for someone else.
And what is your pay rate compared to the people who are saying this?
Load More Replies...This hasn't been said anywhere? I don't mind working. I do mind being exploited at wages so low that working for a week doesn't cover expenses. I do mind that wages haven't risen at anywhere near the same rate as inflation, meaning that for the same "honest day's work" we are being paid peenies on the pound that used to be paid. We're not entitled, we're sick of being exploited when the older generations call us lazy and entitled when our experiences are nothing alike.
Load More Replies...Amazon Killed People Last Night
This was all preventable. This is what happens when workers don't have unions and work councils to speak up for them and when the government doesn't punish companies for blatant inhuman behavior towards their employees.
That's why Amazon is big into union busting, as they know they would have to improve conditions if their employees ever managed to unionize.
Load More Replies...Yeah, but why keep on buying there in the first place? And complaining ''why is my order taking so long to deliver?!'' Don't buy there, that's it. It works thanks to customers
Same with the Candle company. Workers had asked to leave several times as warnings came in but the management told them no. They threatened them with the likely loss of their jobs if they left.
In truly free countries, the free people elected representants who made a law that that states that no company is allowed to send people into dangerous conditions against their will, or enforce anything after they left on their own due to upcoming danger. These countries are called europe ... must look like a real utopia from the US by now...
Load More Replies...Say what you want about unions but the fact is, this probably wouldn't have happened had a strong union been in place.
I admit that I often avoid news because it's so depressing, but I'm equally horrified that I didn't know about this.
One Of The Most Brilliant Minds To Have Ever Lived Was Crushed Mentally And Physically By Capitalism. He Was Robbed Of The Fruits Of His Labor, Manipulated And His Research Sabotaged In The Race For Profit
Tesla literally invented (excuse me, he preferred the word "discovered") the 20th Century.
The Oatmeal summed it up something like this ... Tesla > Edison Unfortunately Tesla's greatness didn't get greater reward.
He was quite autistic. The "American way" of working did not suit his style of brilliance.
The ultimate manifestation of "nice guys finish last". It needs to be legal to terminate those that extort and cheat you...
I’m With This Guy
If you were a man, obviously. Bc food will never cook itself, mess will not disappear magically, laundry and dishes won't do themselves, and don't forget about children. And in old good days fire and water from a well were also women's responsibility. In some parts if the world still is. https://youtu.be/6-xzYGWUnYg
Which is a proof what "good old times" is a myth. It's sh.ty now, but not as miserable as it was back then (and still is in many parts of the world).
Not sure why you think winter was miserable as, say a peasant in the middle ages. They had more downtime in those months than in any others, I would say.
Load More Replies...Work conditions at my job is 8 hours of freezing cold pouring in from outside, freezing our buns off. No heat for the people down below and some heat for others up above, but still freezing.
actually mankind evolved in africa near the equator. so .. nah :P we just have no business staying in cold area
No, we were not. We were meant to live in a place that has no friggin wolves, cold season or dark months - or autumn harvest for that matter ... we are literally not built to live that far off the equator, we only managed to do so because we used our technological intelligence and tool-usage friendly body to overcome our physical shortcomings and artificially adapt to a hostile environment.
Agree. But then we have to accept on the other hand that mankind wasn’t meant for traveling for pleasure or going Christmas shopping and many other pleasures. It’s kind of difficult. For me, I can say I don’t need luxury anymore, but only my peace and a cosy home.
A Healthy Work Ethic Is Key
I used to do my hobby as my job. My advice is do NOT do what you love as a job-it will suck out every ounce of joy from the activity.
Not necessarily. I work in theatre and still love every minute of it. I have less time to see other shows myself, yes, But I still enjoy all of it.
Load More Replies...I absolutely love my job. I work for a company I always loved doing fascinating things working with amazing people, I have life/work balance, on most week ends I hike, cook, bake, do arts and crafts (my job is in high tech) When I joined I had stars in the eyes and some of my friends were worried I was in for a rude awakening. Years later, I love my job even more. It's hard, challenging, keeps me on my toes, but I wouldn't change a thing. Maybe I'm one of the lucky few... but it does happen.
I always hated that saying about doing what you love and never working a day in your life, it implies everyone should be finding a job they love as much as a hobby. But if everyone did that then we'd have tones of jobs with noone working them.
Or the actual proverb, "Choose a Job You Love, and You Will Never Work a Day in Your Life." After a couple of hated jobs as a teen, I spent my life working as a professional musician, then as a computer programmer and the saying held true for me, and now, post-retirement, I still love both avocations. First it was "Made in Japan," then "Made in Taiwan" and "Made in Korea." Now it's "Made in China," soon to be replaced with "Made in America... by Americans."
I believe that it's not so much about finding a job where you do what you love (or believe in), but to find purpose and meaning and importance in whatever job you find. It's sort of like if I apply the song "If you can't be with one you love, love the one you're with", but applied to work. Alan Watts has a great lecture about being a bus driver. Look it up.
Capitalism Should Die
I need to earn money. However, I look forward to other things in my day, such as a nice breakfast, warm shower, feeling fresh and clean. Seeing the winter sunrise, and a deep pink/purple sunset, talking to my friend I met at work, making plans for the evening, enjoying a delicious supper and dessert. I can paint after work, hang out on the internet, sleep in on the weekend. When I know I'm going out of my mind I'll start taking those vacation days I'm entitled to. I'm more scared of not being able to pay off debt than the amount of hours I have to work to earn the money I need to live on.
I work 12 hour shifts and at only three years in at my dream job my back 24/7 feels like someone is taking an ax to it and has me wishing that my retirement age wasn't still 10 years away.
From about age 25 to age 40, I worked, on average, about 12 hours a day, 5, 6 and sometimes 7 days a week. I had months where I had 3 days off the entire month. I no longer have the energy (and times have changed, too), but I always said that I could do it because I loved my work, and believed in the importance of what I was doing. I'm a teacher, and if I were rich, and didn't need to work, I'd still want to be a teacher.
Don't extrapolate your experience, please. You're like a happy housewife. That's good that you are happy, but Big Bosses uses you as an excuse to not pay to others. "If you wanted money you would be businessmen, and teaching is a vocation". That was said by politician NOT in the US btw.
Load More Replies...Properly taxing the rich would be a good starting point
Load More Replies...There are many reasons to dislike capitalism and many valid complaints in this list of how people are being exploited. Having to work a 40 hour week in a job that provides a living wage is not one of them. People in this situation work less than almost any time in history.
An unpaid hour for lunch. At least, that's how it works in Canada.
Load More Replies...I don't think what anybody believes what that's "way of life" but you do want to eat sometimes, be clothed and have roof over your head? If so, you don't have much of a choice - submit or go down the ladder.
You DO have other choices, but we've been drilled with FEAR our whole lives...of being on the "outside" --of the cool group, the rich group, the 'highly educated' group, the 'normal' group, that we ACCEPT our "place" and have learned not to complain too loud or too much, lest we "lose" our "place" and are faced with the Big Bad "out there".
Load More Replies...I find it annoying how you blame everything on capitalism. In communist countries I visited it was normal for people to work 16 hours a day, so that they could afford basic needs, in a workplace that has absolutely no health and safety standards so it's normal seeing people without limbs due to some accident at work. Of course our lifes are not the dream we were sold, but really, do tou expect to get everything while doing nothing?
This Is A Big Factor Of Why I Have Depression
I suffer from 'mild' depression, and personally I am much happier when I am working - when I am busy, have a routine, see people I like, have challenges and expectations. Even in the busy stressful times. I have experienced long periods of time off, and I find I fall into depressive spirals when there are no external drivers. Maybe I have been conditioned to function better as a worker, but I don't think NOT working is the answer. Just, you know, better hours.
Me too, Alex. But it doesn't have to be "working", I just need activity to focus on. Gardening, practicing guitar, tidying my home, baking, cooking.
Load More Replies...I feel that's a bit extreme. I do enjoy working if I have the feeling it's something meaningful and doesn't completely suck out my life just so that I have enough money to live.
My dream job was to be a firetruck. My teacher was so frustrated with me.
When I was in elementary school, I wanted to be the veterinarian/companion for the Loch Ness Monster. I set the bar so high, that I’ll never be happy. 😔
Well, help people, discover new, self-realization sound pretty good for me. You can argue USSR all you want, but at least children wanted to become someone, proper human being who does this world a better place. Propaganda of course, but gosh, i wish i had this faith in the humanity ..
But then, in 90-s they saw shows and easily changed their wants to become gangsters and prostitutes. Both are unnatural. I wish there was the ultimate right way.
Load More Replies...It Really Is
I need some clarification. Is she saying we should have MORE time to ourselves, or that 2-3 hours is a lot?
please don't say that out loud. the teacher commenting on the post above will scream at you about her 'constantly working'
The Software Industry
It’s Not Normal
The anxiety and anger of the younger generations is fertile soil for revolution. Right now the US Gub-mint is largely old white guys whose minds are stuck in the 1950s, or before. Fortunately, more Millennials and teens are getting politically active - registering to vote, signing petitions, and so on. We are ripe for a revolution, and it can be a bloodless one.
Buying things you don't need is not normal. And buying them KNOWING they will only last 3 month due programmed obsolescence or for fashion is just obcene
So after you recognize that, which a big portion of this planet has already done and some have already managed to change, what are you going to do next? Bitch on twitter? Complain on instagram? Post dumn memes on Facebook about how your life sucks? Yes, that will work out just swell.
I Threw My Life Away For A S**t Job. You Can Too!
We Have Become Slaves To Money, Rather Than Using Money As A Tool To Make Our Lives Easier And Better
No, the goal is to make enough money for the owner to buy a bigger yacht.
That's what companies want, and everyone else hates it
Load More Replies...You Aren’t A Person When You Aren’t Someone Else’s Person In This Free Society
My wife had a 7 year gap on her cv as she was a full time mum to our son who is autistic. We put that on her CV and she recently started a job as a teaching assistant at a special needs school.
Load More Replies...I was once out of work (though doing some part time stuff) and had applied for a temporary position. In the interview I was asked to "Sum up your work ethic in one sentence". I replied "I'm prepared to work for money". The interviewer was a little taken aback, so he continued with "Why should we employ you?", and I countered with "You need somebody to do this job, I've already shown interest by coming for an interview, and I'm prepared to do it for the money you're offering". I not only got the job, but I was asked to extend several times until I was made permanent staff, and I remained there for five years until the company was absorbed by local government. I'm not sure why that seems to be such a difficult concept to understand for these businesses. Pay me enough money and I will literally shovel sh!t for you, but don't expect loyalty and devotion for the "privilege" of having a job.
you are not obligated to divulge such information either. They may not hire you, but at that point would you want to work for them anyhow?
Sick Humble Brag
A lot of people are overworked which has nothing to do with time management skill.
But the people who act like it's a good thing to work more do have problems
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The Cycle Continues
Not Gonna Happen
And evade taxes having all bank acounts in fiscal paradises
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This Has Been Quite The Crushing Realization As I Transition To Post-Grad Life
That Front Porch Life
We Work 40+ Hours A Week Not For Maximum Efficiency, But Because It Makes Sure We Can’t Force Change Outside Of Work
Sorry?
Felt That One
because being homeless or living in a hut you just made by hand is illegal in usa. That's why. You HAVE TO be part of the machine.
Or work to defeat it. Get politically active. Contact your (alleged) representatives in government, local and federal. Sign petitions. Protest. Make sure you are registered to vote, and get your a**e to the polls. Overthrowing the soulless machine will not be easy, and will entail a LOT of time. As the hoary cliché says, it's a marathon, not a sprint - but enough people are willing to run that marathon.
Load More Replies...New Tech Is Not Supposed To Make Our Life Harder
Because the profit from this transition goes to the company owner and not the workers. Means of production should not be private property Marx said early on when industrialization started.
Sounds Like A Scam To Me
What scares me is that I might retire at 65 and live to be 100. 35 years of retirement? What would I do with all the time?
Whatever TF you want. That's what you'd do with that time.
Load More Replies...How can you not aspire to a utopian future where everyone is fed and watered and spend their time enjoying the sunshine and hanging out with their nearest and dearest? Are you happy scratching around in the dirt for the crumbs that fall off the table?
Load More Replies...12 Years Of Elderly Leisure
Facts
Biggest Scam Ever
It depends on which school you are at. Traditional schools with uniforms, making people wait in lines, wait for bells to signify lunch breaks, sitting in desk rows like a sweatshop factory, listening to a foreman drilling you in repetitive tasks, sure. However, you also get montessori schools which don't do that.
They are great, but again only for people with more money than most.
Load More Replies...Who Thought It Was A Good Idea?
Who thought it was a good idea? The owners of the companies. They trade in Your hours for Their money and give you scraps.
I want people to make a show where they force that person to work off their choices and watch how long it takes them to have a mental breakdown (my guess is in the first 2 hours)
I Think This Belongs Here
This Is Depressing. True But Depressing
I really wish I remembered how to block people on here. You'd be top of my list to block so I don't have to see your sht.
Load More Replies...You Supposed To Get Motivated By This... Lol
work is energy. This guy has never worked. What he has done is delegate and yell at people who didn't work (Expend energy) on his behalf. If you google him you can see he's basically a stockbroker trainer - that kind of guy. So he gets paid to yell at you to tell you to work harder on shuffling your shares around. That is literally not work, that is literally gambling, or teaching people gambling, and selling the skill of teaching people how to gamble. Now, I'm not saying he hasn't figured out how to make money, or that he hasn't got money, or that he's a fraud, I'm saying it's NOT WORK.
Dan Pena needs to work harder on his spelling and punctuation, because he clearly doesn't employ anyone to do it for him.
Truth
On Mental Health
There is this concept called "Unconditional basic income" according to which every citizen - regardless of his or her economic situation - receives a legally stipulated and equal financial benefit paid out by the state for everyone, without having to provide anything in return. It discussed in Germany for example, we have a political party here named after it striving for this goal. The benefits: An unconditional basic income would, under the laws of free markets, lead to previously poorly paid but necessary work being better paid, made more attractive or replaced by automated processes. For necessary or widely desired work, appealing and rewarding employment relationships would inevitably be created, and there would always be enough people willing to work in the medium and medium term for sufficiently attractive or lucrative job offers. The result would therefore be a labor market that is based on supply and demand, which does not exist in today's market economy because of the pressur
e to work. Independence and entrepreneurship and thus innovation and flexibility would be promoted. The employees would become more self-confident and no longer “stuck” in one place. The greater independence reduces internal competition, reduces bullying and improves the working atmosphere, with the result that negative stress and mental illnesses decrease. The UBI not only promotes the emancipation and independence of women, but through the introduction of a UBI many citizens would have more time and financial opportunities to deal more intensively with political issues, to become active and thus to participate in a lively democracy.
Load More Replies...This is why I stopped buying anything but essentials. I don't need more than a few pair of shoes. I don't need extra jewelry or to own movies. I'd rather be happy with little than miserable with a ton of crop. Simplify your life. It does help. And don't let bosses make you do more than your job. They can pay you more then. Demand better.
I 'need' a roof over my head, but with those crazy house prices I can't afford to buy one on a salary of 40+ hours of work. Can't rent one either. Even if I only buy the essentials, that roof over my head is still missing.
Load More Replies...As an X kid, I'm looking forward to the day that Gen Z and Millenials take over the world and bin this capitalist mindset once and for all four all future generations.
The USA is ripe for revolution. As the Old Guard loses power because they're dying off, the younger people who are painfully aware of the harm done by unbridled capitalism, deregulation and neoliberalism are gaining. The Old Guard know their days are numbered, so they're desperate, and fighting back any way they can, without thinking for a moment about this country's needs or the good of its residents. They spew B.S. that equates socialism with communism, trot out the s--tshow that Venezuela has become while conveniently ignoring countries such as Canada, New Zealand, and many countries in western and Central Europe where democratic socialism works. They have the positive aspects of capitalism and socialism, and are doing just fine!
Load More Replies...So I go around to schools in my area and do workshops for kids starting in 10th grade. I show them that working smarter, not harder starts the moment you begin looking at colleges. I show them with an app I developed what their budget will look like based on where they want to go to school and what they plan on doing as a career. It takes into account the cost of living in their desired location.... EVERYTHING. Kids are sold this lie that 4 years of college right away is the ONLY way to succeed. Capitalism isnt the problem folks. Its how college is sold to us by snake oil salesmen. If done right, no kids other than lawyers and doctors need to graduate with debt (which is half the issue these days). Once kids see how their money is affected by this college lie, their brain lights up and understands they can work smarter even before getting a career.
And here in America I have to ignore some family members cause they think free child care free Healthcare or low cost...free two year degrees and a 15 an hour minimum work wage is going to turn us into a socialist country. Oh no....better life would be horrible wouldn't it?
All of these complaints that seem to be flooding social media, at least in the U.S. anyway, along with all the recommendations of what rich people should be doing with their money. I wonder why none of these same people complaining ever post anything about changing other areas of U.S. culture such as making it socially acceptable to have extended families living under the same roof and actually sharing major life expenses? All they seem to do is stay centered around the rallying cry that "the American dream was a lie!".
That's why I work 4 days a week, have done it ever since I graduated and not going to change ever. Yes I have less money, i live small, buy my groceries cheap but I have time to do some self reflection, hobbies and cleaning my house. Which makes me way more productive and I boss sees it. In our company the 5days mentality is changing, one stubborn employee at the time.
56 Pics That Show Work To Life Balance Does Not Exist in a country where everything is about keeping up with the Joneses, impressing strangers with a luxury lifestyle you really can't afford and crying yourself to sleep each night over all your financial troubles.
There is this concept called "Unconditional basic income" according to which every citizen - regardless of his or her economic situation - receives a legally stipulated and equal financial benefit paid out by the state for everyone, without having to provide anything in return. It discussed in Germany for example, we have a political party here named after it striving for this goal. The benefits: An unconditional basic income would, under the laws of free markets, lead to previously poorly paid but necessary work being better paid, made more attractive or replaced by automated processes. For necessary or widely desired work, appealing and rewarding employment relationships would inevitably be created, and there would always be enough people willing to work in the medium and medium term for sufficiently attractive or lucrative job offers. The result would therefore be a labor market that is based on supply and demand, which does not exist in today's market economy because of the pressur
e to work. Independence and entrepreneurship and thus innovation and flexibility would be promoted. The employees would become more self-confident and no longer “stuck” in one place. The greater independence reduces internal competition, reduces bullying and improves the working atmosphere, with the result that negative stress and mental illnesses decrease. The UBI not only promotes the emancipation and independence of women, but through the introduction of a UBI many citizens would have more time and financial opportunities to deal more intensively with political issues, to become active and thus to participate in a lively democracy.
Load More Replies...This is why I stopped buying anything but essentials. I don't need more than a few pair of shoes. I don't need extra jewelry or to own movies. I'd rather be happy with little than miserable with a ton of crop. Simplify your life. It does help. And don't let bosses make you do more than your job. They can pay you more then. Demand better.
I 'need' a roof over my head, but with those crazy house prices I can't afford to buy one on a salary of 40+ hours of work. Can't rent one either. Even if I only buy the essentials, that roof over my head is still missing.
Load More Replies...As an X kid, I'm looking forward to the day that Gen Z and Millenials take over the world and bin this capitalist mindset once and for all four all future generations.
The USA is ripe for revolution. As the Old Guard loses power because they're dying off, the younger people who are painfully aware of the harm done by unbridled capitalism, deregulation and neoliberalism are gaining. The Old Guard know their days are numbered, so they're desperate, and fighting back any way they can, without thinking for a moment about this country's needs or the good of its residents. They spew B.S. that equates socialism with communism, trot out the s--tshow that Venezuela has become while conveniently ignoring countries such as Canada, New Zealand, and many countries in western and Central Europe where democratic socialism works. They have the positive aspects of capitalism and socialism, and are doing just fine!
Load More Replies...So I go around to schools in my area and do workshops for kids starting in 10th grade. I show them that working smarter, not harder starts the moment you begin looking at colleges. I show them with an app I developed what their budget will look like based on where they want to go to school and what they plan on doing as a career. It takes into account the cost of living in their desired location.... EVERYTHING. Kids are sold this lie that 4 years of college right away is the ONLY way to succeed. Capitalism isnt the problem folks. Its how college is sold to us by snake oil salesmen. If done right, no kids other than lawyers and doctors need to graduate with debt (which is half the issue these days). Once kids see how their money is affected by this college lie, their brain lights up and understands they can work smarter even before getting a career.
And here in America I have to ignore some family members cause they think free child care free Healthcare or low cost...free two year degrees and a 15 an hour minimum work wage is going to turn us into a socialist country. Oh no....better life would be horrible wouldn't it?
All of these complaints that seem to be flooding social media, at least in the U.S. anyway, along with all the recommendations of what rich people should be doing with their money. I wonder why none of these same people complaining ever post anything about changing other areas of U.S. culture such as making it socially acceptable to have extended families living under the same roof and actually sharing major life expenses? All they seem to do is stay centered around the rallying cry that "the American dream was a lie!".
That's why I work 4 days a week, have done it ever since I graduated and not going to change ever. Yes I have less money, i live small, buy my groceries cheap but I have time to do some self reflection, hobbies and cleaning my house. Which makes me way more productive and I boss sees it. In our company the 5days mentality is changing, one stubborn employee at the time.
56 Pics That Show Work To Life Balance Does Not Exist in a country where everything is about keeping up with the Joneses, impressing strangers with a luxury lifestyle you really can't afford and crying yourself to sleep each night over all your financial troubles.
