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Back in the day, moms had to rely on their mothers, aunts, and neighbors named Susan for advice about parenting. Nowadays, mothers can find community online, with many Facebook and other types of groups dedicated to parents. As of 2024, Facebook is still the top platform for moms, with parenting, neighborhood advice, and logistics groups being the most popular.

Yet, some of the moms in those groups have a certain way of seeing the world. The groups can be a breeding ground for anti-vaxxers, essential oil healers, and relationship drama that's better than a soap opera. Luckily, there's an online group that collects these ridiculous posts and shames their ridiculous members – "[Stuff] Mom Groups Say." Here are the newest posts from the community trying to inject some common sense into modern parenting.

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#1

Thought You Guys Might Like This

Meme featuring a confused cartoon mouse illustrating irresponsible and toxic behavior related to anti-vax consequences.

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Andrew Keir
Community Member
5 months ago

... thus proving that there is no place for unsubstantiated opinions, when it comes to saving lives.

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    #2

    Becuz Measles R Cool

    Woman dressed as measles for Halloween, highlighted in a post about irresponsible and toxic mothers causing outrage.

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    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Your facts aren't going to override her beliefs

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    #3

    This Has Probably Been Posted Before But It Makes Me Laugh Every Time I See It

    Social media post showing irresponsible and toxic mother blaming vaccines and calling CPS over child's minor injury.

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    UKGrandad
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

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    #4

    I Feel So Bad For This Poor Boy

    Text about a mother's decision not to vaccinate leading to her son's transplant denial, showing toxic parenting behavior.

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    Michael MacKinnon
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    The logic is pretty clear: if you get a transplant, you're on immune suppression d***s for life; if you don't have immunity to something beforehand, you won't get it afterwards; so if you get any number of illnesses, it's fatal; and so if you give someone unvaccinated a transplant, it's the waste of a scarce organ that someone else could have had.

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    #5

    Yeah Just Get Rid Of All Math Beyond Basic 6th Grade Math

    Man sitting in a wooden chair sharing opinions on replacing Algebra 2 with financial fundamentals education.

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    AnnaB
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    Am I bad if I kind of agree with this?

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    #6

    We Can Cure The Common Cold!!! Magic!!!

    Text message exchange about using complex home remedies to treat a cold, highlighting irresponsible and toxic mother behaviors.

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    Bored Jellyfish
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    Salt water gargle (just needs to be plain salt) is valid. Forget the essential oils and just get some hot and sour soup 👍

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    #7

    Yes, Yes They Really Are That Stupid, And Dangerous

    Post warning about toxic mothers poisoning children with bleach, showing an illustration of a child and a bleach bottle cursor.

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    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    Cause they rather have a dead child then a child with autism.

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    #8

    Spank Your Kid Because They Have Accidents, With Bonus Ignoring Medical Professionals

    Social media post showing irresponsible mother spanked daughter for pooping in underwear, highlighting toxic parenting behavior.

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    Fred
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Kidnegarden: I must remember that one.

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    #9

    This Extreme Fear-Mongering Pisses Me Off So Much

    Social media post showing toxic parenting concerns about unvaccinated infant and flu shot exposure risks.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    More like if the month old son survives.

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    #10

    Full Time Job? How Do You Work Full Time Selling Oils From Your Garage?

    Text on a pastel background about allowing children to believe in Santa Claus contrasted with essential oils in toxic and irresponsible mothers context.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited)

    Yeah, well, Santa Claus is not as harmful as essential oils.

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    #11

    You Don’t Need Either

    Text conversation about treating a huge infected spider bite with cold milk and bread, showing irresponsible mother advice.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited)

    I recall this was shown in an episode of Little House On The Prairie, when Carolyn Ingalls got a nasty cut on her leg. She took some bread, dipped it in something, put it on the cut and wrapped it. It got terribly infected to the point she was about to amputate because that's what she read to do in the Bible. That was the first time I heard of the bread treatment. It didn't look convincing.

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    #12

    Couldn't Decide If This Deserved The Unfathomable Stupidity Or Vaccine Flair

    Group of women holding signs promoting vaccination, highlighting irresponsible and toxic mother behavior online.

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    Ian Webling
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    If they survive.

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    #13

    There's An Oil For That?

    Text post showing an irresponsible mother ignoring proper care after her husband’s finger injury, infuriating people online.

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    Stephanie Did It
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Don't bother to worry about tetanus now, because you'll be plenty worried when he contracts it.

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    #14

    The Hypocrisy

    Text post showing an unvaccinated toddler bitten by a dog, with the mother asking how to care for the wound.

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    Fungus John
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I would troll this person saying "maybe the dog passed some of its vaccines to your child in the bite"

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    #15

    Organic

    Social media post asking if potato in sock remedy works for babies' colds, showcasing irresponsible and toxic mothers.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    What??? And do what with the sock potato? Beat the baby with it?

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    #16

    I'm Smarter Than A Dr

    Text post illustrating an irresponsible and toxic attitude with sarcastic vaccine advice, reflecting toxic mothers' behavior.

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    Armac
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    No they don’t

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    #17

    Essential Oils Do It All!

    Social media post showing irresponsible mothers seeking unsafe advice for 10-month-old sunscreen, sparking toxic reactions.

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    Stephanie Did It
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    She'll oil the baby up like a rotisserie chicken and then be shocked they got baked. 😳

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    #18

    On The Screen At My Doctor's Office - Too Bad They'll Never See It

    Tablet screen showing a warning not to self-diagnose with medical advice, highlighting irresponsible behavior of toxic mothers.

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    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    If I look anything up online I do admit this to my doctor but let them know I'm telling them so they can tell me if it's hokum or if it could really help.

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    #19

    This Isn’t Concerning At All

    Text post asking for an essential oil to help children sleep, illustrating irresponsible and toxic parenting behavior.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    What is with some parents always wanting to d**g their kids to get them to sleep? I heard this so much when I kid was young. Not this, per se, but giving them baby Tylenol or something like that.

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    #20

    My Child's Future Means Nothing To Me

    Forum post questioning reasons for not wanting a child to have a birth certificate, showing toxic and irresponsible mother behavior.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Gosh 👀👀

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    #21

    A 15 Year Old Football Player Donating His Organs... Anti-Vax Mom Has The Audacity To Comment This

    Teenage football player in uniform stands by fence after collapse, with a comment questioning vaccination, showing toxic mother behavior.

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    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    What a piece of shît.

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    #22

    Autistic Dogs

    Screenshot of a social media post by an irresponsible mother refusing dog vaccines, sparking controversy and frustration online.

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    Heffalump
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Would I be right in assuming that the autistic dog is non-verbal?

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    #23

    I Mean Candy Is Unhealthy Buuuuut

    Sign on table comparing candy as unhealthy and crystals as epic health, illustrating toxic mothers infuriating people.

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    Kim Kermes
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Clever. Give kids rocks to throw at your house.

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    #24

    Popped Up On My Newsfeed

    Screenshot of a social media post where a mother considers taking her one-month-old baby to a tanning bed, highlighting irresponsible parenting.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I hope this is satire.

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    #25

    Facts

    Man on stage humorously criticizing Facebook moms' irresponsible vaccine research and autism misconceptions.

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    Andrew Keir
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    You forgot 'pathetically false statistics'.

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    #26

    Lavender Oil Works Every Time

    Hand pouring essential oils on a board game, showing toxic and irresponsible behavior related to mothers and infuriating people.

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    Andrew Keir
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Which is the essential oil for an open fracture to the femur?

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    #27

    The Commenter Is The Hero We Don’t Deserve

    Social media post showing a mom looking for vaccine speakers, highlighting irresponsible and toxic mother behavior.

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    Norfolk and good
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    "You're a doctor who spealises in child medicine, so you can't know more than my aromatherapist."

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    #28

    Death. The Outcome Could Be Death

    Social media post asking about moms refusing antibiotics for Group B Strep during pregnancy, sparking debate on toxic mothers.

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    Andrew Keir
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Nobody's alive to complain about this, so it must be harmless, right?

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    #29

    Anti-Vaxxer Tried To Post This As A Proof Of Her “Valid Medical Exemption” From Vaccines. The Body Makes Formaldehyde As A By-Product

    Text meme about having a formaldehyde allergy and refusing vaccines, related to irresponsible toxic mothers theme.

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    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Does she know apples have formaldehyde in them?

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    #30

    I Can’t Believe The Nurses Are Infected Too

    Comment from an RN explaining refusal to give vaccines linked to aborted fetal cells, highlighting personal beliefs and professional options.

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    Norfolk and good
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    In the UK, nurses can be struck off for promoting anti-vax views.

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    #31

    Poor Kid Paying The Price For Her Parents Being Stupid

    Social media post by a mother discussing hearing loss in her unvaccinated child and vaccine concerns in toxic mothers context.

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    Spidercat
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Yeah. You fücked up your kid's life because you are a moron 👍🏻

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    #32

    She Has An Online Dictionary! Doctors Beware!

    A mother reading numerous vaccine package inserts, highlighting informed parenting and toxicity in mothers.

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    zatrisha
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Yeah... these stupid little doctors with their stupid little words and the stupid little decades-long courses of study.

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    #33

    I Cannot Stand The Trope Of Being A Mom To Your Husband

    Gray shirt with pink necklace and white text saying not sure who is harder to raise my husband or my kids, highlighting toxic mothers theme.

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    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    With that attitude I doubt she "raises" much in her husband. LOL!

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    #34

    Maybe Don’t Leave The House If Perfectly Normal Human Behavior Bothers You?

    Social media post discussing mothers' reactions to strangers engaging with their babies, highlighting toxic behavior.

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Where do you find these people? I make faces and wave at babies all the time, I've never had a dirty look from the parent

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    #35

    How To [end] Your Kid At School In One Easy Step!

    Facebook post from an irresponsible toxic mother refusing prescribed asthma medicine for her son, causing school issues.

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    Shesa
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I've heard that asbestos works as well?

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    #36

    Doctors Don’t Know What’s Best, Don’t Listen To Them!!

    Text post discussing misinformation about labor and pregnancy, highlighting irresponsible and toxic behavior from some mothers.

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    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    ...and have a dead baby.

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    #37

    It Was A Mouse Study, And It Most Certainly Did Not Say That

    Screenshot of a social media post about fasting and immune system with reactions and shares, related to toxic mothers keyword.

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    David
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    and some random website says it, so it must be true!!!!!!!!!

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    #38

    So I Found This Frog In My Kid's Mouth

    Alt text: Irresponsible mother finds frog in baby’s mouth, worries about CPS and vaccination consequences.

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    Billo66
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    Kid pokes it. Come on, sing like you did for me. Hello my baby, hello my darlin, hello my ragtime gal. .... I think he croaked.

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    #39

    I Wonder Why My Toddler Isn't Sleeping?

    Social media post discussing bedtime routines for toddlers, highlighting challenges faced by some toxic and irresponsible mothers.

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    Ravenkbh
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited)

    Stop watching "Texas Chainsaw M@ssacre"

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    #40

    Just One Big Petri Dish Of Stupid

    Woman with shingles rash on forehead, discussing paranoia around baby, representing irresponsible and toxic mothers online.

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    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    Oh they are in for a very nasty suprise.

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    #41

    Sure Hope The Crunchy Points Were Worth Your Child Losing His Hearing

    Text post showing a toxic mother neglecting her son's ear infection, illustrating irresponsible parenting frustrations.

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    Armac
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    You take him to the doctor and do exactly what they tell you.

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    #42

    She Googled. Don’t Scare Her. Peroxide Up The Butt Is Going To Be Okay

    Screenshot of a social media post describing an accidental harmful enema, illustrating irresponsible and toxic behavior.

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    Stephanie Did It
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    With friends like Facebook, you don't need enemas. 😋

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    #43

    "Monat Makes Me A Millionaire"

    Text post from Twitter showing a toxic mother spending her daughter’s college fund on a business, reflecting irresponsible behavior.

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    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    MLM, aka pyramid scheme, I presume.

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    #44

    Harmless Tetanus

    Social media post showing a mother asking about essential oils for a child with a leg injury, highlighting toxic mother behavior.

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    Fungus John
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    any oil works, you just need enough to drown the child in to put them out of their misery

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    #45

    Shared By A Girl I Went To High School With. Dropped Out, Had A Baby And Decided To Devote Her Life To Shaming Other Moms, Conspiracy Theories And Anti-Vaxx Propaganda

    Social media post criticizing mothers and others on vaccination debates, reflecting irresponsible and toxic behaviors.

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    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago

    So as a feminist i must support ignorant peoples opinion that their beliefs are more important/valid then science? That's a big NO from me.

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    #46

    This Right Here

    Social media comments sharing natural remedies for infant ear infections, reflecting irresponsible mothers' advice.

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    Fungus John
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited)

    you could try screaming at the infection, I've heard certain frequencies have healing properties

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    #47

    The Actual Fu..?

    Post showing a toxic mother criticizing Halloween celebrations with a religious message about her home’s beliefs.

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    Spidercat
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    God forbid I spend some time with my dad...

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    #48

    Protesting Against Vaccines. This Is The New Civil Rights Movement???

    Woman in white dress and boots using phone indoors, part of a post about irresponsible toxic mothers infuriating people.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    All those people who developed the vaccines we use today, like Pasteur and others, would be rolling in the grave.

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    #49

    This Happens. /S

    Social media post showing irresponsible and toxic parenting attitudes about immunizations from a young daughter protecting her brother.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited)

    I don’t know what you think woke means, but being antivax does not make you woke. It’s funny that since a lot of conservatives are antivaxxers as well as anti-woke, this mom calls her anti-vax indoctrinated kid woke.

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    #50

    Sure Man, You Converted Your Kids Assistant Principal Into A Flat Earther

    Social media post from an irresponsible mother bragging about convincing an assistant principal about Flat Earth theory.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited)

    Thank god he converted the principle and not the principal.

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    #51

    How Do I Brainwash My Child So I Can Control Her Longer?

    Text post showing a mother sharing concerns about vaccines and struggling to explain them to her daughter.

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    Laura Spring
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I miss punctuation.

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    #52

    A Little Meme Action

    Moms in groups showing toxic behavior with pregnancy tests, rashes, temperature, and relationship suspicions.

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    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Also the "It's always time for "mommy juice" all day, every day." and "My son is always hyperactive but he can sit and play his video games until we make him shut it off. Is he ADHD or Autistic?"

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    #53

    Yes.. Very Wrong

    Social media post showing a mother described as irresponsible and toxic, sparking frustration and disbelief online.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    By that logic, I’m a doctor too! I did my own google research! Now where’s my license?

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    #54

    Haha Screaming At Your Kids Is Funny

    Woman holding a sign about screaming at her kids, representing irresponsible toxic mothers infuriating people in new pics.

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    David
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I mean I know someone who has 4 boys ages 3-11, when they fight, you need to yell to get it to stop

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    #55

    The Vaccine Is For Cats

    Man wearing blue jacket and face mask holding a cat, illustrating irresponsible and toxic mothers infuriating people online.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    When I was younger, I fed and played with the stray cats a lot. I had allergies too, and my mom was convinced it was the cats. I stopped visiting the cats but, spoiler alert, my allergies did not stop. My mom went on to theorise that maybe it was peanut butter, maybe it was curd, maybe it was cashews, the list went on. Next thing she’ll tell me I’m allergic to water.

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    #56

    Move Over Karen

    Group photo of a large family with faces blacked out, related to irresponsible toxic mothers and anti-vax controversy.

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    UKGrandad
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Should have been carrying a tiny coffin for the costume to be realistic.

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    #57

    The Comments Are Filled With Her Explaining The Science Behind It

    Social media post showing irresponsible and toxic mother sharing unsafe teething advice for babies, infuriating people.

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    Jan Rosier
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    is this another version of potato in a sock? And yeah, also... WTAF ?

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    #58

    A Breastpumping Problem No Scientist Has Yet Undertaken

    Text post about a boyfriend farting near a haaka, showcasing irresponsible and toxic behavior from mothers.

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    Spidercat
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    *Farticles...

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    #59

    Ask Your Kids

    Social media post warning about irresponsible and toxic mothers ignoring dangerous trends at school, infuriating people.

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    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I want to know why none of these moms can spell or use apostrophes or grammar correctly.

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    #60

    Worst. Mom. Ever

    Social media post showing a mom admitting to irresponsibility after feeding her toddler cream cheese with additives.

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    Marianne
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    It's also in tomatoes, corn, potatoes and meat. And breastmilk. Now what?

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    #61

    My Son Is 24 Months Old

    Meme showing a new mom angrily correcting age as 24 months while others say 2, highlighting toxic mother behavior.

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I thought this was because baby and toddler milestones are nearer together than for older children and adults, so it makes sense to describe their age in smaller units.

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    #62

    Y.....yes???

    Social media post showing a toxic mother's question about eating cinnamon rolls while pregnant, infuriating people online.

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    Elladine DesIsles
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    I mean, as long as they are baked? Technically, popping open a tube of Pillsbury cinnamon roll dough and eating it raw would be a higher-risk choice while pregnant, though it isn't exactly advisable when not gestating either.

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    #63

    When You Decide You Don’t Love Your Second Kid Before It’s Even Born. (Sorry, This Group Is Just So... Stupid.)

    Social media post from a toxic mother questioning vaccine choices for her second child, sparking debate and frustration.

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    Andrew Keir
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    For a few minutes, on a bad night, maybe. But not as a permanent decision. The cure for 'baby blues' is not more babies.

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    #64

    Fruits, Veggies, Poisons

    Grocery store layout highlighting fruits and veggies surrounded by poison, toxins, chemicals, and d***s, illustrating toxic environment.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Even dairy counts as poison now? Unless you’re lactose intolerant, of course.

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    #65

    Some People Should Not Homeschool

    Screenshot of a social media post asking homeschooling parents for curriculum recommendations, related to toxic mothers.

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    Mrreoww
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Homeschooling has become so extreme that a while ago, there was this post from a mom who was looking for parents who would do group homeschooling and some place she could send her kid to be homeschooled. Apparently school is not in her dictionary,

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    #66

    At This Point They Don’t Even Know What They Are Arguing For

    Hand inserting strawberry into green baby feeder toy, surrounded by various colorful feeders and a baby chewing on one.

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    Ashtophet
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    Plastic. There are cloth bags that you can use for the same thing…

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    #67

    It Do Be Like That

    Meme showing repeated laughing faces to humorously depict bacteria ignoring essential oils, related to toxic and irresponsible mothers.

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    Andrew Keir
    Community Member
    5 months ago

    "I've never seen a bacteria so that proves there aren't any! "

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