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Article created by: Ieva Pečiulytė

Social norms are informal rules that govern behavior in groups and societies. They touch almost every aspect of our lives.

Academics like to use this comparison to explain the concept: just as grammar is a set of regulations that governs the structure and organization of language, social norms regulate the structure and organization of people, and, again, just as grammar shapes how we communicate and understand language, social norms shape how we behave and interact with others.

Sociologists talk about social norms motivating people to act, economists explore how they influence market behavior, and legal scholars view them as alternatives to laws, and while their words make sense, if we deconstruct these systems enough, they can begin to look silly.

Recently, Reddit user Irish-Springs made a post on the platform, asking people to share what social norm they find pretty weird when they think about it, and it has already received over 5,300 comments, many of which raise some hilariously valid points.

#1

Woman nursing her baby while sitting on a wooden bench, highlighting social norms people find weird and valid points. People's absolute horror about women breastfeeding in public. Oh, I am sorry, Karen. I am giving my baby substance, not trying to attract your 12 year old son.

KayD12364 , RDNE Stock project Report

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    #2

    Men dressed in black suits carrying a wooden coffin outdoors depicting social norms that some find weird. Paying tens of thousands of dollars to bury corpses in the ground.

    ieatsthapussy , cottonbro studio Report

    #3

    Glass jar filled with crumpled dollar bills representing social norms people find weird and noteworthy discussions. The expectation of tipping for certain jobs, as a substitute for paying employees a higher wage.

    Keikobad , Dave Dugdale Report

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    #4

    Two people celebrating outdoors with balloons and confetti, highlighting social norms that they find weird. Gender reveal parties.

    Curious_Elephant_200 , Rebeca Alvidrez Report

    #5

    Close-up of a clenched fist against a dark background illustrating social norms people find weird. Showing excessive gratuitous violence is fine, and will get you at most a PG-13 rating, which most people will think is too strict anyways. But show even one uncovered booby and people will lose their minds.

    TipzE , Pixabay Report

    Czeslaw Aleksander Liebert
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    That relates to the States, I guess. No such outrage in most European countries.

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    #6

    American flag waving against clear blue sky representing social norms people find weird in culture discussions The absurd obsession the US has with the flag and the "reverence" surrounding it. It's a godsdammed piece of fabric. Actually, US patriotism as a whole.

    YankeeMoose , The absurd obsession the US has with the flag and the "reverence" surrounding it. It's a godsdammed piece of fabric. Actually, US patriotism as a whol Report

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    #7

    Woman in a red sweater resting her head on a laptop at desk, illustrating weird social norms and relatable points. Working 40 hours a week. It’s actually insane that we all put up with it.

    Clementinequeen95 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

    #8

    Young woman with glasses writing in a notebook indoors, reflecting on social norms people find weird and funny. Forcing people in their teens to decide on a career with the implication that they'll do it for the rest of their life and sealing the deal by putting them into so much debt studying for said career that they're pretty much enslaved to it.

    BedroomCactus , Kyle Gregory Devaras Report

    #9

    Child and adult holding hands and hugging, illustrating social norms that many people find weird or unusual. Forcing or encouraging a child to hug a family member that has known them since their birth but the child doesn't have any sort of bond with said family member.

    WickedBasket2000 , Ivan Samkov Report

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    #10

    Group of people dressed in vintage clothing engaging in conversation, illustrating social norms in a casual setting. Family asking if you're trying for a child. 

    EveRommel , Clem Onojeghuo Report

    #11

    Bride and groom kissing surrounded by wedding guests tossing flower petals highlighting social norms gatherings The expectation to have a huge wedding.

    asj0107 , Leonardo Miranda Report

    #12

    Elderly man and young woman smiling and hugging, illustrating social norms and relationships people find weird. Asking a grown woman's father for her hand in marriage. What?

    snydermann , Andrea Piacquadio Report

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    #13

    Two women and a child in a kitchen celebrating a birthday, highlighting social norms people find weird and funny. Everybody hates being sung happy birthday and everybody hates singing happy birthday, so what the hell are we doing here?

    funkyjiveturkey , August de Richelieu Report

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    #14

    Two women shaking hands and smiling, illustrating social norms that people find weird and amusing. Asking people how they're doing as a matter of courtesy when you truly don't care and are hoping they just say "good hbu" in response.

    TheMaskedSandwich , George Milton Report

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