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People Accuse Girls Of Being Racist For “Refusing” To Hold A Black Girl’s Hand, Then The Girl’s Mom Responds
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People Accuse Girls Of Being Racist For “Refusing” To Hold A Black Girl’s Hand, Then The Girl’s Mom Responds

After the tragic shooting at Santa Fe High School on 18th May, the city has rallied around its students and teachers, showing “Santa Fe Strong” solidarity and support as they return to the school just before summer break. 10 people lost their lives and 13 were injured in the horrific incident, and it has deeply affected the entire city.

Sadly some people, instead of showing solidarity and asking what can be done to make American schools safer, chose to bring race issues into the equation. A cropped picture emerged of Nicole, a student of Santa Fe High who happens to be black, not holding hands with her white classmates before singing the national anthem at a basketball game. Naturally, somebody just had to play the race card. “But why is nobody holding the black girl’s hand?”

And so it began. Without anybody bothering to question the context and background to the story, the accusations began to flow. “Who the white girls?? Yeah they did have one job and refused to hold the black chicks hand…their racisms showing BIG TIME,” was just one example of a righteous indignation that quickly got out of control.

That is, until mom stepped in. Nicole’s mother explained that the picture was in fact cropped, and there were other girls standing beside Nicole who were also not holding hands. Nicole herself was very upset by the ‘racism’ storm the picture had kicked up, the reason she chose not to hold hands was because she was understandably feeling very emotional after the events at her school. “My daughter didn’t want to cry before she had to sing and holding hands would have caused her to start crying,” her mom said. “That’s the story, it’s nothing about race.”

You would think that was the end of the story, right? Wrong. Nicole’s mom, who happens to be white, faced all kinds of questioning about whether she really is Nicole’s mom, as well as a smattering of abuse from people whose righteous narrative had been suddenly cut short.

The entire episode showed much of what is wrong with American society, from yet another community in mourning after a school shooting, to a stream of manufactured racism outrage based on nothing more than a cropped picture. However at the same time Nicole’s mom’s exasperated yet reasoned response showed that there is hope. While some people see only division and negativity, her defense of her daughter while bringing the focus back onto the real issues, such as the healing of the community as a whole, was admirable. Sure, there are major issues with race that run deep in society. But while some people are fighting for equality and justice, those who point fingers and look for racism when it isn’t there are doing more harm than good.

Scroll down to check out the story for yourself below, and let us know what you think in the comments.

The NBA shared this tweet recently, showing solidarity with Sante Fe after the tragic school shooting on May 18th

Other people jumped in on the accusations as well

Then the girl’s mom responded to clear things up

But that wasn’t enough

Someone even doubted that it was her mother

Even that wasn’t enough for some people

The girl herself responded in a video

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Her cousin also responded to the tweets

In the end, a lot of people supported the girl and her mom

Image credits: rmwire

Here’s a final message from the mom

The whole situation sparked a discussion



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stellermatt
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4 years ago

you know when someone is feeling rubbish and all it takes is for you to say 'are you ok?' or 'do you need a hug?' and that person who was doing their best to keep their shit together instead of crumbling into a tearful mess, crumbles just because of the offer of help, yeah, this. I'm guessing after she sang they hugged and cried and cried and hugged. A picture taken out of context is all some people need to get on their soap box and preach their bullshit.

Cheryl Wacker Spangler
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4 years ago

But you won't see that picture

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Daria B
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4 years ago

"Too much too much morality, can drop to criminality" ♬♪ No, but seriously, those people are thw worst. Because of their self-righteousness, they have exposed a girl's inner privacy (which, btw, appears to be exactly part of the kind of group they claim they are protecting). Not to mention how they threated her family. So anti-racist, they can't believe multiethnic people can have children. What the...

Betty Rubble
Community Member
4 years ago

I think it's time I go back to the landline. This internet bullshit is ridiculous

Sabal Minor
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4 years ago

I luv yur screen identity - giggles...

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stellermatt
Community Member
4 years ago

you know when someone is feeling rubbish and all it takes is for you to say 'are you ok?' or 'do you need a hug?' and that person who was doing their best to keep their shit together instead of crumbling into a tearful mess, crumbles just because of the offer of help, yeah, this. I'm guessing after she sang they hugged and cried and cried and hugged. A picture taken out of context is all some people need to get on their soap box and preach their bullshit.

Cheryl Wacker Spangler
Community Member
4 years ago

But you won't see that picture

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Daria B
Community Member
4 years ago

"Too much too much morality, can drop to criminality" ♬♪ No, but seriously, those people are thw worst. Because of their self-righteousness, they have exposed a girl's inner privacy (which, btw, appears to be exactly part of the kind of group they claim they are protecting). Not to mention how they threated her family. So anti-racist, they can't believe multiethnic people can have children. What the...

Betty Rubble
Community Member
4 years ago

I think it's time I go back to the landline. This internet bullshit is ridiculous

Sabal Minor
Community Member
4 years ago

I luv yur screen identity - giggles...

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