Wife Illustrates What Happened To Her Husband After Having Kids, Shows It’s Not Only Moms That Change
Even though by now most of us understand that raising kids is not as beautiful as it seems, it’s impossible to understand the struggles of having kids until you actually have them. So, Weng Chen, an illustrator that goes by the name The Messycow, has decided to do an entertaining cartoon drawing series that shows how her husband has changed after he became a parent himself.
She’s been drawing since she was only 2 years old and it always remained an important part of her life. These particular parenting comics series took only a few days to draw, “I don’t have big chunks of time to work, it’s always a couple of hours in between chores and taking care of the kids”, Weng told Bored Panda. She adds that parenting and family life is a prominent topic in her funny drawings, “It’s fun and meaningful to document my children’s growth, as well as mine.”
For this year’s father’s day, Weng Chen surprised her husband with a tasty breakfast and a lovely family road trip to the countryside, we believe he truly deserved it!
Scroll down to see these cute comics yourself!
More info: The MessyCow
Chen Weng in an illustrator who decided to portray how her husband has changed after he became a father
Image credits: Chen Weng
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nice&funny .. but I don't get one thing, the toilet thing - that appears in all parenting posts - I was never allowed in the bathroom while one of my parents were there doing their "business".. what happened to setting the limits
When my kids were very little, I had to take them to the bathroom to keep an eye on them when nobody else was home. When they got older and capable of behaving on their own for brief periods, it became a rule that nobody bothers mom in the potty unless there's an emergency.
I had four within about four years and the youngest dismantled his crib while he was in it.
when my son was young and I needed to use the bathroom I'd put him in his crib problem solved. However I only had one child.
If the door was closed, my brother and I were to stay on the non-parental side of it till that door was opened by aforementioned parent. exceptions: anything that a 3 and 6 year old couldn't handle - money, blood, fire, farm animals in the yard, strangers in the yard.
Maybe coz you were too young to remember. If no one was home and their is more than one kid. Then you have to keep an eye on them 24/7 so no bathroom time alone. It's privacy VS disaster combination.
You can try that if you want. But not everyone wants that. Its a stupid taboo.
Some people need solitude and concentration to do it properly, otherwise, it just won't come out. And if you don't poo properly, you will feel it on your health.
It is not about limits. Monkey see, monkey do. If you ever want your kids to use the toilet instead of pooping in the diapers, one of the easy ways is to show them.
I was thinking the exact same thing, what's up with parents allowing kids in toilets lol xD
Going to the bathroom alone was the one thing I INSISTED I got to do as a Mom. If your parents denied you this bonding experience, you were neglected & abused. You must start a support group and immediately begin reparation proceedings against them.
it's all in how you raise them...if you let them get away with it, of course you lose your privacy. i'm anothr one that was raised with "if you aren't bleeding or unconscious, don't bother me when i'm in the bathroom." as a result, my kids were raised that way too. no issues for me!
i dream of having such a family, problem is- my gf's imaginary :'(
Be careful what you wish. Appreciate the naps and uninterrupted sleep while you can.
as much as i do appreciate them, but the grass will always be greener on the other side :)
I feel you, bud. I feel you.
hey, when's bob 3.0 releasing?
Hey, keep your hands were we can see them!
One day guys. You'll get your dream.
time will tell
Cute and funny, and so relatable! This shows that everyone goes through struggles and changes during parenthood. So sweet! ✨
nice&funny .. but I don't get one thing, the toilet thing - that appears in all parenting posts - I was never allowed in the bathroom while one of my parents were there doing their "business".. what happened to setting the limits
When my kids were very little, I had to take them to the bathroom to keep an eye on them when nobody else was home. When they got older and capable of behaving on their own for brief periods, it became a rule that nobody bothers mom in the potty unless there's an emergency.
I had four within about four years and the youngest dismantled his crib while he was in it.
when my son was young and I needed to use the bathroom I'd put him in his crib problem solved. However I only had one child.
If the door was closed, my brother and I were to stay on the non-parental side of it till that door was opened by aforementioned parent. exceptions: anything that a 3 and 6 year old couldn't handle - money, blood, fire, farm animals in the yard, strangers in the yard.
Maybe coz you were too young to remember. If no one was home and their is more than one kid. Then you have to keep an eye on them 24/7 so no bathroom time alone. It's privacy VS disaster combination.
You can try that if you want. But not everyone wants that. Its a stupid taboo.
Some people need solitude and concentration to do it properly, otherwise, it just won't come out. And if you don't poo properly, you will feel it on your health.
It is not about limits. Monkey see, monkey do. If you ever want your kids to use the toilet instead of pooping in the diapers, one of the easy ways is to show them.
I was thinking the exact same thing, what's up with parents allowing kids in toilets lol xD
Going to the bathroom alone was the one thing I INSISTED I got to do as a Mom. If your parents denied you this bonding experience, you were neglected & abused. You must start a support group and immediately begin reparation proceedings against them.
it's all in how you raise them...if you let them get away with it, of course you lose your privacy. i'm anothr one that was raised with "if you aren't bleeding or unconscious, don't bother me when i'm in the bathroom." as a result, my kids were raised that way too. no issues for me!
i dream of having such a family, problem is- my gf's imaginary :'(
Be careful what you wish. Appreciate the naps and uninterrupted sleep while you can.
as much as i do appreciate them, but the grass will always be greener on the other side :)
I feel you, bud. I feel you.
hey, when's bob 3.0 releasing?
Hey, keep your hands were we can see them!
One day guys. You'll get your dream.
time will tell
Cute and funny, and so relatable! This shows that everyone goes through struggles and changes during parenthood. So sweet! ✨