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Man Asks If He Was Wrong Not To Help His Wife After She Had ‘An Accident’, Gets A Reality Check
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Man Asks If He Was Wrong Not To Help His Wife After She Had ‘An Accident’, Gets A Reality Check

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Recently, a man took it to the AITA community on Reddit to find out a moral judgement on the incident he had with his pregnant wife.

“The other day, I wake up to Dani crying,” the man wrote, referring to his wife, who, according to him, has been having a little more trouble going up and down the stairs to their only bathroom.

“This usually went fine, but this time she didn’t make it. So, when I came downstairs, I found her, in tears, standing in her own mess,” the author recounted, adding that she was “clearly embarrassed.”

Now when the author’s wife asked him to help her in that situation, he was not eager to do so, to say the least.

A husband to a pregnant wife wonders if he was wrong for refusing to help her in a delicate situation which left her very upset and embarrassed

Image credits: Matilda Wormwood (not the actual photo)

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Image credits: Antoni Shkraba (not the actual photo)

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People shared their reactions in the comments and many told the author he was to blame here

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After receiving a reality check, the author has shared an update on the situation

 

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tamrastiffler avatar
Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"She told me her side side, I told her my side"...What side?? How could he possibly defend himself in this situation? What a douchebag.

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Kiss Army
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He evens shows it more when he says "...until we can find a comfortable way for Dani to sleep downstairs at my place." She is his WIFE! Shouldn't it be OUR place, not MY place?!?! What an @$$hat!!

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Caro Caro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Advice from the Auntie-brigade: You hug her, help clean her up, run upstairs for clean undies and pyjama. Run downstairs and help her into these. Gently help her get up those bloody stairs and put her to bed and say "I love you, it's ok sweetheart". You go downsairs and clean up the mess. Go back to bed and give her a cuddle. THAT is what you do for your wife who is carrying your child. YAdefinatelyTA.

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S
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did he just call the house, that he lives in with his wife, HIS place? This dude is a walking red flag. Guaranteed she's going to be taking care of that baby on her own. F**k that guy.

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Laura Sandy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought the same thing!! He called it "his place?" Are you kidding? He is a walking red flag. She had nothing to apologize for!!

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Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"She told me her side side, I told her my side"...What side?? How could he possibly defend himself in this situation? What a douchebag.

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Kiss Army
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He evens shows it more when he says "...until we can find a comfortable way for Dani to sleep downstairs at my place." She is his WIFE! Shouldn't it be OUR place, not MY place?!?! What an @$$hat!!

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Caro Caro
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Advice from the Auntie-brigade: You hug her, help clean her up, run upstairs for clean undies and pyjama. Run downstairs and help her into these. Gently help her get up those bloody stairs and put her to bed and say "I love you, it's ok sweetheart". You go downsairs and clean up the mess. Go back to bed and give her a cuddle. THAT is what you do for your wife who is carrying your child. YAdefinatelyTA.

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S
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did he just call the house, that he lives in with his wife, HIS place? This dude is a walking red flag. Guaranteed she's going to be taking care of that baby on her own. F**k that guy.

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Laura Sandy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought the same thing!! He called it "his place?" Are you kidding? He is a walking red flag. She had nothing to apologize for!!

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