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All About Photo presents 'An Impossibly Normal Life' by Matthew Finley, on view throughout April 2025—an evocative exploration of a world where love knows no boundaries, only acceptance.

An Impossibly Normal Life:

Imagine a world where it doesn’t matter who you love, just that you love.

'An Impossibly Normal Life' is an artifact from another world, a more loving, inclusive one where who you love is of little societal importance. This fictional story, centered on my imagined uncle’s idealized life, is created from collected vintage snapshots from around the world.

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He Has Arrived

A joyful man in a suit holding a bundled baby, with decorative rays in the background, illustrating a love without boundaries.

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Two years ago, my mother offhandedly mentioned that I had an uncle who may have been gay, but he died not long after I was born. Hearing this revelation for the first time, nearly thirty years after I had struggled to come out to my disapproving family, sent my mind spinning. The thought of a family member so close to me going through some of the same things I did inspired me to create this story.

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    I Had Asked Him To Teach Me Guitar, Just To Spend Time With Him

    Two people joyfully playing guitar outdoors, representing love without boundaries.

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report

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    Grant And I Couldn T Stop Kissing On Our Wedding Day

    Two people share a kiss, celebrating a love without boundaries, holding flowers in a vintage photo setting.

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    Instead of returning to the hiding or shame of most pre-1970's queer stories, a reality of how our world was (and in some cases, still is), I have created an alternate history where fluidity in gender and sexuality is the societal norm. Re-contextualizing found photographs and creating a new narrative, my Uncle Ken’s life becomes full of acceptance, friends and love, and shows anyone struggling with identity today the joy of what could have been and can still be.

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    Rebel, Brute And I In The Navy

    Three sailors in uniform pose together outdoors, capturing a moment of camaraderie and connection, embodying love without boundaries.

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    #5

    Tracey Filrting With A Girl We Met On The Beach

    Two women sitting closely on a towel at the beach, sharing a moment of laughter—a love without boundaries.

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    Matthew Finley (b. 1972) uses his photography to express himself and connect to the world around him. With a variety of photography processes, he explores intimate emotions through gesture, line and performance to communicate his experience.

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    Growing up queer in an unaccepting environment, Finley felt apart from the world around him. Now, as an adult working through social anxiety, the studio is a safe space to create where he can be vulnerable and express his true self. Creating and exhibiting his work is a way to forge relationships with viewers and help those who see themselves reflected in it to feel less alone. Finding inspiration in nature, classic art and found photographs, he address-es modern issues such as his coming out story, intimate relationships, and finding peace in our tumultuous world.

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    Halloween For Me And Little Brother

    Two children outdoors, one in a sparkling costume, illustrating a scene from "An Impossibly Normal Life".

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report

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    Ready For A Night On The Town

    A vintage couple in a decorated room, embodying love without boundaries, surrounded by sequins.

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    Based in Los Angeles, Finley’s work has shown in solo and group shows in multiple galleries across the U.S. Most recently, his work was on the walls of the esteemed Fahey/Klein Gallery in Los Angeles with the likes of Herb Ritts and Herbert List. Other works have circled the globe as part of the FOTOFILMIC 17 traveling show and he has pieces in the permanent col-lections of the Museum of Contemporary Photography, Columbia College Chicago, The Museum of Art and History, Lancaster, and the Center for Fine Art Photography. His images have also appeared in publications including Oxford American, Shots Magazine, and Plates to Pixels where he won the Juror Award in The Visual Armistice 10th Annual Juried Showcase. Finley’s most current project An Impossibly Normal Life recently received Center Santa Fe’s 2024 Personal Award as well as the Center for Photographic Art’s 2024 LGBTQ+ Artist Grant.

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    Mom (Bottom Rt), As A Teen, With Her Family Outside Lucca, Italy

    Vintage photo of a family picnic under a tree, capturing a moment of love without boundaries in 'An Impossibly Normal Life'.

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    #9

    Marshall And Me

    Colorful vintage illustration featuring two white doves and red roses around a heart-shaped photo of a smiling couple.

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report

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    Visting A Friend And His Mom, Near Their Farm

    Three people standing by a lake under a cloudy sky, evoking themes of love without boundaries.

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    #11

    Marshall And Me Off To Our Joint Sweet 16 Party!

    Vintage photo of two people embracing outdoors, adorned with colorful glitter dots, representing a love without boundaries.

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    Harlow Posing For Me In The Park

    Person in plaid dress perched on a tree, surrounded by decorative flowers, representing a life without boundaries.

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report

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    #13

    Made Him Flirt With His Crush

    Two young men in a vintage photo, one flexing muscles, capturing moments from an impossibly normal life.

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    Ten Years Apart, From Album

    Old black and white photos with pressed flowers celebrating love without boundaries.

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    #15

    Sr. Prom Album Page

    Vintage photo of a couple in formal attire, captioned for prom, from 'An Impossibly Normal Life'.

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    #16

    Dormitory Dance With A Cute Guy

    Two men dancing closely in a room, symbolizing love without boundaries.

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report

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    We Still Have Puppy Love

    Two men seated with a dog, labeled "Puppy Love," representing a love without boundaries.

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report

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    Me, Getting Some Sun

    Young person wrapped in towels, sitting outdoors with festive sparkles; captures essence of 'An Impossibly Normal Life'.

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    Grant Coming In To Smooch Me

    Two men share a moment of closeness, symbolizing love without boundaries, with decorative rhinestones around the photo.

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report

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    #20

    Me, Showing Off My New Outfits From Italy

    Two vintage photos of a person modeling outfits in a room with red curtains and floral patterns, related to an impossibly normal life.

    © Matthew Finley, All About Photo Report