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If you sometimes feel alone and that nobody understands you, remember that many others share similar struggles and mental health challenges. The comic series by the artist Alec, titled “Alec With Pen,” perfectly illustrates how many people deal with trauma, anxiety, and other difficulties that impact their daily lives.

We got in touch with the illustrator and asked him some questions about his work. First of all, we were interested in what inspired him to start creating comics. The artist told us: “I've been drawing since I was a kid, but I considered myself a writer/comedian mostly until one day my therapist suggested I try to draw myself, as a way to self-empathize. I thought that seemed very dorky, but I did it anyway. And once I did, I didn't want to stop.”

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Danish Susanne
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe I should do that too. I just cannot remember names sometimes even those that I remembered yesterday.

Lotekguy
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The most awkward thing in this vein is getting a friendly greeting from someone who says my name when I can't remember theirs. Another good reason to stay home and use BP for socializing from afar.

Rick Rose
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm never sure which is worse, if I don't know if they've told me their name, but they might, or when I know they told me, and still can't remember. In the first case, I'm always afraid if I ask "for the first time," they'll think I don't recognize them at all. In the latter, I can at least admit I forgot. But i clearly did forget. And if I ask someone who hasn't told me what their name was "again," then they see it was a charade, trying to hide my forgetfulness. Which it totally is, but it feels like that would make how forgetful I can be even more obvious generally. Then I worry other people would wonder if I remember, which I probably don't... yeah. Forgetfulness and anxiety aren't kind to each other.

cerinamroth
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When we were living in university halls, there was one guy who kept forgetting my (now) husband's name, which was a little unusual for the UK. So he wrote it on his hand in blue marker pen before we went out so he wouldn't forget (sweet). He slept with his hand open against his face and ended up with my husband's name plastered across his cheek for a couple of days. He never forgot it again! :D :D

Yuval Cool Tall
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

somehow i tought they end up together

Kezza
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have to say their name like 40x while looking at them weirding them out to Just remember them

CrazyKnitter
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a friend who I didn't know her name for months. Finally someone else said it and I remembered! It's too awkward to ask for the fourth time, especially if you're hanging out with them all the time and don't need to use it very often.

ElfVibratorGlitter
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always make sure I repeat a person's name back to them, supposed to help with remembering names, not sure it actually works.

Alec continued and explained why he featured a version of himself with blacked-out eyes in his cartoon: “That was originally an accident when I first drew myself, but it just felt immediately right. You could say it represents childhood trauma/depression/self-loathing IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO.”

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    Faayezacat
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *cough* *cough* I do that sometimes.

    Kezza
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm more whit than humor but yeh

    Danish Susanne
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alternative is smile, Say Thanks and move on.

    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The ultimate goal should be to let yourself believe you deserve the compliment. The correct response will flow freely.

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    Abigail Moritz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No you set the problem on fire. But not if the problem is an animal. Just burn the person.

    flower petals
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this so true? 🤦🏻‍♀️

    Asked about the recurring themes and motifs in his series, Alec answered: “My work has two modes: One is using jokes and a magical-realistic sensibility to mull over my issues with anxiety, ADHD, and chronic depression, but in, like, a FUN way, and the second one just being extremely silly and stupid, usually by making my version of certain genres. Detective Man is a satire of detective shows, Haunted House Husband is a satire of horror movies, and Midnight Justice is a satire of Batman. Oh, and I also do political and social commentary stuff when I'm angry.”

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    Me Oh My (He/They)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lay awake at night thinking about the times I've overshared like this.

    Jessica N
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of us like the overshare tbh. Gives a glimpse into the real you!

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    The artist also shared with us how he comes up with ideas for his new comics: “I write things in my phone when I think of them, but mostly I just watch hundreds of hours of TV and things just pop into my head. My comedy influences, hmmm, I'd say lots of TV like The Office, 30 Rock, Arrested Development, Party Down, Bored To Death, Search Party, and Shrill. When it comes to comics, though, it's ALL Calvin and Hobbes.”

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    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget the jump scares with the first two.

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    Me Oh My (He/They)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oddly enough, they've captured how dissociation feels to a T.

    Corey Ortiz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy sh!t is that what that's called... oh boy....

    flower petals
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is exactly what it feels like!

    Lastly, Alec told us more about his influences in the world of comedy and humor: “Comedy is like horror, it attempts to make every moment in a work of art entertaining. Comedy FEELS good, and when you feel good, you want to pay attention. Like horror, too, when you pair comedy with a different feeling—anger, romance, grief, jealousy, boredom—it transforms into a special new concoction. I like playing with those combinations.”

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    Ampity Amp
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does a day over any age actually look like tho?

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    Nykky
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My bit of pride with anything compared to family members. I get it dude

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    Trish Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandmas name was Mildred. She had dimensia.

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    Lorraine Woollands
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have depression and anxiety and agoraphobia, I feel like this all day, every day. I began to that I was the only one that felt this way

    Jessica N
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're not alone. I went through it after leaving a bad relationship, got to the point where I didn't step outside the house for over a year. Baby steps. First I started walking to mailbox. Then going to store as a passenger in car. Then drove myself. I applied to college, all online first semester then half in person classes. Met a friend online who hired me at the pizza place he worked at. This was over 2-3 years, breaking out in stress hives when I left house. You are worth working on, and at whatever pace you need. You're not alone in your struggle

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I initially thought purging (making self vomit) and that was a pun with homesick somehow. Now I'm leaning towards sucking your thumb? But that might have all just whooshed past me

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    Isobel Young
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it's like you miss home but you are already home because everywhere you go there you are. Like you are the finger but you are also the home for that finger.

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    François Carré
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Now this is getting a tad too relatable...

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    Rick Rose
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The... general impression I get is the advice is to clean out, I dunno, worries every so often. The diagram makes it seem easy, like there might not be any worries for most, or maybe just a few. Our protagonist, however... and I could be totally wrong on this, mind you.

    Serena Marley
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a ? from me, but maybe I'm too old to understand.

    Fleetwayfox
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like the idea of self-esteem being depicted as a deformed monster attached to our brain, but I'm not really sure how inducing vomiting was a metaphor for 'caring' for it? Letting it all out maybe? It still seems in bad condition in the last pic, though I think I'm reading too much into it.