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“Don’t Bring Your Baby To A Restaurant”: Woman Arrested After Melting Down On Mom
“Don’t Bring Your Baby To A Restaurant”: Woman Arrested After Melting Down On Mom
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“Don’t Bring Your Baby To A Restaurant”: Woman Arrested After Melting Down On Mom

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A mother said she was involved in a physical altercation with a customer at a Mexican restaurant after her baby made a small amount of noise, resulting in the customer’s arrest.

“What’s the most random thing to happen to you? I’ll go first: getting in a fist fight with this lady in a Mexican restaurant,” the mother, a cosmetologist named Madi, wrote alongside a TikTok video of the incident on May 11.

Highlights
  • A mother was involved in a physical altercation with a customer after her baby made a small amount of noise at a Mexican restaurant.
  • The woman, labeled a "Karen" by social media users, complained she and other customers could hear the baby from the other side of the restaurant.
  • The whole restaurant rallied against the customer, who was eventually escorted out and arrested.

In the clip, the unhinged woman in question can be heard yelling, “You don’t bring your baby to the restaurant!” and making a scene at the establishment until a group of police officers intervened. 

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    Image credits: madipaynee

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    The woman, labeled a “Karen” by social media users, reportedly complained that she and other customers could hear the baby from the other side of the restaurant.

    “People at my tables and tables next to me couldn’t hear me talking,” she reportedly told another customer. The man replied by saying he “never even heard the baby” from where he was sitting.

    Realizing her disruptive behavior was being caught on camera, the woman looked at Madi and flipped her off with a smile.

    The incident reportedly took place at Jalapeño Grill, a restaurant located in Gulfport, Mississippi

    Image credits: Jalapeno Grill Facebook

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    In a subsequent video, the mother explained that the whole restaurant rallied against the customer because “she was being so feral.”

    She also clarified that her baby wasn’t crying the whole time she was at the restaurant. “I would’ve left if that were the case, but it was not,” she said.

    The Mississippi resident explained that her son had made a sound after his grandmother took a pen from his hand.

    “The lady was like, ‘I can’t hear over the kids,’ so as any mother would do, I got up from my seat so quickly.”

    The baby’s mother, Madi, said she received support from the other customers after being pushed by the woman

    Image credits: madipaynee

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    When Madi approached the unnamed customer, she said she was “hiding in her cubby like a scared little puppy.”

    The mother claims she was pushed first, which she took as a “green light” to defend herself.

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    “The cops gave everyone the chance to pack their stuff up, so I did that. She did not.”

    Madi then shared a mugshot photo of the aggressor, indicating that she had been arrested.

    Watch the video below:

    @madipayneeThis was insane 🫣🤣♬ Drop – Timbaland & Magoo

    Image credits: madipaynee

    Image credits: madipaynee

    Most people supported the mom for standing up for her child. “Good for you for sticking up for your babies!! I would have done the same thing,” commented a social media user.

    He’s a kid. You don’t have to explain yourself! Good for you for stepping up for your child!!” a separate person wrote.

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    “Peace and quiet is at home. You share public spaces with the public,” someone else pointed out, while another added, “It’s the ‘Don’t bring your baby to a restaurant’ that would have me swinging, too.”

    However, others questioned her decision to confront the customer over the comment she had made about her baby’s behavior, arguing that she should have simply ignored the woman.

    Madi said her son had only made a small amount of noise and claimed she would have left the restaurant if that wasn’t the case

    @madipayneestory time 🤫😅♬ original sound – Madi 🤍

    This isn’t the first time that people have complained about children at restaurants. To prevent tense situations, a restaurant in New Yorkrewards parents of “well-behaved” kids with a special discount for contributing to a quiet environment.

    Meanwhile, a pub in Hertfordshire, East of England, took things one step further bybanning children altogether 11 years ago.

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    Opinions were mixed regarding Madi and the other customer’s behavior

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    Marina Urman

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    SlightlyTarnished
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These type restaurants are made for families, not just adults. I've ever only had issue with kids in restaurants when they are complete holy terrors and the parents do nothing, or eating at a high end expensive restaurant where the atmosphere isn't really the best for kids.

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah if someone really has a problem with noise or families maybe go somewhere else. That place looked like a super casual Mexican restaurant and as someone who frequents similar places it's never NOT gonna be a little noisy. The music is pumping, people are drinking and talking etc..Go to a high tea or something lady..

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    Robert T
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's the kind of restaurant you can wear jorts and a t-shirt to, it's not the kind of restaurant that is going to refuse children and babies. Get a grip.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even I agree with this, and I’m someone driven insane by noise, smells, and movement (that means babies and kids are my nemeses). Some things you just keep to yourself, and this was one of ‘em.

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    arthbach
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a person (of what ever age) is being noisy and disruptive, then they should leave until they are able to rejoin the group/table, and not be noisy and disruptive.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. I prefer a baby to a disruptive grown-up. For one thing, babies don't swear and attack people.

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    Bewitched One
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up 20 mins away from Gulfport, and this actually does not surprise me in the least.

    Bewitched One
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Although it looks like this was actually in Long Beach, which is even closer to where I grew up and a completely separate town from Gulfport. Lol

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Mam, you're confused. This is the Jalapeno Grill. The Waffle House is over one block."

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What was the point of having the music so loud you can't hear what she's saying?

    ggus44
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't bring your baby in a restaurant?? What???

    Daniel Marsh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What non-parents often don't seem to get is that children aren't consistent in their behavior. A temper tantrum doesn't necessarily mean the parent is a bad parent; it could be the parent is being a good parent in not surrendering immediately. Likewise, a suddenly noisy baby can just be an almost random seeming occurrence, and suddenly fleeing a comfortable situation can make the baby far noisier. Lately, churches I've been to have to keep telling people NOT to remove their crying babies; that's just part of the Christian community and people shouldn't feel like they can't participate. And that's despite the churches typically having "crying rooms" where the parents can still follow the mass, but the babies' cries are stifled by soundproofed windows.

    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a non-parent, let me respond by saying I don't give a rat's a*s if kids are consistent or not. What I care about is having a kid slam into me as I'm walking to my table, or a kid who tries to grab food off my plate, or a kid that is screeching at the top of his voice in the booth behind me, and kids being destructive in public while their parents just ignore them. The problem is, these kinds of kids and parents are in the majority. Parents who try to control their kids are far and few between. This is the reason I will get up and move if a parent and a small child is sat at the table next to me. You may have the best-behaved child in the world, but more than likely you don't and I'm not about to subject myself to the mind-numbing chaos of your kid on an off chance.

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    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two trashy people; one trashy boring tiktok. Don't post this kind of garbage.

    Royal Stray
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's a family restaurant or a fast food place, then you have to expect kids. If it's a fancy restaurant then you ask the staff to deal with it

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    SlightlyTarnished
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These type restaurants are made for families, not just adults. I've ever only had issue with kids in restaurants when they are complete holy terrors and the parents do nothing, or eating at a high end expensive restaurant where the atmosphere isn't really the best for kids.

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah if someone really has a problem with noise or families maybe go somewhere else. That place looked like a super casual Mexican restaurant and as someone who frequents similar places it's never NOT gonna be a little noisy. The music is pumping, people are drinking and talking etc..Go to a high tea or something lady..

    Load More Replies...
    Robert T
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's the kind of restaurant you can wear jorts and a t-shirt to, it's not the kind of restaurant that is going to refuse children and babies. Get a grip.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even I agree with this, and I’m someone driven insane by noise, smells, and movement (that means babies and kids are my nemeses). Some things you just keep to yourself, and this was one of ‘em.

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    arthbach
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If a person (of what ever age) is being noisy and disruptive, then they should leave until they are able to rejoin the group/table, and not be noisy and disruptive.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. I prefer a baby to a disruptive grown-up. For one thing, babies don't swear and attack people.

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    Bewitched One
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up 20 mins away from Gulfport, and this actually does not surprise me in the least.

    Bewitched One
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Although it looks like this was actually in Long Beach, which is even closer to where I grew up and a completely separate town from Gulfport. Lol

    Load More Replies...
    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Mam, you're confused. This is the Jalapeno Grill. The Waffle House is over one block."

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What was the point of having the music so loud you can't hear what she's saying?

    ggus44
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't bring your baby in a restaurant?? What???

    Daniel Marsh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What non-parents often don't seem to get is that children aren't consistent in their behavior. A temper tantrum doesn't necessarily mean the parent is a bad parent; it could be the parent is being a good parent in not surrendering immediately. Likewise, a suddenly noisy baby can just be an almost random seeming occurrence, and suddenly fleeing a comfortable situation can make the baby far noisier. Lately, churches I've been to have to keep telling people NOT to remove their crying babies; that's just part of the Christian community and people shouldn't feel like they can't participate. And that's despite the churches typically having "crying rooms" where the parents can still follow the mass, but the babies' cries are stifled by soundproofed windows.

    Kelly Scott
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a non-parent, let me respond by saying I don't give a rat's a*s if kids are consistent or not. What I care about is having a kid slam into me as I'm walking to my table, or a kid who tries to grab food off my plate, or a kid that is screeching at the top of his voice in the booth behind me, and kids being destructive in public while their parents just ignore them. The problem is, these kinds of kids and parents are in the majority. Parents who try to control their kids are far and few between. This is the reason I will get up and move if a parent and a small child is sat at the table next to me. You may have the best-behaved child in the world, but more than likely you don't and I'm not about to subject myself to the mind-numbing chaos of your kid on an off chance.

    Load More Replies...
    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two trashy people; one trashy boring tiktok. Don't post this kind of garbage.

    Royal Stray
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's a family restaurant or a fast food place, then you have to expect kids. If it's a fancy restaurant then you ask the staff to deal with it

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