It’s Hard To Say Goodbye When You Don’t Know Why He Left.

It’s kinda messed up isn’t it. How all of the sudden, someone just wakes up and decides to never talk to you again. No reason. No explanation. No words said. They just leave you hanging like you never meant shit to them, and what hurts the most is how they made it look so easy.

When the person who gave you so many memories walks out of your life without closure it is heartbreaking. You go about your days wondering what happened, what did you do wrong, or if you were ever good enough, and those thoughts alone can be torture, specially if you are someone who always seeks answers. You need a reason or reasons as to why something isn’t or didn’t work. Without having a conclusion to your questions you mentally torture yourself trying to come up with the answers. The most painful goodbyes are those that are never explained.

Wanting an explanation is a normal emotion anyone who has been let go of without a heads up experiences. But sometimes we have to accept that some chapters in our lives have to close without closure. There’s no point in losing yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. A man who really loves you and is serious about wanting you in his life would never walk out of your life, specially without an explanation. His departure from your life is your blessing in disguise. Don’t question it, just accept it. The sooner you accept it the sooner you can give yourself the only closure you need. Some men are just not ready for a good woman, and the idea of having to step their game up scares them and so they run off like little boys.

It’s hard, but sometimes you have to learn when your part is over in someone’s story. Heal yourself, find yourself, know yourself, correct yourself, see yourself, love yourself, be yourself, respect yourself. Someone who is worth your love will never make you feel as if you are not good enough.