Influencer Thinks She’s Some VIP, Says Going For Coffee Or A Walk Are Unacceptable First Date Options, People Mock Her
Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion. Just like everyone is entitled to criticizing yours if they don’t agree with it. And that’s exactly what Kornelija Slunjski has been experiencing.
The makeup artist and influencer has been dragged across social media for her unapologetic assessment of what a first date should look like.
“I do not accept a coffee or a walk as a possible date option,” she said in a TikTok titled ‘NO to zero effort men.’
“First of all, I’m not a dog that needs to be walked. Second, I have a Nespresso machine at home–works fabulous,” Slunjski explained.
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@kokobeauteNO to zero effort men ##datingadvicefortheladies ##datinglife2021 ##datingtoday♬ original sound – KokoBeaute
Last month, influencer Kornelija Slunjski released a controversial TikTok
Image credits: kokobeaut
Alright. So what is an acceptable first date for this influencer?
Judging from the same TikTok, there’s just one option—dinner. Slunjski said she wants to see if a guy has manners, whether he can hold his chopsticks correctly, and she wants to study him. So “dinner it is,” she concluded.
Many of her fellow TikTokers protested she is overly “high maintenance,” but later the woman released follow-up videos addressing the blowback. Slunjski said that in the country she is from (Croatia), this is simply how dating works. Plus, as she pointed out in another video—filmed on a private jet—she’s just “used to” a lifestyle with a high price tag.
It already has over 2.5 million views
The clip has also received its fair share of criticism
Image credits: kokobeaute
She said in another TikTok that if a guy tells her she’s high maintenance, it shows that they aren’t a match. She also encouraged girls not to “lower your standards for a man who cannot rise up to them.”
So Kornelija made another one, doubling down on what she has originally said
@kokobeauteReply to @dlink2020 let the trolls tell me what’s high maintenance #highmaintanence #highmaintanance #keepyourstandardshigh♬ original sound – KokoBeaute
Which resulted in even more hate
What kind of pathetic loser cares about influencers and their opinions anyway? 🤦🏼♀️
"influencers"?? what exactly do they influence. i still can,t believe that people follow people like this. there has to be something better to do.
The rest of us call them self-absorbed, entitled "beggars".
Load More Replies...Entitled influenza who has got nothing to offer demands special treatment. Stay tuned, coming up: Groundbreaking report: Salt tastes salty.
Somebody has to keep the sugar daddies and douchebag bros occupied, so the self-aware, conscientious women may navigate a less polluted dating culture.
I agree but at the same time sugar daddies aren’t interested in conscientious women. They want arm candy. The arm candy wants money. It’s a fair trade.
Load More Replies...maybe she should spend less time on lip fillers and more time at a psychiatrist's office
Reminds me of the old joke. "Why is Barbie so popular when you have to buy all of her friends?"
Let's be honest, she'll probably have to pay someone to marry her.
Load More Replies...She has every right to expect a certain level of clientele. She's a very pretty prostitute.
Croatian girl here.. Don't worry. Ppl here do go to regular dates, like drinks and coffee, or evene walks 😮 And I must say I have never heard of her. But I guess that "influencer" is a new word for what We usually call "sponzoruša"
I suppose you mean a sponsor (for a brand,place to go etc.) Thing is that «the real deal» do NOT use these kind of people to promote their products,that would be counter-productive...If, and I say if, I wanted to buy a Chanel bag,I would not wait for her to tell me it was the thing to buy at this particular moment.Looking at her I would probably start second-guessing my choice...
Load More Replies..."Influencers" are stupid and pretentious. Why do people follow them? And why do Bored panda post articles about dumb influencers on Tik tok almost every day?
Oh dear. When your conventional beauty fades, you're in for a nasty surprise. But good luck anyway
Could be a while before that though. Botox does wonders. There’s so much you can do to age well. She should be fine until she hits like 50. By then maybe her standards will change.
Load More Replies...For me, personally, I really enjoy taking a woman on a coffee date or a walk/hike. Even better if the two are combined. It's a good way to see if you like the person "in person" and to get to know them a bit before inviting them to spend more time with you... But, hey, whatever "floats your boat".
Its the best kind of date imo. You meet in a coffee, its a public place, safe and not too intimate. If it goes well you can meet another time if not then all is good. Much better than a expensive restaurant and at night. Specially with the guy driving. I want to be able to go home by myself.
Load More Replies...Is the “we” to whom she refers the Royal We? Committing to an entire meal with her sounds like an awfully long time to be in her company.
Is she wearing a stocking over her face? What is with that skin? Super cringy!
Not going for coffee and walks would be a deal breaker for me. There’s nothing better than coffee and a walk, especially if it’s a nippy morning, and it gives you stuff to chat over while you’re walking by. Or just the coziness of a coffee shop, especially if it’s crossed with a bookstore. Coffee and walks: not just a first date, dates you revisit again and again.
Dinner dates are terrible for first dates- if you're not feeling it, you have to finish your entree and have a weird goodbye. Better to have ONE drink or coffee and be able to bail if you're not vibing.
Even if her post seems superficial, it's not that those who reply in a certain way cover themselves with glory. Calling a woman a "pretty prostitute" is NOT a high class reply.
To be honest, I will not date someone like her but I really don't care about it not feel obligated to mock her or be outraged. Her love life her choices. Men are not obliged to put-up with it and if some men like this style their choice. Why do so many people feel entitled to judge other people ? Puzzles me. Probably because it makes them feel good about how amazing, kind and selfless people they are compared to the people they feel entitled to condemn. Pot-Kettle complex
Nadia, if you spout your opinions publicly, then others ALSO have the right to spout theirs, too. You dont get to say whatever you like...but then try and shame others for saying what THEY like about your opinion. Dont want others to share their opinions or "judge" yours...then dont post them on a public forum. Simple.
Load More Replies...She is absolutely able to have her preferences. Nobody has to share them. I don't see anything wrong with it. A few decades ago, what she said (a guy taking a woman out on a 'proper' date) would not have raised an eyebrow. It just seems odd in our much more casual time. Btw, in other cultures (Asian, for example), what she said would be very much accepted. A guy taking a woman out for a coffee or a walk would be seen as someone who is 'unserious'. I don't share her sentiment (for me, I'd rather a short, casual date at first), but I certainly don't grudge her for her preferences.
No, we're starting with something simple so if we find out we don't click (not just romantically, I mean just don't connect at all) we're not stuck spending a lot of time together. We are meeting there because I'm not telling someone my home address on the first date and I want my own ability to leave not be dependent on you. Honestly, this woman is setting herself up for a lot of uncomfortable dates just because she wants free food - you KNOW she's not paying for anything.
I have song for that (sung to the tune of My Boyfriend's Back): "My boyfriend faaaaarted and there's gonna be troooouble!!!!!".
Load More Replies..."I'm not a dog, I don't need to be walked" No but you sure are an uptight bitch
It’s not censored... who are you who are so wise in the ways of bored panda?
Load More Replies...Wow what a diva! She's never going to find a decent husband. Any man should say "I do not accept plastic faces on my woman" and walk away from this train wreck
Welp, there goes her reputation, guess what comes up when you google her name…
What is an influencer? What do they do? What type of person needs or uses one? Isn't this the time to say to these people "Get a Life?" Oh! And, why do they all look the same? Long bleached blond hair. Thick "sink plunger" lips looking like the bill on Donald Duck. Unnatural Barbie Dolls. It's more like influenza, very catching. Everybody is doing it now. Hardly original is it?!
I find both her looks and her attitude cringeworthy.
Load More Replies...Coffee is a perfect first date! It's relaxed, it's chill, you can chat and see how you click. Also there's coffee, which is always a good idea.
She's not worth all that. The more makeup and filters you pile on, the uglier you are in real life.
I think she's quite right. Good on you Kornelija. Keep your standards. I'm not sure why there's blowback. If a woman has low standards, no one criticises her for that. You get the treatment you put up with.
Clearly shallow and maybe also a bit stupid person...I''m a Croat too,girls like her,i belive,are minority here...
Sorry, but anybody who calls what comes out of a Nespresso machine coffee doesn't know what they're talking about!
Ask a girl if she wants to go for coffee for a first date, if she says no she's this woman.
Do we blame these idiots or the lemmings that follow them and enable their behavior? Stop following them an they go away. And on a side note - wtf is with those eyebrows? eyebrows3-...de3770.jpg
While I disagree with her, I understand...she is asking for what she wants and won’t accept anything less. But if she is selling herself as a beauty and nothing more, than she should be concerned after age 45 or so that her rich man will drop her for something prettier and younger. Looks don’t last.. Secondly, when you’re in the beginning of dating, you need first dates to be short with your own escape plan, that’s why first dates are supposed to be coffee. A man who wants to control and lavish you on first date is a RED flag that he’s a controlling narcissist. One woman’s opinion.
Agreed on that coffee. She's more of a 10-15shots person, to reboot your brain and clean it off the memory.
Any woman who thinks she's too "special" for a hike in the woods, a day of fishing or Guinness and darts at the local watering hole isn't going to make my list of potential partners.
i don't even understand dating or why anyone does it. the few people i've been in a relationship with, we got to that point after 2+ years of friendship, and friendly hanging out turned into relationship (plus friendly) hanging out. no dating involved whatsoever. the entire notion baffles me tbh.
Hey, coffee is a good option, if he orders black, no sugar, he's probably a psycho (according to personality tests, at least the psychiatrists claim so) and you'll know early enough.
Just another fake idiotic "influencer", I wish we could dump them all on an island with no wifi.
questions - who does she influence? does she know that what she is talking about is actually called networking? Then I did the standard 30 second research. She's as influential as a red headed kardashian. I think even her "followers" make fun of her. And I wouldn't call a makeup artist an influencer. I'd call her a for hire make up artist.
Gonna be a damn shame for her if Bezos says coffee and a walk or no deal
Gonna be a damn shame when Bezos says- coffee and a walk, or no deal...
No shame in knowing your worth and what you want in life. That said, she want's a sugar daddy who will dump her the moment she shows signs of aging. She gives off high maintenance vibes. Hard pass.
1: men that date her are only running uo their score 2: She'll get hurt from this and state all men are pigs 3: If she ever does get married, it won't last. A shallow pool dries quickly and aging will leave her as an old dried up raisin.
It's amazing the stuff that will come out of over-filled lips.
woman, are u a doctor? did you go to med school? are a professor or scientist? no? ok then DON'T tell me what I should or shouldn't do with MY life because it may be harmful and hurt people other than you and plus it is MY LIFE and I choose what I wanna do with it. thanks for your time
In my Zoosk dating profile it clearly states that the first date must be dinner and that we'll each pay our own way. I've list two of my favorite restaurants, neither of which are cheap. Both are fine dining - one American and one Japanese. I want to see what your table manners are like, how you treat service staff, etc. (I list the names, so you can google the menu and see the prices). The next ten dates can be picnics for all I care.
She has no top lip because of the injections. What a shame she feels like she has to augment her body like that to feel better about herself
The face does not look real, especially the lips so how should we taker her for real? Real men like real women.
Given the choice of taking her out on a $1000 dinner and burning $1000, I would burn $2000 just to make a point. There are so many great human beings out there that deserve much more without asking and acting like a spoiled brat.
What does the US have to do with it...she is from Croatia....
Load More Replies...She looks like she did the thing with a shot glass to her lips, except with a dog's b******e instead....
Number 1. Your name is ugly. #2. Jokes on you. First date with bae was a coke in his backyard and 18 years later he still rocks my socks with"zero effort" lol die alone bitch.
First date? Okay, well, I'll meet you at the restaurant, thank you. I've had to make my escape with a few 'dates from hell.' I would take a good look in the mirror, honey..cause what you're looking at is what you're in love with, and no one else..
Yeah....an undertheinfluencer with inner tube lips matters? Right....
As much as I hate "influencers"? she is not wrong. people need to see who you are how you conduct yourself. man or woman. no one wants to marry a project. people want partners.
Well, I don´t find it too bad, what she is writing, to be honest. I know I am leaning against the common mindset know or common accepted opinion. But let me tell you what I think and feel: Just too often men think they just write "Hey, what´s up? You have time tomorrow? What about having a coffee?" ... So they expect me to immidiatly say "Oh yes, why not. I am open to everything!" . Without them putting ANY effort in it. No time to proof themselves, that they are worth it. No effort in me. Like if I wouldn´t be worth it. I am sorry, but I also don´t want to have anybody , who is not willing to invest ANYTHING in the relation. They have to make up for it fist. Same for me, of course. I will give them my time for getting to know eacht other. But it has to come from BOTH sides. I have nothing against a walk. And I have nothing against a coffee. It depends on the inner attitude...who they counter you. If I see, that a man has not any real intrest - why should I waste my time with him?
I really don't see anything wrong w this. She's trying to attract men that are rich that like to be degraded and criticized. There's a whole fetish for men like this. They get off on giving their money away too. She's not looking for anything substantial just a rich guy that gets off on this behavior. She'll marry a rich man that's not faithful as long as she gets her lifestyle and she'll have a child that will become an accessory. Unfortunately there are a lot of shallow people out there and at least she's upfront about it. You get what you deserve and what she's literally asking for is a man that will fund her lifestyle doesn't matter how she's treated or how he's treated.
I don’t agree with her but I think it’s fair for her to set her own standards. Not everyone is dating for the same reasons. Some for money, some for love, some for sex. As long as you’re upfront, who cares? If she’s of no interest to you, move on. She is dumb with dumb standards but I think she’s also trying to trade her looks for money which is fair enough.
I don't want someone I have to make a special effort to impress. Who wants to keep that sham going for weeks or months or years? Take me as I am or don't take me at all. Makes no difference to me.
Load More Replies...There's a difference between being empowered and thinking you're the prize of the century.
Load More Replies...I get it but coffee is a good date because if you don’t like the guy, you can ditch him more easily and faster. Also she would come across better if she wasn’t saying that “let’s see how you hold chop sticks” thing as if it’s even hard or special. Sounds lame. But I get your point.
Load More Replies...I agree except she’s not looking for a relationship or a fling. She’s looking for a man to take care of her. Not the same as a normal love based relationship.
Load More Replies...What kind of pathetic loser cares about influencers and their opinions anyway? 🤦🏼♀️
"influencers"?? what exactly do they influence. i still can,t believe that people follow people like this. there has to be something better to do.
The rest of us call them self-absorbed, entitled "beggars".
Load More Replies...Entitled influenza who has got nothing to offer demands special treatment. Stay tuned, coming up: Groundbreaking report: Salt tastes salty.
Somebody has to keep the sugar daddies and douchebag bros occupied, so the self-aware, conscientious women may navigate a less polluted dating culture.
I agree but at the same time sugar daddies aren’t interested in conscientious women. They want arm candy. The arm candy wants money. It’s a fair trade.
Load More Replies...maybe she should spend less time on lip fillers and more time at a psychiatrist's office
Reminds me of the old joke. "Why is Barbie so popular when you have to buy all of her friends?"
Let's be honest, she'll probably have to pay someone to marry her.
Load More Replies...She has every right to expect a certain level of clientele. She's a very pretty prostitute.
Croatian girl here.. Don't worry. Ppl here do go to regular dates, like drinks and coffee, or evene walks 😮 And I must say I have never heard of her. But I guess that "influencer" is a new word for what We usually call "sponzoruša"
I suppose you mean a sponsor (for a brand,place to go etc.) Thing is that «the real deal» do NOT use these kind of people to promote their products,that would be counter-productive...If, and I say if, I wanted to buy a Chanel bag,I would not wait for her to tell me it was the thing to buy at this particular moment.Looking at her I would probably start second-guessing my choice...
Load More Replies..."Influencers" are stupid and pretentious. Why do people follow them? And why do Bored panda post articles about dumb influencers on Tik tok almost every day?
Oh dear. When your conventional beauty fades, you're in for a nasty surprise. But good luck anyway
Could be a while before that though. Botox does wonders. There’s so much you can do to age well. She should be fine until she hits like 50. By then maybe her standards will change.
Load More Replies...For me, personally, I really enjoy taking a woman on a coffee date or a walk/hike. Even better if the two are combined. It's a good way to see if you like the person "in person" and to get to know them a bit before inviting them to spend more time with you... But, hey, whatever "floats your boat".
Its the best kind of date imo. You meet in a coffee, its a public place, safe and not too intimate. If it goes well you can meet another time if not then all is good. Much better than a expensive restaurant and at night. Specially with the guy driving. I want to be able to go home by myself.
Load More Replies...Is the “we” to whom she refers the Royal We? Committing to an entire meal with her sounds like an awfully long time to be in her company.
Is she wearing a stocking over her face? What is with that skin? Super cringy!
Not going for coffee and walks would be a deal breaker for me. There’s nothing better than coffee and a walk, especially if it’s a nippy morning, and it gives you stuff to chat over while you’re walking by. Or just the coziness of a coffee shop, especially if it’s crossed with a bookstore. Coffee and walks: not just a first date, dates you revisit again and again.
Dinner dates are terrible for first dates- if you're not feeling it, you have to finish your entree and have a weird goodbye. Better to have ONE drink or coffee and be able to bail if you're not vibing.
Even if her post seems superficial, it's not that those who reply in a certain way cover themselves with glory. Calling a woman a "pretty prostitute" is NOT a high class reply.
To be honest, I will not date someone like her but I really don't care about it not feel obligated to mock her or be outraged. Her love life her choices. Men are not obliged to put-up with it and if some men like this style their choice. Why do so many people feel entitled to judge other people ? Puzzles me. Probably because it makes them feel good about how amazing, kind and selfless people they are compared to the people they feel entitled to condemn. Pot-Kettle complex
Nadia, if you spout your opinions publicly, then others ALSO have the right to spout theirs, too. You dont get to say whatever you like...but then try and shame others for saying what THEY like about your opinion. Dont want others to share their opinions or "judge" yours...then dont post them on a public forum. Simple.
Load More Replies...She is absolutely able to have her preferences. Nobody has to share them. I don't see anything wrong with it. A few decades ago, what she said (a guy taking a woman out on a 'proper' date) would not have raised an eyebrow. It just seems odd in our much more casual time. Btw, in other cultures (Asian, for example), what she said would be very much accepted. A guy taking a woman out for a coffee or a walk would be seen as someone who is 'unserious'. I don't share her sentiment (for me, I'd rather a short, casual date at first), but I certainly don't grudge her for her preferences.
No, we're starting with something simple so if we find out we don't click (not just romantically, I mean just don't connect at all) we're not stuck spending a lot of time together. We are meeting there because I'm not telling someone my home address on the first date and I want my own ability to leave not be dependent on you. Honestly, this woman is setting herself up for a lot of uncomfortable dates just because she wants free food - you KNOW she's not paying for anything.
I have song for that (sung to the tune of My Boyfriend's Back): "My boyfriend faaaaarted and there's gonna be troooouble!!!!!".
Load More Replies..."I'm not a dog, I don't need to be walked" No but you sure are an uptight bitch
It’s not censored... who are you who are so wise in the ways of bored panda?
Load More Replies...Wow what a diva! She's never going to find a decent husband. Any man should say "I do not accept plastic faces on my woman" and walk away from this train wreck
Welp, there goes her reputation, guess what comes up when you google her name…
What is an influencer? What do they do? What type of person needs or uses one? Isn't this the time to say to these people "Get a Life?" Oh! And, why do they all look the same? Long bleached blond hair. Thick "sink plunger" lips looking like the bill on Donald Duck. Unnatural Barbie Dolls. It's more like influenza, very catching. Everybody is doing it now. Hardly original is it?!
I find both her looks and her attitude cringeworthy.
Load More Replies...Coffee is a perfect first date! It's relaxed, it's chill, you can chat and see how you click. Also there's coffee, which is always a good idea.
She's not worth all that. The more makeup and filters you pile on, the uglier you are in real life.
I think she's quite right. Good on you Kornelija. Keep your standards. I'm not sure why there's blowback. If a woman has low standards, no one criticises her for that. You get the treatment you put up with.
Clearly shallow and maybe also a bit stupid person...I''m a Croat too,girls like her,i belive,are minority here...
Sorry, but anybody who calls what comes out of a Nespresso machine coffee doesn't know what they're talking about!
Ask a girl if she wants to go for coffee for a first date, if she says no she's this woman.
Do we blame these idiots or the lemmings that follow them and enable their behavior? Stop following them an they go away. And on a side note - wtf is with those eyebrows? eyebrows3-...de3770.jpg
While I disagree with her, I understand...she is asking for what she wants and won’t accept anything less. But if she is selling herself as a beauty and nothing more, than she should be concerned after age 45 or so that her rich man will drop her for something prettier and younger. Looks don’t last.. Secondly, when you’re in the beginning of dating, you need first dates to be short with your own escape plan, that’s why first dates are supposed to be coffee. A man who wants to control and lavish you on first date is a RED flag that he’s a controlling narcissist. One woman’s opinion.
Agreed on that coffee. She's more of a 10-15shots person, to reboot your brain and clean it off the memory.
Any woman who thinks she's too "special" for a hike in the woods, a day of fishing or Guinness and darts at the local watering hole isn't going to make my list of potential partners.
i don't even understand dating or why anyone does it. the few people i've been in a relationship with, we got to that point after 2+ years of friendship, and friendly hanging out turned into relationship (plus friendly) hanging out. no dating involved whatsoever. the entire notion baffles me tbh.
Hey, coffee is a good option, if he orders black, no sugar, he's probably a psycho (according to personality tests, at least the psychiatrists claim so) and you'll know early enough.
Just another fake idiotic "influencer", I wish we could dump them all on an island with no wifi.
questions - who does she influence? does she know that what she is talking about is actually called networking? Then I did the standard 30 second research. She's as influential as a red headed kardashian. I think even her "followers" make fun of her. And I wouldn't call a makeup artist an influencer. I'd call her a for hire make up artist.
Gonna be a damn shame for her if Bezos says coffee and a walk or no deal
Gonna be a damn shame when Bezos says- coffee and a walk, or no deal...
No shame in knowing your worth and what you want in life. That said, she want's a sugar daddy who will dump her the moment she shows signs of aging. She gives off high maintenance vibes. Hard pass.
1: men that date her are only running uo their score 2: She'll get hurt from this and state all men are pigs 3: If she ever does get married, it won't last. A shallow pool dries quickly and aging will leave her as an old dried up raisin.
It's amazing the stuff that will come out of over-filled lips.
woman, are u a doctor? did you go to med school? are a professor or scientist? no? ok then DON'T tell me what I should or shouldn't do with MY life because it may be harmful and hurt people other than you and plus it is MY LIFE and I choose what I wanna do with it. thanks for your time
In my Zoosk dating profile it clearly states that the first date must be dinner and that we'll each pay our own way. I've list two of my favorite restaurants, neither of which are cheap. Both are fine dining - one American and one Japanese. I want to see what your table manners are like, how you treat service staff, etc. (I list the names, so you can google the menu and see the prices). The next ten dates can be picnics for all I care.
She has no top lip because of the injections. What a shame she feels like she has to augment her body like that to feel better about herself
The face does not look real, especially the lips so how should we taker her for real? Real men like real women.
Given the choice of taking her out on a $1000 dinner and burning $1000, I would burn $2000 just to make a point. There are so many great human beings out there that deserve much more without asking and acting like a spoiled brat.
What does the US have to do with it...she is from Croatia....
Load More Replies...She looks like she did the thing with a shot glass to her lips, except with a dog's b******e instead....
Number 1. Your name is ugly. #2. Jokes on you. First date with bae was a coke in his backyard and 18 years later he still rocks my socks with"zero effort" lol die alone bitch.
First date? Okay, well, I'll meet you at the restaurant, thank you. I've had to make my escape with a few 'dates from hell.' I would take a good look in the mirror, honey..cause what you're looking at is what you're in love with, and no one else..
Yeah....an undertheinfluencer with inner tube lips matters? Right....
As much as I hate "influencers"? she is not wrong. people need to see who you are how you conduct yourself. man or woman. no one wants to marry a project. people want partners.
Well, I don´t find it too bad, what she is writing, to be honest. I know I am leaning against the common mindset know or common accepted opinion. But let me tell you what I think and feel: Just too often men think they just write "Hey, what´s up? You have time tomorrow? What about having a coffee?" ... So they expect me to immidiatly say "Oh yes, why not. I am open to everything!" . Without them putting ANY effort in it. No time to proof themselves, that they are worth it. No effort in me. Like if I wouldn´t be worth it. I am sorry, but I also don´t want to have anybody , who is not willing to invest ANYTHING in the relation. They have to make up for it fist. Same for me, of course. I will give them my time for getting to know eacht other. But it has to come from BOTH sides. I have nothing against a walk. And I have nothing against a coffee. It depends on the inner attitude...who they counter you. If I see, that a man has not any real intrest - why should I waste my time with him?
I really don't see anything wrong w this. She's trying to attract men that are rich that like to be degraded and criticized. There's a whole fetish for men like this. They get off on giving their money away too. She's not looking for anything substantial just a rich guy that gets off on this behavior. She'll marry a rich man that's not faithful as long as she gets her lifestyle and she'll have a child that will become an accessory. Unfortunately there are a lot of shallow people out there and at least she's upfront about it. You get what you deserve and what she's literally asking for is a man that will fund her lifestyle doesn't matter how she's treated or how he's treated.
I don’t agree with her but I think it’s fair for her to set her own standards. Not everyone is dating for the same reasons. Some for money, some for love, some for sex. As long as you’re upfront, who cares? If she’s of no interest to you, move on. She is dumb with dumb standards but I think she’s also trying to trade her looks for money which is fair enough.
I don't want someone I have to make a special effort to impress. Who wants to keep that sham going for weeks or months or years? Take me as I am or don't take me at all. Makes no difference to me.
Load More Replies...There's a difference between being empowered and thinking you're the prize of the century.
Load More Replies...I get it but coffee is a good date because if you don’t like the guy, you can ditch him more easily and faster. Also she would come across better if she wasn’t saying that “let’s see how you hold chop sticks” thing as if it’s even hard or special. Sounds lame. But I get your point.
Load More Replies...I agree except she’s not looking for a relationship or a fling. She’s looking for a man to take care of her. Not the same as a normal love based relationship.
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