Hey Pandas, What Is Something You Dream Of Doing But Are Too Scared To Do So? (Closed)

Try with a friend... Just for laughs. Oh and you are NOT ugly or disgusting. You are a nice person.

Oof, you're not in the best situation here, I usually just flirt online because it's easy and I don't get judged from my looks. Then I'd try going irl, don't be afraid

I can understand your dilemma because of how you see yourself. It may be a cliché, but it is still true that it's what a person is like that is the most important. Flirting's okay, but it's basically our mating ritual. I've got together with people that I have grown to know and found that we just connect, but this only happens by chance. We can't make ourselves like someone and vice versa, but things happen when you least expect them to.

i used to get really intimidated when i was near a really atractive woman that i really liked. You don't have to atract all the good looking ladies even though you want to. I always sucked at flirting, so i decided that the best way to atract women is just being nice, natural and being me, being humble, accepting that you don't know something when you actually don't, and being a good listener. It also help if they realise that you cook, clean, dishwash and do the laundry hahahahah oh, and maybe some sport, like jogging maybe. That would be a plus. :D

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Only looks matter, so if you ever try flirting you will only be rejected, humiliated, insulted, hurt and disappointed. Plastic surgery is your only solution.

Totally normal as we can fear what people will think of something we've put out heart into. The best thing is to just bite the bullet once and after you've got over the first show, you'll have more confidence.

This one is difficult. Step 1 - talk to a lawyer. Step 2 is whatever the lawyer says but let’s say that you live in a state that requires some form of separation. That’s step 2 and it can be very difficult.

It takes time to feel ready but you can do it

There are some really good recourses available online and per country, if it's safe for you to google (make sure you delete only those specific websites from your history). Are you currently living with her? I feel uncomfortable giving you advice without knowing your countries specifics, but make sure you have some money, either in a seperate bank account from your wife, or cash. Have an emergency bag ready somewhere where she can't find it with your documents, the cash and some clothes. Thirdly, make a plan. This is very important and make sure you practice it. Lastly, if you have a person you can trust, let them know about the abuse and that you are trying to get away. Most importantly, however, don't tell your wife that you are planning on divorcing her. Abuse can escalate when people are trying to leave, so make sure you keep it a secret until after you've left.

Hey! As a writer I totally get that. Idk if this will help for you but it did for me. I spent a lot of time not writing because I was scared I was going to suck at it. Embrace the fact that every rough draft is going to suck a little. You go back and it's slightly painful to read but if you can just accept the idea of a sucky rough draft (which you can keep changing and shaping into something you like) it gets a little easier.

Someone said the hardest part of writing is putting your bum in the chair. You don't need to start writing at the beginning. Write a scene that is interesting to you.

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It is because you know deep down you will fail.

I feel you so much, never even sang in front of my partner of 10 years!

Same goes. I managed once (not including those that are performed in choirs) to sing on a stage. Haven't done it since. Something about all those 'what if' scenarios that get in the way of any sound coming out.

Get out. Go outside. Wear a 😷 if it gives u confidence to keep u safe from unvaccinated people. Simply being outside amongst others every single day will make a difference.

Don't worry about haters: there will always be people who criticise you, even if you are the best. Just try to ignore negative comments and focus only on positive stuff or comments which point out at your mistakes in a nice way. If you love what you do and you are enthusiastic about it, you will findo a lot of great followers.

I want to read ur book and just go to a dollar shop get some paint and some decorations make it all special!

1, They probably won’t judge you. I started my own channel but I do not have a focus on what to do yet, I say for you just to try it and see what happens. 2, I don’t know how to help you there, friend. I’ll just try to go send it to someone and see what happens, if they deny it well, just try not to be too disappointed

It's natural to worry, I can't really help you there. Sorry

Tbh, I would punch them too. However, that is probably not the best solution as you could get in trouble. Maybe tell a grown up, that might help. It’s not as fun but it might work. Good for you for helping your friend though :)

Do not worry, bullies are immature people who don’t have common sense, as they grow up they will realize what they did and regret it. Just try to comfort your best friend, they might need it

I had always been terrified of skydiving, but I used to work for a newspaper and they would often ask me to do the crazy stories. Yep, one of them was skydiving, but I decided to give it a shot - it's gonna be a story regardless of how it turns out. It turned out to be one of the greatest experiences of my life. I would urge everyone to try skydiving.

Was sent to jump school in the military way back when. Loved it. 2nd jump was at dawn, 3rd at night. *Everyone* wanted to go to jump school. Not many were picked. Guess they sent me because I made it clear there was no f*****g way I wanted to go :)

Start by talking to people who actually jump out of airplanes - ask them what it is like

I was scared of skydiving, so I tried tandem paragliding. The parachute is opened BEFORE the jump. It was a blast. The only reason I haven't done it again is that I have a bad knee. Tip with paragliding: I avoided wearing shoes that had any eyelets with hooks on them. It was to prevent any part of the parachute getting caught.

Ah, so we have the same fear of skydiving. Nice

A parachute is one of the most reliable prices of equipment there is.

yeah you'd better not be claustro for that kind of job. you can still play tomb raider lol, if you're not afraid of super ridiculous end bosses

Yeah the crawling in tight spaces isn't for everyone.

I moved to Bangkok in 2006 with the motto “Turn Fifty, Leave the Country”. I thought I would reside there forevermore, but forevermore turned out to be only 10 months long. Still, I’d always wanted to live abroad and I made it happen. If it’s important to you, you’ll eventually make it happen!