The way I see it is the only person you're ever guaranteed to have to stick around your entire life is yourself, so you have two options to choose from: you can dislike that person, or you can befriend them. I'm definitely not saying it's easy—it took me from age 17 through to 21 to befriend myself and that was with the help of a counselor, but I can say my life has definitely improved since I did decide to befriend myself. 

What is something everyone should know how to do at age 30?

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Wear a mask

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Uncommon Boston
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Part of love your neighbor, respect, and understanding the value of working for the greater good.

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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fold a fitted bedsheet (Still workin' on that one.)

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    #2

    I'm at my 30s right now, and many of my friends at this age already have families, loans, and are following their careers. There are also those who are lonely, still looking for something they are good at. I think that at the age of 30, first of all, we should be honest with ourselves, give other people respect but also respect ourselves.

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! So well said and incredibly important.

    #3

    They should know how to use magic words: - please - excuse - have a nice day - thanks

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those words, plus the ability to admit you made a mistake and apologize, will help with every interaction you have with another person. Especially your partner.

    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish i could vote you more on this. I hate arrogant people!!! Its not hard to say thank you or sorry.... I was brought up with manners. It shows that i am civilized and respectful. Even when i have finished eating in a café /restaurant i always take my dirty crockery to the counter.

    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to know someone who said that the first words he learns in another language are 'thank you'.

    #4

    1. Check your oil and other basic car maintenance 2. Cook to feed yourself 3. Have been through therapy and worked through any previous issues 4. How to budget 5. Basic routines

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your list is concise and I, at age 59, don't meet these requirements, specifically #1, #3, and #4. I am incredibly self reliant, and have overcome many challenges. Yet, I don't know how to change my oil, but I do know how to get it done. People are unique. We have different skills and weaknesses. I don't see the world like you do. Am I worth getting to know, even if I can not manage what you consider essential? I want a world full of diversity, interesting talented people, who may or may not be able to change their oil. ( I do not want or need help. Everything gets done, eventually).

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't change my own oil or anything, but knowing how to check your car is crucial for driving long distances. There won't always be a place open to take it if it is last minute. Or you find yourself in car trouble in the middle of nowhere with no cell coverage. It is worth knowing the very basics. Knowing the basics I managed to rig my car together when I blew a radiator hose in the middle of nowhere with no cell coverage. I consider knowing the basics a safety issue.

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    Owen Salmon2028
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    im 10 i made my first burgers last weekend and popovers and pasta

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It feels wonderful to do on your own, doesn't it?

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    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. I dont drive 2. my cooking skills are crap (unless you want a bacon sandwich) 3. my job entails listening to peoples problems and helping them to solve it so im sort of a therapist 4. I live on a mountain of debts 5. thats it basically

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of us can make a similar list if we are honest

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    Stimpy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is number 1 also necessary if you don't own or drive a car?

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    #5

    Know how to be courteous to others and show empathy

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    Aragorn II Elessar
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well obviously, everyone is much less important than me. Why would I be courteous to the peasants? /s

    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My bosses could do with learning this one

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Respect, manners, and empathy will get you far in life. Yes, you can be a total jerk and be successful, but it is more difficult. If people feel they can communicate with you, without worrying about being criticized, or harshly treated, I believe you will be asked to join special projects. An excellent way to met, then impress those above you..

    #6

    Tell apart when calling the police is petty and when it's necessary.

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    #7

    Read a clock. Use 24 hour time. Do basic math without the use of the internet or a calculator. Manage time properly. Know not to be racist, sexist, misogynistic, a rapist, discriminatory for any reason, and/or a complete motherf***** idiot, nor vote for someone who is any/all of those.

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    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nice start but a better finish. It should be made into a movie. LOL

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be on time. Part of respecting others.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that kinda fits under time management, but yeah, that’s definitely important.

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    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well we all failed cuz we voted Biden. (this is no joke I'm serious)

    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I from the UK and even here i don't vote for any scumbag politician. The only one that gets my vote is Greenpeace.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Courtesy of @Uncommon Boston, be on time. Respect others.

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you, I read it as kindness and agreement. Both nice.

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    spencer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    periodt king/queen/icon !!!!

    Vanta Black
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it important to learn military time if you're not in the military? A lot of digital clocks have the option of choosing 12 hour or 24 hour displays, and I've seen some analog that have 13 through to 00 as well as 1 through to 12, but I don't see any advantage to using 24 hour time when most of the world uses AM/PM. Telling someone "it's 13:53" as opposed to "it's 1:53pm" isn't any easier or harder, but it's also not a necessary life skill, unless you're in the military. I learned the 24 hour clock as a kid, and the only time I use it is to mess with my roommate, because she doesn't understand it. Not that it matters either way, because we're not in the military, and Zero Dark Thirty is a movie, not 00:30 in the morning.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well first of all, it’s not military time, it’s 24 hour time. Secondly, perhaps it’s unnecessary to know, but it’s still a good thing to know, is it not? It’s something like the metric system; maybe not useful for daily life in the US, but for communicating with others in the world and for minimizing confusion, it’s imperative.

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    #8

    Learn how to say NO and mean it.

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    Sara Rodrigues
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel that the opposite is also true, some people need to accept a "No" when they hear it, and accept it with grace and understanding. I don't know how many times I've explained certain things to people and they kept insisting, as if I'm the stupid one... Sigh.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are very correct there! I don't know how many times I've had to just smile and keep repeating "no" while not answering their questions about why I won't do what they are asking. (It does get easier and a bit funny when you get to 50 though. Kind of a bonus lol.)

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    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone asks for a favour straight away people say "yes of course. What is it?" Hmmm 10 second think before answering i have learnt

    Bored Little Panda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love this, i guess I'm at a young age and there are people who ask me to do something for them I got used to it, so even first time I said no the people I said no to, started some drama because of it.

    #9

    Apologize. Not just give excuses.

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, yes! Reading this just makes me happy!!! Our future is so bright if we can accept most of this

    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whether you mean it or not, the simple word ' sorry ' doesn't cost a penny and it solves a hell of a lot of problems escalating. Some times you just have to swallow your pride and say it

    #10

    HOW. TO. COPE. I'm in high school and i'm forcing good coping habits on myself so I don't have to replace the bad ones when I'm 30 or 40.

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    Spicy Noodles
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so important, im learning to do the same in my youth .. you cant always count on people to support you emotionally .

    #11

    learn to cook before 30 my adivce learn as much as posable

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had to learn how to cook, neither parent was home much. We also learned how clean up. My mother would scream if she thought someone was in her kitchen. We asked how she knew, and one by one, we fixed each, until there was no clues. We could whip up a good diner out of whatever there was.

    Anjali Cooper
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And learn how to spell… I’m twelve and I can absolutely spell “advice” and “possible” along with so many other things.

    #12

    Properly, and regularly, brushing teeth. So many problems can be avoided with a little effort.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew by 30 but I didn´t care enough until I was about 27, and accordingly needed a number of fillings at that time.

    Vanta Black
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had teeth removed due to neglect. I didn't care until I had an infection so bad the pain from my tooth rotting in my head almost drove me to suicide. I had to keep having temporary fillings put in (sloppy dentistry caused me to need three) before I could get an appointment at my local hospital to have it removed. Then I lost a second because it was too weak from the neglect that cost me my first, and I lost a third after biting into a small piece of stone that was in my food. I haven't seen my dentist at all this year because of lockdowns, and because I'm classed as vulnerable, so I'm really hoping things turn around right at the start of 2021, because I need a check up.

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    #13

    Live within your means.

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    #14

    Stay young and have fun but remember the important things in life.

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never forget how to have fun.

    #15

    Change a flat tire. It is not that hard but many people have no idea

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    Sara Rodrigues
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not really a necessary skill, public transport takes you almost everywhere and it is more friendly for the environment :) so I guess I prefer not having a car. I say this even though my own father was a mechanic and I truly admired his job

    Helen Haley
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You live in a city don't you? Never have to drive through the country side to get groceries? It is necessary when you are a couple hours walk from anywhere, no cell service, and you blow a tire. You'd be amazed how much of the world is the middle of nowhere.

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call AAA! Be prepared. Have the gadgets to temporarily fix a flat, charge your battery and more. Flash lights, portable lashing lights to help drivers see you in the dark. Manual to walk you through simple tasks, like changing tires, if that is the only choice. . It could be something much worse. Yes there are small places without cell phone coverage. So much can go wrong with a car. Check the car carefully before you leave for a long trip. Pay attention as you drive.

    jade s
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to give up my car when I moved to London but never learnt to change a tire. That's what breakdown cover is for. I'd rather someone trained did it and I knew I was safe in the car than try myself, do it wrong and cause a problem.

    Susan Brooks
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tire changing and oil(water and battery) checking were SOP in Driver's Ed class in my high school.

    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never learned to drive, so this is pointless for me.

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call AAA. The instructions are in the glove box if stuck. I have seen it done, but hope I never need to do it. The right gadgets are in the car to get me to me someplace safe. Those I know how to use. Does that count?

    Jackson Allinder
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was in 6th grade, I worked for a mechanic during the summer. When I got there, the guy said "Do you know hot to change a tire?" I hated the guy so much, he treated me so bad and he was really racist, He even tried to hit on my 19yo sister. He was a stupid mf, and for a summers work, I got paid 20$. Thank y'all for listening to my rant.

    Stack o' Pancakes
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My middle school said they were going to teach us how, and never did, little pissed off about it :/

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    I no know how to change a white woman's tire and me over 80 springs old. (too many cowboy movies here)

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    #16

    Take care of themselves! Financially, emotionally and physically.

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Self reliance gives you freedom. Knowing you can take care of yourself should increase your self-confidence.

    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When i was 18 my missus had our first child and we got no support from our families. we had to do it all ourselves but you know what? we got to learn our own independence and i owe no one anything!

    #17

    cook, take care of themself, drive, workout, wear a mask

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother was very busy. We figured how to take care of ourselves as children. It wasn't a choice, but we all benefited from learning

    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    what about Sheldon Cooper? he can't drive ;P

    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even highly educated people have their failures!

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    #18

    30 is still young. You can still make changes if you need to whether it's related to a relationship, career, finances, or whatever else. Remember you only get one life and that one day that time won't be on our side.

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    #19

    I don't think 30 is that old, so there aren't any prerequisites for stuff you SHOULD know for that age since you're still considered a young person. But still, by that point, you should probably figure out what you want to do and who you are (more or less).

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    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dunno, managing your money is pretty handy, as is how to cook for yourself.

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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agree on the cooking part, but I know people who don't know how to do either and they're almost 40. And they're doing great, nonetheless.

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    Momma Panda
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your Life. The most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don’t" Lyrics to Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen) by Baz Luhrmann Something i go by as an 29yo

    #20

    HOW TO TIE YOUR GOD DAMN SHOES, MY SISTER IS ALMOST 18 AND CAN'T TIE THEM

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Velcro? Slip ons? Did the parents fail or did she refuse to learn?

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She thought it was "too hard" and now only goes to me for help because I know how to tie my shoelaces with my eyes closed in 10 seconds.

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    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know how to tie my shoes but i just tuck the laces in. Maybe your sister should get slip ons

    Gin. No tonic
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The list is about people in their 30s. Your sister still has 12 yrs yo learn!

    kennedy1209
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a little angry... about shoes

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is an interruption, a constant, often inconsiderate demand - total guess, but apparently the author finds it annoying ---- which is their complaint.

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    #21

    How to be disciplined. Schools/parents teach you obedience, you are nice as long as authority figures are around. Discipline is when you are accountable to yourself and you are able to do what you plan. It's a learnable and the most important skill.

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    Spicy Noodles
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time is value so I agree discipline and self control are key.

    Stimpy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Antoher word for it could be "self-regulation", because many people seem to mix up discipline with obedience.

    #22

    How to end a relationship (friend or romantic) peacefully. Things happen, life keeps going, people change and not all relationships last forever, and sometimes they need to end. It's a part of life and adulthood to end relationships that just don't work. Maybe they're toxic, maybe you just don't work anymore, maybe you outgrew eatch other, or a 1000 other reasons, but we need to learn how to gracefully and peacefully end relationships when they no longer work.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, realize that some relationships just end, and it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with either of you. It's like test-driving a car, not every car will be a good fit for you, but that car will be someone's perfect fit. Either way, the car has value.

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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People grow, their priorities change. Marriage, children, and a sick family member change lives. Some friendships survive this others don't. Gossip can destroy a relationship. If something is said enough, eventually people believe it. Depending on another's generosity with unrealistic expectations ends relationships. These are the things that ended my closest friendships. It always hurts, takes me awhile to accept, but eventually I move on. I sincerely want to be a positive, supportive, loyal friend, I do my best --- but it usually about bigger issues, not my failure. Have I walked away from friendships? Toxic, draining friendships, absolutely.

    #23

    To start a retirement plan and invest monthly, even if it's only $25 a month. It's never too early.

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    #24

    Accept our differences. Instead of looking down at others and making snap judgements, have an open mind. Look for the good in people. The world is full of interesting people, why you limit yourself? People are often opportunities for future advancement, a smile or laugh when you need one, or a source of new information. Knowing how to interact with people in a sincere non-threatening way, so they relax and open up can be a thrilling experience

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    #25

    - Speak - Walk - Hold items in their hand - Distnguish between colours ....these are just some of the things we'd expect from a toddler; things we should expect from an adult are too numerous to list.

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    Blinding_Darkness
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But...but what if they're colour blind?

    #26

    "you can attract more bees with honey"... A smile and a few kind words go a lot farther in life.

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    #27

    To not be rude to your server. Honestly, someone of ANY AGE should KNOW THIS! My mom is a server and she has seen some weird s**t, yet she still works every day. (not now cause of covid but before, you get what I mean)

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    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    servers aren't servants, they're people and they deserve just as much respect as you

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A variation of LOVE THY NEIGHBOR?

    #28

    By 30, you should learn first of all that there is no standard to what you should or shouldn't know. This question does not take into account people with disabilities, financial challenges and other differences from what is "normal".

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    #29

    Learn not to dwell on the past. Everyone has overcome something by 30 and is going to achieve more. Never, ever live with ghosts.

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    Valerie G.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll be 70 next year and still have this problem.

    #30

    breathe

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    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    very important. this will save your life

    n i k o
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keeping our expectations low, I like it! Can't be disappointed if your expectations were already low, eh?

    #31

    Not that I'm 30, but I think you should be able to admit you were wrong, or at any age really. Sounds simple, but it's apparently really hard for some people to admit they were wrong.

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life is much more difficult if you believe you are right about everything.

    #32

    Wear sunscreen. If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of the advice given here has no basis more reliable than peoples own meandering experiences. The posts will dispense this advice now

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    Rose Lazarus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with the disparaging comments re. other posts, some of the advice thus far has been Very valid. Never he less, Yes ! ! ! Wear Sunscreen ! ! ! I agree completely ! ! !

    #33

    Give yourself a break if you make a mistake. Realize that every choice you make is based on the information that you have at the time. And not knowing what will happen in the future, you must make a decision balanced on what you do know and your past experiences. A "bad" decision provides wisdom to make better choices later. Don't be so hard on yourself if you make a mistake, everyone else has made them, too.

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this be voted down? I agree 100%. Life is difficult if you believe you don't make mistakes. Apologies end so many conflicts. Do you want pound away at the issue or move on!

    #34

    How to be nice. you’re an adult you can afford to be a decent human being

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    #35

    Taxes, but dont worry, im 36 and still dont know how to do them properly.

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    Valerie G.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked in accounting and still got a professional to do mine, they are up to date on all the new things each year.

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    #36

    Be aware of what gives you happiness, and that which gives you only a temporary high. Many people seem to spend too much time following that which t.v./society says will bring happiness, and not enough time watching their own feelings. Your mind controls the way you experience your environment. By 30, we should be aware of that, and working towards self acceptance, with a healthy diet and exercise. Then we can help others in our 40's :)

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    #37

    Know how to read a basic contract. Cell phone agreements, rental/lease agreements, car loan agreements. Know that payday loans are a scam. Know the benefits of a good credit score. Understand how to achieve a good credit score.

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, still not there at 59, but it sounds good.Still working on a few of these.

    #38

    Know how to entertain yourself when you are alone. Besides TV. Have a hobby.

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    #39

    Forgive their parents. (Unless they are exceptional monsters)

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for the second line.

    #40

    Forgive yourself.

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    #41

    This is just me, but i think at least knowing some foreign language. It'll help you get a good job.

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    Tiny Dynamine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is just to be an obedient player in the system. I learn languages to talk to people from other countries.

    #42

    Manage money wisely.

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    #43

    How to balance a checkbook and budget yourself. As in, don't spend more than you make

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    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A goal for many of us.

    #44

    -Know how to differentiate opinions (and outright propaganda) from facts. -Know how to take care of yourself (cooking, cleaning, laundry, transportation, finding a job, an apartment, etc.) -Know that you don't know everything, and never will. -But also know how to research and find pretty much any information you could ever need. -Never stop learning, especially when finally out of school.

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    #45

    finances, taxes, WEAR A MASK... BREATH

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    mph seti
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    #5: Learn the difference between 'breath' and 'breathe'.

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    #46

    be kind and respectful don't judge stop hating

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    #47

    Something that you should know at age 5.... how to lock doors, turn out lights, wash your hands and flush toilets. If you think I'm joking... look at how many people can't even do 2 of the 4. No kidding!

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    Valerie G.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of these you don't find out until you marry the fool.

    #48

    By 30, everyone should know how to fight to the death.

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    Bunny Wood
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You sound like a cat owner my friend?

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not talking like pick a fight to kill someone. I'm talking like if you accidentally end up driving through a time portal and end up in medieval times and you gotta adapt and survive kinda thing.

    #49

    How would I know? I'm not 30. I guess you should know how to count by thirty.

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    #50

    wear a mask, read, talk like a normal person

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    puppylover895
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    that is true just remember disabled people

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does a normal person talk?

    #51

    They should know how to cook an egg.

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    #52

    This question depends on the fact if you have a mental or physical disability. I believe that people can do anything. But I would say read. I have no idea

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    #53

    Should know what setting to put toaster on lol

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    Vanta Black
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What? Everyone likes their toast differently. And we may not even want our toast prepared the same way every day. Sometimes I like mine a golden brown, other days I want it burnt.

    Erin E
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe they mean understand what the toaster settings are. Plenty of people have no idea. 🤷‍♀️

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    #54

    -how to say thank you -to read -drive a car -clean your room

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    Vanta Black
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 33, and I don't know how to drive. I usually walk everywhere, or I take a bus/taxi if I'm in a hurry, or my destination is a bit further out. Until I actually need a car, I don't plan on learning to drive.

    #55

    Three things: 1) How to invest your retirement account in something besides a money market. 2) Recognize when someone is lying to you, particularly attractive people. 3) Accept responsibility for your own mistakes. Including trusting the wrong person.

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    Faramir10
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Accept responsibility for your own mistakes". This is a big one.

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    #56

    People should be able to. . .deal with Karens.

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    Soap
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's all agree to not call them Karens, that's offensive to the nice Karens. Let's call the jerks.... McFish Nuggets.

    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. most people named Karen are really nice and respectful, except for my cousin, she is an absolute a-hole

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    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want a job that is specifically to deal with disrespctful a-holes, I've been told I'm pretty good at it too, btw the phycology behind it is facinating (sorry for my spelling, I'm brain breaking hard today)

    #57

    Taxes, bills, and how to cook.

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    Valerie G.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Home Ec teacher told us that "anyone who can read, can cook". Read the recipe, read it again to make sure you understand the directions and have all the ingredients on hand.

    Uncommon Boston
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading books or online sources can explain so much. Joy of Cooking taught me how to cook. Beginner sewing patterns explained everything. Gardening has required many books and help from experts.

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    #58

    Not to judge people by what they look like. (Skin, Race, Gender) Racism and Sexism have to stop

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    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We also need to learn wrong from right, good from evil, and just to have respect

    #59

    Borrow money and read the contract. Ask about things they don't understand

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    #60

    Know the importance of saving for retirement early.

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    #61

    How to get a job. because no job = no money = unable to pay taxes/no food = homeless/bad house = bad life

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    Joanne Haywood
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s that easy is it? You against 100+ other applicants. You get told you’re over-qualified; too old; too young, etc. Or how about you’ve worked for over 25 years with the same company. You’ve paid your taxes and National Insurance contributions then you get hit by illness, need to take time off for hospital appointments then operations and you find yourself sacked because the firm “cannot deal with your illness”.

    Rachel Rollins
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally feel ya!! And it sux!! And it sux even worse when folks act like things are so easy... :(

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    n i k o
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very simplified, I would say. So many different things factor in when you try to find a job, and you can't just say, "How hard can that be?". Not everyone has lived a nice, easy, and quiet life, and it makes it really hard to find a job.

    Vanta Black
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You sound like my parents used to. "How hard can it be? I walked in off the street at 16, and have been working steadily ever since." That hasn't worked in at least 30 years, ironically, since most applications these days require you to fill them out/submit them online. They were still doing it during the 2008 recession, and would be doing it now had I not been one of the lucky ones. There's a lot more that employers want from potential hires these days, and there's a hell of a lot more competition, as well.

    #62

    Balance your bank account(s). I was hired as a bookkeeper by a 35 yr old guy that opened his own business using a trust fund he received from a passed relative... And when I first tried to explain to him how we (the company) didn't have any money to do 'x' he didn't understand. I was trying to give him an example so I said "you know how to balance your checkbook, right?" and he replied with "I don't write checks".... *sigh*

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    Rosie Jenkins
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who writes cheques in this day and age 😂 banks haven’t issued chequebooks for well over ten years!

    Amy Roland
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. That is scary... and sad.

    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    don't downvote plz, they have a point people need to learn you start with x you need y and y is more than x you're not gonna have enough

    Rosie Jenkins
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not sure what ‘woosh’ is supposed to mean in this context. Are you implying this post went over my head..? If so, it absolutely didn’t. I’m from a country where writing cheques stopped being a common thing over 10 years ago, so this ‘skill’ would be completely irrelevant.

    #63

    You should know everything you have learnt in your life. I dont feel like its fair to say that at a specific age you should have done this and that and you should know who you are and everything that you want to do. Because everyones journey is different and unique and not everyone has equal oppurtunitties, (and yeah ik like a hundred peeps r gonna glare at me magically through their screens for being that person. But i dont care :) )

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    #64

    Self care! Getting old is unavoidable, but at least we can postpone these experienced to 10-15 years: dry skin, body ace, "the gut", hair loss, get breathy after short run

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    #65

    Taxes

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    Cadmar Orion
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why can't schools teach important stuff I'm actually gonna use? like taxes

    mph seti
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not STEM, lol. They don't teach art, critical thinking, or any basic skills much anymore either

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    #66

    Flying The Nest.

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    Vanta Black
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not everyone can afford it, bud.

    #67

    -Repair a hem that has come loose -Sew on a button -Prepare at least 5 balanced evening meals -How to change a tire ... last year, at age 63, I changed a tire for a 30'ish year old. He had no clue even where the axle was located nor did he know why he needed to loosen the lug nuts before the car was jacked -Make up a bed using proper hospital corners -Basic table etiquette -Drive a straight/stick shift -Basic cleaning -How to wash, dry and fold laundry -When to be on your cell phone and when to put it away

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    Bendy Rainbow
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am 12 and I can repair a hem, sew on a button, make a bed, use basic table etiquette, clean, and do laundry. I am only a child, so naturally, I do not yet know how to do the other things listed. I am probably part of a low minority, though. Most people my age cannot do sewing repairs. I agree that these are skills 30-year-olds should know.

    Shelby P
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hospital corners? Wow, who are you nurse ratchet?

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