What things in dating/marriage have you seen that really annoy you? Things you would never do in your own relationship?
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Calling your boyfriend your "bestfriend," in front of family/friends that have been there for you forever. Seriously. Especially girls who "married their best friend" when their childhood bestie is their maid-of-honor.
Also, couples that only pay attention to each-other, even when they are in social situations. Yuck.
People who call their spouse "Wifey" or "Hubby". I don't know why, but it just rubs me the wrong way. Same goes for those terms that people use for anime character they're attracted to (I have zero clue how to spell them)
Not texting back.
I've gotten more gracious (I used to get really anxious after 20 minutes, but I've learned otherwise) but my ex would never text me back and I would see him the next day and he still wouldn't have texted me back.
PDA and making out in public. Keep that damn BS to yourself. Also saying “honey” to your partner in public is a deep hatred I have. It sounds so annoying.
This is coming from someone who is single
Not having integrity. If you say you'll do something, I expect you to follow through with it. If you're not gonna take the bins out, I'd rather you just say that so I can do it myself.
Being with my ex misses for 5 years. Don’t remember seeing her replace to loo role once. Even when we got our own house. New one was always on top of the old one or on the sink ect..
Not picking up after yourself. I'm your partner, not your maid.
I used to work in a grocery store, and often I would see old married couples who were dressed the same. For example, blue jeans and the same gray Key West sweater. I always felt bad for the husbands, cause you know it wasnt their idea.
Haha. I know a couple that does this, and honestly, I think it IS his idea.🤣
Expensive, high calorie restaurant meals all the time. I am on a budget and a diet, BTW
Besides PDAs,
- When people feel the need to talk about their significant other all the time. Dude, I’m aroace. While I’m happy for you, I’m not comfortable hearing the lovey-dovey stuff you do with your partner. The only info I need is who you are dating, how long you’ve been dating and when you break up so I can at least respect your dating life. Talk to me about anything else, and keep your relationship your private business.
I am up front about my issues. They are non negotiable; you cannot "fix" me. Do not agree thinking that I will change or that you can change me; do not agree simply because you think that is what I want to hear. If I am not what you are looking for, just say so; do not simply go along because you think it will be different later down the road. You will be wasting your time and mine.
I cant fix your issues, but ill help get you through them, even if they never go away
Not respecting my space and allowing me to have time to myself. I require a lot of solitude otherwise I get short with people over minor things, and I will feel a deep annoyance of their presence. Doesn't matter who they are. When I feel recharged I'll be craving social interaction.
Not saying please and thank you. Just because you are a couple does not mean that the little niceties should go to the side.
When ppl are super nosy, if I tell you I can’t tell you anything about it then respect that so that I don’t have to lie to you so you’ll leave me alone
