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#1

Am I Bi? Pan? Am I a Therian?????
Idk who I am

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So sorry for posting again... how do I know if I have a crush on someone. For context: one of my friends, we'll call her E, is in a group that is hosting a trackathon thingy where you run a lot and get paid for a fundraiser helping an animal shelter thats going bankrupt. I do not like running, but my maybe-crush might go and im not sure if I'm excited about it? Idk if im excited about seeing him or just about seeing E who I haven't seen in a really long time. For more context he knows that I had a crush on him a couple years ago when I was the cringiest person alive and honestly I dont know if its just because "oh your first love never leaves you" (im thirteen though so... love? prolly not.). Also he was sending me reels a lot and stopped after I never sent any to him and idk it feels weird because I kinda worked checking my instagram into my routine at that point. I don't think I need another person in my life but idk✨✨


Thank you for attending my ted talk and rant again im soooo sorry for posting so much idk if this is even within the bounds of one question

I do hope im not oversharing

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lasagne of death
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4 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd say go to the fundraiser, and just see how it goes. At the moment, you could be excited to see both of them, and you probably are. So, go to it, and see which one you want to talk to more. If you don't know, talk to one of them- about anything, really- and see if you wish to continue talking to them, or if you feel more inclined to go off and find the other. I'm not sure if this clarifies anything for you, but it's helped me realise my people-priority before (though it was just with friends, not a potential crush- I'm really bad in the romance aspect of life lol).

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How does she/they or he/they pronouns work? like if someone had they/them pronouns I would say "They did that... I went with them to Starbucks", but for a person with she/they pronouns how would I use it? I really want to know bc I dont wanna accidentally use someones pronouns wrong. Thanks!

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4 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, your best bet is to just ask the individual person. I, for instance, really don't care what pronouns people use for me, and it doesn't matter if they use one set of pronouns, or alternate between a variety, but it can be different for others.

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#4

I am not saying Ancient Aliens did it but what if Ancient Aliens did do it?

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Okay. Got a question. When writing a book you will come across something you need to research. You may have a scientist as a character say,both May need to do look into the science to make your character credible. Whatever the subject matter, research should be more than reading up on wikipedia. Do you find a specialist book on the topic? How do you know that the book you have picked up is correct? Do you read several books on the subject? Is their a knack to doing research? A methodology to follow?

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me myself and i (She/Her)
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4 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my gosh are you going to write a book?? Okay so my methodology is to start with my common knowledge. I search it up and cross check with Wikipedia to see if it’s true. I have a friend who’s been a camper and a scout person for several years, so I ask her nature questions—it’s good to have a “hands on” experienced source, as the internet might not be realistic. For you it might be a tad more difficult, but I tend to read books in my genre that I’m writing and see how much THOSE authors talked about the things I’m worrying about. Often you’ll find that you don’t know if the things they write are accurate, so actually Wikipedia is a good starting point that you can also stop at. However, when I have to look up historical and scientific points, I try to find a reputable source such as Britannica and read the article. You can ask chatgpt to summarize if you want. All in all, it’s not that hard! A more important point imo is to not OVERLY explain history or science. Good luck!

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How does one post things here?? Like I did it before, but I have no idea how. Can someone tell me, please?

Also, BP let's me upvote comments/posts, but for some reason, whatever I downvote resets, and doesn't stick. Anyone know why?

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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(at least on phones) at the very top of the page there's a small button saying 'Add post" if you click it there's some options to put it together

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#7

What is the airspeed velocity of an unladen swallow?

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

20.1 miles per hour (32.4 kph) or 29.5 feet per second (9 meters per second).