What do you hate people asking or telling you if you are LGBTQ?

#1

“So you like to f**k pans?” -pansexual part

“Sooo. You’re just confused? You can’t be more than one gender” - Genderfluid part.

Like Jesus, Karen. Just let me be a bunch of hypersexual, over eager lizards in a trench coat having an identity crisis.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I forgot one- I’m polyamorous. I often get funny looks from people who have seen me with multiple partners, and they usually ask if I’m cheating on one with the other one when with only one partner at a time. I’m aware I cannot legally marry BOTH my partners. But just let me be happy. My heart is big enough to equally love two people at the same time, so let me do so in peace. - a bunch of lizards in a trench coat having an identity and gender crisis out-

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#2

People informing me that "your gender is how you are at birth!" I don't care, and I still perceive myself as female.

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Saturn Rings
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then you are female. No matter what anyone else says, nobody knows your body like you do.

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#3

Some guy I know thinks that lesbians grow mustaches and that straight women can't have facial hair.
Just the lesbian women.
He doesn't realize everyone can have hair growing on their face
Just. The. Lesbian. Women.

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Ranboo_Has_All_The_Gender
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*snort*... i'm Neptunic, i'm EXTRA lesbian... (look it up)... lots of pimples, no hair... *Burst out into super loud laughter*

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#4

Never happened to me but my friend was lesbian and someone said “oh you lesbian so your just trying to be a boy?”

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#5

ThAtS nOt WhAt ThE lOrD jEsUs ChRiSt MaDe YoU fOr.

i'm only 15 man and all I was doing was wear a a shirt that had a rainbow on it and it said proud. What am I doing wrong. I DONT EVEN GO TO F*****G CHURCH. I WASNT EVEN WEARING IT!!!!!! I WAS BUYING IT AT KOHL'S WHEN IT HAPPENED 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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dayedin (he/she/they)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate when this happens as well. I'm 15 as well, and mostly aethiest. Besides, 'God' is an all powerful deity. A being on a whole other plane. There is no reason to objectively gender something that, from a logical perspective, would be anything and everything, including all genders. While I'm at it, the Bible says nothing against homosexuality. What it does say is a man can not 'SA' another man, and a man may not sleep with boy. Meaning r**e and pedophilia, not a man sleeping with a consenting man. Most people like this will also argue: "Well you're not whole and holy anymore, so you'll go to hell." One of the bible's most preached ideals is that God will love you no matter what. That this being sent it's son to die for us, they loved us so much. So do you REALLY THINK AN ALL POWERFUL DOETY IS GONNA CARE IM GENDERFLUID AND THAT I LIKE ALL GENDERS? all power

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#7

I'm sorry you had to hear things like this....some people should really learn to keep their mouth shut. I wish the best to all of you, take care, you are amazing ;)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, i wanted to leave a comment, and add an answer instead..............gosh, i'm dumb sometimes.

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#8

"Ew, you want to be in a relationship with multiple people?" There's two things wrong with this. One, polyromanticism and polyamory are two different things. Polyamory is what people confuse me for. I am not interested in a polyamorous relationship, just one partner is good for me. I am polyromantic (asexual) meaning I feel romantic attraction to most but not all genders. So they are not the same. Secondly, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being polyamorous. I don't think it matters how big of a relationship circle you are in, Polyamorous people are valid.

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#9

I'm trans but also like feminine things and I hate people thinking I'm faking or just being dramatic.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm genderfluid and haven't heard this yet thankfully, except in my own brain :,)

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#10

Not me but my friend (A) got bullied when she/they were dating another female. This one idiot(B) said he was dating her gf (we'll call her C) and then when A tried to tell him that he didn't bother her, he said that he didn't speak Spanish and doesn't understand her...
Just because she is Mexican.
He's at another school now, thankfully.

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#11

Little bit of background, I'm a trans guy but I used to be a "girly girl". People always say "omg, you had long hair!" and comments about my appearance changing. I don't mind questions, just please be respectful

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️‍MushroomAce️‍
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My parents wont accept me, im afraid if i tell them im experimenting with genderfluid/non-binary-ness (???) theyll disagree and say i am a girl and i will stay that way.

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#12

‘So which one of you is the boy & which one is the girl?’

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stfu and leave people alone (This is referring to the homophobes btw)

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#13

People telling me and my boyfriend “Ya’ll are both woman, you will never be able to change your gender, blah blah blah”

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#14

Well one of them is ,whenever I saw I've got a gf they don't belive me ,and tell me to kiss her ,so I'm like, gladly ,and then they say ew,just after they congratulate their female freinds on kissing their boyfreinds and aw it ,IM SO CONFUSED IT HAPPENES EVERY DAY

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#15

I told my sister I was pansexual and she was like. "Ummmmmm ok??? I found it weird you like pan's but like you do you girl" it was a joke but it's annoying

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s not a funny joke, some polysexuals have been calling themselves plysexual to avoid being called polyamorus. It’s not funny so leave pansexual, polysexuals and everyone else tf alone

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#16

“You’re too smart to be gay” News flash jackass, everyone can be gay.

Also the whole “oh you’re pronouns are she/they? Why? Pick one”

Anyway, you all are all great for supporting yourself and others. 😁

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