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Woman Has Genetic Condition That Makes Her Life Living Hell, Appalled When Sis Gets Pregnant
Sometimes, folks are dealt difficult hands and are expected to go about their life as if they aren’t operating on hard mode. That’s an incredibly tough thing to do, especially if a person is struggling with something like a chronic health condition.
That’s exactly what the woman in this story had to deal with, and she couldn’t plow through life anymore because her genetic disease was incredibly painful. So, when she learned about her sister getting pregnant, she was horrified due to all the possible risks to the future child.
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Recurring health problems can have a massive impact on a person’s well-being, which is certainly why they’d never want it to be passed on to someone else
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The poster shared that she had been struggling through life with an untreatable genetic condition and that it made her want to end things
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The woman was glad that her sister’s son hadn’t inherited the genetic disorder, as she personally knew the trials and tribulations that came with it
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When the poster was in the middle of a rant about how awful the world is and how tough things are, her sister revealed she was pregnant
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The woman was shocked by her sister’s reveal and felt like she might have possibly sentenced an innocent child to dealing with a painful genetic condition
The poster had to grapple with a difficult medical diagnosis her whole life, and no matter how much she tried to manage it, there was just too much pain and exhaustion that came with it. That’s why her outlook on life was bleak, and she just wanted to end things so that she didn’t have to bear the tough genetic disease any longer.
According to Mental Health America, when people have to deal with chronic pain like this, it can often lead to anxiety and depression due to their low health-related quality of life. Having to cope with such physical pain on a daily basis can impact the brain and nervous system, which also then negatively affects their mental health.
That’s why the woman couldn’t seem to find joy in her life and kept thinking of ending things as soon as possible. Due to the severe nature of her difficulties, she was truly glad that her nephew hadn’t inherited her condition and that he could live life normally without having to struggle like she did.
The OP’s fears about the future generations in her family are justified because, as biomedical scientists point out, most people carry around five or more genes associated with a recessive disorder they probably aren’t aware of. That’s precisely why genetic testing and careful afterthought are essential before one has a child.
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What led the woman to make this post was the shocking discovery that her sister was pregnant, as it was news that she never wanted to receive. The reason why this information impacted her so much was that she felt scared that any child coming into their family might have to suffer the way she was.
Even though she was in such turmoil, her sister didn’t seem to realize how her innocent revelation had impacted the OP. She was only concerned about why her news wasn’t met with more joy and excitement, and it also seems like she didn’t thoroughly think about the possible genetic risks associated with her pregnancy.
The critical thing to take away from these women’s experiences is that if there is an incurable hereditary disease in the family, one should take a genetic test before deciding to have a child. Experts say that although you can’t change your genes, these tests can help people make informed decisions about the health of their future children and take precautions with the help of genetic counselors.
Obviously, the OP’s sister cannot change the fate of her future child, but she can probably take guidance from an expert to understand what health-related risks the little one could face. It’s also clear that both sisters need to have an open and honest discussion about what this pregnancy means and why it brought out such emotions in the poster.
What do you feel about the OP’s reasoning behind her reaction? We’d love to hear your thoughts on the matter.
Netizens sided with the poster and felt that her sister was selfish for bringing another life into the world despite knowing about the possible genetic risks
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Nova Rook 3 months ago
The OP is depressed and can take no joy in anything. I can imagine a horrible condition doing that to a person, but I see no reason to vilify the new mother.
Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
Except WTF kind of present is infant socks and an ultrasound result.
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Zoe Vokes 3 months ago
There was lots of information missing. OP didn’t need to name the illness but if the genetic condition only has a 1% chance of being inherited then it’s very different to a 50% chance. I understand that OP is suffering but just because OP thinks the world is a depressing place, it doesn’t mean nobody is allowed to have kids. And the Christmas gift cost difference means nothing unless they had talked about it before and agreed to a minimum gift value. For me $300 for a gift is too much for an adult sibling. Husband and child are her main present receivers. If she’s expected to spend $300 on sister and parents then Christmas would cost a lot more than $1000.
Hope 3 months ago
She doesn't actually say this sister hadn't been tested for how likely this is to be an issue. Neither her parents, sister or the 2 year old have this condition. It's limited information on her condition, which if naming it would out her as she states to a genetic counselor, seems RARE. Perhaps her fear is blown out of proportion? Perhaps it's misplaced due to her inability to have children or a family of her own. Read the comments.
Mike F 3 months ago
This doesn't pass the smell test. While the OP claims to be unable to get out of bed, they also "run a very successful small business"? And, all of the secrecy around the illness while putting the sister's business out there with no problem? This won't be popular, but I really feel like this is fake.
Otto Katz 3 months ago
OnlyFans There's a f****h for everything. And I think it's fake too.
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Bryn 3 months ago
Something smells rotten in denmark here. While it's possible OP has a genetic disorder, but to claim to be able to barely get out of bed but then say they run a successful business? And the genetics math isn't mathing so to speak. Plus OP doesn't say whether her sister's being tested, or her sister's partner... Just very very skeptical of all of this.
The Majestic Opossum 3 months ago
She wouldn't include the name of the condition for privacy reasons?? It's Reddit, not like the condition would give away her identity? And it might help others to know or her if the geneticist had some insight. I think she's a f*cking liar.
Bored Sailor 3 months ago
I have a genetic medical issue but no one else in my family has it. I don't know if the sister and her son doesn't have it should it be this much of a concern. I understand there is a reason for concern all family medical history should be considered but should it rule your life decisions.
J R 3 months ago
I am so sorry for the OP. I can only imagine how hard their life is. I absolutely think the sisted should get genetic testing done during the pregnancy, but I disagree with saying people shouldn't have kids because they might be disabeld. In many cases, it's eugenicist. I don't think it is in this case; however, considering the sis snd the nephew don't have it, it's a steep ask to say the sis should never have kids because they could get the condition. I get why it feels different for the OP. But to frame this as selfish is a bit much.
Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
I don’t get why folks expect you to be ‘thrilled’ over a pregnancy that isn’t yours. Happy sure. Polite, of course. But thrilled. Plus getting a crappy present. The pregger is a self-centered twit
Nova Rook 3 months ago
The OP is depressed and can take no joy in anything. I can imagine a horrible condition doing that to a person, but I see no reason to vilify the new mother.
Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
Except WTF kind of present is infant socks and an ultrasound result.
Load More Replies... Zoe Vokes 3 months ago
There was lots of information missing. OP didn’t need to name the illness but if the genetic condition only has a 1% chance of being inherited then it’s very different to a 50% chance. I understand that OP is suffering but just because OP thinks the world is a depressing place, it doesn’t mean nobody is allowed to have kids. And the Christmas gift cost difference means nothing unless they had talked about it before and agreed to a minimum gift value. For me $300 for a gift is too much for an adult sibling. Husband and child are her main present receivers. If she’s expected to spend $300 on sister and parents then Christmas would cost a lot more than $1000.
Hope 3 months ago
She doesn't actually say this sister hadn't been tested for how likely this is to be an issue. Neither her parents, sister or the 2 year old have this condition. It's limited information on her condition, which if naming it would out her as she states to a genetic counselor, seems RARE. Perhaps her fear is blown out of proportion? Perhaps it's misplaced due to her inability to have children or a family of her own. Read the comments.
Mike F 3 months ago
This doesn't pass the smell test. While the OP claims to be unable to get out of bed, they also "run a very successful small business"? And, all of the secrecy around the illness while putting the sister's business out there with no problem? This won't be popular, but I really feel like this is fake.
Otto Katz 3 months ago
OnlyFans There's a f****h for everything. And I think it's fake too.
Load More Replies... Bryn 3 months ago
Something smells rotten in denmark here. While it's possible OP has a genetic disorder, but to claim to be able to barely get out of bed but then say they run a successful business? And the genetics math isn't mathing so to speak. Plus OP doesn't say whether her sister's being tested, or her sister's partner... Just very very skeptical of all of this.
The Majestic Opossum 3 months ago
She wouldn't include the name of the condition for privacy reasons?? It's Reddit, not like the condition would give away her identity? And it might help others to know or her if the geneticist had some insight. I think she's a f*cking liar.
Bored Sailor 3 months ago
I have a genetic medical issue but no one else in my family has it. I don't know if the sister and her son doesn't have it should it be this much of a concern. I understand there is a reason for concern all family medical history should be considered but should it rule your life decisions.
J R 3 months ago
I am so sorry for the OP. I can only imagine how hard their life is. I absolutely think the sisted should get genetic testing done during the pregnancy, but I disagree with saying people shouldn't have kids because they might be disabeld. In many cases, it's eugenicist. I don't think it is in this case; however, considering the sis snd the nephew don't have it, it's a steep ask to say the sis should never have kids because they could get the condition. I get why it feels different for the OP. But to frame this as selfish is a bit much.
Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
I don’t get why folks expect you to be ‘thrilled’ over a pregnancy that isn’t yours. Happy sure. Polite, of course. But thrilled. Plus getting a crappy present. The pregger is a self-centered twit
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