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Manager Refuses To Police What Pregnant Employee Drinks When Coworker Brings It Up
Manager Refuses To Police What Pregnant Employee Drinks When Coworker Brings It Up
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Manager Refuses To Police What Pregnant Employee Drinks When Coworker Brings It Up

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Pregnancy is not an illness, and many women can continue working well into their third trimesters. Statistics show that 70% of all pregnant women worked during the year of their pregnancy. While pregnant employees might not be able to do all kinds of work, especially physically demanding tasks, for some, work life goes on as usual.

Recently, a manager shared a story of how her bringing a coffee to a pregnant colleague spurred disapproval from another coworker. Under the guise of looking out for the mom-to-be, the office Karen even called a meeting to chastise her manager. So, she started wondering: perhaps she really shouldn’t have bought that coffee?

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    A coffee for a pregnant coworker sparked drama between two colleagues

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    One of them thought pregnant women shouldn’t drink coffee and chastised the other

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    Consuming small amounts of caffeine while pregnant is usually fine

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    It’s nice when people care about you and your unborn child’s health. Sometimes, however, they may cross the line and worry just a tad too much. And while there are some foods pregnant women shouldn’t be eating, like products made from unpasteurized milk, raw meats, eggs, and fish, coffee isn’t strictly off the table.

    Experts claim that caffeine is fine for pregnant women, as long as it’s taken in moderation. The daily dose that’s usually allowed is 200mg of caffeine per day. A cup of instant coffee usually has 100mg of caffeine, whereas a cup of filter coffee has 140mg.

    Green and black teas also contain caffeine, but there are only 75mg of caffeine in one cup of tea. A can of cola has 40mg of caffeine, a 250ml energy drink has 80mg, and dark and milk chocolate have less than 25mg and less than 10mg caffeine, respectively. However, some energy drinks might have bigger amounts of caffeine, as do some herbal tea blends.

    So, doctors recommend checking nutrition labels if the mom-to-be is not sure how much caffeine might be in a food or a drink. “The amount of caffeine per cup of coffee varies between products, but as a general rule, consuming 1 to 2 cups of coffee a day is not expected to be a concern,” experts agree.

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    Excessive intake of caffeine can pose serious health risks for the baby

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    What happens if a woman drinks more than the recommended amount of caffeine while she’s pregnant? According to the WHO, excess caffeine intake might result in preterm birth, stillbirth, a baby’s growth restriction, and reduced birth weight.

    In 2008, two studies showed different outcomes when it comes to the effects of caffeine. One found that women who consume excessive amounts of caffeine are twice as likely to have a miscarriage. The other found no increased risks when women drank a minimal amount (between 250ml and 300ml) of caffeine each day.

    Some research suggests that caffeine consumption might result in a smaller birth size. Compared to babies born to women who did not consume caffeine during their pregnancy, women who reported consuming about 50mg of caffeine a day had infants 2.3 ounces (66 grams) lighter and .17 inches (.32 centimeters) shorter.

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    Researchers theorize that caffeine makes blood vessels in the uterus and the placenta constrict. That reduces the blood supply to the fetus and inhibits its growth.

    On the other hand, other research suggests that consuming caffeine while pregnant can reduce the risk of gestational diabetes. However, that doesn’t mean pregnant women should start drinking coffee for that reason.

    “It would not be advised for women who are non-drinkers to initiate caffeinated beverage consumption for the purpose of lowering gestational diabetes risk,” the study’s lead author Stephanie Hinkle, PhD, said.

    “But our findings may provide some reassurance to women who already are consuming low to moderate levels of caffeine that such consumption likely will not increase their maternal health risks.”

    The office Karen even called a meeting to address the coffee incident, causing the worker even more stress

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    Commenters sided with the author, saying that he coworkers should mind her own business

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    After a short while, the woman shared an update about the meeting

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Livingwithcfs
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why does a pregnant woman become everyone else's business? I had this happening 30 years ago. honestly I drank coffee a lot and I also ate a lot of tge foods that are now considered bad for pregnancy and guess what... my kids are all ok, bright, normal, productive adults. leave pregnant women alone, it's no one's business except hers, her husband (not the whole family) and her doctor. the rest of us just need to shut up

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ikr?! I enjoyed a cup of coffee with my mom every Saturday morning and my in-laws had the gull to ask why my mom allowed it one day, when they were over for a visit. My kid was born healthy. No caffeine withdrawals. People be putting their grubby hands on our stomachs, telling us not to jump or run, don't eat this, don't eat that. Asking us invasive questions about our bodies and what we're doing. I don't get it.

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    PenguinEmp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your coworker is a twit. I'm sure she doesn't want the government telling her what to do with her body, so why does she get to tell everyone else what to do with theirs? Shoot all our parents smoked, glass of wine or a coffee. We are all fineish. Tell Lucy to get lost. No one needs a person like that.

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    "I'm sure she doesn't want the government telling her what to do with her body"... well if she is a white woman in the United States, then statistically speaking, she would be very much okay with the government telling her what she can and cannot do with her body. Even more likely to be okay with it if she is also married to a white man.

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    Scott Rackley
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why you even responded to her. Just give her a raised eyebrow and go about your day.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, call them both into a room and begin the convo with, "Emily seems to be concerned with your drink choices, Lucy. Would you care to voice them to Lucy personally or do you just want to pry into her personal business from a distance?" I want to head-butt people who read something online and then parade around like they are suddenly authorities on the subject.

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    Livingwithcfs
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why does a pregnant woman become everyone else's business? I had this happening 30 years ago. honestly I drank coffee a lot and I also ate a lot of tge foods that are now considered bad for pregnancy and guess what... my kids are all ok, bright, normal, productive adults. leave pregnant women alone, it's no one's business except hers, her husband (not the whole family) and her doctor. the rest of us just need to shut up

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ikr?! I enjoyed a cup of coffee with my mom every Saturday morning and my in-laws had the gull to ask why my mom allowed it one day, when they were over for a visit. My kid was born healthy. No caffeine withdrawals. People be putting their grubby hands on our stomachs, telling us not to jump or run, don't eat this, don't eat that. Asking us invasive questions about our bodies and what we're doing. I don't get it.

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    PenguinEmp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your coworker is a twit. I'm sure she doesn't want the government telling her what to do with her body, so why does she get to tell everyone else what to do with theirs? Shoot all our parents smoked, glass of wine or a coffee. We are all fineish. Tell Lucy to get lost. No one needs a person like that.

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    "I'm sure she doesn't want the government telling her what to do with her body"... well if she is a white woman in the United States, then statistically speaking, she would be very much okay with the government telling her what she can and cannot do with her body. Even more likely to be okay with it if she is also married to a white man.

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    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand why you even responded to her. Just give her a raised eyebrow and go about your day.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, call them both into a room and begin the convo with, "Emily seems to be concerned with your drink choices, Lucy. Would you care to voice them to Lucy personally or do you just want to pry into her personal business from a distance?" I want to head-butt people who read something online and then parade around like they are suddenly authorities on the subject.

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