Relatives Who Deserve A Special Place In Hell For Being Annoyingly Entitled (30 Pics)
There are friends, there are co-workers, there are lovers and total strangers. Since no man is an island, we live surrounded by people we like, tolerate or dislike.
But there’s one peculiar group of people we basically spend all our lives with. We constantly catch up during reunions, dinners, or Christmas, spend time together as kids (and adults!), send congratulations cards to each other and feel obliged to be patient no matter how much they’d annoy us. And the fact that we often have little in common except being tied in blood makes it all the more crazy.
This is, of course, when we talk about ‘difficult’ relatives, and not the ones that are seriously our most loved people on earth (I am looking at you, cousin!) So today, we’re diving into the not-the-most-pleasant encounters where people ran into ridiculously entitled family members.
Get ready to fume like this post was a Russian 'banya,’ scroll down through the stories and be sure to share your experience of sharing a family with a person who feels like they inherently deserve more than anyone else!
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My Mother Kicked Me Out Before Christmas But Still Asked Me When She Was Going To Receive Her Gift That I Had Bought Her
... do we have the same mother? My mother is the most entitled n selfish person on the planet. my pops passed away sept 2020 they were divorced, she ruined his life, he HATED her, she took everything from him even though she never worked a day in her life n my dad provided everything for us, she took his pension, carpenters union payouts, his house, cars, etc. all in the divorce bcuz all he wanted was us kids.. she then lied n said he was molesting us kids in order to get custody, she won despite it being 1000% false n no proof, then after he died she tried to take his house, animals & money despite my brothers n I being his beneficiaries, she made his death all about her, used it to gain sympathy, invited herself to his funeral even though he did NOT want her there. she then got mad at me for calling her out, I haven't talked to her since his funeral. She called me on Xmas this year bitching about how I haven't sent her a gift. demanded I send her one "or else". SoI changed my number.
Whoa. Sorry to just like... trauma dump. This post obviously triggered me. What better place to unleash 28 years worth of baggage than on a bored panda comment section. Don't judge me. My bad. I do feel better though! So thank BP
Load More Replies...I feel sorry for you. Having a mother like that sometimes makes us feel not worthy enough, when it is not our fault. Kudos to you for not sending that amazing gift to her.
I am wondering however why this person was "kicked out" and with that what the whole story is. Not saying expecting a gift after an altercation is appropriate, but am saying this is not a very appropriate gift to begin with. A trip like that is very expensive and not your classic Christmas gift. A young child doesn't have that kind of money, so this is clearly an adult who might actually be needing to live on their own. Was it meant as compensation? Did mom not kick them out, but merely reminded them of a deadline that was set a long time ago. Questions, questions.
I can offer an explanation, based on my own family: living with parents saves you money. If the mother tried to have this person sectioned, it means there are mental health issues at play, which may mean OP can't live independently. OP may feel guilty about needing to live with their mother and therefore buys her an expensive gift as a thank you, from the money they are saving by living at home. But just because OP lives with their mother, doesn't mean it's a healthy environment, and the mother sounds toxic.
Load More Replies...I'm guessing the mother's a big factor in the mental health issues that put the OP in hospital in the first place (reading between the lines as you can be released with a care plan and the mother is probably the 'nearest relative' legally - UK MH system). People can have serious and sometimes debilitating mental illnesses and still be in well-paid careers or running businesses if they have the right medication/support.
Aunt Doesn’t Like That I Asked Her To Pay Shipping
I admire this person calm demeanour, held their sh*t together so well. I'd have delivered the books, with a right hook.
I often think this is because the calm person is used to the behavior of the A-hole person... which is quite sad but explains a lot
Load More Replies...Postage is a lot cheaper than buying from Amazon where you will still have to pay for postage anyway Cheapskate!
What a bitch. I'd gladly pay shipping for free textbooks. They are so expensive! I know as a student having to purchase 3 or 4 a semester. Wow! Some people are ridiculous
I had a 'friend' burrow an expensive box set off me (back when we all had dvd's). It was my favourite movies + documentaries about them etc. She never gave them back but she emailed me a year or so later asking if I wanted them, so I said yes please send them and she asked me to send her £15 for the postage. She said if I didn't she'd give them to charity. Obviously I didn't and she made out I was really unreasonable and a bitch basically and she never returned them. Still annoyed every time I think about it (this was probably over ten years ago lol)
“It's totally OK not to get along with some of your relatives,” Francis Merson, Clinical Psychologist and Founder of the Paris Psychology Centre, told Bored Panda. “In fact, it would be remarkable to get along with the multitude of cousins, aunts, nephews, second cousins etc. that most of us have.”
So no wonder that conflicts happen now and then, and it seems like there’s never really peace in your extended family. “If there's been some kind of conflict with a relative, it can be useful to zoom out from the situation with the following thought experiment... Imagine you're at the very end of your life, and you're looking back on your current situation. What advice would you give to yourself now? To smooth things over with this relative and keep the peace? Or let the relationship slide and move on?”
According to Merson, there's no right or wrong answer to these questions, “but they can take you out of the heat of the moment and prompt you to reflect on which course of action is most in line with your deeper values.”
Mom Asked For 'Old Phone' As Temp For Uncle, Offered Old Phone, Can't Be Too Old Has To Be iPhone 6 Or Above
Your profile pic adds to that comment lol
Load More Replies...Twat. When my phone broke I was lucky I was given an old one so I was still contactable, while I waited to get a replacement. It was an old, crappy phone but it was better than nothing.
This was an utterly tactless exchange, but there may have actually been a reason that he needed a device which was an iPhone 6 or newer. For example the app for my bank required Android 6.0 or higher, and and example app for an insulin pump requires IOS 12 or higher.
there might be a reason but she literally said "old cell phone"
Load More Replies...Hey, I have an Iphone 6s+. I'll send it to him in exchange for a new iPhone 13.
My Sister Needed A Job
This makes me freaking FURIOUS!! Over 100 jobs I've applied for I'd kill for a job like this. She just didn't doesn't want to work. Plain and simple.
The best thing that can happen if you convince your boss to employ your family or friends is that you get fired on the same day as them. Keep your work separated from family and friends. Trust me.
If she has this kind of track record, and clearly she does, I would never have put my name out there for her. And as for sponging off mom, that is mom's problem. Just don't loan money to mom either if she allows such parasitism
My brother refused to be a reference for his friend for this very reason. He told him, "I love you, man, but no." The friend actually understood lol.
Load More Replies...If someone says they are struggling and need help, they just want a hand out of cold hard cash at hand, if the turn down a job especially a good one, they are not struggling at all
Yup. It only takes one time and you never put yourself out there again
Wow, can I have her job? I'm a teacher and that pay is almost double what I make! Plus flexible hours, free healthcare, and no childcare needed? This has to be one of the dumbest moves her sister ever made, letting that job slip away.
Sister Wants To Squat In Op's Spare Room But Demands That She Stop Practicing Violin That She Plays For Her Job
Yeah beds are cheaper than rent but the point is that SHE NEEDS TO BE SAVING TO BE ABLE TO MOVE OUT! Especially when OP already gave her a damn bed. So she's buying things she does not need! She needs to be putting that money aside to be able to afford a deposit on a place. Duh! Are you all seriously that daft that you can't understand how dropping hundreds of dollars on items you don't need, that you can't even fit into the room you're not even paying for, items that aren't a roof over your head is somehow okay when this person is homeless? Lol. A double bed is minimum $200... minimum. Mattresses aren't cheap.. also she probably had to buy a bed frame, new blankets, sheets etc. so that's a whole lot of unnecessary spending when you're supposed to be saving in order to move out! Lol.
Load More Replies...If she can’t afford rent, she can’t afford to complain. Beggars can’t be choosers.
No, moral of the story is, the violin is what’s keeping a roof over our heads
The only AH here is the sister who took over your space. But it inspired me to attempt once again to get someone who asked me to watch her cat for a weeks, Max, and has moved in and taken over my two bedroom, 2 bath apt. I feel like I'm a maid and my prison is my bathroom and bedroom. She has never paid a cent and people just can't wait to ease their conscious for not housing her by giving her money. I got her out once but she came back like a bad check. I'm done.
DO NOT THIS PERSON BACK INTO YOUR HOME. She will only get worse.
She is a guest in your house. Whatever you do is fine. Its your house. She does not get to say ANYTHING. Leave if you dont like it!
The clinical psychologist explained that entitlement is an entrenched belief that you deserve more than other people do. “Entitled people often feel that the rules don't apply to them, and they should be allowed to act with impunity. A sense of entitlement can also be involved in Narcissistic Personality Disorder,” Merson explained and added that “Entitled people can often cross people's boundaries, because they think these boundaries don't apply to them.”
Shared My Netflix Years Ago With My Mom And Sister, Then Had An Issue Last Night So I Checked The Recent Devices. Found Out There Were Tons Of People With My Password, Plus Someone Upped My Plan. Reset My Password And Told My Sister I Wasn't Going To Share My Password Anymore. Chaos
Wow. I'm genuinely shocked that a mom would talk to her kid like that over a freaking Netflix subscription.
It's so inconsiderate. If I found out my child had $1.82 in their checking account, I'd immediately stop talking about Netflix and ask if I can help or send them some money. There are so many issues with the mom's behavior.
Load More Replies...My mother's smart tv has Netflix, and it has my sister's family account linked to it. Now theoretically if there was something that me or my mother were desperate to see on Netflix, my sister would give us the password. But common courtesy would dictate that we don't give the password out to everyone. Because we're not a*$*holes.
This is a really long-shot guess because I don't know the mother but, because she sounds like mine: an emotionally immature parent lashing out because her daughter set a boundary. I'd go no-contact ASAP.
Wow!! Over a Netflix! You'd do this to your struggling but generous child over Netflix? I have no words.
Sister Sent Me This... She Was Blocked Immediately After
Ok, I get it that they're family, but if they agreed on $16 an hour, she deserves to be paid $16 an hour. I'm a nanny and my rate is more than that!
They're not family. The sister had the conversation with someone else and sent it to OP.
Load More Replies...dude. They're not family. The sister had the conversation with someone else and sent it to OP.
Load More Replies...Oh My God, What A Spoiled Brat
Some people are sooooo clueless and bloody selfish that it makes me want to throw something through a window.
Try hunting them down and throwing them out of their windows
Load More Replies...Hey, can anyone give me free villa on the ocean coast with full staff of servants, brand-new yacht and 1m/week pay ASAP? Rly need this. Thanks. Personal spaceship would be appreciated!
I am confused by "turned down $3000 for a new car, because...". I understand Grandpa tried to sell her crappy car but what's with turning down $3000?
Wtf is giving a way a new or like new car? People give away a 1978 Ford Fiesta with no engine, not a car a couple years old. And sure as shiit not to a stranger.
Woman wants free car for her daughter, who had refused crappy car from her grandpa.
Load More Replies...The audacity to think that someone would just give away a car for free.
I see your comments often, very short and to the point. I like it.
Load More Replies...This is disgusting. If you're in deep s**t and need some food then yeah. This dipshit is asking for a car. It's not like they can't afford it either. Not I'm not a saint, but if I'm going to hell I hope this idiot comes with me and I would enjoy watching them burn.
as I stated in another post: my first car was a VW golf for 300€.. it had four wheels, a motor and a steering wheel, it took me from A to B and thats it. Why are some people so fixated on an expensive car for a kid of 16 years, who is driving on his/her own for the first time? you should calculate little accidents, scratches and bulges in to this logic.
When asked how one should deal with an entitled relative, Merson said that you may have to come to terms with it. “If your relative is an entitled person, you might need to accept that you're not going to alter this personality trait by calling them out on their behavior (as tempting as it might be to do so!).”
Moreover, “Entitled people generally react poorly to criticism, and might end up putting all the blame on you,” Merson said. He continued: “So the first question to consider is: would it be wiser and kinder to myself just to let this go? This doesn't mean accepting that what they did was right or OK, but accepting that there's nothing useful you can do about it right now.”
Op’s Ex Wife Doesn’t Want Son To Get A Better Car Then She Does
True, he is not, but a 340i as a first car for a teenager? Does he want his son to crash and die??
Load More Replies...While I do think the smart thing to give a new driver (especially a male one, based on statistics) is one with not too much power, and that no one will get too upset about getting a few scratches, I think the ex wife's reaction is incredibly selfish
It's a BMW. He can't get hurt driving it if its parked at the repair shop.
Load More Replies...I have a 2nd cousin that came to Christmas every year at my grandma's and my grandma would get us cousins all a ton of gifts and always only get this 2nd cousin one. The 2nd cousin is now 36 and said she always felt unwanted bc of it. Turns out her dad told her grandma not to get her gifts bc it "undermined" them. But cousin never knew that.. just that she was unwanted for whatever reason an internalized that. Don’t limit what other ppl can get your kids bc your insecure about your own financial situation
Wow, that poor girl. It's not about the presents, it's about feeling equal and loved.
Load More Replies...Get your son whatever car you wish! Obviously you will have to be sure the costs, insurance and upkeep, will be taken care of since his mom will not be doing so. It is a shame that she feels the way she does.
Seems it's time to stop supporting her over the amount of child support he legally has to pay.
"An English teacher is really someone. How proud I'ed be if he would become one." Bye, Bye Birdie"
Load More Replies...“The way I see it is I have no obligation to be paying more than I already do for them, and their finances are irrelevant to me.” Yes, agree. But getting a 17-year-old a BMW? Nope. Teenagers take to entitlement and status symbols like fish to water, and should be driving simple, practical, safe cars.
My Dad Thinks That Him And My Brother Is Entitled To Everything I Own. Even Though I Bought It With My Own Money. This Is Why I'm Gonna Move Out The Second I Turn 18.
Steam doesn't give you viruses your brother was watching porn on your PC.
Unfortunately, I ran into this same problem. I googled Steam and clicked the first link and started the download before I realized it was a scam site. I was lucky and was able to clean the computer before we ran into problems but, just sayin, it's not an unlikely story.
Load More Replies...So, OP is under 18 and can't leave. What they CAN do is set up different user profiles - the admin one is password protected and is the only way to install anything. The other is a guest profile for the brother. Can't do ANYTHING with this other than their homework and limited internet access.
Take the computer into a PC repair shop and get it cleaned up... have them sell it. Tell dad and brother it was unrepairable due to the viruses and you can't afford another one. Then get a laptop and keep it hidden.
Well dad thinks she's just a girl here to serve and son is a man who gets to control girls.....and so the misogyny continues. Lock the computer with limited access for brother including time limits
My Cousin Asked For Help And I Offered What I Could. It Was Immediate Or Enough So I’m In A State Of Disrepair And Caused Our Grandads Dementia
I'm sorry you are going through this. I am in a similar situation. It never ceases to amaze me how vicious family can become when they think there is money...jackals they are! No offense to true jackals.
How stupid also. If you take anything from the inheritance, you automatically accept it fully, including any debt. So you first get everything sorted out and only then you start dividing things up. Some people are just so greedy and think they are owed so much because their lives are shitty. They have the empathy of a dead rat. It correlates well with small amounts of thinking capacity.
Load More Replies...So the TL:DR is your cousin wants the expensive stuff from your dead grandfather and doesn't care about anything sentimental, and even though you were nice enough to say sure, the only reason you can't is because their own dad was so quick to go and steal stuff from his dead father so the house got locked up tight? No wonder grandpa skipped them and gave it all to you!!
"It's funny how people behave when inheritance is involved isn't it"... Ignorance is bliss, huh?
If I ever see s**t like this happen with my family I’m not leaving anyone anything when I die. I’ll donate it all to charity.
I would give this woman nothing and set her kids bonds to not being accessible until they're 21, so she can't spend it on herself. What an entitled b*txh
She sounds like the type to still ask her kids for it even then. Probably with some excuse that they owe her, or cousin got bonds to spite her and that it's really hers or something. Hopefully her kids will learn and see her for the type of person she is, and not give in to her.
Load More Replies...Out of all this i have one question! What's wrong with a 5 year old washing machine? My mum's washing machine is 30 years old and perfectly fine! If we throw things like this without being damaged we are really doomed
The way people act when they think they're going to inherit something is disgusting. I think it might actually be better to just die poor and eliminate all the battling.
THIS. 4 months before my FIL died he left the entire property with two houses to myself and my other half when originally it was to be split into thirds. Only problem was that the sister who lives in the second house was bankrupt and that would have made 8 people homeless. Mil has lifetime tenancy and the bitch sisters couldn’t be trusted to honour that but he said I would. I have as much as I hate the lot of them when I give my word I keep it. Our names are on the title and 8 years after his death the vultures have only just found out. I told her to start paying rent or shut it. She shut it
Oh wow if this isn't the pot calling the kettle black I don’t know what it
That being said, there are some things you can't just let go. The clinical psychologist said that “if your relative has crossed a line that could result in physical or emotional harm to yourself or others, then of course you have to act.”
“In this case, basic assertiveness can be useful. Describe, in simple terms, their behavior, the effect it is having on others—and ask them politely to stop. If they don't stop, then problem-solve the situation by looking after the people who you feel are at risk of harm—which could mean just getting out of there,” Merson concluded.
Homeless Guy & Pregnant Girlfriend Are Above A Job That Pays Above Minimum Wage!
Agreed. Let them in your apartment and they won't ever leave
Load More Replies...If you live in a car and have a child on the way... you take ANY job and be thankful for the opportunity to find something better.
I feel so bad for that kid, not because his/her parents are poor, but because his/her parents are stupid.
Load More Replies...I know quite a few homeless people (I volunteer with a drug treatment outreach) that would absolutely jump for joy for an opportunity like that!! What is wrong with people? Just wait until they get picked up for their unregistered vehicle, they'll be begging for the $ they could've earned. 🙄 people suck
If you can't bother to work to support yourself you don't deserve to be supported by anyone else.
Kitchen line work is hard, I know. But if you are living in a car, you take it. I used to wait tables. I still have nightmares about it (I am alone, restaurant full and got dropped in the middle with everyone waiting for me to serve. The stuff of nightmares). I would have to be pretty hard up to wait tables again. Like living in a car with my pregnant girlfriend hard up.
Sorry, but I don't see this one as entitled necessarily. As a customer, I would much rather not deal with someone who hates their job. We're right now in the middle of a worker revolution, where people are finding out how exploited they've been, and how horrible it is to be trapped in bad work. This person already figured it out, why take her down even further than she already is?
I understand what you are saying but when you have child on the way and you are living in an unregistered car, you have to take any job you can just to get started. I know I would if I was in their position.
Load More Replies...Don’t let them in your house and do NOT offer to help them again! You put your name and reputation on the line for these ungrateful cretins to say NO to you because they think they’re better than that.. how ridiculous considering they are in DESPERATE need of jobs and money to you know, find accommodation and save money to prepare for this child! How absolutely ridiculous!! And please tell me this person didn’t let them in and be fooled by they’re ‘oh, woe is me’ stories and didn’t let them try to sneakily move into their place!!! The saying that you give them an inch and they take a mile is ABSOLUTELY True!!!
No You Can't Come Grieve Your Sister...
Yes. You are the a*$*holes. My first stepmother had the same name as me. Yeah it was weird seeing 'my' name on the order of service and later on, the gravestone, but nobody made a big deal out of it, certainly not me. To actually deny a family member the chance to say goodbye just because they look like the deceased is extremely selfish. I get that they're grieving, but the only acceptable reason for asking a family member to stay away is if the deceased personally requested it or family history suggests that it would be a bad idea to have certain relatives in close proximity.
Great post Sian. I can not imagine the devastation that woman must feel at her identical twin sisters death...then having to deal with THIS nonsense from her kids? I feel SO bad for her, they should be ashamed and she is due an apology from every one of them.
Load More Replies...I had this and it made me gasp & cry every time I saw the twin that day but damnit, it was their sibling that died! Selfish poster.
My grandmother's twin lives in my town, my great aunt! I couldn't tell them apart as a kid, and I get a shock when I see her now because Gran is dead, but I don't resent her for it: she's my link to my Gran
Load More Replies...Wha.... Honestly, 1 more meteor could do some good on this effing planet, so manu entitled people and self centered...
Completely selfish. This is not your wedding. This is when everyone who wants to pays their respects and makes their farewells to someone they loved. Your mother's sister shared more years, life and DNA with her than you did. Be kind.
Who are you talking to? It's a screen shot of a year old repost of a post on Reddit.
Load More Replies...The Reason I Associate As Little As Possible With My Half Brother
I'm reminded of that Orbits Gum commercial, where they "cleaned up" the argument with terms like "what the French toast" and "cootie queen lint licker". I'm officially going to start calling people Carrot Fruit Loops now, and make that a thing that happens
Load More Replies...she complained at you then wanted you to reply but carrot fruit loop little bitch asshole wth kinda insult is that people are getting rusty
I don't have any contact with my half sister. Makes life more serene.
Some Kids Are The Worst Kind Of Choosing Beggars.
You don't deserve your mom. Spoiled brat. Hope you will get socks as present for the rest of your miserable life.
Adjusting the cord on my over the ear headphones coz they cut out again like 🙄, but now I feel a bit better about it ^-^ waste not
I'd have slapped the hell out of them. Give them the good ol Joffrey Baratheon treatment
This Is Just Sad
Yeah, except keeping busy for some people is the only coping mechanism that works, so... Uncle is still a douchewaffle mind you
Load More Replies...What's with everyone using lmao so inappropriately? I see it all the time. "My dad's wife just died lmao".
thats what I was thinking, why the person complaining about the uncle, dont cook the eggs for the father ?
Load More Replies...No problem. I'll just order some breakfast to be delivered. BTW, you're paying for it.
I Had This Lovely Conversation After Getting Multiple Calls From Her. Ladies And Gentlemen, This Is My Older Sister, A Mua, That Has Complained About People Doing The Same Thing To Her That She’s Doing To Me...
I'm impressed you discovered that buttfuck is not censored by Bored Panda.
Load More Replies...When Your Younger Sister Who Lives Rent And Bill Free, With A Job, Wants You To Pay To See Her
I think your profile pic is really appropriate right now
Load More Replies...People who live for free in their parents house, are often surprisingly bad at budgeting because of it and still manage to spend beyond their means.
nah mate that sounds very good but for some reason when i say nah love it pisses people off
Sister Asks Me If I Can Watch Her Kid, Then Asks If I Can Come Get Her And Comes Up With Lame Excuse As To Why She Can't Drop Her Off.
My Girlfriend And I Started Making Furniture To Pay For College, And My Sister Sent Me This Gem
When you have a friend or relative with a small business, you should be THE FIRST PERSON in line ready to pay full cost and support their business.
Idiots, their mind does not register the fact that in that week’s time they’ll be losing a potential sell
If a $150 table takes a week to make, they're not making money, they're wasting time.
Welp he discovered she is NOT a person now he knows where to go from here...
Make is $50-80 then work is included. Otherwise it were material only.
Well she’s not asking for one for free since she offered to pay for the cost of materials, which is extremely common for friends and family. I think they’re both being stupid - expecting some expensive handcrafted item when your sibling already said no, and refusing to even consider the idea of making a gift at cost for a sibling. And I say this as someone who made an Afghan which cost around $300 in materials for my sister because she asked.
Would you have done so if it prevented you from actually making the money you needed to live, though? And if you sister was rude and smarmy asking for it?
Load More Replies...Bratty Cousin Stole My Netflix Password And When I Changed It He Wants Me To It To Him
Thanks for the upvotes. Most I've ever gotten
Load More Replies...Cousin Who Has Owed Me $7k For Over 2 Years Suggests I Work As His Real Estate Agent To Get Paid Back
I'm guessing they don't have a written contract. The cousin can say it was an investment, not a loan
Load More Replies...Some families just assume because they are family, they do not have to pay back
SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM! SUE HIM!
Yeah don't loan money you can't afford to lose. My ex gave a co-worker a few K because "his car was broke". This guy is known for being a sponger and a drug user. F****r spent it on a cocaine binge.
Tax Season And Cb Sister
I’m glad my son isn’t like this, he wanted his direct deposit sent to mine’s, so if I need anything for the house/ bills, it’s fine, also gotta explain to them the value of money, saving, building credit, ect ect..
Sister needs to be required to sit down and pay bills with the parents each week so she has some grasp of how money works. My 11yo has a better concept of budgeting.
What a clueless child! They will get such a surprise when they have to pay their own way. Things like electricity, gas/commuting, home-insurance, dental-care, etc. all cost money.
This is why parents need to show their children finances early on. Like 12 years old, when they can grasp math well enough. That way when they're an adult they don't think "company profit" just goes into the owners pockets. There's bills to pay on the building, employees to pay, taxes to pay, equipment to fix, things in the building to fix, computers to purchase or replace or upgrade, supplies to purchase, most people that don't work in any kind of accounting position or have no clue what owning a house can be like are annoyingly ignorant to this crap and it makes my blood boil. Honestly, it's COMMON SENSE, but since no one has common sense anymore, teenagers and adults think everyone just has cash to burn. WAKE UP! GET A FREAKING CLUE!!
Do you understand what is considered "Profit"? I'll suggest you go look up definition of profit before you lecture others.
Load More Replies...Family Discounts
I could think of a few reasons to not invite family to a wedding. Covid being the most obvious but I have a lot of family that have gotten married in small, private ceremonies. I sent them gifts as a congratulations and not as a payback for a dinner and cheesy music. If everyone else is invited, then it is different.
My Ex That I Haven’t Talked To In 6 Months Had To Audacity To Ask To Renew My Netflix Account So She Can Use It
Just to let you know that I've renewed Netflix. I also changed the password and blocked you on my phone.
No no the best plan is to check their viewings and cut the source right before the series finale!! Satisfaction is bigger!
Load More Replies...myself and both of my daughters all pay for different streaming services, we just share all of the info with one another, no drama, no bull💩 everyone 😁
"Thanks for reminding me, and thanks for also reminding me to change the password. Good bye!"
Ungrateful Man Shames His Wife On A Public Forum Because The Dinner She Cooked Him Wasn't To His Liking.
Well he can obviously get up and cook his own damn dinner and shut the hell up.
Honestly this meal looks fine, I don’t understand his issue!
Load More Replies...Two different types of pasta.. together.. in a bowl?! What an absolute monster. Must alert the church elders immediately
Looks perfectly yummy to me. A meal cooked for me by somebody I love- what's to complain about?
Where is the problem? One time my husband made me Mac and cheese and somehow forgot to drain it (I know! I know! I think he was stoned and we also don't really eat boxed Mac n cheese but we hadn't been to the shops yet) and I ate that s**t with a smile on my face because I was grateful for the meal! It wasn't the tastiest. But I didn't wanna make him feel bad. I waited until the next day and said "hey, just FYI , you gotta drain the noodles next time!" And he burst out laughing and said "omg I was wondering why it tasted so funky!" Sure, I could have been like "wow! You make me water Mac n cheese when you could have went and bought me a filet mignon and lobster? Like... how dare you make me what's easy, cheap and available! Bastard!!!" If that were my husband I'd out some wolfsbane in his pasta!
What a piece of sh!t. Really hope dessert was divorce papers for the man
My Sister Wants Me And My Brother To Help Pay For Her And Her Kids To Swim At My Late Father's Pool
If they don't use the pool then why is she asking for it to be opened for her and her family? Idiot.
It's a group text, there are 3 people in this conversation. Everything in blue is from op. Everything in white (left side) marked with black is from the assh*le sister, marked with yellow is from the brother. It's the brother who says he doesn't use the pool either (took me a minute too)
Load More Replies...As a pool owner... There should be weekly maintenance on the pool anyway or it'll be damaged.... So why not let her use it until it's sold so they can swim there? It doesn't have to be heated. Leave the heater off. Maybe her and the kids can skim out the pool when they use it and contribute to it's upkeep.
That's the problem. Only the sister and her kids use the pool but doesn't want to pay the upkeep on her own. So, she is asking the other two to pay for it as well, even though they never use it.
Load More Replies...She could have just asked if she could pay the price for the pool heating etc. and the problem would be solved. Seems to be cheaper than going to the official pools according to the numbers she said, and it would solve the money issue for the pool owners here.
My Sweet Little Brother Who Begs Me For Money Every Day. He Is 30 And Married And Doesn’t Talk To Me About Anything But Borrowing Money Or Getting Handouts Or Asking If He Can Come For Dinner. The Vm After Was “What Kind Of Sister Let’s Their Brother Go Hungry?” Um, This One
Sounds like this person is an artist. The way they're talking about Comic-Con is that they paid for a booth to hawk their stuff. They're legit fixing their situation, not mooching.
Yeah. Looks like Comic-Con is his job, not just to play.
Load More Replies...To be fair, BK hasn't had anything for 99 cents for awhile. But also, don't use your food money on conventions, then you don't have to worry about it's
You Don't Need Enemies If You Have Such A Family
The person in the grey chat is asking for money to go to dinner without blue on blue's birthday because blue isn't having a party.
Load More Replies...What grown ass adults still ask for money and presents on their birthday??!!
Worse. She doesn't expect anything. It's the sister asking for money from the birthday person.
Load More Replies...IM SORRY FOR THIS YOUNG LADY HERE HAVING TO LISTEN TO THIS BITCH OF A SISTER, BIRTHDAY'S ARE TO CELEBRATE THE BIRTH OF THE PERSON WHO WAS BORN ON THAT DAY, TO CELEBRATE THEM, FULL STOP. NOT TO GIVE OUT FREE FOOD AND MONEY FOR THE GUESTS BENEFITS, IF THIS WAS MY SISTER I WOULD MAKE SURE THAT SHE WOULD APOLOGISE BEFORE SHE GETS INVITED TO ANY OTHER EVENT I HOST.
Surely it was her choice to pay for the meals for her birthday? Anytime I've had a dinner for my birthday everyone pays for their own meal.
At Their Own Mother...
My mother has Dementia. If I had the opportunity for her to drop me off food, slop, anything, I'd damn well take it. And I'd be so f-ing happy about it. Shame on you.
ooh we make food for my demented m-i-l. All the old timey foods, in a big batch and then in little boxes in her freezer. She loves it! Even though she only eats a few bites. Love to you and your mother and that you may share many moments where she feels calm and save.
Load More Replies...I am in a position where I find it hard to cook right now, even easy stuff I can microwave some days, and if someone turned up with this for me I would be SO GRATEFUL.
My sincerest sympathies to you and your struggles!! 💖 I don't know you but you are loved and seen.
Load More Replies...I’m sure if mom stopped dropping off the food it’ll be an issue too, ungrateful, it’s also more the thought and going out of her way to drop it off
All they need is a better attitude about the food that was given to them!
Load More Replies...Give My Son A Marker, But Not A Girl Color.
I believe that the problem lies with you. Your son is in for a rough time as he grows up if you insist on indoctrinating him in this manner
Once again we say "You get what you get and you don't get upset" The parent needs to go back to Kindergarten
That man is going to implode if son turns out to be gay. Of course, it will be the teacher's fault.
That man is going to melt like butter in a microwave if the son turns out to be lesbian.
Load More Replies...Imagine being a child who has been taught to think your gender identity is vulnerable to changes caused by all kinds of outside influences... like purple markers
Mother Demands You Only Buy Specific Gifts For Birthday And Holiday. For Context, The Child Is Like 4 Years Old
"In light of the unnecessarily difficult process you choose to impose on my voluntary gift giving, I am blocking you forever. Please reallocate my gift slots to your remaining friends and family."
My mother in law always asks for specific suggestions as she says “you know them best” but I get SUPER AWKWARD sending her “buy this” stuff. I make an Amazon wish list and people can see what’s purchased off of it IF THEY NEED AN IDEA. wanna get my kids something else? WONDERFUL. THEY WILL BE GRATEFUL OR THEY WILL BE GIFTLESS.
Hope gift certificates to therapy are on the list, kids gonna need it.
A normal wish list I understand IF THE CHILD IS 9YO +, but this is the most rude and discusting list I ever read in my entire life.... Wtf is wrong with this woman?! Is she a huge celeb or something?, since she act like a spoiled rude celeb. No. Nevermind, celebrity's actually show more respect to people than this woman and most of them don't have high demands list's for Bday/Xmas...
My Unemployed Brother Asking Me To Order Him A Pizza
As we say in Preschool- You get what you get and you don't get upset :)
Load More Replies...Over the head, first off I would never call my siblings to buy me food, 2nd if she told me she didn’t have enough $, I would’ve said never mind ( oodles of noodles ain’t so bad)
Wtf is wrong with people on this list??? I get more and more angry reading all this shiet... I guess i'm getting more mad because we have a very tight budget with kids.. Instead of demanding his sister for take away, buy some cheap food to make home yourself, and get a JOB! Unless it's a chronic ill person like myself, - there is no excuse not to get a job and pay for your own things!
Entitled Kid Jealous Of His Mom Getting A Car
Bought a used car to haul your broke ass around in. And you misspelled “thanks”.
For real. An $11,000 car (at least in my area) is probably 10 years old but still in good working condition. Definitely not an indulgent purchase!
Load More Replies...What the hell is a friggin flagship and IT cost $1,600 take your ass and flip burgers or wash cars GTFOH!
Maybe she's making monthly payments on the car and didn't shell out the 11 grand all at once. Even then the kid is a brat.
"Can't buy a flagship"? Well, sorry, Mr. Rockefeller, but not all of us run cruise lines!
GOOGLE says: A flagship smartphone is the major product of a company, which is typically why the company was founded.
Ex Wife’s Uncle Called Me Asking To Get Him A Hotel Room, I Declined Because I’m A Broke Millennial But I Was Worried So I Followed Up...
Agreed, gonna make coffee now, it’s 8:30 am eastern time
Load More Replies..."ONE human being saved me" Save yourself, you ungrateful tw*t! Nothing wrong with falling on hard times and needing help, but you don't turn around and call people selfish, weak, and soft when you're the one begging for help.
Somehow it’s acceptable for OP to be too broke to help himself but for others to be broke=weak/soft.
"You should be willing to pay hundreds in overdraft fees to help me, or you're a selfish asshole." WTF is wrong with these people?!
Aunt Asked For Advice On Whether To Buy Or Lease A Car. Someone Was Kind Enough To Post A Link To A Helpful Article. This Was Her Response
She might not feel confident in her ability to understand what the article says. Some people haven't learned independence.
I agree. I dont think this is entitlement. Buying and leasing are hard to understand lots of small print and huge scams if your not careful.
Load More Replies...Honestly, this could be my mom, who is insecure and not that tech-savvy, and sometimes has difficulties understanding matters. It could be the same with this aunt.
“First, tell me what you understand. Then I’ll take a look at it and see if I can add anything to the discussion”
I've read the (long) article and it explains the ins and outs of buying vs. leasing in plain and simple language. But, understandably, it doesn't tell you what is best option in your specific situation. The aunt was just too lazy to read the article and make an informed decision. For those who are interested: https://cars.usnews.com/cars-trucks/buying-vs-leasing
Cb Got An iPhone 11 Pro Max Instead Of An iPhone 12
If my kids was spoiled and rude ad this kid, I would take the phone back to the store and bought this brat a Nokia 3310!
My Aunt Saw No Harm In Taking My Pops Down From My Shelf And Letting My 4 Year Old Cousin Play With Them While I Was At School
Remembers me of my cousin who let her child play with my figurines when I let them stay in my place for a few days over Halloween. She handed her kids a Final Fantasy figurine from a too shelf and they broke it. That figurine costed like 400$. She was so furious when I asked her to pay for the damage that her (separated) husband had to step in and pay it so she would stop yelling at me.
I'm actually not surprised they got separated soon after Halloween was over.
Load More Replies...Reminds me of a story my hubby told me of when he was younger his mom gave his crack head uncle his basketball cards( one was Michael Jordan’s rookie card) because she didn’t have money for him
I feel ya. My cousin's gf was mad at me that I won't let her kids play with my stuff when they visit me. Kids once torn up my book and she was mad that I scolded them, because "they're just kids" yeah and I think 6 years old should know they can't take my stuff without asking.
Doesn't matter if they're toys. Don't touch people's stuff without permission. It's up on a shelf for a reason.
Load More Replies...Well Isn't She A Keeper...
I haven't exchanged rings with my partner to begin with and we're happy about it. Why does it always have to be an overpriced piece of shiny metal with a stone from an African child slavery mine embedded into? Love should be enough, and if you need a ring as a symbol to show it, anything with meaning should be good enough.
Because DeBeers and company said so, that’s why. Read about them if you haven’t already.
Load More Replies...At least the guy has a change to dodge an unguided missile here. Let's hope he does.
Seriously some people dont deserve love. Pricey equals nicey??? Stupid attitude.
Whoever knows her please don't judge her she's not in the mood, instead share this post with her man. That's it. All you need to do is forward this to her man, he'll thank you for it.
My Friend's 13-Year-Old Brother Sent His Wishlist To His Entire Extended Family, And Yeah, They Mocked Him Pretty Good Afterward
At 13, tell him to learn how to spell properly then maybe you'll think about it. Clearly he sucks at school.
Not being good at spelling doesn't mean he's terrible at school. It's interesting how everyone on this post is criticizing a 13-year-old's spelling without context instead of the actual behavior.
Load More Replies...Family Member Wants Money. Doesn’t Like It When I Call Her Out
That's usually what family members do. I have family members like this, though. Narcissism is disgusting.
sooo... you are mature enough to stop begging and take care of yourself
You sound like it the way you are carrying on like an overgrown brat
Insane Daughter Wants To Commit Murder To "Save" Her Siblings From Vaccines
That's a recorded assault threat. Should be handled appropriately by sending her to a juvenile detention center.
Too bad, that the mom vaccinated her back in time, so she survived till now... What a waste of vaccines!
Oh yeah, I wish we could see what the comments said
Load More Replies...Contemplating murder? Wow. I’d be asking the police to pay her a visit to let her know just how serious an issue this is.
My Entitled Dad
no other way around the first should be second and second be first
Load More Replies...Brother Who Refuses To Work Tries To Emotionally Blackmail Me Over Netflix Subscription
My Cousin Who Has No Concept Of Fuel Costs....
My Own Brother...
Um... insulting someone is not a good strategy for getting them to do something for you. What a toolbox.
My Sister Asking For My Netflix When She Is 33 And Lives With My Mom And Dad .
Moral of story here and this thread, if someone ( family member) asks if you have Netflix, say no I’m too busy working to watch
Cousin Demands I Get Him My Medical Marijuana Even Though I’ve Reached My Max
Looks like the cousin would also demand the last Insulin-shot if he thought he could get high on Insulin.
🙄 this is why you NEVER share your scripts, that and it's ILLEGAL. Cousin needs to move someplace with recreational laws or something.
Tbf, a lot of people have scripts for medical marijuana that aren't really needed to get around bans on recreational use.
Load More Replies...Cb Wants Her Sister's Job She Left Over 6 Months Ago
As if employees have the power to tell their boss that they've decided that they will be replaced by their sister....
My Aunt Asks Me To Pick Up My Cousin At Least 3 Times A Week From Work Which Is A Half Hour From My House, To Drive Back The Other Direction An Hour. Easily A Quarter Of A Gas Tank Every Time. This Was Her Reaction When I Said No Tonight
It's time to let the aunt know she should be looking for other ways to solve cousin's transportation problems.
What is it with these people that can’t understand NO. Must have failed fingerpainting in kindergarten
My Brother Likes To Make Large Sum Bets And Thinks I'll Just Pull Out Of My Savings To Help Pay His Dues
My Stepmom Won Some Money From The Lottery Last Night, This Is What My Dad Had To Say
Seriously?! Complaining About A Free Vehicle When You Don’t Have One? Don’t Know If This Is Truly A Cb But It’s Ridiculous.
I would love it. With my two 6 foot tall boys crammed into my nessain. They would love it too.
Load More Replies...Perhaps the father in law wasn't aware that the son in law was a billionaire with cash flow problems.
My 30 Y/O Sister Getting Mad That I Haven't Done Her Whole University Project When She Asked For Help.
Sister Upset At How I Give Her Free Hbo
It's quite amazing how much time people invest in ridiculous text messages with stupid and entitled people. This conversation could have been done in 5 messages. The last one being: "Set up and pay your own HBO account. Bye."
Mad At Her Uncle For Taking Her Grandma's Car... Because When He Does She Can't Be Driven Around
She's mad he's better at the mooching game than she is.
Load More Replies...Poor grandma. Though she did raise this man child and this entitled childs parent.... 🙄 "ruining the chances of me ever moving back and saving money".
My Sister, Who Likes To Use My Complex’s Free Gym, Angry Because I Don’t Have The Fob Today
“You’re certainly make it sound like it’s your problem, and it’s definitely not mine. Only those paying rent have access to the gym. You’re welcome to pay for an apartment here if you need access to the gym”
As far as I know (I hope I'm right lol) a key fob is like an electronic key, so just a doodad thing you hold near the 'lock' to unlock it. Like the modern cars: instead of a key into the ignition, they have an electronic 'fob' that just needs to be near/in the car
Load More Replies...Ultimate 41-Year Old Cb Who Sued His Parents For A Lifelong Financial Support Loses Battle
The same lawyer also sued Oxford University for £1 million over claims of inadequate teachings, which cost him a lucrative career. He lost this case, as well.
Can someone please tell me what Cb means? All I can think of is cry baby
Although cry baby seems to fit here, for this list of posts CB means choosing beggars.
Load More Replies...Isn't that similar to the girl who left her parents who grounded her for hanging out with a criminal and next tried to sue them because "they were legally obliged to financially support her"?
Her Money Now I Guess
What a horrible cousin. Laughing at the fact that they're technically stealing money from their cousin and telling them "f you." Hope karma catches up with them.
Load More Replies...In my country it would legally be an undue payment and the receiver would have to pay it back immediately or be forced to pay it back which would also mean that all the costs involved would be added to the amount. The $130 would become $180 to pay back.
Ask for her phone saying you need to make a call and yours isn't working, then send money to yourself from there
Cb Uncle Who Has No Job Asks For Help The One Time He Talked To Me This Year. Ungrateful When I Couldn’t Send Money A Few Hours Earlier
Thought You All Could Appreciate This. For Context, This Is My Husband’s Cousin Who Lives 40 Minutes Away. I Drove Over Halfway To Meet Her For Nothing. Not Pictured Is When She Repeatedly Asked Me If I Had Taken The Watch To Her Moms Yet.
This person sounds more scatterbrained and unconcerned about how that inconveniences others than entitled tbh. Get it together!
Load More Replies...I hate people who don't have any respect for other people's time... Don't make appointment if you'r not gonna show up and don't add other stuff AFTER you made an appointment! That's so rude.. Keep your appointment's and respect that people have better things to do than driving/waiting for you..
Reality Star Ifu Ennada Rants Over Relatives With Entitlement Mentality...
English doesn't seem to be her 1st language. She's doing a good job.
Load More Replies...What language is this "reality star" using? Note: I'm not native English speaker. "Na da wey dey lift" does not mean anything to me either literally or phonetically.
This is the FIRST TIME I've EVER seen creole on BP, crazy that it never occurred to me until just now how rare it is online unless you are part of that specific community. btw, just read it phonetically, it'll make sense if you say it out loud. It's actually easier to read than to hear to understand imo, since there's no accent involved when reading.
Is it just me or that other language sounds like Trikru language from show the 100. I wonder if show creators based Trikru language on this real language.
I need to stop reading these kind of posts. If I wanted to get angry I would still use Facebook.
Long story short. Our infant dies. My husband is openly expressing his want for his father to help dig the grave (family plot on a mountain here in tn usa) his dad goes about telling him how he has to fix his heater core in his truck. My dad is in Florida and can't make it till the day of the burriel or he would of been there. My husband is devastated. My mil shows up to help him dig the grave. While I'm attending to organizing all the damn flowers and songs and family cause it's my baby I just birthed that died. My dad comes up on the day of the burial and esentually it's me and my husband and my dad covering up the grave. His dad won't even look at him. Two days later my husband quits working with him cause my husband has been clean and sober for 6 years and he is screaming at him on the work site infront of the home owner how he shouldn't go back to being a needle junkie. I lost my s**t. We don't talk to them anymore.
My partner's father was absent for the majority of his life. I didn't even meet him for the first 8 years of us dating. A couple of years ago he was made redundant from his job and received hundreds of thousands of $$$ as a payout. He wasted it all in a matter of months gambling. This year my partner's sister had a baby and the father wanted to come to visit for Christmas to see the baby (the father moved to another state after he left my partner's mother 31 years ago). My partner being a nice person offered for him to stay with us since he now has no money to pay for a hotel. The entire time he was here he did not clean up after himself, would leave dirty dishes on the counter and did not contribute towards any food in the house. He ate everything in our fridge and pantry including several boxes of chocolate my partner received as Christmas presents from his students. And then proceeded to try con my partner into buying him weed. I hope he never comes back.
This triggered me so much after this last week. My parents took us on vacation and my brother’s family didn’t intend on spending any money. I had already paid for excursions for my family. My parents wanted my nieces to do an excursion so they paid for one for my brothers family after having said that was on us to pay for any extras beyond the flight and resort. My bf and I got sick and couldn’t go on an excursion with my son. I asked them to take him and they said yes, but backed out bc my brother was supposed to go on an excursion with my dad (my dad paid for). Then they canceled it and instead of taking my son, they rented a cabana and babysat my nieces all day. Then they didn’t even care to say goodbye to us before we left for the airport. I see how me and my family rate compared to my brother and his.
I made it about halfway through this and go so pissed it stopped. Maybe BP can have a separate site for negative asshole posts. No one needs to read this s**t.
Funny how you clicked on a link to a thread about a special place in hell for entitled relatives but yet you're upset that there's posts about assholes and then proceed to say how you didn't read most of it. This is a free site and no one is forcing you to click on these links....
Load More Replies...What is with all the Netflix drama? It cost about $10 a month. Get it yourself.
I need to stop reading these kind of posts. If I wanted to get angry I would still use Facebook.
Long story short. Our infant dies. My husband is openly expressing his want for his father to help dig the grave (family plot on a mountain here in tn usa) his dad goes about telling him how he has to fix his heater core in his truck. My dad is in Florida and can't make it till the day of the burriel or he would of been there. My husband is devastated. My mil shows up to help him dig the grave. While I'm attending to organizing all the damn flowers and songs and family cause it's my baby I just birthed that died. My dad comes up on the day of the burial and esentually it's me and my husband and my dad covering up the grave. His dad won't even look at him. Two days later my husband quits working with him cause my husband has been clean and sober for 6 years and he is screaming at him on the work site infront of the home owner how he shouldn't go back to being a needle junkie. I lost my s**t. We don't talk to them anymore.
My partner's father was absent for the majority of his life. I didn't even meet him for the first 8 years of us dating. A couple of years ago he was made redundant from his job and received hundreds of thousands of $$$ as a payout. He wasted it all in a matter of months gambling. This year my partner's sister had a baby and the father wanted to come to visit for Christmas to see the baby (the father moved to another state after he left my partner's mother 31 years ago). My partner being a nice person offered for him to stay with us since he now has no money to pay for a hotel. The entire time he was here he did not clean up after himself, would leave dirty dishes on the counter and did not contribute towards any food in the house. He ate everything in our fridge and pantry including several boxes of chocolate my partner received as Christmas presents from his students. And then proceeded to try con my partner into buying him weed. I hope he never comes back.
This triggered me so much after this last week. My parents took us on vacation and my brother’s family didn’t intend on spending any money. I had already paid for excursions for my family. My parents wanted my nieces to do an excursion so they paid for one for my brothers family after having said that was on us to pay for any extras beyond the flight and resort. My bf and I got sick and couldn’t go on an excursion with my son. I asked them to take him and they said yes, but backed out bc my brother was supposed to go on an excursion with my dad (my dad paid for). Then they canceled it and instead of taking my son, they rented a cabana and babysat my nieces all day. Then they didn’t even care to say goodbye to us before we left for the airport. I see how me and my family rate compared to my brother and his.
I made it about halfway through this and go so pissed it stopped. Maybe BP can have a separate site for negative asshole posts. No one needs to read this s**t.
Funny how you clicked on a link to a thread about a special place in hell for entitled relatives but yet you're upset that there's posts about assholes and then proceed to say how you didn't read most of it. This is a free site and no one is forcing you to click on these links....
Load More Replies...What is with all the Netflix drama? It cost about $10 a month. Get it yourself.
