Nailing the marriage game is hard, no doubt about it. About 9% of 30-year-olds have already ended one marriage, reports Business Insider. The national divorce rate in 2018 was 2.9 per 1,000 of the US population, which may not look so bad until you see that the marriage rate was 6.5 per 1,000. To put it simply, there’s a not-so-tiny chance it won’t work out for a large part of newlyweds.

And people on Reddit decided to find out what it is that pushes people over the brink in marriage. Two threads initiated by redditors u/dankph and u/KlyonneSpencer popped up asking divorce lawyers about the most ridiculous and outrageous reasons that their clients filed for divorce. And oh boy, you can't tell us you saw this coming. From literally crappy reasons to simply being too good-looking, these excuses will make you wonder what the heck these love birds were thinking.

#1

I had two couples come to me.

They had been friends for nigh on 15 years.

Husband A decided he liked Wife B more than Wife A. Wife A decided she likes Husband B more than Husband A.

The reverse was also true, and Husband B preferred Wife A, Wife B preferred Husband A.

The couples had near identical assets in terms of value. They came to me all together, and I drafted two sets of paperwork. Two default judgment hearings were set on the same day. The judge signed all the papers the same day.

A week after that, they all went to a JP and remarried. The husbands swapped houses and they all went about their lives exactly as they had the week before, but each slightly happier.

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Ani Archeron
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1 month ago

you could tell me this was the plot to a bad holiday rom-com and i'd believe you

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#2

My cousin divorced his wife because, after his wife's father murdered two people in a robbery-gone-wrong, she defended him and harassed the victim's family over Facebook

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Ilir Ajdini
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1 month ago

That is a good reason to divorce, in my opinion

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#3

My client was the outrageous one, so my heart went out to his poor wife. He had OCD which manifested primarily financially, so he made their lives a penny-pinching hell. Examples: he was obsessed with avoiding unnecessary driving (wear and tear on the car, gas expenses), so he cut the whole family’s hair at home and never let them eat at a restaurant or go to the movies. Weirdest of all: he kept one toilet paper roll on him at all times and you had to get one square from him before you could go to the bathroom. He never gave more than one square. Wife finally got fed up and left him when 1) he gave her bangs during an in-home haircut and 2) their daughter was so traumatized by the toilet paper thing they couldn’t potty train her.

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1 month ago

He needs help.

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Bored Panda contacted Evan D. Schein, a partner and head litigator at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP law firm based in Manhattan, New York to find out more about why people do get divorced. Evan has litigated matrimonial matters in the Supreme and Family Courts of Manhattan, Kings, Queens, Nassau, and more.

Evan told us that throughout his career as a family law attorney, he has seen many different reasons people decide to end their marriage. “I have an inside look into all the reasons people get divorced—affairs, financial infidelity, lack of communication, growing apart, lack of connection; to name a few.” 

However, one particular reason still haunts him. “Out of all the reasons I have heard, a grudge years later over the wedding table seating chart still stands out for me,” he said.

#4

I do my student practice at my family's law firm. Young woman filed for a divorce because her husband drank ONE beer during weekdays after a day of work. The guy wasn't violent, doing drugs, or anything like that. He was just a normal, polite guy who liked to have a cold one after 10 hr shift. They are very good couple and argue so rarely that this woman's friends told her to write down everything he did to upset her and re-read it every day, so she had reasons to be angry about.

My mom (lawyer) set the woman straight, told her he' just doing what all guys do and to find herself new friends instead of ones ready to sabotage their marriage.

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Rex the Rat
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1 month ago

It's a good thing your mom wasn't in it just for the money and was able to help people

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#5

Divorced guy here. I divorced my ex-wife because she decided to be a ‘Super Christian’ that spent hours each day lying on the floor speaking in tongues. Also she would have random conversations with former deceased relatives while doing mundane daily activities. The final straw was when I came home from work and my 2 yr old daughter was in the fireplace eating ashes two feet away from her while she laid on the ground chanting and speaking in her made up language.

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Dorothy Parker
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1 month ago

I hope Dad got full custody. And a jar of Holy Water.

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#6

He got drunk at the wedding, she did not like it, and decided to divorce him right after the Honeymoon (which she went to without him).

Moreover, this was all an elaborate scheme of divorce-robbery, because the guy was loaded, and so was his entire family....

They were loaded because they were a family of EXCELLENT lawyers, and he was a third generation lawyer, with all the smarts and experience of his predecessors combined.

Lets just say it did not go well for her.

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Mainecoonsandhuskies
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1 month ago

Damn this could be made into a movie

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These days, as we’re living in a time of crisis and isolation, everyone is experiencing tremendous stress. “There is so much unknown and uncertainty” that Evan is convinced that “this reality and these feelings will have a profound effect on marriages and relationships.”

The head litigator said, “I fully expect there will be a large increase in divorce filings.” And for those individuals who were already contemplating the idea of divorce and on the fence, “the current situation and this new way of life may very well push them in the divorce direction,” Evan explained.

#7

I knew a couple who got divorced after the wife walked in on her husband who was rubbing poop from their baby's diaper all over his body...

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('-')/ neeta ('-')/
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1 month ago

What the actual hell

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#8

Paralegal. A couple got divorced over a cat. Wife called cat Snowball because of white fur and only wanted the cat to eat wet food or chicken breast. Husband called cat Lily again because of white fur and believed it should only eat dry food. These two argued for a year over custody of the cat but did not give a s**t about their human kids aged 15 months, 4 years, and 6 years old.

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Luisa Vasconcelos
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1 month ago

Wow, that's sad.

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#9

One of my coworkers has been married seven times. One time she divorced a guy because he was 'too good-looking' and she couldn't trust him. Another time she divorced a man because he came home with the wrong brand of hotdogs that she told him to buy. I wish I was making this up

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Foxxy (The Original)
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1 month ago

Talk about high maintenance.

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#10

I knew someone who broke off an engagement because her fiancé kept pulling pranks on her, like buying fake lottery tickets and stuff. In her eyes, he was humiliating her in front of friends and family. It was almost like he was running social experiments on her to see how she'd react

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Luisa Vasconcelos
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1 month ago

Nowadays pranks are becoming very mean. Like cut the hair of the wife and this kind of things.

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#11

"I didn't like her anymore" - 2 days after being married.

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Ilir Ajdini
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1 month ago

That escalated quickly

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#12

My douche cousin told his wife she had three chances to give him a son. Daughter was born first. Strike one. Son was born second. Then they find out the boy cant eat gluten. So my cousin divorced her and has made zero effort to see his kids.

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nanashi
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1 month ago

did he know that the gender of the fetus depends on which sex chromosome the sperm was carrying???

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#13

Friend of mine divorced his then wife because she would only speak French when her family would come over. She was Spanish, as was her family... To add, her family spoke English, French and Spanish, he could only speak Spanish and English, she got bored of being married to him, her family basically talked s**t about him whilst he was there, was only when he recorded a conversation whilst they where there and got it translated he found out what was going on.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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1 month ago

I would have been suspicious from the beginning when she started talking french, obviously hiding things or talking shit (as you found out).

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#14

My client divorced her husband because he insisted on bringing his mother on their honeymoon. The reason? Because his mother was STILL breastfeeding him. Yes, the husband, a grown man, was still breastfeeding

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Monika Soffronow
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1 month ago

I very much doubt that this is true.

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#15

Colleague handled a case where money was not an issue but the kids were. Neither parent wanted them

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('-')/ neeta ('-')/
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1 month ago

What the hell. That's so frikking messed up. Hope the kids are in the hands of REAL parents now.

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#16

I worked as a paralegal for a divorce lawyer. Case analysis was one of my main responsibilities.

I s**t you not.

A recently married couple (of 2 years) broke it off because the husband would not stop feeding the dog. The dog got outrageously fat.

Apparently she saw connection between the dog and future children.

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Noez 🇸🇪
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1 month ago

Poor dog!

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#17

One of our consults came in because his wife had been proposed to by one of those online scam people posing as the Prince of Turkey or something. She fell for it and was going to give him $45,000 and move to Turkey to marry him

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Monika Soffronow
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1 month ago

He was lucky to find out before she had sent the scammer everything!

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#18

Not a divorce lawyer, but got out of my first marriage becuase shortly after we got married he decided he didn't like the way I talked, and asked me not to talk when we were out in company unless I "could talk straight."

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Rosemari Ferreira Gebbran
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1 month ago

Happy that you walked away!

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#19

I knew someone who got divorced the same day they got married. The groom was dancing with his sister at the reception, and the bride asked to cut in. His sister tried to punch her in the face but missed and punched the bride’s sister. All hell broke loose. The night ended with the bride asking the groom to choose between her or his sisters. He chose his sisters

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Pamela24
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1 month ago

So many sisters I'm getting dizzy.

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#20

Paralegal here.

Still remember an early case i worked on, man divorced his wife for her Bingo Addiction. 10 to 12 times per week she went to bingo. She was 82 he was 86.



But the all time greatest. two 20 somethings, they were irreconcilable because he kept smoking her weed stash when she wasnt home.

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RJ
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1 month ago

awww

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#21

Easy.

She spent $42,000 on psychic hotlines. Notable, she then wouldn’t accept any of our offers, and I continuously asked her lawyer to provide counter-offers...shouldn’t her psychic have told her how the case would turn out?!? Lol.

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Monika Soffronow
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1 month ago

Totally believable. Since when are people who go to psychics equipped with any common sense?

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#22

My dad was a divorce lawyer. He had a client who wanted to divorce her husband for 2 reasons:

1. He did not have enough hair on his chest.

2. He did not drive fast enough.

Keep in mind this was in the 70's when chest hair was a bit more important.

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nanashi
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1 month ago (edited)

I'm honestly glad I wasn't alive in the 70's, it sounds like a very weird era for many reasons lol

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#23

She was kidnapped in Mexico and he refused to pay ransom. Eventually her family managed to pay and she was left on the side of the road. It is not outrageous as in petty but outrageous as how absurd that is.

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Jon S.
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1 month ago

If we all agreed to never pay a ransom, kidnap for ransom would end overnight. It is why it is illegal to pay in many countries. And why many authorities advise you don't pay. Although, I realise the difficulty of putting that into practice when it is your own loved one on the line.

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#24

Not a lawyer, but did spend six months costing Legal Aid cases for solicitors in the early 90s. This included many divorces.

The most notable one was a woman divorcing her husband because he discovered he could talk to the dead on their honeymoon and then later spent all their money on spiritualist groups.

That wasn't what made it notable. During the divorce, the woman left the house. At some point her husband approached her and claimed that as he was letting the house fall into ruin, it would be better for both of them if he sold the house and split the proceeds with her. She agreed to this without consulting her solicitor.

A few weeks later the husband gave her £5. She asked what it was for. It was her share of the house. He'd sold it to his sister for £10 and kept living there. When she went to complain to her solicitors, she found they'd done the conveyancing for him. He'd deliberately used his wife's divorce solicitors and nobody at the firm had realised.

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Kathy Baylis
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1 month ago

Wouldn’t that be just cause for a legal malpractice suit?

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#25

Wasn't the reason but did happen during the course of the divorce. Neither side would follow the court orders. When they had to go back to court they were fighting over a pistol and the man's grandmother's bowls. I assumed for weeks that these bowls were some sort of heirloom or expensive china. When they finally brought the bowls in to swap they were f**king tupperware.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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1 month ago

Well Tupperware is expensive.

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#26

My friend divorced her husband because she read his text messages and saw that he was talking crap about her dogs to his friends. Her DOGS

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Monika Soffronow
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1 month ago

'Tis a good thing that she does not understand what her dogs say about her to their friends when they meet in the park.

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#27

I deal with a lot of divorces at work. I once reviewed a complaint for divorce because the wife always left poop stains in the toilet.

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Hello it Smee
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1 month ago

That is really shitty

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#28

My friend's sister was a strict vegetarian. One night her husband gave her fish and meat, but she thought it was a meat substitute. When she found out it was real meat, she divorced him

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nanashi
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1 month ago

if the meat was given in malice or "pranks", the divorce is pretty much justified in my book.

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#29

I had a client file for divorce because every morning his wife would ask him how he takes his coffee. EVERY morning for seven years

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Dorothy Parker
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1 month ago

Did he discuss this with her? Might be a clinical issue.

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#30

Was a loud chewer at the dinner table. He developed a complex & literally needed out as he couldn't bear to eat with her.

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Vincent Philippart
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1 month ago

For some reason I can understand. I cannot bear people eating noisily or showing the inside of their mouths. Literally cannot be in the room. My friends and relatives know: I will train their kids to eat properly (wether they like it or not), or we cannot have a meal together anymore. Most parents are actually glad. It seems it's one of those things you wish you had the energy to teach your kids, but is just not high enough on the list of priorities.

Lisa Shelton
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1 month ago

This is your issue not theirs, as you pointed out that you don't understand the reason for it. There is a disorder called misophonia. Look it up.

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Evil Little Thing
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1 month ago

Since childhood I couldn't bear eat breakfast near my brother. He had a stuffy nose basically every morning and ate cereal with his mouth open. The slurping, chewing, and panting through half-chewed cereal sounded like a horror film. Disgusting .

Emmanuelle Mimieux
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1 month ago

Me too it was awful. My sister too. One time I mustered all the strength I gad to politely ask if she could please chew quieter and she said no and proceeded to do it louder. Fun childhood.

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Dorothy Parker
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1 month ago

That's an actual disorder.

Dan Buczynski
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1 month ago

This is a total dealbreaker. I went on a date with someone who did this, and it's the one time I gave serious thought to the "go to the restroom and never return" thing.

RJ
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1 month ago

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KF-k3do7rs8

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KT Trondsen
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1 month ago

I ....actually get this. Some people chew in the most disgusting manner and I can see how it would be a massive turn off and end up being repulsed

Sori
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1 month ago

My husband and I sometimes laugh about this, he says I eat with my mouth slightly open (asthma can be a bitch) and he scrapes that cutlery on the dish... Sometimes we just put on an audio book or the tv in the background so we don't focus in the sound

Pryjmaty
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1 month ago

When my late hubby and I started dating, one of the very first questions I asked him is if he chewed his food with his mouth open.

nala simba
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1 month ago

What? Why even gave kids if you can't teach them the basics like eating, using the bathroom, holding a pencil or knife and fork etc......that is child neglect!

Adam Belaire
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1 month ago

I don't think I'm a loud chewer, but my wife doesn't like the sound of it. We compromised and have music playing while we eat. we don't start eating until something is playing. Works out great for us.

Treanna Renteria
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1 month ago

Bullshit to all that “ it’s understandable “ talk. It is NOT!! He never had a meal with her before He married her?!? He had to of known what the person he supposedly wanted to spend his life with chewed like. If it was a dealbreaker when dating years should not of proceeded. Can you imagine how she felt? What if they had children together? Did try counseling therapy for this. Point blank she is the one who got shirt stuck and he is a douche!

Cheryl Fontaine
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1 month ago

He never ate with her before they got married?

kathryn stretton
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1 month ago

Some habits can drive you mad.you must leave before you stab them. Self preservation. Best idea lol.

Sam Cook
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1 month ago

I have misophonia, which causes my ears to be extremely sensitive to many sounds, especially people eating and the chewing and popping of gum (the latter of which I consider the worst pain I've ever felt). I would have tried to talk more about it, though, rather than divorcing them.

Jo Ellen Washburn
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1 month ago

Apparently James Spader is like this. He just eats alone. Problem solved.

Elaine Mattingly
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3 weeks ago

Understood.

Abby Stein
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3 weeks ago

More current research associates misphonia with auditory processing disorder. Imaging studies have shown the problem may lie in connections to the amygdala (associated with the flight or fight reaction) in the brain. It is not yet known if it is an input problem or a processing (output) problem. It was originally seen as an anger problem, but it is now thought that the anger is more of a byproduct of being frustrated at the aggravation this causes.

Jagerzamo
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1 month ago

I would divorce... really have problems with certain noices, especially chewing... I once had a date with a guy and I couldn't help but shout "stop being so disgusting and eating like a f lama". He tried to excuse himself... I put the money on the table and left.

Stille20
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1 month ago

But this is his problem not hers. He should seek help

Froganit Gamesy
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1 month ago

That can be easily corrected

Azure Adams
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1 month ago

If he has misophonia then loud chewing is absolutely a valid divorce reason but that is something g you would notice before marriage and likely won’t change

Id row
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1 month ago

I feel for them on this one, I'm so sensitive to loud eating and constant whapping of silverware on the dishes.

Emmanuelle Mimieux
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1 month ago

I use plastic cutlery (and wash and reuse calm down ppl) because I hate the sound of silver banging on plates and bowls

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Steve Cruz
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1 month ago

She CHEWED HIM OUT!

Chris DiFonso
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1 month ago

He didn't notice this before they married?

Grumble O'Pug
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1 month ago

Did he not eat with her during dates?

Unaffected
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1 month ago

Nope, I couldn't bear it either!

Lisa Shelton
Community Member
1 month ago

I have misophonia and cannot stand listening to people eat, myself included. I wear my headphones with music or white noise playing during meals. It's not perfect, as I would rather be able to join in the conversation, but it's better than going ballistic.

Hannah M
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1 month ago

Apparently there is some condition that gives you a biological aversion to eating noises. I don't like eating noises either, but surely you would know if someone ate loudly before you married them?

Katie Allen
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1 month ago

Usually this wouldn't bother me but I used to work with a guy who made really disgusting slurpy slimy noises when he ate. I swear this guy could have gotten a job doing the sound effects for zombie movies. And I usually had to take my lunch break at the same time he did. Eurgh.

Lana Jig-maker
Community Member
1 month ago

Just don't eat with each other, unless it's like ice cream, or soup. Dang, that's like burning down the house, because you don't like the windows.

K O
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1 month ago

Justified lol

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