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The longer couples stay together, the more disgusting they’re probably going to be with one another. At a certain point, they’ll give up trying to conceal their farts or burps. And if anyone else heard the baby voice they use when they’re alone, it might induce gagging. But there’s a huge difference between being comfortable enough to be a little gross and being outright revolting.
Redditors have recently been discussing the most disgusting things their former partners have done, so we’ve gathered some of their worst stories below. From behaviors that will make your stomach churn to despicable comments people have made, we hope that the tales here remind you not to put up with these kinds of behaviors in your own relationships. And be sure to upvote the ones you wish weren't true!
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#1
We only dated very briefly and stayed very close friends afterwards.
Until his girlfriend after me called me up and told me what she found on his computer. He filmed almost every sexual encounter nonconsensually and posted them online, he filmed women through their bathroom windows, he filmed women he was following around stores. When she reported him to the police, they already knew his name.
I have younger sisters who liked him a lot. Telling them was the hardest part, their first real experience with a trusted adult male being a terrible person. We all know there's a strong possibility he filmed my sister in the bathroom while she was a minor. There's an extremely strong possibility he posted me online but I'll probably never know for sure.
In positive news, after almost two years of investigation he was arrested 2 weeks ago! Christmas came early, I was dancing around my kitchen when I found out.
quentariel 11 months ago (edited)
Glad that he finally got arrested, but two years? Really? Police lets a person who is involved in sexual crimes (and with a minors too no less) walk free for two whole years without an arrest? And if they knew his name before, who knows how long these things have continued. I get that investigators need a solid evidence before acting, but sounds like they sat on a pretty solid evidence for at least two years.
BrownEyedPanda 11 months ago
They probably had to have enough evidence not only to get an arrest warrant, but so that the defense attorney couldn't refute it enough to get it thrown out of court.
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Ozymandias73 11 months ago
GOD! That's horrific! What a serious piece of $hit! So glad he finally got captured but unfortunately, whatever he's put out there will always be out there. :(
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#2
He had terrible gun safety skills to the point that he would point his pistol at family and friends and go “pew pew pew,” as if it were a joke. Left him as soon as he pointed it at me. His family was shocked I had left him over something so simple.
Yu Pan 11 months ago
"What? It's only a gun pointing at you! Why are you overreacting?"
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SheamusFanFrom1987 11 months ago
More bullets than brains... Good that OP got out of there faster than a speeding one... -_-
tori Ohno 11 months ago
As the daughter of a licensed gun safety instructor, I personally feel that kind of behavior should be jail time, and mandatory re-training.
Richienotsorich 11 months ago
If he went to jail, surely he would be banned from owning guns?!
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KatSaidWhat 11 months ago
This largely depends on where you live, tbh. US is renegade but a lot of other countries own guns without having a school shooting every week. My brother lives on a farm in south africa. I endorse his having a gun.
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Tamra 11 months ago
What possesses a grown-a$$ human to point a gun at someone as a joke? JFC.
Robert Beveridge 11 months ago
In the case of the former friend who did it to me in 1997,excessive alcohol. And by "excessive" I mean "I have no idea how he was still standing".
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#3
My cat died suddenly, her first response was excitement and thrilled that I could buy her a puppy then.
The Doom Song 11 months ago
Your parter is a s**t person for not caring about the fact you lost your cat.
Skogsrået 11 months ago
The fact that the cat she obviously didn't like at all died suddenly and her being so happy about it would have me really suspicious tbh.
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Dog Mom to Zoe 11 months ago
Not a cat person but my heart would break for anyone who lost an animal.
Janissary35680 11 months ago
Searching for connection linking "My cat died" to "Buy me a puppy"... Still searching...🤔
SheamusFanFrom1987 11 months ago
I hope she's an ex by this point. She sounds like the type that even a puppy would snarl at or a kitten would hiss at -_-
#4
Yes,
Her mom "accidently" bought too much and wanted to drop off some groceries just in case she needed anything.
This woman came to her house with easily $200-$300 worth of food, toiletries, drinks, soaps, hell their was even 2 bags of name brand beef jerky in there.
It was obvious to me her mom didn't accidently buy all this stuff. She did it because she loved her daughter and wanted to make sure she was taken care of and had nice things.
My ex then proceeded to yell and very rudely thanked her mom before making snide remarks about how she didn't like this brand or flavor.
Jordan, if you're reading this, you're an ugly selfish person & your mom deserves better.
I'm only sorry i didn't say something and interject.
Nikole 11 months ago
I just have to say that maybe the mom did things like this all of the time when the items weren’t needed. Some parents treat their adult children like actual children, and you don’t know if she’s had that discussion with her mom before. Remarking about the brands could be seen as bítchy, or perhaps the woman is just fed up.
Sandella 11 months ago
Yes my husband had setjing similar with his mother. At first I thought her was being ungrateful, and then after a few years I could see it for what it was. Parents refusing to move on from their adult children and forcing these things down their throats constantly, that's what I was reminded of when reading this at least
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Nitka Tsar 11 months ago
This one would need more context. I strongly suspect the mother being at fault here. I think she did stuff like that often and even after being told to please don‘t do it. Bet it was stuff the daughter did not like and Mommy dearest boughed it on purpose and then made it out to be the victim. Sorry, but I‘ve read too many stories about narcisistic parents.
Corrina Byers 4 months ago
my ex son in law pulled that cra* when i brought snacks for my pregnant daughter,, boy did i tell him off,, he looked shocked,, idiot thought i was scared of him,,, not
#5
When we were laying in bed and I went to kiss him, he pushed me away and said, "Jesus christ, I can't do anything until I take a shower! You always want to start this at inconvenient times!" And he jumped up to shower, came back and goes, "Alright, let's get this over with."
I said no, thank you, and he started whining about how he just took the time to shower for me. I left him after that.
setsuriseikou 11 months ago
"Alright, let's get this over with" is definitely not something I'd like to hear in bed
Niels AirMax 11 months ago
"Alright, let's get this over with." Spoken like a true Chick-Magnet!🤦🏼♂️
SkippityBoppityBoo 11 months ago
All I'm going to say on this one is - A kiss or wanting a kiss does not automatically mean that the person in question wants sex. If you cannot differentiate between sex and affection then maybe you need to be by yourself until you grow up a little more.
The Camera Man 11 months ago
My ex would lay prostrate on the bed one night per month and tell me, "OK, get it over with". It took idiot me 28 years before I finally left for greener pastures.
#6
My son died. He was m*rdered, in fact.
Two years later, I got married (terrible idea,don’t ever marry when you’re this early in the grieving process).
One day I was in bed crying about my son, and my husband told me I just needed to “get over it already”.
Needless to say he is now my ex husband.
Violet 11 months ago
Yeah 2 years isn't long - I still cry sometimes about my old cat that passed like 8 or 9 years ago so I can't even imagine your own child :(
angelmomoffour62 11 months ago
I can really relate to this. In 2003 I lost my husband, 2 boys, and my dog to a drunk driver. A week later my brother told me I have to get over it. I don't talk to him anymore. My Mom even told me to get over it. It's not something you just get over. To this day I am not really over it, you just learn to find a new " norm "....
SkippityBoppityBoo 11 months ago
There is no timeline, nor limit, for grief. Grief is personal to each person. I still miss some people I've lost a decade later and remember them on the day, either birthday or when they died. There is no right nor wrong. I'm glad he's her ex.
Anne Jones 11 months ago
It can take 5 years just for the first part of grieving. I heard that you never get over grieving for your child, you just learn to make life go around it.
Karen Garðarsdóttir 10 months ago
I'm 7 years grieving my son I lost during pregnancy... I still cry for him when a song reminds me of him, on his birthday, when parents posted pictures of their 6 year old starting school... Grieving a child will NEVER go away and you will NEVER get over it... anyone that tells you to should not be a part of your life. So glad he is an ex to you now
#7
He decided he didn’t need to wear deodorant in the American South in the summer because he “sweated out all his toxins and didn’t smell bad anymore.”
Friends, he smelled like a cat p**s, salami, and raw onion sandwich that someone had left in the hot sun in a car over the long weekend, and then rubbed their testicles on. It was really quite a remarkable and complex bouquet of odors.
I tried to politely and lovingly let him know that he was mistaken, but he did not believe me. We broke up shortly after.
Tom De Paul 9 months ago
I like my "day 2" smell. And the "day 2" smell of other men. And I like colognes in traditionally masculine scents: leather, sandalwood, cedar.
Shane Kane 9 months ago
I came here to say what Pittsburgh rare said!! You are quite eloquent in your descriptions.
#8
He wouldn’t get a job. Wouldn’t help around the house. Wouldn’t leave the house. We were drowning in debt and I was barely making sure we at least had a roof over our heads. No matter how much I begged, screamed, cried, he just would nod his head tell me he understood and would help and then NOTHING would change. He sat there for 14+ hours a day playing video games on MY computer. He would wear the same sweatpants for weeks on end. He would belittle and insult me every chance he got. Why didn’t I kick him out? Because I’m too nice and he was ex military and I’m a small petite woman.
How did he eventually get out of my life? We got drunk on 9/11 and had an argument, it’s hazy but he took my phone from me and when I tried to get it back he shoved me down my stairs, put his hands around my neck, screamed in my face. I got outside and he pushed me down again and this time held me down and was trying to calm me down because now the neighbors would be able to see (but it was midnight) got him off me and ran down the street. My friends found me sobbing on the sidewalk a block away from my house. A few hours later I had an order of protection and he was being arrested and removed from the house. I haven’t seen him since.
Edit: wanted to add that no he wasn’t always this way he started out very sweet and loving, saying all the right things (love bombing sucks) and he was just a normal low level soldier who never saw combat and did s**t work around the base. He was kicked out because he smoked w**d and was tested. Later he tried to blame me for the reason he was smoking. I didn’t know I could control this man from over 2,000 miles away :)
Also thank you for the all the support! If anyone ever lays their hands on you please leave. Even if it’s not right away make those plans.
Scrupulous Panda 11 months ago
Statistics suggest that a woman only has a 40% chance of survival after the first strangulation attempt if she stays in the relationship. Glad you survived!
Thee8thsense 11 months ago
To add to the point of making exit plans, it is imperative that your abuser does not know of your plans. When the time comes to execute those plans make sure you have people with you for protection.
Nitka Tsar 11 months ago
At first it sounded like he might be depressed, but then it got dark real quck
#9
Every day I look at my wife and wonder how she could have such terrible taste in men.
Ace 11 months ago (edited)
Upvote *100. My wife of 30 years also had terrible taste, but I was the lucky one. Ohgod, here I go again with the tears. It's a month today,
A dude who likes to drum 11 months ago
I’m sorry for your loss, you have my condolences 💐
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WalkieTaco 9 months ago
my gf says she doesn't deserve me and me complimenting her makes her notice others staring. THEY ARE WONDERING HOW I GOT YOU, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!
Tom De Paul 9 months ago
Sweet. Hint: if your relationship isn't this, it won't ever be. Get out and start over.
#10
I had a miscarriage, and he left me alone and in pain to play video games. I had emergency surgery, and he called me the next morning to complain that he was tired because he’d stayed up “for me”, and to ask how much “this” was going to cost and how I was going to pay for it. (We were married, and shared expenses and a bank acct, but he wanted it to be paid for solely by me.) A year later, he started cheating on me. I found out, and I asked him why. His answer, with tears and snot running down his face, was “she wants to have kids with me, and you’ve been saying you need time”. Biggest eugh I’ve ever eughed.
Ripley 11 months ago
I'm stunned that anyone would stay with someone who's treated them so callously for another minute, let alone another year.
Tom De Paul 9 months ago
Video games can be as addictive as booze, c*****e or m**h. And just as damaging to relationships (and bank accounts). Don't minimize it because it's not d***s.
Featherking 11 months ago (edited)
I’m not a person who condone violence, but I wouldn’t be all that upset if someone, perhaps by mistake, happened to kick this sad loser in the ballsack soon after that breakup. Quite hard. Not as in “permanent damage” hard, but still quite hard. Oops. Sorry there, loser boy. Your ballsack was in the way of my boot. My bad. Walk it off, little man, walk it off.
#11
Many years ago my boyfriend at the time took me on a little weekend getaway to try and save our relationship that was hanging by a thread after I caught him emotionally cheating with his ex(was likely physical too since we didn't live together and I had no idea what he got up to while we were apart, but I had no proof). He wanted to go to a fancy steakhouse as soon as we got to the destination city, where he proceeded to gorge himself on a steak that wouldn't have looked out of place at an eating contest. Bloating and indigestion soon set in and he no longer felt up to doing any of the things we'd planned for the rest of the day, which annoyed me but whatever. I was okay with just hanging out at the hotel and watching movies in bed, which is what we did until the 28 ounces of beef he had horked down finally worked it's way through him.
He was running to the bathroom every hour for the whole evening, stinking out the entire hotel room each time. I guess he was only cursorily wiping too cause every time he laid back down I could smell his a*s through his pants. I was already halfway out the door due to the cheating, but that was my "wtf am I doing here" moment. What exactly is it that I love about this guy? Do I really not think I deserve any better than a stank a*s man who can't stay out of his ex's DMs? I'm better than this goddamnit.
Ace 11 months ago
I recall a couple of colleagues who went for one of those when we were on a US business trip some years ago. When they got back to our hotel and joined us for a drink the sheen on their pale clammy skin was visible from two metres away. I think they felt it was some sort of macho man thing.
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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 11 months ago
''horked down'': I am in literal tears of laughter! I have never heard that expression before :D
Dread Pirate Roberts 11 months ago (edited)
What is with so many of these people that don't clean their a*s?!
#12
X girlfriend used to let her dog chew on used tampons. Mic drop.
Dragon mama 11 months ago
I had one dog in my life that would always always always go into the trash and dig out used period products. It was a battle that I eventually won with a locking trash can but there may have been a time in my life when people could have said the same about me although the word "let" wouldn't have been quite accurate.
Annabel Again 11 months ago
It could kill the dog by causing obstruction those things expand like you wouldn’t believe. This is not only disgusting but animal abuse
#13
Pressured me into marriage talk pretty early into an intense relationship. Told me her favorite ring styles and all. I found a gorgeous ring I thought she'd love and gave it to her and she was instantly like "it's nice and all but..." And went into this speech about how it wasn't something she'd wear and told me to take it back and "try again". Heard her and her mom laughing about it a few hours later. It wasn't a ring I could just take back to the store so I had to get it appraised and sold it for like 1/3 what I paid for it. Needless to say I did not purchase another because I realized what a marriage with her would be like. Dodged that bullet.
Christos Arvanitis 11 months ago
Ummm, the clear signs were there before you purchased the ring...
Anne Jones 11 months ago
Sometimes it takes a while to realise things when emotions are involved.
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Found out she was a sex offender. Of children. Now *I* feel disgusting, tainted.
Simon Dudley 9 months ago
Been there and it's s**t. I'm one year post his sorry a** being arrested. It gets better. You are better off without these evil people in your life.
#15
Long story short. We dated for months- always my place. Ended up at hers once and broke up. She wasn’t clean etc BUT she had cats and one of them wasn’t litter box trained…. She had taught it to use the garbage disposal (one side of the sink with blades for our non-US readers) she taught the cat to s**t in the f*****g sink and I decided this was not a long term solution to my loneliness.
Bewitched One 11 months ago
Well hell, I imagine she could’ve trained it to use a litter box or toilet then huh
WeeBitOfSumfin 11 months ago
You don't even have to train a cat to drop it's s**t into litter box. Cats just do that. But you need to provide box and the litter though.
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I mean, at least sh trained it to s**t somewhere specific...
🇫🇮 Goth Nurse 🇫🇮 11 months ago
Cat's dont need to be trained to potty, their mom does that. This is why you wait until kitten is 14 weeks old before rehoming. After the mom stops with the milk, they are still too younf (at 8-ish weeks) to rehome because the next weks afe reserved for the mom to teach the kittens to be a cat. Source: 30 years owning cats and being a cat breeder for years.
Panda Panda Bo Banda 11 months ago
You don't need to train a cat to use the litter box. It's just instinct.
Macie Korte 10 months ago
It is cat's instinct to dig in loose ground and cover the poop & pee. You don't need to train them; you just show them where the litterbox is. I know this from fostering newborn kittens and having cats my entire life. If the cat didn't go in the littler box, they probably have an aversion for some very good reason such as being prone to UTIs or other cats guarding the litterbox. Changing the litter type and/or increasing the number of boxes most likely would have resolved the issue.
#16
I realised that she... was not a moral and honest person and that she was slowly pulling me down with her.
It didn't start being really evident until after we moved in together but it was stuff like... I just never, ever casually shoplift an item because the line is long and I can't be bothered to wait.
I would never keep an item a friend had lent me when I discovered they couldn't remember who they had lent it to (knowing that they weren't now expecting it back).
I'm not comfortable lying for personal gain. Trying to claim money I know I'm not entitled to. Lying about an item not having been delivered so that I get a refund.
Keeping all the cash (and postage stamps) in a wallet found in the street and planning to just throw the rest away.
None of it was m*rder or caused serious harm to anyone but over time... it just all gave me the big ick. And it was such a slow creep of behavior that it kind of normalised it in our household and I realised I hated that. It just wasn't me. I couldn't respect someone who was basically an opportunistic petty thief, even though she could be very generous and kind in other ways.
Dread Pirate Roberts 11 months ago
And if she f***s everyone else over, there's no reason to believe she wouldn't do the same thing to OP.
SkippityBoppityBoo 11 months ago (edited)
I once found a wallet with around £350 in notes plus change in it. All their bank, credit cards in it etc. I phoned our local police station, handed it in, all cash etc intact. I saw it on the street and first tried to find out who it belonged to. I googled on my mobile the person from a business card, called their work and told them I'd found it and that I was going to go hand it in at said police station. So... I dunno... I keep hoping my karma from that still stands! Besides which... Gosh I'm a "do-gooder" but anything I'd bought had I kept it? Even electricity? Would've sounded like "Not Mine, Not Mine, Not Mine" after due to guilt.
#17
Obsessive. Was in love within a weak. Constantly wanted to do grand gestures of love or sweet whispered statements that gave me serial k*ller shivers. Cried when we didn’t have sex. Threatened s***ide when I tried to end it after a few weeks. I feel like I need a shower when I think about it.
Tara L. 3 months ago (edited)
All hallmarks of a narcissist, the love bombing, empty threats of self harm, wanting to move really fast, etc. They want to move fast because they know they can't keep up the nice person routine & that their mask will slip so they'll try to trap you before you get wise to their evilness.
Featherking 11 months ago
Holy he… I’m glad you came out of that unscathed. It doesn’t sound safe.
Camille Marquès 11 months ago
Borderline personnality disorder, yes it absolutely does.
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My ex told me after 2 years of being together that he's been to prison and is on the kiddie fiddler register. That was fun to deal with.
#19
He didn’t wipe his a*s all the way and had major skid marks in his underwear and one time he was wearing his pants plumber style and I saw a huge streak of s**t going down his crack and when I told him about it he said he only uses 4 squares of TP because it’s expensive.
Ripley 11 months ago
I'm pretty sure that TP is a fucktonne cheaper than washing powder and stain remover. Oh, and grossing your partner out to the point that they leave.
Untamed Snark 11 months ago
Even in the great toilet paper shortage of 2020 it wasn't that expensive you couldn't properly wipe your a**e.
Philly Bob 11 months ago
I remember reading of a family where the father would give out only "3 squares" to anyone uning the crapper. Didn't matter if they were family or guests. They got 3 squares. Cheap bastard should have just gotten a bidet. But then he'd probably make everyone use the same drying towel. Ick!
TruthoftheHeart 11 months ago
Oh hell to the no, the only grown person who has any excuse for any kind of underwear having a stain is a woman who still has periods!!
#20
After a year and a half of dating he reveals that he believes women posting sexily posed pictures of themselves online have no right to be upset if strangers come up and touch/a*****t them.
I was baffled. This man had ASKED me if he could kiss me the first time he kissed me. He had always been incredibly respectful to me. So I asked, if I posted a posed bikini picture on Instagram and some random man saw it, then groped me in front of him, if he'd think that was okay. And he said yes.
In hindsight, I realize he must only have respected me because I behaved in a way that he deemed worthy of respect. It horrified me to know he believed he'd be justified in assaulting other women if they behaved differently.
I also found him saving sexily posed pictures of women we both knew as acquaintances on his phone. I'm not one for policing what people look at (in general) and I wouldn't have cared if he was saving random p*rn or Instagram model photos or whatever, but our coworker? Like someone you actually talk to in person? You're going to save her photos off her Facebook? That's f*****g creepy to me.
Tenay Douglas 11 months ago
He was definitely looking for a way to justify a previous a*sualt and future ones
Kristin 11 months ago
I really think Facebook needs to make a option of having pictures locked and not being able to save them unless you ask said person's permission and if you do try and download the pictures then the person gets a notification letting them know.
Tom De Paul 9 months ago
I've never been able to download any photo from Facebook.
Load More Replies... Dread Pirate Roberts 11 months ago
I guarantee this guy was guilty of assault in the past and will probably do it again. He blames the women to try to rid himself of responsibility. He's f*****g evil
#21
He “joked” about involving my dog in our sex life.
A girl 11 months ago
I have a pretty immoral sense of humor but animal intimacy is absolutely NOT COOL.
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Sylvia Baker 11 months ago
Dear God yell that from the rooftops so he doesn't actually do that with someone else!!
#22
Jeeez. I was just gonna say his farting like a ak-47 in bed. But after reading some of these comments? Never mind lol.
#23
He invited a pr***itute over & asked that I watch them have sex to “prove that I actually loved him”.
Bewitched One 11 months ago
Huh? I would think that saying no and telling the sex worker to leave would be that proof but ya know, prob not
TruthoftheHeart 11 months ago (edited)
I would go to the bathroom to pretend that I'm getting ready call the police and have his a*s arrested along with the prostitute. He can get his karma and she can get some help.
Featherking 11 months ago
Unless you know them and want to hang out. Then you invite them.
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#24
I found water bottles full of pee in his closet and he just laughed at it when I confronted him. It was because he was playing video games and didn’t want to leave the room….
Nils Skirnir 11 months ago
Folks who claim gaming can’t be an addiction need to see more of these. If a gambler or d**g user did something like this, they’d be in rehab.
Panda Panda Bo Banda 11 months ago
Peeing in a bottle is bad enough but why would you leave it in the closet??? 🤢
Spittnimage 11 months ago
I knew a kid who used to sh!t his pants cos he didn't wanna stop playing long enough to 💩
WalkieTaco 9 months ago
dude I am called addicted to video games. I play 3 hrs a day MAX, rarely rage, and eat, drink, and go to the bathroom normally. Now this is an a*******n
#25
When discussing divorce my SO wistfully said "I'm still young, I could [implied sex around with other women]."
This disgusted me because I had basically begged him for sex for 4 years before I gave up on that and tried to get him to hold my hand or even just sit by me on the couch. Apparently the marriage was over for him the second our kids were born--and I just didn't find out about it until later.
Although it still disgusts me I think a bit of that is healthy now? I needed a few disgusting moments to be able to realize I was the only one who cared and you can't repair a boat when the other person in it keeps pulling out their chainsaw and going to town.
tori Ohno 11 months ago (edited)
It's referred to as the Madonna/wh@re complex. You're the Madonna until he has proof that you're the wh@re, meaning pregnancy and children. They don't want you anymore. There's also the type obsessed with his mother, so after you become one, he's all ewww when it comes to you.
robin aldrich 11 months ago
Yeah I read something like this... they just can't find the wife sexual anymore once they've given birth...
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#26
We were on vacation in NY and were staying in a hotel which obviously had all white sheets. After laying down for a while, he got up to go smoke and when I turned over I saw green streaks on the bed from where he had been laying down….. literal green s**t streaks on the f*****g bed 😭 I almost threw up.
Nikole 11 months ago
She had to have smelled it beforehand… But yeah, very ew.
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#27
My ex didn't wash his butt. Ever. He thought letting shampoo and soap running down was enough. Once when we were having sex, I grabbed his buttcheeks and felt slick poop get on my finger. It was nasty. He also had poop streaks in his underwear all the time. Like ALL the time. I asked and begged him to please wash your butt, use a cloth if you don't want to use your hands. It's unhealthy and smells nasty.
Nothing.
I don't know why I stayed so long. My bf who I am with now washes every day and knows how to clean his undercarriage and b******e. Thank f**k.
Pencil 11 months ago
I cared for my bedridden MiL for two years. Ensuring that she was completely clean of fecal matter was the top priority for preventing skin irritation, infection, etc. I have no idea how these people live this way without any medical consequences.
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CrunChewy McSandybutt 11 months ago
I knew a guy (did not date him) that said he wouldn't wash his áss because it was gay to touch his own áss? Gross.
Max Fox 11 months ago
I don't get it. All of these women know that their boyfriend/husband doesn't clean their butt the first time that they have sex with them, and they find this absolutely disgusting. So why do they have sex a second time, much less establish a permanent relationship with these slobs?
Caroline Nagel 11 months ago (edited)
I read somewhere that some men think it's 'gay' to wash their nether regions (front and back).
Untamed Snark 11 months ago
But not gay to play with the bit at the front?
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Upstaged75 11 months ago
How do all these men grow up without knowing that you're supposed to clean your entire body???
StretcherBearer 11 months ago
Redd Foxx did a comedy bit about being respectfu to your partner and washing your a*s before bed like years ago. It was hilarious. But I would have been mortified to have skid marks in middle school gym class let alone as an adult. And I can't believe I am actually writing this as well as a response to whatever the hell is happening here.
Ruth Watry 11 months ago
I just don't get how a woman can get past having sex one time with a man who does not wipe or clean his butt.
#28
She sharted during sex... We're getting married next year.
Tele Avision 11 months ago
I guess the honeymoon will be one big s**t show!
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Angie May 11 months ago
Oh my god I didn't even see those until you pointed them out
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Rafael 11 months ago
Had an ex with a similar issue, we found ways around it. Sometimes women have very weird muscle contractions/distensions during orgasm, more so if they habitually "squirt". There are ways to deal with it if you know it is coming, like enemas. What we couldn't find ways around was her cheating, but at least, not my problem anymore!
Bewitched One 11 months ago
Hahaha was it in the back door or just something she ate at an incredibly inopportune moment?
Dread Pirate Roberts 11 months ago
I couldn't help Lmao at this 😂 sounds like a greentext story I read once
pug nose curly tail 11 months ago (edited)
Like, had yall been messing around in the sharting region?
#29
She was taking a bath and I was with her cuz she asked me to chill in the room with her (no big deal) but them she started playing with her period clumps in the water and like picking it up and stuff. I have a period but that was just f*****g gross to me.
crazydogmama 11 months ago
That's the uterus shedding its lining, totally normal, and the reason we have periods. But playing with them is NOT normal. Yikes.
zims 11 months ago
And your experiences are universal, of course. Third on the clots, I had them when I had a period.
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#30
I found out he sexually abused two underaged boys when we were dating. I didn't find this out until AFTER we had broken up.
The newspapers said it was ""consensual"", where he walked in on the two boys messing around (13 and 15) and instead of stopping, he joined in. This happened several times.
I knew the boys, too. I still feel guilty over it, that I didn't notice something was going on. I should have noticed something.
#31
He lived exclusively off of sour cream&onion-flavoured chips and orange soda, and never brushed his teeth.
Ruth Watry 11 months ago
I couldn't make it past a week with a guy who did not brush his teeth
WalkieTaco 9 months ago
listen, while I understand this scenario, some people just have bad teeth. I brush twice a day and never drink soda, and my teeth are a stainy off-white. IDK why, but
Brian Droste 11 months ago (edited)
There is a Sci Fi story of sorts similar to this. It is about over weight person who lives in a apartment building and all he eats are orange cheese puffs ans drinks orange soda.
#32
The sounds and visuals of him eating and drinking. Smacking his food, mouth agape, bits on his lips and chin, gulping liquids, spittle, spilling. EVERY meal his napkin or towel looked like a crime scene at a BBQ.
(Granted, I prolly have some misophonia tendencies, but I couldn't get beyond his eating.).
TribbleThinking 11 months ago
I have a less extreme version whereby I have to stop listening to speakers even on very interesting subjects if they have irritating voices.
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Courtney Christelle 11 months ago
Loud eating bugs the cr*p out of me. Smack when you’re alone, have some manners when eating with others.
Dread Pirate Roberts 11 months ago
Sloppy, loud, gross eating habits would be a deal breaker for me
#33
Saw screenshots of her begging another guy to finger her while she was in a relationship with me, outside of all the betrayal & pain & disrespect, I mostly just felt disgust.
#34
He ate his own toenails. And then he ate mine.
No, I don't know what I was smoking.
#35
Some of these are very serious
I'll add some levity. I once watched my middle school boyfriend eat a chef boyardee ravioli out of his bare hand and was so nauseated by the sight that I (an immature 7th grader) proceeded to tank the relationship by fully ignoring him for two weeks until he broke up with me. I just couldn't look at him without remembering the sight of a ravioli sliding around in his palm
God it still makes me sick actually.
MotherofGuineaPigs 11 months ago
Agreed. I thought I was weird for eating it out of the can - with a spoon of course.
Load More Replies... Robert Beveridge 11 months ago
In your palm? Good lord. Everyone knows you're supposed to make a sandwich out of them...sourdough and extra mayo, with lots of pepper!
#36
He was obsessed with kids. He told me his dream was to buy a house so he could throw birthday parties for kids with autism He didn't know in his basement. When I told him most parents wouldn't be okay with having their kid in some random guys basement, he was truly shocked. He had pictures of his bosses kids on his phone too.
Bewitched One 11 months ago
Sounds like there might’ve been some developmental things that were missed growing up. And I don’t mean this in a mean way. Or he was just very immature and purely and innocently enjoyed kids and was sheltered from the harsh realities of this cruel world
Tenay Douglas 11 months ago
So he should have educated himself. If he’s old enough to have a job, girlfriend and home. He’s old enough to understand and educate himself on socially acceptable behaviors
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#37
Overindulgence in alcohol. My mother does it too.
Her laying on a bed, yelling for me, staring blankly at the ceiling because she can’t see straight, arms outstretched toward nothing, wanting me to climb in and keep her company, before I had to bodily drag her down the hall to the bathroom so she wouldn’t throw up anywhere else… in someone else’s house in a different country we were visiting.
Such a whirlwind emotionally of trauma, embarrassment, and disgust. There was a lot to love about her, but she could never quit drinking so much.
SkippityBoppityBoo 11 months ago
My ex... He'd been to visit his own ex while she was in the psychiatric unit, she had a day pass, they went out drinking. Apparently she bought all the drinks... I understood about visiting her... To a Point. Yes, she has some form of mental health illness and needs support, she shouldn't have ever been drinking though on her medications. Not that she ever took them, she always refused to take them, that's a whole other story. But he came back straight to mine, passed out full on drunk on my bed and when he finally got up 5hours later (I couldn't wake him up so put his arm over a vomit bucket and kept looking, checking he was still breathing) he eventually got up, came into my living room, sat on the sofa opposite me and said, "What sh*t are you watching now?" then got up and left. I hadn't said a word to him the whole entire time. Oh btw? I'd been over a year and a half completely sober at that point in time.
#38
Kept trying to recruit me into his religion, tried to get in girls dms on valentines day while he was with me.
Kristin 11 months ago
I don't get cheating, seriously. I don't get why someone finds enjoyment out of it. If your not happy with whom your with then leave. If your needs are not being met then talk to your partner or again leave. Seems like too much work to balance different lives and the lies.
#39
She waited until we moved in together to disclose that she was polyamorous. I am most certainly not. We had discussed boundaries and things like that throughout our relationship, but I guess she had a change of heart once the lease was signed? I'm embarrassed to say that we didn't break up over this. The relationship lasted two more months and we continued to live together as exes until the lease ended. It honestly put me off cohabitating entirely- I won't move in with my next partner unless I have a prenup and a Tiffany ring.
Panda Panda Bo Banda 11 months ago
Interchangeable? Where did you read that bs???
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#40
Called his own sister a fat f*cking lard, shamed his nieces sexuality and used his schizophrenic mother’s condition as a cover up to go to college parties. i.e “im comforting my mom she’s having an episode” - is actually at a college party. Oh also hid alcohol in a toilet and drank it later on.
#41
This was college bf, emotional abusive relationship.
I distinctly remember this one time him coming to me, down the street. I had an out-of-body moment. I saw me seeing him like if we were complete strangers. I was grossed out by him. My exact thoughts were:
I'm dating *this*?
#42
He never took care of his nails. They were always dirty and long. He would never wash his hands after eating, so there was always food remains in his nails. It really grossed me out.
#43
My ex girlfriend of 8 years was unable to acknowledge that her actions had caused me emotional and physical pain. I laid it all out as to how and why her actions had the effects they did and she gave me the most empty, blank stare I've ever seen. She did not care a single bit about what she had done or the effects. At this point I was just trying to salvage a friendship but when I realized she didn't care at all, all I felt was disgust.
#44
I wouldn’t call him a partner, but someone I had been dating for a couple of months. We went to a “party” at his friend’s crappy apartment. He proceeded to get s**tfaced, to the point where he p**sed himself. I was sitting there on the couch, watching this dude passed out in his friend’s armchair. I think one of his friends drove me home eventually.
He was about 7’ tall, and was this Nordic looking attractive guy with great bone structure. My attraction to him completely went away as soon as it happened.
Anne Jones 11 months ago
I’ve dated men for their looks in the past. It normal I’d say.
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Agh.. current (new) partner. I need to breakup with him.
He sweats like absolute crazy, to the point where we're just kissing and he's dripping on me like I'm in the shower. Hes a big dude, and his skin gets slick with sweat in a way I simply haven't seen other men sweat.
Second time I went to his place, his dining room table was covered in stuff. Half a spread game of Magic cards, dirty plates with crumbs, dice and assorted boxes of just random c**p. I am not an overly clean person myself so I tried to tell myself I didn't care, but the more I pay attention to his living space, the more it seriously disgusts me.
Please take care of yourself and your space before inviting someone into your life. He's a sweet guy - does the gentleman things - but his lack of self care for his life is such a massive turn off. Like dating a teenaged man. Sigh.
Lila Allen 11 months ago
Or medication. I take Ritalin and it causes hyperhydrosis. So I intentionally keep my house and work space on the cold side so I don't sweat like crazy
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Widdershins66 11 months ago
Hyperhidrosis, is a medical condition often caused by faulty nerve signals that trigger the body's sweat glands to become overactive. It can adversely effect a person's quality of life 🥺
#46
She told me she f****d a teacher for a better grade, I think she thought I would find it funny but it kind of turned me off.
#47
Never showered, their mom was treating them as her spouse. She even referred to herself as their wife (that was five minutes before we broke up). Their obsession with their breeding kink and horse d**k. Never asked for consent, tried to go without protection immediately in the relationship with coercion.
That should've been the stop sign and it wasn't.
Agat 11 months ago
Breeding kink and horse d**k? I don't get any of this, can someone explain?
#48
He smelled like cheeseburgers and bong water. Ah, high school .
#49
He baby talked to me sometimes when I asked him questions.
#50
My current bf actually, though I love him very much. We were eating with a large group of people at a nice restaurant and he burped really loudly. It was so loud and disgusting that not only did our entire table stop conversation, but people at other tables turned to look. Like if you’ve ever burped before or after puking, that’s it. Even his buddies looked like dude wtf.
It sounds kind of silly, but I felt really grossed out and kind of embarrassed honestly. I think he could tell and asked me afterwards. We had a grown conversation about it, and he apologized and said he regretted doing it almost immediately after once he noticed everyones’ reactions. He’s never done it again, and gives himself s**t for it once in a while. I was glad we agreed because it seriously repulsed me. Burping isn’t that gross and not something that bothers me normally, but that was just a lot.
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Lailu 11 months ago
What is it with so many guys not washing their a******s? Why is this a thing? 😭
Ace 11 months ago (edited)
I've read that some guys think that touching it or even coming into close contact with it makes them gay. No, it makes no sense, wrong on so many levels, but apparently it's a thing.
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Chich the witch 11 months ago
I had to give up part way through. OMFG what is wrong with some people?
Lailu 11 months ago
What is it with so many guys not washing their a******s? Why is this a thing? 😭
Ace 11 months ago (edited)
I've read that some guys think that touching it or even coming into close contact with it makes them gay. No, it makes no sense, wrong on so many levels, but apparently it's a thing.
Load More Replies... Chich the witch 11 months ago
I had to give up part way through. OMFG what is wrong with some people?
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