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Love can be such a sad and weary game to play. We struggle between an uncontrollable desire to make things work and nudging our egos up to the point we burn out.

Paradoxically, it’s never been so easy to feel this lonely in the age of dating apps when your love interest is available a swipe away. So we all need a gentle reminder not only for a dentist’s visit, but also so that we know that true love exists and that we all deserve it.

And for this reason, Bored Panda has compiled some of the most beautiful and heartwarming couple posts to lift up our spirits. Most importantly, it’s little things that seem to keep the flame burning, like a plastic cockroach you've put into each other's shoe for the past 20 years or playing Mario Kart over a cup of tea since 2001.

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Marie's Family Abandoned Her After She Married Jake, Her True Love In 1948. They're Still Happily Married For Over 70 Years Through The Power Of Love

Marie's Family Abandoned Her After She Married Jake, Her True Love In 1948. They're Still Happily Married For Over 70 Years Through The Power Of Love

Her dad told her, "If you marry that man you will never set foot in this house again." Mary soon learned that most people felt the same way. The first years of their marriage living in Birmingham were hell - no one would speak to them, they couldn’t find anywhere to live because no one would rent to a black man, and they had no money. But they didn't give up.
 
Gradually life became easier. Mary got teaching jobs, ending up as a deputy headteacher. Jake worked in a factory and then got a job at the Post Office. Slowly they made friends, but it was difficult. Mary used to tell people, "Before I invite you to my home... My husband is black." Some would never talk to her again.
 
Last year they celebrated their 70th anniversary and they are still very much in love, and never regretted what they did.

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    91 Year Old Vivian Boyack Marrying Her Girlfriend Alice Dubes After 72 Years Of Relationship

    91 Year Old Vivian Boyack Marrying Her Girlfriend Alice Dubes After 72 Years Of Relationship

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    To find out what lifelong healthy relationships have in common and what we could all learn from them, Bored Panda reached out to Lise Deguire, a clinical psychologist and author of “Flashback Girl: Lessons on Resilience From a Burn Survivor.”

    “Maintaining a lifelong healthy and loving relationship takes time, effort, and commitment,” the psychologist stated and continued: “Most relationships start off in the halo of romantic love, in which their partner is gorgeous, perfect, and never does anything wrong. But romantic love is just a phase, and it passes over time (usually 6 months to 3 years after moving in together).”

    #4

    That's A Wifey Material

    That's A Wifey Material

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    Husband Spends 2 Years Planting Thousands Of Scented Flowers For His Blind Wife To Smell And Get Her Out Of Depression

    Husband Spends 2 Years Planting Thousands Of Scented Flowers For His Blind Wife To Smell And Get Her Out Of Depression

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    Lise explained that as soon as romantic love has passed, “the real couple's work begins. People need to learn to be good listeners, to be empathetic toward their partners, to lessen their own emotional reactivity, and to be respectful, even during times of disagreement.”

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    “All this takes a lot of work, and frankly, most people were never taught how to be a good communicator.” In fact, “many couples would benefit from seeing a certified marriage therapist, to provide coaching, help and support,” Lise said.

    #7

    Confession

    Confession

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    #8

    Every Day My Parents Play Mario Kart 64 To See Who Will Make A Cuppa Tea. They’ve Done This Religiously Since 2001

    Every Day My Parents Play Mario Kart 64 To See Who Will Make A Cuppa Tea. They’ve Done This Religiously Since 2001

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    #9

    This Vietnamese Couple Has Been Married For 70 Years

    This Vietnamese Couple Has Been Married For 70 Years

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    When asked about the concept of “true love,” which is so widely popularized by TV and media, Lise said that the whole concept of it is really nothing but “a holdover from the romantic love phase, discussed above.”

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    “Surely there are people that are naturally great partners for us, people who share our values, who make us laugh, who are attractive to us. But there is probably more than one person in the whole world with whom you can be happy. And again, romantic love is a blissful time, but it truly is just the beginning phase of a lifelong commitment,” the clinical psychologist and award-winning book author concluded.

    #12

    This Is Who I Married

    This Is Who I Married

    I was painting my nails and made a comment that I forget I don't have to paint my pinky nail on my left hand. I simply forget that I lost my pinky, but it is always kind of a bummer when I am reminded. Matt said "I will be your surrogate pinky. You can paint my pinky to match your nails for the rest of our lives"
    And so we did...
    I cannot imagine a sweeter, kinder man. No words adequately describe our love.

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    #14

    My Mom And I Went To Safeway To Get Some Groceries And We Ran Into My Dad Buying Flowers For Her

    My Mom And I Went To Safeway To Get Some Groceries And We Ran Into My Dad Buying Flowers For Her

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    #15

    Howard Foster And Myra Clark Reconnected And Married More Than 45 Years Later After Racism Forced Them Apart. They Now Hold Hands While They Fall Asleep Every Night

    Howard Foster And Myra Clark Reconnected And Married More Than 45 Years Later After Racism Forced Them Apart. They Now Hold Hands While They Fall Asleep Every Night

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    #16

    Quarantine Doesn’t Stop Husband From Supporting His Wife During Her Chemo Treatments

    Quarantine Doesn’t Stop Husband From Supporting His Wife During Her Chemo Treatments

    "No visitors allowed for Chemo due to the virus but that didn’t stop Albert L. Conner! Thank you for all your continued love and support."

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    #17

    60 Years On And My Grandad Still Looks At My Granny With So Much Love

    60 Years On And My Grandad Still Looks At My Granny With So Much Love

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    #18

    They Were Surfing On An Ironing Board In A Rain - Now I Understand The Importance Of Finding Someone To Grow Old With

    They Were Surfing On An Ironing Board In A Rain - Now I Understand The Importance Of Finding Someone To Grow Old With

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    #21

    He Was Dirt Poor, She Was Rich. Her Family Threatened To Disown Her If She Married Him

    He Was Dirt Poor, She Was Rich. Her Family Threatened To Disown Her If She Married Him

    She decided she loved him more than any inheritance and went on to marry him and have two kids. He loved her so much he died holding her hand. Ladies and gentlemen, my grandparents.

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    #22

    My Mom Fast Asleep And Holding My Dad's Arm About 30 Minutes Before He Passed Away. I've Never Shared This Photo Before, But Thought It Was A Great Picture Of True Love

    My Mom Fast Asleep And Holding My Dad's Arm About 30 Minutes Before He Passed Away. I've Never Shared This Photo Before, But Thought It Was A Great Picture Of True Love

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    #23

    The Coolest Couple I Know 1972 / 2019

    The Coolest Couple I Know 1972 / 2019

    "He was in law school, so he needed a reader (the university provides them, for the visually impaired). She was his reader. They became friends, and then..."

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are cool, and beautiful. They look as if they've barely aged.

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    #24

    My Partner And I Bought Each Other The Same Anniversary Card

    My Partner And I Bought Each Other The Same Anniversary Card

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    #25

    This Is True Love

    This Is True Love

    The story behind this picture of my grandparents: They have been married for over 60 years. My grandmother is suffering from dementia and has recently had a stroke. But as soon as he walked in she said “that’s my boyfriend Willis” and he laid there with her.

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    #30

    Smart

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    Vicky Zar
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so very sweet and important. Not everyone can express love by saying the words, for whatever reason.

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    #31

    We Were In A Long Line At The Grocery. This Man Said He Had To Go Use The Restroom, But Instead He Secretly Bought Flowers For His Wife And Hid Them Behind His Back

    We Were In A Long Line At The Grocery. This Man Said He Had To Go Use The Restroom, But Instead He Secretly Bought Flowers For His Wife And Hid Them Behind His Back

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    #32

    The Couple On The Woodstock Album Cover, Still Together 50 Years Later

    The Couple On The Woodstock Album Cover, Still Together 50 Years Later

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    #33

    Candid Shots Show A Victorian Couple From The 1890s Who Cannot Help But Laugh When Getting Their Picture Taken

    Candid Shots Show A Victorian Couple From The 1890s Who Cannot Help But Laugh When Getting Their Picture Taken

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    #36

    I Have Covid And My Fiancee Leaves Food For Me And Then Sits In The Hallway So We Can Eat Together. Tonight I Got Surprise Hot Cocoa

    I Have Covid And My Fiancee Leaves Food For Me And Then Sits In The Hallway So We Can Eat Together. Tonight I Got Surprise Hot Cocoa

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    Sum Guy
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Covid is a horrible thing to get... for a lot of people, it showed how much people still cared for each other. How far they would go for each other

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    #39

    Two Of My Clients, A Couple Who Have Been Together For Over 40 Years, Found Out That I Like Ducks. So They Stopped By My Office For The Sole Purpose Of Bringing Me Every Duck They Owned

    Two Of My Clients, A Couple Who Have Been Together For Over 40 Years, Found Out That I Like Ducks. So They Stopped By My Office For The Sole Purpose Of Bringing Me Every Duck They Owned

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    #40

    Couple At Woodstock 48 Hours After They Met And 50 Years Later

    Couple At Woodstock 48 Hours After They Met And 50 Years Later

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    #41

    Awesome

    Awesome

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister made our parents shirts like these for their anniversary a couple of years ago. Mom asked "Do I have to answer to 'Patty' if he gets lost and they come looking for me?" 45+ years of marriage. Haha

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    #42

    My Dad Was Admitted To The Hospital Right Before Christmas. We Didn't Know If He Would Make It Home At All And Especially Not For Christmas

    My Dad Was Admitted To The Hospital Right Before Christmas. We Didn't Know If He Would Make It Home At All And Especially Not For Christmas

    This is my parents slow dancing to "I'll be home for Christmas" on Christmas Day.

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    #43

    Husband And Wife Getting Wholesomely Weird When No One Is Watching

    Husband And Wife Getting Wholesomely Weird When No One Is Watching

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    #45

    Today My Wife Is Officially Under 200 Lbs And I Was Finally Able To Do A Chin Up For The First Time In My Life

    Today My Wife Is Officially Under 200 Lbs And I Was Finally Able To Do A Chin Up For The First Time In My Life

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    #46

    Elderly Man Learns To Do Wife's Makeup Before She Turns Blind

    Elderly Man Learns To Do Wife's Makeup Before She Turns Blind

    "Why I love my job so much! Meet Jean and Brian two of our very loyal customers, Brian was in for another makeup lesson today as he does his wife's makeup every day as she is going blind, such a wonderful couple who live their life to the full!"

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    #47

    83 & 84-Year-Old Couple Model Clothes Forgotten At Their Laundry Shop In Taiwan

    83 & 84-Year-Old Couple Model Clothes Forgotten At Their Laundry Shop In Taiwan

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    #48

    My Wife Before And After Saying "I Love You"

    My Wife Before And After Saying "I Love You"

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    #50

    2020 Ain’t All Bad. I Asked This Handsome Fellow On The Right To Marry Me And He Said Yes

    2020 Ain’t All Bad. I Asked This Handsome Fellow On The Right To Marry Me And He Said Yes

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    #52

    Relationship Goals

    Relationship Goals

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    #53

    My Wife's Conservative Religious High-School Wouldn't Let Me Take Her To Prom Ten Years Ago Because We're Both Women, So I Threw Her One In Our Home For Our 5th Anniversary

    My Wife's Conservative Religious High-School Wouldn't Let Me Take Her To Prom Ten Years Ago Because We're Both Women, So I Threw Her One In Our Home For Our 5th Anniversary

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    Ivana
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably a lot fancier than the high school version. Very nice.

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    #55

    A Cute Amazon Review I Revisit Just For A Smile. An 88 Year Old Woman And Her 92 Year Old Husband Attend A Halloween Party. They Liked The Bee Costume

    A Cute Amazon Review I Revisit Just For A Smile. An 88 Year Old Woman And Her 92 Year Old Husband Attend A Halloween Party. They Liked The Bee Costume

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    #56

    98-Year-Old Couple Recreate Their Wedding Day After 70 Years

    98-Year-Old Couple Recreate Their Wedding Day After 70 Years

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    #58

    The Moment My Dog And Husband Realized I Was In The Car Beside Him

    The Moment My Dog And Husband Realized I Was In The Car Beside Him

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    #60

    A Stray Dog Crashes A Wedding And The Couple Gave Him A Forever Home

    A Stray Dog Crashes A Wedding And The Couple Gave Him A Forever Home

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smart doggo and a smart couple. Everybody wins. I love this!

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    #61

    Elderly Couple Dressed As Link And Zelda

    Elderly Couple Dressed As Link And Zelda

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    #62

    This Photo Somebody Took At My Sister's Wedding Of Me And My Wife. Is Seems Silly, But I Just Can't Stop Looking At It Over And Over Again

    This Photo Somebody Took At My Sister's Wedding Of Me And My Wife. Is Seems Silly, But I Just Can't Stop Looking At It Over And Over Again

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    #63

    Just An Old Couple From Georgia

    Just An Old Couple From Georgia

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    #64

    This Is Why I Want To Marry Him. It's The Little Things That Count

    This Is Why I Want To Marry Him. It's The Little Things That Count

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    #65

    My Uncle Got Married To His Partner Of 37 Years Today

    My Uncle Got Married To His Partner Of 37 Years Today

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    #66

    This Nice Couple Stopped In Our Vape Shop. The Gentlemen Asked To Hear How The Bluetooth Speakers Sound. Once I Turned On His Requested Song, This Is What Ensued

    This Nice Couple Stopped In Our Vape Shop. The Gentlemen Asked To Hear How The Bluetooth Speakers Sound. Once I Turned On His Requested Song, This Is What Ensued

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    #67

    Love Is

    Love Is

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so sweet...she got to observe him enjoying something and immediately thinking of her to share it with...that IS love.

    #68

    Why Being Married To Your Best Friend Is Lit

    Why Being Married To Your Best Friend Is Lit

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    I Grew My Hair Out For Over A Year To Be Bob Ross For Halloween. My Wife Was A Happy Little Tree

    I Grew My Hair Out For Over A Year To Be Bob Ross For Halloween. My Wife Was A Happy Little Tree

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    My Parents In 1975 And Again In 2020. They’ve Been Married And Playing Music Together For Over 45 Years Now

    My Parents In 1975 And Again In 2020. They’ve Been Married And Playing Music Together For Over 45 Years Now

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    #71

    Found This From My Husband In My Car On The Way To A Big Interview Yesterday

    Found This From My Husband In My Car On The Way To A Big Interview Yesterday

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    #72

    At Sonic This Man Sits Outside Of His Car In The 98 Degree Heat And Feeds His 80 Year Old Wife Ice Cream. That's So Sweet

    At Sonic This Man Sits Outside Of His Car In The 98 Degree Heat And Feeds His 80 Year Old Wife Ice Cream. That's So Sweet

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    #73

    Me And My Wife Were Never Able To Have Kids. We Just Got The Opportunity To Adopt! Meet Joshua

    Me And My Wife Were Never Able To Have Kids. We Just Got The Opportunity To Adopt! Meet Joshua

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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my God you're parents! Your life will never be the same. Hugs for you all.

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    #74

    When I First Told My Wife I Loved Her, She Replied With "That's Dangerous". When We Married A Year Ago She Snuck This Inscription Into My Ring

    When I First Told My Wife I Loved Her, She Replied With "That's Dangerous". When We Married A Year Ago She Snuck This Inscription Into My Ring

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    In 1978, An Indian Man Travelled From India To Sweden On A Bicycle To Reunite With A Woman He Met While She Was On Vacation In India

    In 1978, An Indian Man Travelled From India To Sweden On A Bicycle To Reunite With A Woman He Met While She Was On Vacation In India

    Travelling through 8 different countries, the journey took him a total of 4 months. 43 years on the couple are still happily married in Sweden.

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    Raine Soo
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I actually read about them on Bored Panda a few years ago. This is such a sweet story.

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    #76

    My Wife And Cat Fell Asleep On Me

    My Wife And Cat Fell Asleep On Me

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    #77

    92-Year-Old Man Colours His Wife’s Hair At Home As She Can’t Go To The Salon Because Of Coronavirus Lockdown

    92-Year-Old Man Colours His Wife’s Hair At Home As She Can’t Go To The Salon Because Of Coronavirus Lockdown

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    #79

    My Mom Made My Dad Dress Up And Presented Him With The "Best Husband" Oscar. I Want To Be This Extra As A Wife

    My Mom Made My Dad Dress Up And Presented Him With The "Best Husband" Oscar. I Want To Be This Extra As A Wife

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    #81

    Couple Proposed To Each Other By Accident During A Photoshoot

    Couple Proposed To Each Other By Accident During A Photoshoot

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    Francis
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Title: "Couple Proposed To Each Other By Accident During A Photoshoot" kinda made me think at first that they didn't plan on getting engaged :D like he: I gonna marry you! she (same moment): I gonna marry you ... ah! s**t now we are engaged... ANYWAY! they look so sweet and happy :)

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