Woman Posts Her Doctor’s Pic Without His Consent To Sexualize Him, Gets Destroyed In The Comment Section
Just recently we had a post about the Man Who Has It All, a parody account that looks at sexism and bias by cleverly flipping gender roles in everyday situations. Well, now we have a similar situation that occurred in real life.
Twitter user purple goddess shared a pic of her male dermatologist, who she described as “fine as sh*t”. The pic, taken without the knowledge of the doctor, quickly went viral as people demanded to know where they could find the hunky skin specialist.
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Plenty of other female admirers were quick to agree
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However, some people began to question if the whole thing wasn’t just a little bit creepy
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What if a guy had taken a sneak pic of an attractive woman at work, just doing her job? One comment, in particular, flipped things around by taking on the kind of accusatory tone more commonly found among feminists pointing out examples of sexism.
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Purple Goddess wasn’t finished yet though. Who knows, perhaps the doctor was quite happy with the situation, seeing it as a nice compliment and good for business. For many people, however, encouraging ‘stalking’ and telling people where to find him was unacceptable behavior, and a step too far.
Determined to see her dermatologist go viral, she continued to share information about him, even going as far as sharing his location
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Bored Panda managed to get a hold of the man himself, to give his feelings about his picture suddenly trending on Twitter, without even knowing it had been taken
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“My first reaction was just pure anxiety,” Dr. Imran Aslam us. “I am a very low key individual so when I first heard that I was trending on Twitter I was kind of freaking out, like “oh my god what is happening.” I started getting texts from friends all over the country, some of whom I hadn’t spoken to in years, telling me that I’m the top post on Twitter.”
“Once the anxiety settled though, and I realized that most people were receiving my picture favorably, I started to find the whole situation pretty funny. The comments on Twitter were hilarious, people were posting all sort of ridiculous things and the picture just kept getting liked. I think it got over 20,000 likes or something. It was crazy.”
“Regarding the discussion of sexual harassment and double standards: I thought that the Reddit discussion was quite interesting and that many individuals made excellent points. By definition, many of the comments on my picture would be considered a form of sexual harassment, and I can totally understand how people consider this to be a double standard in light of the #metoo movement. And that if those same comments were made about a woman there would an uproar.”
“From my perspective, I would be remiss if I didn’t acknowledge the fact that I never felt that I was a “victim”. As I reflect more on this sentiment I realize the reason for this is undoubtedly because of my “male privilege.” I have had the privilege of never once feeling threatened or intimated by a woman in a sexual manner, I have had the privilege of never being catcalled, and I have had the privilege of never experiencing what it’s like to be followed home by a stranger that was a woman.”
“It is because of these liberties that we enjoy as males that I think the sexual harassment discussion may have to be interpreted differently in my situation.”
People continued to post their opinions on the situation
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Of course, men and women can have vastly different standards when it comes to this kind of thing. Men, in general, suffer less from everyday fears of being approached, followed, and stalked by sexually aggressive women. Most guys I know would have taken the whole thing as a massive compliment, and carried on with their lives. However, the incident did raise an interesting discussion about privacy, rights about having your image taken and shared, and being objectified while at work.
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Posting the photo without his consent is not cool. If he had consented it would have been a whole different story.
I sometimes downvote posts on BoredPanda because it includes posts of strangers that I feel cross the line.
Load More Replies...Change this to an unauthorised photo of a 'fine' female dermatologist and give out her location, and the feminist brigade would have been all over this- and rightly so. It should be no different when it's a man. The lengths that social media go to is just scary and downright creepy. I'm curious to know what the dermatologist's reaction is to this story.
Feminism is about equality for all, let's get that straight now. Also, the dermatologist states on his Twitter feed "This is sexual harassment" , this is his reaction.
Load More Replies..."Reverse sexism" isn't righting a wrong ... it's still wrong. If the guy looked at the camera I'd say he was on board with it and then it would be fine. But a sneaky shot is still a creepy shot and shouldn't be posted, no matter the sexes involved.
There is no such thing as "reverse sexism". There's just sexism, regardless of who is doing it to whom.
Load More Replies...Completely unacceptable. As a person who grew up in the pre-social media era, this is literally my worst nightmare. Doesn't matter if it was a good photo, doesn't matter if the comment was nice. Doesn't matter if posted by a man or a woman. At my work I am in a private setting - I mean, can the doctor take secret photos of you? If not, put that phone down for 10 minutes and let him do his job.
If the doctor had given his consent, she would be okay in what she did up to the point of posting his address online. But she did everything under the radar. I read the statements from everyone.."He should take it as a compliment. She just said he was fine as hell..." Now remember, not too long ago, the Me Too movement that saw men getting fired and ostracized for doing things similar to what this woman did. Now what's the difference..oh yeah..he's male and she's the aggressor. Does anyone see how sexist that is? One person even said "He's unlikely to be aggressively sought after by women..." It's still wrong to expose a person like that without their permission. She can count herself lucky if he doesn't take her to court.
Girl....you're not wrong. But ffs just quietly text the pic to your BFF and leave it at that. Don't put that on social media. It's rude.
He at a minimum needs to bar this 'patient' from his practice and should sue her for posting his photo w/o consent. Again, if the tables were reversed he would lose his practice...
He didn't feel threatened or harassed by the situation so he doesn't need to sue or do any of that because you feel he should.
Load More Replies...This is just plain creepy. It was gross anyway, but then to post his contact information? Has this girl never used the internet before? That's a massive no-no. How would she feel having her contact information go viral?
I see this all the time and think, hang on a minute, Women complain about men doing it to them but yet women are allowed to do it to men. Double standards. Just don’t do it full stop.
"but yet women are allowed to do it to men" - she was called out for doing it. How is that being allowed to do it? She was bashed for it just like a man would have been bashed for it. Had everybody supported her, I could completely agree with you, but her action was not supported.
Load More Replies...If it is the other way around, like a male patient took a photo of his doctor posted it online without his consent, the reaction will be totally different. Yeah it is totally unethical and truly sexual harassment. Shame, shame, shame.
In what way would the reaction "be totally different"? Do you think social media would have supported a male patient posting his female doctor in this way? Social media railed this woman for making this post, so I can only assume you mean social media would embrace it if it were the other way around and I think you are wrong on that point.
Load More Replies...I have had the privilege of never once feeling threatened or intimated by a woman in a sexual manner, I have had the privilege of never being catcalled, and I have had the privilege of never experiencing what it’s like to be followed home by a stranger that was a woman.” “It is because of these liberties that we enjoy as males that I think the sexual harassment discussion may have to be interpreted differently in my situation.” wow look what he said
"Oh, this man fine as hell. Lemme doxx the sh*t out of him. You're welcome." I'm glad he's being so chill about it because he'd have a hell of a case if he wanted to sue her. What she did was so far out of line I can't even believe it.
Technically, she didn't doxx him. She posted his business card. A business card is intended to be share and is a mini advertisement. If she had posted his home address, his gym or even favorite coffee shop, that would more fall into doxxing. The picture and the objectification are what was wrong. I do wonder how she'd react if someone took her picture and posted it with similar comments, then posted her place of work?
Load More Replies...His extremely well articulated and socially conscious response is what made me attracted to him. ♥ (he's physically attractive of course, but for me that's pretty hollow)
She is free to think and feel whatever she wants, but she needs to keep it to herself. What the doc says is the most interesting of all, and shows that he should be recognized for his intelligence and self awareness, and not because some horny bint reduced him to a sex object.
I'm curious now... since she posted his business card online, if he gets harassed will he be able to sue her? And we all know he's going to be harassed unfortunately. Some people just do not think about the consequences of their actions. I hope that nothing happens to him because of her bad actions
Actually, contrary to what most are saying the business card is the least troublesome part of this. A business card is a mini billboard. It is an advertisement for the business. So her sharing his card could likely bring him more clients. What was troublesome was the objectification and posting his pic without permission along with her intent to "make this go viral." It was never really about promoting his business and it wasn't about him as a person.
Load More Replies...Ummm the link bored panda gave to her twitter in the picture (which is blurred on here) of his business card can easily be followed to her account and on there the information is still available, not blurred
It is creepy. At least don't show the world his address. Too many weirdos out there
She should have gotten the man's consent before posting the picture and she definitely shouldn't have posted his work address. This goes for both genders.
I'm glad he wasn't bothered by it. It does bother me that not one of those women, especially the original poster, stopped to think for a minute how this would have been if the genders were reversed.
Totally wrong! I'm glad the fellow is okay with this happening but it does NOT excuse such reckless and rotten behavior.
C'mone baby. Was just kidding! It doesn't hurt! He asked fot it! She should ve dressed less sexy&provocating...oh wait!
I hope he saw the tweet, and i hope he took her to court. This is so wrong.
did you see StudMuffin's response. he related the guy to celebritites with unconsented photos. One problem: celebrities are public figures
Okay, not to throw a knot in your rope.... but isn't this reverse sexual harassment? Food for thought guys. He didn't ask for her attention and yet he got it in spades. If the shoe was on the other foot ladies, how would you feel? When anyone throws unwanted attention your way or inappropriate words, the call it sexual harassment. I don't know how she could even think about going back there and if I was her Doctor, I would refuse her as a patient.
The dermatologist gets it though: I never felt that I was a “victim”. As I reflect more on this sentiment I realize the reason for this is undoubtedly because of my “male privilege.” Lots of lines crossed here (sending this guys practice address?) but this guy's awareness is awesome.
Apparently the phrase "me too" that all these people are claiming to be part of is only on behalf of women...double standard. It's wrong, it's sexist, it's the same no matter who is in what position.
Whether what she did was right or wrong, it was not "sexual harassment" as someone said in the Twitter comments. "Sexual harassment" is not just ANY bad behavior related to unwanted sexual attention or action. Dear World: Please use terms correctly.
Stupid girl, she should be prosecuted. If it had been the other way around everybody would be on his case crying "harassment". I would be fuming, I've never posted a photo of myself online, EVER, and NO ONE has the right to make that decision for me. I don't care about him either, he doesn't seem too worried. But she should answer for what she did.
Well, posting a photo with him being unaware is totally uncool. That being said, I asked my primary Doc if she had ever met the Ortho guy she referred me to. She had not. (He's about 6' 6, with reddish hair and a reddish gold beard, really good looking AND sweet). I was like, "OMG are you kidding me? He's a freaking Viking!"
That doc is really cool with how he approached and discussed the thread.
I wonder how different he would feel if he suddenly got lots of MEN saying things like "I'd hit that" or "I would ride that all night long"? How would he feel if he was suddenly catcalled by a lot of MEN? Would he still feel flattered? Especially if it was big "daddy bear" type men.
It just show how much double standards certain women have. If it was a man that did it with a woman, you should hear the primal scream from them.
People keep saying it's sexual harassment and no different for a man. Giving out the location and taking the pics without consent was wrong but not sexual harassment. He wasn't threatened by it in anyway, as he stated. Most men don't deal with what women go through on a daily Basis. I'm sick of people trying to make men and women completely the same or equal in every damn way.
This whole "taking pictures without consent" issue was blown out of proportion by social media. I mean - look at all the parents posting pictures of their babies and children online. How will those kids feel about it once they are old enough to understand? Posting pictures without conent is NEVER ok. No matter the circumstances. Just don't do it. THE END.
This is not good. If it had been a man doing the same to a young woman, would everyone still think it was ok?
What if it was a man posting the pic of a woman saying she was hot and then later sharing his work location?
sexualizing people online, bad. Shaming them and spreading hate, good. the f is wrong with you.
I think posting the pic was not moral or acceptable, but not necessarily awful. She crossed the line when she posted his info. Who the hell does that?
The only explanation I've ever received when these things happen: ''It's different when a woman does it.''
Call me cynical, but between the picture with the obvious "sexy pose" (and very conveniently taken without even him noticing it ? Try to picture where here phone would be to take the picture...), and the interview where he finds actually "funny" the attention (with his full named displayed...). I'm not saying it's staged for some free publicity, but if it was, I wouldn't be surprised.
Reading the updated post, I come away with this: 1. PG shows a lack of understanding about personal boundaries that is, unfortunately, more common in the area of cellphones & social media. Taking the picture without his permission was tacky. 2. To post his practice information, while not illegal, (he does operate, what one assumes is, a public practice) was equally tacky. It's one thing to say I have this great Dr. if anyone in my area needs one & another to recommend him to the whole world based on his looks. 3. They probably need to have a serious conversation about exactly what patient/Dr. privilege entails & make clear what she's done is not included. 4. The Dr. himself makes a clear & coherent statement why he feels less threatened. It may be a double standard, but the standards are not equal. Not to ignore female on male agression, but the reverse is more common & often more dangerous. 5. People need to show more respect to those they admire.
Imagine the outrage if a man had posted a surreptitious photo of his female dermatologist with the same comment!
People are outraged about this too. Did you read the post?
Load More Replies...If a man posted a pic of a woman dr. every feminist on the planet would be screaming for his immediate termination if not execution. I'm not saying this woman was terrible for doing it, maybe it just shows you it's not "toxic masculinity" it's just human nature.
he is handsome though. but I would have kept him for myself and not share with anyone lol
if this had happened to a woman....damn it would have been a court case or something huge. im a woman and its just not right. if she had just said "my doctor is really hot" without a picture it might have been alright but with the picture its just bad. and the "where he is" is not allowable.
The thimg that bothers me the most in this situation is the blatant and obvious demonstration of double standard for what is considered acceptable. That being said, he is hot, tho! :D
Where is the double standard? Lots of people are saying that it wasn’t ok.
Load More Replies...But if it had been a man taking a photo of a woman everyone would probably just say 'boys will be boys.' and it would not have become an article on Bored Panda.
It is a huge deal, especially because the photo was taken in secret at a doctor's office. Not a public place (where, in my opinion, also be nice to others and maybe don't film and drool over hot people who are just minding their own business). Would you be upset if your doctor took a secret photo of you and posted it online, "oh my patient is fine"? Same thing, as in you expected to have privacy there.
Load More Replies...People would definitely have still been mad if the genders were reversed.
Load More Replies...Posting the photo without his consent is not cool. If he had consented it would have been a whole different story.
I sometimes downvote posts on BoredPanda because it includes posts of strangers that I feel cross the line.
Load More Replies...Change this to an unauthorised photo of a 'fine' female dermatologist and give out her location, and the feminist brigade would have been all over this- and rightly so. It should be no different when it's a man. The lengths that social media go to is just scary and downright creepy. I'm curious to know what the dermatologist's reaction is to this story.
Feminism is about equality for all, let's get that straight now. Also, the dermatologist states on his Twitter feed "This is sexual harassment" , this is his reaction.
Load More Replies..."Reverse sexism" isn't righting a wrong ... it's still wrong. If the guy looked at the camera I'd say he was on board with it and then it would be fine. But a sneaky shot is still a creepy shot and shouldn't be posted, no matter the sexes involved.
There is no such thing as "reverse sexism". There's just sexism, regardless of who is doing it to whom.
Load More Replies...Completely unacceptable. As a person who grew up in the pre-social media era, this is literally my worst nightmare. Doesn't matter if it was a good photo, doesn't matter if the comment was nice. Doesn't matter if posted by a man or a woman. At my work I am in a private setting - I mean, can the doctor take secret photos of you? If not, put that phone down for 10 minutes and let him do his job.
If the doctor had given his consent, she would be okay in what she did up to the point of posting his address online. But she did everything under the radar. I read the statements from everyone.."He should take it as a compliment. She just said he was fine as hell..." Now remember, not too long ago, the Me Too movement that saw men getting fired and ostracized for doing things similar to what this woman did. Now what's the difference..oh yeah..he's male and she's the aggressor. Does anyone see how sexist that is? One person even said "He's unlikely to be aggressively sought after by women..." It's still wrong to expose a person like that without their permission. She can count herself lucky if he doesn't take her to court.
Girl....you're not wrong. But ffs just quietly text the pic to your BFF and leave it at that. Don't put that on social media. It's rude.
He at a minimum needs to bar this 'patient' from his practice and should sue her for posting his photo w/o consent. Again, if the tables were reversed he would lose his practice...
He didn't feel threatened or harassed by the situation so he doesn't need to sue or do any of that because you feel he should.
Load More Replies...This is just plain creepy. It was gross anyway, but then to post his contact information? Has this girl never used the internet before? That's a massive no-no. How would she feel having her contact information go viral?
I see this all the time and think, hang on a minute, Women complain about men doing it to them but yet women are allowed to do it to men. Double standards. Just don’t do it full stop.
"but yet women are allowed to do it to men" - she was called out for doing it. How is that being allowed to do it? She was bashed for it just like a man would have been bashed for it. Had everybody supported her, I could completely agree with you, but her action was not supported.
Load More Replies...If it is the other way around, like a male patient took a photo of his doctor posted it online without his consent, the reaction will be totally different. Yeah it is totally unethical and truly sexual harassment. Shame, shame, shame.
In what way would the reaction "be totally different"? Do you think social media would have supported a male patient posting his female doctor in this way? Social media railed this woman for making this post, so I can only assume you mean social media would embrace it if it were the other way around and I think you are wrong on that point.
Load More Replies...I have had the privilege of never once feeling threatened or intimated by a woman in a sexual manner, I have had the privilege of never being catcalled, and I have had the privilege of never experiencing what it’s like to be followed home by a stranger that was a woman.” “It is because of these liberties that we enjoy as males that I think the sexual harassment discussion may have to be interpreted differently in my situation.” wow look what he said
"Oh, this man fine as hell. Lemme doxx the sh*t out of him. You're welcome." I'm glad he's being so chill about it because he'd have a hell of a case if he wanted to sue her. What she did was so far out of line I can't even believe it.
Technically, she didn't doxx him. She posted his business card. A business card is intended to be share and is a mini advertisement. If she had posted his home address, his gym or even favorite coffee shop, that would more fall into doxxing. The picture and the objectification are what was wrong. I do wonder how she'd react if someone took her picture and posted it with similar comments, then posted her place of work?
Load More Replies...His extremely well articulated and socially conscious response is what made me attracted to him. ♥ (he's physically attractive of course, but for me that's pretty hollow)
She is free to think and feel whatever she wants, but she needs to keep it to herself. What the doc says is the most interesting of all, and shows that he should be recognized for his intelligence and self awareness, and not because some horny bint reduced him to a sex object.
I'm curious now... since she posted his business card online, if he gets harassed will he be able to sue her? And we all know he's going to be harassed unfortunately. Some people just do not think about the consequences of their actions. I hope that nothing happens to him because of her bad actions
Actually, contrary to what most are saying the business card is the least troublesome part of this. A business card is a mini billboard. It is an advertisement for the business. So her sharing his card could likely bring him more clients. What was troublesome was the objectification and posting his pic without permission along with her intent to "make this go viral." It was never really about promoting his business and it wasn't about him as a person.
Load More Replies...Ummm the link bored panda gave to her twitter in the picture (which is blurred on here) of his business card can easily be followed to her account and on there the information is still available, not blurred
It is creepy. At least don't show the world his address. Too many weirdos out there
She should have gotten the man's consent before posting the picture and she definitely shouldn't have posted his work address. This goes for both genders.
I'm glad he wasn't bothered by it. It does bother me that not one of those women, especially the original poster, stopped to think for a minute how this would have been if the genders were reversed.
Totally wrong! I'm glad the fellow is okay with this happening but it does NOT excuse such reckless and rotten behavior.
C'mone baby. Was just kidding! It doesn't hurt! He asked fot it! She should ve dressed less sexy&provocating...oh wait!
I hope he saw the tweet, and i hope he took her to court. This is so wrong.
did you see StudMuffin's response. he related the guy to celebritites with unconsented photos. One problem: celebrities are public figures
Okay, not to throw a knot in your rope.... but isn't this reverse sexual harassment? Food for thought guys. He didn't ask for her attention and yet he got it in spades. If the shoe was on the other foot ladies, how would you feel? When anyone throws unwanted attention your way or inappropriate words, the call it sexual harassment. I don't know how she could even think about going back there and if I was her Doctor, I would refuse her as a patient.
The dermatologist gets it though: I never felt that I was a “victim”. As I reflect more on this sentiment I realize the reason for this is undoubtedly because of my “male privilege.” Lots of lines crossed here (sending this guys practice address?) but this guy's awareness is awesome.
Apparently the phrase "me too" that all these people are claiming to be part of is only on behalf of women...double standard. It's wrong, it's sexist, it's the same no matter who is in what position.
Whether what she did was right or wrong, it was not "sexual harassment" as someone said in the Twitter comments. "Sexual harassment" is not just ANY bad behavior related to unwanted sexual attention or action. Dear World: Please use terms correctly.
Stupid girl, she should be prosecuted. If it had been the other way around everybody would be on his case crying "harassment". I would be fuming, I've never posted a photo of myself online, EVER, and NO ONE has the right to make that decision for me. I don't care about him either, he doesn't seem too worried. But she should answer for what she did.
Well, posting a photo with him being unaware is totally uncool. That being said, I asked my primary Doc if she had ever met the Ortho guy she referred me to. She had not. (He's about 6' 6, with reddish hair and a reddish gold beard, really good looking AND sweet). I was like, "OMG are you kidding me? He's a freaking Viking!"
That doc is really cool with how he approached and discussed the thread.
I wonder how different he would feel if he suddenly got lots of MEN saying things like "I'd hit that" or "I would ride that all night long"? How would he feel if he was suddenly catcalled by a lot of MEN? Would he still feel flattered? Especially if it was big "daddy bear" type men.
It just show how much double standards certain women have. If it was a man that did it with a woman, you should hear the primal scream from them.
People keep saying it's sexual harassment and no different for a man. Giving out the location and taking the pics without consent was wrong but not sexual harassment. He wasn't threatened by it in anyway, as he stated. Most men don't deal with what women go through on a daily Basis. I'm sick of people trying to make men and women completely the same or equal in every damn way.
This whole "taking pictures without consent" issue was blown out of proportion by social media. I mean - look at all the parents posting pictures of their babies and children online. How will those kids feel about it once they are old enough to understand? Posting pictures without conent is NEVER ok. No matter the circumstances. Just don't do it. THE END.
This is not good. If it had been a man doing the same to a young woman, would everyone still think it was ok?
What if it was a man posting the pic of a woman saying she was hot and then later sharing his work location?
sexualizing people online, bad. Shaming them and spreading hate, good. the f is wrong with you.
I think posting the pic was not moral or acceptable, but not necessarily awful. She crossed the line when she posted his info. Who the hell does that?
The only explanation I've ever received when these things happen: ''It's different when a woman does it.''
Call me cynical, but between the picture with the obvious "sexy pose" (and very conveniently taken without even him noticing it ? Try to picture where here phone would be to take the picture...), and the interview where he finds actually "funny" the attention (with his full named displayed...). I'm not saying it's staged for some free publicity, but if it was, I wouldn't be surprised.
Reading the updated post, I come away with this: 1. PG shows a lack of understanding about personal boundaries that is, unfortunately, more common in the area of cellphones & social media. Taking the picture without his permission was tacky. 2. To post his practice information, while not illegal, (he does operate, what one assumes is, a public practice) was equally tacky. It's one thing to say I have this great Dr. if anyone in my area needs one & another to recommend him to the whole world based on his looks. 3. They probably need to have a serious conversation about exactly what patient/Dr. privilege entails & make clear what she's done is not included. 4. The Dr. himself makes a clear & coherent statement why he feels less threatened. It may be a double standard, but the standards are not equal. Not to ignore female on male agression, but the reverse is more common & often more dangerous. 5. People need to show more respect to those they admire.
Imagine the outrage if a man had posted a surreptitious photo of his female dermatologist with the same comment!
People are outraged about this too. Did you read the post?
Load More Replies...If a man posted a pic of a woman dr. every feminist on the planet would be screaming for his immediate termination if not execution. I'm not saying this woman was terrible for doing it, maybe it just shows you it's not "toxic masculinity" it's just human nature.
he is handsome though. but I would have kept him for myself and not share with anyone lol
if this had happened to a woman....damn it would have been a court case or something huge. im a woman and its just not right. if she had just said "my doctor is really hot" without a picture it might have been alright but with the picture its just bad. and the "where he is" is not allowable.
The thimg that bothers me the most in this situation is the blatant and obvious demonstration of double standard for what is considered acceptable. That being said, he is hot, tho! :D
Where is the double standard? Lots of people are saying that it wasn’t ok.
Load More Replies...But if it had been a man taking a photo of a woman everyone would probably just say 'boys will be boys.' and it would not have become an article on Bored Panda.
It is a huge deal, especially because the photo was taken in secret at a doctor's office. Not a public place (where, in my opinion, also be nice to others and maybe don't film and drool over hot people who are just minding their own business). Would you be upset if your doctor took a secret photo of you and posted it online, "oh my patient is fine"? Same thing, as in you expected to have privacy there.
Load More Replies...People would definitely have still been mad if the genders were reversed.
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