Dad Overhears Son Bragging About Asking A Girl On A Date As A Prank, Teaches Him A Lesson
Recently, a dad turned to the AITA community on Reddit for a moral judgement. In a post that amassed 3.5k upvotes and 1.2k comments, dad explained that he overheard his 16-year-old son talking about something he didn’t like.
“My son recently had some friends over and things were going fine, I went upstairs at one point to bring them the pizza they had ordered when I overheard my son talking about how his friends owed him something,” the dad wrote.
It turned out the teen son pulled a prank on a girl in his class and this didn’t sit well with his father.
A dad wonders if he crossed the line by punishing his teen son for pulling a prank on a girl from his class
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Social media and, especially, YouTube are filled with pranks—DIY ones, hidden camera stunts, scare gags, you name it. There are countless different prank categories, from children pranking their clueless parents and grandparents to parents even pulling pranks on their little kids.
But as much as they are liked online, in reality, most pranking is very controversial. We’ve all heard about pranks going wrong, people getting real and lasting trauma from the prank scares, and victims having their self-esteem shattered.
Asking someone out on a date as a prank is commonly viewed as extremely problematic. Danny Jackson, an LGBTQ+ writer, recounted a hurtful high school memory of getting asked on a date in this piece for Medium.
“’Do you want to go out for real, though?’ Jack asked. My heart soared. I could only nod. For that moment, I was on top of the world,” Jackson wrote. “Then Jack spoke again. ‘Oh, just kidding!’ He started laughing like crazy.”
Not only did Jackson spend the entire winter fighting heartache, he could barely look at Jack. “I’m not sure how long it took to get over what had happened,” Jackson wrote, adding that the main point of the piece is to tell people not to ask people out as a joke.
The author explained: “Especially not teenage girls, whose self-esteem is already at a massively critical stage. One wrong move and she could suffer from self-esteem problems for the remainder of her life.”
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The wife was clearly a nasty piece in her school days and still is. How is this "not hurting anybody"? This girl is somebody and she will be hurt by this. But according to wifey as she lost the gene lottery her feelings don't have the same value as those people who randomly won it. Could not be more sickened by the son, wife's and in laws attitude, not to mention the rotten friend group.
That was my first thought too. "It's not hurting anybody." as if he and his dipshit friends are the only anybodys on earth, and everyone else is just an NPC playing backdrop to the movie that is this kid's life. Now, if this WERE a movie, however, she'd have turned the prankster down because she genuinely thought he wasn't good enough to bother with.
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What if this girl was already at her breaking point and this prank just pushed her over the edge? This was not a prank or a joke, this is bullying
Exactly. This girl may already have been bullied in the past since she is not popular. This kind of behavior can and does lead to suicide.
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Male or female, this is utter b******t. No one wants to be the target of this, and it's humiliating. Your wife literally seems super shallow.
I'd go even further than calling her shallow. She lacks empathy, and that is a very bad personality defect. I wonder if she's said things like this in the past.
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The wife was clearly a nasty piece in her school days and still is. How is this "not hurting anybody"? This girl is somebody and she will be hurt by this. But according to wifey as she lost the gene lottery her feelings don't have the same value as those people who randomly won it. Could not be more sickened by the son, wife's and in laws attitude, not to mention the rotten friend group.
That was my first thought too. "It's not hurting anybody." as if he and his dipshit friends are the only anybodys on earth, and everyone else is just an NPC playing backdrop to the movie that is this kid's life. Now, if this WERE a movie, however, she'd have turned the prankster down because she genuinely thought he wasn't good enough to bother with.
Load More Replies... What if this girl was already at her breaking point and this prank just pushed her over the edge? This was not a prank or a joke, this is bullying
Exactly. This girl may already have been bullied in the past since she is not popular. This kind of behavior can and does lead to suicide.
Load More Replies... Male or female, this is utter b******t. No one wants to be the target of this, and it's humiliating. Your wife literally seems super shallow.
I'd go even further than calling her shallow. She lacks empathy, and that is a very bad personality defect. I wonder if she's said things like this in the past.
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