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We're back with another important post featuring relatable illustrations by Lainey Molnar. Many of you may already be familiar with this artist. However, for those of you who need to catch up with her previous work, we recommend checking out our earlier Bored Panda posts where we shared Lainey's best illustrations.

It seems that people are becoming increasingly aware of the beauty standards that were once imposed on every woman. Nonetheless, some women still face unrealistic expectations from toxic partners, friends, or even family members. This is one of the themes Molnar challenges in her work. The illustrator highlights the absurdity of the criteria women are expected to fulfill in order to be considered worthy. She also addresses various misconceptions about femininity, revealing how misunderstood women still are.

Scroll down to see the most recent selection of illustrations shared by the artist and to learn more about her recent work.

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In order to get more valuable insights about this unique series, we reached out to Lainey Molnar and asked her some more questions regarding her recent work. We wanted to know what the artist considers the most rewarding aspects of being an illustrator. Lainey shared with us: “I'm very grateful for being able to be creative as a profession, as someone who doodled her way through school, this is such a dream. I never believed anyone who said ‘You need a diploma and a secure job, you can be creative in your free time’ and I think my delusion that I can be and do whatever I want and be successful at it definitely contributed to me doing this right now. But the best part is always reading and hearing the reactions to my illustrations, all the personal stories, and the conversations they start. As soon as the comics leave my hands, their purpose is to ignite these conversations and provoke thoughts.”

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    #3

    Woman having good time with cats

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    JB
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I RAISED my standards and am having the most emotionally contented time of my life chugging wine with my cats instead of being the physical and emotional punching bag for men who NEVER deserved me.

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    Asked how her art style evolved over time, Molnar said: “I had phases during my life, sometimes I exclusively used markers or pencils, but for the most part digital art with the signature black outlines was my personal style. What I see is that my skills improve significantly the more hours I put in, if I look back at my work 2-3 years ago, I see something super unrefined, the change is so big. I really recommend the practice to everyone regardless of talent, because improvement in drawing can be pretty visible and it's so satisfying to see!”

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    #4

    Man and woman hate

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    SeaJaySea
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Louder for those in the back! Sad this is even a thing :(

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    We were also wondering if Lainey could describe the most challenging part of creating an illustration. She told us: “I think the most challenging part is the overthinking. I have a huge list of illustration ideas and from picking one to finishing the illustration it's a pretty straight line, but before that, my brain just goes all over the place trying to think about how people would react, whether it is controversial, is there any relevance, did I post too much of a topic recently, etc. I'm doing my best to use my intuition more, but of course, this is my job, I have to be conscious about it!”

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    #7

    Man and woman having a discussion

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    Do-nut touch da donut
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I absolutly HATE! When people say 'thats not my job' to things that clearly are! You chose to be a parent so it IS your job to work with your spouse to take care of your kids, its not the sole job of one or the other its a team effort... chores too

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    Lastly, we asked the artist to share an anecdote about a particularly memorable interaction she’s had with a reader who deeply related to one of her illustrations. We found out: “I just received a message from someone who started following me as a teenager from my home country and said she didn't really understand what I meant with all this feminism. Since then she moved abroad and away from the toxic thought patterns and said that suddenly everything started to make sense and that she is so thankful that I opened her eyes to so much in the world and prepared her for a different way of thinking. It really means a lot, because every little way one little life is changed by my work is a huge accomplishment to me!”

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    #10

    How many men you slept with

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    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was everyone an adult? Was it consensual? Then it's none of my business.

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    #11

    Women talking about man

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    Sky Render
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe he could learn to cook for himself instead.

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    #12

    Parenting past vs now

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    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is also what the fat acceptance movement is about. We just wanted to be treated like human beings, the same as non-fat people are.

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    #13

    Relationship creation

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    Goose of the Ahonkalypse
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so true. It's important to talk about unrealistic romance expectations because they're so present in so much media, especially in stuff that's typically geared toward teens or women. Which is not to say there's anything wrong with the genre so much as it needs to be talked about just like unrealistic body expectations.

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    #14

    Toys

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    Sky Render
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as you can manage your life, who freaking cares what you do in your spare time?

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    #15

    Waking up together

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    Vivian
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i wake up at 3:50 am every morning

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    #16

    Boy math

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    TooTall
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The media-push to make money from insecurities affects men too.

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    #17

    Belly difference

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    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men get scarily angry and abusive if you're a woman he doesn't want to f*ck.

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    #18

    Women's insecurities

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    Sky Render
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally I don't want to look like a Barbie doll and don't see the appeal. But then I make a poor target for this sort of thing anyway.

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    #20

    Diet

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    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hated my body for many years and agonized that I could never get below 150lbs (and I only got to 150-something by starving myself and running 4-5 miles multiple times a week). As it turns out, I would have to be emaciated for that ever to happen; even when I was doing my best to starve myself, I just don't have the build to meet modern beauty standards. The military has NOT helped things, since if you fail weigh-ins, the tape measure system is completely broken; I'd have to surgically remove part of my pelvis to pass the rope-n-choke as we call it.

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    #21

    Sleep toubles

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    Sky Render
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget the white noise generator!

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    #22

    How I am how I fee

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    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Normalize answering this question honestly. If you're not okay but don't wanna talk about it, ask for support!

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    #23

    Basic human right

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    Mocha the Lion
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i named mine Jason! (i got it on friday the thirteenth)

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    #24

    Pleasure

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    Violet Jensen
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    we love BOUNDARIES they rule and tbh every time I have a boundary convo with my gf we get closer

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    #25

    Bucket list for summer

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    MotherRobinson
    Community Member
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Referencing Jonah Hills boundary list

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