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Woman Posts Outfit Pics Her Boyfriend Hates, Captions Each One With A Quote From Him (31 New Pics)
Olivia Jackson, a twenty-something-year-old Londoner, believes that nobody should succumb to outside pressure when it comes to clothing choices; people are free to wear whatever the hell they want. Even if the objections are coming from their significant other.
To illustrate her point, Jackson started a series called Clothes My Boyfriend Hates. "I'd started to really enjoy fashion but my boyfriend constantly made sarcastic comments about what I was wearing," the blogger said about the origins of her project. "I knew I couldn't be the only person who was just carrying on wearing what I wanted regardless, but equally I knew that there would be people out there who were impacted by their partner's or other's opinions – because I'd been there myself.
"So I thought I'd start documenting these clothes my boyfriend hates. Since then, I've been on a mission to empower women to do what makes them feel great."
Below, you will find the latest entries to Clothes My Boyfriend Hates and if you like the pictures, fire up Bored Panda's earlier piece on the series as well!
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#1
Don’t mind me, just squinting & working at home in my bright pink boilersuit! Oh how much my boyfriend hates this one. Think he made a joke about looking like a fluorescent mechanic when I first got it, ironically I now work in the automotive industry (but definitely not anywhere near the underneath of cars!)
Bobert Robertson 4 years ago
My mind went to fluorescent mechanic too.... not that that's a bad thing
Dan Buczynski 4 years ago
Looking forward to the next list where we pick apart your boyfriend's magnificent wardrobe
Natalia Allen 3 years ago
I loved the idea of boiler / jumpsuits until I had to get undressed to pee!
Jackson wanted to, and still aims to, empower women to dress for themselves rather than for others around them. And it's working. She regularly gets messages from women thanking her for inspiring them to be a bit braver with their fashion choices, which she absolutely loves.
The blogger herself gets her wardrobe inspiration from a lot of different places, particularly from the brilliant women who are on Instagram.
"I definitely inherited my love of bright colors from my mum and my grandma!" Jackson told Bored Panda. "I don't follow any specific rules or concepts—I just wear what makes me happy. I try to shop from lots of different places, mostly on the high street, but I'm always discovering new smaller brands to try. My more recent favorite discovery is Leim; functional jumpsuits you can go to the toilet in without taking them off!"
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#2
As you all know, spotty baggy dresses with trainers are usually #clothesmyboyfriendhates but a two year old said I was a princess whilst wearing it which he agreed with so this ones a winner!
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
Needs smaller handbag, dark shoes and small jewelry. Let the beauty of the dress go unchallenged by add ons.
Jackson's posts often include what she calls "sarcastic tones," which can be confusing for some viewers.
She said that very occasionally, the tone of her Instagram and blog posts is misinterpreted to mean that her boyfriend is controlling what she wears, which is absolutely not the case. After all, Olivia's partner still comes out with her wearing a hospital gown or a mechanic's outfit and is totally supportive.
"It's fair to say the sarcastic comments haven't stopped, and he still rolls his eyes at my fashion choices; I don't think that will ever stop!"
#3
A throwback because I love this (hated) dress I also love the fact this photo was taken about 7/8pm and it was LIGHT! I find the dark mornings/afternoons of the winter really hard & horrible. I don’t mind the cold at all, but as soon as it starts getting dark at 4pm at work I’m pretty sure my brain decides its time to shut down and I have to try 10x harder to focus. Anyone else!?
H Edwards 4 years ago
My boyfriend hates a lot of my clothes, in fact the more I love something the more he seems to hate it. I find it funny, and he would never stop me from wearing something.
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Jessica Nametz 4 years ago
I personally don't like a lot of the outfits on here, but this one is adorable! Very pretty and flattering!
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
Love the dress, agree about cold weather, but would feel better seeing this.
"Neither [me nor my boyfriend] thought my project would be this popular! I think he's very proud of the community of empowered women I've built and is happy that I'm enjoying posting the clothes he hates," Jackson said.
Wearing clothes that she feels truly comfortable in, Jackson found that her friends and family love her new style. Now, she encourages everyone to do the same.
#4
Boyfriend famously called this the technicolour dream dress.
Lisa loves cats 4 years ago
oooh! the boyfriend description made me laugh but i think the dress is really pretty
backatya 4 years ago
that's because you're a girl you think it's "pretty"
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yes. 4 years ago
It was red and yellow and green and brown and scarlet and black and ochre and peach and ruby and olive and violet and fawn and (I don't remember the rest....)
Nevaeh Flores 4 years ago
The brights? are just say f*** it and put it in with the lights
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#5
When he rolls his eyes at your dress.. then his sister turns up at ours also in a spotty dress. We didn’t even plan it
#6
I ~might~ have bought the most hated item yet!? I loved wearing this on New Year’s Eve. J came in when I was getting ready and said, ‘oh I thought you were wearing that new dress tonight’ ‘yes but I felt too overdressed’ ‘so you put on a velvet smoking jacket to wear INSIDE?’ Well...
In all seriousness it’s going to be a jacket which lasts me years I’m sure.
#7
Just another pair of leather trousers he hates ‘but not as much as the other leather trousers, they’re awful’ so I’m taking this as a win.
#8
Frills + dungarees = obviously #clothesmyboyfriendhates
Sara Samul 4 years ago
I think it's adorable and have been looking for this exact outfit here in the states got more than a year!! I say wear it every weekend!!!
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
This girl has talent! Independent , open minded and strong willed. Respect for her!
#9
These leather trousers are defo the most hated item at the moment. I love this outfit for work though - a good balance of feeling smarter than jeans but still super comfy and fashionable.Despite layering up, I was still freezing in them today though - anyone else feel the cold easily!?
troufaki13 4 years ago
Your boyfriend obviously has taste because look at you, but not in fashion!
Kim Lionessa 4 years ago
Keep the leather pants, but get rid of the long coat - its way too long for your frame, makes legs look short.
Octavia Hansen 4 years ago
This is practical and comfy . . . you can relax while everyone else is trying to carry off some look not for them!
Mimsi Smith 4 years ago
If I started dressing as well as you, no one would recognize me. You are an inspiration.
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
Now you need the black boots with a splash of color around the upper body.
#10
A baggy dress and jacket he hates but we’re relaxing by the sea and life is good.
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
There tends to be compitition between the garments and add on pieces that take away from the outstanding sharpness of the look. Just the cloths? Perfect.
#11
I’m sure you can imagine the granny/Princess Margaret-based comments this @andotherstories cardigan attracted. The magpie in me loves the buttons!
Penelope Andrews 3 years ago
I love it .. my Mom had the same sweater.. I wanted it.. love it..
Susan L. Miller 4 years ago
I had a similar one and my boyfriend called it my "old lady sweater"! I ignored him, of course...
#12
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT DAD SANDALS? Is that even what they’re called? Or dork sandals as me and my mum call them? These got an ‘absolutely NOT’ from the boyfriend but I love them. They’re @johnlewisandpartners (popped a link on my stories) and are soo comfy. I’ve also lusted after many a @teva and @arizona.l.o.v.e pair too. They’ve been perfect for long coastal walks this weekend, as well as for pottering around town, much to my boyfriend’s dismay. I’ll share some of my fave accounts who rock a chunky sandal on my stories too! X
Sue Bradley 4 years ago
They might not be the prettiest but when you're out for a long walk - does it really matter!!
Nomadus Aureus 4 years ago
I live and breath my Tevas. They are *the* most comfortable sandals ever.
ZenitaBonita 4 years ago
Me too! I feel so attached to them cause they’ve been with me every time I went abroad for a longer period of time. Favourite travel buddy :)
Load More Replies... Bobert Robertson 4 years ago
I can relate to this one.... I want a pair of these so bad, remind of my childhood. My wife thinks I'm nuts because they are too "dad-ish." Weird thing is, I AM a dad...
Lindsey Judd-Bruder 3 years ago
I LOVE sandals like this!! So comfy, and your feet stay cooler!!
#13
Oh these matching pyjamas are definitely #clothesmyboyfriendhates. I’m not sure if it’s cos they’re matching (and matching my phone case); the pattern; or the fact I am wearing them on repeat that he hates. They’re so comfy though. Something I’ll miss when life goes back to ‘normal’ is being ready for bed, make up off, skincare routine done and in some jazzy pyjamas at 9pm. As much as I LOVE an early night I probably only used to have one once a month or so. Having a (busy) full time job, this wonderful account, and various other bits to keep me busy I probably didn’t take enough time to just *chill*. That being said I am also very ready for a big night out / rosé on the beach somewhere hot at lunchtime / just an after work beer. For now I’ll stay in these dreamy jammies and watch desperate housewives with a tea.
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
Knowing how to enjoy relaxing will get a person through trying times and dark days.
John Bennick 4 years ago
Knowing that you're undoubtedly naked underneath your "jammies" makes them ridiculously sexy to me.
#14
A hated polka dot dress: winter edition. I wore this a lot in spring and summer with a tee underneath (swipe across) but today I popped it on with a roll neck underneath with some tights and boots and ta-dah! A winter outfit. J even asked me if it was new.
Mr. Derpy Dino 4 years ago
I can't see green, when i lok at it, my head aches..
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Johanne Trudeau 4 years ago
What's wrong with your boyfriend? All of your fashion choices are fine...
Octavia Hansen 4 years ago
It's like watching an optical illusion . . . I don't want to look away!
#15
Can’t wait to get this ‘dressing gown’ coat back on now the colder weather is coming! He reeeeally hates this one. I have no idea why ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Glory The Rainwing 4 years ago
I want it too but you can have it. I'll find something like it!
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Lauren Reder 4 years ago
He's wrong on this too. Wear it with your pink dress with polka dots, just to spite him.
#16
Put on a bright jumper and spotty headband on Saturday I know if J was about he’d defo be taking the piss out of my headband matching my phone case / my bright jumper / the fact I was even bothering to get dressed when we are going nowhere! It’s been three weeks now & I think I might miss his sarcastic comments 🤪 surely not!
#17
My total guilty pleasure, this onesie. I hate that I love it. It’s so comfy. I miss it when it’s in the wash. Perfect for the unpacking I’ve been doing this evening. Anyone else got guilty pleasure house clothes? (This isn’t even one he hates, he bought it for me years ago )
Phantom Lion 4 years ago
you need a new boyfriend because you have a better taste in fashion than him
Teri Campisi 4 years ago
Dont think I would like them since you haveto just about undress just to pee!
#18
Went for my daily walk in my nightie ‘but it doesn’t look like you’re going out in a nightie, it just looks like one, y’know?’ - I’ll take that as a win. I’ll link this on my stories as it’s in the sale and dreamy. Pearl straps and jewel print - what more could you want!? Will wear with a t shirt under it in spring too, and a roll neck in winter👌And yes, I am working on getting my chest the same colour as my arms and getting rid of the watch strap tan line
Phantomwise 4 years ago
Are we sure this isn't just some scheme he has to get her to go naked? How can he actually hate this much of her wardrobe?
#19
When we move I’ll treat you guys to a new mirror and a tidy hallway (lol, ok, I’ll treat myself) but for now you’ve got this my gold spot dress paired with biker boots from Saturday night are totally
MellonCollie 4 years ago
Lovely dress & boots! I'm curious about the boyfriend's looks though ... good on this girl to keep wearing what she likes and mock the BF at the same time with her account :-D
Mimsi Smith 4 years ago
MellonCollie, I too am wondering what the boyfriend wears and how he styles himself.
Load More Replies... Lauren Reder 4 years ago
I'd like it better with a pump or wedge, but it's not deserving of hate. Your boyfriend's weird and very opinionated!
Octavia Hansen 4 years ago
Oooh, girl, we should be friends! A cup of tea, chocolate biscuits and CLOTHES!
#20
Not worn these in a while but think it’s time to bring back what he calls the CLOWN TROUSERS . They basically feel like wearing trackies outside the house though - which is win win, right? Do you have any clothes which feel super comfy but don’t look slobby?
MellonCollie 4 years ago
Ha, I have pants like these in jeans coloured tencel. Pinocchio trousers, according to my husband. Too bad for him I love them :-P
Bow, I’m a Slytherin 4 years ago
I have the most awesome baggy jeans, and I don’t think I’d be able to step outside the house anymore without them.
Lauren Reder 4 years ago
I think longer length would have made these perfect. A fitted black (dressier) top would make this a winner though!
#21
I’M SO HAPPY TO BE IN BOOTS! Less happy that my boyfriend asked if I was going to a ‘funeral rather than dinner? I thought you were going to a Turkish restaurant?’ (I did have a spectacular chicken sis and halloumi chips). As nervous as I am about a long covid winter ahead, I’m pleased the hot weather has left, I was ready for a change! I looove jumpers and boots. How about you? What’s your favourite season? X
Glory The Rainwing 4 years ago
Same! B-day in spring for me! Plus I love the flowers!
Load More Replies... Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
The purse is the good friend who pulled the dark cloths out of the closet for sunshine rehab.
PapillonOne 4 years ago
Autumn!! Although here in Florida it feels like summer 11 months of the year!!
#22
Even managed to wear something he hates to the gym I love this sweatshirt.
Kristof De Smet 4 years ago
I even like this one, but it doesn't look too comfortable for the gym
Bobert Robertson 4 years ago
It's like the clothing version of a mullet, except instead of business in the front, party in the back, it's business on the body, beekeeper on the arms
Becky Samuel 4 years ago
I look forward to seeing the "What was I thinking?" posts in a few years time from the *terrible* fashions around at the moment.
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Karin Gibson 4 years ago
I can't think of anything else that would be worse to wear to the gym. I hate floofy, puffy sleeves
Deborah Hall 4 years ago
That's not really a sweatshirt, and certainly not something to wear to the gym, lol
#23
How I feel about lockdown 3.0 oh what I’d give to be heading out in a totally fabulous, extra, coat to see friends without a care in the world (or a mask in sight!). But hey. Here we are - and I’m very aware that relatively I’m very lucky. If it’s ok with you, I’ll continue to share the clothes my boyfriend hates and hopefully making you smile during the next few weeks. That’s on the days I’m bothered to get dressed. They’re a bit scarce now, but happen occasionally, I promise...! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Emilycookie 4 years ago
I have a dress with pockets. not like the tiny pockets you see in women's clothes, actual pockets. I could fit my cell phone in one of them and have plenty of room to spare. That dress is now my favorite dress.
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
Put the pink shoes with the pink robe, cudddle up with your boyfriend and watch a movie.
#24
We’ve made it through another lockdown day & I did it smiling in toddler clothes. As my boyfriend took this photo he said ‘those slippers are truly ridiculous.’ Yes but they’re so fluffy and so pink (and a lovely gift from @thehomebeautylab ). Anyone else up for wearing ‘ridiculous’ clothes while WFH? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
A time and place for everything. Are you sure you even like your boyfriend?
#25
Still wishing I was going to the pub in this. Really miss Thursday and Friday night post-work drinks. But feeling more and more hopeful that it’ll happen soon! I don’t think I need to explain why he hates this jacket... ‘It’s not pink enough!’ bring on going out in bright clothes!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Ang.stl 4 years ago
I don’t know that I’d call it a muppet coat, but I also am in need of it!! So cute!!
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#26
Patent coats my boyfriend hates even in all black I’m getting an eye roll as we’re leaving the house. He moaned then agreed to take a photo, background his choice (‘bet you’ve never posted a photo with a toilet above you ey! Let’s think of a good toilet pun for you to post!’) Despite the toilet jokes all the way home, it felt good to be out. We headed to a local outdoor market, I was on the hunt for a fresh wreath (didn’t find one so if you have any recommendations in NE London let me know!). Now on the sofa with a roast in the oven, a candle lit and a glass of red wine in hand. We made it through another lockdown weekend, friends
Felice Coles 4 years ago
Huh. So he got to choose the background when you wanted your photo taken? Just wait until HE wants a photo of himself. Live in fear, bruh!
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
Self contained like packed tuna. I have no right to dislike those shoes but I REALLY dislike those shoes. No offence intended just difference of opinion.
Glory The Rainwing 4 years ago
At least M A N Y, M A A A A A A A A A A A A A N Y people like them!
#27
I got an eye roll this evening for my daily walk attire #clothesmyboyfriendhates
Duchess Raven Waves 4 years ago
Oh goodness. But hey. I look like someone who burns in the sun and drinks blood for survival. Kudos for being colorful
#28
#ShinyToesMyBoyfriendHates - naturally. Sliders had to stay on so you wouldn’t see my twat tan 😬 hope you’ve all had a great weekend!
Martha Higgins 4 years ago
In the US "twat" is not a word used in polite company. It's similar to the c*** word.
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Sarah Benedictus 3 years ago
while twat used to, and still means vagina in the UK, most people now use it as a variation of twit, and have no idea about it's origin. also tho, some of us know and it's not problem as we will happily call each other a 'c*nt' as a term of endearment. x
Sarah Tate 4 years ago
So I think she's in the UK, but does twat mean something else over there? Because, you know in the US it's the same as saying C U Next Tuesday. (sorry for even typing that - I hate the word!) I'm not sure how one would even GET a tan in that area. ;)
Sarah Benedictus 3 years ago
sunbathe naked of course. nothing better than the sun on your bits.
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I seem unable to wear fully black! Clashing prints my boyfriend hates I wear this camo jacket with leopard quite a lot and really like the combo. When I was wearing this jacket last week not only my boyfriend, but also his friends, kept telling me I was wearing nothing but stripes on my arms 🤦♀️😂 can’t win (PS my boyfriend RATES masks and thinks you should wear one even if it is in a print he hates👌)
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago
The only good thing in this picture is the mask, your hair and great posture.
Öz Deniz Boro 4 years ago
Sorry to say that some of these tops make you look as if you have no neck or shoulders and overall too teenager-like. Try V-necks and slimmer fit. You actually have a superb figure.
#30
Leather trousers guarantee an eye roll. Every. Single. Time! I hope everyone had a lovely weekend! No settling snow here but we hunkered down today anyway (and pretty much every day at the moment, right!? ). Lockdown feels relentless at the moment - sending big love to everyone else who’s feeling totally meh! I’m watching musicals on BBC at the moment whilst eating cake which is helping.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
#31
Christmas party mode: on. Pretty sure my colleagues hated this feathery and organza combo too when I wore it to our party on Thursday night! I’m still undecided what I’ll wear on Christmas Day though.. do you get dressed up or stay casual?
Kate Kretz 4 years ago
Has anyone kindly suggested to this woman that she should get herself a new boyfriend who does not criticize her choices but loves her creativity? Constant criticism wears down a person's self esteem.
Ruby the singlest person ever 4 years ago
Everyone here is basically saying dress for yourself only if the boyfriend likes it. It's a bit stupid really.
Valerie Zinn 4 years ago
I agree with the boyfriend. She wears clothes that don’t flatter her at all.
Elaine Mattingly 4 years ago (edited)
Take a break from thinking about how your clothing choices effect people and accept the fact that they love you in spite of the fact you dwell on it too much. Stop making your boyfriend prove on a daily bases that he sees you! Love him back by wearing something he loves sometimes and won't feel challenged by your determination to make choices based only on yourself.
Barbara Cochrane 4 years ago
Apparently you are into saggy, baggy drab clothes and combat boot style footwear. I am on your boyfriend’s side, generally. You have some cute outfits but haven’t a clue as to how to wear them. Toss the combat boots but keep the sandals. You need comfy footwear then buy ballroom dance shoes-dressy and comfy.
Ruby the singlest person ever 4 years ago
But she likes those so shes already dressing for herself.
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Jess Anderson 4 years ago
If there's 31 outfits your boyfriend is openly derisive of, it may be time to get a new boyfriend.
H Edwards 4 years ago
My bf has little nicknames for the items of clothing that he doesn't like (e.g. this guy calling the coat her 'dressing gown coat') and it's funny. I like wearing stuff that he doesn't like, I enjoy the little grumbles. I find it amusing and it's part of our dynamic. He would never actually try and stop me from wearing something.
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Kay blue 4 years ago
I had a boyfriend who complained about what I wore and tried to control what I wore when we went out together. I dumped the boyfriend and kept my clothes because everytime he insulted my outfit it would chip away at my self-esteem.
Ila Chakravarthy 4 years ago
just a genuine question, is it normal for people to have over 31 outfits?
Ozacoter 4 years ago
Me neither. I have two jeans, one formal trouser and like maybe 15 thsirts and shirts.
Load More Replies... Moomin from Denmark 4 years ago
I'm not a big fan of your clothes either - BUT you are a very beautiful woman and should just wear whatever you like whenever you like - no matter what I og other people say!!!
LittleMissLotus 4 years ago
I think a lot of people didn't read the entire description that was posted throughout this article- she says he's not serious about any of it, and he really does support her wearing whatever the hell she wants, no matter his opinion. That being said, though I wish they had made it a bit more obvious- I feel almost like they're baiting us with the placement of that little disclaimer....
Jess Anderson 4 years ago
If there's 31 outfits your boyfriend is openly derisive of, it may be time to get a new boyfriend.
H Edwards 4 years ago
My bf has little nicknames for the items of clothing that he doesn't like (e.g. this guy calling the coat her 'dressing gown coat') and it's funny. I like wearing stuff that he doesn't like, I enjoy the little grumbles. I find it amusing and it's part of our dynamic. He would never actually try and stop me from wearing something.
Load More Replies... Kay blue 4 years ago
I had a boyfriend who complained about what I wore and tried to control what I wore when we went out together. I dumped the boyfriend and kept my clothes because everytime he insulted my outfit it would chip away at my self-esteem.
Ila Chakravarthy 4 years ago
just a genuine question, is it normal for people to have over 31 outfits?
Ozacoter 4 years ago
Me neither. I have two jeans, one formal trouser and like maybe 15 thsirts and shirts.
Load More Replies... Moomin from Denmark 4 years ago
I'm not a big fan of your clothes either - BUT you are a very beautiful woman and should just wear whatever you like whenever you like - no matter what I og other people say!!!
LittleMissLotus 4 years ago
I think a lot of people didn't read the entire description that was posted throughout this article- she says he's not serious about any of it, and he really does support her wearing whatever the hell she wants, no matter his opinion. That being said, though I wish they had made it a bit more obvious- I feel almost like they're baiting us with the placement of that little disclaimer....
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