“Decency In Public”: Woman’s Viral Rant About “Gross” Activewear Trend Divides Internet
A Queensland woman’s viral rant about women wearing tight activewear in public places has triggered a fierce online debate.
Filmed inside a Townsville supermarket, the TikToker questioned why some shoppers are becoming increasingly comfortable wearing short shorts or leggings that leave far too little to the imagination in public.
- A Queensland woman’s fiery rant about “tight activewear in public” has sent social media into a debate spiral.
- Her expletive-laced clip sparked accusations of “internalized misogyny,” while others praised her for saying what they secretly think.
- The conversation broadened into Australia’s growing love affair with athleisure and whether “decency in public” is even a shared standard anymore.
Her comments sparked over a million views and thousands of comments that quickly spiraled into a wider conversation about body confidence, public decency, and Australia’s evolving athleisure culture.
The Queensland woman’s rant about activewear in public lit up social media
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The clip, recorded mid-errand inside a Townsville supermarket, showed TikToker Poppy sounding off about a trend she insisted had gone too far.
She began by acknowledging that many women looked great in activewear, saying, “Those women who wear that activewear, those short shorts, I think it’s great, you’re confident, you have a great figure.”
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But her tone shifted fast. Poppy argued that tight leggings and micro-shorts revealed more than most people realized, or wanted to see, for that matter, according to the New York Post.
“But do you realize when you walk, we can actually see the shape of your f**king v**?” she continued. She even pre-empted the criticism she knew was coming: “Don’t come at me and say ‘Why did you look?’ How could you not look? It’s right there, and you’re walking towards me?”
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The rant didn’t stop there. Poppy also compared the trend to men wearing ultra-tight tights. “It’s like hello, can you see the shape of my (privates)? I can’t avoid it. It’s like a guy walking around in those tights and you can see their (privates).”
Within hours, commenters flooded her video, torn between calling her bold and calling her judgmental.
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Some viewers argued she was voicing what many people quietly thought, while others accused her of projecting insecurity or being unnecessarily harsh toward women who felt comfortable in their bodies.
Social media users’ comments struck a nerve, revealing a much bigger divide in the activewear issue
While Poppy’s rant was raw, blunt, and borderline comedic in tone, it clearly tapped into something bigger. As it turns out, there is a cultural tug-of-war between comfort, confidence, and public expectations around modesty going on today.
Supporters showed up quickly. One viewer wrote: “She’s got a point. There’s such a thing as decency in public.” Another chimed in: “Amen, finally someone said it.”
A third took it even further, declaring: “I hate this new trend, activewear belongs in the gym.” A handful even labeled the whole trend “gross,” insisting that stores, sidewalks, and public places shouldn’t feel like an extension of the gym.
But the pushback was just as strong. Critics argued that Poppy’s rant policed women’s bodies and was tantamount to “internalized misogyny.”
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One user clapped back with humor, writing, “Nothing wrong with seeing the shape … we all came from one.” Another urged her to mind her business. “Just look away, let me mind my own business. I’m not changing clothes, and I work hard for this body,” the commenter wrote.
Then there were those who simply didn’t see the big deal at all. “It really ain’t that deep. We feel hot and confident, so why not?” a commenter wrote.
Others pointed out that people often stop at the shops after a workout. “What if we have to run to the shops after a gym sesh? Should we go home and change? Some girls are just busy and need to get groceries after working out,” one user noted.
Some commenters also highlighted how easily criticism like this can chip away at women’s self-esteem. “Girls are already self-conscious walking around in activewear, so calling them out doesn’t make it better,” one netizen stated.
Activewear has quietly become Australia’s unofficial uniform, for better or worse
Regardless of which side people took, Poppy’s rant ended up opening a broader conversation about how Australians dress today, and why activewear has cemented itself as everyday attire.
After all, the rise of athleisure didn’t happen overnight. With lifestyles shifting and hybrid work becoming normal, more and more people are preferring clothes that could transition seamlessly from a Zoom meeting to a school run to a quick supermarket trip.
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According to a CBRE report, the trend reflects significant changes in day-to-day habits surrounding work, wellness, and convenience, and Australians have fully embraced it.
A national Chobani-commissioned survey found that 82% of Aussies under 60 wear activewear either for exercise, at home, or as casual wear, with nearly 40% admitting they wear it most days, or even every day.
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This suggests that, whether critics approve or not, activewear in public is steadily becoming the norm.
Netizens shared their thoughts about Poppy’s rant about activewear on social media
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I notice that people who are loud about decency in dress are completely silent (or worse) about decency when it comes to actually important issues in society. Could it just be more about control?
It's not about cintrol, it's about not seeing the outline of your píss flaps in my face while I'm trying to enjoy a coffee.
Load More Replies...As long as your genetalia is covered (for hygiene reasons, not modesty), I don't really care or, tbh, really even notice.
It’s funny, nobody complains about it when it’s the hot, young girls wearing it. But if you’re overweight or older, it’s suddenly “indecent”. I do a lot of dance classes each week (I’m 54, Tap and Ballet Barre), we wear leggings to class and some of us have tighter fitting tops as well (important in ballet to see our movements), but we wear tops that cover our “outline” down there. That said, I’d rather see the active wear than the thong bikinis they all wear into our local supermarket (we are in a coastal suburb).
I think she is complaining about the hot ones too! I'll reread but I didn't catch body shaming. Just dang girl we don't need to know if your vajj is an inny or an outie! I don't pay enough attention to anything besides faces to be bothered personally.
Load More Replies...It sounds like she spends a lot of time checking out crotches. And then put it online, no doubt sparking a trend of everybody checking out crotches, which will lead to new c****h fashions, and an overall explosion of healthy new c****h awareness and celebration. And all because of one crotchety woman.
It’s gross when in lighter colors cuz you can see everything…. But darker colors are ok, or just don’t wear those ;l also wearing exercise jackets/sweat clothes are ok bc they don’t show everything.
I think you should do w/e works for you but i personally am in this situation often but even just at the gym alone * i do love compression wear* i prefer to tie a flannel or sweatshirt around my waist for what i consider the best of both worlds! Comfort, cool, and a bit more concealed
She says “stop wearing those clothes because they outline the shape of your v****a”. Next logical step is to stop wearing tops because they outline the shape of the breasts. And then covering the mouth, because it’s s**y and seductive and yet in plain view, what an outrage. Maybe just go straight to wearing burkas?
Once you step into shared space, your “rights” bump up against other people’s rights not to be involuntarily sexualized while buying milk or picking up their kid. That’s not “controlling women”; it’s the same social contract we apply to public nudity, loud music, or open-container drinking.
Load More Replies...Am I the only person who clocks where people are in relation to me, but barely look at them? I hate being around people, but have a high situational awareness. Except, I couldn't tell you what they look like or what they're wearing. I've had waiters/waitresses take my order (polite and chatty with them), looked them directly in the face, then not even know what they look like... and that's with people I actually interact with... I could know three men, two women, and two kids walked by me with a dog and I MIGHT be able to describe the dog.
Normally it's a gay man making this stupid argument, but somehow the Taliban tricking this idiot to fight for their cause while they take a break.
First of all, Poppy needs an anatomy lesson because no one's "vag" is on display. Second, Poppy herself isn't wearing a shirt, so she needs to check herself.
I'm in the middle. One no one wants to see whats down there, but two, people can wear what they want right? If there was also(unlikely tho) a necessity or need to wear this they can do that too. Then again, think abt the kids that might see this and believe this is a 'new trend' and start wearing. This situation could be alot worse.
"It really ain't that deep" comment.... LMAO! No! It really IS! That's the point she's trying to make!
Like the fabric is deep in some places... nevermind. Lol
Load More Replies...If they are not illegal garments or garments that indecently display flesh (at a nudist level), then they should wear whatever they like... period.
Nobody should get any say what other people do if it doesn't affect them. It's "indecent" (meaning it doesn't fit your traditionalist views on what people should wear) and you "don't want to / should have to see it"? Too bad, your opinion doesn't matter
Once you step into shared space, your “rights” bump up against other people’s rights not to be involuntarily sexualized while buying milk or picking up their kid. That’s not “controlling women”; it’s the same social contract we apply to public nudity, loud music, or open-container drinking.
Load More Replies...🙄🙄🙄🙄get a life people,if u got it flaunt it , ok id never wear it , even back when i was training n body building n doing iron man tri,s yes id run in this stuff but daily nope n never short shorts , but if u like it n its comfy anyone as dont like it DONT F KIN LOOK 🤦♀️🙄n if this is all this op has got to moan about lol she’s doing ok !
I've always said that your right to wear something in public should not trump my right to not have to look at it.
Load More Replies...I notice that people who are loud about decency in dress are completely silent (or worse) about decency when it comes to actually important issues in society. Could it just be more about control?
It's not about cintrol, it's about not seeing the outline of your píss flaps in my face while I'm trying to enjoy a coffee.
Load More Replies...As long as your genetalia is covered (for hygiene reasons, not modesty), I don't really care or, tbh, really even notice.
It’s funny, nobody complains about it when it’s the hot, young girls wearing it. But if you’re overweight or older, it’s suddenly “indecent”. I do a lot of dance classes each week (I’m 54, Tap and Ballet Barre), we wear leggings to class and some of us have tighter fitting tops as well (important in ballet to see our movements), but we wear tops that cover our “outline” down there. That said, I’d rather see the active wear than the thong bikinis they all wear into our local supermarket (we are in a coastal suburb).
I think she is complaining about the hot ones too! I'll reread but I didn't catch body shaming. Just dang girl we don't need to know if your vajj is an inny or an outie! I don't pay enough attention to anything besides faces to be bothered personally.
Load More Replies...It sounds like she spends a lot of time checking out crotches. And then put it online, no doubt sparking a trend of everybody checking out crotches, which will lead to new c****h fashions, and an overall explosion of healthy new c****h awareness and celebration. And all because of one crotchety woman.
It’s gross when in lighter colors cuz you can see everything…. But darker colors are ok, or just don’t wear those ;l also wearing exercise jackets/sweat clothes are ok bc they don’t show everything.
I think you should do w/e works for you but i personally am in this situation often but even just at the gym alone * i do love compression wear* i prefer to tie a flannel or sweatshirt around my waist for what i consider the best of both worlds! Comfort, cool, and a bit more concealed
She says “stop wearing those clothes because they outline the shape of your v****a”. Next logical step is to stop wearing tops because they outline the shape of the breasts. And then covering the mouth, because it’s s**y and seductive and yet in plain view, what an outrage. Maybe just go straight to wearing burkas?
Once you step into shared space, your “rights” bump up against other people’s rights not to be involuntarily sexualized while buying milk or picking up their kid. That’s not “controlling women”; it’s the same social contract we apply to public nudity, loud music, or open-container drinking.
Load More Replies...Am I the only person who clocks where people are in relation to me, but barely look at them? I hate being around people, but have a high situational awareness. Except, I couldn't tell you what they look like or what they're wearing. I've had waiters/waitresses take my order (polite and chatty with them), looked them directly in the face, then not even know what they look like... and that's with people I actually interact with... I could know three men, two women, and two kids walked by me with a dog and I MIGHT be able to describe the dog.
Normally it's a gay man making this stupid argument, but somehow the Taliban tricking this idiot to fight for their cause while they take a break.
First of all, Poppy needs an anatomy lesson because no one's "vag" is on display. Second, Poppy herself isn't wearing a shirt, so she needs to check herself.
I'm in the middle. One no one wants to see whats down there, but two, people can wear what they want right? If there was also(unlikely tho) a necessity or need to wear this they can do that too. Then again, think abt the kids that might see this and believe this is a 'new trend' and start wearing. This situation could be alot worse.
"It really ain't that deep" comment.... LMAO! No! It really IS! That's the point she's trying to make!
Like the fabric is deep in some places... nevermind. Lol
Load More Replies...If they are not illegal garments or garments that indecently display flesh (at a nudist level), then they should wear whatever they like... period.
Nobody should get any say what other people do if it doesn't affect them. It's "indecent" (meaning it doesn't fit your traditionalist views on what people should wear) and you "don't want to / should have to see it"? Too bad, your opinion doesn't matter
Once you step into shared space, your “rights” bump up against other people’s rights not to be involuntarily sexualized while buying milk or picking up their kid. That’s not “controlling women”; it’s the same social contract we apply to public nudity, loud music, or open-container drinking.
Load More Replies...🙄🙄🙄🙄get a life people,if u got it flaunt it , ok id never wear it , even back when i was training n body building n doing iron man tri,s yes id run in this stuff but daily nope n never short shorts , but if u like it n its comfy anyone as dont like it DONT F KIN LOOK 🤦♀️🙄n if this is all this op has got to moan about lol she’s doing ok !
I've always said that your right to wear something in public should not trump my right to not have to look at it.
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