Woman Doesn’t Make The Cut To Fiancé’s Friend’s Wedding, Wonders If Her Beliefs Were The Reason

Even if it is a small wedding it's rude to not to invite the spouse, fiance or the bf or gf that's been together for at least a couple of years unless you just can't stand each other.. it's standard wedding etiquette to invite them.

The future groom is spineless and a closet f*****t, the future bride is a witch, the boyfriend and future husband is a chickens***, and the future OP will be disappointed in her marriage because her spineless future husband will never take her side. One thing about fascists and homophobes is that they will always continue to out themselves. The bride and groom do not want their conservative rich buddies who are attending this wedding to see anything upsetting in the form of a gay male couple or a woman with opinions. I'd seriously think about tying the knot with someone too spineless to defend his wife, let alone his alleged principles. If you're not standing against TwoDollDonny and his Maggots, you're with them.

The friendship is going to end anyway because if OP is correct and it's the wife who won't invite her or the groomsmans male partner then the wife will continue to push them out of the group, and clearly the husband is allowing it.

OP should say to fiance "You can either go to that wedding or ours. Pick."

The fiance is a do.uche. If that happened to me, my wife would never go and vice versa.

Honestly, weddings are a big waste of money. I know people want to have the lavish ceremony but unless they're rich, better to put the $$ towards a house. My daughter wanted a wedding so I helped pay for it, but my son and his wife couldn't see the point. They were married at the registry office and had a nice holiday and bought a new car instead. (They already had bought a home.)

I agree with EnvironmentalSand773. You don't even like these people so why do you want to go?! I can't believe you are making such a big deal about this and are trying to force your fiance to drop out of his childhood friend's big day. Sounds like you are insecure and selfish to me. The bride and groom can invite or not invite whoever they want and for whatever reason to their wedding. It's their wedding and their choices!

Its a s****y thing for them to do to you but also might be a lucky escape cos why would any sane person want to engage with a maga? And I seriously hope you can invite the gay groomsman and his partner to your wedding.

I find it weird that OP even wants to go and expects to be invited to a wedding for people who clearly don't like her. I would, personally, encourage my partner to go because he made a commitment but to monitor the actions of these people carefully to see if they really are the type of people he wants to maintain a friendship with.

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I'm sorry, but both of these people are of the political doormat/naively dupable variety. As a queer woman, I am horribly offended on the part of the other groomsman's partner. I will be honest enough to admit that I'm of the non-forgiving kind when it comes to bigotry or magats of any kind. Yes, the other parties may believe what they wish, even if I find it hideous. But in this instance they are *acting* on their bigotry and political beliefs and it is being done, in my opinion, *specifically* to make the uninvited partner feel less-than. Both of those men should step aside as groomsman rather than reinforce that belittlement even a jot. And I disagree with one of the commenters above: sometimes, what looks like a small, useless hill to die upon is exactly *the* hill one should choose.

100%op go out for the day with the gay partner , to a gay bar , you will have a real blast :) and stuff that vile lunatic , I’m not in the least bit religious don’t believe in it at all , I’m a Wiccan , earth spirtual thing m , n while I have no problem with religious people that keep it to them selves and just live their lives n let others be to like my catholic son in law , (and g y p s y) who’s really lovely love him to bits , I have do however have a huge issue with lunatics like this this woman m one person got it right =maga !!!! they are nasty inhuman people , those I have issues with !, big time and tbh they are full on hypocrites! personally I really wouldn’t want THAT drama at my wedding ! but I’m still with all of them to your fiancé should tell them no way am I attending if my partner is not invited !!! not a good start to your life personally , however if he goes make sure you go out n have a bloody good time lol n stuff that inhuman maga s k a n k !

This makes no sense. If someone's partner is invited to dinner or a concert or a weekend trip etc, they aren't expected to stay home because their partner isn't invited. Why would this be different for a wedding? It's just a night out with friends with free drinks (or a cash bar if you're in the UK :( ) This is just a bridezilla who isn't content with feeling important at her own wedding, she wants to set the rules for everyone else's. Calm down.

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53 people is an incredibly small wedding - and it's not like she was the only one left off the list. She admits that another groomsman's partner was also left out. Then she goes on to say that they are complete opposites politically and aren'treally friends? Nah, the old-fashioned rule of invite the partner no matter what needs to go out the window. It's 1 night, with people you don't even like. Let it go.