Expressing an opinion that differs from the majority can sometimes feel intimidating because, on the inside, we all want to be accepted, not judged or rejected due to our opposing viewpoints. However, if we all think the same and agree with each other, there would be no new ideas, no progress. Luckily, the online environment makes it easier to express our personal opinions that might not be everyone’s cup of tea, and the people under this thread used it to their advantage, sharing their 'wokest' beliefs and sparking quite a few debates in the process. Scroll down to see them for yourself, and don’t forget to upvote those you actually agree with.
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Some will think this is too woke but convicted felons shouldn't run a country
In my opinion, one can never be too woke. A "woke" person strives to expand their views beyond the norm, to learn more about others, and to become a better human...to name three examples, but there is so much more to being "woke". What is the alternative? Ignorant? Sheep-like?
Why do you think they are so against "woke"? They want people to be ignorant, believe their lies, and do what they are told. They don't want protests, editorials, or comments against their agenda. People might actually try to change the political landscape to reflect actual benefits and enforce rules of law.
Load More Replies...I think everyone was initially in favor of that until they found out their candidate was a convicted felon.
In Canada, the PPC (People's Party of Canada, run by former Conservative Party of Canada leader) had their leader get arrested for violating health laws during 2020. He's exactly like he-who-must-not-be-named, except he's never been elected in his new party, and he served his sentence through, and hasn't won an election since being arrested
This Canadian can think of a nearby country whose religion was founded by a convicted felon.
Religion should not be taught in school and little kids should not have anything to do with it
In many countries that is the "official" stance- including the USA, where the 1st amendment stipulates that Congress will not make laws that establish an "official" religion, while at the same time not prohibiting any religion. Funny that lately religion (and precisely one) is used as an argument for regulations and laws... Sad tbh
Yes, but....supreme court here also said the owner of Hobby Lobby was personally having his religious freedoms harmed by an insurance company providing benefits to Hobby Lobby's employees that included birth control. Oh, and that other one out of Colorado where a person's religious freedoms were found to be actually harmed because a hypothetical business they might want to open would be penalized for discriminating against the public on the basis of *checks notes* religion! So you see, the US is a place of diverse people and application of laws. 🤣
Load More Replies...Awareness of religions should be taught, but not promoted as something that one should believe.
Retired teacher here, and religion as literature is fine. And also fine if you include ALL religions, all mythologies, all the stories. Teaching as indoctrination? Not legal, very propagandistic, very nationalistic. I LOVED Old Testament as Literature, New Testament as Literature, and Apocrypha as Literature from UCLA Extension. I learned a LOT from those classes.
They have a school for that, it's called Sunday School. They can read it there for whatever reason they want to. Keep that nonsense out of actual school.
Load More Replies...Comparative religion is an important subject that teaches children about beliefs systems and mythologies in a respectful way. Religious indoctrination into a single religion is what's harmful.
Children should learn about different religions at school. It helps them to understand and respect other people's beliefs but I don't think that it should ever get forced upon them. I'm not religious person. I never have been but I enjoyed learning about different religions at school.
Teaching little kids that they'll get tortured for eternity if they don't fit into a very specific box is a form of abuse and brainwashing. Kids should only be exposed to religion when they've developed critical thinking skills. Of course religious people don't want that because they know that brainwashing kids and weak minded people is the only reason their grift is still around.
Honestly I truly believe in a hard separation of church and state. As in if you have been active in religious groups with designs on molding the government into their vision you should not be able to hold office. I'm not saying that you can't be religious, go to church but keep it within your community. You have to be able to represent the people you disagree with not try to legislate compulsory adherence to a belief system in direct conflict with another person's belief system. Jesus said something about his kingdom not being of this world, I think.
I teach 9 year olds about several world countries and their cultures in Social Studies and they LOVE learning about different religions! As several commenters have said, informing and not indoctrinating them is key. Too bad our super conservative MAGA style government is changing the curriculum to developmentally inappropriate fact memorization next year that the kids will hate... sigh.
Conservatism is a curse on the whole human race. It has nothing to offer that’s good.
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No one needs a private jet, mansion, 15 cars etc while people are on the streets starving
Dream on, baby. I would settle for programs that address those issues more realistically. Unfortunately, there are soup kitchens and tents instead of the services we need to provide.
Soup kitchens and welfare systems paid for by the employeed class through income tax, while those with private jets pay minimal tax.
Load More Replies...I'd love to see a law that caps wealth at a certain rate, then all monies need to be channeled back into society. Let people make enough to where they are comfortable and can pass some money on, I have no issue with that. What I and others have an issue with is hoarding and ignoring people's suffering.
The USA has pretty much eliminated its space program. It now largely exists as a private program funded by satellite internet & TV customers. The people in the wilderness areas of the world, especially here in Canada, are very happy to now have affordable internet access.
Load More Replies...I very VERY strongly agree with this. No one needs excessive wealth and I have no respect for people who own 6 homes, 5 of which sit empty for 11+ months a year, while judging the homeless. No human deserves absolute luxury and no human deserves abject poverty, we all deserve something in the middle. Edit to add: humans gonna human, though, and greed is very human.
According to a CNBC news article this morning: The U.S. added a thousand new millionaires a day in 2024. Our current wealth disparity makes the Gilded Age seem like a dress rehearsal.
Understand the comment, but it always comes across as jealousy of the rich. I'm not rich and never will be, but I don't begrudge them being rich. Our governments tax us enough that they should be helping the poorest rather than wasting money on vanity projects, etc. I think the issue might be that a government is only in charge for 4-5 years where many of these fixes will need much longer.
I don't have anything against the wealthy who work really hard in challenging jobs, or were innovative and created something that was needed. I do have something against the useless rich who inherited more than anyone can ever use, contribute nothing to society, and waste wantonly, supported by a team of low paid staff who are poorly treated.
Load More Replies...The phrase “woke” or “stay woke” appeared around the 1940s, when it was first used by African Americans as an expression meaning to become woken up or sensitized to injustice, says linguist and lexicographer Tony Thorne.
Initially, it was a term, primarily used in Black communities, that later began to appear in songs and movements like Black Lives Matter. It was only in 2017 that the Oxford Dictionary added the word ‘woke’ to its database and defined it as “being ‘aware’ or ‘well-informed’ in a political or cultural sense.”
There should be age limits for politicians
In America, there *are* age limits. The problem is that they are *minimum* age limits.
The upper age limit is when you die, or become so senile you can't do the job. The other end is more structured. I haven't seen any 6-year-olds running for office, but there are plenty of 20+ year-olds getting involved.
Load More Replies...If there's term limits for president, it should also apply to higher government officials too. No more running for a tenth term in your seventies. Your ideas and what's good for the "people" are not currently helping.
This! Especially if you are falling asleep constantly during the house and senate meetings! Or during your own parade... *snark
Load More Replies...Ah, what's the matter? You don't want some doddering old fool making laws that won't affect them because they won't be around to witness the chaos they've created? Y'all are just cowards unwilling to risk the future.
There should be term limits and health limits for politicians. Some people get dementia at age 30, some at age 65, some at age 100. You need to stop electing and re-electing them when the dementia is obvious to impartial people.
And you need to stop electing politicians to represent you when those politicians have lived apart from you for so long they know longer have genuine knoweldge of their constituents. Twenty years is a good absolute maximum for members of parliaments, senates, judges, and other elected bodies. Twelve years for heads of government and heads of state.
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The right constantly insults colleges and try to defund education because education for the mass is the worst enemy for elites that want to control the mass.
That's why the RCC tried to prevent the translation of the bible into native languages. if they couldn't read it, then they wouldn't know they were being lied to by the person in the pulpit.
Load More Replies...Maurice Duplessis in a nutshell. He was a Quebec Premier of "L'Union Nationale" where he wanted everyone in Quebec to be Catholic, francophone, and by limiting what schools could do (for example, the church controlled a lot during his era) he kept everyone pretty dumb.
I live in Alberta, Canada, (the Texas of Canada) and our provincial government went from moderate conservative to MAGA-style conspiracy-loving far right extremists over the past 10 years. They are deliberately underfunding education and healthcare so that the public get fed up with the failures in both systems and want a private system. It's really frustrating.
The problem is that Schools have taken to pushing ideology, and not facts. Educators are meant to teach you HOW to think, not tell you what to think. When curriculums start trying to follow up a history lesson with "and this is why white people are evil, everything is racist, and all your problems are a direct link to events that transpired hundreds of years ago" That's the problem. When they biology teachers start saying "ultrasounds , genetics, DNA pssht, that doesn't mean anything! Gender is a construct and you have to wait for your child to tell YOU what they are, and your job is to reenforce that...because if you don't THEY"LL DIE" That's a problem. When teachers encourage children to cheer for the terrorists, and long for communism, that's a problem....and it's a problem because the expectation is that to think anything else, is evidence of hatred, and discrimination. To be able to think, means being able to see every side of every issue, to weight all facts and potentialities.
As with Germany in the 1930s, the socialist classes destroy universities in place by banning freedom of thought, freedom of speech, and academic rigour.
even if life did begin at conception I'd still be pro choice
Agree with the pro choice part, but don't understand the first part, because a cell is a living thing.There was a whole argument about this last week as well on BP. You can say a developing baby, in whatever stage of development, is living thing and still be pro abortion. No one should be forced to become a parent unwanted. (*mandatory disclosure I'm an atheist, I'm for sexual education, I'm for free healthcare, I'm for women's health)
Those countries that have age-appropriate comprehensive s*x and relationship education in schools have lower rates of teen pregnancy, lower rates of teen STD rates, and higher age at the time of the first sexual experience. They also have more young people being happy with their first experience (as opposed to regretting it, or feeling co-erced or not ready and rushing into it). S*x education works-there's a lot of evidence and data showing that.
Load More Replies...There's no valid argument against choice. Per the US Constitution, you are not a citizen until you are born, therefore a fetus has no rights. Per the Bible, you are not a life until you are born and receive the "breath of God." Forced birthers just want to control women; there's no other reason for their stance.
well, the bible says life begins at first breath. as a christian, i don't see anything in the bible that says abortion is wrong.
i think we should just keep religion out of the discussion as a whole in any way, shape or form
Load More Replies...Pro choice all the way. But there needs to be orphanages for the babies. Where are the pro lifers on this?
The pro lifers are for life, just not the quality of life.
Load More Replies...I mean, life DOES begin at conception. Heck, a single cell is "life". It's just that that term doesn't mean anything. So of course you should still be pro choice, because every woman should have bodily control over when and how often she is pregnant. Bar none.
A cancer cell or a tumor is “life.”
Load More Replies...Agreed. No man or woman should ever be forced to become a parent against their will.
Pro-Choice and Pro-Life are not two sides of the same argument. The fact that we persist in pretending they are is a big reason why progress is never made on either stance.
I've never wavered from my pro-choice stance, but I do harbor a controversial opinion that would have many people up in arms. I'm anti-IVF. When replicating your DNA takes precedence over adopting in a world that is grossly overpopulated, I simply can't back that selfish decision. It's a short-sighted desire that doesn't take the child's future into consideration as we continuously run out of habitable resources.
I'm not anti-IVF, I understand it, I just think it's selfish. Me and my husband have been struggling with infertility and IVF isn't an option for us, I am so against it for me. I do accept it in others, though, I just would never make that choice myself. Edit to add: if your love as a parent is conditional on your child sharing your DNA you probably aren't going to be the best parent.
Load More Replies...It's not truly a life as long as it can only survive by being parasitic.
makes no biological sense. its a dumb argument to say parasites are not alive. what about coma patients? patients on respiratory machines? life is life, dont do science breaking mental gymnastics to justify a choice.
Load More Replies...Over time, the word evolved to encompass and signal progressiveness. However, people who think of themselves as woke have abandoned this term because individuals with opposing views started using it to insult others with more liberal and social justice-focused views.
“When the word “woke” was being used by woke people, it wasn’t a word they obsessed about, so perhaps it is inconvenient but they wouldn’t mind much about having to abandon it,” Thorne said.
There is simultaneously an epidemic of hypersexualization and puritan culture and both are targeted against women
100% true. It’s almost as though nobody sees anything at all about women except for our sēxuålity and our reproductive organs.
I would imagine the point is that women should be able to wear whatever the hell they want without worrying about being targeted.
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I think there is too much importance placed on romantic relationships over platonic ones.
Yes, I agree with that one. In platonic ones you tend to see the other person for who they are; in a romantic relationship you see the other person through rose-tinted glasses, distorting the view.
Yes, and some are willing to give up platonic ones over romantic ones so easily.
Load More Replies...I’ll preface this by saying I’m ace (but yeah, it’s taken several sexual relationships to realise this), but my platonic relationships have lasted a hell of a lot longer than my romantic ones.
isn't that true for most people? i have many life long friends sibce elementary/high schoom but no life long relationships
Load More Replies...Our world revolves around romantic love, and I think that's why a lot of aromantic people don't realise that they are until late in life.
As one going through that now at basically 45, I concur.
Load More Replies...I honestly agree. Even if they do desire a romantic relationship, they need to learn what it's like to be loved by friends. I don't want to pursue a romantic relationship because I honestly don't think the potential grief is worth it.
To a degree, perhaps. My heart goes out to the people who cannot marry or choose not to marry because I have seen them treated as less-than. That’s not okay and I thank God I am surrounded by people who don’t see single folks as less-than also.
gender reveal parties are weird and reinforce the patriarchy and gender roles
Agreed. Our "gender reveal" was the doctor telling us the s*x of the baby at an ultrasound appointment.
I never understood this. It's so stupid. What happened to just telling people like they used to?
People want to be the centre of attention and celebrated for any excuse. This is another excuse. Social media hasn't helped. Pay attention to me!!!
Load More Replies...If the doctor reveals that the to-be-born is healthy and doing well, that's a reason for a party, not its gender or shoe size.
I just think it's weird that people want to have all the parties just so they can get gifts and cash; you get ONE gift. At your baby shower. That's it. Stopping coming at your friends and family for more.
I agree they're weird, but I don't see how it reinforces the patriarchy.
It continues to reinforce the idea that one s*x/gender is better than or preferred to another, instead of the idea that a child is to be celebrated regardless if it's gender. Children should be treated the same regardless of s*x, gender reveal reinforces the idea that each s*x is so different and that s*x is so important and should define how a child is treated before even being born.
Load More Replies...Gender reveal parties are just STUPID. I’m so old I remember when the gender wasn’t revealed until the baby was born. I think I like that way better.
I want to watch the videos of these freaks' reactions when their children come out as trans. Gotcha Mom and Dad. You started that field on fire for nothing.
Throne believes that we do need a word that progressives can use without it becoming an insult. And it has to be more scientific or academic. That said, any new word that appears to replace ‘woke’ will likely be appropriated by those with opposing ideologies, says Thorne.
"I do fear that the same process of terms appearing and then being hijacked and weaponised might be likely to happen again.”
There should be a permit that you must get first before having children.
I used to agree with this, until I fully understood what it means to give this level of authority to someone. We're already seeing people stripped of their rights in all sorts of ways, by several governments. Do we really want people to be making this choice? What are the requirements? Who sets those requirements? What are they based on? What if you don't meet them? What if the requirements are such that you can never meet them?
This is of course true. I know of a woman who keeps churning out kids that are, eventually, all taken away because they are not properly looked after. Yet she continues, telling herself that 'this time the child will stay with her'. Of course it never does because the mother is totally inept at given even the most basic care and the fathers are just ships in the night. The children pay the price of this woman's selfishness.
Load More Replies...Just to adopt a pet, a person is put through more rigorous screening process than having a baby. WTH
I am kinda happy about it. A kid will eventually grow up and will get back at you when you are old and weak. Meanwhile, a pet will always remain helpless. In my book, animal cruelty should be punished even more severly than crimes against humans. Only a real monster can hurt a helpless creature.
Load More Replies...And you know who the government (especially this one in the U.S.) would give permits to.
Load More Replies...Well, you can't spell "eugenics" without "ARE YOU F*****G GIDDING ME, OP?!"
I'm not against this. There are many people who should take classes and pass a test before being allowed to have children. I would prefer that they use school dollars to teach both sexes about childcare and responsibilities. If you're going to get pregnant, you should know the consequences and be aware that you will be responsible for that child for the next 18 years.
I am wholeheartedly against this. Who would you trust to make those decisions for other people? And are you so naive as to believe that power would not be abused?
Load More Replies...I absolutely agree with this 100%. 1000%, even. Anyone wishing to have a child "in the normal manner" should go through the same level of vetting, background checks, and other investigations that Mrs. TriSec and I went through to adopt. There should not be a double standard just because your reproductive organs work.
studying literally anything academically is never wasteful and claiming otherwise is anti intellectualism
True, but if citizens are educated then they won't vote for power-hungry dictator-wannabes. How can we rule by tyranny if everyone is too intelligent to fall for the claptrap?
Today, if you ever get involved in university politics, you'll see highly educated people can be power-hungry too.
Load More Replies...Sure, but for the people that actually want to use what they learn... not so much. My friend's uni offered an interpretive dance subject which supposedly everyone picked because it was an easy HD. Sorry, but I personally *would* call that a waste over learning something else for the sake of learning. As always, feel free to disagree.
I wish I could upvote this 100,000 times. The only useless major is the business major. Business is not an academic discipline; it’s expensive grooming for joining the corporate måfiå.
Remember that the university system started in Europe to groom priests to educate ordinary people to be docile workers and excellent canon fodder. The first degrees were doctors of divinity.
It's absolutely valid to end a friendship/relationship over political opinions
As far as I’m concerned, I’m OK with people having different political views. I am not OK with people holding clearly reprehensible views and justifying them in the guise of politics. I’m also not OK with people treating me poorly or vice versa over politics. I have both ended and nearly ended relationships over political disagreements for that alone. It’s a shame, but I will walk away if I need to do that.
Kinda hard being a friend with someone who supports people who want to take away your right to exist basically
It is absolutely valid, especially when one of you is a totalitarian or a bigot (from the OED: a person who is intolerant of peaceful ideas they do not share).
I keep reading that hating a person for their political stance is wrong. Really? Hating someone who is racist, misogynist, classist, and who thinks christianity should be the law of the land is hateful person. So hating hateful people is wrong???
This is one, massive depends. There is a difference between cutting ties because someone has opposing political opinions and cutting ties because they refuse to listen to reason.
Understandable when some of those opinions are literally misanthrope in nature.
Erg I hate to do this… misanthropic. Just trying to be helpful!
Load More Replies...The problem is, and this is very evident in the comments section of every post on this site, it's not really about the political opinions. You don't understand the political opinions or the thought process that goes into them. You don't want to, all you care about is that you, and your opinion are not being validated, and you justify your mental lapses by screaming about how everyone will die if you don't get your way. It's childish entitlement, and it's the exact reason that 11 million people abandoned the democrats to register as independents between 2020 and 2024.
It’s not a difference of politics, it’s a difference of morality. A difference of politics is when I think there should be a stop light at the intersection of Elm St. and Pine St., and you disagree. It’s a difference of morality when I’m against masked ICE agents with no warrants or ID kidnapping people off the streets….and you support that.
I can maintain relationships with friends and family who have different political opinions. I love a good debate and hearing strong points that contradict my opinion so that I can shore it up or adjust my views. I find it hard to maintain those relationships when the opinions turn into actions that I don't agree with (harm others) or outright prejudice.
This just comes to show that even though we have the freedom of speech to express our opinions however we want, those who do are still suffering consequences, no matter how trivial or significant.
However, this shouldn’t stop us from voicing our views on social justice, as it’s the only thing that can push progressiveness forward. So if you feel like your opinion matters and it has to be heard, feel free to do so, whether online or in real life. Just please be sure to do it with your own safety in mind.
Abandoned stores should be renovated for unhoused people. There are not nearly enough shelters to house them and also aren’t big enough. In my town there are plenty abandoned places that have yet to be turned into anything.
In the UK there is allegedly a housing shortage. However, in almost every street in every village, town and city there is at least one empty, derelict, abandoned house/flat and that's before we even start on empty shops and commercial premises. Nobody ever seems to want to address this issue of bringing them back into use. There should be a law that any property that has been empty for mors than a year should become the property of the council and renovated for accommodation.
The office building I used to clean always made me imagine a huge community of “roommates” each office could be a bedroom, with a communal kitchen and several communal bathrooms.
An excellent thought. Vacant stores, vacant government offices, vacant military installations, all can be re-purposed.
Ditto with abandoned office buildings that have reached a height since the pandemic.
YES. Since when is it a virtue to be wasteful?? We need to repurpose and reuse every single thing that we possibly can. Not only that, but in Finland, they gave the homeless people apartments with no strings attached. Something like four-fifths of those people cleaned up, found jobs, and started doing better.
Australia talked about using temporary quarantine buildings from Covid for this purpose, but as yet I don't think they have done it.
Load More Replies...Except too many towns/cities/states have strict rules on what constitutes housing and specific building requirements to meet. Abandoned stores are not easy to just turn into housing.
At this point many of the laws are just stupid. Which would you prefer: a room that maybe has no window, cold water, and composting toilet, but it does have a locking door, a bed, and a small fridge and induction plate OR a wet cardboard box on the street where you be r***d and assaulted? Granted people should have more than the first option, but how many people don't even have that, and we justify keeping them on the streets because a better option just isn't up to code. The US especially is so d**n all-or-nothing--and this country prefers to give the poor nothing. We could easily proved food, housing, education, and health care, but prefer not to, because then someone might get something for nothing, dammit.
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misandry exist BECAUSE of misogyny and mysogyny will always be more dangerous than misandry, misandry hurts men feelings but misogyny kills women
Except for the fact that 80% of all suicides are committed by men! Why? Well because women have spent years screaming that men don't matter. They're stupid, useless, evil and everyone of them is made out to be a predator, just waiting for the opportunity. And quite often, because so many women also encourage men to be vulnerable and to "open up" they do....and what happens? They've mocked, dismissed, have their vulnerable moments used against them, or they're negated by some woman coming out and saying dumb things like the above. Admitting to something small minded and ignorant....while trying to justify it, to excuse it. Here's the thing, it doesn't matter if you're a misandrist, misogynist or any other meaningless identifier used to make broad statements about an entire group of people....you're absolute human garbage. FFS.
No, men commit s*****e because they refuse to turn to each other when they need help, and then blame women when we don't want to be their therapists
Load More Replies...From the US Dept. of Justice: "Of the estimated 4,970 female victims of murder and nonnegligent manslaughter in 2021, data reported by law enforcement agencies indicate that 34% were killed by an intimate partner (figure 1). By comparison, about 6% of the 17,970 males m******d that year were victims of intimate partner homicide." Roughly 1740 women and 1078 men killed in 2021 by their intimate partner in the U.S. 1 in every 934 female deaths in 2021 was IP violence and 1 in every 1705 male deaths in 2021 was IP violence. Murder doesn't even make it on the top 15 list of causes of death in 2021. Heart disease, cancer, COVID, accidents, s*****e, Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, diabetes grab all of the top spots. I guess its good that we're better at dying naturally and killing ourselves than we are at killing each other.
Bigotry / hatred towards men (like how misogyny is bigotry / hatred towards women)
Load More Replies...It's amazing to me how many people think that feminism is the same thing as misandry and have no idea that they are completely different things.
i think nowadays more women hate men than there are men hating women. its fashionable and totally ok now for women to say they hate all men.
Load More Replies...Are you fúcking kidding me? None of your “examples” have any ties to misandry. Go back to Truth Social.
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SW isn't empowering, but it shouldn't be demonized the way it is. This type of exchange has always and will always exist, so there should be laws to protect workers instead of ppl shaming them for working to survive.
Exactly. If there's there's a market for something and it's not hurting anyone, it shouldn't be demonized.
in Belgium it's legal. they pay taxes, have social security, build pension. just a job like any other
I never understood how something that you do with your own body and another consenting adult could be illegal just because money is involved. And why and how is cornography legal just because it’s filmed, while a private act is not?
In the bible, it is recommended married people use s*x workers rather than cheating with other married people or singles. And of course most pagan religions endorsed it. Here in Canada we demonize the customer not the worker, if the customer is male.
I don’t give a rat’s ǎss what the Bible says, but I do agree with putting some responsibility on the consumer of the product.
Load More Replies...Every employed person uses body parts to get the job done, and depending on the job determines which body part, be it the brain, the vocal chords, or limbs. S E X workers just use body parts that most of us don't use to get our pay checks. And I know for a bonafide fact, that a lot of workers using the "normal" body parts can wreak more damage and punishing results than an entire city block of S E X workers can.
Risking a whoosh: people (mostly women) paid to engage in (mostly) horizontal sports (mostly by men).
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A lot of new trends like "I'm just a girl", "girl math" or "girl dinner" are nothing more than rebranded misogyny
I think there is only 1 legitimate application for s*x-based biases: sexual preference.
Load More Replies...But, I don't think men made up those phrases, it was the Instagram 'girlies".
Unfortunately, misogyny is not limited to men. Many women have significant internalized misogyny from how they grew up.
Load More Replies...first two really sound like something out of a right wing misogynist play book, but not so sure about the girl dinner thing, not that I've seen many, but they mostly seem to be about being hella busy and having to scrape something together quick
How often do you hear men using the term boy aside from referring to their friends as "my boys"? Yet, men and women still refer to grown-@ss women as girls. FYI, that's derogatory, not empowerment.
professional sports, not sports in general, but professional sports is the largest possible leech we could have on society possible. an ungodly amount of resources going towards literally nothing
Professional sports. No need for the misandry. Professional female sports also use a huge amount of public facilities and public money to produce. To me, it is the cost of resources being taken from citizens and residents over all and being focused on the tiny minority to produce professional athletes that is the injustice, more than the entertainer level salaries a tiny percentage of professional athletes get at the end. I'm thinking especially football (both soccer and football), gymnastics, polo, equestrian, and swimming -- sports that rich countries and unequal countries excell in.
Load More Replies...No, not literally nothing. Professional sports can do many things that sports in general can't, and do other things to a much bigger degree. It can bring people together across a number of borders (sadly, it can also separate them, but that happens less). They often have a huge economic impact, creating jobs not just for the athletes, but untold numbers of other people. They can also, at times, stimulate urban development. They can encourage healthy physical activity in many (particularly young people) through inspiration; They teach about healthy living, discipline and perseverance. They provide role models for young people. They provide entertainment and emotional release. They can challenge social norms and promote inclusion. Professional sports can do so much. They aren't perfect by any means, but "literally nothing" is just incorrect.
I appreciate your comment and the healthy use of the word 'can'. I think professional sports can be a negative in many ways, especially for the armchair athletes that make them their identity, but you sure reminded me of the many benefits! Well said!
Load More Replies...If people didn't want it and weren't willing to pay for it, it wouldn't exist. Yet it does. Argues pretty strongly against your opinion.
So does slavery , p**********n, human trafficking , assassinations, what’s your point ? Whatever people want is necessary?
Load More Replies...I'd disagree. At least no one is forced to attend pro (or any level) sport --at least so far. I'd say insurance is the biggest leech.
Nothing wrong with professional sports but college sports make me see red.
I have mixed feelings about pro sports. Dr.Bronxx pointed out some good things, and made me think. I think my problem is that it’s such a business. The minute money is involved in anything, it loses any fun value it ever had. People take it too seriously, and people get hurt because of it.
how about music, movies, art? they are all careers people make lots of money in when they are good. all of these high paying jobs are what people enjoy to unwind in their lives, how is it not money well spent?
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people still aren’t considering native americans
"They need to go back to their own country"..."so, what percentage of indigenous blood do you have in you?".."none".."GTFO, or...go pick fruit, work in a slaughterhouse, turn over hotel rooms, etc.."
This is a gross understatement. Although, I'm relieved to learn that white people are beginning to turn to Indigenous people to learn how to improve the environmental disasters they created in their all-encompassing greed. Guess the "ignorant savages" were better stewards of the environment than previously given credit for.
We never have. 😢 It’s one of the darkest shames of our country, along with slavery.
Yes, we in Canada look down on the USA for its Indian Wars and use of outdated language. People decended from the first humans to live in a place year-round are aboriginals in Canadian and Australian English. A "native" would be a person born in the place they live, so many aboriginal, maybe indigenous, or maybe a descendent of a settler or a conquoror/conquistador.
The aboriginal people who live in the US area have never to my knowledge largely wanted to be called "aboriginal". I've heard American Indian, Native American, First Nations, and various other terms, but never aboriginal (to date). My Ojibwe friend said he didn't like "Native American", though because of in Ojibwe, if you are third generation, you are native, so I was native, even though I was of European descent. He preferred American Indian as a general term, as did his grandmother, who was kind of a famous activist at one point.
Load More Replies...Canadians have all kinds of stuff for our indigenous peoples, such as reserved territories or teaching their languages in some schools.
Reservations and 'special schools' are not the flex you think they are.
Load More Replies...I have enough Cherokee blood to be considered indigenous, but I don't want any money or freebies from the government that I have the right to. Nothing was done to me, or my immediate family. Only ancient family members were stolen from. It's all in the past. We need to stop living under the black cloud of that past, and look to the future, where hopefully the skies are bright and clear.
It's all in the past. Are you kidding me?! F**k off if you think that. There is STILL a lot of terrible stuff being done. Open your eyes, maybe read a newspaper now and again. (Yes, they still have legitimate newspapers with legitimate reporters. They are all online.)
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the trend where everyone was making fun of android phones/people for having android phones was always weirdly classist
All my teammates had iPhones and kept trying to pressure me into getting one🤷🏻♀️I told them when they can show me something, that I need it do, that my android doesnt, I'll get one - eight years later....I'm still on an adroid ( a 5 year old one at that)
I chose iPhones solely because my computers are all Apple. My current iPhone initially came out in 2020. I bought it used, and I'll use it until it doesn't work. The only reason I bought it at all is because my old iPhone wasn't 5G capable. However, I don't really care what type of phone others use, and I think it's weird to care.
Load More Replies...I remember that. Ridiculous IMO. I’ve switched between the two (worked in electronic stores so needed to know how to use both) and they’re essentially the same. Meanwhile, my mother (as much as I adore her, which is a lot!) paid more for me to replace my dead Android phone with an iPhone because “she preferred the blue text bubble”. I don’t get the hate with one or the other. I just want a phone that works.
Android all the way. IPhones are over priced, over rated and obsolete as soon as they're available to buy
My dad had an android phone for a while. He hated it, called it his stupid phone. I think the phone just didn’t do what he wanted it to do. We really shouldn’t shame people for what technology they use because everyone has different needs.
I hate the iOS. I want nothing to do with it. I am PC and Android all the way because I want to be compatible with the corporate world when I need to be, and iOS dumbs down everything so that you don't learn how to do anything on your own.
Android devices and I don’t get along; I managed to brick two of them. But I don’t think less of people based on the gadgets they use. That’s just too small-minded.
You are a sane individual 😆 It really depends what you're doing/what you want out of a device. When I was using Android, I went all out using retro game emulators because gaming is my *thing*. It still is, and Android still does it better, so I have a separate device to do it (which is kind of annoying but first world problems, amirite?). Apple, now that I'm older, has more appeal because I just want stuff to work and have less time and patience to fiddle with it, but the price is disgusting (especially after the "tariff hike" that we got in Aus. A max-spec iPhone 16 Pro Max 1TB is dangerously close to AUS $3k now). If I was paying for my phone, you can bet I'd be buying something like a OnePlusWhatever-they're-up-to and not paying the exorbitant amount of an iPhone or a Samsung.
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tickling is normalised nonconsensual touch where pleas for stopping (if they are even able to be uttered) are willfully ignored
the ol' tickle tackle. that's fun to say lol. but definitely valid! I never did like being tickled.
Load More Replies...Tickle me, and you'll need to spend an ungodly amount of money before you can chew your next meal.
I broke up with a boyfriend because despite me telling him to stop several times, he persisted in tickling me. In the end I almost broke his finger to get him to stop. I have also dislocated my sister's jaw for tickling me when I was a child. She jabbed her fingers in my ribs when she came up behind me. I was bent over and jerked upright and my head connected with her jaw and dislocated it and chipped a tooth.
Yes. It's literally a*****e, and typically inflicted on those smaller than yourself.
If you're old enough, you'll remember so many authors complaining about aunties tickling them as toddlers and babies.
The first time you try to tickle me will also be the last time you try to tickle me
Stop and No should be the only words needed. People shouldn't have to have a safe work to make someone stop touching them. If someone says Stop or No, then they should freaking stop.
Load More Replies...My mum and brother used to tickle me, even though I said stop, until I peed myself often. I had to train myself not to be ticklish just to make it stop. Only sort of 'abuse' I was ever subject to, so it really surprises me when I think back on it. I do wonder if this was why I had a problem with incontinence when I laughed, all through school.
That the mindset of “I don’t owe anyone anything” is also destroying our country
Ironic that Musk says Social Security is a Ponzi Scheme. His employees will rely on that program when they get to retirement age. And he, as a billionaire, only pays SS tax on the first $170k of income. There is indeed a Ponzi Scheme going on, a billionaire paying old age tax on only the first $170k of income.
America has a culture problem more than anything else. Our basic principles (rugged individualism and Christianity) are backward and self-defeating.
Teachers are underpaid because it’s always been a female-dominated profession. With misogyny, you have a wage gap, ergo teachers are underpaid. The war on intellectualism is a direct result of the same misogyny.
When the majority of teachers were male, they were paid better and were more respected. Cooks used to be mostly women and it wasn't seen as a profession, men started cooking on l and "chefs" were born.
like there weren't male cooks since early history. im didn't do the research but is there evidence that in the past teacher was a well paying job and it shifted when women became teachers? in addition isn't the male/female teacher ratio in high schools about 50/50?
Load More Replies...in Europe and many other countries (maybe not us again, im not sure) teacher is actually a quite well paying profession, with lots of holidays and good secondary benefits.
Yet nurses are generally paid very well and it's a female-dominated profession with strong unions. I'd argue teachers are underpaid, especially in the US, because the pay is dependent on local property taxes. People HATE paying taxes. And paying teachers more would require higher taxes. We're stuck.
There's no need to rise taxes to pay teachers better salaries. You only need to spend it wisely. The problem is NOT lack of money, but priorities.
Load More Replies...Teachers are underpaid because Americans, at every income level are allergic to paying adequate taxes to fund the things they claim to care about. Public schools are funded primarily through property taxes. You want teachers to be paid more? Advocate that YOU pay higher taxes. Second, if women are systematically being paid less, why does anyone employ men? Hmm....well because the whole notion of the "pay gap" isn't based on actual salaries, but based upon lifetime earnings divided by the number of PRESUMED years of employment. That's it. It doesn't account for different jobs, different levels of education, hours worked...or for instances in which someone may have bowed out of the workforce for some period of time due to having children. If a woman is a nurse and a man is a doctor...there's going to be an earning disparity, the same as if the roles were reversed. That's not discrimination. The equal pay act went into effect in 1963. Different jobs have different value
In Canada, the majority of school teachers have always been female. And since the 1960s they've been one of the best paid professions that requires a simple three-year degree. (Now it requires a four-year degree.)
... best paid professions? Please do tell how making 60-90k a year while a pipeline monitor with no experience or even a high school education makes 200k+ a year makes teachers a best paid profession. My yoga instructor and hairdresser both make more than a teacher makes.My truck driver cousin makes double. A dental hygienist makes the same as a teacher.
Load More Replies...What I don't understand is if most caregivers and teachers are women why don't they teach children in a genderless manner instead of reinforcing the stereotypes. Kids' brains are like sponges, so teach them young that gender has nothing to do with reaching their goals or earning a livable salary.
its interesting in general when you think about it kids spend time with both parents, but daycare, kindergarten teachers, elementary school are mostly female dominated. high school is sort of 50/50. our societies kids are brought up for a very big part by women yet still we say they grow up in a patriarchy. where do these kids then learn these values while growing up when most raising is done by female role models during early development?
Load More Replies...It's a female-dominated profession because it's one in which you can work parttime. Many women still don't feel the need to work full-time because their partner does. As a consequence, there are labour shortages and waiting lists. If the women in my country worked 4 hours a week more than they do now, waiting lists would be significantly slashed. Just recently primary school teachers received a pay increase. As a consequence, teachers slashed their hours because they now can have the same income with fewer hours and this led to teacher shortages which, of course, is detrimental to the children.
Which teacher works part time? I mean, yeah, they surely exist, but part time jobs exist in every profession. Usually it's a full time job. Your "women are lazy and just want to work as little as possible" stinks of jealousy and misogyny. As if men wouldn't do the same. GTFO.
Load More Replies...Australian teachers are OVERpaid. $90K+/year and can't do basic maths or read properly.
Maybe complain to the proper authorities about the loser teachers you know rather than stereotyping an entire profession based on the worst ones? All doctors are bad because one misdiagnosed me. All lawyers are overpaid because I lost my case. All chefs are hacks because one overcooked my steak.
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Pronouns aren’t hard to use. Even if you disagree with how someone identifies, what does it truly cost you to just use the pronouns they align with? It tells me something about a person
I don't get why people share them when they introduce themselves when they just gave their name surely thats easier to uses someones name
Yes, when you’re talking to someone directly. It’s more for when you’re referring to them later with other people. “I was talking to Sam earlier. He/she/they were saying…”
Load More Replies...I agree. It’s about being civil. I may not agree with you but that’s my business. I don’t live your life and I don't have the right to tell you how to live.
Equally, you don't have the right to tell others that they have to put their pronouns on emails and user names. If someone chooses to put theirs they one should use them, but don't force it on the vast majority who are binary.
Load More Replies...People will literally apologise to my dog for misgendering her every single time. She doesn't care. Why not extend the same courtesy to a human being?
The one I struggle with is They/Them. Not because I judge or anything but because its not proper English. Id rather just refer to their name.
Which also works but singular they/them IS proper English https://www.merriam-webster.com/wordplay/singular-nonbinary-they
Load More Replies..."Pronouns aren't hard to use," lol. This person actually is just spouting stuff like a parrot. Of course it's not hard to use. It would be VERY hard to not use pronouns. We ALL use pronouns. It's nearly impossible to speak without using them. What they mean, is "Using someone's preferred pronouns that don't align with their appearance is not hard to do."
Sure, for many of us old farts it is grammatically jarring. At first. But the bottom line is what harm is it to you to use a designation if it puts another person at ease? Change can be jarring, but evolution depends on change, so get over it already.
It isn't necessarily hard, but it is also prone to mistakes. A friend had two boys. One transitioned to female according to them, but doesn't dress feminine or look feminine in any way. I was introduced to the individual but there's just zero visual cue that they're now female. It's very easy to slip up and say "him" or "his". The second boy was non-binary for several years, and that's a whole different challenge. Also simply looks masculine, so training myself to say "they/them" instead of "he/him" is still very unnatural to me.
I am fully sure that they appreciate your effort, even if you aren't perfect with it. If you try and do it once in a while they will notice and appreciate it! (except the rare ungrateful d****e who expects perfection from everyone, ignore them)
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being in a frat/sorority is a red flag and create shallow humans
When I was in college, I found Fraternity Row a great asset. It concentrated in one small area a group of men and women with whom I would have otherwise come into contact much more often.
Here in Canada, they exist, but in a very limited tiny amount. So obviously they're not essential. We also do not have anywhere near so many athletic scholarships. We have sports, but universities are supposed to be for academic learning, not putting on huge sports demonstrations for spectators.
That depends on why a person is in a sorority or fraternity. Are they looking for the opportunity to make connections and do genuinely good work for other people or are they simply joining for personal clout?
The Black fraternities and sororities tend to do a lot of good things, like support charities and provide community for their members. White fraternities and sororities have more of a mixed track record. Some of them are just kids having fun. Some of them are sociopathic future finance bros.
Load More Replies...Never was in one, but hard disagree. My coworker is still active with his frat. Four years of partying turned into a lifetime of service in every community he touches. And that not the only story I've seen with that outcome.
I fail to see how not joining a frat would stop you from performing a 'lifetime of service'.
Load More Replies...It's obvious you learned everything you know about fraternities from movies.
My woke take is body neutrality. stop saying all bodies are beautiful—we shouldn’t care what our bodies look like as long as they serve their purpose. trying to say people are beautiful will inevitably lead to saying other people are ugly and the cycle continues over and over. we shouldn’t have beauty standards at all.
That's a good take! It reminds me of the cliche of "the disabled person who made a great discovery". Disabled people shouldn't have to do great things to be allowed to live, and in a similar spirit bodies shouldn't need to be called 'beautiful' in order for the person living inside them to be left in peace.
That is wishful thinking. Even in nature when it comes to mating there has to be some kind of attraction. That does not mean that people who are less attractive than what you may like should be made to feel bad but people cant help what they are attracted to.
Except we all have eyes. Every day I see people. Thousands a day. Some are physically beautiful, some are not. Are they all equal as people? Sure. But can I pretend that I feel neutral visually about every one of them? God no.
aren't there general rules for beauty? like on average a vast majority of people dont like morbid obesity, bad skin, bearded ladies, bad teeth, unibrows, greasy hair, etc?
Load More Replies...You can't do away with beauty standards as a whole because people are attracted to other people and to certain aspects and those are quite universal (generally speaking, there are always exceptions of course).
All bodies, face people are not, nor will they ever all be beautiful. Beauty is rare, exceptional. Saying everyone is beautiful is the same as saying no one is.....but that's not the point. The rise of body positivity, "healthy at any size" and the narrative that the only reason morbid obesity is viewed negatively is due to "unrealistic beauty standards" No...it's the fact that obesity increases the risk for heart disease, kidney disease, fatty liver disease, lung disease and a myriad of cancers. Less than 60 years ago, the obesity rate in the US was 13.4% for adults and 4% for children. Today, it's over 40% for adults, 20% of which are morbidly obese and 21% for children. Type 2 diabetes cases have increased from 200K in 1960, to nearly 40 million today, with another 140 million people being classified as "pre-diabetic" $300 billion in health care costs and $1.4 trillion in lost productivity. It's not normal, it's not healthy and it's not something to be ignored.
My non-woke view is the same. We need to focus on what we are inside, not what we look like outside, not on who our parents or grandparents were but on what we outselves do.
Beauty is very subjective anyway. Not just in the way where I might find this vase petty while others feel that it's ugly, but our own perception can change completely from emotions. I had a huge crush on a man when I was younger. He was by any objective standard an ugly man. Looked like a bald goose. Really, nothing conventionally attractive about his looks. But the more I loved him, the more beautiful I saw him, even though I still knew that he was not. If you "go close enough", everyone is just as beautiful and just as ugly as anyone else, it all just depends on how you feel about them. You can admire the very pores of the skin on someone you love, and be repulsed by the same on someone you dislike.
Everybody, even criminals- especially those labeled as criminals, deserve to be treated with the same decency and respect as any other human being. The minute we take away rights for 'some' people, we take away rights for ALL people.
All people should be regarded as having inherent dignity, but should also face appropriate consequences for their decisions consistently, whether those are positive, neutral, or negative.
Especially if these criminals have served their court sentence. To continue punishing them by restricting housing, employment, and the right to vote is hubris. If they were treated as humans, the recidivism rate would decrease.
I'm Jewish but I believe in free speech for Nazis for that very reason.
Barbra Jordan, A democrat and the first black woman to be elected to the texas senate spearheaded the committee for immigration reform in 1994 "The world is not a playground, but a classroom. Prior to 1965, immigrents had to prove they would be a valuable addition to the US population. Education, skills, create jobs or bring investments. After 1965, a loophole was introduced in which those who earned their place, could sponsor....whomever they wanted....and so on and so forth. This has had negative consequences.....and fixing this loophole has been a bipartisan effort until recently. But....it was blocked by corporations looking to maintain their source of cheap labor, AND to keep wages low for everyone else. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIpZDbQ_RlI explains it in more detail, but the takeaway should very much be, schoolroom, not playground. If you want a playground, look elsewhere.
Rights come with responsibilities, if you fail to live up to those responsibilities, you are forfeiting your rights. That's why we have prisons, that's why we have s*x offender registries, that's why peado's aren't allowed within 500 feet of schools or parks, that's why negligent or a*****e parents have their children taken away, why deadbeats and thieves have their wages garnished.
Giving rights to people who would happily take those rights away from others makes us better. It's not always satisfying, but the satisfying thing is not always the right thing.
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there is no peaceful solution to our current situation
Unfortunately, I have to agree. How many pacifist revolutions had ended with a true winning of rights? There have been in history some, but most of our rights, 8h a day work, universal healthcare, work rights... Had to be won by force. Violence is the last resource, but never forget it IS a resource...
Huh? Every right you listed was won at the ballot box.
Load More Replies...Well, someone isn't going to let it go. We're already experimenting with Federal troops engaging in quelling protests.
Load More Replies...Wrong! The last thing we need is to add even more violence to our world. Burning down the courthouse isn't going to change the law that you want abolished.
Depends if that courthouse is actually following and/or upholding the law that they're prescribed to. When they stop doing that then something needs to be done.
Load More Replies...The statement provides no details about what the non-peaceful solution would be.
1.American Revolution – 1775–1783 2.French Revolution – 1789–1799 3.Haitian Revolution – 1791–1804 4.Latin American Wars of Independence – c. 1810–1825 5.Mexican Revolution – 1910–1920 6.Russian Revolution – 1917 7.Chinese Communist Revolution – 1945–1949 8.Vietnamese Revolution / War of Independence – 1945–1975 , Just some examples, I could go on though but I guess I have painted a picture
Load More Replies...This reminds me of someone posting "bombs never brought peace" about bombing Iran. Really? Ask Japan. How do so many people not remember history and/or can't draw lessons from it.
Personally, I think it's time to reenact the French Revolution on American soil. Lets start with mobs attacking ICE and sending those disgusting creatures back to the hole they crawled out of.
headcannoning strong women as Trans men is basically saying women can't be strong and independent ex: maomao, Joan of arc and other fictional and non fictional women
This while archeologists are uncovering more burial sites of female warriors and also proving that the Amazon warriors were not only real, but a terrible force to be reckoned with.
This kind of ties into the thing where men are made fun of for wearing traditionally women's clothes while women are not made fun of as much for wearing traditionally men's clothes. Femininity is often associated with weakness, which in today's day and age really sucks.
FFS. Not everybody who doesn’t fit the usual gender expectations is trans. Only the person in question can say if they are trans. If they say they are, then they are. And everybody deserves to be treated with respect.
Some virtue-signalling "historians" have suggested that people like Joan of Arc were more likely to be trans men than strong women.
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everyone is too damn mean
Not everyone, but many are. Unfortunately, often mean begets mean. I would imagine those who are constantly mean feel miserable. So, ultimately, being mean is mean to yourself..?
Human behaviour is contagious; the more there is of one kind, the more it spreads. Instead of spending time around mean people and comments, maybe consider searching out "good news" sites if only to leaven the pain of the news (e.g., The Good News Network, The Happy Broadcast, freekibble, and so forth). Also, start skipping the news stories that you know will just upset you, but that there's literally nothing you can do about it. Spend a bit of time in prayer and meditation, and guard your heart through exposure to human good, not evil.
Some people are mean, many are not mean enough. Many have been manipulated, gulited, shamed and gaslit into either silence or to actively support things they don't like, that they have known would have massive consequences further down the line because they didn't want to be seen as bad/mean/intolerant. That many are now finding their voice again, standing on their principals and voicing their own beliefs isn't an attempt at being mean...it's standing up against those who are.
People who "do it for attention" often need help too
Yeah I don’t get the “they are just acting out because they want attention so just ignore them.” Human beings need attention and to feel heard and seen.
Human beings also need to be taught how to behave. If every time your child throws a tantrum, and you respond by showering them with attention and treats....that reenforces bad behavior...and they grow up to be insufferable, entitled adults who believe that the best way to get what they want is to make everyone around them miserable or uncomfortable. In fact, we've seen that eventuality on display....pretty much everywhere for the past decade or so. You want to feel heard and seen? Communicate it in a clear, calm, healthy and mature manner.
Load More Replies...Call 411. Ask for "community mental health center." Make appointment. Stop putting on a show.
Why the difference between female and male PhD candidates?
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I did not care for the godfather.
It has a valid point to make, its insisting! haha
Load More Replies...Perfectly reasonable. There are plenty of movies lauded by the industry, critics, and viewers that I just didn't like.
Don't know about the fandom of the series, but as far as I know, not liking one movie isn't the end of the world.
Godfather, Sopranos, and any of that mafia/mob/gangster s**t is garbage. I like watching interesting things, not thugs.
I never watched the Godfather. Or Interstellar, any of the James Bond movies, Titanic, any of the fast and furious movies, any Zorro, fight club, Forrest Gump, 2001 Space Odyssey, Schindler's list... And I honestly don't care about those movies (while still understanding the impact they had on Cinema)
The ENTIRE way the world is set up has got to go. Humans were not made for this kind of forced work. We are trapped.
These kind of statements are always so weird. Life is easier now in the last hundred years than it ever was before for previous humans. Humans are not made to work, but also not to drive cars, eat processed foods, drink alcohol, use guns, etc.
I disagree with this perspective. I mean, on the surface, you're right, but none of us are free of the influence of society. We've essentially moralised productivity, 'welfare' has been made into a dirty word by politicians, housing is treated as a luxury instead of a human right, healthy food is expensive, some jobs require both a driving licence and access to your own vehicle, in some countries, a job is practically a prerequisite to accessing medical care. On the surface we all have choices, but when it comes to survival, we have less than it might initially seem
Load More Replies...The sheep must eat of it starves. Other sheep cannot do its eating for it. Like sheep, we are made for this. Where do you live that has forced work? Most countries provide people a choice of jobs and employers, including self-employment. And most countries have a social welfare system that prevents people actually starving. In most countries forced work only exists as a party of misandry, conscription into the military for some years, or as the universal evil of slavery.
In 1900 40% of americans worked in agriculture, and 31% in manufacturing. Today, 66% of the workforce sits in air conditioned offices. Farmers, woke before dawn, and worked until sunset...children often began working the farm at 5 or 6 years old (in fact child labor laws didn't go into effect until 1941) No machinery, no electricity. Horses, oxen and blood sweat and tears. If you didn't work, you didn't eat. Wanted a house? YOU built it. Clothing? YOU made it. Manufacturing jobs had no safety standards, no health standards, no vacation or sick days, and you worked 12/14/16 hours per day because there was no minimum wage and no job security. They built bridges and skyscrapers with HAND TOOLS. The 40 hour work week hasn't even been around for a century, prior to that, everyone lived to work. In fact, at least a couple billion people today, continue to live by the standards of a hundred + years ago.
In fact....your "ZOMG SO CUTE" fast fashion clothing? Child labor. Mineral fertilizer for the food you take pics of for instagram? Child labor. Chocolate? Child labor. Iphone, ipad, samsung? Child labor! Trendy sneakers? Child labor. Exotic fruits, metals, flowers, baked goods...In fact ya know what, https://www.dol.gov/agencies/ilab/reports/child-labor/list-of-goods?page=0 that's a list of products sold in western markets that use both child labor AND child SLAVE LABOR. That you think you have it bad, only shows to show just how sheltered and ignorant you actually are.
Load More Replies...Why do people think that capitalism invented work? We've worked hard since caveman days. Food doesn't fall from the sky.
But it does grow on trees. And bushes, and in the ground. It appears in nests and dens...
Load More Replies...I don't buy this. Humans used to have to literally work every single day of their lives to hunt/gather food just to eat. Keep themselves safe from predators. To literally just not die. And you're pretending that the 40 hr work week is somehow the worst thing humanity has ever faced? Sorry, but not a chance.
Most people actually did the basics to survive and then had far more time to relax
Load More Replies...Music and art is political. So are comics and the vast majority of literature. I’m tired of seeing people be like “why are they bringing politics into everything?”
Politics are core beliefs. Politics aren't brought to anything - they exist in everything already.
Yes, politics are in everything. It is how we decide issue that have no obvious right or wrong answer. How a group decides where to hold the Christmas party. How we decide if your university will expand the Faculty of Commerce or the Faculty of Arts. How we decide which side of some stupid war on the far side of the earth we're going to bomb back into the stone age. Whether our country (whichever country that is) continues with democracy, or whether we just agree to let a political and bureaucratic priesthood and their professional trolls decide everything for us. Whether we resume slavery. But a wise person changes their political beliefs and allegiances throughout their life.
Load More Replies...Art can often be used to spread propaganda and such (like art forms like soviet realism), but that doesn’t make the entire concept of art political. Political artworks are a small form of art, but there are many others that have nothing to do with politics. I mean, would you call ancient cave paintings political?
When people object to being politics being brought in, it's usually politics they don't agree with or issues they'd rather not face.
Will Rogers was very popular BECAUSE he called out hypocritical politics, and is why Jon Stewart is so d**n popular today.
B-but Jon Stewart is a BOOMER! How can he be funny? /s
Load More Replies...Yes, I could see myself voting differently after listening to Agadoo and the Birdie song...
A wise person changes their political beliefs and allegiances throughout their life. You can try to influence your party, but do not let sentimentality or conformity make you continue supporting a party that now steadfastly stands against you.
Politics are how we decide issues that have no obvious right or wrong answer. Totalitarianism is when you think politics is how you justify shunning and jailing people who have different lived experiences and thus different opinions on what the right answer is. When someone holds a political belief that 90% of us disagree with, they are either stupid or brilliant. At 90% it isn't really a political issue any more. But easily, 75% of us can be wrong about a political choice -- look at the USA and slavery or Christianity and slavery or Judeausim and slavery or Hinduism and slavery. Look back on YOUR OWN LIFE, how many issues have you changed your position on?
The most braindead claim I've seen was some aß complaining about Superman "going woke". Superman has always stood for justice and defended the rights of minorities so he's always been woke and always been political
When I was a boy, the TV Superman show said he stood for "truth, justice, and the American way!" This confused me because I thought truth and justice were already the American way.
Load More Replies...It can be. The musical "South Pacific" had a political message. It was banned in the South. "Phantom of the Opera" is just entertainment.
misogyny and misandry will never be on the same level and shouldnt be treated like they are
Incorrect. The effects of misogyny and misandry will most likely never be on the same level. Misogyny and misandry should be treated with the same level of contempt.
even saying misogony is worse but both are wrong will still get you downvoted apparantlly.
Load More Replies...Nobody was ever sent to war to die because they were a young woman. Nobody on a sinking ship ever said, "Men and children first".
The 'women and children first' phrase is in itself misogynistic since it implies that men are more capable of saving themselves than women and that women are as capable as children
Load More Replies...That there's no difference between a religion and a cult.
Pushback: The belief in a higher power, that this universe has intelligent design, is not cultish. The belief that your subset is the ONLY 'true' way to get there IS cultish.
I'd say it's a spectrum. The harder it is to leave, the more of a cult it is. I left my religion no problem.
Cults isolate their members while most religions don't do that, there are more differences but both enslave people in different ways.
Fundamentalist religions definitely isolate their members.
Load More Replies..."A cult is a religion without political power." - Tom Wolfe. I'm not sure that's true any more.
Things that are not a religion can be a cult. MAGA is a cult. Extreme capitalism is a cult. Communism in most countries where it was practiced was a cult.
Mostly I totally agree. But to nitpick: In some contexts cult is a broader term. Apple fanbois (aka iPhone and iStuff enthusiasts) are members of a cult. *Maybe* that cult is founded on a myth, but would anyone call it a religion? But yeah, mostly I agree.
In my opinion, while religions haven't always done the best things, anti-religion claims like this area also unreasonable. Religion is just the belief and worship of a higher power, like a god. While religion is sometimes weaponized, it can also do good in society (e.g. voluntary/obligatory donations under Islamic law, etc). Cults work through authoritarian structure and controlling what people believe, while many religions promote individual thought and open-mindedness. Personally, I am not religious at all, but come on. The increasing villainizing of religion these days is kind of insane.
People who are neutral over politics are the stupidest people I’ve ever met. “And the world kept spinning” how can you be so insensitive and desensitized to pain and suffering just because it isn’t your own? They’ll come after you next.
There's a difference with being actually neutral and focussing on what you can control. I stay out of big politics because it is nothing more than a circus, but I will be at all the community meetings for my neighborhood that I can.
But that's the point - by doing that you ARE taking part in "big politics". Nobody talks about you having to become an MP or senator or anything.
Load More Replies...@Becky, no more (or less, mind) than the rest of the world for both the racism and the environmental situation. Mandatory voting doesn't actually mean you have to *vote*. I mean, if you're true neutral and wanted to be immature you could draw an eggplant on your voting paper. Mandatory voting means you have to submit a piece of paper. It doesn't require you to actually have an opinion.
Load More Replies...Give me the courage to change what I cannot accept, to accept what I cannot change, and the wisdom to know the difference.
In the 2-party US system it's nearly impossible to choose a side. The GOP are disgusting, but the Democrats are weak and cowardly. Maybe if I lived in a country with options I'd be more active.
True neutrality is probably a myth. In most cases what people claim is being neutral is not caring.
Whether you as an individual are left or right, nothing really changes in the world. Getting involved in the political debates just end with arguments and no matter who wins that argument, still nothing changes.
Oh yeah? Are we still having legal slavery? Are women still not allowed to vote? Is being gay still a crime? Is marital r**e still legal? Is gay marriage still illegal? Do workers still have no rights to a weekend? Apart from the first 3 these are changes that I have seen in MY lifetime - and I'm 54. We can go on with this, but the point is clear: change DOES happen. And whoever tells you otherwise lies to you in order to keep you quiet.
Load More Replies...IME (which obviously won’t be the same for everyone) ‘true neutral’ when it comes to politics means “I don’t know enough about it to formulate/have an opinion”. And honestly, I’d prefer that over them being some nitwit that says “the sky is green!!” and not being able to prove sh!t to confirm that.
You need to meet some totalitarians. Many of them somehow manage to be even stupider.
Unfortunately, I think a lot of this is the result of politics itself and evolution. People are overworked, overwhelmed, undereducated, lied to by politicians and the media constantly, and feel powerless. To protect ourselves, without us even being aware of it, our brains begin to justify and support even unjust systems, because that justification and support spares us uncertainty and anxiety, even guilt, and avoiding those is really important to our wellbeing. I genuinely believe we need to empower people to engage with politics, but if you're interested in what I've said, look up System Justification Theory Jost and Banaji, 1994 (and following work)
the reason why a lot of teens are depressed is because the internet doesn't allow them to be teenagers because the internet think it's "cringe"
They can't be as cringe as we were because there will be photos of it all. We were lucky we can pretend we weren't so bad because there's no photographic evidence.
Kids are depressed because they compare themselves to others on social media all the time, get false senses of what they need to accomplish, get their heads filled with weird messages and ideas, and spend too much time just doom scrolling when they are bored instead of actually doing something.
No, it's because their moronic parents hand them an iPad as toddlers and give them iPhones as tweens. Want your kid to succeed in the miasma of social media? Give them a flip phone, use parental control on their computers. In other words, start taking responsibility for raising your own children.
A lot of it is hormonal imbalance. Look at it the same way as postpartum depression it happened way before the internet we are now just more aware of it.
I was very glad to grow up and get out of my childhood and teenage years. I'm from way before the Internet and many teenagers were depressed as heck. In the 1960 and 70s, depression, s**ide and so on, very high for teenagers, and like now, much higher for boys than girls. S**ide rate is the best comparator for severe depression, because the defintions of the different levels of depression and the availability of diagnosticians has varied so much over the years and between subcultures and cultures. Visits to physcologists and counsellors are higher now, but due to the much higher availablity and much lower stigma. Just because people in famine-struck countries do not get diagnoised with clinical depression or dysthemia at higher rates than developed countries does not mean they are not depressed -- simply the resources to diagnose them are not there.
The Internet allows you to be whatever you want to be. Other teens keep teens from being who they are.
People who can’t function without AI never grew up reading & writing enough
How many of these people supposedly exist? AI has barely even been out for a year or two. I call BS on this.
LOL! I asked ChatGP to "Write a single paragraph that expounds on the point of view: I hate AI." This is what it wrote: "I hate AI because it feels like a constant reminder of how quickly humanity is handing over its creativity, decision-making, and even emotional labor to machines that lack genuine understanding or empathy. It’s unsettling to watch industries, art forms, and even relationships become mediated by algorithms that mimic rather than feel, predict rather than understand. Instead of empowering people, AI often reinforces inequality, automates jobs out of existence, and invades privacy under the guise of convenience. The more AI evolves, the more it seems to reduce human uniqueness to data points and probability models, making life feel less personal, less authentic, and more controlled by forces we neither see nor fully comprehend."
I was beyond annoyed when the first listing in all my Google searches was AI, which upon further investigation frequently gave misinformation. Fortunately, I found a way to delete that search response.
I assume OP excepts people with disabilities; if not, I disagree to an extent. Otherwise, yes, a person learning to read and write should begin from the day parents find out they are expecting to the fullest extent possible, in my view!
People are way too mean and lack empathy skills because of the internet/ phones
What was the excuse before phones? And social media does more harm than phones.
children are some of the most overlooked and undervalued people, and no one cares. they have so i little autonomy
Parents act like they are possessions and people without kids don't realize they are needed for a functioning society. It takes a society and everyone should care about the next generation being raised.
What makes you think that just because a person decides not to have children they wouldn't realise children's worth for society? Are you dumb?
Load More Replies...My kid tried to put his foot on the inside of the oven door after it had been at 450F for 2 hours. I'm not trying to take away his autonomy or independence by any means.... but kids are not at the same level as adults either. They're still developing mentally and emotionally; there's plenty of things that parents should decide for them until they mature enough. The fact that my kid listened to an impulse instead of thinking the consequences of placing his foot on a HOT oven door pretty much proves that it's a good thing we're making the important decisions for him, LOL.
Now imagine a child in the care system. They’re not even people anymore.
i dont think people realize how much indian hate and general racism is getting normalized because everyone thinks it's funny.. why are we viewing different cultures as lesser
I have noticed how some ignorant people are rather quick to mock other countries, or judge them for their traditions. Ignorance is one thing, it can be solved wi5 some open mindedness, some exposure, some research. But being discriminatory on top of it? That’s just ridiculous.
This site is full of that. How many times are there posts mocking the United States and our culture?
Load More Replies...There’s a whole thing where racist Indian accents are seen as a funny thing to do. My brother does this. I don’t understand it.
I agree so much. I remember when I was younger and Chinese hate was "all the thing". I had a woman (mother of a primary school friend; lost contact after primary school) make some "joke" about "ching chong" b******t and used her fingers to do the whole slanty eye thing. I just raised my eyebrows and said "... really?" at her. I think I might have been 14 or 15 at the time. Like, b***h, you say you're not describing me but you essentially could be (I'm South Korean born). But mores to the point, nobody deserves that sort of racism -- it's not cute, funny or anything. It's gross. It's not less gross because you know me and know that I'm not likely to "ching chong" at you or whatever. I hope she got from the vibe I was giving off that she was a racist ****, but given how ignorant she was to do it in the first place, who knows.
If a mother carries a child for nine months, it only makes sense that the child should carry her name not the fathers
Ypz can name a child as you wish fathers last name is more traditional but still a choice.
Hereditary benefits, like titles and such should always follow the female line. Then it's an absolute that the genetic line is true.
don't know why it gets downvoted, makes biological sense. you are always sure who the mom is (looking at you game of thrones and house of the dragon)
Load More Replies...But if the mom takes the dad's name, in a traditional marriage, isn't the chid's name her name?
Okay, but you just disconnected the child from economic benefits it requires.
Nobody should be forced to be a parent. Forcing them is part of why we give the child the "father's" name -- the disgrace of not supporting a child that bares your name, which would have meant that the parish needed to support the baby and mother instead. I agree with Alexandra too, traditionally only the mother knows for certain the child is her. And yes, the mother is the one that did the carrying baby. I think in modern times it does make more sense for the baby to carry the mother's name.
Whoever has the more attractive name should be the one to pass it on. Ugly names need to be allowed to dīe out.
it is the damn phone
the age of consent should be higher
So when I was 16 and my girlfriend was 16 and we banged consensually, should we have been prosecuted for it??
In a perfect world, George, I agree with your sentiment. Problem is that, if there's an age gap, the older person could (and there are numerous criminal cases showing that people have) influenced the younger to state that there was consent when there wasn't. Given that, you'd have been fine to bang your GF where I live, because 16 is the age of consent. 😆
Load More Replies...I guess this is meant to protect the vulnerable from being preyed upon (or at least be able to go after the predator afterwards) - which I heartily approve of. However: just because they're not allowed to won't make people wait with having séx. I can already see dozens of outraged parents of 19 YOs having it out against each other because their child got slept with a fellow student.
so what should be legal age of consent? and whats the problem with 18? at 18 you can drive, you can drink (in europe), you can enlist for the army, take out student loans that will haunt you forever, but not have s*x?
In Australia the age of consent is 16, as long as the partner is no more than 2 years older, which I think is a fair system.
Load More Replies...While I don't think all 18 year olds are mature enough to make their own decisions, taking the agency away from adults to make their own choices in an arbitrary and ham fisted way to protect people is not the answer. I do think there should be more protections against exploitation, however.
I think the law should be half you age plus 7 for everyone. I refuse to believe 18 is some magical age where everyone is mature or that age is even a great indicator of maturity.
CP, you're talking about age gaps, and they still require a minimum age of consent. Without one, a 12-year-old could legally be in a séxual relationship with a 13-year-old.
Load More Replies...So should the voting age. The human brain does not fully mature until approximately 25 years old. No wonder the USians voted in such abhorrent individuals.
How many people contemplating having s*x said, "Stop. Let me consult the Revised Statutes to see if this is legal"? Did you? Most of these are simplistically stupid. This is the stupidest.
I don't think furrys / therians are bad. as long as they're not trying to get down and dirty with animals, then good for them. if you feel you were meant to be an animal, go crazy, walk on all fours, just remember decency, and be respectful
hi, furry here!! I want to clarify that people who want to have s*x with animals are NOT welcome in our community and are actively shunned by the majority. unfortunately, there are a lot of zoophiles that worm their way into our community, but I promise you, a majority of us do NOT want them here. I just like anthropomorphic animals! My fursona is an aardvark by the way if anyone was curious lol
Kind of like how I'd f**k Judy Hopps, but not an actual rabbit.
Load More Replies...polyamory should be considered normal why do people gaf abt what other people CONSENSUALLY do in their relationships
Polyamory does not fit the common definition of "normal", meaning commonplace or typical. However, it certainly merits the classification of "acceptable" (and no one's d**n business, too).
It’s not for me, but I don’t care if other people do it.
Not just for polyamory, but for a whole range of topics: we don't have to normalize something to respect and accept it. For example (as someone who is myself gay): being gay is not normal just in the sense that most people are not gay. That doesn't mean it's wrong and it doesn't mean anyone should be judged or disrespected for it; it just means that objectively, when you look at the numbers, it is not the normal occurrence. It's just the same as any other "quirk" that is less common, like having a missing finger or something. It's not normal; it just is, and it should not serve as a reflection on anyone's character. (I know these are sensitive topics; if any of the language I used was insensitive or disrespectful, I apologize and please let me know).
I completely agree with you, as an ace person. Statistically, we aren’t normal. Does that mean we should be shunned or, in the case of gay/trans people, harassed and at worst, assaulted or killed? Absolutely not.
Load More Replies...I'd be interested in knowing the science. Living in communes ("free love") was once touted as a good thing; however, subsequent consequences included shattered hearts, broken relationships, and messed up children. Believing something is desirable needs to be subject to actual intelligent observation and investigation. If you're familiar with history, you'll find the concept popping up frequently over the centuries, usually an idea floated by young males, and usually the consequences to females are quite poor. And worse to their children. Look it up.
The consequences you attribute to free love often occur with monogamy. Can anyone say something that uniquely means something?
Load More Replies...If you're meaning 'normal' as typical... then it's not. Sorry. If you're meaning people shouldn't hate on it just because they personally wouldn't engage in it, then absolutely I agree. Live and let live in this instance. It's not like polyamorous people are going off and molesting children in their spare time.
im not pro choice, I'm anti birth. i dont think that having your own baby is justifiable when there are so many children without homes being abused in the foster care system. I dont care about blood, just save one of those kids.
Are you adopting foster children? Are you practicing what you preach?
The op didn’t say that everyone should adopt kids , they said people who want kids should .
Load More Replies...I used to rhink that to. Now I realise more than half of character is inherited and almost 90 percent intelligence so I really don't want my kids to live in a society made mostly from people with inherited genes for substance abuse, mental and behavioral issues etc
Not many libertarians here, although that seemed to be the unspoken promise.
This is why I'm anti-IVF. Trust me, your DNA is not special. DNA doesn't make a family (don't confuse family with relatives!). Our planet can't support all you clowns insisting on your DNA birth-only decisions.
why do you care how people have kids? to the point you are against ivf.
Load More Replies...I disagree with OP, but the children they talk about are already there. They just live in s****y situations. And we're 8 billion, our *species" is in no danger to die out. Also: f**k race, nobody needs that s**t.
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“The clean girl aesthetic” is a symptom/sign/cause of a huge step backwards to a traditional white patriarchy
"It emphasizes a natural, fresh-faced look, typically achieved through a focus on skincare routines that prioritize healthy, "glowy" skin, and simple makeup application with neutral tones and sheer coverage." So basically, people stating that they wear no makeup while wearing makeup and making young people view their "perfect" skin as something normal and easily available when it's not. And it create anxiety and insecurities.
Load More Replies...They are starting to realise that they don't like their life. And I'm not even joking, several tradwives have made videos about their divorce in the past month.
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Purposefully having children in todays world is lowkey unethical
Kids are the hope for the future. They could solve today's problems. A hundred years from now almost all of the people existing now will be gone.
They may be hope, but not at the rate they're being pumped out. "The United Nations predicts there'll be another 2 billion people on the planet by 2061, peaking at 10.3 billion in the mid-2080s." This despite the fact that our planet has been screaming that it's running out of land and resources.
Load More Replies...I’m torn on this one. I don’t want to be the one to say to anyone you’re not allowed children, especially since I’ve had them myself. But as a grandmother I’m scared for the next generations to come.
This is the BEST time in history read a history book for christs sake there will never be a perfect time
It’s a shïtty world, and I wouldn’t bring a child into it. And if you say, “but your child could make things better,” then that child is born with a job. Not cool.
Birth rate has severely declined. Countries need more babies or more immigrants.
If all TV and movies followed the Bechdel test, young men would not be so “lonely” as they are today.
feel this is pretty nonsense. for example lord of the rings is one of my favorite movies but doesn't have two or more women talking. shawshank redemption, cast away, matrix, starship troopers, forrest gump, the first avengers movie, all good movies that would not pass that test but are generally seen as great movies. and don't think any of those made men more lonely.
Way too much faith is put into the Bechdel test. It is extremely basic, and not meant to be taken so seriously.
Same goes for BMI and still it's widely used. A coarse tool is better than no tool at all.
Load More Replies...For those unfamiliar with the "test": "The test asks whether a work features at least two women who have a conversation about something other than a man."
does it really have a correlation though? does watching mean girls or legally blond make men treat women better?
Load More Replies...statistics don’t justify hate. you cannot hate entire groups of people based on statistics or really anything.
Statistics need context in order to be meaningful. "X demographic is more likely to do Y" does not mean their being part of that demographic is the cause.
I've never felt the need to justify my hate. I hate cooked carrots, but not all root vegetables. Part of the reason why I'm not a racist is that I don't hate an entire group because that's stupid, but I can, and have, hated the a-holes within a racial group. No statistics necessary.
we need to be a little violent to get what we want. we ARE too soft. maybe that’s not woke but idk i’m tired of people saying violence isn’t the answer when sometimes is literally the only answer
Still think the US requires a French Revolution Redux. But then, I've always had a bit of an anarchist spirit.
Disney casting woc as originally white characters is not that deep idk why people are so upset about it especially when race has nothing to do with the story
I think the bigger issue is the laziness around it. European stories and Culture, while fascinating, has been done to death. We need more cultures and their stories represented in media.
Exactly! Rather than making European characters multiracial, we should make a whole new movie instead.
Load More Replies...I mean, I can see why some people would protest casting a darker-skinned actress to play a character named "Snow White" for her "skin as white as snow". I do think more representation of different people and cultures is a good thing but this isn't the best way to go.
I'm not angry about a previously white character being a person of colour. I'm frustrated with the laziness and transparency behind it. It's tokenistic in many cases. It feels like an attempt by studios to show off their "progressive" credentials without actually doing anything truly progressive. Bringing more diversity into legacy characters is ok, but it needs to be balanced with more grassroots support for diverse artists and more diverse storytelling to get closer to a truly level field.
The nonchalant epidemic gotta stop
Why? Is worrying yourself sick productive? Is ranting and raving about a situation you have no control over productive? Remaining calm allows you to think of options and approaches to improve a situation. Unless of course the term nonchalant was mistakenly used instead of apathetic which has a totally different meaning.
I think Hollywood makes bad "woke" movies to get people against their movements and put them in a right wing pipeline
At least it becomes noticeable that movies with a female lead seem to get less resources for good screenwriting...
Screenwriting doesnt need budget. You could write a masterpiece with nothing
Load More Replies...I won't watch "woke" white-savior movies. As soon as I read that the leading white character is going into the inner city to save the community, I cross it off my list no matter the accolades.
Situationship culture has ruined love and it’s irreversible
Another statement which isn't woke at all. It's not progressive - in fact it suggests cultural decline, which indicates a conservative viewpoint.
That's an interesting perspective. I understand conservatism is about upholding tradition and the status quo, but is it really automatically conservative to point out problems in modern society? I mean if I point out that post WWII THE UK's NHS was better funded and that it's been gutted by years of budget cuts, does that make me conservative?
Load More Replies...What is situationship culture? You people invent new phrasing and words faster than I can keep up.
It's the idea of having an ill-defined physcial and/or romantic relationship with someone. Not quite casual but also not quite committed.
Load More Replies...“I’m just a girl” originally served as a juxtaposition to “boys will be boys” but it lost the plot bc it perpetuated so many stereotypes
Boys will be boys - all their lives if you don't do something about it.
If you want to be self-deprecating, whatever, but to pull an entire gender down isn't. Referring to women as girls is a gross insult and it feeds into the pervasive misogyny (which btw is the oldest form of terror!sm known to humans. Think about that!).
I don't use AI, and I genuinely think I'm better than people who do use it.
AI is a tool, nothing more. If it enhances your capabilities, that's when it's used correctly. If you use it to replace your capabilities, that's when it's wrong.
The main problem of AI isn't how it's used, it's that it pollutes A LOT
Load More Replies...Wether we like it or not, AI is here to stay. Refusing to use it is just as stupid as using it blindly for everything.
Just because something exist doesn't mean people have to use it.
Load More Replies...I'm all for AI being used to fight environmental degradation and other forms of enhancing living conditions, but if you can't write a paper without using AI, go to a trade school and learn a paying skill.
People analyzing and finding meaning in stories ISNT A BAD THING. Everytime someone says “it’s not that deep” a angel losses its wings [weep]
"Meaning" is built into the very structure of stories. The "Hero Journey" is not just a check list for story events, there is a psychological reason why it exists in this way. ( If you're interested - read Joseph Campbell's "Hero with a 1000 Faces" or "Myths to Live By", or watch his "Power of Myth" interview on YouTube).
Ah, you had me until you brought religion into your comment which shows you ain't as deep as you think.
Art imitates life. People who think art has no meaning must also think that life has no meaning.
Kids these days aren’t just all bad, it’s because parents don’t know how to parent if they’re not physically harming or psychologically tormenting children
Transitions take time. It's good we're removing violence from childrearing, but making the right choice doesn't mean we have all the answers. Although I think Jo Frost has been an excellent example for decades. You can disagree with her on details, but overall, she demonstrated an effective framework for raising children that even decades later still isn't being broadly criticised
I'm going to be less harsh. How exactly does one parent successfully when both parents work and children are raised by daycare? I believe one parent should be raising the children. Either parent. But our society has been rigged so that no family can survive on one income. Most are barely getting by with two incomes.
It's even worse than that. A child shouldn't be being raised by 'a parent', a child should be being raised by a group of people, a community. For example, Westernisation and slum clearance, whilst well-meaning usually mean families moving into high-rise apartments, one family to a unit. The children can no longer run and play outside or run to 'Aunty's' place, entryways are controlled by gangs, and the societal support falls to pieces. There is nothing less natural that I can imagine than a single parent sitting in their home with a small child and no support, no others around them. It's a brutal way to live that few can thrive in.
Load More Replies...not political woke but everyone called me super super woke over this. there was a sexualizing edit of bucky barnes getting TORTURED, and when I commented why are we thirsting over torture people called me way too woke
Fandoms are wild. And if you don't like something, don't read or watch, but the pearl clutching about what other people do with fictional characters is getting tiring
if youre a centrist youre actually a right winger
how can people in the center of the political spectrum be far right? doesnt that show great levels of inconsistancy?
Load More Replies...Calling it absolute nonsense doesn't make anyone think it is. You have to supply reasons.
Load More Replies...What's Republican in the states is extreme right to Canada. Btw, we have a system where whoever gets voted in gets to be the Prime Minister's Party, and the runner-up is the opposition party, who has to agree with a new law for it to be passed
Centrist or Moderate are merely terms for people on the fence who don't have the courage to pick a side. I'm a Progressive, so I don't have the time or patience for these nonsense voters.
The Overton Window hasn't merely shifted; it's been forcibly dragged to the right.
Clara Dao is not a feminist, and the people who defend her are choice feminists
An influencer that promotes body positivity on her page (more specifically, she made content centered around her own flat-chestedness and preached loving your body for how it is). She recently got breast augmentation done and many people are criticizing her over it, saying that if she actually loved her body she wouldn't have gotten the surgery.
Load More Replies...Why does anyone take influencers seriously? Have we become this pathetic as a species. No, she's not a feminist. No, she doesn't love her body. And no, she shouldn't be taken seriously. For the love of all things precious, watch a nature show, read a book, take a walk, but don't listen to influencers.
people's hatred for cats is rooted in misogyny
I think it has a lot to do with people who have a problem with cats (and other people) who will not accept being forcibly touched or held. They don't accept their right to say no.
How is everything misogyny? I just don't like em because I have allergies.
I don’t agree with this. I think that a lot of people don’t like their independence whereas, say, a dog will be like “I LOVE YOU!”, you generally need to work with a cat for it to want to spend time around you, and frankly nowadays so many people want everything *now* and don’t care for putting in the time. Just IMO. I love cats and dogs both, so please don’t feel like I’m having a go at dog owners. I've also never owned a cat personally, so feel free to downvote me to oblivion if I'm wrong, but I have enough friends/acquaintances with cats to be comfortable with what I'm saying.
drag queens sometimes cross the line between artistry and parodying stereotypes and caricatures of women aka misogyny
Ah Sweetie, the whole point in drag is outrageous exaggeration. Their garish costumes and makeup are for entertainment purposes, not everyday wear. I've never met a drag queen who hated women. I noticed you didn't mention drag kings who also exaggerate the male stereotype. Methinks you are not woke, but looking for justification of your prejudice.
Nope. Drag is not misogynistic. OP doesn't know anything about the history and culture of drag. Here's a fun brief history of drag: https://www.strutherslibrarytheatre.org/blog/the-art-and-history-of-drag And this: https://www.hrc.org/resources/understanding-drag
To suggest that drag doesn't have some problems with misogyny is extremely naïve. The use of the term 'fish' is a good example, but there are plenty more. Whitewashing anything is unhelpful, we have to be able to admit that there are problems in order to be able to resolve them.
Load More Replies..."Humans should go extinct because we kill the planet" is a very problematic (couldn't think of a better word) idea. Humans have co-existed and took care of the Earth for so long. It only got like this because of colonization and capitalism. And the people saying this aren't thinking of their friends and family and people that look like them. They're clapping when natural disasters happen in a country they never heard of because "the Earth finds a way to heal".
Unfortunately, there's paleontological evidence of species going extinct around the same time early humans arrived in most parts of the world. Colonialism and capitalism certainly did far more damage, but humanity has been causing unusually high rates of extinction for at least 10 thousand years
how did humans take care of the earth? we have been on the earth for 300,000 years surviving and killing things around us. but before it was just not on a scale where it was harmful on a global level.
Nope! The human species should be eradicated because they've always been the most dangerous and the most destructive species that's ever lived on this once gorgeous planet.
No, humanity is a disease. I dislike the suffering we cause each other and the planet, so if we could all pass peacefully in our sleep, it would be a kindness to reality.
Uh, dude, we have to stuck around and clean up our messes. Us diappearing with do A LOT more damage.
Load More Replies...Paw patrol is police/classist propaganda
"Paw Patrol" fights global overpopulation because it makes parents want to avoid having any more children.
You know, I think you're onto something. For all those people who want to procreate, they should be forced, for at least one month, to watch children's shows/movies on repeat (bc that's the way children view them). Then see where they stand on having kids.
Load More Replies...Master Chief shoulda been black
I thought Master Chief was never shown so that the player could imagine them however they wanted...
Disney changes the race of characters and uses poor characterization in live actions to intentionally upset people and cause more racism.
Disney has done some really terrible things, and probably will pull a few more in the future, but this is so ridiculously off-base that it makes you sound as stupid as a flat earther. This isn't woke.
Not listening to any female singers/artists is misogynistic to me, idc if they don’t fit your genre how are you genuinely unable to listen to a woman singing
The OP is not telling you who to listen to. They are drawing a conclusion about you based on who you listen to. And you don't have to accept that conclusion, either. (I don't.)
Load More Replies...Sorry, but 99% of the artists I like/listen to are male. I simply don't like the sound of female singers, with the exception of Dolly Parton and Tina Turner.
So I listen to 95% metal singers because most women just don't catch my attention, yet I listen to 95% female indie/pop singers because men don't really catch my attention. Is that misogynistic? Lol.
Lifelong metalhead and woman. Historically, there haven't been a whole lot of female metal singers. Or punk singers. Or hardcore singers. (I also listen to multiple other genres, and loads of female singers.)
Load More Replies...Again preference... There could be misogynists in there too, but if the subject of the song or genre don't fit my taste I'm not listening to it (male too)
I'm beginning to wonder if I've accidentally slipped down the other leg of the Trousers of Time
Load More Replies...I don't like high pitch sounds, like sopranos and children, so that eliminates many female singers and a number of male singers. I also don't like women who sing in that light, fairy voice that I find so annoying. Not misogynistic, just have a preference for lower voices like women who sing Metal.
Harry Potter fans wouldn’t ship Hermione with draco if she was played by a blk actress in the first movies. I said what I said. Ppl would’ve seen the racism metaphors way clearer.
What does 'ship Hermione with draco' mean? Were they sent away on a boat? Serious question because I've never read/watched the Potter stories.
I’m not really sure how to explain it :). But sort of rooting for them to have a relationship?
Load More Replies...Wow. I think some people are taking these books waaaay too seriously.
My opinion is, if you’re married, and you cheat on that person, which leads to a divorce, you should not be allowed to remarry. You have broken your vows once before and can no longer be trusted with the sanctity of marriage. If the divorce was amicable and no one’s fault, you can remarry.
You can break vows without cheating. The crux of this idea sounds downright dystopian.
True, the vows also call for better/worse, sickness/health, death do us part, so by their own explanation divorce itself is breaking the vows.
Load More Replies...This sounds extremely patronising. ETA: it's also not particularly woke. In fact, it's almost Catholic.
It IS Catholic! Almost unheard of today, but if you commit adultry and the marriage is annuled, you cannot remarry in the church.
Load More Replies...This is the dumbest thing I think I've read all day. So people are not allowed to learn from their past mistakes?
"Remarriage is the triumph of hope over experience." - George Bernard Shaw
Load More Replies...Penalizing people is not being woke. Anyone who knowingly marries the cheater is going into that relationship eyes open. You can't fix stupid.
Marriage is just an agreement, and when the people in it no longer agree, they should be free to leave and find agreement with someone else. We've moved on from that, thank you.
I feel like ageism isn’t real, and if it is young people are the victims of it.
Yeah, tell that to my dad when he was trying to find a new job at 59…
Ah, another BP selection of woke. Someone should explain to them what the term means. Being insular is not being woke.
wanting to lose weight for aesthetic reasons is always rooted in fatphobia I'm sorry
The aesthetic standards for appearance are at least in some part based on what's healthy and normal.
Or being fat is too expensive. When you eat your way through your wardrobe and have to keep buying new clothes, it's time to push your plate away. Choosing to be healthy is a justifiable aesthetic.
The popularity of doodles is rooted in internalised misogyny
Does the word doodles here mean something other than little drawings? Because I don’t understand this at all.
Doodles as in drawings or as in various dog breeds mixed with poodles? Either way, OP here is on all the d***s.
Give me a f*****g break! People saying s**t like this is why when there is actual real misogyny no one takes it serious.
totally agree the word gets thrown around so much and half the time incorrectly.
Load More Replies...Do the BP people ever read any of this stuff before they shovel it on-line?
Super duper woke opinion: men should never be allowed to be gynecologists or pediatricians
This doesn't sound woke. That's like saying women physicians shouldn't be allowed to have male patients.
"Men should not be allowed around woman or children" is about as dead opposite of "woke" you can be.
What about the women who prefer male OBGYN or tween boy patients who would feel more comfortable talking to a male doctor about puberty-related matters?
If you're limiting things based on gender, it's not even the tiniest bit woke.
Nah, medical schools simply need to be equitable in their studies, training, and treatment. Women, children, infants, and people of color have been short shrifted and it's time hospitals started seeing them as worthy of care as white men.
I have to think that few of these were boomers (or other) taking the p**s out of what (they think) the word "woke" means. A few misuses of reductio ad absurdum in there. One or two were just not woke at all.
This article was scraped from TikTok, so the contributions are TikTokers, so what can be expected? I suspect not too many boomers, though.
Load More Replies...We all need to stop what we're doing and stop reproducing until we fix the planet and the other life forms that live here with us, actually learning all about plants, trees and animals, before we lose absolutely everything. Oh, and "woke" seems kinda like a fashy word to me.
There is a math problem with your statement. Lets say you have two groups of people. One group decides to not reproduce and the other has no restriction. In twenty years A will be out numbered by B by like 5 to 1. In Forty Years it will be exponentially greater. In 60 A wont exist and B will be what is keft.
Load More Replies...I am a MPNB person of colour that politically identifies with the extreme left. But yeesh, this post... This planet is absolutely cooked if most of these opinions are popular consensus.
A lot of these are very very poorly worded. I get what you're saying, but the lack of qualifiers on the absolute positions of these statements is problematical.
I have to think that few of these were boomers (or other) taking the p**s out of what (they think) the word "woke" means. A few misuses of reductio ad absurdum in there. One or two were just not woke at all.
This article was scraped from TikTok, so the contributions are TikTokers, so what can be expected? I suspect not too many boomers, though.
Load More Replies...We all need to stop what we're doing and stop reproducing until we fix the planet and the other life forms that live here with us, actually learning all about plants, trees and animals, before we lose absolutely everything. Oh, and "woke" seems kinda like a fashy word to me.
There is a math problem with your statement. Lets say you have two groups of people. One group decides to not reproduce and the other has no restriction. In twenty years A will be out numbered by B by like 5 to 1. In Forty Years it will be exponentially greater. In 60 A wont exist and B will be what is keft.
Load More Replies...I am a MPNB person of colour that politically identifies with the extreme left. But yeesh, this post... This planet is absolutely cooked if most of these opinions are popular consensus.
A lot of these are very very poorly worded. I get what you're saying, but the lack of qualifiers on the absolute positions of these statements is problematical.
