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Marriage is supposed to be about standing by your partner through good times and bad. But even the strongest vows can be tested when the same mistakes keep happening.
One woman recently discovered that her husband got in trouble at work for making inappropriate comments to female coworkers. To make matters worse, it wasn’t the first time. Now, with his job hanging by a thread, she’s wondering if their marriage should end too.
Unsure what to do, she turned to the internet for advice. Here’s her story.
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Commenters advised her to worry less about his career and more about the way he treats women
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The question is about how she should support him, not about their marriage, which is a really bizarre question to ask, I think! Who the hell is gonna support a creep who’s so bad he can’t keep a job?!
That’s also very very true. And completely right for so many wives/hisbands. I agree with you. If the lady has
Given up work staying at home to raise the kids for 15 yrs for example, finds out abt an affair- where is she to go? With what mkney and what skills to go back into workforce. I understand why one would choose to turn a blind eye, you raised a really good point
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NO NO NO NO NO ! She should PACK HIS BAGS !! and kick him out , wtf should she be homeless with a child cos he’s a sick vile misogynistic incel , I’m a divorced mum n I left my own home , I owned , so he could sell it , cos I couldn’t afford it ,and had to move in with two kids 30 miles away to a rented house ,it wasn’t easy i can tell you as I’m disabled n unable to work now ,I’m 60 now n that was 13 yrs ago ,and for last 11 yrs I’ve been living in a lovely housing association home , out in the sticks in a beautiful village , n settled now kids are cults n both working , it in this instance op needs to keep her home , he is the one as needs to leave not her !, and he needs to pay for it , my ex has never paid my kids a penny , he left uk is over 5000 miles away remarried with another child , while I’m not a townie I loved MY house , op doesn’t deserve to be homeless cos of his vile shite , if she was in uk ,I would offer to try n help her if I could somehow x
Asking a pregnant woman if her husband is an incel... I think some people forgot where the word incel came from, lol. (And yes, being married is not a guarantee that they're having séx, and even being pregnant isn't a guarantee that they're having séx. But there's nothing in her story that suggests they don't have). Horrible situation by the way, I feel bad for the co-workers and OP.
Ahahha indeed. But reading the "comments" he made, I wonder how in the Fk is he NOT an incel! Was he possessed by some ghost when he was dating OP for her to decide to go with him? Cus he seems too incompetent to "fake" being a normal human being.
I think it is both. She didn't get the details the first time from what I understood, and was horrified when she learned more the second time. Did I misread? Or did you? Well, one of us did. In all cases if i was a pregnant woman i wont hesitate about "tolerating" and using and such a guy until the baby is safe. You have to factor that in.
That term has evolved and obviously no longer strictly means "involuntarily celibate" but also the worst behavior and words of incels. Most people know this. Maybe don't lecture people on a topic you're obviously not well versed on?
OK guys, JayWantsACat is the expert on incels so don't be calling peoples incels without talking to a guy who is well versed on incels like Jay apparently is.
Give this woman a minute, ok? She didn't mention having a job herself and has a baby. She's wishing her husband's obvious inadequacy to be a good employee, husband and person wasn't part of her reality. But it is. It''s scary and rightfully so. She has a tough road ahead of her. I hope she has enough support to get away from this loser, but it will definitely not be easy for her even if she does.
Leaving doesn't have to be instant. But making the decision and starting to plan is something she needs to do asap. Many shelters will help with this, even if the plan isn't to stay with them. They have good connections to local lawyers that specialise in this type of case. The mental load is often easier once the decision is made.
The question is about how she should support him, not about their marriage, which is a really bizarre question to ask, I think! Who the hell is gonna support a creep who’s so bad he can’t keep a job?!
That’s also very very true. And completely right for so many wives/hisbands. I agree with you. If the lady has
Given up work staying at home to raise the kids for 15 yrs for example, finds out abt an affair- where is she to go? With what mkney and what skills to go back into workforce. I understand why one would choose to turn a blind eye, you raised a really good point
Everybody can earn 250$+ daily… You can earn from 10000-15000 a month or even more if you work as a full time job…It’s easy, just follow instructions on this page, read it carefully from start to finish… It’s a flexible job but a good earning opportunity.. go to this site home tab for more detail thank you…......................… CashHive1.Com
NO NO NO NO NO ! She should PACK HIS BAGS !! and kick him out , wtf should she be homeless with a child cos he’s a sick vile misogynistic incel , I’m a divorced mum n I left my own home , I owned , so he could sell it , cos I couldn’t afford it ,and had to move in with two kids 30 miles away to a rented house ,it wasn’t easy i can tell you as I’m disabled n unable to work now ,I’m 60 now n that was 13 yrs ago ,and for last 11 yrs I’ve been living in a lovely housing association home , out in the sticks in a beautiful village , n settled now kids are cults n both working , it in this instance op needs to keep her home , he is the one as needs to leave not her !, and he needs to pay for it , my ex has never paid my kids a penny , he left uk is over 5000 miles away remarried with another child , while I’m not a townie I loved MY house , op doesn’t deserve to be homeless cos of his vile shite , if she was in uk ,I would offer to try n help her if I could somehow x
Asking a pregnant woman if her husband is an incel... I think some people forgot where the word incel came from, lol. (And yes, being married is not a guarantee that they're having séx, and even being pregnant isn't a guarantee that they're having séx. But there's nothing in her story that suggests they don't have). Horrible situation by the way, I feel bad for the co-workers and OP.
Ahahha indeed. But reading the "comments" he made, I wonder how in the Fk is he NOT an incel! Was he possessed by some ghost when he was dating OP for her to decide to go with him? Cus he seems too incompetent to "fake" being a normal human being.
I think it is both. She didn't get the details the first time from what I understood, and was horrified when she learned more the second time. Did I misread? Or did you? Well, one of us did. In all cases if i was a pregnant woman i wont hesitate about "tolerating" and using and such a guy until the baby is safe. You have to factor that in.
That term has evolved and obviously no longer strictly means "involuntarily celibate" but also the worst behavior and words of incels. Most people know this. Maybe don't lecture people on a topic you're obviously not well versed on?
OK guys, JayWantsACat is the expert on incels so don't be calling peoples incels without talking to a guy who is well versed on incels like Jay apparently is.
Give this woman a minute, ok? She didn't mention having a job herself and has a baby. She's wishing her husband's obvious inadequacy to be a good employee, husband and person wasn't part of her reality. But it is. It''s scary and rightfully so. She has a tough road ahead of her. I hope she has enough support to get away from this loser, but it will definitely not be easy for her even if she does.
Leaving doesn't have to be instant. But making the decision and starting to plan is something she needs to do asap. Many shelters will help with this, even if the plan isn't to stay with them. They have good connections to local lawyers that specialise in this type of case. The mental load is often easier once the decision is made.
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