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Man Risks Losing Job For Harassing Female Coworkers, Furious His Wife Won’t Support Him
Man holding a box of personal items outside an office building, facing discipline for inappropriate work comments.

Man Risks Losing Job For Harassing Female Coworkers, Furious His Wife Won’t Support Him

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Marriage is supposed to be about standing by your partner through good times and bad. But even the strongest vows can be tested when the same mistakes keep happening.

One woman recently discovered that her husband got in trouble at work for making inappropriate comments to female coworkers. To make matters worse, it wasn’t the first time. Now, with his job hanging by a thread, she’s wondering if their marriage should end too.

Unsure what to do, she turned to the internet for advice. Here’s her story.

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    The woman discovered her husband had been making inappropriate comments toward female coworkers, and now his job is on the line

    Man holding a box of personal items outside office, facing discipline again for inappropriate work comments.

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    Faced with this, she’s starting to wonder if their marriage should be too

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    Many readers were appalled by his behavior and urged the woman to walk away

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    Wife shocked as husband faces discipline again for making inappropriate comments at work causing embarrassment and conflict.

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    Later, the woman revealed the exact nature of the comments her husband had made

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    Eventually, she found out more about the upcoming hearing

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    Soon, she discovered her husband had been hiding even more from her

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    In the end, he was handed a final warning

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    Ultimately, her husband kept his job, but she remains furious and unsure about their marriage

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    Commenters advised her to worry less about his career and more about the way he treats women

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    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

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    Oleksandra is an experienced copywriter from Ukraine with a master’s degree in International Communication. Having covered everything from education, finance, and marketing to art, pop culture, and memes, she now brings her storytelling skills to Bored Panda. For the past five years, she’s been living and working in Vilnius, Lithuania.

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    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

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    Oleksandra is an experienced copywriter from Ukraine with a master’s degree in International Communication. Having covered everything from education, finance, and marketing to art, pop culture, and memes, she now brings her storytelling skills to Bored Panda. For the past five years, she’s been living and working in Vilnius, Lithuania.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The poll is a joke. The only answer is she gets her ducks in a row and leaves.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The question is about how she should support him, not about their marriage, which is a really bizarre question to ask, I think! Who the hell is gonna support a creep who’s so bad he can’t keep a job?!

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    Jaya
    Community Member
    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asking a pregnant woman if her husband is an incel... I think some people forgot where the word incel came from, lol. (And yes, being married is not a guarantee that they're having séx, and even being pregnant isn't a guarantee that they're having séx. But there's nothing in her story that suggests they don't have). Horrible situation by the way, I feel bad for the co-workers and OP.

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahahha indeed. But reading the "comments" he made, I wonder how in the Fk is he NOT an incel! Was he possessed by some ghost when he was dating OP for her to decide to go with him? Cus he seems too incompetent to "fake" being a normal human being.

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    Mel in Georgia
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give this woman a minute, ok? She didn't mention having a job herself and has a baby. She's wishing her husband's obvious inadequacy to be a good employee, husband and person wasn't part of her reality. But it is. It''s scary and rightfully so. She has a tough road ahead of her. I hope she has enough support to get away from this loser, but it will definitely not be easy for her even if she does.

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leaving doesn't have to be instant. But making the decision and starting to plan is something she needs to do asap. Many shelters will help with this, even if the plan isn't to stay with them. They have good connections to local lawyers that specialise in this type of case. The mental load is often easier once the decision is made.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The poll is a joke. The only answer is she gets her ducks in a row and leaves.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The question is about how she should support him, not about their marriage, which is a really bizarre question to ask, I think! Who the hell is gonna support a creep who’s so bad he can’t keep a job?!

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    Jaya
    Community Member
    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asking a pregnant woman if her husband is an incel... I think some people forgot where the word incel came from, lol. (And yes, being married is not a guarantee that they're having séx, and even being pregnant isn't a guarantee that they're having séx. But there's nothing in her story that suggests they don't have). Horrible situation by the way, I feel bad for the co-workers and OP.

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahahha indeed. But reading the "comments" he made, I wonder how in the Fk is he NOT an incel! Was he possessed by some ghost when he was dating OP for her to decide to go with him? Cus he seems too incompetent to "fake" being a normal human being.

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    Mel in Georgia
    Community Member
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give this woman a minute, ok? She didn't mention having a job herself and has a baby. She's wishing her husband's obvious inadequacy to be a good employee, husband and person wasn't part of her reality. But it is. It''s scary and rightfully so. She has a tough road ahead of her. I hope she has enough support to get away from this loser, but it will definitely not be easy for her even if she does.

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leaving doesn't have to be instant. But making the decision and starting to plan is something she needs to do asap. Many shelters will help with this, even if the plan isn't to stay with them. They have good connections to local lawyers that specialise in this type of case. The mental load is often easier once the decision is made.

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