Woman Shuts Down Boys’ Nights At Their House After They Go Too Far: “I Hate That He Has Friends”

Buying a place with your spouse is a huge milestone. It usually comes with the feeling that you’ve finally earned the freedom to enjoy your space however you want. That freedom, of course, only really works when both people are on the same page.

One Redditor found that out after her husband started hosting regular boys nights at their home. What began as the occasional hangout slowly turned into loud, messy parties that left her exhausted and stuck cleaning up the aftermath. When she finally shut them down, her husband accused her of “banning fun.”

Feeling guilty for playing the fun police, she turned to the internet to ask if she handled things the right way. Read the full story below.

The man threw loud, messy parties with his friends, leaving his wife sleepless and stuck cleaning up the mess

Three young men eating pizza and hanging out at home during a boys’ night, enjoying casual time together.

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But when she finally shut them down, she ended up feeling guilty for playing the fun police

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Readers sided with the author, calling out the husband for his disrespectful behavior

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