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Humanity has progressed quite a lot when it comes to human rights, respect, tolerance, and the like, but there is still a ways to go as inequality and discrimination is still a thing—quite a big one, actually. And the internet has become a bit of a platform for people to share such experiences.

Shira (@shirainspired) recently went to Twitter to ask people what was the most unnecessarily ableist thing a teacher ever did to them. For those unaware, ableism means discrimination and social prejudice against a person with a disability. This is usually based on the belief that typical abilities are superior.

Image credits: shiraisinspired

A good number of people responded to her, sharing some of the most heartbreaking experiences they ever had in school.Bored Panda has compiled a list of some of these responses, which you can find, vote and comment on below.

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Busy_D
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who had an asthma attack and could barely run the small distance to my room before almost passing out, i gotta say this is stupid

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHY!? SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN REPORTED!!!

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    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Teachers should be encouraging this. If i have a student that is a fast learner and well ahead of the others i will ask him/her to help those that are behind. This helps me out and it gives the student a sense of pride that he/she is doing something good.

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    Piper McLean
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would report that if it was me ( then I would probably chicken out tho)

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    Billy The Kid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should of had a word with her after class and tell her how degrading it was her acting like that.

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    Busy_D
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My teacher yells at me for doing this too. She actually told me it was "Her time" and everyone should only be focusing on her even though she was just barely talking about random stuff to a different student.

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The same thing happened to me last year. (History)

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happens more often than you think, sadly.

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    ScarlettofHydraIsland
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s horrid. But if they trigger your gag reflex, take revenge and throw up on her.

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    Brian in BC
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When educators refuse to learn how to help, where can you go?

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no right way to do art. And this teacher did nothing but stunt creativity and shame kids.

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    Lexi Mitchell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Get the Cotton out of your ears” is a really old saying, I’d actually bet the teacher didn’t know or remember this kid had hearing aids.

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    Hotrobot
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this post so much. I was diagnosed then it was ignored, my mother years later still denied me ever being diagnosed.

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    Just a small town girl.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People think that we can control our ADHD but we really can't help it!

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    Amanita muscaria
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just dumb! You are a amazing artist if you are careful and you draw neatly! Teachers should be proud if their students are so neat and draw like that!

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    Piper McLean
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because someone seems lazy doesn’t mean that there isn’t something else going on. It’s hard not to think somethings like this but that’s still no reason to publicly shame someone

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    Janoel Murrey
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how did this teacher even get the job

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a gross and accurate description of the public school system.(In America)

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    Piper McLean
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why can’t some people understand that not everyone is perfect

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This need to be banned, teacher can't tell us when are bladders need to go.

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being ableist. Public education at its finest ladies and gentlemen.

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    angie but who cares
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why tf do teachers have such a problem with mental math it is an important skill to develop

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    Theo C
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we talk about how awesome this person's twitter handle is?

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    Xylle Flora
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In kindergarten everyone who sat next to me tried to copy my answers. Always (unless it was my friends)

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was always yelled at for this too, i would accidentally read ahead and when they called on me to read and i asked"What paragraph" i got yelled at.

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    Busy_D
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was put out of the class to learn my lesson. "You will sit out here where you can't learn, so you learn"

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    Piper McLean
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m left handed and would be horrified if someone did this to me. It’s dumb how people will shame others based off of what hand they write with

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    Xylle Flora
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold it like the left picture too :)

    sylvantic
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same. i also bend my wrist a lot. doesn't work too well (i'm right-handed but hold my hand like i'm left handed) but it works alright for drawing and i can type good.

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    Rose Anne Lajara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The quadrupod grasp (the one on the left) was shown to be just as efficient as the so-called "ideal" tripod grasp (the one on the right) in an experiment. Trying to change a kid's grasp past the age of 8 doesn't really work because it's a hardwired motor habit by then, and anyway the tripod is no guarantee of handwriting legibility.

    eimipet
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am SCREENSHOTTING this and sending it to my dad!!!!!!! Thank you thank you thank you!

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    Spaghetti
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no wrong way of holding a pen as long as it works for you. Especially if you're an illustrator.

    Busy_D
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtf is the difference???

    Maya Kuntz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they wanted the ring finger not on the pen???? idk but it's still stupid

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    Rylynn Morritt
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same i got yelled at when first learning to write because I held the pencil wrong I still hold the pencil the wrong way my writing just messy when I hold it the proper way

    Rylynn Morritt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    edit im homeschooled now and don't get yelled at

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    Silre
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are teachers so obsessed with how you hold your pen?

    Wombatred26
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was taught to write holding it like the left picture but have always been more comfortable holding it like the right picture. I was forced to use a rubber attachment on my pencils to force me to hold it "correctly"... I also have to turn my paper nearly 90° to write in a straight line, comfortably.

    Violet Grey
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold it like the left picture too!

    Evil Little Thing
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was taught that the hold on the left is the proper one (better precision), and the hold on the right is a lazy one that leads to bad penmanship and weird finger calluses. I use the hold on the right.

    Forty-Two
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lmao I do it the way on the right and I've always been told it's wrong

    JennyBee
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oof I have muscle problems and can't hold my pencil right...I have been literrally screamed at

    KC Lancaster
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I'm a professional painter and illustrator and that never made any sense to me! I also hold paintbrushes the way that makes sense to my hand, not the way that made sense for teachers.

    spencer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my brother went through the same thing bc he held his pencils "weird" and it literally didnt help him at all

    Zoe Vokes
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Were you accidentally smudging the ink with your fingers on the paper? Only reason I can think to correct it.

    Deceased Nemo
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I start out with the right pic but switch to the left pic on occasion

    AqualiaGuineaPigWolfCat
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold it like in the left picture too, and my drawings are still pretty good if i do say so myself. My brother thinks ghey're really good too.

    Megan Pippenger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Infuriating. I hold my pencil between my middle and ring finger, instead of between my pointer and middle finger like most people do. So glad no one ever tried to force me to change. Had a teacher notice it was different and ask me about it, and it was the first time I really noticed I did it different, but when I just remarked that was how I wrote, and then tried doing it the "normal" way and found it difficult, she was just like "huh, interesting. you do you." And that was that. My writing was always a little messy but legible, and it was much worse if I tried to write the "right" way, so thankfully no one tried to force me to change.

    GalaxyGriffin
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Very similar to my experience where I was suposed to hold my pen higher.

    You are Beautiful (He, Him)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did anybody else grab a pen and try both of them out?

    MangleTangle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesnt everyone write like the left?

    Periwinkle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone I know tries to make me hold it the " normal way " so that I can " write better " excuse me my handwriting looks like I wrote with my left hand while on steroids if I write like that so no, doesn't work like that.. I hold it with four fingers for a r e a s o n ✨

    Lorelai Purvis
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    um... who holds a pencil like on the right... i don't.

    somnomania
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i have to rig an entire contraption with a ring splint and a rubber band to make my fingers look anything like the first picture, because i have ehlers-danlos. if i try to just hold a writing implement i hyperextend my index finger and my handwriting is TERRIBLE

    Brian in BC
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whatever is most stable for the user!!!

    Sam Chen
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m a righty ;) who’s with me

    Agatz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was also told that this is the wrooong way to hold a pencil. Well, people pay me to hold pencils like this now (illustrations), so it can't be that wrong. Take that, teachers!

    Kira Okah
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't hold it like either way, but I was told that the posture on the left is how it should be done.

    EA
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can’t hold it like the right cos of arthritis, my fingers lock up and it’s impossible. Cannot imagine being told off for something as trivial as how to hold a pen!

    Aunt Messy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She was right in a way. The way you were holding your pen makes it so that your hand gets tired faster, your handwriting is messier than it needs to be, and you can't keep up with taking notes by hand. ...///... Learning to hold a pen correctly and relax your hand would have made your life a whole lot easier. ...///... the ONLY thing she did wrong was not explain that to you.

    Susan Trevaskis-Owen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be very very glad you hold it the way you do. Holding a pen like the pic on the right puts so much tension in your hand, and you end up with cramped fingers before you finish writing a paragraph. I try to hold it more like on the left, but habit/muscle memory is strong and within a few words my fingers have curled up again.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve tried everything too. Tried and failed to just get used to holding it like the right side picture. Tried those grips. I can’t do it. It’s bizarre and I feel like it’s the reason why people’s handwriting is always so ugly and terrible. The left side is the correct way.

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shaming a student = being a good teacher Yea that makes sense(saracasm)

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I no longer can comment on these posts... i just don't get these maniacs anymore. I've lost faith in public education.

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    EA
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The number of girls in an all girls secondary school who weren’t allowed to use the toilet in class, even when saying to the male teachers they were on their period and had to go. It’s embarrassing enough being a teenager and conscious of having a period in the first couple of times, but made 100x worse when you can’t go to the toilet and change! I had to go home once cos it went through my clothes :( one of the most embarrassing moments of my life

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    Busy_D
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ust don't understand how these people are allowed to educate children.

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    Brian in BC
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously those parents failed to instill a sense of self-confidence in their child, teacher furthered that inadequacy by the insensitive handling.

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    Brian in BC
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a poor handwriter myself, I can empathize. Although I seldom had to rewrite - that could have been hard to handle.

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