19 Y.O. Discovers Parents Got Gifts For His Sibling Despite Agreeing Not To Get Gifts For Anyone, Says He Won’t Come Home For Christmas
Let’s face it, no other holiday has a cultural impact quite like Christmas. It’s truly the time of the year!
Gift-giving, spending time with immediate and distant family, watching Home Alone and the Elf, getting into the festive spirit with Michael Bublé, and decorating your whole house – is there anything better?
However, the celebration is also notorious for the amount of stress it loves to bring upon people. Just think about it – money worries, practical issues like finding the time to do everything and figuring out the traveling logistics, cooking, and the star of today’s article – family rifts.
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You know what they say: “Your children need your presence more than your presents”
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“AITA for telling my parents I won’t go home for Christmas unless they get me a gift?” – this internet user turned to one of Reddit’s most judgmental communities, asking its members whether he’s indeed wrong for refusing to go back home for the holidays unless his parents, who are known for showing favoritism towards their youngest, get him a gift. The post managed to garner 4.5K upvotes as well as 851 comments discussing the situation.
Parents bought lots of gifts for their youngest despite proposing to forgo gift-giving this year, 19 y.o. says he won’t return for Christmas until he receives one as well
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The guy began his post by revealing that his younger sister Bree is a total brat. He says that their parents spoil her rotten and if anything doesn’t go her way, she’ll be sure to cause a scene. It was then noted that although she isn’t getting in the way of others getting anything, it’s still really obvious that she gets way more.
The guy has a younger sister who always gets spoiled rotten by their parents
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Recently, the author’s parents emailed him and proposed a “low-stress” Christmas, which basically meant forgoing gift-giving this year. He was completely fine with it, since he didn’t want anything anyway and it would make things much more relaxed. So, he called his old folks to confirm – however, instead, was immediately told what to buy Bree.
Recently, they’ve proposed a “low-stress” Christmas, which basically meant skipping gift-giving this year
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The 19-year-old was confused. He questioned his mom and said that he thought that they weren’t doing gifts this year, but was quickly told that Bree is “different” (a brat) and that she’s still a baby. Needless to say, he was mad. But not because he also wanted a present, more because it felt like his sibling was getting to be the favorite again.
He hung up and decided to go on a little investigation quest. He logged into the family’s Amazon account and saw that they’d already got Bree a bunch of stuff, including a tablet, accessories for it, a name-brand makeup case and loads of smaller things.
He called his folks to confirm – however, instead, was immediately told what to buy Bree, his younger sibling
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The 19-year-old ended up calling his folks back and telling them that he won’t be coming home for Christmas unless he gets a gift too; he doesn’t want anything fancy, he just wants a small gift to balance out the blatant favoritism that’s been happening in their family. The parents, however, labelled him childish and even said that they thought they raised him better.
The guy hung up and informed his housemates that he could be staying over the break. When he explained his decision, they accused him of acting immaturely and told him that his parents owe him nothing because he is an adult now.
The 19 y.o. was perplexed, so he refused to come home for the holidays unless he gets a gift too
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He tried to elaborate and clarify that the gift isn’t the point, it’s that his sibling is obviously being treated differently – however, they argued that it’s because she still lives with them.
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Honestly, I don't think OP is in the wrong one bit. I like the suggestion by one of the redditors saying OP and his brother should have their own Christmas together. And if the parents want to teach Bree any manners whatsoever, they would make her choose a thoughtful gift for each of her brothers, but I doubt that would happen. Bree is well on her way to being a gold digger.
TO Ben who commented saying "it's childish to extort your family in the name of fairness", he is absolutely not extorting anyone. Requiring something in return for doing what someone else wants; is not extorition, it's quid pro quo. That's like saying requiring a paycheck for you to do your job is extorting the company - no it's not. To be extortion there has to be a threat of a loss if they don't do what you want. Him not showing up is not a loss, its just not gaining anything since they never had it the first place. Now you could say that it is childish to charge family for your presence at Christmas. I dont think childish is the word I'd use for it, but it doesn't seem like the most holiday spirited thing. I've heard of. Neither is showering one person in gifts and everyone else gets nothing though.
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She is still a kid, a baby? She is is just two years younger than OP. Just wow...
Either that or she will have graduated to "Karen" by then.
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Honestly, I don't think OP is in the wrong one bit. I like the suggestion by one of the redditors saying OP and his brother should have their own Christmas together. And if the parents want to teach Bree any manners whatsoever, they would make her choose a thoughtful gift for each of her brothers, but I doubt that would happen. Bree is well on her way to being a gold digger.
TO Ben who commented saying "it's childish to extort your family in the name of fairness", he is absolutely not extorting anyone. Requiring something in return for doing what someone else wants; is not extorition, it's quid pro quo. That's like saying requiring a paycheck for you to do your job is extorting the company - no it's not. To be extortion there has to be a threat of a loss if they don't do what you want. Him not showing up is not a loss, its just not gaining anything since they never had it the first place. Now you could say that it is childish to charge family for your presence at Christmas. I dont think childish is the word I'd use for it, but it doesn't seem like the most holiday spirited thing. I've heard of. Neither is showering one person in gifts and everyone else gets nothing though.
Load More Replies... She is still a kid, a baby? She is is just two years younger than OP. Just wow...
Either that or she will have graduated to "Karen" by then.
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