Couple Forced To Take Wedding Pics With Sunbathing Woman, And Internet Can’t Decide Who’s The Asshole
When you think about weddings, what is the first thing that comes to mind? Family? Friends? Or maybe a carefree sunbather photobombing every single one of your pictures? Well, as it turns out, the last one, though it may sound surreal, is actually quite possible, and it’s only one of many ways for somebody to completely spoil your wedding photos.
Mark Ling and his wife Mandy Cripwell never expected their photoshoot could be ruined in such a bizarre way, since the photos were to be taken at a very popular wedding photo spot in Torquay, England. According to Mark’s son Marcus, the sunbather wasn’t exactly keen on making way for the newlyweds. “I went up to her and asked her to move and she pretended to be asleep,” he said. “It’s a well-known wedding spot where you have photos taken, so she would have known it goes on there. Half of Torquay have their wedding photos in that garden.” Later on, she relented and moved aside, but left all of her things in plain view. One of the family members described the entire situation as, “Bloody rude and disrespectful.”
Even though most people believe that the woman should have moved, as to not spoil the entire photo session, many others have commented that since she was the first one there, she had a right to stay. What do you think?
Scroll down to see the entire situation yourself, and don’t forget to tell us what you think in the comments!
Mark Ling and Mandy Cripwell had a lovely wedding recently but unfortunately, not everything went according to plan
Image credits: Mark Ling
After the ceremony, there was supposed to be a beautiful wedding photoshoot but it was disturbed by a sunbather who refused to leave her spot
Image credits: SWNS
“I went up to her and asked her to move and she pretended to be asleep,” one guest said
Image credits: SWNS
This isn’t the first time a wedding was disturbed by a carefree sunbather, there was also a similar story from in Australia
Image credits: shitadelaide
As it turns out, not everybody agrees with the newlyweds, many stated their opinion saying that the woman came to the spot first so she can stay for as long as she likes
Others found the woman to be extremely rude
What do you think? Don’t forget to tell us in the comments!
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Share on FacebookMy guess is that the wedding party came thundering in and instead of politely asking the woman to move over... they TOLD her to move over.... at which point she likely said F it. You must give respect in order to recieve respect!! Hopefully the newlyweds will be able to look back in 20 years time and laugh at the ridiculousness of it all!
Agreed. There are 2 sides to this story and we are hearing one. We have no idea what was said or done before the photo. We're making assumptions based on a photo that could have been staged for all we know!
Load More Replies...I mean... Sure she WAS there first, but ..come on! They wanted to use the gazebo, and the sunbathed wanted to lay in the sun. There is, as we can all see, PLENTY of empty spots with sun and only one spot with a gazebo. Why couldn't she just move a few meters? Geesh.
So basically, she did not HAVE to move, and it shouldn't be considered RUDE to not move because it's a public place, but if she did move that would have been the nice thing to do.
Load More Replies...The woman was there first, so I don't think it was rude not to move. But it would have been the kind thing to do.
I get so frustrated with these kind of articles! People judging based on half a story. Nobody knows what exactly was said and done. And the fact that BP is feeding the judging by posting this article is low and cheap.
Agreed. But on the other hand whichever side you choose you get to be offended. Seems to be the goal these days.
Load More Replies...That woman was in a public place. And who knows, maybe the couple or the photographer were even ruder. But I would have moved away, wishing them all the best.
I wouldn't want pics of me in my bathing suit in some stranger's wedding pics!
Load More Replies...Yes, of course the woman could have been nice and moved. BUT... she was there first in a public space. AND... ***ANY*** wedding photographer of any credibility can EASILY Photoshop any sunbather COMPLETELY out of any photo!!!! It is not like the woman is standing up, with loud music blaring from her portable stereo, dancing around right in front of the newlyweds. She is lying flat on the ground motionless. That is a 2-minute Photoshop erasure of an undesirable object that I can also do, and I am not an professional photographer.
Why does the wedding party think they are entitled to the beach? If they wanted a reserved space, they should have RESERVED it. THEY are the a******s.
How do you reserve a public garden? Anyway, it's a huge space with plenty of spots for sunbathing, but only one gazebo. It's common courtesy to let the couple take some nice pictures on their special day. Sharing is caring.
Load More Replies...My Daughter was married on public land (by a lighthouse, with the ocean/rocks as a backdrop, it was really cool). There were TONS of tourists, which we all expected. Most moved when we were taking pics, some didn't. We just worked with it. We knew going in it was an area we could use, but was not for our use alone.
Like,,, it depends. We know just one side of the story. We don't know what they told her and how they ask her. And even though she is not obligated to move because of them. Of course you would expect someone to move because it's your special day and she is just lying on the ground but.... is it really OK to take a video of her and pictures of her, share it on social media and say how rude is she? I don't think so. So because of that I think it's crystal clear what kind of people they are.
Frankly I don't think that it's ok to take photos of that woman who is sunbathing and shaming her on internet ... well that's "bloody rude and disrespectful". Is this little part of their wedding so important to brag about it? "That woman ruined my wedding, cause we had to crop the photos!"?
I just think people should be polite. The energy it takes to argue about little things! I was on a field trip with a bunch of kids recently and our bus driver just simply backed up for a man who was blocked by our school bus even though we were at the bus stop first. He said the man, who was not particularly polite about the whole thing, seemed to be in a hurry. I told the bus driver that he was really a gentleman. And I told my class about it, later. It resolved the situation in less than a minute and everyone went on their way without too much of a big deal. Life is short, too short to argue about things with little consequence.
As for the gazebo lady, I think the morally right thing would have been for her to offer to move... she shouldn't wait to have been asked. That's what's wrong with this world. It wouldn't have hurt the sunbather at the beach OR the wedding party to move. But everybody feels entitled to their own agenda.
I don’t think it matters who came first. Just being curious to one another is something that is rapidly fading from our world.
A good photographer would know to work around the sunbather....and let her enjoy her day also.
Did they bother to ask her to move? Did they offer to let her know when they were done with the spot? I wouldn't call the sunbather rude for not moving if no one even bothered to ask. And I do mean ask! The world runs much better when people say please and thank you. Did this group say please? I wonder
they were too cheap to offer her 10 pounds to move over a bit, also too cheap to get a permit to shoot there
Load More Replies...In asia, most of us will move and back when they're finish, it's not about pride, honor, or money so we're ok even when they're not asking..
Who knows the full story of what went on. Though really all it takes is a bit of courtesy and co-operation on both sides. The sunbather didn't need to move for the close up shots and for group photos ask nicely if she'll move for a short while. Promise to keep it to a limited time. Thank the person, offer them a drink or something. I don't see why it had to be a big problem. Both sides could have done more to get along here. If the space could be reserved as has been suggested then fine, it gives them the right to use the space but they can still ask nicely.
Is it a bit annoying maneuvering around people taking the umpteenth picture of little Sarah and Johnny standing dead still in front of the 80th photo opportunity of a family outing. There is a popular wedding photo spot in my city that can have literally dozens of wedding groups come through every weekend. Suspending normal activity for that is obviously a no go. I'm with the people who said more info is needed before condemning her. Jeez, that must have been akward though. What if someone was sitting in the gazebo, would they have to pack up and move too?
My first thought wouldn't be "how rude" , it would be "nuts, someone got here first, let's figure out how to work around this".
Load More Replies...As usual we don;t get the whole story. If the newlyweds asked politely if she could move ofr a few minutes, and she declined, then yeah, we can call her rude. But if the newlyweds came down and said nothing and started making outloud comments on how rude she was, or that "some people these days!" and expected her to move, then they are rude. From the tone of this post and comments of the guests I can assume they arrived, told her to move and weren't all that polite at all.
Here's my take, the woman had EVERY RIGHT to stay if she wanted too. However, why NOT move a little to the left? It's not hard to do, and then everyone wins. Instead she uses her power to make tanning more miserable for herself and for the wedding people. I think what's rude about this story is that she seemed to stay there JUST because she was there first. And in my opinion, that's just a very snobbish way of thinking... This being said, we don't know her perspective. If the wedding people told her she had to move because she was intruding on their wedding, well to heck with it, I'd wanna stay too just to snuff out that holier-than-thou attitude.
well the photographer must suck if he either can't figure out a way to shoot around her or just photoshop her out later. In New York there literally 3 different wedding parties at same time at popular spots any given weekend, as well as massive groups using area to sunbathe and picnic, yet they figure out how to make it work
Load More Replies...If they had a good wedding photographer he/she could choose an angle where you don't see the sunbather or remove her from the picture with Photoshop. Shaming her on the internet just show there true colors not the ones of the person sunbathing and minding her own business.
If she was given the courtesy of being asked politely to move for a short period, then simple courtesy would dictate that she moves. If she was asked rudely or simply told to move , then not so much. However, with the software that is available to photographers, it is a simple matter to remove the sunbather from the pics, without any problems. So basically, this is a tempest in a teapot over nothing.
Since I wanna be nice I would move. But she was there first. So she didn't have to move. And YES, the photographer could have tried to take the photos WITHOUT her.
Photoshop is the answer. But anyway, it´s a public space right? Why would I move? On the other side, you can also get up and go where no one is planning a photoshoot.
I understand the park had the little gazebo they wanted to use but the beach? It is all the same. The wedding party could easily move down the beach.
@Patti - There's a bag'o'jerks that downvote anyone who makes sense. I consider it a badge of honour to be downvoted by those losers. It's means I hit a nerve.
Load More Replies...Wow people are mean. Yeah she was there first but she's completely uncivilized in refusing to move for a few minutes. She could have just rolled over if she didn't want to get up. For me, the thought of ruining wedding photos would have been the only prompt I'd need to give them a moment alone
I don't get how so many people are applauding an outright a*****e.
Load More Replies...If you want a reserved area, RESERVE it. Don't assume it's just for you because you feel entitled.
Well sure, but it doesn't seem like they were enraged and felt like they were more important, it's just a polite thing to do to move like a few steps out of the way... why is showing a little kindness so hard??
Load More Replies...Sorry, but common courtesy, and as a photographer, the beachgoer should have been much more forgiving for a couple minutes of her time. Selfish. The wedding party moving would severely alter the shot they want. And it has to be perfect on such a memorable day. I'd move in a heartbeat, let them take the shot, then returned, and reveled about the good choice I made. Because I am not selfish or entitled - I am kind and helpful, and I understand how my extremely temporary inconvenience could make a difference for a complete stranger(s). And that would make my day to do that.
I think if the sunbather had been black, here in the US they'd have called the police on her. It's just a sad truth. This couple will likely be in divorce court in two years anyway, another sad truth.
wellllll if you insist being immortalized someones familyphotos half naked then it's up to you
But now they have a great story, to tell, which easily beats plain old wedding photos.
I am not sure why people keep accusing them of being cheap, the wedding wasn't there just some pics, often wedding parties stop at various locations take some snaps. Some things are spontanious, it's possible they were on the way to their reception and decided to stop and take some pics like people they know have done...and caught up in the fun and happiness of the day were taken aback by someone so against helping them out. The sunbather was alone, it was not going to be hard to move, maybe even have a chat with some of the party etc. She chose to be unkind, it is a shame, as someone said, the wedding is only that one day for them, they weren't being cheap, just being carefree and in love. Congrats to them.
I can just think of how sad it is to take your wedding pictures in a public park
Why is it sad? If it is their town, it may have sentimental meaning to them, they could have walked there on a first date, had their first kiss in the gazebo etc. The article said it is a location everyone takes wedding pics at so almost a tradition to do. Nothing sad about a public park.
Load More Replies...Geeze. Who cares if she was there first? Out of courtesy if you see people taking photos for a wedding, you should be humble and kind and move to a spot further away. It's just the right thing to do. None of this "she was there first" nonsense. Have a heart!
If they were not rude...She could sunbathe any day; weddings are a special event. If she put herself first, even if there first,--wrong.
I hate to say it but some people won't do certain things simple because they feel like they've been told to. Own accord? Sure. Asked very nicely? Perhaps. But when certain people are made to feel obligated to do something, like they're "supposed to", they shut down and refuse to cooperate. It makes me wonder how she was approached.
This is what happens when you try to have a big private ting on public property its cheap but doesn't usually work. rent a place to do this don't be so cheap.
Perhaps she was an introvert who, like the introvert in a recent Bored panda post, pretended to be asleep when people approached and then was left in the invidious position of having to continue the ruse as people came clsoer and closer. She might be dying inside...
That may be, but she was still in a public place known for wedding parties. Not the best place for an introvert then.
Load More Replies...The sunbather should have had common courtesy and moved. She was probably there yesterday and will probably be there tomorrow. The wedding was planned months in advance and it takes a single day.
Didn't plan very well if they didn't bother to reserve the place.
Load More Replies...the sunbather should've moved really, yeah they were there first, but come on, common sense and manners would make most level headed people think "Oh I'll move, it's their special day". Unless the couple just came out and told her to leave? this hold thing could've been avoided really. But some folk love a drama.
It's the age of photoshop. I'm sure they can just edit her out, if she was in the photos at all. In the video she looks like she'd easily be out of shot. If that's enough to "ruin" your photoshoot, then you need to lighten up.
look, a wedding is about as important as you make it. if you aren't ready to pay and rent out space to legitimize ypur f*****g, then don't pretend it's suddenly important now that someone DARED to be in public space and share it with you. would I move? f**k no, I'd actually tell you to f**k off you cheapskate,
If the wedding party was at a public venue, those sunbather's have every right to be there. Is it rude, yes. Maybe those people or just attention seekers or just complete jerks. A good photographer and take them right out of the photo. And when it comes to love and marring your sweet hard who cares...
There's a hierarchy of importance. If a single person is engaging in something recreational that interferes with multiple people involved in a (hopefully) one in a lifetime, defining moment, then make way. Yeah it blows when you've been waiting for month for your first day off to relax in the sun and then some strangers come and mess it up for you, but I'm sorry, you still need to give way. If I was the couple, I'd take my photos right next to her and f**k with her and make the photos funny.
Of course, she probably should have moved when asked, but that's also why people reserve spots, no matter how "popular" they are. Last week, we had a party scheduled in a park. Someone was hanging out under the gazebo. Asked him to move, he refused. Called the manager, showed our paperwork, guy was ejected. Simple as that.
Humanity keeps losing its humaneness more and more. Who cares if she was there first? Are we a bunch of geckos marking our territories now? What would it cost her to give them some space. I hope she dies lonely. The See You Next Tuesday that she is!
Many parks have rules where gatherings of groups larger than certain number require a permit to make use of that space. In new york what they are doing is actually illegal because they asserting exclusive use of City property which needs a filming permit
Load More Replies...Selfish and childish behavior. Get up, congratulate the happy couple, gather up your stuff and move. Honestly! Be a human being.
You accidentally said the sunbather should move. The selfish and childish people were the wedding party.
Load More Replies...My thoughts are, the majority of people would move, I also believe she was asked nicely. Perhaps the sun worshiper had a hate ATTITUDE for weddings !!!
After seeing the faces of the couple perhaps the sunbather would provided one attractive person.
I think she was a mean biotch who hates happy people on their wedding day! Really no excuse for being such a jealous sicko.move and let the married couple have their photos! What is so hArd these days about being kind ,happy for others, wishing people well and good luck!
you're in a nice dress for a wedding, you have alot more to lose when they retaliate
Load More Replies...i would walk over and use the brides dress to dry off and squirt sunscreen on the groom
Load More Replies...My guess is that the wedding party came thundering in and instead of politely asking the woman to move over... they TOLD her to move over.... at which point she likely said F it. You must give respect in order to recieve respect!! Hopefully the newlyweds will be able to look back in 20 years time and laugh at the ridiculousness of it all!
Agreed. There are 2 sides to this story and we are hearing one. We have no idea what was said or done before the photo. We're making assumptions based on a photo that could have been staged for all we know!
Load More Replies...I mean... Sure she WAS there first, but ..come on! They wanted to use the gazebo, and the sunbathed wanted to lay in the sun. There is, as we can all see, PLENTY of empty spots with sun and only one spot with a gazebo. Why couldn't she just move a few meters? Geesh.
So basically, she did not HAVE to move, and it shouldn't be considered RUDE to not move because it's a public place, but if she did move that would have been the nice thing to do.
Load More Replies...The woman was there first, so I don't think it was rude not to move. But it would have been the kind thing to do.
I get so frustrated with these kind of articles! People judging based on half a story. Nobody knows what exactly was said and done. And the fact that BP is feeding the judging by posting this article is low and cheap.
Agreed. But on the other hand whichever side you choose you get to be offended. Seems to be the goal these days.
Load More Replies...That woman was in a public place. And who knows, maybe the couple or the photographer were even ruder. But I would have moved away, wishing them all the best.
I wouldn't want pics of me in my bathing suit in some stranger's wedding pics!
Load More Replies...Yes, of course the woman could have been nice and moved. BUT... she was there first in a public space. AND... ***ANY*** wedding photographer of any credibility can EASILY Photoshop any sunbather COMPLETELY out of any photo!!!! It is not like the woman is standing up, with loud music blaring from her portable stereo, dancing around right in front of the newlyweds. She is lying flat on the ground motionless. That is a 2-minute Photoshop erasure of an undesirable object that I can also do, and I am not an professional photographer.
Why does the wedding party think they are entitled to the beach? If they wanted a reserved space, they should have RESERVED it. THEY are the a******s.
How do you reserve a public garden? Anyway, it's a huge space with plenty of spots for sunbathing, but only one gazebo. It's common courtesy to let the couple take some nice pictures on their special day. Sharing is caring.
Load More Replies...My Daughter was married on public land (by a lighthouse, with the ocean/rocks as a backdrop, it was really cool). There were TONS of tourists, which we all expected. Most moved when we were taking pics, some didn't. We just worked with it. We knew going in it was an area we could use, but was not for our use alone.
Like,,, it depends. We know just one side of the story. We don't know what they told her and how they ask her. And even though she is not obligated to move because of them. Of course you would expect someone to move because it's your special day and she is just lying on the ground but.... is it really OK to take a video of her and pictures of her, share it on social media and say how rude is she? I don't think so. So because of that I think it's crystal clear what kind of people they are.
Frankly I don't think that it's ok to take photos of that woman who is sunbathing and shaming her on internet ... well that's "bloody rude and disrespectful". Is this little part of their wedding so important to brag about it? "That woman ruined my wedding, cause we had to crop the photos!"?
I just think people should be polite. The energy it takes to argue about little things! I was on a field trip with a bunch of kids recently and our bus driver just simply backed up for a man who was blocked by our school bus even though we were at the bus stop first. He said the man, who was not particularly polite about the whole thing, seemed to be in a hurry. I told the bus driver that he was really a gentleman. And I told my class about it, later. It resolved the situation in less than a minute and everyone went on their way without too much of a big deal. Life is short, too short to argue about things with little consequence.
As for the gazebo lady, I think the morally right thing would have been for her to offer to move... she shouldn't wait to have been asked. That's what's wrong with this world. It wouldn't have hurt the sunbather at the beach OR the wedding party to move. But everybody feels entitled to their own agenda.
I don’t think it matters who came first. Just being curious to one another is something that is rapidly fading from our world.
A good photographer would know to work around the sunbather....and let her enjoy her day also.
Did they bother to ask her to move? Did they offer to let her know when they were done with the spot? I wouldn't call the sunbather rude for not moving if no one even bothered to ask. And I do mean ask! The world runs much better when people say please and thank you. Did this group say please? I wonder
they were too cheap to offer her 10 pounds to move over a bit, also too cheap to get a permit to shoot there
Load More Replies...In asia, most of us will move and back when they're finish, it's not about pride, honor, or money so we're ok even when they're not asking..
Who knows the full story of what went on. Though really all it takes is a bit of courtesy and co-operation on both sides. The sunbather didn't need to move for the close up shots and for group photos ask nicely if she'll move for a short while. Promise to keep it to a limited time. Thank the person, offer them a drink or something. I don't see why it had to be a big problem. Both sides could have done more to get along here. If the space could be reserved as has been suggested then fine, it gives them the right to use the space but they can still ask nicely.
Is it a bit annoying maneuvering around people taking the umpteenth picture of little Sarah and Johnny standing dead still in front of the 80th photo opportunity of a family outing. There is a popular wedding photo spot in my city that can have literally dozens of wedding groups come through every weekend. Suspending normal activity for that is obviously a no go. I'm with the people who said more info is needed before condemning her. Jeez, that must have been akward though. What if someone was sitting in the gazebo, would they have to pack up and move too?
My first thought wouldn't be "how rude" , it would be "nuts, someone got here first, let's figure out how to work around this".
Load More Replies...As usual we don;t get the whole story. If the newlyweds asked politely if she could move ofr a few minutes, and she declined, then yeah, we can call her rude. But if the newlyweds came down and said nothing and started making outloud comments on how rude she was, or that "some people these days!" and expected her to move, then they are rude. From the tone of this post and comments of the guests I can assume they arrived, told her to move and weren't all that polite at all.
Here's my take, the woman had EVERY RIGHT to stay if she wanted too. However, why NOT move a little to the left? It's not hard to do, and then everyone wins. Instead she uses her power to make tanning more miserable for herself and for the wedding people. I think what's rude about this story is that she seemed to stay there JUST because she was there first. And in my opinion, that's just a very snobbish way of thinking... This being said, we don't know her perspective. If the wedding people told her she had to move because she was intruding on their wedding, well to heck with it, I'd wanna stay too just to snuff out that holier-than-thou attitude.
well the photographer must suck if he either can't figure out a way to shoot around her or just photoshop her out later. In New York there literally 3 different wedding parties at same time at popular spots any given weekend, as well as massive groups using area to sunbathe and picnic, yet they figure out how to make it work
Load More Replies...If they had a good wedding photographer he/she could choose an angle where you don't see the sunbather or remove her from the picture with Photoshop. Shaming her on the internet just show there true colors not the ones of the person sunbathing and minding her own business.
If she was given the courtesy of being asked politely to move for a short period, then simple courtesy would dictate that she moves. If she was asked rudely or simply told to move , then not so much. However, with the software that is available to photographers, it is a simple matter to remove the sunbather from the pics, without any problems. So basically, this is a tempest in a teapot over nothing.
Since I wanna be nice I would move. But she was there first. So she didn't have to move. And YES, the photographer could have tried to take the photos WITHOUT her.
Photoshop is the answer. But anyway, it´s a public space right? Why would I move? On the other side, you can also get up and go where no one is planning a photoshoot.
I understand the park had the little gazebo they wanted to use but the beach? It is all the same. The wedding party could easily move down the beach.
@Patti - There's a bag'o'jerks that downvote anyone who makes sense. I consider it a badge of honour to be downvoted by those losers. It's means I hit a nerve.
Load More Replies...Wow people are mean. Yeah she was there first but she's completely uncivilized in refusing to move for a few minutes. She could have just rolled over if she didn't want to get up. For me, the thought of ruining wedding photos would have been the only prompt I'd need to give them a moment alone
I don't get how so many people are applauding an outright a*****e.
Load More Replies...If you want a reserved area, RESERVE it. Don't assume it's just for you because you feel entitled.
Well sure, but it doesn't seem like they were enraged and felt like they were more important, it's just a polite thing to do to move like a few steps out of the way... why is showing a little kindness so hard??
Load More Replies...Sorry, but common courtesy, and as a photographer, the beachgoer should have been much more forgiving for a couple minutes of her time. Selfish. The wedding party moving would severely alter the shot they want. And it has to be perfect on such a memorable day. I'd move in a heartbeat, let them take the shot, then returned, and reveled about the good choice I made. Because I am not selfish or entitled - I am kind and helpful, and I understand how my extremely temporary inconvenience could make a difference for a complete stranger(s). And that would make my day to do that.
I think if the sunbather had been black, here in the US they'd have called the police on her. It's just a sad truth. This couple will likely be in divorce court in two years anyway, another sad truth.
wellllll if you insist being immortalized someones familyphotos half naked then it's up to you
But now they have a great story, to tell, which easily beats plain old wedding photos.
I am not sure why people keep accusing them of being cheap, the wedding wasn't there just some pics, often wedding parties stop at various locations take some snaps. Some things are spontanious, it's possible they were on the way to their reception and decided to stop and take some pics like people they know have done...and caught up in the fun and happiness of the day were taken aback by someone so against helping them out. The sunbather was alone, it was not going to be hard to move, maybe even have a chat with some of the party etc. She chose to be unkind, it is a shame, as someone said, the wedding is only that one day for them, they weren't being cheap, just being carefree and in love. Congrats to them.
I can just think of how sad it is to take your wedding pictures in a public park
Why is it sad? If it is their town, it may have sentimental meaning to them, they could have walked there on a first date, had their first kiss in the gazebo etc. The article said it is a location everyone takes wedding pics at so almost a tradition to do. Nothing sad about a public park.
Load More Replies...Geeze. Who cares if she was there first? Out of courtesy if you see people taking photos for a wedding, you should be humble and kind and move to a spot further away. It's just the right thing to do. None of this "she was there first" nonsense. Have a heart!
If they were not rude...She could sunbathe any day; weddings are a special event. If she put herself first, even if there first,--wrong.
I hate to say it but some people won't do certain things simple because they feel like they've been told to. Own accord? Sure. Asked very nicely? Perhaps. But when certain people are made to feel obligated to do something, like they're "supposed to", they shut down and refuse to cooperate. It makes me wonder how she was approached.
This is what happens when you try to have a big private ting on public property its cheap but doesn't usually work. rent a place to do this don't be so cheap.
Perhaps she was an introvert who, like the introvert in a recent Bored panda post, pretended to be asleep when people approached and then was left in the invidious position of having to continue the ruse as people came clsoer and closer. She might be dying inside...
That may be, but she was still in a public place known for wedding parties. Not the best place for an introvert then.
Load More Replies...The sunbather should have had common courtesy and moved. She was probably there yesterday and will probably be there tomorrow. The wedding was planned months in advance and it takes a single day.
Didn't plan very well if they didn't bother to reserve the place.
Load More Replies...the sunbather should've moved really, yeah they were there first, but come on, common sense and manners would make most level headed people think "Oh I'll move, it's their special day". Unless the couple just came out and told her to leave? this hold thing could've been avoided really. But some folk love a drama.
It's the age of photoshop. I'm sure they can just edit her out, if she was in the photos at all. In the video she looks like she'd easily be out of shot. If that's enough to "ruin" your photoshoot, then you need to lighten up.
look, a wedding is about as important as you make it. if you aren't ready to pay and rent out space to legitimize ypur f*****g, then don't pretend it's suddenly important now that someone DARED to be in public space and share it with you. would I move? f**k no, I'd actually tell you to f**k off you cheapskate,
If the wedding party was at a public venue, those sunbather's have every right to be there. Is it rude, yes. Maybe those people or just attention seekers or just complete jerks. A good photographer and take them right out of the photo. And when it comes to love and marring your sweet hard who cares...
There's a hierarchy of importance. If a single person is engaging in something recreational that interferes with multiple people involved in a (hopefully) one in a lifetime, defining moment, then make way. Yeah it blows when you've been waiting for month for your first day off to relax in the sun and then some strangers come and mess it up for you, but I'm sorry, you still need to give way. If I was the couple, I'd take my photos right next to her and f**k with her and make the photos funny.
Of course, she probably should have moved when asked, but that's also why people reserve spots, no matter how "popular" they are. Last week, we had a party scheduled in a park. Someone was hanging out under the gazebo. Asked him to move, he refused. Called the manager, showed our paperwork, guy was ejected. Simple as that.
Humanity keeps losing its humaneness more and more. Who cares if she was there first? Are we a bunch of geckos marking our territories now? What would it cost her to give them some space. I hope she dies lonely. The See You Next Tuesday that she is!
Many parks have rules where gatherings of groups larger than certain number require a permit to make use of that space. In new york what they are doing is actually illegal because they asserting exclusive use of City property which needs a filming permit
Load More Replies...Selfish and childish behavior. Get up, congratulate the happy couple, gather up your stuff and move. Honestly! Be a human being.
You accidentally said the sunbather should move. The selfish and childish people were the wedding party.
Load More Replies...My thoughts are, the majority of people would move, I also believe she was asked nicely. Perhaps the sun worshiper had a hate ATTITUDE for weddings !!!
After seeing the faces of the couple perhaps the sunbather would provided one attractive person.
I think she was a mean biotch who hates happy people on their wedding day! Really no excuse for being such a jealous sicko.move and let the married couple have their photos! What is so hArd these days about being kind ,happy for others, wishing people well and good luck!
you're in a nice dress for a wedding, you have alot more to lose when they retaliate
Load More Replies...i would walk over and use the brides dress to dry off and squirt sunscreen on the groom
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