We all know someone with the uncanny ability to get on our nerves with their irritating behaviors. Maybe it’s your coworker who makes a habit of talking loudly on their phone in public spaces, or perhaps it’s your neighbor who likes to leave their car parked where they’re not supposed to. It could even be someone in your own family — someone who just doesn’t seem to get how hard it is to live with them. When you’re at your wits’ end with the people around you, you can’t help but wonder, “What are they thinking? Why do they do things that annoy other people so much? And why does it seem like there are more and more exasperating people every day?”
Well, maybe it’s because there are really tons of them everywhere. We know this because we read through a thread on Reddit where users were sharing their stories of being annoyed by stupid things people do. And while some of these stories may make us laugh, they also trigger our pet peeves and make us wonder why some people just can’t seem to get it together.
As we venture through this entertaining list of things people can’t stand, you’ll find yourself nodding in agreement, chuckling at the absurdity, and maybe even discovering some new annoying things you never knew bothered you. Without further ado, let’s jump into this thread packed with the ire of thousands. Feel free to upvote the irritating situations that resonate with you the most to see them rank higher on our list!
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AmAcC67 said:
"How you can go to jail for life for weed but only a few years for murder."
Connect_Stay_391 replied:
"And get no time at all for ra*e."
Reagan's advisor once said something like this: "We knew we can't criminalize being anti-war or being Black. So we started to associate hippies with marijuana and Black people with heroin, then started to heavily criminalize drugs. Did we know we're lying about the drugs? Of course we did."
An unmedicated schizophrenic can cut an innocent guy's head off, eat parts of him, be taken to a mental hospital, then be released out to the public unsupervised in just a few years. High-risk, violent sex offenders, deemed still dangerous to women and children, can be released and allowed to live wherever they want with just an alert in the news to tell women and children to avoid them. So many it's hard to remember all their faces.
Assuming they went to jail in the first place. Its highly probable that they were never charged or if convicted were given a few months home detention because it's unreasonable to "ruin a young man's future" just because he was "emotionally immature".
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"Gender reveals."
For those who don't know: the woman who came up w/ this concept condemns it. She went through a lot of miscarriages and when she finally had a baby who survived long enough to be able to have their gender determined, she threw a celebration. And she heavily disagrees with the trend it sparked.
I feel bad for her, she just wanted to celebrate her firstborn but people just had to turn it into a trend and that too a dangerous one
Load More Replies...If you want a gender reveal, have one. What you do NOT get to do is litter, start forest fires, destroy property, or injure people.
blacksheep_onfire said:
"Celebrity worship is the f**kin worst."
naugasnake replied:
"Politicians' worship is worse in my book. They are public servants, not gods."
Too many celebrities are famous for the wrong reasons. I miss "the good old days" where people were famous for their accomplishments instead of their willingness to overshare or act stupid.
Politicians are not Public Servants. They are elected officials/councillors. Public Servants are non-elected, hired Administrators.
Or over-the-top celebrity hate, acting as if they were personally singled out and targeted. It's fine to feel upset, offended, angry or disappointed. It's fine to comment on it and talk about it. It's fine to have an opinion. But if you're still bringing it up half a decade later anytime something reminds you of them.... get over it. You can still hate them, but it shouldn't be this burning rage that you're still obsessed with.
"Kids/teenagers are being allowed to get away with s**t cause there underage. I don't mean underage drinking I mean basically hurting people, destroying houses or windows, or even stuff we pay tax for!! Honestly grinds my gears."
let's not forget attempted murder, murder, and animal abuse, I could go on and on.
Its complicated. Teenagers should be held accountable for their actions and be punished in prportion to the harm they did. Except where there is a mental incapacity, the teenagers know that what they are doing is wrong, but they have learnt that they can get away with whatever they want to do from crappy parenting. HOWEVER, you also need to act help them take a different path in life, as otherwise you'll end up creating life long criminals.
It's amazing how well rehabilitation programs work on people who just so happen to be at the best age to grown and change. It's amazing how removing people from generally bad situations or influences can reduce the occurrence of things like violent crime. And it's amazing how people are absolutely determined to either go with the slap-on-the-wrist technique, or "JAIL FOR ONE THOUSAND YEARS".
Load More Replies...Kids/teenagers do not possess a mature prefrontal cortex, the area of the brain responsible for reasoning, problem solving, comprehension, impulse-control, and other executive functions. Adults can be found not guilty by reason of 'non compos mentis' even though they possess a fully mature prefrontal cortex, but you won't extend the same reasoning to children when they physically are not capable of being anything but 'non compos mentis'? Maybe you ought to have a look at the parents when wondering why kids behave badly.
Although teens do have a less mature prefrontal cortex, it doesn't make them unintelligent and unreasonable. Remember, most teenagers are in school learning, sitting in class, problem solving, reasoning, working on prioritizing their studies, time management and they're comprehending rules, social cues and instructions. They're at an age that understands right and wrong. That's general to teenagers. But then you get the ones that have a harder time with all the above, and sometimes empathy and feeling emotions is weak. Those are the kids you need to watch out for, because they don't gaf.
Load More Replies...It's a false idea kids get away with everything. Youths have been tried as adults and been given life sentences. For the minor stuff (no pun intended), kids wouldn't get away with s**t if their parents paid more attention and actually disciplined their kids. And I don't mean physical punishment. Just actually making an attempt to get through to their kids and get to know them better.
Look, I was a teenager and I didn't do all that s**t. I chose to be a good citizen and apply myself. Don;t give crappy kids a pass because they're minors. They'll just grow up to be crappy adults if they don't learn to be responsible for their behavior.
ketzcm said:
"Shooting animals for no reason other than a selfie. Let me shoot that tiger. Yeah, I'm going to eat it."
BOSH09 replied:
"Hunting for sport is lame. Eat what you shoot."
hunting for sport can be okay, if you kill he right things, as an australian we have heaps of invasive species such as deer which are actively harmful to the native wildlife and whos only threat is people hunting
It's a well known fact that trophy hunters all have very small w*llies.
Animals' lives are much harder than ours. If your life is about eat to survive another day, then god bless you. Otherwise, leave them alone.
i hate hunting for fun adn you should always thank the animal for its sacrifice and life
My brother hunts for fun sometimes. But the one time he actually got a deer he donated it to a homeless shelter that actually needed it.
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reperoni said:
"Tipping is a valid way to pay workers. And even more stupid? People who defend the system."
Porter1823 replied:
"People who argue for it are either the employers who benefit or the few employees that make bank on tips."
Just making a big deal out of tipping in general. The people who complain about it may actually tip and tip well, because they feel like it. It's that whole icky expectation, mandated, forced feeling, when it starts feeling like a service fee that's not been disclosed beforehand, that's the big issue, imho. (Btw, I tip usually 15-20%, sometimes more if the service is superb :) and I live where tipping is common, suggested but not pushed and you won't get any better service when you do nor worse service when you don't.)
Ask a valet parker in Las Vegas who on average makes an additional $60k/year on tips what their opinion is.
Tipping sucks BUT it is the system that is currently used in the US and Mexico, so when Europeans come here to visit and don’t tip out of principle they are being douche bags who are hurting workers to try to prove a point. YOU’RE NOT IN EUROPE! Don’t b***h about Americans traveling to Europe and expecting things to be like they are here but then come here and do the same thing.
Sorry (not sorry) if you have an employee, give her/him a good salary. Don't want me to do that. It is your job.
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cherubim22 said:
"War."
ramilehti replied:
"What is it good for?"
abtseventynine replied:
"Profit for the people in power, who are not fighting it?"
Politicians hide themselves away, they only started the war. Why should they go out to fight, they leave that all to the poor." War Pigs, Black Sabbath
To just say war isn’t good for anything is such a blanket statement. I think fighting the f*****g nazis was necessary. I think the bad a*s Ukrainians fighting for their survival against the Russians is necessary.
Was war the only option? Would Germany and Russia have gone to war without a populist leader with a personality disorder who wanted power?
Load More Replies...It's the year 2023 and people are still willing to kill each other because of nonexistent lines on a map and colorful pieces of cloth.
I read somewhere that stated, "War is only beneficial if both sides are fighting for the greater good". Or something to that effect.
SquidleyStudios said:
"Having to pay for mental health care. I'm suicidal but the hospital saddles me with a ton of bills while trying to manage my depression, do they want me to live or not?"
javalove1 replied:
"They want you to live as long as you pay your bills... once you can't afford to pay them they don't care if you do not live."
Even if money wasn't an issue, there still isn't enough help for everyone that needs it.
I live in England. We have the NHS where healthcare is free. When my child was suffering from anxiety and lack of concentration both before and even more so during Covid restrictions our doctor told us that without a teacher saying that they thought there may be an issue we would have to wait 3 years for an assessment so should pay over £2k to be treated privately. That’s just for the initial evaluation and a small amount of counselling. The teachers had their hands full with the kids who weren’t getting good grades. I have always worked and paid my taxes. I had hoped some of those taxes would help my child but apparently I pay them to get care for everyone else. Both adult and child mental health in the UK needs some serious investment.
Load More Replies...There's no mental health in the US. Hence, the number of suicides and mass shootings.
Health care in the US should be free but if I were to have to pick which part was most important to be free it would be mental health. I feel that it would make a huge difference in the homeless population as well as with people with addictions. I feel that most of these cases started from some type of metal health issue.
mauore11 said: "Thinking that an opinion is just as valid as actual evidence." Zorro-the-witcher replied: "Your opinion, although valid, is irrelevant." Gmony5100 replied: "I love this phrase, and it is REALLY hard to get some people to understand this. Yes, whatever you feel, however much I disagree, is valid. No, that does not mean we need to act on it in any way or change literally anything because of it. It’s simple enough when it’s a conversation between two people over silly stuff. “I want the fridge here and you aren’t taking my opinion into account” “Your feelings are valid, but the fridge needs to be next to the outlet and there’s no outlet there”. Harmless conversation but possibly annoying for person 2. But in real-life stuff, it genuinely gets dangerous when people believe their opinion holds anywhere near as much weight as the facts. “Not vaccinating your children is extremely dangerous and will cause them to be at extreme risk” “But I believe vaccines are scary and scary is bad, so I won’t vaccinate my kids”. No longer harmless."
And let's face it, not all opinions are equally valid. Science or human rights of minority groups aren't something you can have "opinion" about.
Like the sayings goes "you are entitled to your own opinion. You are not entitled to your own facts"
There is a tricky area where opinion turns into fact. I believe that bacteria causes stomach cancer only turns into fact once you have rigorously tested and found it to be true.
Load More Replies...With vaccines, the issue is not with opinion vs fact, but is instead about whether you trust authority figures (e.g. goverment or scientists). Anyone who grew up with bad parents or bad goverments is more likely to suspect that they are being lied to by authority figures for the benefit of the person in authority. Sadly, their mistrust of authority does not extend to leaders of anti-government or anti-science groups.
sq234reddit said: "Caring about some rich dude slapping another rich dude whilst the whole world goes to s**t." jennaveeve22 replied: "I was going to say award shows in general. It’s bad enough to watch a bunch of rich people congratulate other rich people, but now everything has gotten so political and it draws so much more attention to the fact that these people are so out of touch with the average American."
Tbh, I thought it was blown way out of proportion. Both Will Smith and Chris Rock are great guys but none are perfect.
mauore11 said:
"Religions... all of them."
Crip87 replied:
"Took me so damn long to get to this. Religion is the single stupidest invention of all time. Idiots."
Unpopular opinion: religious fundamentalists and hardcore atheists (those who actively hate all religions and snicker at people for believing in "magical sky daddy") are both equally horrible and equally obnoxious when they try to force their beliefs on someone. I'm neither religious or atheist, which makes me impartial.
The thing about atheists is we're not pushing our beliefs on anyone. We don't try to convert people to atheism (as if you even can - it's the default position anyway), we just want OTHER PEOPLE'S religious beliefs out of our lives.
Load More Replies...I don't care if people have their beliefs and faiths. For some, getting into a religion has been a positive, life saving journey. Others it's caused more harm than good. Doesn't matter your beliefs, anyone pushing their idealisms onto others suck donkey balls.
As someone who doesn't believe in God himself, this sickens me. Religion was created either by those attempting to give hope or by those making sense of the world around them. If you are so dense as to think that people can't believe in a certain thing, then pardon my language, but you can f**k off.
Whether or not you believe in god, religion was a useful way to pass on accumulated knowledge in an illiterate era. Lots of good advice in religion such as look after each other, don't eat food likely to make you sick (e.g. pork has nasty parasites than can infect humans), treat people how you wish to be treated.
A tremendous amount of terrible advice too though
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chefdanzig said:
"The ease that misinformation is spread."
theonetheycalljason replied:
"People's willingness to believe it."
There's so many sources for news that it's become difficult, at least for me, to know what's true. It's maddening!
The problem with the different sources of news is the intent of the journalist behind the reporting. Many have integrity and want to report facts. Many are the opposite and want their personal opinion to become the opinion of the masses to make them feel important. If an issue in the news feels important to you read as much as you can and don’t ever believe that the first article you read is the truth. Trust your own judgement because the fact that you find it maddening means you are interested in the truth.
Load More Replies...Big tech and media companies are the problem. Rankings based on clicks favour sensational headlines and extreme positions over balanced journalism discussing all the nuance of a topic. Fox news shows exactly what that looks like i.e. tell people what they want to hear even if we know it is not the truth.
My mom actually believed crickets cricking slowed down sounds like a church choir. She refused to hear me out when I told her it was a hoax.
People believe what they want to believe. They don't need silly things like facts or evidence to make their minds up.
This is so prevalent that for the last week I've been focused on learning about conspiracy theories and delusions. There are tie-ins to all kinds of toxic behaviors. Bottom line, there's only a couple traits that are agreed upon. Up until the last 10 yrs, I thought it was cultural. I was so naive and probably still am.
Amy-Paradise said:
"People who do lottery scratchers at the counter of the gas station while there is a line of people behind them."
ImpulseCombustion replied:
"50% chance they are also buying a 24oz can of ice beer."
All retailers who sell scratch cards should be made to display a sign saying ‘If you are desperate enough to insist on scratching your cards at the counter you have a gambling problem and will no longer be served here’. With a helpline number displayed in large red script.
People at 7/11 do this all the damn time. I don't get why the stores allow this.
that is so annoying move along i need to buy muy chocolate and get out
Yess!! I need my candy NOW or this is going to turn bad in a moment
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MUIGUR said:
"Having to go to an office to do a job that you 100% can do in your house."
castrator21 replied:
"I think this every day when my alarm goes off at 6:40 when it used to go off at 7:50 during covid. President even had a company meeting about how great everyone did while working from home... then forced us all back into the stupid office afterward."
I thought this while I was wfh, until the novelty wore off. I guess it depends on the job. Call centre work can easily be done at home. But I do admit there is a breech of privacy risk. My home was my sanctuary. My peaceful place where I could forget about nasty words and not feel hostility or being controlled in my own home. Once I worked from home I was still a tenant working around maintenance issues, my daughter come and going, being monitored on my washroom time and breaks. I got especially defensive with abusive people since I'm in my own home. I got paranoid that the routed lines we used would crash and my home phone would get revealed to people, or that one of my neighbours would be eavesdropping, or the caretakers coming by for maintenance while I was working would judge me. A couple times they were trying to talk to me while I was on call with someone. When I was done for the day, I didn't feel "off work". It took about 30 minutes more to realize I needed to start on supper.
They have to justify long-term costs they can't escape: lease on the building, including rent, utilities, and maintenance; and the salaries of middle management in its entirety.
The company President or MD or CEO, whatever they are called depending on your location, all have one thing in common. They don’t want to waste money. If the company owns a building or has a lease on office space they want to make sure the money spent on that space is justified. If they have to pay for it they feel they have to use it.
Find a job that doesn't require you to be in the office. They exist. Lots of them. Just don't force it on people who don't want it.
Yup. I don't want it. I'm happy work is at a work site and home is a home.
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"Bananas sold wrapped in plastic."
Or anything else that is naturally wrapped. Why unwrap corn to put it in a plastic cover?
Wait is this a thing? I’ve never heard of people putting bananas in plastic bags
Who_Gives_A_ said:
"The fact that people care way too much about anything social media."
ShyneSpark replied:
"I deleted my Facebook, but I guarantee if I ever went back on and looked at any of my posts from 12-15 years ago when I frequently got into political arguments with random people, I would cringe myself into an early grave."
Same dude. Same. Deleting Facebook, Twitter & never using tik tok were the best decisions I ever made.
I have Facebook and didn’t look at it for about 6 years. I logged on last year and the first thing I saw was a post about bad news a family member had that day. I realised then that I should have stayed away and have done ever since. Social media is for ‘likes’ and mass sympathy or mass adoration. There is no real affection or emotion involved. Don’t even get me started on Thick Tok!
Load More Replies...I only use FB to interact with friends and family. I try to. But there's that darn newsfeed that fills up with articles that makes me feel either happy, satisfied or enraged. Mainly enraged, and those are the posts that I fall for commenting on, thinking it's going to make a difference. I either get some people just agreeing or people wanting to verbally assault me because they disagree, and then insult me some more on my appearance, something they can dig up in my scarce profile, or lack of profile picture. I gotta stop falling into naivety.
I use no social media at all. I *technically* have the app Facebook, but I have to have a Facebook account to sign onto my Oculus VR, and I never actually look at it. So I say it still counts as never using social media.
Worgenator said:
"Giving celebrities, i.e. rich people, discounts for being famous."
Beanzear replied:
"Rich people don’t pay for anything."
mathendes replied:
"They’re not getting discounts, it’s like here’s a gift for marketing for us. They def cover it up as a “discount” though."
I love how play-by-play announcers talk about broken bats or shattered hockey sticks. These players haven't paid for sticks or bats since they were in little league.
bustersquash1 said: "The hiring process ok give us a resume, ok now make an account, ok now answer all these questions that are the exact same thing on the resume you gave us. Also unrealistic expectations for what they want the job is entry-level 10+ years experience, advanced degree, 5 years experience with a program that came out last year, etc." P3rzival1 replied: "This. I f**king can’t believe how stupid this is. Just last week, I went to an entry-level position and the description stated that they want people without experience too. I get there and the guy is almost furious that I had the courage to go to the interview."
It's more like: Job ad "Apply here". Redirects to website. "Apply for job position available here". "Please log in. If you are new, make an account.". Fills out personal information to make an account. Gets back to job page. "Apply for job position available here". Click on job. "Fill out personal information to get started. (I just did that to make the account.) Add job experiences. Add skills. Add other details. Upload resume. Upload cover letter (optional). Am I damned if I do, damned if I don't? (Contacts a job search coaching program). This is why it takes all day, sometimes 2, to apply for 1 job.
Apply for the job. The employer is posting for what they'd like to hire, but chances are, they're not paying enough to get it. Take the little time and effort to apply, and you'll be surprised how often you'll get called for an interview.
Reddit user said:
"The fact that my life-preserving insulin is outrageously priced for profit. My life is owned by the pharmaceutical industry. If they want me to die, they can make it happen. What the f**k."
Tullerusken replied:
"Fun fact: the guys who discovered insulin and how it could be used to treat diabetes sold the patent for 1$.
Today, three insulin producers dominate more than 90% of the global insulin market. Pharmaceutical companies make use of loopholes in the patent system to keep out competition and they can legally pay other companies not to produce insulin."
It's ridiculous and everywhere else in the world where it is cheap as or even free it is so abundant. In Australia it is $6.70 per month. My mum uses 2 types, a rapid release x3 per day and a slow 24hr release 1x per day. So $13 approx per month right? No, she gets so much in each script it takes closer to 3 months for each supply. We have over a years worth refrigerated. Also, various health concerns have had her In and out of hospital at least 6 x In the last 2 years. She gets another supply of about 3 months worth and all equipment every time she is discharged. Insulin is not a rationed commodity, it is literally over flowing in the supply chain. The US prices are criminal in the extreme. I wish I could legally and safely ship some to those in need over there. The fact it needs to be refrigerated is also a hurdle but I would so love to help.
The fact that so many people complain so much about the American healthcare system but don't seem to be willing or able to do anything about it.
I am willing. What am I supposed to do? I vote.
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"A S T R O L O G Y.
I try my best to let people like things but god DAMNIT YOUR PERSONALITY IS NOT INFLUENCED IN ANY F**KING WAY BY THE STARS.
when I'm on dates and someone is like, "omg I'm such a Leo" let it be known that at that moment I'm thinking of all the ways to immediately leave and ghost you forever
/not sorry."
I dislike how people get confused between astrology and astronomy and act as if they’re the same thing
I think it's fun. But the ppl who take it too seriously are usually the worst kind of ppl because they use it as a shield to deflect responsibility from their s****y behavior.
"Its not my fault, I cant control it, I'm a/an "
Load More Replies...Astrology is a 2 dimensional idea of looking at the sky. End of. Astrology can be fun, like playing with tarot cards. But some people take it too damn far. When someone asks you when your birthday is that's an omen the next thing they'll say is what your sign is and try to tell you everything about you before you get a chance to tell them anything.
Ikr my friend is awesome except for the fact that she said ‘it’s so sad that you’re a water sign and I’m a fire sign” like- ok?
No-Dish7093 said:
"Tiny plastic water bottles. They make my blood boil."
there-goes-bill replied:
"And then they cost like $6 at a festival."
I'm surprised these are not on the ban list yet, but plastic bags and straws are. Apparently Canada banned single use plastics. Technically plastic bottles are. Don't think they'll go back to glass for safety reasons. Wonder what they'll come up with. I've already come across paper coffee cup lids at Tim Hortons not long ago. But they mostly still use plastic.
Filtered water taps are easy to use, safe and create a lot less waste per litre (or gallon for the Americans).
Load More Replies...Absolutely. We have a water cooler at work. We have giant water bottles which are all recycled plastic. We pay a deposit for each. They are replaced when empty then we get the deposit back. They are cleaned and re-used. The festivals could hire hundreds of these, charge people half as much for water and still make money as well as reducing plastic waste and cleanup costs.
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Lorf30 said:
"Balloon releases."
SexySadieMaeGlutz replied:
"When I was in high school way back in 1990, I remember there was an assembly held for Earth Day. In the end, they released what was probably over 100 white balloons for absolutely no reason."
But how else will people know it's a girl if I don't release pink balloons at my gender reveal party??? /s
Do what others have done: start a wildfire. The foscheck that the plane drops is bright pink. (This is sarcasm, guys)
Load More Replies...Wasn't there a big charity event that did cause a massive ecological catastrophe from releasing thousands of balloons?
ChasmClunge said:
"US healthcare."
jayval90 replied:
"US Health Insurance.
"Yeah I'm going to pay for this thing, and if you ask the hospital directly they're going to quote you a price 5 times higher than they actually pay us, then we're going to claim that we 'saved you money' from that non-existent retail price. Oh, we'll charge you basically however much we think you'll pay and then negotiate prices with hospitals for things that we won't revisit for decades because you keep paying us and we keep making boatloads of money.
Oh and if you don't buy our service, that's illegal.""
And if you don't have Healthcare you get crippling debt if you ever need to go to a hospital. It's really disgusting that sometimes I hope I'm in an accident caused by someone else so that I can go to a dr; only way I'd be able to afford it since someone will be covering it.
Even if you pay for it every month you still have to pay on top of that for doc visits and emergency rooms and surgery. $1000s on top of that.
Load More Replies...75% of state legislators work in the insurance industry. Surprised? You voted them into office.
I was floored when I went to do my taxes for last year and was fined for not having health insurance for less than two months. Never mind the fact that when you do have insurance you have to be your own advocate for them paying for things that they should already cover! I shouldn't have to call and push for them to pay for medical expenses that's why I PAY YOU!! And if you're not the type to call and complain about it then you end up paying so much more to the doctor/hospital on top of the money you fork out to the insurance companies. Medical debt should not affect your credit score in any way!
"Smoking cigarettes."
New hire at my job smokes CONSTANTLY. He smokes when he gets to the office. Then he has to smoke before leaving for the field. Then he has to smoke when he gets to the job site. Then he has to smoke while in the field, which means stopping work because you can't be near the equipment, then he has to smoke before leaving to go back to the office. Its just a constant cloud of smoke making me gag.
Shamefully, I've been smoking over 20 years (it's hard trying to quit) and I have self control at work. No proper scheduled break, no cigarette; your addiction cannot inconvenience others.
Load More Replies...I'm surprised young people smoke at all. The ones that smoke usually seem to come from a family of smokers, or hung out with other smokers to fit in. I feel that's the same with youth and vaping. They think it's harmless and think it's cool. It's been very prominent in the media as a cool thing. It's just a matter of time when we start learning what vaping is doing to people's health. Vapers are the guinea pigs.
I wish I had never started smoking. Out of all the things I've become addicted to and overcame in my life.... smoking has been the one thing I just cannot stop doing.
Smoking is ok as long as others dont have to breathe in cig smoke. That is just rude, even outdoors.
"Hipsters that buy $400+ "work boots" and $350 "raw denim" jeans LOOK like they do hard work.
It's cosplaying as blue collar and it's not just f**king stupid, it's f**king insulting."
I saw a pair of jeans with paint splattered all over them for a couple $100 and thought to myself what poser would actually buy these? Maybe I could find my retirement by selling my work clothes online so these idiots can look like they actually have a job.
I'm either that oblivious to what people wear, or it's just not a thing where I live. I've never noticed any hipster people, particularly pretending to be hard workers.
Or kids who buy a shiny new pair of Converse or Vans and intentionally "wear them out" by scuffing them up and basically destroying them a bit at home. Like rubbing a pair of dirty shoes against the toes and sides, then making a few little tears in key places. "We've known you since Elementary, Sarah. You've never ridden a skateboard in your life and you were wearing high heels with a Prada purse last week. We've never ever seen you "wear out" those skate shoes."
Maybe some people just like to wear those shoes and they get a scuffed and dirty while walking about. But kids altering their clothing to fit a style isn't anything new. In the 90s, jeans came intact but ripped jeans became the style. We would tear our jeans ourselves, iron on patches, even scribble on them, to our parent's dismay. There was even the "gangster" baggy style kids would wear that made them look tough, but it was just a style and they were generally nice people who like the look.
Load More Replies...Bikers are people who cosplay every weekend and ride around on their little bikes, but they think they're some kind of underground movement.
"People having to sacrifice their life savings for medical treatment that might not even be certain to work."
0sculum3stm0rtis said:
"Reality TV."
duffman13jws replied:
"It's cheaper to film than scripted with professional actors."
Almost 8 years later and I still sigh when I hear or read his name 😤
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"Cost of wedding."
Went to a wedding where it was mandatory potluck (you had to cook for 50), with no music (not even a radio), so we all sat on chairs in an undecorated room waiting for something to happen. All the nonfamilial guests thought they'd crashed a family reunion and ended up leaving early. I'm not saying a wedding should cost a lot, but some thought and money should go into it.
Some thought, for sure, seems to be missing there, but it doesn't sound like the problem was a lack of money, more a lack of planning.
Load More Replies...I swear some people spend so much they could pay off half the mortgage of a house in some places if they just used the money for a house, instead. I get wanting everything to look nice, but there are good alternatives. Instead of buying flowers, have a wedding at a park. It's usually low cost, or free. You can set up somewhere near a garden plot for the ceremony. They usually aren't that long and I see these types of weddings all the time when I go to the parks. It's not as intrusive to other park visitors as it sounds. People stop and watch. The weddings aren't big. The parks are big with many gardens around, so it's not like people are closing down whole parks just for them, or picking the flowers from the gardens.
Cost of funeral: seriously? It's a slab of useless meat. Dispose of it in the most ecological way possible. The dead person will not give a s**t.
Terrible-Turn-5292 said:
"Anything being sold as “gluten-free” can’t be guaranteed it’s entirely gluten-free. What’s the point? People who require that guarantee, can’t eat it, so the only people who can eat it, are the people who don’t need it."
bbzarr replied:
"Omg thissss."
I'm celiac and it drives me nuts!! "Here, have some food with a bit of poison sprinkled on it. It's only a bit so it should be ok right?""
That's not everywhere though. In Australia the food is tested to a much higher standard. I did the testing on a popular gluten free breakfast product (every batch tested). If we said gluten free, it was gluten free
I didn't initially understand the point, always having assumed that such claims were trustworthy, as I'm sure they are in Europe as well. Where in the world would you be able to label something as Gluten-Free if you couldn't actually back up your claims?
Load More Replies...This is why I learned gluten-free recipes for my friend. It's easier to find proper guaranteed gluten-free products by me so I learned recipes to help her. Personally, I think most the baked goods suck but she loves them (almond flour I find is the least offensive flavor and blends in the best)
godgoo said:
"Gambling, especially slot machines."
BlatantlyThrownAway replied:
"Where I live it's betting on sports on your phone. TV ads play constantly, game coverage always has a bit with an expert from a betting company giving the odds, teams have betting company sponsors splashed across their jerseys, and even naming rights to stadiums have been sold to betting companies. You cannot escape it.
Look, if people wanna bet that's their business, but I'm sick of the companies spamming us everywhere, and I work too damn hard for my money to blow it so frivolously. I don't get it."
I don't agree with this. I like sports betting, but I never bet more than I can afford to lose, and I generally make small-return "safe" bets for a bit of extra fun while watching an event.
I suspect that the overall negatives (addiction e. g.) Outweigh the advertised benefits (increase tax revenue).
Load More Replies...I can't stand how the companies make it look so over the top exciting and action-packed. Like the slot machine games on phones, particularly that obnoxious bingo game I've blocked the name of.
Slot machines are c**p, but if you learn how to play video poker correctly and you find a machine with the right pay-scale, it can be a life-saver. When I was living in Vegas, there were nights I'd be walking home from work with $5 to my name, which wasn't going to get me very far. So I would pop into the casino and try my luck. Sometimes, I'd lose it, but at least I got a free drink. Other times, I'd walk out with a few hundred bucks. One time, I hit 4 Jacks on my very last hand, which was the Card of the Day, so I left with money and a cool jacket.
Reddit user said:
"The golden powder put on steaks in expensive restaurants."
Zealousideal_Talk479 replied:
"It's called gold."
Just why? There is zero nutritional value. Who goes to eat and thinks tonight i am going to eat, digest and s**t me some gold cos honestly I have completely run out of rational ideas on how to spend all this extra money I just don't value or need?
Blesss your heart. You're really trying to find a good reason? Darlin there is no reason except arrogance and affluence. "Hey look, I'm so rich/posh that I can eat gold" (that's all there is to it)
Load More Replies..."Cancel culture."
Especially when it's about things that happened many years ago and the person was young, stupid and basically following accepted social norms of that time. People learn, evolve, change and become wiser. Society evolves along with them over time. We want the changes for the better but even those that have potentially changed get taken down because of their ignorance back when they didn't know any better.
Depends on how you define "cancel culture". There's a difference between "cancelling" someone who unapologetically, openly harbors hateful and bigoted views, "cancelling" someone for some stupid thing they've done years ago and are apologetic about, and "cancelling" someone because it, for example, contains LGBT+ themes.
This really is just stupid. People react way to quickly before they have all the facts, and usually it's about something so minor or misunderstood.
My fiancé and I were just talking about this type of thing last night. Does anyone remember the Dixie Chicks? If so, do you remember when they made negative remarks about Bush? They were obsolete after that. In today's society that type of thing is not only the norm but respected. Crazy how much everything has changed in the last decade or so.
Then you've cancelled cancel culture. But what would happen if things took a turn and we cancelled cancelling cancel culture?
Load More Replies...Cancelling someone in the modern sense is just mob rule. For true justice, guilt needs to be assessed on more than just hearsay and any punishment needs to be proportinal to the crime.
the_nimble_36 said: "How people treat politics like it is a sport." punky67 replied: "Politicians should be treated like uncool, boring, middle-aged bastards, which is what the majority of them are (at least in the UK). I think the biggest problem of treating politics like sports is that it encourages everyone to only be on one side of any issue."
Yes! People here in Alabama treat politics like it was football. They don't understand or care much about policy, because it's not about that. It's about a sense of identity and pulling for your team, no matter what they're doing. If we started taxing the rich and giving everyone health care and a living wage tomorrow, people would be delighted. Heck, half of the MAGA people whose groceries I ring up at work pay with food-stamps. If it was about policy, they'd have to be doing some pretty twisty mental gymnastics on that one. But it's not about policy. It's about identity. And exploiting racism and homophobia to get poor people to identify with a party that's actively working against their interests has got to be the greatest grift of all time.
But *they're* not on welfare, just down on their luck as opposed to all those lazy good for nothings relying on welfare. Obviously sarcasm but this is how many think.
Load More Replies...I just don't like how some politically charged people can't put their politics aside for one conversation and try to push it onto other people, and even attempt to accuse people for being on a side over what they've said, but the person didn't mention politics at all. For ex. "It's great to see the city come to life with fun activities for the families. Would love to try the Alice In Wonderland tea party labyrinth downtown." Cue in political stormer: "Go suck Trudope's d**k some more. Stop pushing your leftist agenda. People aren't going to go downtown in stabbypeg. Wake up, libtard."
Absolutely!!! America is all about those extremes (Republican or Democrat, Trump or Biden, etc.) and nobody can say "hey, why don't we try to understand the others' point of view and then compromise!" And that is one of the reasons why our country is so f****d.
I still remember reading a comment from a gun owning lesbian somewhere: "so... if I want to love whoever I want, I have to give up my rights to self defense. And if I want to have effective self defense, I can't love who I love. WTF?"
I'm missing something - why the down votes? It's a quote and it merely points out the worthlessness of a two-party, all-or-nothing political system.
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"Using your birthplace as a reason to be a "gangster."
Like... what do you being born in Mississippi got to do with us fighting?"
This goes with everywhere. Just because i was born in alabama dies not mean I am screwing my family. No one I know does this.
Only time I've (sort of) used it is to (sort of) talk some sense into someone e.g. "Uh, we're in Texas. Half of us own a gun. You really think that's a smart idea? I'm certainly not saying that I'M going to shoot you... but other people get a bit trigger-happy here when they see this sh*t. Not gonna end well for *anyone* involved. Just walk away from it, man."
"TikTok dances."
This will die off one day. When all those tiktokkers have kids it will be considered lame to them.
"Worrying about things you can't control or don't affect you."
3DarkWingGeese said:
"I can appreciate the aesthetic of slightly ripped jeans. What I think is absolutely moronic is jeans that are completely ripped open all the way from the pockets down to the cuff. I don't understand why some people like the style if you can even call it one."
Alligad0orp3ar replied:
"Just wear shorts at this point."
I would only wear ripped jeans that had been ripped in a legitimate way, like falling while working/playing outside.
Not my cup of tea anymore, but I get it. Used to purposely rip my new jeans because I thought intact jeans were "too proper". The grunge look was huge and so was the gangster look, and the punk style was always good. If you were none of those, and a girl, you were wearing mini shorts/skirts. Anyways, I get what it means to the youngins today. Adults don't have to understand it.
Or when it's done "wrong". I have a pair I love, but they were "ripped"... in a single spot. They didn't look ripped, it looked like I had a hole in my pants. It was sizable and far up enough to see my pocket. I neatly stitched them up with a small row of matching safety pins (looks intentional) and I think it looks even better. Won't work with completely destroyed jeans, but if it's just sort of awkward looking... get creative.
And the fact that the ripped up jeans cost more than a pair that isn't. Make it make sense.
Jimp0 said: "NFTs." whalezark replied: "This and the “x and y things also have carbon footprints” argument. yes, John, cars are also bad for the environment but they don't produce years' worth of waste all at once like crypto transactions."
I used to think of trying out NFTs to get my art out there. Glad I stalled on it and gave it a second thought.
I love how the NFT fad lasted for, like, a few months at most. I'm curious about the current feelings of people who "own" monkey jpegs which cost like a used car.
Reddit user said:
"The 40-hour work week."
Sejaw replied:
"Couldn’t agree more dude. Past few years I’ve done 7 11hr days on, and 7 days off as my schedule. Literally half the year off. You can take 7 days off and you actually get 21 days off. There are guys with enough annual holidays to disappear for 4 months every year.
At first, I thought the schedule would be rough but I’ll never work a standard 5&2 job again."
Reddit user said:
"Playing the dating game. If you’re ever seen kaguya-sama love is war, it’s literally that.
This game is where you have to text an hour later so you don’t come off as the beggar to the chooser. You have to go out with her whilst keeping your options open for another girl. It’s all so tedious and confusing.
Lemme just take you out & if we feel good about it, we keep going."
LearTiberius replied:
"Or you could just be yourself and say "screw it, cards on the table. Like the hand then play it, don't then there's the door." Your relationship status isn't your entire world, don't make it so."
azarbi said:
"Closing down nuclear power plants for "environmental purposes", and replacing them with gas and coal power plants."
kickit08 replied:
"Closing down clean energy plants is a step in the wrong direction. I would take natural gas plants any day over coal, and nuclear energy is better than everything else. The main reason plants are being shut down, and not being built is that they cost more on the front end but are a lot cheaper for the future. Half the reason they aren’t being built is because of misinformation. Most of the major disasters that nuclear energy has caused were because by major f**k-ups. And if you take into account Chornobyl and other massive nuclear disasters it’s still the safest nonrenewable form of energy."
Well so does everything else. A half win is better than a full loss.
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ChrisNEPhilly said:
"I dated a girl who called orangutans "orange utans" because they're orange."
annajoo1 replied:
"Reminds me of a girl I went to high school with who GENUINELY thought Alzheimer’s was called “old timers”."
I knew a couple who used to say that the orange juice was fresh-squozen
Greedy_Evening953 said: "How complicated humans make things for themselves. Like, let's just chill and be nice to each other. Idfk." shamefullybald replied: "Humans make a big deal about everything. You don't see squirrels throwing baby showers, birthday parties, graduation parties, retirement parties, or dressing up in uncomfortable black clothes to hold funerals for one another. And if squirrels did start throwing parties, we'd be all annoyed when we didn't get invited. Chill out, humans!"
Sometimes parties and graduations and stuff are what make life fun! I think it’s all about perspective. But also, yeah, I definitely agree about that. We make a big deal about school, college, work, how such-and-such will impact the rest of your LIFE when in reality all you should do is live life the way you want and do stuff that makes you happy.
But that's because we know what we'd be missing. When I think of Christmas, it's hard for me to imagine being comfortable and happy if I was with another family that doesn't celebrate Christmas, knowing what it's all about. When I didn't get birthday parties anymore, that made me really sad. But there are people out there who probably have some grand, fun celebrations for reasons I don't know of nor would understand, but I'm not missing anything because I don't know if it's something to care that much about.
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Reddit user said:
"People who religiously follow streamers."
Weeaboo3177 replied:
"I value their existence because they farm clips and put them on Youtube for us non-weirdos to selectively watch."
I worked as a YouTube chat mod for 2 years. This streaming addiction is just that. An addiction. It's not healthy and a waste of time in a fake environment. I left permanently before I completely lost my damn mind. People shut the electronics down, turn it all off and go outside. Enjoy the outdoors and meet people in reality. Have dinner with real friends. Visit your family. Play with the kids instead of handing them a tablet.
watermelonnmermaids said:
"Mini cupcakes. Cupcakes are already mini versions of cake they don't need to be more mini."
shamefullybald replied:
"That's an astute observation. A lot of people give mini cupcakes a pass, but it's time we took a stand."
My mom has a banana muffin recipe, once made it in a mini muffin tin and NEVER looked back. They come out perfectly moist and fluffy and amazing every time now. Before, it was a gamble to see if they were burnt, or raw on the inside, or decent, but never perfect.
I love mini cupcakes, they're so good. Plus the pans are useful for other things, I made lemond curd tarts in a mini muffin pan.
"Couples saying "We're pregnant"."
Better than "My wife/girlfriend is pregnant. She's having a baby." Disconnect much?
I can maybe understand it if it's done as some sort of announcement (but "We're having a baby!" would probably be better. Talking about it casually after that is weird. "Since we're pregnant, my wife doesn't wanna go to the bar with us. But she said I should still go and have a bit of fun while she relaxes, eats an entire jar of pickles and watches her reality shows." Uh-huh. I thought you were both pregnant, you shouldn't be drinking.
snoopyeeebee said:
"Closing cost of the mortgage."
sarayewo replied:
"Well, realtor fees are more than that... I'm ok if people choose to use a professional to deal with advertising, showings, etc, but to basically be forced to pay 5-6% of the selling price to a monopoly is ridiculous. In this day and age where I don't need them to access the market, they're just glorified door openers.
And they directly discourage people from dealing with FSBO listings bc "something must be shady"."
Yeah, there were even advertisements for a realtor company spoofing independent sellers. What's up with that? Realtors are also so disrespectful to tenants living in properties being sold. They're the shady ones.
Super long finger nails. I'm not talking like a little length. But those 5 inch nails that the owners clack on purpose while their talking, and tap constantly. Not everyone likes to hear that kind of ASMR. I've had acrylic nails before, not that long but long enough. My real nails were damaged. The take off was painful. Much of the damage was done by careless cheap "nail salons" and constant pressure on the nail bed when scratching an itch, working and doing anything.
Super long finger nails. I'm not talking like a little length. But those 5 inch nails that the owners clack on purpose while their talking, and tap constantly. Not everyone likes to hear that kind of ASMR. I've had acrylic nails before, not that long but long enough. My real nails were damaged. The take off was painful. Much of the damage was done by careless cheap "nail salons" and constant pressure on the nail bed when scratching an itch, working and doing anything.
