Guy Cancels Bday Party And Storms Off After GF Announces Pregnancy, Days Later Confesses To Cheating
Life is very unpredictable! So unpredictable that even if you’ve been with your partner for nearly a decade and are trying to start a family – there’s still a chance that things will go south.
This is exactly what happened to the author of today’s tale. In fact, the woman had already found out that she was expecting, but when she revealed the news to her boyfriend on his birthday, the guy caused a scene and bolted!
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The couple has been trying for a baby for 6 years
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The woman learns that she’s expecting on her boyfriend’s 30th birthday
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She shares the news – however, the guy throws a fit and storms out
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“AITA for ruining my boyfriend’s birthday party?” – this internet user took to one of Reddit’s most judgmental communities, asking its members whether she’s indeed a jerk for ‘ruining’ her boyfriend’s 30th birthday by announcing that she’s expecting. The post managed to garner over 11K upvotes as well as 2.1K comments discussing the situation.
Now, did you know that according to a piece from YouGov, an international research data and analytics group, “when asked about their experiences being cheated on, more than half (54%) of those who have ever been in a monogamous relationship say they have been cheated on — either physically, emotionally, or both”?
Learning about your other half’s unfaithfulness is never easy and makes many folks ponder: why? Unfortunately, there are no one-size-fits-all answers, as every relationship is different – however, there are a few factors that could contribute to this life-changing decision.
Perhaps it’s the lack of emotional connection and intimacy, a desire for novelty, revenge, or maybe it’s an exit strategy – whatever the reasoning is, it sure as heck is a painful process that requires time to heal.
Whether you’re high school sweethearts, got together in college, or have only been an item for a couple of months – there’s no way of predicting if the relationship will indeed work out in the long run and not end in heartbreak and Taylor Swift music on repeat.
Kate Moyle, a certified psycho-sexologist, for instance, suggests following a couple of steps in times of distress in her interview for Marie Claire, and those include but are not limited to:
- Deal with your grief.
- Talk it out.
- Rebalance the positives and negatives.
- Accept the hurt.
- Surround yourself with people who make you smile.
- Keep busy.
Despite the valuable advice that has helped many broken souls get back their lives, people are cruel, and there are times when the cheating part is not exactly the worst part of the betrayal.
Days later, he comes back home and confesses to cheating
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Redditor u/maddybirdy and her long-term partner had been trying for a baby for six years when she finally learned about her pregnancy on the day of his 30th birthday. Naturally, the woman was ecstatic, and she believed that there wasn’t a better gift, so she planned to announce it at the party later in the evening!
When she got home, there were already a couple of guests present; she tried to pull her boyfriend aside to break the news – however, he wouldn’t budge, so she just told him on the spot. The man practically blew up; he got incredibly mad and started yelling at the OP about how she ruined his birthday. He then told the guests to leave, messaged everyone else not to come, and stormed out of the house.
A week and a half later, he came back home, and the two talked about their relationship, where the guy eventually confessed to cheating. He then sternly expressed how he didn’t want to be a part of his child’s life, and the expectant mother packed her things and moved in with one of her coworkers!
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What a horrid man. Why would he keep trying to have a baby with her if he was cheating? What an absolute a*****e
Exactly. He then wants an abortion...he knew she wasn't on the pill and was actively looking forward to being pregnant but he still had unprotected sex with her while cheating and planning to break up with her.
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Why is the man given a choice whether he want to be in the baby's life? I mean, if he doesn't want to see it, okay, but I hope he will have to pay for the kid until it's out of school / university? Or is "you f****d, you are responsible for the child" only for women? If she doesn't want / need the money for her daily life, good, it's the child's money anyway.
Sometime it's for the better if the mother wants to cut all ties with the father. Given his loose temper I wouldn't want to deal with that monster. I know there's way to indirectly receive child support but if he's not willing to pay it will be a hard battle to get anything. Some mothers would rather raise their child on their own, hopefully finding a better, decent step-parent along the way, but otherwise just dealing with everything themselves than have to go through all that trouble over a scumbag. And that should be her choice to make. Not anyone else's. Seems like this future momma is going to be alright. She's already making some awesome moves.
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I am so sorry for her. What a douche bag. Hope the baby is doing well.
All best wishes to both, you and yours as well. To every decent person here.
Load More Replies... What a horrid man. Why would he keep trying to have a baby with her if he was cheating? What an absolute a*****e
Exactly. He then wants an abortion...he knew she wasn't on the pill and was actively looking forward to being pregnant but he still had unprotected sex with her while cheating and planning to break up with her.
Load More Replies... Why is the man given a choice whether he want to be in the baby's life? I mean, if he doesn't want to see it, okay, but I hope he will have to pay for the kid until it's out of school / university? Or is "you f****d, you are responsible for the child" only for women? If she doesn't want / need the money for her daily life, good, it's the child's money anyway.
Sometime it's for the better if the mother wants to cut all ties with the father. Given his loose temper I wouldn't want to deal with that monster. I know there's way to indirectly receive child support but if he's not willing to pay it will be a hard battle to get anything. Some mothers would rather raise their child on their own, hopefully finding a better, decent step-parent along the way, but otherwise just dealing with everything themselves than have to go through all that trouble over a scumbag. And that should be her choice to make. Not anyone else's. Seems like this future momma is going to be alright. She's already making some awesome moves.
Load More Replies... I am so sorry for her. What a douche bag. Hope the baby is doing well.
All best wishes to both, you and yours as well. To every decent person here.
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