Husband Asks Wife To Sign Papers While Blindfolded, She Gets Suspicious When He Refuses To Show The Papers
There’s no better fitting description of matrimony than Shakespeare’s “marriage is a leap of faith.” Knowing how most romantic unions end, it’s reassuring to see that people still sign up for the bumpy journey of shared mortgages, kids, health problems and cozy evenings. Of course, all done with the utmost trust in your significant other — no matter how bizarre or suspicious some of their ideas might be.
As u/ThrowRAissuesRA shares in her story, their marriage was rock solid until the moment her husband demanded to play a very unusual game involving a blindfold, a pen and some mysterious papers. For all the blindfolded author knew, she could be signing up for some funny business.
Feeling like her own husband was trying to gaslight her for not being able to trust him without any second thoughts, the author turned to the trusted ‘Am I The [Jerk]‘ community to see what people would have done in her place.
Marriage requires a leap of faith and complete trust no matter how your paths may have crossed
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Trust, like happiness, in our relationship isn’t set in stone. Which, in a way, helps to explain why a worrying 10% of married couples don’t trust their partners, giving “’till death do us part” a worrying ring to it.
Hoping to learn more about the role that trust and honesty plays in the happily ever after, Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Barton Goldsmith, an award-winning psychotherapist and writer based in sunny Los Angeles. “Most relationships go through a period of trust issues,” he told us. Although trust has many definitions — “a firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something” (Oxford dictionary) or “feeling safe when vulnerable” — we all know when it’s lost. “It’s a feeling inside of you that makes you sick to your stomach and it makes you underperform.”
Barton also says that the way we trust (or, God help us, don’t trust) our partners directly correlates to surrounding relationships with friends and family. “If you don’t fully trust your relationship, which is your primary connection to other human beings — it’s going to be really difficult to trust other people,” Goldsmith explained. “Likewise, it’s very important to know that your partner is the one consistent being on the planet rooting and standing up for you.”
But when your partner selfishly tries to pressure you into doing things you don’t like, rising suspicion seems the only fitting response
Still, however stable and healthy your marriage is, chances are that you’ll have to ride out a couple of ugly rough patches in your shared journey. When we asked Dr. Barton about the one-time trust ‘hiccups’ — like the one the author of the story has experienced, and common catalyst for marital problems — he suggests a sincere confession. “You tell the whole story, and then you make an appointment with a therapist,” he advised.
Being in the industry for almost 40 years, Barton knows very well how long it takes to heal the wounds left by a partner’s lack of honesty. “The length of this journey is based on how much energy and sincerity a person is willing to put into it,” he said. Of course, lack of trust and being cheated by your loved one are two different extremes. But talking about the latter process, Barton says it can take up to two years of therapy to fully recover from damage.
A surprising 41% of American adults have admitted to hiding some ‘dirty laundry’ from their spouses (whereas, financial infidelity is the most common thing, studies have shown). So when we asked Barton if there are exceptions to things you can and should be completely honest with your significant other, he said the following: “If you trust someone more than you trust your partner, you belong in therapy. Otherwise, knowing that you can talk to someone about anything and they’re not going to come back and point their finger at you, or call you an idiot — that’s a real union. That’s marriage.”
People were unanimous in saying that no reasonable partner would do such things
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That sounds dodgy as f**k. DO NOT SIGN A THING. Could be anything from loans, divorce papers, life insurance papers, a will, offshore bank accounts etc.
This woman needs to go on an all out hunting spree through EVERYTHING in that house when he is out on errands or at work. Those papers are there, somewhere. Probably life insurance papers. Whatever they are, she'd be signing them under duress. She is right to not sign anything without seeing it first. Hunt. Down. Those. Papers, woman!! FIND THEM and then maybe find a lawyer too.
Bad Rad. Here! Lady I am thinking that dude needs to have his head examined. You should seriously consider consider divorce. He broke the trust rule. You're better than that.
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"My husband asked me to put on a blindfold and use a chainsaw to take apart some sort of meaty object about the size of my mother. And clean what smelled like blood off the carpet with what smelled like bleach and then wipe off what felt like a gun-shaped object as well. Am I wrong to be suspicious? I don't want to be a bad wife. I tried asking my mother about it but mysteriously she's not answering the phone"
You just got out of the hospital for CHRONIC PROBLEMS? He's been poisoning you.
Are we just paranoid people? Or is this just super fucken obvious that something suspish is going on?
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It's all fun and games until you end up on the news for your murder because you signed a life insurance policy.
Unless the last thing you see is a piñata, don't trust someone who puts a blindfold on you. Just play the game and sign with an obviously fake name like Hannah Montana. If he's not trying anything underhanded, then he won't mind.
Unless you see a piñata, or you have a safe word ;)
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She will be once she realizes she needs to divorce him ASAP. Unfortunately it appears as if she's content with just complaining to a bunch of strangers on Reddit.
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This is really suspicious and you don't sign anything that you don't know what it is. It sounds like he is either planning to kill her or leave her. Either way she needs to speak to a lawyer immediately.
This was clearly a long thought out process. Started grooming her with the fun little games. Who can solve the puzzle blindfolded! I bet there was even a "who can draw the best dog" or whatever while blindfolded. It all leads to her signing something that she wouldn't normal do
A suicide note maybe along the lines of not being able to stand being chronically ill any longer.
My first thought. This man is making my creep radar go crazy. The whole story is making him feel dangerous as hěll.
Load More Replies... Secretly record him asking you to do this. Check and clear any tracking apps on your phone. Have your car checked for a hidden tracking device. File for divorce (don't present him with petition just yet). Include transcripts of him asking you to sign blindfolded. Pack all your belongings and move to an undisclosed location while he's at work. Change your phone number. Have a professional process server, serve him with the divorce papers. The divorce should go through after 6nmonths of non-cohabitation, even if he has not signed. Don't look back, because you will have dodged a (possibly literal) bullet.
Recording him requesting she sign blindfolded was my thought too
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you can't complain people don't trust you when you are doing extremely shady s**t like this.
The law calls this signing under duress and negates it. I do feel like he is trying to put one over on her, the whole thing sounds extremely nefarious and a lawyer should be contacted.
The problem is proving it, especially if you are no longer alive.
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This is domestic abuse she sounds very isolated and vulnerable and he’s taking advantage of her.
Isolation from family and friends.. Creepy blindfold game check check. Only one last box to check How To get away with murder
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Why on earth would anyone trust someone trying to pull this crap? If he really wanted you to trust him, he wouldn't be hiding things from you.
I know a guy who was married to a lawyer. Signed a bunch of papers without even looking because he was busy. She embezzled 8 million and ended up in jail; he had co-signed so many documents that the DA wanted to indict him along with her. He managed to save the house...
Love this... ! However he could add Mrs to the front of it! So...no. Sign nothing!
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She's not safe. Her life is surely at risk. Nobody asks you to sign papers blindfolded unless it will benefit them financially, and they're screwing and deceiving them. Good grief, it could have even been a suicide note. She needs to get the hell out, now, fast, and not trust him ever again, her life is at risk.
Right!..like almost daily I am seeing/reading something that begs this question.
Load More Replies... To add to my first post your husband could also be trying to get you to sign a life insurance policy. If you were hospitalized recently under suspicious circumstances I would not sign anything and would contact my doctor to see if my illness could have been caused by your husband. It's suspicious
And they don't test for arsenic poisoning like they do with all the normal blood tests we get
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What's the worst that could happen? I mean other than waking up in a cage somewhere in the former Soviet Union missing a kidney and surgically attached to a small bear.
Maybe he is trying to poison you, and those papers are life insurance, a will or something... I just want to know WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM?? RUN, GIRL, RUN!!
One way to play his game without concern about why he's doing it, would be to do it in front of a witness... someone you get to pick... and he agrees you will only have to do it once.
Please keep us updated! I (and others) want to know if they are alright!
Don’t sign anything you can’t see. Watch him like a hawk. He’s up to something.
Secretly record him asking you to do this. Check and clear any tracking apps on your phone. Have your car checked for a hidden tracking device. File for divorce (don't present him with a petition just yet). Include transcripts of him asking you to sign blindfolded. Pack all your belongings and move to an undisclosed location while he's at work. Change your phone number. Have a professional process server, serve him with the divorce papers. The divorce should go through after 6nmonths of non-cohabitation, even if he has not signed. Don't look back, because you will have dodged a (possibly literal) bullet.
My husband wouldn't even try this major suspish behaviour on me, he knows I watch far too many true crime YouTube channels to fall for any of this crap - I'd just sit next write out f**k you in fancy swirly script
I'd be afraid he was having you sign power of attorney so he has say on everything: financial assets, where you live (in a skilled care facility, etc). Please see a lawyer immediately and if needed, have a lawyer as your power of attorney. RUN away.
I'm sure he wants a couple sample signatures first, that's why he's asking her to make it a game and then when he's sure she's going to do what he says, he'll slide in the SUS paper and have her sign it. I don't think he'll take a chance and make it the first paper he puts in front of her. He's paranoid, likely from being underhanded, and doesn't trust her either.
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I need an update! I suspect life insurance papers, or some other kind of money thing that's shady as f**k!!!
We are going to watch these two in a Discovery ID documentary pretty soon.
Or someone on this thread going to write a mystery story about this! Where killer gets away with the murder because wife played game and signed mystery papers blindfolded. Jump forward...wife # 2 being asked to...play a game blindfolded. He holds an envelope with documents. Fade out.
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One word: Sociopath. (Read "The Sociopath Next Door" by Dr. Martha Stout.)
Dont sign anything even if he shows you the papers. Papers can be' switched once you are blind folded. Be careful
Maybe he plans to kill you, or have you killed. And then say you committed suicide. He'll have your signature on the suicide note saying you didn't want to live anymore. Also. I have never heard of such a game.
Agree. Nothing good could come of signing anything blindfolded. It could be divorce papers, access to your IRA, a check, self commitment to a psych hospital, or even a suicide note. I'd be really suspicious of his other behavior now too. Very scary.
I agree with wide feet😬He clearly was grooming you for this & idk what your "chronic" condition is but I'd be revisiting it's timeline to see if it coincides with him entering your life or being in charge of your Care, as it sounds like is the case. It sounds very Lifetime Movie for sure but I do think he maybe killing you
I really hope this is a fake story. Only because no red flags, I mean you've never watched any crime show? Not even the news? I think you need to go see a lawyer and explain the game. So they can do a search anything that you have signed. Not your knowledge will be taken care of but the only thing is depending on what he's done it could be considered fraud. Take it to a lawyer and trust yourself. Why you know he can have you signing power of attorney over to him where he's in control over everything.
There is actually a case about something like this on a true crime show(I believe it was Snapped). The wife was having an affair. One day out of the blue she asked her husband to play a "trust game". He agreed and she proceeded to rub several objects on his body and he had to guess what they were. All was going well until she pulled out a knife and cut him. He asked her to remove the blindfold and untie his hands and she refused. Saying it was an accident and didn't want to ruin the game. He then was in pain and begged her to call 911 or bring him to the hospital. She pretended to call 911 but hadn't, After long period of waiting he asked her again. For some reason she decided to take him to the hospital but when they got there she parked in a remote parking lot,got out of the car and stab him more. Thankfully some people saw this and rushed to help him. He made a full recovery but if your husband is just asking you to do these things out of the blue and gets so defensive be careful
Brilliant move, here, sport. your details needn't have been so much--- All you did was put ideas in warped peoples' heads. Think about your words, and the effects that can have, huh?
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It seems like your husband has been setting you up from the start by pretending to play a game with you...Maybe you should make a document about limiting his rights when it comes to your decisions,then framing him to sign them,then refuse to sign what ever he wants you to sign and see what happens..also you should try to get him into therapy so you can resolve this issue because it a red flag for way bigger problems that you today probably dont see coming. Good luck
Here's what I would do. Pretend you're going to sign it blindfolded, then quickly take the blindfold of while clutching the papers. The fact that he won't tell you about or show them to you shows he's up to something.
To me I'm thinking that he's trying to get her to sign blank papers because how would she sign it on a line where the signature goes if she's blindfolded she won't be able to sign it online I'm thinking maybe he's trying to get her to sign blank paper so he has something to copy but then again I'm not understanding this because she's not allowed to see the papers I just don't see how she's supposed to sign on the x or on the signature line without being able to see it
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Sign the papers blindfolded, then he gets you to play the game again and kills you while you're blindfolded. I'd be walking out the door now.
My Dad's a retire United States federal employee. He told me don't sign anything unless you've read it, and have a basic understanding of what you're signing. This advice has served me quite well. I'm 40. And I have ADD and bipolar. If I would've been this lady ... I would not have played that game. My gut tells me the husband 8s getting her to sign papers she otherwise wouldn't agree to sign. I'm not a legal professional. And I don't claim to be one. But it's his lack of transparency that leads me to this conclusion.
I'd dump his butt. He is without a doubt up to something very bad. I'd be worried about losing everything including my life with a creep like that.
Sweetie that sounds real suspicious. I wouldn't sign. That could be divorce paper, crazy loan, or worse case scenario... A suicide note. If I were you I'd be just a tad be more aware around him...
sounds like he's trying to get you to sign a power of attorney, or commitment papers.... i dont trust this guy.
How are you going to get a welfare check on an anonymous person??? This man probably stood by you to gain your admiration & devotion, so that you would never suspect him of trying to pull the wool over your eyes NOW. He is definitely up to No Good. Tell him that you want to invite friends over to play these games with you, as well! Make it a party. Let's see how he reacts to that request. I truly hope that you have confided in someone. I think that letter of dress should be held at an attorney's office, so that if you HAVE signed something already, you can counter it with the fact that he tricked you. Also, secretly record him on your phone for proof & try to get a picture of the paper he wants you to sign. You could be signing over the Power of Attorney to him & not know it, leaving him in control over you & all your assets. Stick to your guns & don't sign what you can't see. This sounds seriously suspicious & treacherous.
Absolutely don't sign.. could be anything like life insurance paperwork, or signing away all your monetary rights ect.. Definitely talk with a lawyer or other trusted person so there is a record of this .
Not just creepy, but quite terrifying! There's NO GOOD REASON to sign anything unseen! Frankly, I'm scared for you!
This is awful. She needs to contact a friend....or call the abuse hotline....get her help quick. I was recently lied to and it's scary ..people are out of control
You've gotten lots of good advice here, but you shouldn't go along with any more blindfolding, even to grab the papers. He knows you are now suspicious of him after your confronting him about it, and he may get paranoid of what you might do now. I agree with many, tell someone immediately what is going on, make a video and send it to someone you trust or a lawyer, or post it somewhere he can't delete it. He may have been poisoning you and the next interaction could be your last. If he's been working on this for while, he may want to move up his timeline. Please tell all of us you are okay.
Brah he's being creepy AF and yet she felt like she's TA to him. How many years have he been gaslighting her? Big red flag, ghost him.
I would say get out fast go someplace safe and have others with you to collect your belongings
I would say get out of there fast, go someplace safe and have others come with you to get your belongings
It's hard to keep saying no when you have to live with the person every day. So get a webcam or a live stream program. Have it go to a lawyers office. Have that lawyer have a recording device set up for your number. Next time he wants to "play a game" just duck out to the bathroom and turn on the live stream. Say something like "ugh, really? It's only the second Tuesday of the month and we're doing this?" Better if you can get away from him. But sometimes you can't. At the least, tell someone else that you trust.
The fact she was hospitalized recently leads me to believe that he's trying to get her to sign away her power of attorney or even sign a life insurance/DNR policy. Unless he's an actual occupational therapist, there's no way he's going to be able to decipher ANY useful medical information from a blindfolded signature. Also, for handwriting analysis (I've had several for neurological problems) they've never once made me sign my name or write while blindfolded.. printing my name yes but never strictly a random signature. Creepiest thing I've heard in awhile
Your basically done and going to not love long because obviously he’s plotting to take the house or a life insurance on you a prenup something that is basically going to f**k u over is what he’s planning. U should get a lawyer and let them know from that date and before nothing valid that has your signature on it. You need to get a lawyer n seek help.
Tell everyone about this "game" he's trying to play. Disturbing is the word of the day here. And you really should consider that (I know this by experience) if he can't trick you into signing whatever it is he wants you to sign, forgery is his next option.
Oh no! He's definitely gaslighting and emotionally abusing her. Since her family didn't come to see her, she likely has nowhere to go. I hope someone on Reddit suggested she call a women's shelter or abuse hotline. So scared for her!
I agree to the welfare check, because some ppl know how to play the game
I definitely wouldn’t sign anything without looking at it and reading it first. No matter who is saying it’s okay, that’s your signature and that could hold you liable for something in court. Heck no don’t sign it!
Maybe reach out to family and see why they didn't visit? He could have told them you weren't allowed any visitors in hospital. Also, I agree with the other commenters, HUGE red flag.
I hope you are okay and safe. I'm afraid for you. I agree with everyone else here.
Don't sign it seems like he is conditioning you with the games played. If your gut is telling you something isn't right then do the safe thing and demand an answer. If he won't be honest time to take the steps to protect yourself.
There is a difference between trust and blind trust. Or in this case blindfold trust. Do not sign!!!
How stupid is this guy? Not only for whatever stunt he is pulling (although I expect that falls under the category of evil rather than stupid), but for making it obvious it’s suspicious. She’s blindfolded! Why wouldn’t he have just had something innocent for her to sign on and then switched it while she couldn’t see? It doesn’t matter what he says from now on, the trust would be irrevocably gone.
I agree with everyone in that the papers are suspicious. Also my first instinct was also why were you in the hospital? He could be behind it. Just because you marry or are involved with someone doesn’t mean you have to throw out logical judgement or your own morals. This isn’t a matter of you not trusting him, it’s a matter of him acting inappropriate. A nice dinner or a movie night would’ve been way better than these games he’s been wanting you to play.
There's an old Spanish saying, "Sign nothing without reading it." I don't follow many sayings that were from before i was born, but that one has served me well.
Everyone is right here ( except your husband). Search the house for divorce, loan, life insurance papers, etc. Inspect your finances and get Paperwork out of the house. Try to separate out finances somewhat so he can't take all. TELL SOMEONE what's going on. Put it on record that you haven't signed anything and if anything is signed it would be a forgery or you were drugged. Talk to a woman's shelter about what they recommend you have in case you are suddenly out on the street. Say okay the next time he wants to play this and yank the blindfold down and grab and read the papers! Also, if he puts you on the spot totally and pressures you, feel free to sign his name and do it giant and diagonally across the page where it would ruin documents!
Lady, call a good friend who you do trust. Call a lawyer. Pack your bags. Make reservations at a residence hotel. Maybe your poor family relationship is because they saw this questionable behavior, warned you of this mess and you refused to believe them. Just like the movie — Get Out.
You could so easily do this on a blank paper. The husband is creepyy af
Thats obvious... thats the point of concern.. if it was blank paper then why can't she see it as
Load More Replies... Sounds like he's trying to get your signature on a suicide note. Run away!
DONT SIGN!! Great idea to pretend to sign then grab paper & take blindfold off & look!!
My Dad taught me as soon as I could sign my name, sign NOTHING without reading it first. He worked in contract writing and compliance. I still read the vast majority of what I put my name to, obviously this doesn’t apply to ‘terms and conditions’ on websites, they wouldn’t screw us over would they? Would they????
Tell him yes you will sign but don’t sign it just rip the blind fold off and see…😈😈😈
I sat here and thought about what if I did that to my SO. We'd laugh as he took off the blindfold and saw blank construction paper and crayons. This is def not that..
Take a blank sheet, print "I'm playing a game here" in a normal font but very light colour and fill page, take pen, blindfold yourself & start writing to 'see if your signature stays the same'. Of course, then you won't know whether he was trying to take a policy out on you & arrange your murder, or to hide some gambling debts he's run up, or transfer your remaining money and/or deeds to the house to him solely, OR something more nefarious; but you will know whether you can repeat your signature.
Sign a different name, esp if there's one similar to yours? Then when he tried to do whatever with it you can say "not my name, not my signature"? Don't know if that would get you off the hook legally.
It would. She was blindfolded so it was coerced. Therefore not legit. Problem is.. if she's not alive to refute it.
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It's a life insurance....RED FLAG....Do NOT sign. UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE
Pretend you're game, then sign the wrong name and rip the blindfold off during.
No matter how this is sliced, it's not good. Everything spells-out a very sophisticated scheme to get you to do something that you wouldn't likely do otherwise. The least scenario is that your husband is in some mild trouble that he thinks some trickery will fix. The medium scenario, is your husband, unfortunately, doesn't trust you enough to confide his problems to, and maybe to where he's willing to benefit somehow that leaves you "holding the bag". The worst scenario is that there is something so bad that your life may even be in danger. If so, then do not try faking signing, then quickly looking at the papers.... Obviously, that could potentially put you in IMMEDIATE danger. On the lighter side, try this: Sit your husband down. Tell him that you sense that something is wrong, and that you're willing to help. Ask him to open up to you. If it's very serious, he won't budge. End things there. If not, then work with him. It will bring him much relief.
Be careful, it could be a guardianship legal document, in which case he can put you away and do with ur things what he wants and ull never see the light of day. Woman and man, beware of guardianship . Florida is real bad, once u sign u are invisible, no rights whatsoever.
My husband did the same thing to me when I was in the hospital. He brought me papers saying they were for the closing of a house WE were buying. I had just had cancer surgery. Turns out I signed my name off of the house. We were married 25 years! I thought he was my soul mate...I thought wrong. My whole marriage was a lie. Greed is a HORRIBLE trait.
It could have something to do with your care and or power of attorney or advance directives but usually those things require a witness so all the other guesses could add up. Maybe even life insurance forms… idk
I'm sorry but "if u trust someone else more than ur partner then u need therapy" is the STUPIDEST thing I've ever heard!! I trust my MOTHER above ALL others and ALWAYS will!! Ive had 38 yrs of her proving her love to me above her own welfare. Any random man I meet, no matter if we get married, will NEVER EVER approach that level of trust!! I watch WAY 2 many true crime stories to know that plenty of women who trusted their partners 200% were still scammed or murdered & I'm not sacrificing my ultimate safety or including myself in something insanely suspicious my husband wants 2 do 4 the sake of so called "trust" in him over someone else. If my mother wanted me to sign over every penny i had to her, id do it in an instant and KNOW I could trust her even if she wanted to go walk on the edge of a cliff with me right after. Cant say the same 4 anyone I marry. Thats the world we live in. Its sad but it's the TRUTH & if my guy cant understand that then hes a naive fool I dont want anyway
Yea!!!Don't go there.I trusted my husband if 27 years.I signed some papers he asked me to sign ,so I signed them.He had our house put in his dad's name..Later I lost everything.. Never ever again..he passed from a stroke a couple of years later.At least I collect widows benefits now....Doing great now.
That would be a dumb game to invent to get a false signature.... Just forge signature....? Either way your going to find out, just because you sign something doesn't make it a binding agreement. The part where you tell that you signed that with a blindfold on unwillingly kinda makes it invalid... If not just a silly game, your husband is few crayons short of a box if thinks that would make whatever you signed "official".
Hes a bloody snake kick his ass out now !!!! You will be very sorry if you don't act on your instincts
Not saying it is always the case but a former colleague applied for & repaid a loan taken to acquire their marital home. Then the pressure started, 'if you love me you'll change the property title into my name'. Not long after, she was kicked out of a house she continued to pay for, all this with both eyes open.
Maybe wear the blindfold, but take it off somehow when he does the paper thing? Or just print some random letters that would void out any document. But I would hide my signature so he doesn't try to have someone copy it. I think he's got a side s**t
“Testing signatures” is not a thing, people dont care about how you sign your name, people in the comments like “use a whiteboard instead” wtf you people on about? The whole thing is weird in the first place.
My gut says it's a hefty life insurance policy being put in his name. He may be planning something wicked. Document EVERYTHING.
It's probably some cute little surprise that he wants to show her right after she signs but she wants to be crazy. He's your HUSBAND ffs. And from what she said, a DAMN GOOD one. What's sad is I can garuntee that if the genders were reversed, everyone would be like "just sign it you idiot, she's your wife, as if she'd do anything bad." but no, since it's a man we have to automatically assume he's trying to get her to sign her own death warrant 🤦 Society's misandry never fails to impress 😒
Nobody's thinking that but you. I'm sure most people on here would feel the same no matter the sex. Women do evil s**t too.
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Imagine if a nerd boyfriend didn't properly introduce his reddit addicted girlfriend to an online meme. "he's a serial killer nta"
She could end up signing commitment papers to the psych ward..? Do not sign anything with a blindfold on.. Ever. Even if they're willing to show you the papers after.. Those could be from a previous signing. Divorce him.
Nope nope nope. Especially when he's trying to get you to play "Ruby's Cube"!
Go ahead and do it. Just write something other than your signature. Like F**k you or I'm not stupid..... And then take the blindfold off and check the papers too! He said he would go first. Draft a post nuptual or divorce papers and have those be the papers he signs blindfolded, even if it's to prove a point.
I make it a point to go with my gut instincts and never EVER trust anyone that says " trust me", "you don't trust me obviously" or "why won't you just trust me ".
I'd talk to a lawyer,give a heads up,put the entire game playing scenario in writing & have it notarized so that if any type of "illness" or "accident" befalls her authorities need to be contacted asap...and I'd let my future ex-husband know that I did it as I was leaving.
Why not set up a camera and look at it later. Sign and scratch off the signature as well.
I really hope bored panda pays these redditors money for copy/pasting their stories... this is just ridiculous 🙄 😒
Terrible advice..take control now call lawyers not therapist. Then agree to try it while recording everything. This is probably the only 100% way to find the truth here..could save your life or future...or the very slim chance hes just an idiot and your not being set up 1 of 1000 ways!!
I would have set up a secret camera or two, made sure i spoke aloud that this is no big deal, obvi just a game and not a legally binding contract. Then when he springs the divorce papers where you signed over your fortune, boom. Sue the emeffer
He's forcing her to sign life insurance. Bet. She just got out of the hospital.... so he's probably taking a police out on her ... from her tho... so it's not suspicious when she dies maybe? "But she took the policy out on herself! Why would I kill her for a policy I knew nothing about"
Why you would marry someone at all, let alone someone you don't trust is beyond me. Seems like people enjoy dealing with messy divorces, with as quickly and irresponsibly as a lot of people run out and get married. This is obviously a ploy to get you to sign divorce papers, or even something worse or more nefarious. It'd be even more dumb than marrying him in the first place to play this "game" of his. To even suggest this is weird as hell.
You sit here and admit that his behavior is suspicious, and then rag on the women who don't trust this behavior. You've got some issues.
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No one deserves to be in a toxic marriage. And more than half the time a manipulators true colors come out after marriage because they know it makes it a lot harder to leave, since they trap you into staying. It's not a situation anyone deserves to be in. I was almost one of the ones that was trapped, I was lucky I got out when we were engaged. Others aren't so lucky.
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That sounds dodgy as f**k. DO NOT SIGN A THING. Could be anything from loans, divorce papers, life insurance papers, a will, offshore bank accounts etc.
This woman needs to go on an all out hunting spree through EVERYTHING in that house when he is out on errands or at work. Those papers are there, somewhere. Probably life insurance papers. Whatever they are, she'd be signing them under duress. She is right to not sign anything without seeing it first. Hunt. Down. Those. Papers, woman!! FIND THEM and then maybe find a lawyer too.
Bad Rad. Here! Lady I am thinking that dude needs to have his head examined. You should seriously consider consider divorce. He broke the trust rule. You're better than that.
Load More Replies... "My husband asked me to put on a blindfold and use a chainsaw to take apart some sort of meaty object about the size of my mother. And clean what smelled like blood off the carpet with what smelled like bleach and then wipe off what felt like a gun-shaped object as well. Am I wrong to be suspicious? I don't want to be a bad wife. I tried asking my mother about it but mysteriously she's not answering the phone"
You just got out of the hospital for CHRONIC PROBLEMS? He's been poisoning you.
Are we just paranoid people? Or is this just super fucken obvious that something suspish is going on?
Load More Replies... It's all fun and games until you end up on the news for your murder because you signed a life insurance policy.
Unless the last thing you see is a piñata, don't trust someone who puts a blindfold on you. Just play the game and sign with an obviously fake name like Hannah Montana. If he's not trying anything underhanded, then he won't mind.
Unless you see a piñata, or you have a safe word ;)
Load More Replies... She will be once she realizes she needs to divorce him ASAP. Unfortunately it appears as if she's content with just complaining to a bunch of strangers on Reddit.
Load More Replies... This is really suspicious and you don't sign anything that you don't know what it is. It sounds like he is either planning to kill her or leave her. Either way she needs to speak to a lawyer immediately.
This was clearly a long thought out process. Started grooming her with the fun little games. Who can solve the puzzle blindfolded! I bet there was even a "who can draw the best dog" or whatever while blindfolded. It all leads to her signing something that she wouldn't normal do
A suicide note maybe along the lines of not being able to stand being chronically ill any longer.
My first thought. This man is making my creep radar go crazy. The whole story is making him feel dangerous as hěll.
Load More Replies... Secretly record him asking you to do this. Check and clear any tracking apps on your phone. Have your car checked for a hidden tracking device. File for divorce (don't present him with petition just yet). Include transcripts of him asking you to sign blindfolded. Pack all your belongings and move to an undisclosed location while he's at work. Change your phone number. Have a professional process server, serve him with the divorce papers. The divorce should go through after 6nmonths of non-cohabitation, even if he has not signed. Don't look back, because you will have dodged a (possibly literal) bullet.
Recording him requesting she sign blindfolded was my thought too
Load More Replies... you can't complain people don't trust you when you are doing extremely shady s**t like this.
The law calls this signing under duress and negates it. I do feel like he is trying to put one over on her, the whole thing sounds extremely nefarious and a lawyer should be contacted.
The problem is proving it, especially if you are no longer alive.
Load More Replies... This is domestic abuse she sounds very isolated and vulnerable and he’s taking advantage of her.
Isolation from family and friends.. Creepy blindfold game check check. Only one last box to check How To get away with murder
Load More Replies... Why on earth would anyone trust someone trying to pull this crap? If he really wanted you to trust him, he wouldn't be hiding things from you.
I know a guy who was married to a lawyer. Signed a bunch of papers without even looking because he was busy. She embezzled 8 million and ended up in jail; he had co-signed so many documents that the DA wanted to indict him along with her. He managed to save the house...
Love this... ! However he could add Mrs to the front of it! So...no. Sign nothing!
Load More Replies... She's not safe. Her life is surely at risk. Nobody asks you to sign papers blindfolded unless it will benefit them financially, and they're screwing and deceiving them. Good grief, it could have even been a suicide note. She needs to get the hell out, now, fast, and not trust him ever again, her life is at risk.
Right!..like almost daily I am seeing/reading something that begs this question.
Load More Replies... To add to my first post your husband could also be trying to get you to sign a life insurance policy. If you were hospitalized recently under suspicious circumstances I would not sign anything and would contact my doctor to see if my illness could have been caused by your husband. It's suspicious
And they don't test for arsenic poisoning like they do with all the normal blood tests we get
Load More Replies... What's the worst that could happen? I mean other than waking up in a cage somewhere in the former Soviet Union missing a kidney and surgically attached to a small bear.
Maybe he is trying to poison you, and those papers are life insurance, a will or something... I just want to know WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM?? RUN, GIRL, RUN!!
One way to play his game without concern about why he's doing it, would be to do it in front of a witness... someone you get to pick... and he agrees you will only have to do it once.
Please keep us updated! I (and others) want to know if they are alright!
Don’t sign anything you can’t see. Watch him like a hawk. He’s up to something.
Secretly record him asking you to do this. Check and clear any tracking apps on your phone. Have your car checked for a hidden tracking device. File for divorce (don't present him with a petition just yet). Include transcripts of him asking you to sign blindfolded. Pack all your belongings and move to an undisclosed location while he's at work. Change your phone number. Have a professional process server, serve him with the divorce papers. The divorce should go through after 6nmonths of non-cohabitation, even if he has not signed. Don't look back, because you will have dodged a (possibly literal) bullet.
My husband wouldn't even try this major suspish behaviour on me, he knows I watch far too many true crime YouTube channels to fall for any of this crap - I'd just sit next write out f**k you in fancy swirly script
I'd be afraid he was having you sign power of attorney so he has say on everything: financial assets, where you live (in a skilled care facility, etc). Please see a lawyer immediately and if needed, have a lawyer as your power of attorney. RUN away.
I'm sure he wants a couple sample signatures first, that's why he's asking her to make it a game and then when he's sure she's going to do what he says, he'll slide in the SUS paper and have her sign it. I don't think he'll take a chance and make it the first paper he puts in front of her. He's paranoid, likely from being underhanded, and doesn't trust her either.
Load More Replies... I need an update! I suspect life insurance papers, or some other kind of money thing that's shady as f**k!!!
We are going to watch these two in a Discovery ID documentary pretty soon.
Or someone on this thread going to write a mystery story about this! Where killer gets away with the murder because wife played game and signed mystery papers blindfolded. Jump forward...wife # 2 being asked to...play a game blindfolded. He holds an envelope with documents. Fade out.
Load More Replies... One word: Sociopath. (Read "The Sociopath Next Door" by Dr. Martha Stout.)
Dont sign anything even if he shows you the papers. Papers can be' switched once you are blind folded. Be careful
Maybe he plans to kill you, or have you killed. And then say you committed suicide. He'll have your signature on the suicide note saying you didn't want to live anymore. Also. I have never heard of such a game.
Agree. Nothing good could come of signing anything blindfolded. It could be divorce papers, access to your IRA, a check, self commitment to a psych hospital, or even a suicide note. I'd be really suspicious of his other behavior now too. Very scary.
I agree with wide feet😬He clearly was grooming you for this & idk what your "chronic" condition is but I'd be revisiting it's timeline to see if it coincides with him entering your life or being in charge of your Care, as it sounds like is the case. It sounds very Lifetime Movie for sure but I do think he maybe killing you
I really hope this is a fake story. Only because no red flags, I mean you've never watched any crime show? Not even the news? I think you need to go see a lawyer and explain the game. So they can do a search anything that you have signed. Not your knowledge will be taken care of but the only thing is depending on what he's done it could be considered fraud. Take it to a lawyer and trust yourself. Why you know he can have you signing power of attorney over to him where he's in control over everything.
There is actually a case about something like this on a true crime show(I believe it was Snapped). The wife was having an affair. One day out of the blue she asked her husband to play a "trust game". He agreed and she proceeded to rub several objects on his body and he had to guess what they were. All was going well until she pulled out a knife and cut him. He asked her to remove the blindfold and untie his hands and she refused. Saying it was an accident and didn't want to ruin the game. He then was in pain and begged her to call 911 or bring him to the hospital. She pretended to call 911 but hadn't, After long period of waiting he asked her again. For some reason she decided to take him to the hospital but when they got there she parked in a remote parking lot,got out of the car and stab him more. Thankfully some people saw this and rushed to help him. He made a full recovery but if your husband is just asking you to do these things out of the blue and gets so defensive be careful
Brilliant move, here, sport. your details needn't have been so much--- All you did was put ideas in warped peoples' heads. Think about your words, and the effects that can have, huh?
Load More Replies... It seems like your husband has been setting you up from the start by pretending to play a game with you...Maybe you should make a document about limiting his rights when it comes to your decisions,then framing him to sign them,then refuse to sign what ever he wants you to sign and see what happens..also you should try to get him into therapy so you can resolve this issue because it a red flag for way bigger problems that you today probably dont see coming. Good luck
Here's what I would do. Pretend you're going to sign it blindfolded, then quickly take the blindfold of while clutching the papers. The fact that he won't tell you about or show them to you shows he's up to something.
To me I'm thinking that he's trying to get her to sign blank papers because how would she sign it on a line where the signature goes if she's blindfolded she won't be able to sign it online I'm thinking maybe he's trying to get her to sign blank paper so he has something to copy but then again I'm not understanding this because she's not allowed to see the papers I just don't see how she's supposed to sign on the x or on the signature line without being able to see it
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My Dad's a retire United States federal employee. He told me don't sign anything unless you've read it, and have a basic understanding of what you're signing. This advice has served me quite well. I'm 40. And I have ADD and bipolar. If I would've been this lady ... I would not have played that game. My gut tells me the husband 8s getting her to sign papers she otherwise wouldn't agree to sign. I'm not a legal professional. And I don't claim to be one. But it's his lack of transparency that leads me to this conclusion.
I'd dump his butt. He is without a doubt up to something very bad. I'd be worried about losing everything including my life with a creep like that.
Sweetie that sounds real suspicious. I wouldn't sign. That could be divorce paper, crazy loan, or worse case scenario... A suicide note. If I were you I'd be just a tad be more aware around him...
sounds like he's trying to get you to sign a power of attorney, or commitment papers.... i dont trust this guy.
How are you going to get a welfare check on an anonymous person??? This man probably stood by you to gain your admiration & devotion, so that you would never suspect him of trying to pull the wool over your eyes NOW. He is definitely up to No Good. Tell him that you want to invite friends over to play these games with you, as well! Make it a party. Let's see how he reacts to that request. I truly hope that you have confided in someone. I think that letter of dress should be held at an attorney's office, so that if you HAVE signed something already, you can counter it with the fact that he tricked you. Also, secretly record him on your phone for proof & try to get a picture of the paper he wants you to sign. You could be signing over the Power of Attorney to him & not know it, leaving him in control over you & all your assets. Stick to your guns & don't sign what you can't see. This sounds seriously suspicious & treacherous.
Absolutely don't sign.. could be anything like life insurance paperwork, or signing away all your monetary rights ect.. Definitely talk with a lawyer or other trusted person so there is a record of this .
Not just creepy, but quite terrifying! There's NO GOOD REASON to sign anything unseen! Frankly, I'm scared for you!
This is awful. She needs to contact a friend....or call the abuse hotline....get her help quick. I was recently lied to and it's scary ..people are out of control
You've gotten lots of good advice here, but you shouldn't go along with any more blindfolding, even to grab the papers. He knows you are now suspicious of him after your confronting him about it, and he may get paranoid of what you might do now. I agree with many, tell someone immediately what is going on, make a video and send it to someone you trust or a lawyer, or post it somewhere he can't delete it. He may have been poisoning you and the next interaction could be your last. If he's been working on this for while, he may want to move up his timeline. Please tell all of us you are okay.
Brah he's being creepy AF and yet she felt like she's TA to him. How many years have he been gaslighting her? Big red flag, ghost him.
I would say get out fast go someplace safe and have others with you to collect your belongings
I would say get out of there fast, go someplace safe and have others come with you to get your belongings
It's hard to keep saying no when you have to live with the person every day. So get a webcam or a live stream program. Have it go to a lawyers office. Have that lawyer have a recording device set up for your number. Next time he wants to "play a game" just duck out to the bathroom and turn on the live stream. Say something like "ugh, really? It's only the second Tuesday of the month and we're doing this?" Better if you can get away from him. But sometimes you can't. At the least, tell someone else that you trust.
The fact she was hospitalized recently leads me to believe that he's trying to get her to sign away her power of attorney or even sign a life insurance/DNR policy. Unless he's an actual occupational therapist, there's no way he's going to be able to decipher ANY useful medical information from a blindfolded signature. Also, for handwriting analysis (I've had several for neurological problems) they've never once made me sign my name or write while blindfolded.. printing my name yes but never strictly a random signature. Creepiest thing I've heard in awhile
Your basically done and going to not love long because obviously he’s plotting to take the house or a life insurance on you a prenup something that is basically going to f**k u over is what he’s planning. U should get a lawyer and let them know from that date and before nothing valid that has your signature on it. You need to get a lawyer n seek help.
Tell everyone about this "game" he's trying to play. Disturbing is the word of the day here. And you really should consider that (I know this by experience) if he can't trick you into signing whatever it is he wants you to sign, forgery is his next option.
Oh no! He's definitely gaslighting and emotionally abusing her. Since her family didn't come to see her, she likely has nowhere to go. I hope someone on Reddit suggested she call a women's shelter or abuse hotline. So scared for her!
I agree to the welfare check, because some ppl know how to play the game
I definitely wouldn’t sign anything without looking at it and reading it first. No matter who is saying it’s okay, that’s your signature and that could hold you liable for something in court. Heck no don’t sign it!
Maybe reach out to family and see why they didn't visit? He could have told them you weren't allowed any visitors in hospital. Also, I agree with the other commenters, HUGE red flag.
I hope you are okay and safe. I'm afraid for you. I agree with everyone else here.
Don't sign it seems like he is conditioning you with the games played. If your gut is telling you something isn't right then do the safe thing and demand an answer. If he won't be honest time to take the steps to protect yourself.
There is a difference between trust and blind trust. Or in this case blindfold trust. Do not sign!!!
How stupid is this guy? Not only for whatever stunt he is pulling (although I expect that falls under the category of evil rather than stupid), but for making it obvious it’s suspicious. She’s blindfolded! Why wouldn’t he have just had something innocent for her to sign on and then switched it while she couldn’t see? It doesn’t matter what he says from now on, the trust would be irrevocably gone.
I agree with everyone in that the papers are suspicious. Also my first instinct was also why were you in the hospital? He could be behind it. Just because you marry or are involved with someone doesn’t mean you have to throw out logical judgement or your own morals. This isn’t a matter of you not trusting him, it’s a matter of him acting inappropriate. A nice dinner or a movie night would’ve been way better than these games he’s been wanting you to play.
There's an old Spanish saying, "Sign nothing without reading it." I don't follow many sayings that were from before i was born, but that one has served me well.
Everyone is right here ( except your husband). Search the house for divorce, loan, life insurance papers, etc. Inspect your finances and get Paperwork out of the house. Try to separate out finances somewhat so he can't take all. TELL SOMEONE what's going on. Put it on record that you haven't signed anything and if anything is signed it would be a forgery or you were drugged. Talk to a woman's shelter about what they recommend you have in case you are suddenly out on the street. Say okay the next time he wants to play this and yank the blindfold down and grab and read the papers! Also, if he puts you on the spot totally and pressures you, feel free to sign his name and do it giant and diagonally across the page where it would ruin documents!
Lady, call a good friend who you do trust. Call a lawyer. Pack your bags. Make reservations at a residence hotel. Maybe your poor family relationship is because they saw this questionable behavior, warned you of this mess and you refused to believe them. Just like the movie — Get Out.
You could so easily do this on a blank paper. The husband is creepyy af
Thats obvious... thats the point of concern.. if it was blank paper then why can't she see it as
Load More Replies... Sounds like he's trying to get your signature on a suicide note. Run away!
DONT SIGN!! Great idea to pretend to sign then grab paper & take blindfold off & look!!
My Dad taught me as soon as I could sign my name, sign NOTHING without reading it first. He worked in contract writing and compliance. I still read the vast majority of what I put my name to, obviously this doesn’t apply to ‘terms and conditions’ on websites, they wouldn’t screw us over would they? Would they????
Tell him yes you will sign but don’t sign it just rip the blind fold off and see…😈😈😈
I sat here and thought about what if I did that to my SO. We'd laugh as he took off the blindfold and saw blank construction paper and crayons. This is def not that..
Take a blank sheet, print "I'm playing a game here" in a normal font but very light colour and fill page, take pen, blindfold yourself & start writing to 'see if your signature stays the same'. Of course, then you won't know whether he was trying to take a policy out on you & arrange your murder, or to hide some gambling debts he's run up, or transfer your remaining money and/or deeds to the house to him solely, OR something more nefarious; but you will know whether you can repeat your signature.
Sign a different name, esp if there's one similar to yours? Then when he tried to do whatever with it you can say "not my name, not my signature"? Don't know if that would get you off the hook legally.
It would. She was blindfolded so it was coerced. Therefore not legit. Problem is.. if she's not alive to refute it.
Load More Replies... It's a life insurance....RED FLAG....Do NOT sign. UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE
Pretend you're game, then sign the wrong name and rip the blindfold off during.
No matter how this is sliced, it's not good. Everything spells-out a very sophisticated scheme to get you to do something that you wouldn't likely do otherwise. The least scenario is that your husband is in some mild trouble that he thinks some trickery will fix. The medium scenario, is your husband, unfortunately, doesn't trust you enough to confide his problems to, and maybe to where he's willing to benefit somehow that leaves you "holding the bag". The worst scenario is that there is something so bad that your life may even be in danger. If so, then do not try faking signing, then quickly looking at the papers.... Obviously, that could potentially put you in IMMEDIATE danger. On the lighter side, try this: Sit your husband down. Tell him that you sense that something is wrong, and that you're willing to help. Ask him to open up to you. If it's very serious, he won't budge. End things there. If not, then work with him. It will bring him much relief.
Be careful, it could be a guardianship legal document, in which case he can put you away and do with ur things what he wants and ull never see the light of day. Woman and man, beware of guardianship . Florida is real bad, once u sign u are invisible, no rights whatsoever.
My husband did the same thing to me when I was in the hospital. He brought me papers saying they were for the closing of a house WE were buying. I had just had cancer surgery. Turns out I signed my name off of the house. We were married 25 years! I thought he was my soul mate...I thought wrong. My whole marriage was a lie. Greed is a HORRIBLE trait.
It could have something to do with your care and or power of attorney or advance directives but usually those things require a witness so all the other guesses could add up. Maybe even life insurance forms… idk
I'm sorry but "if u trust someone else more than ur partner then u need therapy" is the STUPIDEST thing I've ever heard!! I trust my MOTHER above ALL others and ALWAYS will!! Ive had 38 yrs of her proving her love to me above her own welfare. Any random man I meet, no matter if we get married, will NEVER EVER approach that level of trust!! I watch WAY 2 many true crime stories to know that plenty of women who trusted their partners 200% were still scammed or murdered & I'm not sacrificing my ultimate safety or including myself in something insanely suspicious my husband wants 2 do 4 the sake of so called "trust" in him over someone else. If my mother wanted me to sign over every penny i had to her, id do it in an instant and KNOW I could trust her even if she wanted to go walk on the edge of a cliff with me right after. Cant say the same 4 anyone I marry. Thats the world we live in. Its sad but it's the TRUTH & if my guy cant understand that then hes a naive fool I dont want anyway
Yea!!!Don't go there.I trusted my husband if 27 years.I signed some papers he asked me to sign ,so I signed them.He had our house put in his dad's name..Later I lost everything.. Never ever again..he passed from a stroke a couple of years later.At least I collect widows benefits now....Doing great now.
That would be a dumb game to invent to get a false signature.... Just forge signature....? Either way your going to find out, just because you sign something doesn't make it a binding agreement. The part where you tell that you signed that with a blindfold on unwillingly kinda makes it invalid... If not just a silly game, your husband is few crayons short of a box if thinks that would make whatever you signed "official".
Hes a bloody snake kick his ass out now !!!! You will be very sorry if you don't act on your instincts
Not saying it is always the case but a former colleague applied for & repaid a loan taken to acquire their marital home. Then the pressure started, 'if you love me you'll change the property title into my name'. Not long after, she was kicked out of a house she continued to pay for, all this with both eyes open.
Maybe wear the blindfold, but take it off somehow when he does the paper thing? Or just print some random letters that would void out any document. But I would hide my signature so he doesn't try to have someone copy it. I think he's got a side s**t
“Testing signatures” is not a thing, people dont care about how you sign your name, people in the comments like “use a whiteboard instead” wtf you people on about? The whole thing is weird in the first place.
My gut says it's a hefty life insurance policy being put in his name. He may be planning something wicked. Document EVERYTHING.
It's probably some cute little surprise that he wants to show her right after she signs but she wants to be crazy. He's your HUSBAND ffs. And from what she said, a DAMN GOOD one. What's sad is I can garuntee that if the genders were reversed, everyone would be like "just sign it you idiot, she's your wife, as if she'd do anything bad." but no, since it's a man we have to automatically assume he's trying to get her to sign her own death warrant 🤦 Society's misandry never fails to impress 😒
Nobody's thinking that but you. I'm sure most people on here would feel the same no matter the sex. Women do evil s**t too.
Load More Replies... Imagine if a nerd boyfriend didn't properly introduce his reddit addicted girlfriend to an online meme. "he's a serial killer nta"
She could end up signing commitment papers to the psych ward..? Do not sign anything with a blindfold on.. Ever. Even if they're willing to show you the papers after.. Those could be from a previous signing. Divorce him.
Nope nope nope. Especially when he's trying to get you to play "Ruby's Cube"!
Go ahead and do it. Just write something other than your signature. Like F**k you or I'm not stupid..... And then take the blindfold off and check the papers too! He said he would go first. Draft a post nuptual or divorce papers and have those be the papers he signs blindfolded, even if it's to prove a point.
I make it a point to go with my gut instincts and never EVER trust anyone that says " trust me", "you don't trust me obviously" or "why won't you just trust me ".
I'd talk to a lawyer,give a heads up,put the entire game playing scenario in writing & have it notarized so that if any type of "illness" or "accident" befalls her authorities need to be contacted asap...and I'd let my future ex-husband know that I did it as I was leaving.
Why not set up a camera and look at it later. Sign and scratch off the signature as well.
I really hope bored panda pays these redditors money for copy/pasting their stories... this is just ridiculous 🙄 😒
Terrible advice..take control now call lawyers not therapist. Then agree to try it while recording everything. This is probably the only 100% way to find the truth here..could save your life or future...or the very slim chance hes just an idiot and your not being set up 1 of 1000 ways!!
I would have set up a secret camera or two, made sure i spoke aloud that this is no big deal, obvi just a game and not a legally binding contract. Then when he springs the divorce papers where you signed over your fortune, boom. Sue the emeffer
He's forcing her to sign life insurance. Bet. She just got out of the hospital.... so he's probably taking a police out on her ... from her tho... so it's not suspicious when she dies maybe? "But she took the policy out on herself! Why would I kill her for a policy I knew nothing about"
Why you would marry someone at all, let alone someone you don't trust is beyond me. Seems like people enjoy dealing with messy divorces, with as quickly and irresponsibly as a lot of people run out and get married. This is obviously a ploy to get you to sign divorce papers, or even something worse or more nefarious. It'd be even more dumb than marrying him in the first place to play this "game" of his. To even suggest this is weird as hell.
You sit here and admit that his behavior is suspicious, and then rag on the women who don't trust this behavior. You've got some issues.
Load More Replies... No one deserves to be in a toxic marriage. And more than half the time a manipulators true colors come out after marriage because they know it makes it a lot harder to leave, since they trap you into staying. It's not a situation anyone deserves to be in. I was almost one of the ones that was trapped, I was lucky I got out when we were engaged. Others aren't so lucky.
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