Parents Demand Daughter And BF Pay Rent Instead Of Golden Child Son, Couple Decides To Leave

Parents do many selfless things for their kids without expecting much back. This kind of unconditional love is exactly what helps young ones grow to the fullest of their abilities. It’s only when some moms and dads demand too much of their kids that things might become difficult.

This is the situation a woman found herself in after getting a new job. She realized her parents were extremely greedy as they expected her to pay very high rent. When she decided to move out, their negative reaction showed just how toxic they were.

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When parents pressure their kids to repay them for everything they have done, it can severely damage their relationship

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The poster shared that she and her boyfriend had been living in her parents’ house, paying around €500 as rent, and her brother stayed there rent-free

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The woman and her partner couldn’t afford to rent a place on their earlier income, so they were forced to keep staying in her parents’ home

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After getting a new job, the poster could afford a lot more, so her greedy parents decided to charge her and her boyfriend €1,300

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The poster didn’t want to pay so much money, so she told her parents she wanted to move out, but they got extremely mad and called her “ungrateful”

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In this whole situation, it seems like the poster’s parents always favored her brother and expected her to repay them for all they did

The poster and her boyfriend had to live on rent in her parents’ home as they couldn’t afford any other place. The woman’s brother also lived with them, but he wasn’t expected to pay rent, and their mom and dad never explained why they showed that kind of favoritism. Despite that, the OP put up with the situation because she felt like it was the best option at that time.

The idea of charging one’s kids rent is up to each parent to decide. Some folks feel that they shouldn’t place that burden on their children and instead motivate them to save that money for their future. Others feel that it’s a good thing to do as it teaches the young adults responsibility. 

In this case, the OP’s mom and dad seemed like they needed her to pay the money, which is why they kept demanding she and her boyfriend pay rent. In fact, after getting to know about the poster’s new job, they hiked up the amount owed and decided to charge the young couple €1,300. This was obviously quite steep for both the poster and her boyfriend. 

In some cultures, parents feel that their children should pay them back for all that they have done for them, and kids also try to give some allowance to them. This shouldn’t be seen as an obligation or put unnecessary pressure on the young adults, as it might turn into resentment. The parents in this story seemed to want their daughter’s money but didn’t consider whether she could afford to pay so much.

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The OP and her boyfriend felt that they could finally move out because they were both earning more. They didn’t think that it was fair for the parents to raise the rent, and it didn’t make much sense for them financially. The only thing is that when they broke the news to the mom and dad, they got very angry.

The parents tried to guilt-trip their daughter into paying a high amount of rent every month by saying that she owed them for all that they did for her education. They insisted that she was being ungrateful and that it was wrong of her to give money away to strangers instead of to them.

The woman didn’t feel that she had to give anything back to her parents, and the extra work that she and her boyfriend had done on the house was already above and beyond. She did care for her parents and didn’t want to leave them in the lurch, but they also seemed to be taking advantage of her.

Many folks pointed out the unfair dynamic that was with her brother, and they also felt that her parents were trying to exploit her. Ultimately, as an adult, it’s her decision whether she wants to move out or continue paying her parents rent. They might be extremely displeased if she doesn’t go ahead with what they want, but maybe that’s for them to deal with.

What do you think about the situation? Do share whose side you are on.

Most folks urged the woman to move out and told her that her parents were being extremely greedy and using her

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