Not all of us are blessed with the kind of cast-iron confidence that enables a casual and relaxed approach to an attractive member of the opposite sex. For overthinkers, those who tend to analyze every possible scenario to death until the opportunity passes, the dilemma is real.

This comic by artist Connor Delaney perfectly captures this, and if you also tend to overthink things you will definitely relate. This is the kind of scenario that plays itself out every single day. Maybe this time you should go with your gut feelings, and let things take their natural course? Nah, better to stay silent and imagine all the ways it could go wrong, obvs!

Scroll down below to check out the comic, and let us know what you think in the comments. Or just sit there and think about all the witty comments you could’ve written, have a mild existential crisis, and don’t say a word. We feel you.

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