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Being a wedding guest seems pretty straightforward, right? All one has to do upon receiving an invitation is RSVP on time, turn up looking pretty (without wearing white!), have a great time, and (politely) celebrate the couple. However, not everyone is capable of following a few etiquette rules, making it a day to remember, in a bad way, obviously.

Our team at Bored Panda has carefully collected some of the trashiest wedding guests that couples immensely regretted inviting. Scroll down to find them, and make sure to upvote the ones that are worse than any bridezilla out there.

While you're at it, don't forget to check out a conversation with Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder of Hitch Perfect, who kindly agreed to tell us more about the faux pas of wedding guests.

#1

A Guest Wore A White Pantsuit To My Wedding

Text about a wedding guest in a white pantsuit not being photographed, adding to wedding terrible guests humor.

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Scott Rackley
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He understood the assignment

tori Ohno
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a seriously professional photographer.

Michael Largey
Community Member
11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He could have taken pictures of this person and let the couple choose what to post. Me, I'd like photographic evidence to explain to people why I'm dropping this dodo.

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Kate Johnson
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never understood this. It just makes you look trashy to wear white to a wedding.

Caryn C Crespo
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10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm guessing there are some pictures of her but none of them were included in the package he presented. It'd be interesting to know if he actually managed to not take any pictures of her!

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    #2

    Wedding Guest At Our Table

    Guest at a wedding with high heels on the table, expressing frustration.

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    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's disgusting.

    Wendy Hamilton
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh. My ex used to put his shoes on the kitchen table.

    Oops
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is absolutely rude, throw them out of the window, woman just following after.

    Sandy Kavanaugh
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, dear God. Plus, she's got huge feet!

    Nuku Nyara
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eeewww, hard no. If I was the bride or MOH at that wedding, that person would be given three choices. Put her shoes on, under her chair or leave.

    Barbara Wilcock
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at her fake bag though. Trash

    #3

    MIL Wants To Renew Her Vows At The Same Location And Day Of Her Son’s Wedding

    Social media post discussing a wedding with terrible guests, featuring a mother-in-law's vow renewal on the same day.

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    Janeybent42
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real! My husband and I had to cancel our wedding from Covid and then once it was deemed safe our families starting being absurd again so we eloped.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And she won't understand why bride is upset.

    LA Murphy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would seriously question entering that family unless your SO wants to move to a different continent.

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better hide the cake, or MIL will want that for her "special day" too.

    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She still has time to run. It'll only get worse

    Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder of Hitch Perfect, tells us that the most common faux pas of wedding guests is RSVPing late.

    "This is a big source of stress for couples, as it makes final preparations difficult—not to mention costly when you think about the fact that most couples pay per head!" she said.

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    #4

    Family Friend Said I Looked Fat On My Wedding Day

    Text conversation with a comment about wedding photos causes awkward moment with a terrible guest.

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    Slinkaste
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do you share your baby ultrasound pictures with someone who is not very close to you?

    Cecelia Martin
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wow... remind me why they were invited?

    Epona
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *Former* friend, I hope!

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd be blocking that number.

    Lori T Wisconsin
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    11 months ago

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    Big deal, they said you looked fat. You’re alive. Be happy. Who cares what idiots think or say.

    st4x2gt974
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She does. Everyone does when the “idiot” is someone close enough to them that OP invited them to their wedding and personally texted her to say she was pregnant. That was an incredibly hurtful and insulting thing to say to someone. Especially coming from a friend. Especially in response to a pregnancy announcement. Telling her to not be affected by it and brush it off is stupid-level rude and out of touch.

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    #5

    Flashback To When My Mother In Law Wore This To Our Wedding. You Could Also See Her Purple Thong Underwear Through The Material. See Her Hand Reaching Out! This Was During The Kiss When She Grabbed Him So She Could Kiss Him

    Bride and groom kissing at their wedding, with guests reaching in, creating a slightly awkward scene.

    She wore white to one other sisters in law wedding too. The third sister in law she approved of so she wore purple. She is no longer in our lives for many reasons.

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    WindySwede
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Onyone wearing white will be sprayed with tomatoes sauce, 10 kids with sprayers will be guarding the entrance"

    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That hand reaching him during the kiss is creepy

    Angela Corvaia
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sad. I loved my MIL, wish I still had her...these people are wasting the relationships that might save them.

    Catlady6000
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvoted you. IDK why you were down voted. My MIL paid for my divorce attorney, and sat right beside me in the courtroom

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    Ruth Watry
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every bride needs a bottle of red wine, a wine glass, and a friend willing to "accidentally" spill the wine on any guest wearing a wedding dress.

    WalkieTaco
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of when me and my bros went to a dance dressed in full stereotypical maid outfits and pigtail wigs. (THE SKIRTS WERE LONG AND WE WERE WEARING PANTS OKAY?!?!?) We almost got kicked out but the freaking principal stepped in and let us in.

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    #6

    Wedding Party I Went To Decided To Light Fireworks Inside A Warehouse Type Building With No Proper Ventilation Which Caused People To Leave Soon After

    Guests sitting at tables in a smoky wedding venue, creating an uncomfortable atmosphere, fitting the theme of terrible guests.

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    Heir of Durin
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you’re lighting fireworks inside of any structure, I question how you’ve survived as long as you have…

    Jaya
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank god it's only annoying smoke. So many cases of stuff catching on fire because of fireworks at a wedding and people getting seriously injured.

    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh that's not dangerous AT ALL. Remember what happened with pyrotechnics at the Station Nightclub many years ago?

    Cecelia Martin
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ......'And don't forget your gas mask, sweetie!"

    Coralinea
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excellent way of telling everyone that it's time to leave.

    Dennis Mahoney
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This comes as absolutely no surprise

    Epona
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even without this being a place where a wedding party happened, the building should have proper ventilation by law anyway!!

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    "Bringing along uninvited kids is another major faux pas," Kate adds. "Most couples these days specify on their invitations whether children are welcome or if it’s an adult-only affair. Many prefer the latter due to the interruptions that can occur during the ceremony!"

    #7

    My Mother Cut My Wedding Cake Behind My Back And Ate It Off Her Hand. When I Told Her We Would Have To Spin The Cake For The Cutting Cake Photo, She Stormed Out In Front Of 150 Guests. I Asked For An Apology. Radio Silence Since 2017. I'm The Black Sheep By Dropping Contact

    Cartoon character discussing toxic behavior and apologies, relating to wedding terrible guests theme.

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    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good riddance toxic relatives.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being the bigger person is being the person big enough to speak the truth despite the cowards around you.

    Chilli
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When they say be the bigger person but you're 5'4

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because she's "FAMILY!!!!!" regardless of how toxic she is.

    Cathy Carey
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry I can't stand you, you know, cause you're so hurtful and unpleasant.

    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apologise my a*s. I'm Kendrick's level of petty, so be grateful l only drop contact and don't start calling them out

    #8

    My Wedding Was Yesterday And I Sent My Mom A Pic Of The Memorial Table That Had A Photo Of My Dad And My Husband’s Brother 🙃

    Text conversation showing conflict over wedding details, highlighting terrible guests issue.

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    Wendy Hamilton
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes you just have to be the bigger person.

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    DeeDee M
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahh the narcissist parent...

    Erla Zwingle
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That means "The subject is closed."

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Whaddaya hafta do ta get your picture up there sweetie?" "You have to die." -- The Right Stuff.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should been ‘I loathe you’!

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    2nd thought: she could have put her mother's photo up and explain to Mum "Because you're dead to me".

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the poor woman has to talk to her mother like that to get the point across, it might be better to go NC. It's her decision, obvs, but why deal with such s**t?

    cryssH
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tomorrow? Only in the sense that someday, far, far, from now is tomorrow.

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    #9

    Family Member Brings Kids With Lice To Wedding

    Family Member Brings Kids With Lice To Wedding

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    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess that means the kids are lousy. (No, really, that's what the word originally meant).

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How common is this really? I have never had lice, nor have any of my siblings, and nor have any of my children. I'm not judging those who do, I'm just curious to know how bad this infection really is, and just how contagious it is.

    Stygtand
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think ive had it a couple of times when i was around 7-10 year old. Hair coming and special shampoo quickly solved it.

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    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's too stupid to parent right there.

    LA Murphy
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too stupid and bred anyway.

    Rich Black
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was either a wedding gift or lice treatment. They couldn't afford both. Cur them some slack please?

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    One more serious mistake that wedding guests are guilty of committing is arriving late. "Wedding day timelines are very carefully created to ensure the ceremony happens seamlessly—there are many events that need to happen to make up a wedding day so late guests can cause unwanted delays. It’s for this reason that timelines often include buffers for tardy guests," Kate explained.

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    #10

    Rude Guest Wears White And Will Not Shut Up

    Text describing a wedding with terrible guests, including a disruptive lady in a white dress.

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    Otto Katz
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Needed a nice glass of port. Poured into her lap

    Tom
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is why is several reddit subs - the 'tactical klutz' is suggested. A friend (or acquaintance) who has a reputation of being clumsy. And knows it :) - Arm that person with some tactical red wine (or red grape juice if an alcohol free wedding) and have them on stand by. Someone trying to upstage the bride - "whoops, damn me and my clumsyness"..

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    LA Murphy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would an entire wedding party allow this c**t to take over a wedding like this? These cannot be real because anyone I know would have escorted any b***h wearing white out of the venue.

    Oops
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call a bouncer throw her out. no remorse.

    lisa_l_ross58
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who cares if someone else wears white?

    Cecelia Martin
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    11 months ago

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    poster wouldn't shut up either.

    #11

    Selfish Guests To A Bride With Cancer

    Social media post about wedding postponement due to illness, discussing guests' request for flight reimbursement.

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    Heir of Durin
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You reply with a big middle finger and move on with caring for yourself.

    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you laugh as you cross them off the guest list.

    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You send a group msg thanking people for the support you've received. Then say you apologize but unfortunately can't provide refunds for flights to (x, y, x names) as your money will be necessary for medical bills. You're sure they'll understand. End by thanking people again as you know their thoughts will be with you as you fight for your life.

    Catlady6000
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Name and shame. "To Mr and Mrs self, my apologies for not reimbursing you for your flights as requested. As I'm sure you will understand all finances are going towards my struggle to not die. Thank you for your generosity and prayers"

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    tori Ohno
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll reimburse you for your flight, if you reimburse me for all of my medical bills.

    Maples Dad
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely not. This person has more than enough on their plate to deal with.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "travel insurance"... or they could still take the trip anyway.

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uninvite and go no contact these entitled a-hats when you reschedule the wedding.

    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How selfish. I assume those people were told the reason why it had to be postponed?

    Rich Black
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Evidently not everyone is down with cancee story. Was this a troubled romance to begin with?

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    #12

    I Went To A Wedding, Got There Early, Found A Decent Seat With A Good View ... Minutes Before The Nuptials Started, This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

    A wedding guest obstructs the view with a large fan during an outdoor ceremony.

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    Ariom Dahl
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And nobody even SAID anything? -- 'Hey lady please to move your fan.'

    Babs McGurk
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are people so afraid to use their words???

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    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is where you tap her on the shoulder and ask her to move it, hello?

    LA Murphy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah someone should have said something to this selfish c**t. I have no problem getting my Irish up in these situations and I live in America. Someday, I will be shot in the face for calling out some asshat's rude behavior.

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have said, "excuse me, others would also like to see the wedding!"

    Caryn C Crespo
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    10 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone should have grabbed it and told her she'd get it back at the end of the school year!

    Cathy Carey
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did you let her get away with that?

    Oops
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am old and out of being polite, just take it and throw it away. I am sick of selfish persons, who rely on the shyness or courtesy of other people. When i was young, we had a trip in a wildlife resort i ever longed for my lifelong. A s****y lady opened up her umbrella and hold it the total tour open against the window, we saw absolutely nothing but the umbrella. Today i would grab it and break it over my knee and stuff it in her handbag.

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell her to put the d**n thing down or lose it. 🤷‍♀️

    Ruben Schelstraete
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    please lady, put the fan on your f***y

    catpanda
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think this is selfishness, I think it must be some clinical need to annoy others and gain attention even if it's negative.

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    Fortunately, the bride and groom can avoid poorly behaving guests on their special day by managing expectations early, said Kate.

    "On your invites or wedding website, include clear directions on dress code, plus-ones, ceremony start time, and any other key details. Appoint a key contact for the day of the wedding to handle any guest-related issues. This is usually your wedding planner. However, if you’re planning the wedding yourself, identify a trusted family member or close friend to keep an eye on things," she suggested.

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    #13

    From A Wedding Shaming Group, Also “Ring Bear”

    A social media post complaining about family drama with wedding guests and vaccination requirements.

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    Sue Denham
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a shame. I would love to see a wedding with a ring bear.

    Zoe Vokes
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because your son being there is more important than the Bride’s mum’s life. Especially when you’re so disrespectful that you’re calling his fiancée his girlfriend in a post about their upcoming wedding.

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know there is a vaccine available to prevent ring bear

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This mom should be more concerned about pallbearers than ring bearers.

    Kim Kermes
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure they'll come to the poor child's funeral.

    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wish I could post a photo. I collect teddy bears - hubby proposed with a bear offering me a ring, so we bought him a little suit and he looked after our rings in the ceremony. He was our ring bear!

    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank her for this, your health is now safe.

    Shoopyfloop Roundbird
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe vaccinate your kids?? Maybe if someone is immunocomprimised you f@#$%ing respect that and not try to get them sick?? Not exactly the bride and groom's fault you dont care about the world so no reason to get defensive. Or maybe i was just raised differently(correctly) where you reslect that what you do affects those around you. Also a bear in a tux with a ring woukd be amazing

    Andy ReRe
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    entitled much? most people don't want open petri dishes walking around them.

    Caryn C Crespo
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Y'all should Google "ring bear" and then check out the images cuz there's some good ones out there

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    #14

    Friends Wedding Photos That Will Never See The Light Of Day. She Asked Everyone Not To Wear Cream, White, Or Black. Sadly She Forgot To Mention You Also Couldn’t Wear A Wedding Dress

    Guests at a wedding; one in a tuxedo, others in bridal gowns under string lights, capturing a memorable yet awkward moment.

    SIL showed up in a ‘yellow’ dress….WITH a train!! Bride is on the left in the bottom photo.

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    Kalikima
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In what world is that "yellow"?

    Lori T Wisconsin
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. SIL gonna be a pain in your gas for years and years!

    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where's a glass of red wine when you need it?

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or a really nice tomatoes sauce, [boiling] for hours? Ate home made "bolognese" this week, and got a spot om my white t-shirt. That will be there for ever! 😕

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    Mortague
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, that dress is blue, right?

    Jaya
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe the groom's wearing black, and they want some equality: if women can't wear the same color as the bride, then maybe men can't wear the same colour as the groom n'either.

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    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easy fix with Photoshop. Unfortunately that won't fix the SIL's attitude.

    Melinda Flick
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is the least yellow tone or shade of yellow (white, FFS) I have ever seen... Why be a jerk like this?!

    Joanne Earle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was the bride ok w/ it? Some mind, some don't.

    Miki
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to wear black...?

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    #15

    Hiding A Wedding Dress You Plan To Wear At Your Own Daughter’s Wedding

    A Facebook post about wedding stress from a mother with a dress issue, sparking comments about terrible guests.

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    C L
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Newd a can of sage green spray paint

    Kim Kermes
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm available for hire at a reasonable rate to come to weddings, trip and spill red wine on anyone wearing white. Travel, lodging, meals, and cat sitter.. For a higher stipend, I will drunkenly attach myself to the troublesome guest to keep them away from the bridal party and microphone.

    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey, uh, if you need an assistant I'm currently looking for work.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unsure about the sage belt, but I'm pretty sure a glass of red wine will help.

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd tell her to get a new dress or stay home.

    Michael Largey
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mmm ... what exactly would be the down side of the mom not attending the wedding? I can't seem to come up with one.

    Jihana
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it a wedding with kids? Buy some paintball guns and tell the children they can shoot anyone who's wearing white (except for the bride)

    Caryn C Crespo
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    10 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're saving me the trouble of uninviting you to the wedding by doing it yourself? Thanks!

    David McKendrick
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I heard about a bride who discovered that her future mother-in-law intended to wear a white wedding dress to her wedding. So, she asked all the married female guests to wear their old white wedding dresses while she wore pink.

    Cathy Carey
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell her no, she will wear what you want or not be in the wedding. If you give in to this who knows what trouble she will cause later.

    LA Murphy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mother's who want to wear white to their kids wedding should be institutionalized for no less than 30 days, starting one week before the wedding.

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    Kate also strongly recommends couples utilize a master of ceremonies (MC) to prevent guests from ruining their event. "Many MCs will ask the couple ahead of time whether there are any guests to ‘watch out for.’ If you have an attendee that you know can be trouble, have a word with your MC to make sure no impromptu speeches or unsavory song choices make the cut."

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    #16

    Can You Just Move Your Wedding So I Can Attend My MlM Conference? (Seen In A Fb Group)

    Text message from a wedding guest requesting to reschedule for MLM conference, causing wedding-terrible-guests conflict.

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    BeesEelsAndPups
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like this pyramid scheme is pretty important to her. Guess she's missing the wedding, and also any future wealth she might have built had it not for getting involved in an MLM scam.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better for all that she goes to the conference. Otherwise she'd be trying to sell people Amway dealerships at the reception.

    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "So sorry to hear you're going to miss our wedding. We'll be thinking of you!"

    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not her asking. This is her telling you she intends to be difficult. Please believe her.

    ROSESARERED
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what MLM scams do...they make you lose friends and family, by brainwashing you and thinking nothing is as important as their brand, and making the wealth they promise, by attending weekly ra ra ra meeting, conferences and special guest speakers nights, while draining your money to boost the wealth of those above you. MLM ARE A SCAM, AND UNLESS YOU ARE THE 1 IN A MILLION, WILL COST YOU MONEY, FRIENDS AND FAMILY.

    Miki
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone's is into mlm it's safe to remove this person from your life.

    madeleine f
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So every single guest have ro re-arrange then? What a twat.

    Erla Zwingle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So skip the wedding. That won't lose you a lot of money. Something else might, but not that.

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL! is what I would do!

    KieLeaHar
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NOPEEEEEE!!! Tough luck for her. She’s just a future SIL. She’s not important.

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    #17

    That’s... Not How It Works

    RSVP card with handwritten note requesting additional seats for terrible wedding guests.

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    Kalikima
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that's when you call and tell them they're no longer invited at all..

    NJ P
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's just a +1 situation.

    JB
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This may come as a shock but you, the invitee, don’t get to add a plus 1 by altering the invitation.

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    Paul Sloan
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some fat așș is coming for the buffet.

    Joanne Earle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It looks to me that they are the one that wrote 1 then crossed it out and added 2 and wrote the note. Otherwise the RSVP card wouldn't say '_____ seats' plural. If the bride was telling them in the invite they could only have 1 seat, it would've stated that and 'seat' wouldn't plural.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, no, the cards came printed with "seats" already on there, and a blank space to write the number of seats. It's not grammatically correct, however; it should say "seat(s)" if one wants to have the option for it to be only one seat or two or however many more. But no, the "1" is written in a different color of ink than the rest of the writing. I think the wedding couple only invited this person with no plus-one, but the person "accepted" with the demand that they be given two seats since THEY want to bring a plus-one.

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    #18

    Someone Poorly Cut And Ate Part Of My Wedding Cake That We Cut (We Had Cupcakes As The Shared Dessert)

    Wedding guest cake mishap with a missing slice, decorated in purple with flowers and berries.

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    JP Purves
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like it was gnawed by wolverines.

    Jessica Hedges
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who in their right mind would think this was for guests? It's obviously the cake the couple was going to cut.

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    Even with all these precautions in place, there's still a chance that there will be guests that the couple will regret inviting. They can avoid this by setting priorities while planning the wedding. "This is particularly important for the guest list. If you value a more intimate, close-knit celebration, use this to guide your decisions on invitees," Kate said.

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    #19

    Best Wedding Story?

    Message exchange about unexpected drama with terrible wedding guests.

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    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd think you'd want as much footage as possible to show the police

    Neb
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If stabbing is not in the footage, I do not think it is useful for police. Unless it records some kind of argument or so.

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    Michael Largey
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A surprising amount of backstabbing occurs at many weddings.

    Cindy Brick
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummm... makes me think of the stabbed person knifeholder earlier in this post...

    Linn
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😳🤷‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, weddings where the groomsmen/bridesmaids are in love with the marrying couples..

    #20

    MOH So Late Ceremony Nearly Canceled

    Text recounts a 2004 Lake Tahoe wedding with terrible guests, including a tardy sister causing ceremony delays.

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    Nicely
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MOH turned up late to a wedding with a pube stuck in her throat you say

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing the sister has always been like this. OP should have known better than depend on her to do anything, be on time.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have left her behind.

    Oops
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is envious and tries to ruin your ceremony, believe me, get rid of her. this is sad but necessary, or she will ruin every special event in your life - like my sis did.

    john s
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This can't have been a surprise tho, that she'd be chaotic evil?

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    #21

    The Dress The Hair & Make Up Girl Wore To My Friend's Beach Wedding

    Guest in floral outfit at a wedding, adorned with tattoos, seated among other guests, showcasing wedding-terrible-guests theme.

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    Kalikima
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't complain about her makeup, then not show us her makeup!

    Destiny Mayberry
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they’re saying she was the hair and makeup girl, like she was hired to do the bride’s hair and makeup.

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    Leah C
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I'd be upset if she came to my wedding looking like an emoji.

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interesting dress. And not white. There: I managed to stay positive!

    LA Murphy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Literal definition of attention whore.

    Steve
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just drop the attention and you have it right.

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    Earonn -
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But will no one compliment her pretty body and her expensive tits!!!! /s

    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you pay a professional MUA you don't have to invite them to the wedding later. Just saying

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Main character syndromeeeeee!!!

    Miki
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a brown dress there.

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    "Consider whether you can realistically see them in your life in 10 years," she further advises. "Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime—make sure your guests are reflective of the importance of the occasion. This is particularly useful when considering whether to invite work colleagues."

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    #22

    No, No That's Not The Bride

    Guests taking selfies at a wedding, capturing lighthearted moments.

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    LA Murphy
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bumpy, frumpy, and dumpy showed up too! Attention whore desperatly trying to relive her youth. SAD.

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    Carrie B
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bra straps showing is a nice touch.

    WayoftheStarPrincess
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think wearing this dress to a wedding is a total a*****e move, we seem to all agree on that. But this comment section is not passing any vibe checks with the body shaming. Bodies are bumpy and weird and there's nothing wrong in showing that. Focus should be on the dress and how not wedding guest appropriate it is, not on what the person inside the dress looks like in general in my opinion. It's just a body belonging to someone who has a sad lack of tact.

    Mingey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aw jaysus..mutton dressed as lamb .😂😂

    Lucy Covington
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was instantly reminded of a sack of potatoes!

    Tha Monkey
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oof. That dress ain't doing her any favors. 😳 🤢

    JP Purves
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The dress would look much better with a large glass of red wine poured on it.

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    #23

    Why Can’t I Wear White?

    Text conversation about wedding attire with possible terrible guest misunderstanding dress code.

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    Sue Denham
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, they usually call those people "the bride".

    BrunoVI
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm more offended by the racism. Oh, wait, never mind...

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    Marnie
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The main stupidity aside, man I can't stand it when people write statements, but end with a question mark?

    Vinnie
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my colleagues writes like a Valley Girl. Should I tell his fishing buddies?

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    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a technical terms sometimes used for those that wear white. They are known as "rude".

    justagirl
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    unless they are the bride, in which case, they are merely "the bride."

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    Melinda Flick
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I'm asking to to NOT WEAR WHITE, are we clear here???

    Lyoness
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen people punched in the face. Is that ok at weddings too?

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stupid, tacky, skanky people.

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    #24

    Guest Switched Cheap Gift At A Wedding

    Text image highlighting a funny childhood memory involving wedding terrible guests making a gift mishap.

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    Kalikima
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Talk about anticlimactic.. wtf kind of ending is that?

    Jake Languard
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL the thief/"gift-switcher" was revealed 5 gifts later

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    Dusty's mom
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why Spouse and I were encouraged to open gifts alone, at home. The old tradition is to open them during the reception. I was able to keep track of gifts and get my thank yous out pronto (yes, Spouse also signed them). Weeks later sister told me that a gift was not acknowledged. Sister let them know we mailed our thank yous before we left for our honeymoon, and had never received their gift. Turned out, the gift was never mailed to our home, and the senders were able to trace it. The moment we got the gift I sent our thanks the same day. Best to open gifts alone, at home, to keep track of things. Be prompt, and don't use form letters or email. It's just the courteous thing to do.

    V
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had an online registry - we got married about 5 hours away and didn't want to have to pack gifts. That way they were all sent to our house.

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    Melinda Flick
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And...?? WHO swapped cards? Who was revealed and shamed?

    LiuLiu
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    put the card in the gift box

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    Lastly, Kate encourages couples to stand firm on obligation invitations. "You don’t need to invite someone because you went to their wedding. You don’t need to offer a plus one or allow children to attend. Keep in mind that this day is about you!"

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    #25

    Got Married This Weekend. Amongst All Of The Messages Of Congratulations, My Wife’s Cousin Got This One

    Guest at a wedding sends awkward money request via Facebook Messenger.

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    Joshua David
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. This is why I have no social media (insti,fb,ttk), noooope! I don't judge anyone who uses it obvs.

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You literally just posted a comment on social media 🤦

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    Fuzzdinkel83
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not my wedding but had a cousin I hadn’t talked to in years ask for money when I was still in the hospital from having my son 🤣 that was 11 years ago and haven’t heard from him since

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a similar cousin XD Knows I'm currently out of work, broke, in debt, etc. and had to move back home to escape an abusive relationship, but she still messages/texts me asking for money all the time. And she HAS a job. XD

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    Linn
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😳🤔🤭😂😂😂 NO!!!🤷‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️😂

    Renee H.
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mind is boggled by the audacity of some people! 😜

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry cuzzo, money's all been put into the marriage long term. Don't got a cent for you -_-"

    #26

    Guests At My Friend’s Wedding A Few Years Ago

    Two wedding guests sit indoors, the woman in a white lace dress, the man in a light suit, both faces obscured.

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    Nicole Weymann
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At this point I'm none too shocked (this being on #19 at present), but i AM intrigued why anyone would feel the need to blur out the glasses on the table. Where they serving dild0s or something?

    Angela Corvaia
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dildos in glasses??? That is a wedding I would attend!!!

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    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would actually go up to this person and ask them if the were "raised by wolves" and too dim witted to realize it's incredibly tacky to wear white to someone else's wedding.

    Barbara Wilcock
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What an ugly way to sit. Eww,creepy toes

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Were they hoping to shoehorn in a freebie? "Reverend, while you're there, this will only take 2 minutes or less, we cut the vows to 'whatevs'..."

    Sarah
    Community Member
    10 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can someone explain? Are they sitting waiting during a gap in the day- drinks before dinner? As people in the garden in background are eating and drinking… one in a striped jumper no less! 2 people are already standing. i don’t understand .and I’ll never understand this weird unhinged obsession that no one can wear white except the bride. What utter tosh.. get a life and common sense. Sad little lives if that upsets you

    Bored Trash Panda
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a cute dress and if it were a different color it would be fine.

    LA Murphy
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a woman, I am mortified by these b***h's behavior.

    Arenite
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does OP not understand the words “Throw them the f=ck out”?

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    #27

    The Old Guy Who Stole The Wedding Cake

    Text recounting a wedding story where a guest took home the entire cake, highlighting terrible guests.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A case of having someone else's cake and eating it too.

    Shark queen 🦈🦈🦈
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give her the cake! It's not some random persons cake it's her cake.

    Epona
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did the bride and groom let this happen?

    Earonn -
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because they probably didn't see it. And the people who saw him might have thought he acted on request of the couple.

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    Mreoww
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What the hell. How can that old guy ever show his face in the group again, knowing that he’s done such an embarrassing thing at such an important event

    Epona
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy run-on paragraph, Batman!

    #28

    This Entitled Person Tried Getting My Uncle To Move His Wedding Day Because That’s Also Her Wedding Anniversary

    Social media post with awkward comments about wedding guests and conflicting anniversaries.

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    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just curious - what do they do if they meet someone with the same birthday?

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Complain to the other 21 people in the room. (Probability joke. Too long to explain.)

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    Bananaramamama
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By pure coincidence my much younger cousin and his fiance picked the same date for their wedding as we had several years prior. We actually all laughed because it would be easier for our Grandparents to remember the anniversary date. And for that anniversary evening my husband and I enjoyed an amazing free meal and drinks and danced. It was awesome

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gasp, imagine having the unmitigated gall to get married on someone else's wedding anniversary. This has never happened in the history of the world.

    Earonn -
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it looks like they already got married, so how are they to choose a different day?

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    #29

    All Because I Didn't Put Her Boyfriend's Name On The Invite

    Rude RSVP card with handwritten notes criticizing wedding guests separation choices.

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    Dave Morris
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Saved the cost of a couple of dinners there. Result!

    Epona
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No offence to "Uncle Danny" but boyfriend isn't technically family, even if everyone thinks of him as family.

    Emie N.
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the way op worded it makes it sound like "uncle danny" hasn't been in their life for very long.

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    Michael Largey
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Au contraire, family should separate family - like these two.

    Angela Corvaia
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ORRRRR, maybe learn to spell before you shame. Hope Aunt Edith and Uncle Danny paid some good money to be so entitled.

    Maples Dad
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it's just because I'm absolutely shattered but I can't see any spelling mistakes.

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    mgtcy54p6r
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mighty brave to misspell and then underline a word…

    Cydney Golden
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't people have dictionaries?

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be my last correspondence with Aunt Edith and your "beloved" Uncle Danny.

    Kyra Noelle
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait that reads like there is an Uncle Danny AND a boyfriend?

    KatSaidWhat
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait until aunt Edith suddenly regrets her decision later and decides she does want to come after all but is denied.

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    #30

    Mum’s Friend Wants To Sing At My Wedding

    Text describing a story about awkward wedding plans involving terrible guests.

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    WindySwede
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make sure toastmasters knows about her plan! And she is steered away from any microphone!

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trying to steal center stage at someone's wedding is a "gift" to yourself, not the newlyweds.

    Debbie
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm kind of torn on this. It can be a lovely gift, singing for someone, also not as a professional singer, because it's about the emotion behind it - a farewell to the old, welcome to the new. Fiddler on the Roof: Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset Is this the little girl I carried? Is this the little boy at play? I don't remember growing older When did they? When did she get to be a beauty? When did he grow to be so tall? Wasn't it yesterday that they were small? Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset Swiftly flow the days Seedlings turn overnight to sunflowers Blossoming even as they gaze Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset Swiftly fly the years One season following another Laden with happiness and tears One season following another Laden with happiness and tears Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset

    ILoveMySon
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My exact thought. Thank you for all of the lyrics. I didn't remember all of them so I was able to sing it properly after reading your post.

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    #31

    Got Married 5/14 And Did A Dance With My Sister In Honor Of Our Mom That Passed Away. Apparently My Grandmother Decided That Standing On The Dance Floor Looking Pissed Was The Look

    Bride hugging a guest heartfelt at reception, with another guest in the background, highlighting wedding atmosphere.

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    Jaya
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was it done on purpose though? Some people don't realize they look pissed until they see a pic afterwards.

    MsPlants
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is 100% me if im thinking about something my face makes me look like im mad at someone but really im probably thinking of what chores I have to do when I get home or what cheese I want to buy at the store.

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    Cydney Golden
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    10 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Resting b***h face? Is it her daughter that died? Could be that.

    Petra Schaap
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I appeared on tv (news) like that once, I had no clue 😅

    Joshua David
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she wanted a small part in honoring her daughter with her granddaughters. Kinda feral to send daggers though. Toss up.

    Epona
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that were the case, the grown-up thing to do would be to talk to her granddaughter and ask if she could be part of the dance and if the bride and her sister were not OK with it Grandma should have paid attention to where the photographer was standing and not be in the line of the photo.

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    Joanne Earle
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if this is the actual picture.

    Oops
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pissed? just looking or not?

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    #32

    Entitled Guest Takes A High Chair Not Meant For Them For The Child They Weren’t Supposed To Bring

    Text image of a story about terrible guests at a wedding, focusing on a seating issue.

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    Granny's Thoughts
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have asked the staff to go get the chair back from entitled couple.

    How about no
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And why in hell didn't you just go and got the high chair from them?

    Cecelia Martin
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why don't you just walk over and take it? "Excuse me, but WE HAVE TWINS AND YOU TOOK ONE OF OF OUR HIGH CHAIRS, NOW GIVE IT BACK BEFORE I MAKE YOU"

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I would have taken the chair back and caused enough of a scene to get them ejected.

    Wendy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's ridiculous that someone didn't go tell the couple you were taking back the highchair to use!?

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    #33

    My New In-Laws Couldn't Make It Out To The Wedding, But They Dropped Off Their Wedding Gift Today

    Abstract green figure with knives in a kitchen setting, symbolizing terrible wedding guest behavior.

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    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is actually kind of a cool gift but my wife and I are wondering if there's a subliminal message in this. It kind of looks like a prop that would be used in a Midsomer Murders episode.

    Miki
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And where is the problem?

    Anna
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dig it. Cool in-laws.

    Rich Black
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    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There has to be a backstory here . . .

    Tha Monkey
    Community Member
    10 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen this before, and thought it very cool, but I thought it rather expensive. I've found the last posted price on Overstock was $192US for the chrome version (but good thing its sold out, because it is damned gorgeous!!) The-Ex-Kni...f8-png.jpg The-Ex-Knife-Holder-67cfc69724ff8-png.jpg

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    #34

    I Bought This For A Wedding. And The Bride Won't Let Me Use It :(

    Wedding terrible guest in a colorful Pokemon-themed suit standing outdoors.

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    C L
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well you do need to add some shoes & not go sock footed

    Anna
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will require all the groomsmen to wear this suit in my next wedding.

    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh lort I would totally let him wear that to the wedding! But then again, I'm a bit of an oddball.

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd want everyone to wear stuff like this instead of formals.

    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's her day. I kinda like it but I'm not the bride.

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was the theme of the wedding Cosplay? Because if not there is no way you should be wearing that to a wedding.

    Lukas (he/him, it/its)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful suit but very much not wedding themed, unless the theme is pokemon

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    #35

    Crazy Cousin Tries To Dump Her 8-Year Old Son On The Bride For Her Wedding Weekend

    Online post discussing dilemmas of uninviting children from a wedding with problematic guests.

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    Zoe Vokes
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s nice of OP’s sister to volunteer to look after him for the weekend

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Simple, "Sorry, no one has time to watch your kid, he'll just have to be disappointed. It's something we all have to get used to in life."

    Epona
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about the kid's dad? Can he come and, y'know, parent his child? Just because kiddo's mom had to work, doesn't mean Dad has to stay home!

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to an update image posted on the original Reddit post, the cousin is a single mom, so the kid doesn't have a father. Cousin and cousin's mom tried to use this as a guilt trip - telling OP that she is "punishing" the 8-year-old for "not having a father" by apparently not letting him go to her wedding without an attending adult...?

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    NJ P
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Age 8 is definitely not old enough to look after themself. Just say "sorry, but no".

    #36

    When Someone Decides To Ask About Their Kids At An Explicitly No Kids Wedding The Day After We’ve Had To Submit Final Headcount To Catering

    Text messages discussing wedding terrible guests and kids not allowed.

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    Vinnie
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or apply Solomonic wisdom: cut each kid in two. Two halves make a whole, if my math is correct...

    Earonn -
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sounds if the cousin asked politely if an exception could be made? What's so horrible about that? We don't even know the reason why she asked.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why not ask the kids which one wants to go? When I was a kid, no one wanted child-free weddings more than me.

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    #37

    When Your Guest Brings Additional Guests And Wants More Food

    RSVP card with altered seating numbers, highlighting wedding terrible guests situation.

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    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So not only did they reply they wanted 4 seats reserved instead of 2, they ordered 5 meals for 4 people.

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    #38

    I Got Married On Saturday. I Received This Message Randomly At 10:45pm During My Reception. (Full Story Below)

    Text message rant about terrible wedding guests, with censored profanity.

    My wife and my venue was right next to another venue that was hosting a wedding reception at the same time. Around 9:00 pm, my bride pointed out some people by the bar (5-6 adults), and asked if I knew them because she did not. I also did not know them, so we approached.

    My wife asked if they were here for our wedding. One guy said, "Yeah we are". I replied, "okay, but neither of us know you, so you need to leave." A woman chimed in and said, "We just wanted to check it out over here, and just get one drink. We'll tip the bartender, don't worry." (My wedding had an open bar all night for beer and wine.)

    I said, "No, you need to leave right now. You were not invited to this wedding, and the drinks here are only for our guests. Please get out." They did leave after about a minute or so, during which I was on my way to rally some friends to make them leave. That was my only interaction with anyone from the other wedding, up until receiving this random message request on Facebook. The bride was certainly not one of the wedding crashers, and none of our guests went over to the other wedding reception, so I truly have no idea what happened with the other bride and why it's my fault.

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    TribbleThinking
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's your fault because you denied the other bride her freeloading bridal drinks to her guests, you monster. /jk

    ohjojo (you/your's)
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you know that whatever they told the other bridal party was not the truth. so disregard anything negative about your wedding and just hang on to the fun memories

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    #39

    A Girl I Haven’t Spoken To Since Graduating High School Just Straight Up Asked For A Wedding Invite

    Text exchanges discussing bridal shower photos and a wedding invitation request; potential terrible guest situation.

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    Skogsrået
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Awwwww...... NO!

    Miki
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is the "if possible".

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. That doesn't make it okay. That "if possible" is ABSOLUTELY a guilt-tripping tactic and not a sincerely meant "only if it's possible".

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    Michael Largey
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Sorry we have a limited head count for the wedding. It's the population of the world minus one. And you wouldn't believe this coincidence, but ... "

    #40

    Found One Out In The Wild LOL. What Does Everyone Think Of This?

    Text message showing a complaint about being a guest and not part of the bridal party at weddings.

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    Piper Liniger
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I doubt anyone will care if you miss any wedding you SNOB

    Dion Huel
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm thinking there is a reason this person has not been asked to be a part of any wedding

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1) members of the party got there for a reason, like being friends with the couple, or possibly at least being friendly, which leads to 2) the couple will be happy not to have you there, as you'd likely spoil the fun and sour the mood on any of the days you are involved. Congrats, trash, you took yourself out.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She may not be part of a bridal party, but she will be the cause of one - when they hear she isn't coming.

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    #41

    Oh Dear, Oh Dear! Seen On Facebook!

    Social media post about wedding drama involving terrible guest issues with a bridesmaid.

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    Wang Zhuang
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The 2nd anniversary of the day she and her boyfriend met? Seriously? Not the anniversary of them being together, which might be more understandable, but the anniversary of when they first MET? Find a replacement for her Edit: I take it back, I don't think it would be more understandable

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex and I were together for 23 years and WE didn't even celebrate/care about the "day we had our first date/day we first met" anniversary XD I mean, sure, we went on semi-"anniversary" type dates for the first few years we were together (sigh, we were so young), but there is NO way that either of us would have had an issue postponing our "anniversary" (or not doing anything at all) if a friend of ours had, you know, a major life event like a wedding, or even a birthday party or something XD OP's bridesmaid literally sounds like she's still in middle school with this kind of attitude.

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    Otto Katz
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See, this is what happens when we start celebrating kindergarten graduations.

    Grenelda Thurber
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My school had a small graduation ceremony for my kindergarten class, in 1971. I still have the photo of me and Mrs. Smucker. I don't think said graduations are as influential as you think.

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    Marilyn Holt
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And/But it's also the same date when I adopted my cat seven years ago.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Dear No-Longer-Bridesmaid, Thank you for making my wedding date doubly significant. Marriages may begin and end, but I will always celebrate my wedding day as the day you became my ex-friend."

    Dave Morris
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What do I do? Get another bridesmaid. Easy.

    P1 No-Name
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She isn't your friend, she is a selfish, self centered child. Find another BM, rent one if you have to.

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    #42

    Quirky “Girl Best Friend” Ruins Wedding

    Text recounting a story about uncomfortable wedding guests making jokes, causing drama and tension.

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    Kalikima
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, you are the AH.

    Skogsrået
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just a huge AH but also an annoying pick me girl.

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    Chuck
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not just the AH, you are a completely clueless, classless idiot.

    OpheliaPoe
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think she's clueless, she's just playing dumb. She lives to nOt bE LiKe oThEr GiRLs, isn't that cute and quirky of her? /s

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    Nicole Weymann
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "not completely tone deaf": from reading the post OP is either 98% tone deaf, AND too stupid/unable to read the room (as a comedian, no less!) or actually malicious. The kind of humour that pushes people down stairs and makes false bomb threats for fun.

    Tamra
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Casing point"...😆

    Otto Katz
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG You are the așşhole.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, yes it really was so bad. This kind of BS ends friendships.

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    #43

    Bride Needs To Find New Bridesmaids ASAP

    Text exchange highlighting terrible wedding guests avoiding the bride.

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    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not a Bach party until they play Toccata and Fugue in D Minor! Am I right?!?

    #44

    T-2 Days Until The Wedding And I Just Got This In The Mail

    Text about wealth and divine warnings related to wedding terrible guests, with Bible verses and reflections on materialism.

    After a very emotionally and financially taxing wedding planning era, I felt I was finally turning the corner today into excitement for our wedding on Saturday when I recieved this letter in the mail, no return address and no real discernable information for who may have sent it. The only clue is on the postage cancelation stamp, I can deduce it came from a post office not far from my hometown but in a populated area from which a lot of our guests hail from, and about an hour from where we live. It was addressed only to me (bride) and not my fiancé. I have been wracking my brain for who could have possibly sent it but am coming up short. Any advice on how to not spiral??

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    justagirl
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    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    shred the letter. burn the remains, and then burn them again. After that, soak in a bowl of water and bury it what's left, just to make sure it's dead. Edit: Did that sound unhinged? that probably sounded unhinged.

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have had it blown up to 1 meter tall, framed and placed in full view on an easel at the entrance of the reception and having it moved inside when the guests have all arrived

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would just dump it in the trash where it belongs.

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not an expert on the details, but the bible has quotes for (and against) just about any point in any debate, so I'm sure there must be some about cowardice (this was an anonymous letter), vanity/false humility (this person has a "holier than thou" attitude), and hypocrisy (they clearly want to cling to their money rather than spend it on anyone else). If OP is interested in escalating they could write the appropriate quotes undeneath (or even find fun quotes from other books, maybe even the Satanic Bible or The Gospel of the Flying Spaghetti Monster) and post it in the wedding group chat if there is one. For extra fun correct spelling mistakes as an "educational help" and post that you'd have liked to discuss in person, but since you received the letter anonymously...

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since they're so fond of the Bible, does this guest plan to come to the wedding and turn water into wine?

    Wendy Hamilton
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just ignore it. Person too chicken s**t to put their name on it.

    Limey
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always enjoy people who “speak for God”

    Hugo
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The expression is "racking my brain", the rack being an ancient t*****e device.

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    #45

    I Have No Desire To Have A Relationship With My Mother In Law After How She Acted At Our Wedding

    Text message describing issues with terrible wedding guests.

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    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MIL is on the avoid list

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your husband needs to have a talk with her.

    #46

    Drunk Guy Peeing Behind Tent At Wedding Reception

    Guests looking surprised inside a wedding tent with empty chairs and a decorated table.

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    #47

    My Friend Got A Late Diagnosis Of Adhd And Has Become Super Entitled With It Wanting Everything To Be Inclusive. I Am Ok With This Bit Feel His Demands Are Too Excessive And Demanding. For Reference I Haven't Seen Him In 5 Years. Got These Messages Out Of The Blue And The Wedding Is In A Week

    My Friend Got A Late Diagnosis Of Adhd And Has Become Super Entitled With It Wanting Everything To Be Inclusive. I Am Ok With This Bit Feel His Demands Are Too Excessive And Demanding. For Reference I Haven't Seen Him In 5 Years. Got These Messages Out Of The Blue And The Wedding Is In A Week

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    Skogsrået
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yet another entitled AH that uses their diagnosis as an excuse for their shîtty behaviour.

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL! How could anyone be friends wiith someone this clueless?

    Dusty's mom
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or just answer "no" to everything. ADHD is not an excuse to rule the roost.

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    AnnaB
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just somebody trolling.

    Chilli
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mate, I have ADHD and Autism and I'd rather just have a full on meltdown than ask for accommodation

    #48

    Daughter Of The Venue Owner Crashes Wedding

    Text messages and images of guests at a wedding criticized for inappropriate behavior.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please please PLEASE let others know where this is, they deserve to lose buisness.

    PlumBacterium
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Says "Venue: Dutaon's Farm Utah" immediately under MAMA DRAMA

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    Dusty's mom
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take them to court. This is egregious!

    Orange Panda
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The venue has since pulled their listing.

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    #49

    Adding Your Uninvited 12 Year Old And Foreign Exchange Student To A Wedding RSVP

    RSVP card with choices marked for three terrible wedding guests, including an exchange student.

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    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um. If the invitation is for The something Family would the twelve year old not be included?

    WindySwede
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The exchange student I can see why that is strange.. but as you say, it says family.

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    st4x2gt974
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At our wedding a distant relative of my husband’s told us she was going to bring her foreign exchange student (they lived in Michigan, our wedding was a destination one in the antebellum south on a plantation) bc they wanted to give her that experience. I took it as an honor. That was over 14 years ago. I hope that student never forgets it! Also if it isn’t a child-free wedding - which I’m assuming “family” implies it isn’t - why exclude a 12 yr old son???

    L Sarris
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it looks like they crossed out the name it was for and they wrote in "family" themselves

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It' literally is an invite to the family.

    Grenelda Thurber
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    RSVP cards aren't personalized, they have a blank space for the name(s) of the guest(s). The family bringing extra people filled out the card themselves.

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    Atom Bohr
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's to the family and there's no stated number of guests... I don't see the problem?

    #50

    MOB Upset That She Can’t Have Full Control

    Text discussing issues with wedding guests and family attendance.

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    Nicole Weymann
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    COMMAS, dammit! What's a "food drinks cocktail hour entertainment rehearsal dinner Sunday brunch" FFS. Is this one party, two, tree?? Anyway: OP is off the rocker.

    Michael Largey
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The commas are not their because the speed of entitlement greatly exceeds the speed of punctuation.

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    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A reason to elope without mom there.

    Regina Holt
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know why you were downvoted, Kate, I brought you up to zero.

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    #51

    Uncle Told My Cousin It Wouldn’t Be An Inconvenience To Bring Her BF 2 Weeks Before Our Wedding. Luckily She Planned A Wedding Before And Knows!

    Text exchange with family about wedding invitations and guest issues.

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    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm assuming cousin told bride and didn't bring a +1. Good on her.

    #52

    Relatives Who Were Not Invited To Our (Gay) Wedding, Assumed They Were And Sent Us A Letter Condemning Our Marriage. We Responded In Kind

    Handwritten letter declining a wedding invitation, citing biblical reasons, linked to the topic of terrible wedding guests.

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    Heir of Durin
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could see their response!

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's posted here! https://imgur.com/a/UdXcnYe/

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    #53

    The Audacity Of Some People. Why Would You Get Two RSVPS

    Text messages about wedding website and RSVP limits, illustrating terrible guests scenario.

    I invited a cousin I practically never see only because I invited her mom and her sister whom I do see regularly. I gave in for her partner but now she’s asking for one additional.

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    #54

    That One Time My Mom Accused Me Of Intentionally Making Her Look Bad In My Sister’s Wedding Photos

    Text conversation showing tension between people, highlighting difficult wedding guest interactions.

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    WindySwede
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I have idea why they aren't seeing me ko more?!"

    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...and Mom wonders why she's alone in her old age!

    #55

    Handmade A Wood Sign For Our Wedding, Someone Decided To Ruin It During The Reception

    Wooden surface with "Rude" scratched in green, representing terrible wedding guests.

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    Lyoness
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Were there kids at this wedding?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP states they suspect it was a family member, but didn't elaborate further.

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    CariBear
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people are trash, pure and simple.

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    #56

    Annoying Guest

    Text on dealing with a difficult wedding guest who criticized the event and attempted to disrupt plans.

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    Regina Holt
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are NTA. This guy is an a$$,

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    #57

    Glamorous White Dress For A Wedding

    Two women wearing casual dresses with emoji faces, representing guests at a wedding.

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    PunchinelloTX
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, glamorous in a hospital shower curtain kind of way. That kind of glamour.

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    Dianellian
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They both look like petticoats

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the exact same dress in a print. WTF?

    #58

    Best Or Worst Wedding Gift Ever… You Decide

    Text exchange highlighting terrible wedding guest behavior.

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    Wang Zhuang
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing the censored word is acid?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep! I checked the original Reddit post XD BP auto-censored títs and acíd.

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    #59

    Wow.. Just Wow

    Group photo with faces covered, caption about terrible guests at a wedding, requesting Photoshop edit.

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    Miki
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Bp didn't censored the word or did you used special signs?

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    PunchinelloTX
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Chocolate might, in fact, make those kids hyper.

    Otto Katz
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    which one next to her? On the left? her left? our left? The right? So confusing.

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    #60

    Karen Mad Because Her Husband Was Invited To A Wedding. She Also Feels Personally Victimized By Vegetarians That Aren’t Serving Steak Dinners

    Comment on terrible wedding guests and etiquette expectations.

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    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another dim witted person who should never be invited anywhere.

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    #61

    Bridesmaid Shames Bride For Panic Attack

    Text conversation about a wedding, discussing difficult guests and emotional situations.

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    Kate Johnson
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too much drama!

    Orange Panda
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What happened? Was the wedding called off?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, the bride-to-be had a panic attack during the bachelorette party/weekend. https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/vs8cz5/comment/ieztimc/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

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    #62

    Children Are Allowed At My Wedding, So I Have A Question In My E-RSVP About How Many Will Attend. This Couple Added 2 Extra Adults, Who Aren’t Invited, And Then A Plus One For One Of Them! I Didn’t Know I Needed To Specify An Age Range, It Seemed Self Explanatory To Me…

    Wedding terrible guests RSVP with over 51 attendees confirmed and a special note to the couple.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess those additional guests are going to get dino nuggies or whatever the children's meal is at the wedding >:D

    #63

    Wedding Guest In An Aisle Seat & An Uninvited Plus One: A Supersized Soda

    A drink cup on a lantern at a wedding, suggesting the presence of terrible guests.

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    L Sarris
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if that ruined your wedding, you're not paying attention to the right things

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get what you're saying, but I doubt the wedding couple wants a giant soda cup and straw showing up prominently in their wedding photos. The original Reddit post shows that the wedding guest was holding it and drinking from it in several other photos. You're right that it's not the end of the world, but it's pretty trashy of the guest to bring in an outside fast-food soda cup.

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    #64

    When Auntzilla Strikes: A Story I Have Waited 7 Years To Tell

    Letter addressed to a couple detailing experiences with wedding terrible guests.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "When I married my ex, his aunt tried taking over our outdoor, non-denominational wedding ceremony. During the rehearsal of the wedding that I and my parents paid for, I stood up for myself and said no, it’s my wedding and it’s going this way. This individual did not like that and started drama. She thought she was going to pull a fast one on the day of the wedding and do it “her way.” My mom corrected her and she got in my mom’s face, and sabotaged the day. I share this now with the internet because I’ve always said I would. I was just waiting. If it was indeed so tacky and tasteless of a ceremony, she’s the one that made it so as the officiant who showed up in cowgirl boots to a formal wedding." There's also three more images of the rest of the letter - https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/1ev1gb9/when_auntzilla_strikes_a_story_i_have_waited_7/

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    Kalikima
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First of 3 pages, gotta click the link on this one..

    Chuck
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I have seen enough. Thanks though.

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    AnnaB
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Click the grey link on the left under the picture. There's two more pages to this letter.

    Michael Largey
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading the whole thing is worth it for the last two lines.

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