35 Entitled, Trashy, And Downright Terrible Wedding Guests (New Pics)
Interview With ExpertBeing a wedding guest seems pretty straightforward, right? All one has to do upon receiving an invitation is RSVP on time, turn up looking pretty (without wearing white!), have a great time, and (politely) celebrate the couple. However, not everyone is capable of following a few etiquette rules, making it a day to remember, in a bad way, obviously.
Our team at Bored Panda has carefully collected some of the trashiest wedding guests that couples immensely regretted inviting. Scroll down to find them, and make sure to upvote the ones that are worse than any bridezilla out there.
While you're at it, don't forget to check out a conversation with Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder of Hitch Perfect, who kindly agreed to tell us more about the faux pas of wedding guests.
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A Guest Wore A White Pantsuit To My Wedding
He could have taken pictures of this person and let the couple choose what to post. Me, I'd like photographic evidence to explain to people why I'm dropping this dodo.
Load More Replies...I've never understood this. It just makes you look trashy to wear white to a wedding.
I'm guessing there are some pictures of her but none of them were included in the package he presented. It'd be interesting to know if he actually managed to not take any pictures of her!
Wedding Guest At Our Table
Eeewww, hard no. If I was the bride or MOH at that wedding, that person would be given three choices. Put her shoes on, under her chair or leave.
MIL Wants To Renew Her Vows At The Same Location And Day Of Her Son’s Wedding
For real! My husband and I had to cancel our wedding from Covid and then once it was deemed safe our families starting being absurd again so we eloped.
Load More Replies...Kate Duff, wedding and event planner and founder of Hitch Perfect, tells us that the most common faux pas of wedding guests is RSVPing late.
"This is a big source of stress for couples, as it makes final preparations difficult—not to mention costly when you think about the fact that most couples pay per head!" she said.
Family Friend Said I Looked Fat On My Wedding Day
She does. Everyone does when the “idiot” is someone close enough to them that OP invited them to their wedding and personally texted her to say she was pregnant. That was an incredibly hurtful and insulting thing to say to someone. Especially coming from a friend. Especially in response to a pregnancy announcement. Telling her to not be affected by it and brush it off is stupid-level rude and out of touch.
Load More Replies...Flashback To When My Mother In Law Wore This To Our Wedding. You Could Also See Her Purple Thong Underwear Through The Material. See Her Hand Reaching Out! This Was During The Kiss When She Grabbed Him So She Could Kiss Him
She wore white to one other sisters in law wedding too. The third sister in law she approved of so she wore purple. She is no longer in our lives for many reasons.
"Onyone wearing white will be sprayed with tomatoes sauce, 10 kids with sprayers will be guarding the entrance"
So sad. I loved my MIL, wish I still had her...these people are wasting the relationships that might save them.
Upvoted you. IDK why you were down voted. My MIL paid for my divorce attorney, and sat right beside me in the courtroom
Load More Replies...Every bride needs a bottle of red wine, a wine glass, and a friend willing to "accidentally" spill the wine on any guest wearing a wedding dress.
This reminds me of when me and my bros went to a dance dressed in full stereotypical maid outfits and pigtail wigs. (THE SKIRTS WERE LONG AND WE WERE WEARING PANTS OKAY?!?!?) We almost got kicked out but the freaking principal stepped in and let us in.
Wedding Party I Went To Decided To Light Fireworks Inside A Warehouse Type Building With No Proper Ventilation Which Caused People To Leave Soon After
If you’re lighting fireworks inside of any structure, I question how you’ve survived as long as you have…
Oh that's not dangerous AT ALL. Remember what happened with pyrotechnics at the Station Nightclub many years ago?
"Bringing along uninvited kids is another major faux pas," Kate adds. "Most couples these days specify on their invitations whether children are welcome or if it’s an adult-only affair. Many prefer the latter due to the interruptions that can occur during the ceremony!"
My Mother Cut My Wedding Cake Behind My Back And Ate It Off Her Hand. When I Told Her We Would Have To Spin The Cake For The Cutting Cake Photo, She Stormed Out In Front Of 150 Guests. I Asked For An Apology. Radio Silence Since 2017. I'm The Black Sheep By Dropping Contact
Being the bigger person is being the person big enough to speak the truth despite the cowards around you.
I'm sorry I can't stand you, you know, cause you're so hurtful and unpleasant.
Apologise my a*s. I'm Kendrick's level of petty, so be grateful l only drop contact and don't start calling them out
My Wedding Was Yesterday And I Sent My Mom A Pic Of The Memorial Table That Had A Photo Of My Dad And My Husband’s Brother 🙃
Sometimes you just have to be the bigger person.
Load More Replies...Family Member Brings Kids With Lice To Wedding
Guess that means the kids are lousy. (No, really, that's what the word originally meant).
How common is this really? I have never had lice, nor have any of my siblings, and nor have any of my children. I'm not judging those who do, I'm just curious to know how bad this infection really is, and just how contagious it is.
I think ive had it a couple of times when i was around 7-10 year old. Hair coming and special shampoo quickly solved it.
Load More Replies...It was either a wedding gift or lice treatment. They couldn't afford both. Cur them some slack please?
One more serious mistake that wedding guests are guilty of committing is arriving late. "Wedding day timelines are very carefully created to ensure the ceremony happens seamlessly—there are many events that need to happen to make up a wedding day so late guests can cause unwanted delays. It’s for this reason that timelines often include buffers for tardy guests," Kate explained.
Rude Guest Wears White And Will Not Shut Up
That is why is several reddit subs - the 'tactical klutz' is suggested. A friend (or acquaintance) who has a reputation of being clumsy. And knows it :) - Arm that person with some tactical red wine (or red grape juice if an alcohol free wedding) and have them on stand by. Someone trying to upstage the bride - "whoops, damn me and my clumsyness"..
Load More Replies...Selfish Guests To A Bride With Cancer
You reply with a big middle finger and move on with caring for yourself.
You send a group msg thanking people for the support you've received. Then say you apologize but unfortunately can't provide refunds for flights to (x, y, x names) as your money will be necessary for medical bills. You're sure they'll understand. End by thanking people again as you know their thoughts will be with you as you fight for your life.
Name and shame. "To Mr and Mrs self, my apologies for not reimbursing you for your flights as requested. As I'm sure you will understand all finances are going towards my struggle to not die. Thank you for your generosity and prayers"
Load More Replies...Absolutely not. This person has more than enough on their plate to deal with.
How selfish. I assume those people were told the reason why it had to be postponed?
Evidently not everyone is down with cancee story. Was this a troubled romance to begin with?
I Went To A Wedding, Got There Early, Found A Decent Seat With A Good View ... Minutes Before The Nuptials Started, This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her
And nobody even SAID anything? -- 'Hey lady please to move your fan.'
This is where you tap her on the shoulder and ask her to move it, hello?
I would have said, "excuse me, others would also like to see the wedding!"
Someone should have grabbed it and told her she'd get it back at the end of the school year!
I am old and out of being polite, just take it and throw it away. I am sick of selfish persons, who rely on the shyness or courtesy of other people. When i was young, we had a trip in a wildlife resort i ever longed for my lifelong. A s****y lady opened up her umbrella and hold it the total tour open against the window, we saw absolutely nothing but the umbrella. Today i would grab it and break it over my knee and stuff it in her handbag.
Fortunately, the bride and groom can avoid poorly behaving guests on their special day by managing expectations early, said Kate.
"On your invites or wedding website, include clear directions on dress code, plus-ones, ceremony start time, and any other key details. Appoint a key contact for the day of the wedding to handle any guest-related issues. This is usually your wedding planner. However, if you’re planning the wedding yourself, identify a trusted family member or close friend to keep an eye on things," she suggested.
From A Wedding Shaming Group, Also “Ring Bear”
This mom should be more concerned about pallbearers than ring bearers.
Wish I could post a photo. I collect teddy bears - hubby proposed with a bear offering me a ring, so we bought him a little suit and he looked after our rings in the ceremony. He was our ring bear!
Maybe vaccinate your kids?? Maybe if someone is immunocomprimised you f@#$%ing respect that and not try to get them sick?? Not exactly the bride and groom's fault you dont care about the world so no reason to get defensive. Or maybe i was just raised differently(correctly) where you reslect that what you do affects those around you. Also a bear in a tux with a ring woukd be amazing
Y'all should Google "ring bear" and then check out the images cuz there's some good ones out there
Friends Wedding Photos That Will Never See The Light Of Day. She Asked Everyone Not To Wear Cream, White, Or Black. Sadly She Forgot To Mention You Also Couldn’t Wear A Wedding Dress
SIL showed up in a ‘yellow’ dress….WITH a train!! Bride is on the left in the bottom photo.
Or a really nice tomatoes sauce, [boiling] for hours? Ate home made "bolognese" this week, and got a spot om my white t-shirt. That will be there for ever! 😕
Load More Replies...Maybe the groom's wearing black, and they want some equality: if women can't wear the same color as the bride, then maybe men can't wear the same colour as the groom n'either.
Load More Replies...That is the least yellow tone or shade of yellow (white, FFS) I have ever seen... Why be a jerk like this?!
Hiding A Wedding Dress You Plan To Wear At Your Own Daughter’s Wedding
I'm available for hire at a reasonable rate to come to weddings, trip and spill red wine on anyone wearing white. Travel, lodging, meals, and cat sitter.. For a higher stipend, I will drunkenly attach myself to the troublesome guest to keep them away from the bridal party and microphone.
Hey, uh, if you need an assistant I'm currently looking for work.
Load More Replies...Unsure about the sage belt, but I'm pretty sure a glass of red wine will help.
Mmm ... what exactly would be the down side of the mom not attending the wedding? I can't seem to come up with one.
You're saving me the trouble of uninviting you to the wedding by doing it yourself? Thanks!
I heard about a bride who discovered that her future mother-in-law intended to wear a white wedding dress to her wedding. So, she asked all the married female guests to wear their old white wedding dresses while she wore pink.
Tell her no, she will wear what you want or not be in the wedding. If you give in to this who knows what trouble she will cause later.
Kate also strongly recommends couples utilize a master of ceremonies (MC) to prevent guests from ruining their event. "Many MCs will ask the couple ahead of time whether there are any guests to ‘watch out for.’ If you have an attendee that you know can be trouble, have a word with your MC to make sure no impromptu speeches or unsavory song choices make the cut."
Can You Just Move Your Wedding So I Can Attend My MlM Conference? (Seen In A Fb Group)
Sounds like this pyramid scheme is pretty important to her. Guess she's missing the wedding, and also any future wealth she might have built had it not for getting involved in an MLM scam.
Better for all that she goes to the conference. Otherwise she'd be trying to sell people Amway dealerships at the reception.
This is not her asking. This is her telling you she intends to be difficult. Please believe her.
That's what MLM scams do...they make you lose friends and family, by brainwashing you and thinking nothing is as important as their brand, and making the wealth they promise, by attending weekly ra ra ra meeting, conferences and special guest speakers nights, while draining your money to boost the wealth of those above you. MLM ARE A SCAM, AND UNLESS YOU ARE THE 1 IN A MILLION, WILL COST YOU MONEY, FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
So skip the wedding. That won't lose you a lot of money. Something else might, but not that.
That’s... Not How It Works
And that's when you call and tell them they're no longer invited at all..
This may come as a shock but you, the invitee, don’t get to add a plus 1 by altering the invitation.
Load More Replies...It looks to me that they are the one that wrote 1 then crossed it out and added 2 and wrote the note. Otherwise the RSVP card wouldn't say '_____ seats' plural. If the bride was telling them in the invite they could only have 1 seat, it would've stated that and 'seat' wouldn't plural.
Uh, no, the cards came printed with "seats" already on there, and a blank space to write the number of seats. It's not grammatically correct, however; it should say "seat(s)" if one wants to have the option for it to be only one seat or two or however many more. But no, the "1" is written in a different color of ink than the rest of the writing. I think the wedding couple only invited this person with no plus-one, but the person "accepted" with the demand that they be given two seats since THEY want to bring a plus-one.
Load More Replies...Someone Poorly Cut And Ate Part Of My Wedding Cake That We Cut (We Had Cupcakes As The Shared Dessert)
Who in their right mind would think this was for guests? It's obviously the cake the couple was going to cut.
Load More Replies...Even with all these precautions in place, there's still a chance that there will be guests that the couple will regret inviting. They can avoid this by setting priorities while planning the wedding. "This is particularly important for the guest list. If you value a more intimate, close-knit celebration, use this to guide your decisions on invitees," Kate said.
Best Wedding Story?
I'd think you'd want as much footage as possible to show the police
If stabbing is not in the footage, I do not think it is useful for police. Unless it records some kind of argument or so.
Load More Replies...Ummm... makes me think of the stabbed person knifeholder earlier in this post...
MOH So Late Ceremony Nearly Canceled
The Dress The Hair & Make Up Girl Wore To My Friend's Beach Wedding
I think they’re saying she was the hair and makeup girl, like she was hired to do the bride’s hair and makeup.
Load More Replies...Interesting dress. And not white. There: I managed to stay positive!
If you pay a professional MUA you don't have to invite them to the wedding later. Just saying
"Consider whether you can realistically see them in your life in 10 years," she further advises. "Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime—make sure your guests are reflective of the importance of the occasion. This is particularly useful when considering whether to invite work colleagues."
No, No That's Not The Bride
Bumpy, frumpy, and dumpy showed up too! Attention whore desperatly trying to relive her youth. SAD.
Load More Replies...I think wearing this dress to a wedding is a total a*****e move, we seem to all agree on that. But this comment section is not passing any vibe checks with the body shaming. Bodies are bumpy and weird and there's nothing wrong in showing that. Focus should be on the dress and how not wedding guest appropriate it is, not on what the person inside the dress looks like in general in my opinion. It's just a body belonging to someone who has a sad lack of tact.
Why Can’t I Wear White?
I'm more offended by the racism. Oh, wait, never mind...
Load More Replies...The main stupidity aside, man I can't stand it when people write statements, but end with a question mark?
One of my colleagues writes like a Valley Girl. Should I tell his fishing buddies?
Load More Replies...There is a technical terms sometimes used for those that wear white. They are known as "rude".
unless they are the bride, in which case, they are merely "the bride."
Load More Replies...Guest Switched Cheap Gift At A Wedding
LOL the thief/"gift-switcher" was revealed 5 gifts later
Load More Replies...That's why Spouse and I were encouraged to open gifts alone, at home. The old tradition is to open them during the reception. I was able to keep track of gifts and get my thank yous out pronto (yes, Spouse also signed them). Weeks later sister told me that a gift was not acknowledged. Sister let them know we mailed our thank yous before we left for our honeymoon, and had never received their gift. Turned out, the gift was never mailed to our home, and the senders were able to trace it. The moment we got the gift I sent our thanks the same day. Best to open gifts alone, at home, to keep track of things. Be prompt, and don't use form letters or email. It's just the courteous thing to do.
We had an online registry - we got married about 5 hours away and didn't want to have to pack gifts. That way they were all sent to our house.
Load More Replies...Lastly, Kate encourages couples to stand firm on obligation invitations. "You don’t need to invite someone because you went to their wedding. You don’t need to offer a plus one or allow children to attend. Keep in mind that this day is about you!"
Got Married This Weekend. Amongst All Of The Messages Of Congratulations, My Wife’s Cousin Got This One
Wow. This is why I have no social media (insti,fb,ttk), noooope! I don't judge anyone who uses it obvs.
You literally just posted a comment on social media 🤦
Load More Replies...Not my wedding but had a cousin I hadn’t talked to in years ask for money when I was still in the hospital from having my son 🤣 that was 11 years ago and haven’t heard from him since
I have a similar cousin XD Knows I'm currently out of work, broke, in debt, etc. and had to move back home to escape an abusive relationship, but she still messages/texts me asking for money all the time. And she HAS a job. XD
Load More Replies...Sorry cuzzo, money's all been put into the marriage long term. Don't got a cent for you -_-"
Guests At My Friend’s Wedding A Few Years Ago
At this point I'm none too shocked (this being on #19 at present), but i AM intrigued why anyone would feel the need to blur out the glasses on the table. Where they serving dild0s or something?
Dildos in glasses??? That is a wedding I would attend!!!
Load More Replies...I would actually go up to this person and ask them if the were "raised by wolves" and too dim witted to realize it's incredibly tacky to wear white to someone else's wedding.
Can someone explain? Are they sitting waiting during a gap in the day- drinks before dinner? As people in the garden in background are eating and drinking… one in a striped jumper no less! 2 people are already standing. i don’t understand .and I’ll never understand this weird unhinged obsession that no one can wear white except the bride. What utter tosh.. get a life and common sense. Sad little lives if that upsets you
It's a cute dress and if it were a different color it would be fine.
The Old Guy Who Stole The Wedding Cake
Give her the cake! It's not some random persons cake it's her cake.
Because they probably didn't see it. And the people who saw him might have thought he acted on request of the couple.
Load More Replies...This Entitled Person Tried Getting My Uncle To Move His Wedding Day Because That’s Also Her Wedding Anniversary
Just curious - what do they do if they meet someone with the same birthday?
Complain to the other 21 people in the room. (Probability joke. Too long to explain.)
Load More Replies...By pure coincidence my much younger cousin and his fiance picked the same date for their wedding as we had several years prior. We actually all laughed because it would be easier for our Grandparents to remember the anniversary date. And for that anniversary evening my husband and I enjoyed an amazing free meal and drinks and danced. It was awesome
All Because I Didn't Put Her Boyfriend's Name On The Invite
No offence to "Uncle Danny" but boyfriend isn't technically family, even if everyone thinks of him as family.
the way op worded it makes it sound like "uncle danny" hasn't been in their life for very long.
Load More Replies...ORRRRR, maybe learn to spell before you shame. Hope Aunt Edith and Uncle Danny paid some good money to be so entitled.
Maybe it's just because I'm absolutely shattered but I can't see any spelling mistakes.
Load More Replies...Wait until aunt Edith suddenly regrets her decision later and decides she does want to come after all but is denied.
Mum’s Friend Wants To Sing At My Wedding
Make sure toastmasters knows about her plan! And she is steered away from any microphone!
Trying to steal center stage at someone's wedding is a "gift" to yourself, not the newlyweds.
I'm kind of torn on this. It can be a lovely gift, singing for someone, also not as a professional singer, because it's about the emotion behind it - a farewell to the old, welcome to the new. Fiddler on the Roof: Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset Is this the little girl I carried? Is this the little boy at play? I don't remember growing older When did they? When did she get to be a beauty? When did he grow to be so tall? Wasn't it yesterday that they were small? Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset Swiftly flow the days Seedlings turn overnight to sunflowers Blossoming even as they gaze Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset Swiftly fly the years One season following another Laden with happiness and tears One season following another Laden with happiness and tears Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset
My exact thought. Thank you for all of the lyrics. I didn't remember all of them so I was able to sing it properly after reading your post.
Load More Replies...Got Married 5/14 And Did A Dance With My Sister In Honor Of Our Mom That Passed Away. Apparently My Grandmother Decided That Standing On The Dance Floor Looking Pissed Was The Look
Was it done on purpose though? Some people don't realize they look pissed until they see a pic afterwards.
this is 100% me if im thinking about something my face makes me look like im mad at someone but really im probably thinking of what chores I have to do when I get home or what cheese I want to buy at the store.
Load More Replies...Resting b***h face? Is it her daughter that died? Could be that.
Maybe she wanted a small part in honoring her daughter with her granddaughters. Kinda feral to send daggers though. Toss up.
If that were the case, the grown-up thing to do would be to talk to her granddaughter and ask if she could be part of the dance and if the bride and her sister were not OK with it Grandma should have paid attention to where the photographer was standing and not be in the line of the photo.
Load More Replies...Entitled Guest Takes A High Chair Not Meant For Them For The Child They Weren’t Supposed To Bring
I would have asked the staff to go get the chair back from entitled couple.
And why in hell didn't you just go and got the high chair from them?
why don't you just walk over and take it? "Excuse me, but WE HAVE TWINS AND YOU TOOK ONE OF OF OUR HIGH CHAIRS, NOW GIVE IT BACK BEFORE I MAKE YOU"
Yeah, I would have taken the chair back and caused enough of a scene to get them ejected.
My New In-Laws Couldn't Make It Out To The Wedding, But They Dropped Off Their Wedding Gift Today
That is actually kind of a cool gift but my wife and I are wondering if there's a subliminal message in this. It kind of looks like a prop that would be used in a Midsomer Murders episode.
I've seen this before, and thought it very cool, but I thought it rather expensive. I've found the last posted price on Overstock was $192US for the chrome version (but good thing its sold out, because it is damned gorgeous!!) The-Ex-Kni...f8-png.jpg
I Bought This For A Wedding. And The Bride Won't Let Me Use It :(
Oh lort I would totally let him wear that to the wedding! But then again, I'm a bit of an oddball.
Was the theme of the wedding Cosplay? Because if not there is no way you should be wearing that to a wedding.
Beautiful suit but very much not wedding themed, unless the theme is pokemon
Crazy Cousin Tries To Dump Her 8-Year Old Son On The Bride For Her Wedding Weekend
That’s nice of OP’s sister to volunteer to look after him for the weekend
Simple, "Sorry, no one has time to watch your kid, he'll just have to be disappointed. It's something we all have to get used to in life."
What about the kid's dad? Can he come and, y'know, parent his child? Just because kiddo's mom had to work, doesn't mean Dad has to stay home!
According to an update image posted on the original Reddit post, the cousin is a single mom, so the kid doesn't have a father. Cousin and cousin's mom tried to use this as a guilt trip - telling OP that she is "punishing" the 8-year-old for "not having a father" by apparently not letting him go to her wedding without an attending adult...?
Load More Replies...When Someone Decides To Ask About Their Kids At An Explicitly No Kids Wedding The Day After We’ve Had To Submit Final Headcount To Catering
Why not ask the kids which one wants to go? When I was a kid, no one wanted child-free weddings more than me.
When Your Guest Brings Additional Guests And Wants More Food
I Got Married On Saturday. I Received This Message Randomly At 10:45pm During My Reception. (Full Story Below)
My wife and my venue was right next to another venue that was hosting a wedding reception at the same time. Around 9:00 pm, my bride pointed out some people by the bar (5-6 adults), and asked if I knew them because she did not. I also did not know them, so we approached.
My wife asked if they were here for our wedding. One guy said, "Yeah we are". I replied, "okay, but neither of us know you, so you need to leave." A woman chimed in and said, "We just wanted to check it out over here, and just get one drink. We'll tip the bartender, don't worry." (My wedding had an open bar all night for beer and wine.)
I said, "No, you need to leave right now. You were not invited to this wedding, and the drinks here are only for our guests. Please get out." They did leave after about a minute or so, during which I was on my way to rally some friends to make them leave. That was my only interaction with anyone from the other wedding, up until receiving this random message request on Facebook. The bride was certainly not one of the wedding crashers, and none of our guests went over to the other wedding reception, so I truly have no idea what happened with the other bride and why it's my fault.
It's your fault because you denied the other bride her freeloading bridal drinks to her guests, you monster. /jk
you know that whatever they told the other bridal party was not the truth. so disregard anything negative about your wedding and just hang on to the fun memories
A Girl I Haven’t Spoken To Since Graduating High School Just Straight Up Asked For A Wedding Invite
No. That doesn't make it okay. That "if possible" is ABSOLUTELY a guilt-tripping tactic and not a sincerely meant "only if it's possible".
Load More Replies..."Sorry we have a limited head count for the wedding. It's the population of the world minus one. And you wouldn't believe this coincidence, but ... "
Found One Out In The Wild LOL. What Does Everyone Think Of This?
1) members of the party got there for a reason, like being friends with the couple, or possibly at least being friendly, which leads to 2) the couple will be happy not to have you there, as you'd likely spoil the fun and sour the mood on any of the days you are involved. Congrats, trash, you took yourself out.
She may not be part of a bridal party, but she will be the cause of one - when they hear she isn't coming.
Oh Dear, Oh Dear! Seen On Facebook!
The 2nd anniversary of the day she and her boyfriend met? Seriously? Not the anniversary of them being together, which might be more understandable, but the anniversary of when they first MET? Find a replacement for her Edit: I take it back, I don't think it would be more understandable
My ex and I were together for 23 years and WE didn't even celebrate/care about the "day we had our first date/day we first met" anniversary XD I mean, sure, we went on semi-"anniversary" type dates for the first few years we were together (sigh, we were so young), but there is NO way that either of us would have had an issue postponing our "anniversary" (or not doing anything at all) if a friend of ours had, you know, a major life event like a wedding, or even a birthday party or something XD OP's bridesmaid literally sounds like she's still in middle school with this kind of attitude.
Load More Replies...See, this is what happens when we start celebrating kindergarten graduations.
My school had a small graduation ceremony for my kindergarten class, in 1971. I still have the photo of me and Mrs. Smucker. I don't think said graduations are as influential as you think.
Load More Replies...And/But it's also the same date when I adopted my cat seven years ago.
"Dear No-Longer-Bridesmaid, Thank you for making my wedding date doubly significant. Marriages may begin and end, but I will always celebrate my wedding day as the day you became my ex-friend."
She isn't your friend, she is a selfish, self centered child. Find another BM, rent one if you have to.
Quirky “Girl Best Friend” Ruins Wedding
Not just a huge AH but also an annoying pick me girl.
Load More Replies...I don't think she's clueless, she's just playing dumb. She lives to nOt bE LiKe oThEr GiRLs, isn't that cute and quirky of her? /s
Load More Replies..."not completely tone deaf": from reading the post OP is either 98% tone deaf, AND too stupid/unable to read the room (as a comedian, no less!) or actually malicious. The kind of humour that pushes people down stairs and makes false bomb threats for fun.
Bride Needs To Find New Bridesmaids ASAP
It's not a Bach party until they play Toccata and Fugue in D Minor! Am I right?!?
T-2 Days Until The Wedding And I Just Got This In The Mail
After a very emotionally and financially taxing wedding planning era, I felt I was finally turning the corner today into excitement for our wedding on Saturday when I recieved this letter in the mail, no return address and no real discernable information for who may have sent it. The only clue is on the postage cancelation stamp, I can deduce it came from a post office not far from my hometown but in a populated area from which a lot of our guests hail from, and about an hour from where we live. It was addressed only to me (bride) and not my fiancé. I have been wracking my brain for who could have possibly sent it but am coming up short. Any advice on how to not spiral??
I would have had it blown up to 1 meter tall, framed and placed in full view on an easel at the entrance of the reception and having it moved inside when the guests have all arrived
Not an expert on the details, but the bible has quotes for (and against) just about any point in any debate, so I'm sure there must be some about cowardice (this was an anonymous letter), vanity/false humility (this person has a "holier than thou" attitude), and hypocrisy (they clearly want to cling to their money rather than spend it on anyone else). If OP is interested in escalating they could write the appropriate quotes undeneath (or even find fun quotes from other books, maybe even the Satanic Bible or The Gospel of the Flying Spaghetti Monster) and post it in the wedding group chat if there is one. For extra fun correct spelling mistakes as an "educational help" and post that you'd have liked to discuss in person, but since you received the letter anonymously...
Since they're so fond of the Bible, does this guest plan to come to the wedding and turn water into wine?
I Have No Desire To Have A Relationship With My Mother In Law After How She Acted At Our Wedding
Drunk Guy Peeing Behind Tent At Wedding Reception
My Friend Got A Late Diagnosis Of Adhd And Has Become Super Entitled With It Wanting Everything To Be Inclusive. I Am Ok With This Bit Feel His Demands Are Too Excessive And Demanding. For Reference I Haven't Seen Him In 5 Years. Got These Messages Out Of The Blue And The Wedding Is In A Week
Or just answer "no" to everything. ADHD is not an excuse to rule the roost.
Load More Replies...Daughter Of The Venue Owner Crashes Wedding
Please please PLEASE let others know where this is, they deserve to lose buisness.
Says "Venue: Dutaon's Farm Utah" immediately under MAMA DRAMA
Load More Replies...Adding Your Uninvited 12 Year Old And Foreign Exchange Student To A Wedding RSVP
Um. If the invitation is for The something Family would the twelve year old not be included?
The exchange student I can see why that is strange.. but as you say, it says family.
Load More Replies...At our wedding a distant relative of my husband’s told us she was going to bring her foreign exchange student (they lived in Michigan, our wedding was a destination one in the antebellum south on a plantation) bc they wanted to give her that experience. I took it as an honor. That was over 14 years ago. I hope that student never forgets it! Also if it isn’t a child-free wedding - which I’m assuming “family” implies it isn’t - why exclude a 12 yr old son???
RSVP cards aren't personalized, they have a blank space for the name(s) of the guest(s). The family bringing extra people filled out the card themselves.
Load More Replies...MOB Upset That She Can’t Have Full Control
COMMAS, dammit! What's a "food drinks cocktail hour entertainment rehearsal dinner Sunday brunch" FFS. Is this one party, two, tree?? Anyway: OP is off the rocker.
The commas are not their because the speed of entitlement greatly exceeds the speed of punctuation.
Load More Replies...I don't know why you were downvoted, Kate, I brought you up to zero.
Load More Replies...Uncle Told My Cousin It Wouldn’t Be An Inconvenience To Bring Her BF 2 Weeks Before Our Wedding. Luckily She Planned A Wedding Before And Knows!
Relatives Who Were Not Invited To Our (Gay) Wedding, Assumed They Were And Sent Us A Letter Condemning Our Marriage. We Responded In Kind
It's posted here! https://imgur.com/a/UdXcnYe/
Load More Replies...The Audacity Of Some People. Why Would You Get Two RSVPS
I invited a cousin I practically never see only because I invited her mom and her sister whom I do see regularly. I gave in for her partner but now she’s asking for one additional.
That One Time My Mom Accused Me Of Intentionally Making Her Look Bad In My Sister’s Wedding Photos
Handmade A Wood Sign For Our Wedding, Someone Decided To Ruin It During The Reception
OP states they suspect it was a family member, but didn't elaborate further.
Load More Replies...Annoying Guest
Glamorous White Dress For A Wedding
Sure, glamorous in a hospital shower curtain kind of way. That kind of glamour.
Load More Replies...Best Or Worst Wedding Gift Ever… You Decide
Yep! I checked the original Reddit post XD BP auto-censored títs and acíd.
Load More Replies...Wow.. Just Wow
Wow. Bp didn't censored the word or did you used special signs?
Load More Replies...Karen Mad Because Her Husband Was Invited To A Wedding. She Also Feels Personally Victimized By Vegetarians That Aren’t Serving Steak Dinners
Bridesmaid Shames Bride For Panic Attack
No, the bride-to-be had a panic attack during the bachelorette party/weekend. https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/vs8cz5/comment/ieztimc/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
Load More Replies...Children Are Allowed At My Wedding, So I Have A Question In My E-RSVP About How Many Will Attend. This Couple Added 2 Extra Adults, Who Aren’t Invited, And Then A Plus One For One Of Them! I Didn’t Know I Needed To Specify An Age Range, It Seemed Self Explanatory To Me…
I guess those additional guests are going to get dino nuggies or whatever the children's meal is at the wedding >:D
Wedding Guest In An Aisle Seat & An Uninvited Plus One: A Supersized Soda
if that ruined your wedding, you're not paying attention to the right things
I get what you're saying, but I doubt the wedding couple wants a giant soda cup and straw showing up prominently in their wedding photos. The original Reddit post shows that the wedding guest was holding it and drinking from it in several other photos. You're right that it's not the end of the world, but it's pretty trashy of the guest to bring in an outside fast-food soda cup.
Load More Replies...When Auntzilla Strikes: A Story I Have Waited 7 Years To Tell
"When I married my ex, his aunt tried taking over our outdoor, non-denominational wedding ceremony. During the rehearsal of the wedding that I and my parents paid for, I stood up for myself and said no, it’s my wedding and it’s going this way. This individual did not like that and started drama. She thought she was going to pull a fast one on the day of the wedding and do it “her way.” My mom corrected her and she got in my mom’s face, and sabotaged the day. I share this now with the internet because I’ve always said I would. I was just waiting. If it was indeed so tacky and tasteless of a ceremony, she’s the one that made it so as the officiant who showed up in cowgirl boots to a formal wedding." There's also three more images of the rest of the letter - https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/1ev1gb9/when_auntzilla_strikes_a_story_i_have_waited_7/
Load More Replies...Click the grey link on the left under the picture. There's two more pages to this letter.
Reading the whole thing is worth it for the last two lines.
Load More Replies...I got through almost 20 of them and gave up. Why do people bother having weddings anymore? Almost everyone I speak to who had a wedding complains about how badly it was one or how badly some people behaved and it darkened their whole memory of the day. Why pay all the money to invite these A-holes to an event when you KNOW they'll act this trashy or rude or plain disrespectful. Let's advocate ultra small weddings with only the people who are worth a damn in your life, everyone else can suck it.
2 things i learned about weddings - someone will always try to show up the bride & wear white AND the mother of the bride will do everything in her power to spoil the wedding planning experience for her daughter.
This sort of thing wouldn't happen if people would just ignore the Wedding-Industrial Complex and keep it small and simple. I have come to believe that the cost of the wedding is inversely proportional to the duration of the marriage.
I got through almost 20 of them and gave up. Why do people bother having weddings anymore? Almost everyone I speak to who had a wedding complains about how badly it was one or how badly some people behaved and it darkened their whole memory of the day. Why pay all the money to invite these A-holes to an event when you KNOW they'll act this trashy or rude or plain disrespectful. Let's advocate ultra small weddings with only the people who are worth a damn in your life, everyone else can suck it.
2 things i learned about weddings - someone will always try to show up the bride & wear white AND the mother of the bride will do everything in her power to spoil the wedding planning experience for her daughter.
This sort of thing wouldn't happen if people would just ignore the Wedding-Industrial Complex and keep it small and simple. I have come to believe that the cost of the wedding is inversely proportional to the duration of the marriage.
