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24YO Sparks Drama By Suing Half-Brother As He Won’t Use Family Fund For Her Plastic Surgeries
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24YO Sparks Drama By Suing Half-Brother As He Won’t Use Family Fund For Her Plastic Surgeries

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Blood relations can get extremely complicated, especially when it comes to money. After all, we hear so many stories about relatives clashing constantly, all because they want their familial wealth. Sometimes, it enables people to turn into the worst versions of themselves.

Speaking of families, this one was caught in a major conflict over a health fund created by their grandpa, who left it in his grandson’s care. This guy used it to help two of his half-siblings, so the youngest came after it for her plastic surgeries. Here’s what happened when he refused to give it to her!

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    The poster was his mom’s affair child, so she abandoned him with her parents, who raised him as their own, and left him all the inheritance

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    Apart from the life insurance and the house, his grandpa also left a health fund in his care, which only the poster and his half-siblings could use

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    He had helped out two of his half-sisters with this fund for an IVF and appendix removal, so the youngest felt entitled to the money for her plastic surgeries

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    Of course, he refused, but then she lied to her sister, sued him, and started a massive fight between the whole family

    Today, we dive into the life of the original poster (OP) and the family drama that he was caught in. The thing is, he’s an affair baby, and his mom’s (Clara) husband refused to raise another man’s son, so Clara abandoned him with her parents. Even though the grandparents were mad at their daughter, they were very loving towards OP and raised him like their own child.

    Research suggests, “Abandonment disrupts the developmental pathways within the developing brain. In turn, this affects the survivor’s stability, self-esteem, and ability to create and maintain adult relationships.” However, despite everything, the poster grew up to be a kind person, and you will shortly see how he acted generously towards his family.

    Unfortunately, his grandma passed away at 61 because of a heart attack, while his grandpa’s cancer took him away when he was 71. Without hesitation, the old man left OP as the sole beneficiary of his $300K life insurance, and he also got the house worth $280K. Apart from this, grandpa had also made a health fund, which the poster and his half-siblings could only use for emergencies.

    The kind poster had helped two of his half-sisters with this for an IVF and appendix removal, so the youngest one felt that she was also entitled to it. However, the reason she needed it was for plastic surgeries to look “special” for her boyfriend. Experts claim that people with a sense of entitlement are often greedy about money because they believe they’re owed more than others.

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    This woman definitely believed so because she just lost it when the poster refused to help her with the money. God knows what lies she told her other sisters, but they were suing their half-brother because of it, and he was simply stumped. Apparently, it’s not the first time that they had done this, but grandpa was there to make sure that everything was okay back then.

    Data has revealed that in the US, 15% of siblings fight over money, just like the ones in our story. After he vented online, netizens had advised OP to hire a lawyer, or the entitled half-sister might spark more trouble for him. However, here’s the twist, because the poster updated that he spoke to his other half-siblings and found out that they had no clue about the youngest’s plastic surgery plan! 

    The upsetting thing is that their mother tried to enable her daughter’s lifestyle, which pissed off the other sisters. It has been observed that enabling kids can make them entitled, and it looks like Clara was just adding fuel to the woman’s behavior. Well, the poster invited everyone to his house to explain that the fund was only for serious health issues.

    However, it sparked a screaming match among them, and OP was so fed up that he just wanted to go to bed. Since the story is quite old, I hope he didn’t really end up in any legal trouble because of this woman. A lot of people online said that he should just cut off these people, as they were clearly taking advantage of him. 

    Would you do that if you were in his shoes? We would love to hear your thoughts, so drop them in the comments below!

    Netizens were shocked by the woman’s entitlement, and advised the poster to cut off the whole family, so they wouldn’t mooch off him

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    Hey, am Rutuja! A storyteller at heart and a writer at Bored Panda. I have a strange love for words, and I mostly survive on coffee which is the driving force behind my writing. I enjoy working on articles that purely entertain our readers. When am not writing or trekking, you can find me staying up late and watching all the matches of Football Club Barcelona!

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    Kate Johnson
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plastic surgery like this is NOT NECESSARY but simply a product of profound vanity. The idea that it should be funded from an emergency medical fund is ridiculous.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention that NO woman should EVER go under the knife for any kind of cosmetic surgery to please a man. Never. Do not change your unique self to become some kind of duplicate of every other stereotypical woman who can’t face aging or accept the appearance she got from nature. You know, the alien-looking Mar-a-lago face, usually accompanied by way out of proportion fake b***s (and they never take into account that fake b***s will sag as they get older and gravity starts winning—-and they will sag even worse, and kind of funny-looking too, because they’re heavy bags of silicone pulling and stretching out the skin on their chests). The ones who can’t show emotion because their faces are so full of fillers they’re paralyzed? If he doesn’t like her just the way she is, then he’s not worth her time. He’s probably going to end up leaving her for a younger model anyway, since he’s obviously that shallow, so she’ll be stuck looking like his ideal and not her real self. F**k that noise. Additionally, if the health fund started with $400K in it, and let’s say $100 paid for the IVF and appendectomy, that means there’s $300K left—-and sister wants to use HALF of that for cosmetic surgery? $150K? Is she insane? Or just stupidly desperate to hold on to a shallow a*****e who isn’t fit to lick her boots? No f*****g way I would be releasing one thin dime to her for that b******t.

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    Apatheist Account2
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously not justified. I'm sure Clara and Greg weren't happy to be named though :)

    Austzn
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would enjoy calling that sibling out for being so shallow.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is obviously written by someone who is not a native English speaker. But Why are there So many Random capitalized Words??? 😂

    moggiemoo
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stand on your feet, it's what they're for. You have every right to deny frivolous surgery. Don't let them bully you.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The money is for emergencies not because the 1 sister wants plastiboobs & plasticity and whatever else which is stupid unless she was hurt in an accident and needed it. He was very nice to pay the $40k for the 1 sisters IVF treatments. The appendectomy was an emergency. Would like to know what happened to all of them.

    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Four year old story, any court case is done by now. Basic rage bait.

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plastic surgery like this is NOT NECESSARY but simply a product of profound vanity. The idea that it should be funded from an emergency medical fund is ridiculous.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to mention that NO woman should EVER go under the knife for any kind of cosmetic surgery to please a man. Never. Do not change your unique self to become some kind of duplicate of every other stereotypical woman who can’t face aging or accept the appearance she got from nature. You know, the alien-looking Mar-a-lago face, usually accompanied by way out of proportion fake b***s (and they never take into account that fake b***s will sag as they get older and gravity starts winning—-and they will sag even worse, and kind of funny-looking too, because they’re heavy bags of silicone pulling and stretching out the skin on their chests). The ones who can’t show emotion because their faces are so full of fillers they’re paralyzed? If he doesn’t like her just the way she is, then he’s not worth her time. He’s probably going to end up leaving her for a younger model anyway, since he’s obviously that shallow, so she’ll be stuck looking like his ideal and not her real self. F**k that noise. Additionally, if the health fund started with $400K in it, and let’s say $100 paid for the IVF and appendectomy, that means there’s $300K left—-and sister wants to use HALF of that for cosmetic surgery? $150K? Is she insane? Or just stupidly desperate to hold on to a shallow a*****e who isn’t fit to lick her boots? No f*****g way I would be releasing one thin dime to her for that b******t.

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    Apatheist Account2
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously not justified. I'm sure Clara and Greg weren't happy to be named though :)

    Austzn
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would enjoy calling that sibling out for being so shallow.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is obviously written by someone who is not a native English speaker. But Why are there So many Random capitalized Words??? 😂

    moggiemoo
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stand on your feet, it's what they're for. You have every right to deny frivolous surgery. Don't let them bully you.

    Beth Wheeler
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The money is for emergencies not because the 1 sister wants plastiboobs & plasticity and whatever else which is stupid unless she was hurt in an accident and needed it. He was very nice to pay the $40k for the 1 sisters IVF treatments. The appendectomy was an emergency. Would like to know what happened to all of them.

    Roberta Surprenant
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Four year old story, any court case is done by now. Basic rage bait.

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