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Bride Ends Up Ruining Her Own Wedding By Siding With Groom’s Cheater Ex, He Ditches Them Both
Sometimes, I feel that cheating is a disease that’s slowly spreading everywhere because we hear so many stories about it. My heart goes out to the people who have to face this betrayal and battle through it, as it definitely doesn’t sound like an easy feat.
Even this man had to battle on after finding out about his wife’s affair, but he found someone special eventually. However, things fell apart when his fiancée sided with his cheater ex, who came begging to him for money after losing her boyfriend. Scroll down to find out what he did next!
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The poster’s ex-wife had been cheating throughout their marriage, and since her kids weren’t his, he made sure he didn’t have to pay child support
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Eventually, he moved on and was with his fiancée for 3 years when his ex-wife’s life was ruined after losing her boyfriend
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He refused to give her any money, but she came to his house and met his fiancée, who surprisingly sided with the woman and demanded that the poster pay her
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He was so angry with her that he immediately broke off their wedding and refused to get back together, even when she begged for forgiveness
In today’s story, we dive into the life of the original poster (OP) as he tells us how his ex ruined his second wedding. Well, his ex-wife had been cheating on him throughout their marriage, and their daughter and the kid she was pregnant with weren’t his. Although he loved the daughter, he didn’t want to pay child support, so he appealed in court and won, as his ex had committed paternity fraud.
Anyway, after the divorce, she took her kids and moved in with her boyfriend, while OP also moved on with his life. He even met someone who had a 5-year-old son, and they were planning their future together. In fact, they got engaged after being together for three years. However, when his ex lost her boyfriend, his life turned upside down, just like hers.
The couple only had $20,000 in savings, and the guy’s life insurance went to his parents, who saved it for the kids. OP’s ex quickly realized that she could no longer afford the life she was living, so she reached out to our guy. Obviously, he declined, so she showed up at his house, but he wasn’t there. Well, she started talking to his fiancée and recounted her sob story.
Much to the poster’s horror, his fiancée sided with his ex! Also, she said she wasn’t sure if she wanted to marry him if he didn’t help the woman. That was it for OP because he immediately called off their wedding and kicked her out of his house. She and her parents kept begging for forgiveness, but the poster couldn’t forgive her after she had shown her true colors.
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A study has revealed that anywhere between 30% to 60% of people who have been cheated on experience symptoms of anxiety, depression, and PTSD after discovering their partner’s infidelity. This has come to be known as post-infidelity stress disorder (PISD). If a person has to go through all that, it’s highly likely that they wouldn’t forgive their partner even after years.
Besides, stats show that the average household in the United States spends $61,334 a year on expenses. Moreover, 16% of spending is on transportation, an average of $9,826 a year. Food, including groceries and eating out, costs another $7,317 a year or $609.75 a month, while the average monthly cost for utilities is $370.16.
Forget forgiveness; nobody would spend so much on someone who betrayed them to such an extent in the past. It was quite strange that his fiancée, who was well aware of the cheating, instantly jumped to the ex’s side. Folks online felt that she was considering her own situation, but she should still have been supportive of her fiancé, not his ex-wife.
Research emphasizes that cortisol is one of the body’s stress hormones that works with certain areas of the brain to influence mood, motivation, and behavior. Feeling unsupported by your partner can lead to physical stress, as evidenced by higher levels of cortisol in the body. Well then, it seems like a good thing that the poster called off the wedding, right?
What would you do in his shoes? Let us know in the comments below!
Netizens couldn’t believe that his fiancée believed his ex-wife over him, which was a massive red flag on her behalf
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Kate Johnson 1 day ago
It's truly a mystery to me why a cheating, lying women like OP's ex thinks there's any possibility of help from someone she so vilely betrayed. There is little more repulsive and vile than a women trying to pass off her lover's children as her husbands. Just the ultimate in s k a n k y. It's most certainly NOT OP's problem. I think he did the right thing breaking up with his fiance. She was completely disloyal and threw out an ultimatum. That's definitely a FAFO situation. He obviously dodged a bullet, but should consider therapy, as his picker is obviously broken.
Binky Melnik 19 hours ago
I don’t like any of the three. OP loved his kids until finding out they weren’t biologically his, and suddenly, the love spout turned off. His ex-wife is a crunt for several very obvious reasons, but his ex-fiancée isn’t as repulsive as the other two. I imagine she was afraid for her own child, that OP might someday turn off the love spout for her and her kid, too, and she didn’t wanna risk it. Ultimatums are always bad ideas, as they’re incredibly manipulative and no one should be manipulated if you love them. Still, she’s the least gross of the three. The only one I feel bad for is his oldest kid who, I imagine, loved her dad as much as he loved her, if not more, and now is having to deal with his cutting her from his life. 😞 At least those of us who have bad dads knew they were always bad; for her, he was likely amazing until the switch flipped, and she doesn’t understand what happened. Yikes; trying to imagine her future, I see nothing but ALL the bad things. 😰
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Earonn - 7 hours ago
Agree with the reply from Panda Mime. OP certainly told on himself. Even if fiancee "fell" for a sob-story, is that a reason to end everything? She asked, she didn't force him to help his ex. And I agree that it's sus when people "love" a child and then cut it out easily because the DNA isn't right. We have seen other fathers here who responded differently. OP sounds like a "my way or the highway" guy, and that's not marriage material, that's a red flag. What if fiancee-then-wife has a different opinion later on? Would he have divorced her for that?
R Dennis 6 hours ago
OP sounds very reactionary. Based on what he stated, I think he got triggered and let his ex's actions lead him into a rash decision in his most recent relationship - not classifying it as right or wrong. Sounds like he needs therapy if he plans to have a healthy relationship in the future.
Load More Replies... Kate Johnson 1 day ago
It's truly a mystery to me why a cheating, lying women like OP's ex thinks there's any possibility of help from someone she so vilely betrayed. There is little more repulsive and vile than a women trying to pass off her lover's children as her husbands. Just the ultimate in s k a n k y. It's most certainly NOT OP's problem. I think he did the right thing breaking up with his fiance. She was completely disloyal and threw out an ultimatum. That's definitely a FAFO situation. He obviously dodged a bullet, but should consider therapy, as his picker is obviously broken.
Binky Melnik 19 hours ago
I don’t like any of the three. OP loved his kids until finding out they weren’t biologically his, and suddenly, the love spout turned off. His ex-wife is a crunt for several very obvious reasons, but his ex-fiancée isn’t as repulsive as the other two. I imagine she was afraid for her own child, that OP might someday turn off the love spout for her and her kid, too, and she didn’t wanna risk it. Ultimatums are always bad ideas, as they’re incredibly manipulative and no one should be manipulated if you love them. Still, she’s the least gross of the three. The only one I feel bad for is his oldest kid who, I imagine, loved her dad as much as he loved her, if not more, and now is having to deal with his cutting her from his life. 😞 At least those of us who have bad dads knew they were always bad; for her, he was likely amazing until the switch flipped, and she doesn’t understand what happened. Yikes; trying to imagine her future, I see nothing but ALL the bad things. 😰
Load More Replies... Earonn - 7 hours ago
Agree with the reply from Panda Mime. OP certainly told on himself. Even if fiancee "fell" for a sob-story, is that a reason to end everything? She asked, she didn't force him to help his ex. And I agree that it's sus when people "love" a child and then cut it out easily because the DNA isn't right. We have seen other fathers here who responded differently. OP sounds like a "my way or the highway" guy, and that's not marriage material, that's a red flag. What if fiancee-then-wife has a different opinion later on? Would he have divorced her for that?
R Dennis 6 hours ago
OP sounds very reactionary. Based on what he stated, I think he got triggered and let his ex's actions lead him into a rash decision in his most recent relationship - not classifying it as right or wrong. Sounds like he needs therapy if he plans to have a healthy relationship in the future.
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