“Search The Most Deadly Places First”: 35 Facts That Could Help Save Someone’s Life One Day
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One of the best skills you can learn in life is staying cool as a cucumber in emergency situations. While everyone else around is panicking, you’re collected and know exactly what to do. You take charge. You calm everyone down. You lead them out of the crisis.
Reddit user u/Accidentallyupvotes1 sparked an important discussion on the r/AskReddit forum. They invited everyone to share the facts that could end up potentially saving a person’s life. We’ve collected the most important ones. You might find some of these insights and suggestions new. Meanwhile, others are a good refresher for all of us.
Bored Panda reached out to the author of the viral thread, u/Accidentallyupvotes1, and they were happy to answer our questions and share their thoughts. You'll find their insights as you scroll down.
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If you can’t find you kid in your house, don’t search common places they would be. Search the most deadly places; pools, freezes, washing machines and dryers. Seconds count and if they are hiding under the table for an extra minute, who cares.
Just because someone rings your doorbell, doesn't mean you have an obligation to answer.
If you fall through the ice... the dark spot is the way out. The sun reflects off the ice surface. The spot you entered has no ice or reflection, so will be dark ... opposite what we would naturally think
Staying calm under stress has a lot of different factors associated with it. But broadly speaking, there are a few main aspects. The first one is your ability to be aware of and regulate your emotions when things get tough. Secondly, you have to know what to do in these emergency situations—it’s a question of information. And third of all, you have to have at least some sort of practical experience dealing with the situations in question.
If you only have a theoretical knowledge of what to do when there’s an emergency, you might be too shocked to put any of those ideas into practice. Similarly, even if you’re decent at not giving in to stress, you might still feel lost because you don’t know what to do in that particular situation.
You should still attempt to dial 911 in an emergency even if you have no bars of signal. There are protocols that allow your phone to bounce signals off any tower available, including military/first responder ones and towers not on your network in the event that you attempt to call 911.
I once had my car break down on a mountain in a rural area my cousin and I called several times and it just simply wouldn't even ring. Very scary night.
if it feels wrong, it probably is. trust that gut feeling, it’s there for a reason.
It really is amazing to think about, just how much is going on in your brain, that you don't even think about, it's just happening in the background. Everything that is picked up by your senses, is constantly being processed and filed. Truly mind blowing 🤯 Also I may or may not have recently consumed my prescribed medication. 🫠
Teach your kids that if they're ever separated from you to find any closest adult (in emergencies). The likelihood of THE next person you would walk up to being a [predator] are slim to none. But the odds increase dramatically waiting for the first person to approach a child alone.
It’s probably a good idea that you and your loved ones know what to do in case of more common emergencies. For example, if there’s a fire at home. Running through some roleplaying exercises can cement this in everyone’s minds.
It’s why you have fire drills at schools and some companies. You’re putting all of that knowledge into practice so that if things do go wrong, you don’t panic. You stay calm. You don’t stick around for your valuables. You head out the door after making sure that your loved ones are with you.
Driving is not a race or "game" that you have to win. There are no prizes.
Some poor saps get no wins in their lives other than beating at least one person to the stoplight. Sad isn't it?
....as the one they beat pulls up next to them at the light.
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Sadly I have to say I saw too many deaths in the road. Many things I don't wanna remember . Don't be jerks driving , former truck driver here .
Two words that will save your life. “Slow down.” I’m a truckers wife
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If traffic is going 60mph, and driving aggressively lets you do 65mph, over a half hour journey, you are going to save 2 minutes and 30 seconds at best. If you're already running late, you aren't going to make up the time by speeding. Saving a couple of minutes isn't worth risking your life for. Or anyone elses.
The minuscule amount of time saved on the road is lost when they have to stop for gas an extra time as well.
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Are you the pokey person I get stuck behind all the time, who can't even go the speed limit?
Yeah, notice nobody on here is writing "I go 5-10 mph under the speed limit" yet there are so many of those people. Those are the morons I'm passing and yeah, I typically DO make the green light when they get stuck at it for driving like a slow moron. A sloron, if you will.
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...unless the »Darwin Award« is not regarded as a prize anymore...🤔...please drive anticipating and carefully. Traffic lights and signs are binding for all and should never be regarded as a funny recommendation...
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I was told my grandap, while driving his horse and buggy and courting grandma, had the habit of having to race to beat any other buggy on the same road - he just had to be in front. hehe
I was once told that the reason Asian countries have fewer accidents than those in the west despite huge differences in the number of vehicles is because in the west we ask "What will the d******d next to me do?" and in Asian countries drivers think "What will I do wrong?".
I saw a random guy on reddit say that people tend to drive competitively when we should be thinking of it as cooperative. We're all just trying to cooperatively get to work...or wherever. I wish more people thought of it like that.
I disagree, there is a prize. You get to live if you drive safely. That's a win everyone should want under their belt.
If you are looking for that magic stretch of road with few vehicles in front of you, you can find it by driving a bit slower than traffic. You won't find it by speeding, you'll only find the next clot of vehicles.
If someone cuts you off or is driving aggressively, don't turn it into GTA, Mario Kart, etc. It's not worth your life, your wellbeing, your car, your legal record, or your insurance premiums.
Ramen! Why is it appealing to anyone? Genuinely asking as I don't drive but as a passenger it always gives me anxiety
There is a prize! It’s called getting to your destination safely! so basically you get to live injuries or damage to your car. I am currently teaching my son how to drive, I am not scared of his driving, I am scared of everyone else’s driving
I'm sure I'd have another Highway Idiots story but I've been in the house for nearly a month (medical issue). Story of the guy reversing as fast as his lil car would take him backward up the off-ramp isn't really applicable here either, although that was definitely a prize of idiocy.
Then you do your racing on the racetrack, not on public freeways.
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Defensive driving is the mindset you should have. Anticipate that all the other drivers are idiots (the ones who don't believe in turn signals, those who slam on their brakes when missing their exit, those allowing their vehicle to wander into your lane, regardless if they are next to you or coming towards you, animals, kids, and dummies crossing in front of you suddenly or recklessly, those who feel they have the right-away regardless what the signs/signals say, etc etc.). No need to be paranoid but think "How to react" in advance to avoid damage or death on any type of roadway.
A couple (few?) kids in our high school were playing 'chicken'. Not at high speed but still kind of dumb. They ended up hitting each other and damaging each other's left front quarter panel and front end. The general perception around school was, "That was a dumb thing to do". Only silver lining I can see is maybe it taught them a valuable lesson at a fairly low cost compared to someone's life. We also lost a classmate due to a car accident that IIRC was him drunk driving. He was fairly well liked so it was sad for the classmates but again, probably educational for the rest of us.
Not true - here in the uk you can win points! I got 3 for doing 85 in a 70.
You can get those kinds of points in the US too. In California 4 points in a year get you a suspended license for 6 months. But it looks like a different point system. Speeding is only 1 point unless it is over 100 MPH and then it is 2. But reckless driving will get you 2 points, and I think they can tack that on if you are over 10 MPH faster than the speed limit.
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Driving*is* a game I have to win. And the name of the game is "Play it safe."
True, but if some clown pulls out 100 yds ahead of you, as you are going the speed limit, then goes 10mph UNDER the limit? You will be in my rearview first chance I get. (happened the other day, also pulled across in front of a semi to get in front of me, causing them to slow).
Race car drivers tend to be safe drivers. They save the speed for the racetrack.
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If you want to do stupid racing games. Buy a computer game. Go to a track. Or get a scalextric.
Two words don't drive in the middle lane slow and then cut the trajectory of a truck . There are something called phisicks , there are mass.... Trucks full loaded have a lot of mass and inertia......
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Well, gee, thanks, BP. I've been driving for 50 years and I didn't know this! How ever would I stumble through life without BP's steadying influence? And just think of all those bad words I would have learned if BP hadn't protected me by censoring them!
Cool, just stay out of the passing lane, since you're not passing anyone, and when I drive by fast it won't be any sort of issue.
There is no such thing as a "passing lane" in California. Well, not strictly true, it seems that there are some specially marked lanes for mountain driving where there is no room to pass except at certain spots. The "left lane" isn't automatically a "passing lane". And you are certainly not going to find people leaving an empty lane just for passing.
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Then it is even more true. I'm in California and yes, there are "racers" all around you, you can't change their behavior, but you can change yours and not react to them and make the situation even worse.
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So, do you also drive faster when you are about to run out of gas so you will get to the gas station sooner? One can only hope that you were joking.
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My proudest moment in my 20s was beating a Porsche off the lights (in my 1000cc Micra!)
The rocks from a river absorb water. When rapidly heated it causes the absorbed water to boil much quicker than steam can escape the rock. This buildup of steam causes the rock to explode, sending hot rock fragments everywhere.
So don't use rocks from a river to make a fire pit.
Yeah, shouldn't build a sauna oven using regular rocks from your yard.
Wool is warmer than anything that feels warm, even when wet.
Meanwhile, if you live in a part of the world where hurricanes, earthquakes, or other natural disasters are commonplace, it only makes sense that you have an emergency plan… as well as a backup plan if the first one fails. The more you practice something, the more confident you become. The more confident you are, the less you’ll panic when you have to put your theoretical knowledge into action. You’re simply running through what the same process you’ve done time and again.
The fact of the matter is that we physically cannot be prepared for every possible eventuality. No matter how capable we are, we’ll still be surprised by what life throws at us. But we cannot chronically worry about that, being scared to even step outside our own homes.
My mom always taught me to count rows between your seat and the emergency exit. So if you can’t see where you are going you can feel where you are going. I’ll never forget that.
On Air New Zealand they have that in the safety video for exactly this reason.
I live in Canada, this only applies to cold climates. They are not dead until they are warm and dead. There are many cases where somebody got stuck outside and froze then doctor revived them.
Getting a second or even third opinion. You know yourself better than they do. If you don’t get answers please keep looking. Please don’t settle.
We learn what we can. We practice what we can. And then, we focus on the other things in our lives that we can control. Like taking good care of our physical and mental health so that we’re fit and focused and better at surviving. Not to mention strengthening our relationships with people so that if things do turn out bad, we have a strong social network to lean on.
The discussion that redditor u/Accidentallyupvotes1 started is a vital one. Not only does it remind people that they should probably brush up on their emergency-handling knowledge, but it also works as a starting point for folks who have never considered the possibility of being in these situations before.
We were curious about what had inspired the OP to create the r/AskReddit thread in the first place. According to them, it was as much about curiosity as calming down their sense of worry about the world. "I have a minor case of anxiety," they opened up to us, adding that they "just wanted to learn some facts." As it turns out, they have a lot in common with other redditors.
If you're at the beach and the water recedes suddenly, run and get to the highest ground you can find. A Tsunami is on the way
Choking is silent. If they’re coughing, they’re not actually choking. If someone goes silent and starts pointing to their neck, start the Heimlich maneuver.
If it's a baby/toddler/small child choking, instead of the Heimlich (go to hug choking person from behind, one hand over the other with the bottom hand a fist at just below ribcage level, and jerk INWARDS and UP several times in succession), you want to sit down, flip the kid face-down over your knee, and bang their back with an upward (relative to them) striking motion just below the level of their shoulder blades (having them face-down like this means gravity works with you here).
If someone comes at you with a weapon and tells you to go with them, DO NOT. Never go to the second location.
Ok, well how do you prevent them from not taking you, to the second location?
Learning to stay calm in emergency situations really is easier said than done. We were curious to get the thread author's take on this. They shared their perspective on how anyone can handle these sorts of unexpected situations better.
In u/Accidentallyupvotes1's opinion, the key is learning to control your breathing. They suggested that people slow down their breathing and focus on taking deeper breaths. This should help them calm down and stay in control when things get stressful.
The OP urged everyone to take a "deep breath" and then strongly exhale, as though they were trying to "blow out a candle." Repeat this as necessary.
If your kid gets kidnapped, don’t teach them to say “help”. Teach them to say something like “who the f**k are you, you’re not my f*****g dad, f**k you.” That’s gonna turn a lot more heads and get you actual help a lot quicker.
Yelling Stranger is a lot more acceptable than teaching a young child to swear freely.
If you get lost in the wilderness the best thing to do is to stay calm and stay put. Unless there is an immediate threat to your safety in the area, just sit down and wait for someone to come find you.
Many people die or get seriously injured because they keep moving and Search & Rescue can't catch up to them.
If you get bit by a wild animal, get yourself to a hospital ASAP and tell them that. You don’t want rabies to set in.
Once you start showing symptoms of rabies, your life is over. It's really one of the most terrifying diseases I've ever heard about.
Something that bothers a lot of people is how to balance living their lives with the fact that unexpected and unlucky events can happen to anyone.
Redditor u/Accidentallyupvotes1 admitted to Bored Panda that they're no different: they worry about the very same thing.
Though there's no silver bullet answer to this problem, the OP urged everyone to adopt the good old YOLO (you only live once) attitude. That means embracing the nuanced reality of life, trying to live to the fullest, and living purposefully every day, no matter what.
What emergencies do you personally feel you're capable of tackling, dear Pandas? Have you ever had to save another person's life? If you're feeling up to it, feel free to leave a comment at the bottom of this article. Meanwhile, for some more facts that might help you save someone else, you can peruse Bored Panda's earlier post.
If you've gone two and a half or more days without water, and you have to choose between drinking water without any way to sanitize it or not drinking water, drink the water. If you don't, you'll definitely die soon. Most of the diseases you can get from bad water take a couple days to set in, which gives you more time to find help.
don't mix bleach with anything but water
This, I've heard so many stories of people being hospitalized due to mixing bleach with other common cleaners. Mixing then causes a toxic gas to be released and when inhaled, it can cause many serious symptoms and even death.
As soon as your car door is unlocked, relock it. People get back into their cars and fiddle with their wallet or whatever all with their car doors unlocked and it makes them an easy target.
I hate that my Honda unlocks the driver's door the moment the car is put in park. That's just dangerous.
If you get caught in a rip current, don’t fight it. It won’t pull you under. People die because they panic, fight it, and get tired and then drown.
When you can, swim parallel to the shore out of the rip and then diagonally back to shore.
EDIT: I’m taking out the part about “let it take you out” because people bring up a point below that you should start swimming parallel immediately. I just meant you shouldn’t fight it and swim against straight back to shore. That’s not going to end well. Stay safe out there everyone!
CPR requires a flat surface!
When Michael Jackson died, it was mentioned on the news that someone tries CPR with him on his bed. My mom said, "You're just pushing the mattress up and down!"
Don’t pull a knife or anything else out of a puncture wound. The object may very well be keeping you from bleeding out, only a medical professional should remove something stuck in you.
Bring a lot of water, if you head into the desert. Like way more than you think you need.
The symptoms of a heart attack are different for women.
Have a mole check as soon as you can.
Never put off going to the Dr if you think something is wrong.
Fight your Dr if they don't help you. Never give up. It's YOUR life that is in danger, not theirs.
If you have a cough that wont go away, get it checked. It can be one of the first signs of heart failure
Signs of a stroke: FAST.
Face drooping? Arm weakness? Speech slurred? Time to go to the hospital! (**EDIT: it's now BE FAST: Balance Eyes (sudden vision loss or trouble seeing) Face Arm Speech Time.** Thanks multiple commenters!!)
Speed of response makes the difference between "sometimes walks a little funny when tired" and "bedbound lump." If you know old people, you need to know how to spot a stroke.
My grandma literally had a stroke diagnosed yesterday, I wish I had known that her not walking well, and having a massive headache was a stroke and not just another migraine. It wasn’t until she start hallucinating that I realized what was happening. She’s in the hospital now, and in good hands.
Baking soda will extinguish a fire, even grease and electrical fires.
You should always keep a box of it nearby when you're cooking and grilling.
Having a fire blanket is even better, if you are in rented accommodation in the UK your landlord is supposed to provide one.
You lose heat 20 times faster when wet vs being dry. Shed wet clothes.
Never walk/ski/snowboard near trees when there is heavy snow- there is something called a "tree well" that sometimes forms under trees where if you fall in you will become impacted by snow, often upside down and suffocate to death
This may not sound that bad but it literally happened in this vid. What're the chances that the skier happens to run into a guy out of thw whole mountain? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5ME9Swo0_8
A fishy smell in your house could mean there’s an electrical fire
The girl in this picture, looks like she's growling at her prey. 😂 good choice BP
If someone is bleeding heavily, put pressure on it, don’t just watch
Also, don't remove material on the wound that blood has soaked through, just put more on top. Taking stuff off will interrupt any clotting that's taking place. And if you have any handy, sanitary pads are really useful when you have a heavily bleeding wound. They don't stick badly like fabric does and they're incredibly absorbent for their size, plus you can tape them in place. MUCH easier to manage a taped-in-place pad or two than a blood-soaked towel that needs holding and is dripping (also less distressing for others in the waiting room). I don't menstruate, but they're in my first aid kit! FYI, tampons are great for nose bleeds too!
If you ever feel dizzy or tired after a short ride in your car,get your car checked,cause there might be some exhaust leak leading into your cabin and might leak some harmful substances like CO
If something like this happens open your window right away even if it's raining, scorching hot or freezing cold outside. If it's CO it literally clears your head. If you are "just" tired or ill the sudden change of temperature might give you the necessary boost to drive somewhere you can safely stop and take a breather. Because you should stop asap and resume only after you feel alert enough to drive again. Don't risk it even if you are only 2 corners away from home.
This isn't necessarily life-saving info, but it's something to remember for all you guys out there with phone anxiety, and it DEFINITELY applies 100% in emergency situations. It occurred to me when I had a friend with severe anxiety staying with me, and I started a new medication and had a REALLY bad reaction. She had to make a 999 call so I could be assessed by paramedics/taken to hospital if necessary, and she was stumbling over words, needed time to breathe, etc. - but she managed to communicate all the essential information, even if it wasn't neat and tidy. When the call was over she started the typical spiral (self-hate, useless, not good enough, etc.) and I was pretty out of it but I remember telling her, "you aren't being given marks out of 10. The sole purpose of the call was to give information to get a service. You managed to give the information even though it was hard, and you've got me the service. Thank you." And that applies to so many phone situations.
But this isn’t advice. You didn’t give a tip on how the friend could overcome anxiety. You just told a story about how you said something nice to your friend for helping. Your friend needs a doctor too. Speaking on the phone shouldn’t induce that much anxiety.
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The rule of 3s: 3 minutes without air, 3 days without water, 3 weeks without food. Prioritize air over water, water over food.
3 weeks without sleep. Prioritize food and sleep equally.
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Also - I'm the person you want with you in an emergency situation. My emotions immediately bûgger off and I snap into logical/rational mode. I can (and have) dealt with injuries, ODs, medical emergencies, and deaths (2 days ago was the 10yr anniversary of finding my best friend dead on my bedroom floor...), emergency services, hospitals and police stations, and calling mutual friends (I normally have bad phone anxiety). I was calm when I was hit by a car, and calm when I was in ICU with sepsis. I was calm when I managed to sleepwalk my way out my bedroom window 40ft (15m) up. It hits me afterwards and I have c-PTSD (not from any of this, except my best friend) but it's still good to know that if I'm in/witness a freak accident I won't panic and can be useful and a calming influence.
So much of this is terrible advice that keeps being passed around from ignorant people; or is poorly worded/explained so that it took the correct idea and presented it in a way that makes it meaningless or even dangerous.
It would be useful if you gave specifics, so we have the correct information.
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This isn't necessarily life-saving info, but it's something to remember for all you guys out there with phone anxiety, and it DEFINITELY applies 100% in emergency situations. It occurred to me when I had a friend with severe anxiety staying with me, and I started a new medication and had a REALLY bad reaction. She had to make a 999 call so I could be assessed by paramedics/taken to hospital if necessary, and she was stumbling over words, needed time to breathe, etc. - but she managed to communicate all the essential information, even if it wasn't neat and tidy. When the call was over she started the typical spiral (self-hate, useless, not good enough, etc.) and I was pretty out of it but I remember telling her, "you aren't being given marks out of 10. The sole purpose of the call was to give information to get a service. You managed to give the information even though it was hard, and you've got me the service. Thank you." And that applies to so many phone situations.
But this isn’t advice. You didn’t give a tip on how the friend could overcome anxiety. You just told a story about how you said something nice to your friend for helping. Your friend needs a doctor too. Speaking on the phone shouldn’t induce that much anxiety.
Load More Replies... The rule of 3s: 3 minutes without air, 3 days without water, 3 weeks without food. Prioritize air over water, water over food.
3 weeks without sleep. Prioritize food and sleep equally.
Load More Replies... Also - I'm the person you want with you in an emergency situation. My emotions immediately bûgger off and I snap into logical/rational mode. I can (and have) dealt with injuries, ODs, medical emergencies, and deaths (2 days ago was the 10yr anniversary of finding my best friend dead on my bedroom floor...), emergency services, hospitals and police stations, and calling mutual friends (I normally have bad phone anxiety). I was calm when I was hit by a car, and calm when I was in ICU with sepsis. I was calm when I managed to sleepwalk my way out my bedroom window 40ft (15m) up. It hits me afterwards and I have c-PTSD (not from any of this, except my best friend) but it's still good to know that if I'm in/witness a freak accident I won't panic and can be useful and a calming influence.
So much of this is terrible advice that keeps being passed around from ignorant people; or is poorly worded/explained so that it took the correct idea and presented it in a way that makes it meaningless or even dangerous.
It would be useful if you gave specifics, so we have the correct information.
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