Hey pandas! We talk a lot about red flags in relationships, but what about the green ones? What’s one underrated sign that someone’s actually a keeper?
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Honesty! About how they feel about you, what they feel about the future, where your relationship is going. Would solve a lot of relationship anxiety.
Someone who isn't obsessed with their looks and can laugh at themself. I have noticed that a lot of people (women in particular, sadly) are attracted to someone just because they are good looking. Be attracted to who the person is inside, not what they look like. Looks fade, but inner beauty never does.
If I am mowing the lawn, he follows me around with a bottle of water or glass of tea. He also puts up with me, so.. Huge green flag right there. I aint nothin BUT red flags due to ongoing mental health issues that I;m stuck with for life. I know I'm a handful. Best I can say is I absolutely adore him. H.e.l.l. and back.
paying for food and other things, things might cost too much for you
Do you mean as in occasionally helping with groceries or medicine or something? That's one thing, if you've been together for a while and they see you struggling and help out as they can. Or if you're married and split the bills but can't make it for the month. Things like that. Otherwise this is f.u..c.k.e.d. up.
