Hey Pandas, This Is A Safe Space For Secrets You Want To Get Off Your Chest

Ah yes, forgot to say the company name - it was Skanska :p

'No one' 2 words. Sorry - can't help myself.

Send this person to Facebook headquarters now!

Stuff them. Who cares what shittypeople think? I had my kids the usual way but couldn't breast feed. Turns out my breast are merely ornamental (my joke). It hurt, literally and figuratively, to not be able to feed them. They're healthy affectionate teens anyway. You know you're a good momma. Tune out the negative jerks. <3

No one has the damn right to make Any judgents about you! To Hell with them Hon! Please don't let them diminish those special moments you shared carrying your kids! I used to carry around a bag of Corks and when people carried on about things they had no business talking about l'd wordlessly hand them a cork and walk away.. Best Wishes Hon, l've been There too, a couple of times. 👍😉🌹💜

I just had miscarriages - so apparently i’m not a real woman.

Upvoted for the metaphor "is like a knife in the gut."

I had 2 natural births, luckily. I say luckily because a C-section is a major surgery. I can't imagine trying to take care of a newborn and try not to rip your stomach open. The judgements women get from just trying to do their best is insane!

You are Not alone, another l Loved that was canned by critics is "Hudson Hawk"

Omg I love that movie still not sure sand showers actually make you clean tho lol

Same

I have the movie poster :) It is a dorky movie but I enjoy it.

I don’t understand what’s wrong with liking Tank Girl. Maybe the people who judge you just have really shitty taste in movies. The probably think Gravity should have got an Oscar and that Frozen is good. I would rather scoop my eyeballs out with a splintered wooden spoon than sit through Frozen.

For some people it's normal to only love one gender, others fall in love with a specific person, regardless of their gender. There's really nothing wrong with seeing a person's soul first.

I know what you mean, just wait, someday you'll feel comfortable enough to come out. If you need to talk to someone, I'm here and I'll always listen

I know exactly how you feel. I came out to my parents, but I regret it because I feel less safe somehow, even though I know my parents love and support me.

I feel you. My advice is do it. The scariness is only short term, especially if you're in a loving home.

I thought I couldn't, but then I did and now I feel so amazing and free!

Random acts of kindness-always good.

Fake it to make it

There are more of us than you think....

Hey, you're clearly doing well enough at the job, you've earned it.

the level of respect i have for you right now is insane

You must be a very fast learner.

Good on you hon. Best Wishes.

Don’t forget. You’ve got friends here.

I, too, have "suffered" depression for a long time. Since I was 13, in fact. So far, I have not had a major relapse for almost 8 years. I'm 63. You will get there.

Okay! I help! I have had both problems before, and it helps to get a pet!

Yes, time is what's needed. I speak from experience

With all the variants we've seen in such a short amount of time, I'm betting it's just too damn late. People who don't want to, won't. It's become a hill a lot of people are going to die on.

oh that's no secret

And Half of the republicans. They booed Trump when he said people should get vaccinated. All of the freaks with their conspiracy theories. 2 radio hosts anti vaxxers died recently of COVID, maybe their fans will get vaccinated

please remember in your judgements, not all who want the vaccine are able to get it (auto-immune sufferers for instance) for reasons other than they are selfish a-holes

Ever notice..when humans over populate we had a war to thin the herd. In the history of humanity there has only been approx 378yrs of peace. Think about that for just a moment. Its now been far too long since the last great war. So now we have Covid. Oh, FYI What started the ongoing 1st & 2nd World Wars? Do You Know? It was because the death of an Arch Duke in Austria! FACT! You're Welcome.

Please find a good therapist who c an help you process this awful, awful thing. You and your health are worth fighting ft or.

I'm so sorry! 😢 forgiveness doesn't mean you forget! in fact, if you could forget, you wouldn't need to forgive! and forgiveness doesn't mean you have to interact with him either. what he did was not ok and you have no obligation to act like everything is cool. ghost the dude and live your life! ❤️

It's such a hard position to be in I went though similar was an older cousin when I was 5 didn't realise that it was wrong at the time just thought it was a game but as I grew up it all came back to haunt me and it's caused so many problems in my life but it's been 35 years and still only my sister and sone close friends know

Thank you guys for the advice/sweet comments I appreciate it ♡

I am so sorry you had to experience this, darling. That is truly terrible. Please remember that even though you can forgive, often you cannot forget. I would advise avoiding your nephew as much as possible. I'm your age, and I know that it is hard to speak about things that hurt you. Please, I beg you, tell an adult if you can find someone you trust. This is a terrible weight to bear alone, and an adult may be able to confront him where you cannot.

Please don't do anything drastic. I would be happy to show you what help is available. It is a sad thing that you feel like you have lost you best friend, but think about the guilt and pain she would experience if you were to kill yourself because she moved. You do not say why she moved and if it is temporary or permanent. Is there any chance you could move closer to her? If not please remember that there are so many ways to keep in touch these days- video call, texts, social media. It is not the same as being with her, but you can stay connected. Only a kind, compassionate person could miss a friend so dearly. Please stay strong. Your life has value and meaning and the world would be a much worse place without you. Tomorrow will be a better day.

Okay i don't know how to fix this, but i'm gonna say some things and try to help. Think about her. How would you feel if you'd just moved away from everything and everyone you'd ever loved, and then suddenly you hear your best friend in the world killed themself? Also, you may be holding a lot of people together. I know my cousin is suicidal and if he died, i know no one in his life would ever be the same. Anyway, i'm here a lot if you need to talk and i know most people seeing this post will want to help you too.