Ok I have an ex that I’m still heartbroken over and I tried to move on. It’s been 7 months and I’m still a wreck if I think about him. Which I do. A lot. My current boyfriend and I are going sting(ish) and I don’t want to mess up what we have bc of an ex. But this ex was no ordinary ex. This was the only guy I ever loved. He was a big deal and still is. I just don’t think it’s fair for my current boyfriend to have to deal with my emotional mess. Help. I’ll take anything suggestions right now. 🥺
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Hey, honestly I think you may have started dating too soon. I started dating a guy a little over a month after a heart breaking break up, and it was disastrous. But you're a different person, so who knows. This guy may be great, but if you're hiding a big part of your life right now. I would say to slow things down in your current relationship, if you still want to stay with him.
If there’s someone you’d rather be with, than why are you with someone you know isn’t your true match?
If you are still hurting over your last love, then you are not ready to be in another relationship. I know it is difficult to be alone, especially when you are hurting. But how fair is it to your current boyfirend if you can't be totally emotionally committed to him?
I recently just started dating again after the end of a very serious relationship. I took a significant amount of time to let myself hurt and heal from that relationship. Did it suck? Yes. Was I lonely? Yes. But now on the other side of it, I am much better. I am completely over my ex and I am ready to give all of myself to the next person that I get involved with, which is nothing less than that person deserves.
Getting over someone that you love takes time. You don't just love someone one day and wake up the next and not love them anymore. You have to give yourself time to heal. It will get better. Be patient.
