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We’re all capable of being a little gross. You might sneeze and see a disgusting surprise come flying out of your nostrils or eat a slice of pizza that you dropped on the kitchen floor because you believe in the five-second rule. We’re not here to judge, as I’m sure we’ve all done things that we wouldn’t want to be caught on camera.

But when does questionable behavior go way too far? Redditors have recently been recalling the nastiest things they’ve ever discovered about their friends, so we’ve gathered their most repulsive replies below. From living in squalor to exhibiting atrocious behavior, some people seem to have absolutely no shame and zero regard for sanitation. We recommend that you don’t read this list while eating lunch, pandas, and be sure to upvote the tales that thoroughly gross you out!

#1

Woman wrapped in a blanket looking away while a man sits on a couch, reflecting on disgusting things discovered about friends. She falsely accused men. As a survivor myself- that’s a huge no and I think punishable because so many real survivors go through hell to receive justice and women like her are sick.

stilljustjess , senivpetro / freepik Report

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    #2

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends She had hiv and was sleeping around with random men. She didn't tell them. She said if they took off the c****m and got it it was their own fault.

    Edit: all yall defending her are wrong in the head. Sneaking a c****m off during s*x and not disclosing to your partner that you have a potentially terminal std are both awful and not mutually exclusive. The potential of one does not excuse the other. Condoms break and accidents happen. Not disclosing her disease removes any partners ability to decide on accepting the risk for themselves.

    Shame on you if you justify this. Big yikes.

    elcasaurus , fongbeerredhot / freepik Report

    Snazzy Smurf
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who does this should be charged with attempted murder or worse depending on the final outcome.

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    #3

    Person holding a black rat in hands, symbolizing disgusting things discovered about friends in relationships. He shared videos of rats being tortured, thinking they were funny.

    He was immediately unfriended that day.

    ArkhamTight606 , pixel-shot.com / freepik Report

    Mel in Georgia
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Domesticated rats are very smart, affectionate, and cool. They do not live very long, unfortunately. Torturing any animal is not only uncool, but totally despicable. Would not tolerate that in a friend, either.

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    #4

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends He punched his girlfriend. As soon as I found out, I dropped that f****r like a hot plate.

    SapientSlut , tiko33 / freepik Report

    Mel in Georgia
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good! Never support ab users!

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    #5

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends A friend(37m) and I(38f) were discussing politics. I already knew we had very differing opinions on alot of things, but it had always been respectful engagement and we were always willing to consider each other's perspective and reasoning behind our stances.

    At some point the convo switched to women who falsely accuse men of r**e. He felt like women ask for it if they dress a certain type of way. I tried to use myself as an example (as we were very close friends, I thought). Tried to say "if I told u this happened to me, what would be your initial reaction?" Unmoved. Just kind of blankly stared at me.

    He has 2 young daughters. Tried to use them as an example. "So if your daughter came to you and said she was r***d, the first thing you would ask her is what she was wearing?"

    His exact words "I would also ask her where she was and what she was doing. Bc if your are in a certain type of environment, dressed a certain way, and behaving in a certain manner, then she was asking for it"

    His reasoning was bc men are primal creatures who have needs that they can't control so women shouldn't be tempting them

    I refused to continue a friendship after that.

    Aromatic-Pair9914 , EyeEm / freepik Report

    sturmwesen
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If men are that primal they should be kept in enclosures..like a zoo... or prison

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    #6

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends Not a friend but I knew a girl in high school who got into a car accident by running a red light because she was on her phone.
    The man who was in the other car died. He was 91 years old and had been a fire chief for over 30 years, retiring only 7 years before. People were devastated.

    I remember talk of how 'daddy was going to get her out of it', gossip, but she left for a few months and came back like nothing ever happened.
    They ruled his death an accident.

    But I will never forget. She was a 'preppy' girl a few years older than me, and I was 'emo' so I don't even thing she noticed that I was there.

    She was talking to two of her friends and she said, and I quote, " He was old, he was going to die anyway.”

    I will never ever forget this encounter with evil.

    I was 15 and I am now 30 and I have never heard anything so disgusting come out of someone's mouth in real life.

    tropicalady , galinkazhi / freepik Report

    Snazzy Smurf
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like she didn't have any consequences for any actions.

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    #7

    Man sitting on couch looking thoughtfully at a pill, reflecting on disgustingly shocking things about friends discovered He cheated on his girlfriend, gave her chlamydia & slipped the medication in her food so she didn’t find out.

    hydraXmind , gstockstudio / freepik Report

    sbj
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Giving people medication without their knowledge is despicable, they may have an allergic reaction or already be taking other meds which might have side effects when taken along with others

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    #8

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends My best friend was poisoning her child to the point she had 44 hospital admissions and ICU stays in the one year prior to her being caught. (Not to mention all of the ones prior to that) She's had zero admissions in the 12yrs since she has been out of her mother's care.

    OutrageousCow87 , DC Studio / freepik Report

    Snazzy Smurf
    Community Member
    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was this a case of munchausen by proxy?It is great the kid is leading a better life.

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    #9

    Person wearing purple gloves cleaning a toilet with a sponge, highlighting disgusting things people discovered about friends. They randomly let drop that they cleaned their dishes and bathroom with the same f*****g sponge. .

    Disastrous_Knee2176 , mishabeliy / freepik Report

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    #10

    Woman in a pink shirt holding her nose in disgust while looking inside an open refrigerator symbolizing discovering disgusting things about friends. How filthy they were. A group of us gals went to our friend's apartment, they opened the door and a sour smell slapped my nostrils. I asked what it was, and they responded "idk probably the fridge" what? Turns out their refrigerator was filled with moldy food and stale food. The bathroom was a crime scene. A trash can filled to the brim with used feminine products, mildew covered shower. Toilet was a biohazard. And the bedroom/living room (friend has a studio) had scattered coke bottles everywhere and a giant hole in the mattress with even more coke bottles inside. I was uncomfortable, grossed out and concerned. I took them aside and asked if they were ok, what's going on. I got a "f**k off it's my place, I can do what I want" I never went back and the friendship fizzled out .

    Pounciecakes , pixel-shot.com / freepik Report

    Mel in Georgia
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So aside from mental health, what is preventing people from a minimal level of cleanliness in their homes? I mean like non-moldy toilets and vacuumed floors and washed dishes and wiped counters. I don't get people's tolerance for filth.

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    #11

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends My friend started dating someone who openly bragged about having s*x with animals.

    I told him I couldn't be around him and he called me a bigot for not accepting his lifestyle.

    Pretty sure he was f*****g dogs too.

    ajtexasranger , kues1 / freepik Report

    Snazzy Smurf
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Lifestyle"? What in the world? I hope those animals took huge chunks out of them.

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    #12

    Close-up of hands installing a security camera on a wall representing people discovering disgusting things about their friends. He was arrested for putting hidden cameras in the ladies toilets and changing rooms in the pub that he owned.

    He was a bit odd but I never thought he would do something as insane and gross as that.

    Limit_Ok , JERO SenneGs / freepik Report

    Glen Ellyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Creepy and perverted people come in all shapes and sizes.

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    #13

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends She hit her dog violently as a discipline method.

    DanaMoonCat , EyeEm / freepik Report

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    #14

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends I made a friend at work and we talked almost every day, one of the few people I would b******t with.

    Then one day he casually just started talking about how his wife was thinking he would be at work on certain days, when really hed be out hooking up with some random girl.

    Ew. We're not friends anymore.

    Clam_Kicker , freepik Report

    Glen Ellyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People have no shame nowadays.

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    #15

    Young woman in hospital wearing headscarf, holding phone, reflecting on disgusting things discovered about friends. She had a fake Instagram where she pretended to have cancer. Didn't know if she was trying to scam people or just wanted attention.

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    #17

    Young woman wearing a tiara and a ruffled dress smiling softly, reflecting on disgusting things discovered about friends. She admitted she wears as close to white at Weddings as feels the need to outshine the bride.

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    PeepPeep the duck
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do they think it outshines them? It just makes them look stupid and desperate

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    #18

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends He left his wife, three kids and a good job as a meat cutter at Fresh Market to go manage a Taco Bell and bang his assistant manager because he “missed being able to party and do c**e whenever he wanted.”

    That is until she had their daughter. Now he’s trying to get back with his wife because “one child support payment is easier than 4”. She’s having none of it.

    F**k you, Mike. You don’t deserve those kids.

    beccadahhhling , user17340861 / freepik Report

    Snazzy Smurf
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hopefully that is a soon to be exwife.

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    #19

    Teen girl with crossed arms looking upset while two friends whisper behind her on brick stairs, reflecting relationship issues. A friend of mine, who has been my first boyfriend and then one of my best friends during adolescence, just decided to say to everyone around my city, including high school people, that i was selling my body for d***s. at 15 yo. for weed. in a small city where this type of dramas can get you into serious troubles.

    he wasn’t my friend anymore when i discovered this (like almost a year ago, now im 24) so i was not shocked but like “cmon bro, did you really sunk so low?”. i haven’t any type of respect for him anymore.

    lun3goddess , wavebreakmedia_micro / freepik Report

    Glen Ellyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. What is WRONG with people??

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    #20

    Man sitting in a red car, holding his head in frustration, reflecting on disgusting things discovered about friends. He completely fabricated his life. We’d known each other since high school, but after we stopped going to school and working at the same place, we didn’t see each other often and our friendship was largely virtual.

    His life took a horrible turn. Cancer in the family, having to care for his nieces and quit his job to do so, but then deciding to go back to school to better himself. Got a degree, started a new, really awesome job. Got a girlfriend… even sent me pictures of her. Went on trips to see her (long distance).

    I started getting suspicious. I did some investigating of my own and discovered that everything was fake. But we had plans to go to a concert festival the weekend I found everything out. I was young and dumb, and even though everything in me was screaming not to go, I did. He drove. He talked to me about how him and his girlfriend had broken up. He took a selfie of us and made it his profile pic to “make her jealous”. He pretended his tooth got knocked out “saving me” from a crowd surfer.

    By the time we got in the car to go home, I was scared. I was getting a really concerning vibe. He wasn’t starting the car and we had a 2 hour drive home. Then he just started breaking down, stared at me and said “promise me you’ll never leave me.” My heart was beating so fast and I was sweating. I told him of course I wouldn’t leave him, because I was afraid to say anything else. He drove us home crying and going 30-40mph over the speed limit. I thought I was going to die.

    He dropped me off that night and I blocked him on everything. I’ve never spoken to him again. I still get freaked out thinking about it, but I also feel guilty because he clearly needed help. But, I’d spent a lot of years of my life trying to help him and support him through struggles, and that night my gut told me that he’d made an elaborate, fake life to try to earn my admiration and romantic feelings. The whole situation makes me feel sick, but sad.

    hotrice22 , artfolio / freepik Report

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    #21

    Couple sharing an intimate moment under a blanket, contrasting with the theme of disgusting things discovered about friends. She was sleeping with my boyfriend. They have a child together now but he cheated on her with her aunt lol.

    3kungfumovies , freepik Report

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    #22

    Man in prison uniform handcuffed behind bars with police officer securing his hands, depicting disgusting things discovered about friends. A few years back a (at the time close) friend of mine started posting all over social media about how her brother had gotten arrested and how she was praying for him to get out and he didn’t deserve it blah blah, made it seem like he got arrested for something really minor.

    When I googled his full name, it turned out he and 3 of his friends committed a violent hate crime.

    zuchinniblade , Ron Lach / pexels Report

    Jaya
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never blindly trust when someone says they or their family member/friend was arrested wrongfully or for a minor reason, look at the actual police report or lawsuit records before you decide what to believe. It happens so often that someone tells their family/friends/girlfriend that he was arrested for child p0rn but it was "only a p0rn movie with apparently a 17 year old who I though looked 18 so really no big deal" and then the actual police report shows that he had hundreds of videos of toddlers getting ráped.

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    #23

    Close-up of a person with red nails squeezing a pimple on their chin, illustrating disgusting things discovered about friends. She saved her popped pimples in a scrapbook.

    Wonderful_Horror7315 , kuprevich / freepik Report

    Emilu
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a special sort of disgusting.

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    #24

    Woman with long brown hair wearing a blue shirt looking confused and disgusted, reflecting on friendship discoveries. Found out a roommate, coworker and friend (same person) had deeply-held racist beliefs. We weren't roommates or friends much longer after that.

    dramboxf , SkelDry / freepik Report

    Mel in Georgia
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had to abandon really close friends who ascribed to extreme beliefs. It's heartbreaking when you really like them otherwise.

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    #25

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends Back in '98, 1st grade, recess. Both my best friend and I had separately decided that on that day, it was time to share our terrible, horrible, shamful secret with each other.

    She was a booger-eater.

    I was a booger-eater, too.

    We're still best friends to this day, but we share other hobbies now.

    WestwardSquall , travnikovstudio / freepik Report

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    #26

    Scattered glass shards on wooden floor near wall and carpet, symbolizing disgusting things discovered about friends. My friend would take out her daily wear contacts every single night and throw them on the floor in the same corner of her room next to her nightstand. The mountain of contacts genuinely shocked me to my core. Another friend never took them out. Like… kept her contacts in 24/7.

    mad_h8r , FireRotor / reddit Report

    Snazzy Smurf
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trash cans and blindness are overrated.

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    #27

    Young woman in a green hoodie crossing arms in a defensive pose, reflecting disgust and distrust about friendships discovered. She wipes boogers under the car seat. "It's normal, my cool brother told me so". She tells me this after I bought a car for a separate friend that she had been driving for a month.
    Cue me throwing up.

    jessihateseverything , kues1 / freepik Report

    #28

    Close-up of a cockroach on a wall, illustrating disgusting things people discovered about their friends that changed trust. I visited his home once. Once. There were roaches. Everywhere. And I mean everywhere. Crawling all over the walls, the floors, the couch, the TV, everything. I had never seen such an infestation before. It looked like something out of a horror movie. He didn't seem to think it was weird.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is he a budding entomologist? If not, perhaps he should be. 🪳🪳🪳

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    #29

    A guy I was friends with for years prior to this incident told me he had a system of “tells” he looked for on dating sites to find women who were a***e survivors or otherwise traumatized/vulnerable because he considered them “easier lays” and less likely to insist on him using condoms. Bragged about how all he had to do was pay on the first date and how some of them didn’t even need that. Got a new burner phone every couple of months so “crazy could never track him down”.

    Basically imagine the DENNIS system from IASIP without creativity or satire. Proof that incels don’t magically grow out of their misogyny when they start getting laid.

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    Snazzy Smurf
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is wild. One day he will meet the wrong one or right one, depending on how you look at it, who will give him back all his antics tenfold and then some.

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    #30

    A man and woman on a couch looking upset at their phones, highlighting disgusting things people discovered about friends. My friend told me her bf has screenshotted photos of me from my instagram that she found on his phone.

    She’s still with him.

    MyCoup , Stockbusters / freepik Report

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    #31

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends At a festival my friends favourite band were playing. When they came onstage she pissed herself with excitement. Her boyfriend felt bad for her, so he pissed himself too. They were wearing welly boots, which caught all their p**s. So they enjoyed their gig, in warm p**s filled wellies together. Later that night they both tried to come into my tent to hang out. I didn’t let them. Love is weird.

    Irksomecake , EyeEm / freepik Report

    Ellinor she/they/elle
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey you know what ? That's real love from the boyfriend so, hell why not !

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    #32

    Woman sharing snacks with man at gate, illustrating moments that made people rethink the friendship relationship. Behaviorally disgusting. Someone I used to be friends with pushed her trauma onto her kid so much that she convinced him he had the same trauma. He ended up in a psychiatric facility, and once he was, she played the pity card of "oh my poor baby" when I knew what was actually going on. When I wouldn't feed into it, she started a whole mess of drama by relentlessly flirting with my husband and trying to tell him I wasn't right for him. He didn't fall for it. He and I both cut her off completely.

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    #33

    "Cheated On Her With Her Aunt": 44 Times People Couldn't Believe What They Found Out About Friends That they were an ableist c***. She called me out of nowhere one day when she knew I was having a rough time to say that “we can’t be friends any more” because “your autism just makes you so ANNOYING to DEAL WITH sometimes!”

    I’d known her 16 years at the time. Unbelievably, she’s now a teacher. God help her poor students the second they’re not perfect enough for her.

    AliceMorgon , beststudio / freepik Report

    Emilu
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    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry for the poster finding out their friend was actually a fuc‍k-knuckle, but I find it hilarious that the friend's a teacher. Nowadays she'd be dealing with autistic kids day in and out, especially if she's not working in a government school. Source: Mum's a teacher at a non-government school. About 2/3rds of the kids are 'on the spectrum'.

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    #34

    Several cats gathered on a tiled floor, illustrating disgusting things people discovered about their friends. He had about 10 cats in a 2 bedroom apartment. They never changed the litter boxes. The cats stopped using them. His apartment was on the second level but you could get a whiff of it from the street about 20 yards away. You could smell him from that distance too depending on the wind. Their kitchen sink and washer/dryer were broken for months upon end as well so there was a special sorta eye watering funk in that place. They got evicted and animal control took most of their cats. They got a new apartment and it’s starting to get real stinky now. Ive told him several times his place is the worst I’ve ever seen but he still doesn’t clean.

    Woodedroger , vershinin89 / freepik Report

    Bookworm
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    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like in those animal hoarder shows where they leave an animal or two with the hoarder. I've actually heard on those shows they do it for the animals they were taking care of and to try to mitigate the distress of the owner at losing most of their animals. When I first watched this made no sense to me. Researching what they meant was how I learned hoarding is a disease, not a lifestyle choice like I'd thought (I was in college). I'm guessing something similar here.

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    #35

    Woman in a shopping mall holding bags, reflecting on disgusting things discovered about friends that made her rethink the relationship. Found out she was a kleptomaniac when she called for bail $. Luckily my phone was off so I didn’t get the call. She tried to say she was set up. 6 months later a shop owner blasted her online stealing from them as well. Another excuse. I stopped being friends with her. I think the amount of times I went shopping with her, all the gifts she gave me, and the things that went missing when she was in my house.

    Inahayes1 , senivpetro / freepik Report

    #36

    That they voted for the tangerine t**d THREE times! I lost all respect for them.

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    GalPalAl
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 times as in voter fraud? Oh that's right. The election was rigged by that orange a****t

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    #37

    Young man sitting on a yoga mat at home, filming a video about disgusting things people discovered about their friends. He started becoming “twitter famous” and left his wife.
    Then hooked up with some fan girl that was married and quit his job to focus on creating “content” and be a full time influencer.


    He’s now selling b******t bird feeders and sweat pants on tik tok.

    Adept_Repair_9774 , sodawhiskey / freepik Report

    Bookworm
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Live your dream.". Ok but my dreams are pretty weird.

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    #38

    Two men kissing and embracing indoors, illustrating trust and emotions in close friendships and relationships. Me (m) and another male friend once tried some gay things. I didn't really like it, but apparently he did. Every once and then he would ask me to do sone of those things again, and I always refused. The last time he tried to convince me with money, and I refused, and while talking his tongue slipped and I found out he asked me for pleasure every time his "girlfriends" broke up with him.

    Lord_of_Seven , EyeEm / freepik Report

    Sofia
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why just dont look for a someone else that is interested instead of bothering someone that is not?

    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because he was scared to admit to himself he was actually bisexual and therefore not straight? If it was just his friend it was ‘mucking about’ and didn’t count? You absolutely right though, no means no, and it’s unpleasant to keep harassing someone (despite what Hollywood has to say on the matter)

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    Michael Largey
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    3 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people are heterosexual, some are homosexual, and some are bisexual. But this guy is what I call "dicksexual". He's attracted to whatever will make his d**k feel good.

    Emilu
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew some guys like this; colleagues when I worked in retail. Stereotypically handsome AF guys that spent most of their waking hours in the gym (not that this matters contextually, I'm simply trying to paint the picture). They were 'so bro' that, according to them they'd have threesomes with a chick and then 'accidentally' end up f*****g each other, but they "weren't gay". We just said "we don't give a f**k if you're gay or not; as long as you guys are happy." I lost contact with one of them; the other has a kid now that he adores but he is no longer on speaking terms with the mum, and there's a lot of associated drama there. I remember my former boss/best friend telling me this and my saying "... why did he just not go with 'Matt'?" and he just shrugged and said "that's exactly what I said". It was obvious they should have just hooked up, but obviously they weren't comfortable enough to do it. I hope they're happy, however things turned out.

    Ace
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, there is a difference though between sexual and romantic attraction. Not everyone has them in equal measure/balance, so wanting to have séx with another guy can be completely at odds with any desire to spend your life with them as a partner. Many happily-married men enjoy the occasional hook-up with other guys, and many (and sometimes the wives too) don't even see it as cheating.

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    Ginger ninja
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one isnt about sexuality, its about the emotional connection. He’s broken up with his girlfriends and wants the same depth of connection (maybe not even romantically) so goes to OP

    TheGreaterDebater
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is he even getting girls if he isn't even attracted to them in the first place?

    azubi
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    New knowledge for you: some people are attracted to both or any genders.

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    #39

    That my best friend F'd my husband while myself, my children, and her spouse and her children, were under the SAME ROOF.

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    #40

    Person with backpack in forest looking stressed, reflecting on disgusting things discovered about their friends and relationships. She didn’t shower for 3 days on our trip. It was really hot and humid so we were all sweaty by the end of each day. Then she used disgustingly strong perfume on her scalp to mask the smell.

    friedsherbert , EyeEm / freepik Report

    Nira Amana
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, the camping photo does not help in this case. Pretty sure bathrooms are hard to come by in the woods:))

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    #41

    Hand holding a tampon representing disgusting things people discovered about their friends that made them rethink relationships. Not really something I discovered, more witnessed. Sophomore year of high school the girls were having a sleepover, I’m not one to care about changing in front of one another, sharing clothes, all of that. But this girl, in another girls bedroom, took her pants off in front of all of us and straight up changed her tampon, and threw the used one into the other girls bedroom trash can. Disturbing to me.

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    Rafael
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One day I found a used tampon tied up in the aerial antenna of my car. I was equal parts disgusted and impressed, because no matter how I think about it, the logistics of it were for sure really fúcked up.

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    #42

    She lost her virginity to the guy who took her mom’s virginity.

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    #43

    Young man at airport looking at boarding pass with flight schedule in background, reflecting on disgusting things about friends. A friend i had for like 8 years, he was my best friend and he suddenly stopped talking to me one day for no reasons. Two weeks later i discovered he wasn't paying any bills, he stoled like 50K from the company he was working for. He escaped to europe without telling anybody.

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    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    50K isn’t enough and going to Europe won’t help. To start over much more money than that is needed and the perp should flee to a country without an extradition treaty to their home country. Amateur.

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    #44

    Told my "friend" that I was concerned about her teeth and asked her if she brushed everyday, and she said she only brushed once every week or so because she was lazy. her whole a*s mouth was nasty lol.

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    Snazzy Smurf
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't want to imagine how bad it had to be for that conversation to have taken place.

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    #45

    Man in suit examining a board with notes and photos, reflecting on disgusting things discovered about friends. Not sure if this is disgusting but definitely terrible. He was someone from an adjourning friend group. Girl went missing for over 20 years and I've always suspected he had some form of involvement because she was last seen going over to a friend's house and he was there. Elevator cctv shows her going there but not leaving. I was told he refused to cooperate with the police at the time. They just said she left in the middle of the night. She was said to have her camera and MacBook when she disappeared. Now decades later police found that the laptop pinged at his family home because he gave it to his dad apparently and it was connected to wifi. There was a whole m****r investigation and he was let free after 2 years. He claimed that she overdosed on h****n i think and died. they carried her in a suitcase down the stairs to avoid being on CCTV and burned her body in the jungle. The other friend that was there is currently on the run somewhere in another country. The fallout was wild because all his friends on facebook defended him fiercely. I shared a news article bout it on my Facebook and our mutual friend commented "F**K YOU THATS MY BEST FRIEND". The rest posted statuses that said we should not share news about it or discuss it. Fiercely defended. They don't care what he did. Her poor parents had nothing to bury.

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    #46

    Roommate's boyfriend and best friend got yeast infections at the same time, about a week before she did!

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    #47

    Man sitting on a metal bed behind bars, reflecting on trust and disgusting things discovered about friends. He m******d his girlfriend in Costa Rica about 5 years before I met him… worked with him daily for like 6 months. Nearly s**t a brick when I saw his face on the news. Nice guy, all things considered, wouldn’t have ever thought he’d do something like that

    Edit: ah, you said disgusting. I read that as disturbing. This was pretty disgusting too, what he did to her.

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    Susan
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just proves you never really know people as well as you think.

    #48

    He was a drunk. A drunk driver. Gave people fake names. Got mad at his wife for giving the hospital his real name when his liver failed. I learned all this after he got so f****d up lost his footwear while boating, then he marooned me on an island after doing a bunch of c*****e while drinking bourbon.

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    #49

    He had once sent explicit photos to someone who turned out to be a catfish at which point they blackmailed him into doing inappropriate things to his little sister. We are absolutely not friends any more. Which was always really awkward bc my old roommate was still friends with him so he would be at the apartment from time to time. I just always "had errands to run".

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    Bookworm
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did he think providing more blackmail material was a good idea?

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    #50

    I found out that an older cousin of mine that I was close to when I was young k**led a woman and kept her in his basement and was showing his friends.

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    #51

    He would lick the waistband of his underwear to check if it needed washing.

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    #52

    Went out with a guy and he told me a story about he and several friends vandalizing cabins in the Mt. Hood area just for fun. That was the end of that!

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    #53

    She befriended the girl and her boyfriend. They were having a rough patch. She listened to them both. She started using the things she told against her and unsurprisingly she and the boyfriend ended up having s*x. Multiple times.

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    Snazzy Smurf
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F both the "friend" and boyfriend.

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    #54

    THEY POOPED IN THE SHOWER!!!!!

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    Neb
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did they waffle stomp?

    #55

    I was friends with a girl from college. She got married.....like 250 ppl wedding. In less than a year she invited me to dinner at her home w her husband. She suggested we have drinks the next weekend. We met at a bar had 1 drink. I went to bathroom and by the time I came back she was making out w a guy at the bar. She used me as an alibi. I wanted nothing of it. She admitted it was going on before the wedding. She was friends with another girl in group who was married to her husband's brother. I lost touch. Fast forward 10 years. She is getting divorced. She continued the affair the entire time she was married. Why get married??? Because he AP was married.

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    #56

    The guy she married is a grody slob and turned her into a grody slob. we were housemates twice during the friendship and she was never like this. their house is a disgusting bachelor pad that didnt evolve after she moved in. every surface is piled with c**p and dust. the yards are always overgrown and filled with motorcycles and lawnmowers and cigarette butts. the last time I went there, the bathroom and toilet was as dirty, p**s-covered and nasty-smelling as a dive bar. it was so appalling i had to leave. they are in their 40's, people! and no one really knows it.

    due to that and a bunch of other grievances that have cropped up over the years, i had to let the friendship go.

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    John Dwyer
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to Google 'grody'. Never heard it before.

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    #57

    Close-up of a box filled with shattered colorful pieces, illustrating disgusting things people discovered about their friends. She had a whole drawer of used chewing gum under her desk. Years of it.

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    Glen Ellyn
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is she saving up so she can patch a hole in the dam?? 🤮

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    #58

    That he was never a great human being but he got with a chick about 12 years younger and she wanted a baby...she was already a single mom before him. He's been a long time narcissist and alcoholic. She talked him in to it, he had a kid at 41, she booted him out for being who he's been after 2 months, and he's basically pissed his life away and the kid doesn't see him (my f****d up friends fault not the mom's). He's turning 50 soon and no one speaks to him because he has s**t on everyone too many times.

    I feel horrible for his kid but we all have our own families to keep together. Even his family doesn't talk to him.

    I'll be surprised if he sees 55.

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    Neb
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, mom's fault as well. She was under 30, talked 40 year guy into having a kid when she already was a single mother and the guy had no kids before? If you need to talk them into having kids, better don't have kids with them. Red flags galore from both of them.

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    #59

    The way she berrated her son bc he wasn't Harvard material.

    Saw him come down the stairs one day at a women's get-together. He looked like a scared animal .

    She was obsessed with her 3 sons going to top private schools in the DC area and then onto the Ivy League.

    I also had 3 sons but never ever pressured them. They were responsible by nature, probably seeing their dad working hard .

    Not to brag, but my youngest attended MIT + Brown.

    Hers went to ok colleges, just not what she had wished .

    A few years later, hubby met her husband and told me the good news that their son was at the University of Maryland.

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    #60

    He was talking to my ex a bit too much. Told people which girl I liked. He also spread my dating history while lying about his own and MUCH more

    This was my best friend btw.

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    #61

    He was actively cheating on his girlfriend constantly and even with her best friends. One day i hungout with his girlfriend and in that same day found out she was actively cheating on him and even with his best friends… that’s the day my view on humanity drastically changed. (no i did not f**k her or ever made a move on her).

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    Ace
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it possible that they just had an open relationship, so neither of them were actually cheating at all?

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    #62

    He just disappeared one day. Left his car in the middle of the road running and disappeared. We later found out he was being searched by Interpol 🙈.

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    laura lee
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did he get caught with a video nasty?

    #63

    He farts way too loudly.

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    Bookworm
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can only be friends with you if your farts are SBD (silent but deadly).

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